The way people shame Black women for their "insecurities" regarding their Blackness is pretty disgusting to me.
It completely negates the fact that they are thrown messages everyday which tell them they aren't beautiful. They have to constantly fight these forces, which is a big reason why we have all of the " I love my melanin! I love my natural kinky hair!" campaigns.
Of COURSE there are some of them out there screaming those phrases who still aren't completely secure in themselves. Why? Cuz there are definitely Black women out there who are TRYING to LEARN how to love themselves . How to fight those forces coming against them.
So you think you're spitting logic, but you're not. You actually need to catch up.
The level of insensitivity and borderline disrespect is something I'd expect from people who have no Black women in their family at all.
Fucking yikes. I challenge you to think further.