Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it! (Part 2 Update added)

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GLOCK

Quote from: AJ on September 04, 2016, 09:59:30 PM
Wth happened in here..

Just to clear up anything..


I don't usually go through phones.
Actually this was my first time doing it ever..

As I said before lol.. Because he was identifying as straight at a point... I felt the need to make sure this wasn't some game of front he was putt on on with me. We aren't in a relationship but we are strongly considering one.. And this will be my first time in a situation like this. I hear you guys talk about DL dudes and how they act homophobic but like dick on the low.. I felt for my sake that I needed to just check and make sure that this was something I can manage..

Btw I had a talk with him about how he identifies and the whole closet thing...

He said something about not really caring about what people think that he's gonna do what makes him happy regardless.. However he isn't quite comfortable with broadcasting that he's into a guy.. But if he was asked he wouldn't really deny it.. he just doesn't feel comfortable yet with voluntarily disclosing his sexual preference.. I'm okay with that, to me its understandable. He never hides me or tells me how to act. When he says he doesn't care.. I truly get that from him.
you guys are gonna be good!!!

GLOCK

Quote from: Meathead_33127 on September 04, 2016, 09:59:59 PM
I didn't post to start a debate. It has nothing to do with being clingy or trust issues. I just honestly feel that we set standards to low and I don't believe in sex outside of a relationship so I guess I'm writing from a deeper perspective..I respect all of your opinions. Good night! If how you have been living up to this point has worked for you, continue on!
dont leave ...

Meathead_33127

Quote from: G on September 04, 2016, 10:02:19 PM
Quote from: Meathead_33127 on September 04, 2016, 09:59:59 PM
I didn't post to start a debate. It has nothing to do with being clingy or trust issues. I just honestly feel that we set standards to low and I don't believe in sex outside of a relationship so I guess I'm writing from a deeper perspective..I respect all of your opinions. Good night! If how you have been living up to this point has worked for you, continue on!
dont leave ...

I didn't..I'm just not posting anymore..but Ill continue reading

Vonc2002

September 04, 2016, 10:04:32 PM #303 Last Edit: September 04, 2016, 10:08:42 PM by Vonc2002
AJ u don't have to justify your actions. u did what u did, and that's THAT :hmph:
This is my pass to say WHATEVER tf I wanna say about the mess she releases so I don't wanna hear SHIT! Baby mama is a mess of a song btw






GLOCK

Quote from: Meathead_33127 on September 04, 2016, 10:03:58 PM
Quote from: G on September 04, 2016, 10:02:19 PM
Quote from: Meathead_33127 on September 04, 2016, 09:59:59 PM
I didn't post to start a debate. It has nothing to do with being clingy or trust issues. I just honestly feel that we set standards to low and I don't believe in sex outside of a relationship so I guess I'm writing from a deeper perspective..I respect all of your opinions. Good night! If how you have been living up to this point has worked for you, continue on!
dont leave ...

I didn't..I'm just not posting anymore..but Ill continue reading
ff people have disagreements lol
Continue to post
Everyone has an opinion

Meathead_33127

Quote from: G on September 04, 2016, 10:05:32 PM
Quote from: Meathead_33127 on September 04, 2016, 10:03:58 PM
Quote from: G on September 04, 2016, 10:02:19 PM
Quote from: Meathead_33127 on September 04, 2016, 09:59:59 PM
I didn't post to start a debate. It has nothing to do with being clingy or trust issues. I just honestly feel that we set standards to low and I don't believe in sex outside of a relationship so I guess I'm writing from a deeper perspective..I respect all of your opinions. Good night! If how you have been living up to this point has worked for you, continue on!
dont leave ...

I didn't..I'm just not posting anymore..but Ill continue reading
ff people have disagreements lol
Continue to post
Everyone has an opinion


I'm better at being a spectator on these boards but yeah I agree..we don't have to agree..and I see everyone's point

Young




GRAND

Quote from: ANIMMAI on September 04, 2016, 09:08:47 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on September 04, 2016, 07:14:37 PM
Quote from: Cartier on September 04, 2016, 07:12:03 PM
Yeah can't imagine using my phone without a lock tbh :udontlookok:

I have too much MESS on it
!!!!!!!!
When  someone even wants to see my phone i kinda :everythingok:

I have to damn near be holding it while u do whatever it is u wanna do :dead:

I was showing a co-worker a pic the other day and she swiped a bit and I almost karate chopped the fck outta her

Girl, if you don't sit your nosy ass back  :diddraispoot:
SSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS


GRAND

September 05, 2016, 06:16:18 AM #311 Last Edit: September 05, 2016, 06:16:28 AM by GRAND
Quote from: Meathead_33127 on September 04, 2016, 09:59:59 PM
I didn't post to start a debate. It has nothing to do with being clingy or trust issues. I just honestly feel that we set standards to low and I don't believe in sex outside of a relationship so I guess I'm writing from a deeper perspective..
!!!

Going through someones phone because they nut in you is so deeps.

I get it girl.


SouravMay

I would go through people's phones out of mere curiosity but never tell them or act on any information I might get. It's just really interesting to see how other ppl act in their most private context. To me it is just mere research on human behavior and not symptom for underlying insecurities. If I could I'd rummage through everybody's phone, who seems interesting to me.
B7

LOONA.

Quote from: Nice Stereo. on September 04, 2016, 07:02:20 PM
Yeah going thru someone's phone is definitely insecure lol

Not necessarily

Going through your brother or sister's phone would just mean you're nosey. It could very well be the same in a relationship. Some people just don't know how to mind their damn business. I've never gone through someone's phone. IDK I just don't have the desire to.

I like my privacy but I have no problem with someone looking in my phone because there's nothing in there I'm ashamed someone would see.         


LOONA.

And I don't see a problem with with AJ did.

One of my friends avoided a messy ass situation when he found out a guy that wanted to date him was married with kids by checking his phone.