Honesty Hour: If someone is willing to have sex with you or does on the 1st date

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LOONA.

Quote from: Kaeli. on August 14, 2016, 12:09:34 AM
Quote from: Drais. on August 13, 2016, 11:54:07 PM

IDK if I meet someone and right off the bat they just want to have sex I kinda find that disrespectful. Is that all you see me as? Someone people just can't control their hormones though.   


Yea they just want ur nookie, Drai' :ohwow:

That's why I don't take fags seriously tbh, especially young ones.

That's the one thing I love about women. They're so much more mature and honest about what they want when it comes to dating.   


Vonc2002

Quote from: GRAND on August 14, 2016, 12:07:00 AM
i just don't understand why sex is the determining factor of what your relationship means/will mean

:dead:

if you dont see it as some BE ALL END ALL, then it shouldn't be that big of a deal if you have it, nor not, IMO
!!!!!!!!!
Like, condeming people for responding to what is natural, it's silly. And then to write someone off for engaging in the same thing u just did :dead:
So we both clearly felt a way and there was a mutual attraction but im somehow held to a higher standard and shouldve resisted, even tho it's okay for u, dumb tbh
This is my pass to say WHATEVER tf I wanna say about the mess she releases so I don't wanna hear SHIT! Baby mama is a mess of a song btw





D.I.E.G.O.

It doesn't change my perception in a negative way. I don't think it's an indication of anything to come in terms of the relationship.

KING BENTLEY.

Quote from: GoDiegoGo on August 14, 2016, 01:37:37 AM
It doesn't change my perception in a negative way. I don't think it's an indication of anything to come in terms of the relationship.
wassup with your FTM friend. Put me on bruv

H.#.G.*.Z

KING BENTLEY.

Quote from: AJ on August 14, 2016, 12:00:24 AM
it leaves nothing to look forward too... int
you hit the climax or one of the high parts of your "relationship" with the person on your first night....just seems like...whats the point after that...
gorl if yawl reach the climax on the first night yawl not doing it right :dead:

Passion should intensify. I'm not gonna lie, I messed the first night. But that wasn't the height
No ma'am ... months later still texting 24/7 ... wanting more of this man ... locked in a Cali hotel room screaming n shaking with this man

Jesus

H.#.G.*.Z

FlowerBomb

Quote from: BENTLEY! on August 14, 2016, 01:50:03 AM
Quote from: GoDiegoGo on August 14, 2016, 01:37:37 AM
It doesn't change my perception in a negative way. I don't think it's an indication of anything to come in terms of the relationship.
wassup with your FTM friend. Put me on bruv
:omgwatshappening:

Kurama

Quote from: Vonc2002 on August 14, 2016, 01:20:22 AM
Quote from: GRAND on August 14, 2016, 12:07:00 AM
i just don't understand why sex is the determining factor of what your relationship means/will mean

:dead:

if you dont see it as some BE ALL END ALL, then it shouldn't be that big of a deal if you have it, nor not, IMO
!!!!!!!!!
Like, condeming people for responding to what is natural, it's silly.

Oh natural! Evolution!  Men are men!

This rhetoric is just as archaic as the ppl who choose to be more reserved or "traditional". Ain't shit silly about it, just difference stances.

:usureuok:

LOONA.

Quote from: Kurama on August 14, 2016, 09:14:15 AM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on August 14, 2016, 01:20:22 AM
Quote from: GRAND on August 14, 2016, 12:07:00 AM
i just don't understand why sex is the determining factor of what your relationship means/will mean

:dead:

if you dont see it as some BE ALL END ALL, then it shouldn't be that big of a deal if you have it, nor not, IMO
!!!!!!!!!
Like, condeming people for responding to what is natural, it's silly.

Oh natural! Evolution!  Men are men!

This rhetoric is just as archaic as the ppl who choose to be more reserved or "traditional". Ain't shit silly about it, just difference stances.

:usureuok:

BigDawg

Quote from: Don Draper on August 13, 2016, 07:22:59 PM
Turn off.

And if I did fuck, that's all it'd ever be. I can't take that serious
That's how I feel about it. If my intentions are to fuck someone, then that is all it will ever be, especially on the first date. More than likely there will be no future dates following that. For a first date I want to get to know that person and see where it can progress too without diving into the sack on the first night.

Real

Quote from: BigDawg on August 14, 2016, 09:57:47 AM
Quote from: Don Draper on August 13, 2016, 07:22:59 PM
Turn off.

And if I did fuck, that's all it'd ever be. I can't take that serious
That's how I feel about it. If my intentions are to fuck someone, then that is all it will ever be, especially on the first date. More than likely there will be no future dates following that. For a first date I want to get to know that person and see where it can progress too without diving into the sack on the first night.

Pretty much lol I'm never gonna initiate sex on a first date, but that doesn't mean I won't partake if it happens. There just won't be a relationship to follow. Some people are cool with smashing out the gate and then dating that person....and that's fine. I'm personally just not that guy. Different strokes man. No faux outrage needed

Glenda

If I have sex with someone on the first date, then I definitely don't take the relationship too seriously.  :ohwow: :ohwow:

RatherBe

Quote from: BENTLEY! on August 14, 2016, 02:01:00 AM
Quote from: AJ on August 14, 2016, 12:00:24 AM
it leaves nothing to look forward too... int
you hit the climax or one of the high parts of your "relationship" with the person on your first night....just seems like...whats the point after that...
gorl if yawl reach the climax on the first night yawl not doing it right :dead:

Passion should intensify. I'm not gonna lie, I messed the first night. But that wasn't the height
No ma'am ... months later still texting 24/7 ... wanting more of this man ... locked in a Cali hotel room screaming n shaking with this man

Jesus


I somewhat agree when I meant high parts I meant like things you remember or important parts

Like First Date
First time taking a trip
meeting family
Sex
Moving in

Things like those.. Idk.. Maybe it's because I'm a hopeless romantic so I remember dates like those



Opposites Attract.



It's unconditional, these days you know....

BigDawg

Quote from: Don Draper on August 14, 2016, 10:12:16 AM
Quote from: BigDawg on August 14, 2016, 09:57:47 AM
Quote from: Don Draper on August 13, 2016, 07:22:59 PM
Turn off.

And if I did fuck, that's all it'd ever be. I can't take that serious
That's how I feel about it. If my intentions are to fuck someone, then that is all it will ever be, especially on the first date. More than likely there will be no future dates following that. For a first date I want to get to know that person and see where it can progress too without diving into the sack on the first night.

Pretty much lol I'm never gonna initiate sex on a first date, but that doesn't mean I won't partake if it happens. There just won't be a relationship to follow. Some people are cool with smashing out the gate and then dating that person....and that's fine. I'm personally just not that guy. Different strokes man. No faux outrage needed

GLOCK

The funniest thing about this thread is that every single Capricorn that posted in hea has the same exact stance