Quote from: hai as a kyte. on February 21, 2018, 08:41:17 PM
Quote from: Mays. on February 21, 2018, 08:39:08 PM
I was speaking in general when I mentioned that. It had nothing to do with your cousin and his wife.
I was actually defending interracial relationships based on a genuine connection.
I have no reason to believe she married him due to a fetish or anything else.
And you have no reason to believe he married her because of anything other than what I said it was in here.
Especially with someone here raising their hand and saying "me too" based on the scenario. It's real.
Don't disregard people's experiences just so you can hand down a judgement.
But it's cool for your cousin to hand down a judgment on all Black women because he had a bad experience with a few? Maybe those girls had bad experiences with Black males, but you have no problem disregarding their experiences in defense of your cousin.
Basically it's ok for him to judge but not the rest of us. Got it!
And although you keep bringing it up as if it's some sort of
GOTCHA!...me being attracted to White men has nothing to do with this conversation, because unlike your cousin, I'm actually attracted to Black and every other race.
So you trying to use that comparison is apples to oranges and makes literally zero sense, especially considering you were going off on a swirly tangent not too long ago your damn self.

Or have we forgotten?