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[Bish]

I highly doubt Monica isn't aware her husband cheats.

Basically and she isn't going anywhere because she loves the status of being a wife. People like Monica have no problem keeping a man because they tolerate a lot of shit. A lot of people are single because they have high expectations when it comes to fidelity and won't put up with that shit. If she accepts that her man cheats let her it's not or business or place to tell her she should leave him.

Up until this point, we only have evidence that cheating may be occurring. What evidence do we have that Monica supports infidelity? If anything her close ties to biblical scripture would leave room to assume the opposite.

There's a lot of conclusions being drawn in here based off of one exchange which isn't even explicitly detailed. lol.

;nnnn she's said it out of her own mouth

Monica said that she accepts men cheating on her?
Then why is this DM thing such a big deal to begin with. Where's the scandal if she allows this to go on? lol I'm confused

The 'scandal' is charged by hate and envy. Right now she's got an energy and glow which is starting to make people envious. betterwiseup even said he's tired of Mon putting on a happy home front, hence assisting in exposing the mess. The hate is apparent and it's really sad.

[RekeRig]

Dinner would be on the table hot & waiting for him when he came in from slaying Doris or Beatrice.

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[Vonc2002]

Women who quote the bible and are "grounded in the word" are actually more likely to stay with their mates and try to see it thru. Everything is handled by God and he'll make a way, and ONLY A TEST.

my husband was unfaithful to me while I was out on the road

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[Hugo]

My grandmother wasn't having it. Maybe that's why I view these things this way.
She is a woman who believes that her husband is well....hers.
So I can't agree all women "back in the day" developed or encouraged this type of thinking.

If anything I'd agree that the old school mentality is that the man goes out and takes care of his FAMILY financially, while the woman tends to the kids and house.

Same with my grandmother. Once she got to the states she didn't want my grandfather no more 

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Dinner would be on the table hot & waiting for him when he came in from slaying Doris or Beatrice.

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[SUPREME]

I'm like Mon on the situation once you get caught or the public gets notice of it you're done. I honestly don't care if my nigga cheats. Just be up front and honest and keep it away from me. Don't bring that shit home. That's how you know if a nigga really down for you or not. If he loves and respects you enough to keep shit away from you.

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[RekeRig]

Women who quote the bible and are "grounded in the word" are actually more likely to stay with their mates and try to see it thru. Everything is handled by God and he'll make a way, and ONLY A TEST.

my husband was unfaithful to me while I was out on the road

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gdddddf she's a CLASSIC case of what ur talking about

They run to the bible the second this kinda mess goes. "God would frown on us just giving up. No man break what God has in store"

[SUPREME]

Tbh to me there's a difference between a CHEATER and someone who makes a mistake.

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If he's flying bitches (plural) out to his crib every time Mo n the churren are out of town, I dont think thats a mistake...

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[Kaeli.]

Did he send dick pics

[SUPREME]

Monica is build like a washboard. Shannon needs something to grab and pull. She knows this. Shit Tiny knows she's ugly that's why she fucks pretty bitches with her man.

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[SUPREME]

Bigch im. Crying

[Herb.]

My grandmother wasn't having it. Maybe that's why I view these things this way.
She is a woman who believes that her husband is well....hers.
So I can't agree all women "back in the day" developed or encouraged this type of thinking.

If anything I'd agree that the old school mentality is that the man goes out and takes care of his FAMILY financially, while the woman tends to the kids and house.

Same with my grandmother. Once she got to the states she didn't want my grandfather no more 

Right.

If anything, the whole "men gon cheat! Let him do it! " mess is something new and edgy. It's more of a woman's way of going against social norms which promoted marriage and monogamy, and a white picket fence.
I believe more and more women, especially black women, may be doing this out of at least a small amount of desperation to keep something in tact. Since it's such a rarity that black men are willing to commit and better yet, hold down a household with kids.

If they have that, chances are they may be willing to put up with more to keep it.

[Vonc2002]

Women who quote the bible and are "grounded in the word" are actually more likely to stay with their mates and try to see it thru. Everything is handled by God and he'll make a way, and ONLY A TEST.

my husband was unfaithful to me while I was out on the road

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gdddddf she's a CLASSIC case of what ur talking about

They run to the bible the second this kinda mess goes. "God would frown on us just giving up. No man break what God has in store"

What has been joined by God, let no man put asunder

[MAY]

My grandmother wasn't having it. Maybe that's why I view these things this way.
She is a woman who believes that her husband is well....hers.
So I can't agree all women "back in the day" developed or encouraged this type of thinking.

If anything I'd agree that the old school mentality is that the man goes out and takes care of his FAMILY financially, while the woman tends to the kids and house.
Now that is something that I know was very popular and is also a way that my grandparents operated.

Definitely not all women, but a lot of them did.

And the man taking care of the family financially is why a lot of women turned their heads.

I mean, back in the day where would a single woman with 3 kids and no
work experience go if she decided to leave her husband?

Many of those women had no choice but to stay and just deal.

[Vonc2002]

I'm sorry but