Spankings don't "fix" ppl

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Genesis

July 24, 2016, 09:08:41 PM #105 Last Edit: July 24, 2016, 09:09:11 PM by Genesis
Quote from: Jonovan on July 24, 2016, 08:53:18 PM

Talk to them and they won't do nothing wrong right? Lol

I promise that kid never got an asswhooping in his LIFE. :kii:

FINE.

Martha should have popped tubby right then and THERE

Boomz

I'm sorr'

The way that fat hand flew across and whaped ha!

dljksafskj

Sinpool

Quote from: Boomer on July 24, 2016, 09:04:12 PM
Quote from: jtwoeleven on July 24, 2016, 08:49:16 PM
Quote from: imani on July 24, 2016, 08:15:02 PM
Quote from: Genesis on July 24, 2016, 08:14:31 PM
Quote from: imani on July 24, 2016, 08:08:27 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on July 24, 2016, 07:52:47 PM
Quote from: imani on July 24, 2016, 06:40:50 PM
I wish ppl would stop thinking that :hmph:

I was spanked and still did what I wanted :hmph:

This is just your one, personal experience. Thread title cannot be stated as fact.

s

Instilling fear in a child by inflicting pain won't fix them. Psych 101. Not just based on my experience.
What's a better alternative? Time outs don't work either.

Talking to them.

So what if a child has autism or adhd?

ds :uhh:

You get them professional help. I hope you're not suggesting beating a child with a disability is more effective.
I'm legit scared of some of u's.

mjbn ddddddddddddddddd

Not curing Autism with a switch


jtwoeleven

Quote from: Boomer on July 24, 2016, 09:04:12 PM
Quote from: jtwoeleven on July 24, 2016, 08:49:16 PM
Quote from: imani on July 24, 2016, 08:15:02 PM
Quote from: Genesis on July 24, 2016, 08:14:31 PM
Quote from: imani on July 24, 2016, 08:08:27 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on July 24, 2016, 07:52:47 PM
Quote from: imani on July 24, 2016, 06:40:50 PM
I wish ppl would stop thinking that :hmph:

I was spanked and still did what I wanted :hmph:

This is just your one, personal experience. Thread title cannot be stated as fact.

s

Instilling fear in a child by inflicting pain won't fix them. Psych 101. Not just based on my experience.
What's a better alternative? Time outs don't work either.

Talking to them.

So what if a child has autism or adhd?

ds :uhh:

You get them professional help. I hope you're not suggesting beating a child with a disability is more effective.
I'm legit scared of some of u's.

Of course not. But a parent could be in denial about discipline just as their child's mental state. Basically there's no one size fits all solution here.

jtwoeleven

Quote from: Don't Hurt Yourself on July 24, 2016, 09:29:13 PM
Quote from: Boomer on July 24, 2016, 09:04:12 PM
Quote from: jtwoeleven on July 24, 2016, 08:49:16 PM
Quote from: imani on July 24, 2016, 08:15:02 PM
Quote from: Genesis on July 24, 2016, 08:14:31 PM
Quote from: imani on July 24, 2016, 08:08:27 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on July 24, 2016, 07:52:47 PM
Quote from: imani on July 24, 2016, 06:40:50 PM
I wish ppl would stop thinking that :hmph:

I was spanked and still did what I wanted :hmph:

This is just your one, personal experience. Thread title cannot be stated as fact.

s

Instilling fear in a child by inflicting pain won't fix them. Psych 101. Not just based on my experience.
What's a better alternative? Time outs don't work either.

Talking to them.

So what if a child has autism or adhd?

ds :uhh:

You get them professional help. I hope you're not suggesting beating a child with a disability is more effective.
I'm legit scared of some of u's.

mjbn ddddddddddddddddd

Not curing Autism with a switch

My point was that talking to some children doesn't always work. You said switch, not me.

GRAND

Quote from: Boomer on July 24, 2016, 09:11:42 PM
I'm sorr'

The way that fat hand flew across and whaped ha!

dljksafskj
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GRAND

I would've STABBED that boy

Literally put a knife in his SOUL

b7

I agree that it aint always the be all end all, but i wont tell people or aspiring parents what they should and shouldn't do either. I'd just ask that every parent understand their child first and foremost, and deal with them as an individual. Understand their personality and what does and doesn't work for them. Think about what'll get through to them before you run to POP them in the mouth or throat before they can barely formulate a sentence  :uhh: :dead: i dont like that at ALL

If and when i have children, i pray that im able to raise intelligent kids that have a mind of their own, but still know better than to cross certain lines like this girl here. I'd make it so that my kids respect me, but not FEAR me. I dont like the sound of that or even the thought.

Im not saying i'd never put my hands on my children, btw. Im simply saying it wont be go to move as if i can't do anything else. I think it says a lot about a parent/person that has to strike another human being before exhausting one or two other options at least  :uhh:  n

b7

Quote from: FINE. on July 24, 2016, 06:59:02 PM
I honestly feel like people spank to let out frustrations n

Then try to label it with "oh! Just doing the best for u!"

Hun, u were pissed and wanted to hit me. Nothing more nothing less

Thank god I'm an adult now
:plzstop: :plzstop:

BAPHOMET.

Quote from: RIGGY on July 24, 2016, 10:25:45 PM
I agree that it aint always the be all end all, but i wont tell people or aspiring parents what they should and shouldn't do either. I'd just ask that every parent understand their child first and foremost, and deal with them as an individual. Understand their personality and what does and doesn't work for them. Think about what'll get through to them before you run to POP them in the mouth or throat before they can barely formulate a sentence  :uhh: :dead: i dont like that at ALL

If and when i have children, i pray that im able to raise intelligent kids that have a mind of their own, but still know better than to cross certain lines like this girl here. I'd make it so that my kids respect me, but not FEAR me. I dont like the sound of that or even the thought.

Im not saying i'd never put my hands on my children, btw. Im simply saying it wont be go to move as if i can't do anything else. I think it says a lot about a parent/person that has to strike another human being before exhausting one or two other options at least  :uhh:  n



KING BENTLEY.

sssssssssss

These responses :uhh:

A lot of you phaggs were unruly and put your parents thru hell, no wonder you girls turned out GAY! They should've beat that ass until the heels and earrings fell off ya tbh

H.#.G.*.Z

Kindred

it isn't the only way, but it can be a good way. my parents used a mix of things and especially depending on the level of what we did. i turned out just fine and didn't learn to hit people for whatever reason. just spanking with no explanations or warnings and and such is stupid.  all of my siblings turned out fine. it taught us discipline in the right context. every child doesn't respond the same way either. i've seen spankings, just talking, restriction, grounding and time outs ALL fail with certain kids.

4 fucking k

Some of these responses are... depressing.

I think you guys are coming from emotional place and trying to justify how your parents lashed you as a child. To say, what else can discipline a child is just :uhh: You're a human being with a functioning brain. The brain is malleable and can easily adapt and adjust to situations. Pain doesn't fix anyone.


BrokenHeartsHeal

Quote from: Baphomet. on July 24, 2016, 06:43:59 PM
!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

:dead: all these thugs and gangsters were more than likely WHIPPED and...... yea

doubt most had parents. more like FOSTER