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[Eternal Bell]

lessee hea..

great questions kur'

pros:
driven
ambitious
luvly
fun
easy breezy
listener
loyal


cons:



i think i would date me...i jus needa man on my level goal wise

[CHOKE]

Only date outside my race

Less chance of accidentally messing with someone I'm related to

That's happened twice already

[Eternal Bell]

 

[Kurama]

 goddamn it all

[Kaeli.]

My next bae is gonna be white.

Mine is gonna be Asian

[BAPHOMET.]

People shouldn't be afraid of "peace" tbh. It can be just as exciting and fulfilling without all the extra stuff to feel like a REAL!1! relationship. 

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People shouldn't be afraid of "peace" tbh. It can be just as exciting and fulfilling without all the extra stuff to feel like a REAL!1! relationship. 

!!!!

this is all i want at tha enda tha day

PEACE

& a family to raise

[Kurama]

WHEW!

[KING BENTLEY.]

Bre... I had this conversation with my friend, cause he posted something like this on FB

that's a great question to ask, but I feel like it attacks a person's self-esteem a bit

like I know I'm not perfect, but I'd still date myself.

and then a person becomes self-conscious and tries to change and fix things, but not for themselves, just to attract someone of a certain caliber.

and it kinda lets ppl off the hook, if you deal with me, you gotta handle the flaws and all

Iono .... what you think?

[yummy]

Lemme ask this,

Would yall date yourselves???

A lot of times these convos devolve into bashing others and the usual niggas ain't shit   discourse. But we all receive similar conditioning and if we all had the values we sought, our community might not be so damn...fucked tbh.

Yes. I like to think I'm ver' open minded and emotionally intelligent. 

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im still in my earl' 20's but im feelin n thinkin more 'bout the future lately...like A LOT often
especially wit this trip im bout to go on to see tha world n mess

anybody else have those times?
i had a dream bout my weddin las week

2 yrs ago i aint wanna man or kids
now i wanna family, a house, etc etc sssssnsnsns
i been feelin' this way since las yr a bit!

[BAPHOMET.]

Bre BAPH... I had this conversation with my friend, cause he posted something like this on FB

that's a great question to ask, but I feel like it attacks a person's self-esteem a bit

like I know I'm not perfect, but I'd still date myself.

and then a person becomes self-conscious and tries to change and fix things, but not for themselves, just to attract someone of a certain caliber.

and it kinda lets ppl off the hook, if you deal with me, you gotta handle the flaws and all

Iono .... what you think?

Hey babes 

I agree. I know myself and I can feel inconsistent. I enjoy time with myself and going away on my own. I definitely dont expect someone to be on me at all times.

Why aren't they texting and calling me every hour. They're up to something   

I'd gladly accept the same given.

[Kurama]

Bre... I had this conversation with my friend, cause he posted something like this on FB

that's a great question to ask, but I feel like it attacks a person's self-esteem a bit

like I know I'm not perfect, but I'd still date myself.

and then a person becomes self-conscious and tries to change and fix things, but not for themselves, just to attract someone of a certain caliber.

and it kinda lets ppl off the hook, if you deal with me, you gotta handle the flaws and all

Iono .... what you think?

Oh my apologies if anyone felt like that, never was my intent Bent. I feel like its easier to hold others accountable for the way things are, rather than ourselves.

I actually agree thats part of building with someone. Acknowledging that there are flaws and navigating which are workable and which are deal-breakers with each partner is important af.

I think the disappointment with ppl and dating comes in when folks arent transparent when negotiating boundaries in the beginning phases of dating.

[Lane Bryant Jumpsuit]

Out of the people I know, the swirly couples do seem to be lasting, A LOT longer though.

the slave master dynamic kept up for 500 years

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here we go