Are you a territorial friend?

Started by I. Hate. Monica., November 05, 2018, 09:34:39 AM

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I. Hate. Monica.

November 05, 2018, 09:34:39 AM Last Edit: November 05, 2018, 09:51:48 AM by Zanny
For example...

Let's say you introduce your best friend to another friend of yours in a group setting and they start contacting each other behind your back.


edit: They are also going places and hanging out without inviting you

edit: An additional layer:

You have fallen out with one of the friends (not the best friend). Would you expect your best friend to stop talking to the friend also


:ohwow:

Young

No

Let people connect if they do, is how I Feel.


Gilgamesh.

I don't mind. I actually prefer it 'cause it means I don't have play "go between".

As long as I get an invite when y'all link :everythingok:

I. Hate. Monica.

ok let's spice things up a bit. Let's say they are going places and hanging out without inviting you?


Barbie Dangerous

If I introduce you to one another don?t contact each other behind my fckn back. If you wanna talk to each other that?s all fine but I better be included in a group chat, even if I don?t reply.


Vonc2002

I wouldn't say that scenario is a selfish friend but I'm neither.  I try to link my friends together if anything
This is my pass to say WHATEVER tf I wanna say about the mess she releases so I don't wanna hear SHIT! Baby mama is a mess of a song btw





Young

Quote from: Zanny on November 05, 2018, 09:38:01 AM
ok let's spice things up a bit. Let's say they are going places and hanging out without inviting you?

That means they get along and are pretty close

Don't always need an invite

Now if you get TOTALLY kicked to the side then that's a shade

But you could have just been someone who introduced your friends to each other--and they end up being best friends.
Stuff like that can happen.



Scott.

Quote from: Zanny on November 05, 2018, 09:34:39 AM
For example...

Let's say you introduce your best friend to another friend of yours in a group setting and they start contacting each other behind your back.


edit: They are also going places and hanging out without inviting you

How would you feel?

:ohwow:

I wouldn't care tbh. I actually love it when my friends are cool with each other.

I. Hate. Monica.

If I find out ya'll are hanging out behind my fckin back it's a wrap

:overit:

Young

Quote from: BowDown on November 05, 2018, 09:39:22 AM
If I introduce you to one another don?t contact each other behind my fckn back. If you wanna talk to each other that?s all fine but I better be included in a group chat, even if I don?t reply.

That's a damn mess


Young

I've introduced so many of my friends who have created their own bonds/friendships and vise versa


Vonc2002

Responding to the edit:
I would feel ok if there were reason i wasnt invited but them just creating a whole friend circle outside of me would probably make me feel a way.  The intention is for us to hang with each other.  Not y'all clique up and leave me out to dry. Ive recently introduced a couple of my friends and it's going pretty well. 
This is my pass to say WHATEVER tf I wanna say about the mess she releases so I don't wanna hear SHIT! Baby mama is a mess of a song btw





Vonc2002

Quote from: Zanny on November 05, 2018, 09:41:10 AM
If I find out ya'll are hanging out behind my fckin back it's a wrap

:overit:
This is petty and territorial :kii:
This is my pass to say WHATEVER tf I wanna say about the mess she releases so I don't wanna hear SHIT! Baby mama is a mess of a song btw





I. Hate. Monica.

An additional layer:

You have fallen out with one of the friends (not the best friend). Would you expect your best friend to stop talking to the friend also?