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[Kurama]

If social media is a "threat" to you relationship... it's built on a very weak foundation.

Anyone can get cheated on ...I'm not going to act exempt to the mess. But y'all know when you're dealing with a straight up dog.

but I do believe temptation exists
and as two men, both of yawl looking at insta booties all day
and ppl don't respect each others relationships anymore
I think if a couple has rules about social media it just shows they really care and don't want future problems, and that could be part of them wanting a strong foundation imo

That screams insecurity to me 

"WHY DID YOU LIKE HIS PIC? WTF DOES THIS HEART EYE EMOJI MEAN!?  "

dddd

Too dramatic. But if yall dont think a continuous DM mess could flourish into other things later on good damn luck

[🦚]

If social media is a "threat" to you relationship... it's built on a very weak foundation.

Anyone can get cheated on ...I'm not going to act exempt to the mess. But y'all know when you're dealing with a straight up dog.

but I do believe temptation exists
and as two men, both of yawl looking at insta booties all day
and ppl don't respect each others relationships anymore
I think if a couple has rules about social media it just shows they really care and don't want future problems, and that could be part of them wanting a strong foundation imo

Not insta rules and DM terms and conditions 

s

why is that so far fetched tho?
because it's "online"

I mean continue your normal daily interaction
but look, don't cross the line and disrespect the relationship in person or online

I'd rather he jack to his instathots and keep it to himself.
Hell I don't even follow him online...I don't need to see anything he likes.

[Kurama]

If social media is a "threat" to you relationship... it's built on a very weak foundation.

Anyone can get cheated on ...I'm not going to act exempt to the mess. But y'all know when you're dealing with a straight up dog.

but I do believe temptation exists
and as two men, both of yawl looking at insta booties all day
and ppl don't respect each others relationships anymore
I think if a couple has rules about social media it just shows they really care and don't want future problems, and that could be part of them wanting a strong foundation imo

Not insta rules and DM terms and conditions 

s

why is that so far fetched tho?
because it's "online"

Yeah IDK why the impact of cyberspace is still downplayed in 2017.

[Kurama]

Have any of y'all ever cheated?
   

I use to makeout with other folks. I was upfront about that when I started talking to someone. They were cool with it.

I emotionally cheated for a few months, of course I told him.

Never had a full on physical mess. Never will.

[LOONA.]

Alot of cheating stems from online activity through social media, especially with celebs.     

[b7]

It's sad tho.  Some of these men and women see folks in a relationship and just view it as another challenge or some mess  they'll literally pursue you even harder dffffggg I see it all the time

"Oh he's taken? We'll see about that lolz"

[🦚]

If social media is a "threat" to you relationship... it's built on a very weak foundation.

Anyone can get cheated on ...I'm not going to act exempt to the mess. But y'all know when you're dealing with a straight up dog.

but I do believe temptation exists
and as two men, both of yawl looking at insta booties all day
and ppl don't respect each others relationships anymore
I think if a couple has rules about social media it just shows they really care and don't want future problems, and that could be part of them wanting a strong foundation imo

That screams insecurity to me 

"WHY DID YOU LIKE HIS PIC? WTF DOES THIS HEART EYE EMOJI MEAN!?  "

dddd

Too dramatic. But if yall dont think a continuous DM mess could flourish into other things later on good damn luck

If you think like that. So could the platonic flirting with a coworker. The sexy guy at the gym or the cute boy at Starbucks. What you gonna do? Hire a private detective to be on him 24/7?
I just feel that if your in a relationship you have an open discussion about what's acceptable to you and hope this person loves you enough to not disrespect you.

[🦚]

Celebs were thotting and bopping before social media...it's just easier for them to find their prey now. 

[LOONA.]

Celebs were thotting and bopping before social media...it's just easier for them to find their prey now. 

That's the point and exactly why social media IS a threat to relationships.     

[Kurama]

If social media is a "threat" to you relationship... it's built on a very weak foundation.

Anyone can get cheated on ...I'm not going to act exempt to the mess. But y'all know when you're dealing with a straight up dog.

but I do believe temptation exists
and as two men, both of yawl looking at insta booties all day
and ppl don't respect each others relationships anymore
I think if a couple has rules about social media it just shows they really care and don't want future problems, and that could be part of them wanting a strong foundation imo

That screams insecurity to me 

"WHY DID YOU LIKE HIS PIC? WTF DOES THIS HEART EYE EMOJI MEAN!?  "

dddd

Too dramatic. But if yall dont think a continuous DM mess could flourish into other things later on good damn luck

I just feel that if your in a relationship you have an open discussion about what's acceptable to you and hope this person loves you enough to not disrespect you.

I agree. I practice this but I also know that you need to be proactive about your own best interests, regardless of how long you've dated someone or how much they love you.

[KING BENTLEY.]

If social media is a "threat" to you relationship... it's built on a very weak foundation.

Anyone can get cheated on ...I'm not going to act exempt to the mess. But y'all know when you're dealing with a straight up dog.

but I do believe temptation exists
and as two men, both of yawl looking at insta booties all day
and ppl don't respect each others relationships anymore
I think if a couple has rules about social media it just shows they really care and don't want future problems, and that could be part of them wanting a strong foundation imo

Not insta rules and DM terms and conditions 

s

why is that so far fetched tho?
because it's "online"

I mean continue your normal daily interaction
but look, don't cross the line and disrespect the relationship in person or online

I'd rather he jack to his instathots and keep it to himself.
Hell I don't even follow him online...I don't need to see anything he likes.

s

you damns new age gorls and you new age thinking
there's always lines and levels, having relationship guidelines doesn't scream insecurity, it's natural
you even have a guideline, you want him to do it and not tell you

I mean ... jacking to someone he doesn't know is just like porn. that's not what we mean
but liking and jacking to everything on his new "friends" page is unacceptable
why would I be waiting around allowing him to keep it to himself ... until the day he doesn't keep it to himself?

Iono why I come in these threads, I always feel like an old bitty. my gen is old school

[🦚]

If social media is a "threat" to you relationship... it's built on a very weak foundation.

Anyone can get cheated on ...I'm not going to act exempt to the mess. But y'all know when you're dealing with a straight up dog.

but I do believe temptation exists
and as two men, both of yawl looking at insta booties all day
and ppl don't respect each others relationships anymore
I think if a couple has rules about social media it just shows they really care and don't want future problems, and that could be part of them wanting a strong foundation imo

That screams insecurity to me 

"WHY DID YOU LIKE HIS PIC? WTF DOES THIS HEART EYE EMOJI MEAN!?  "

dddd

Too dramatic. But if yall dont think a continuous DM mess could flourish into other things later on good damn luck

I just feel that if your in a relationship you have an open discussion about what's acceptable to you and hope this person loves you enough to not disrespect you.

I agree. I practice this but I also know that you need to be proactive about your own best interests, regardless of how long you've dated someone or how much they love you.

Proactive how?

[b7]

Alot of cheating stems from online activity through social media, especially with celebs.     

and certain DMs always lead to some mess. Ch


A lot of that is flirting and I'd be pissed

[b7]

Celebs were thotting and bopping before social media...it's just easier for them to find their prey now. 

n

Easier for them to be sloppy and get caught now too

[Kurama]

If social media is a "threat" to you relationship... it's built on a very weak foundation.

Anyone can get cheated on ...I'm not going to act exempt to the mess. But y'all know when you're dealing with a straight up dog.

but I do believe temptation exists
and as two men, both of yawl looking at insta booties all day
and ppl don't respect each others relationships anymore
I think if a couple has rules about social media it just shows they really care and don't want future problems, and that could be part of them wanting a strong foundation imo

That screams insecurity to me 

"WHY DID YOU LIKE HIS PIC? WTF DOES THIS HEART EYE EMOJI MEAN!?  "

dddd

Too dramatic. But if yall dont think a continuous DM mess could flourish into other things later on good damn luck

I just feel that if your in a relationship you have an open discussion about what's acceptable to you and hope this person loves you enough to not disrespect you.

I agree. I practice this but I also know that you need to be proactive about your own best interests, regardless of how long you've dated someone or how much they love you.

Proactive how?

An inspection, a check-in with your partner,  a social media stalk. Whatever floats your boat tbh.