Do y'all dress similar?
Think alike?
Dig the same music?
Into the same type of people romantically?
Or polar opposites?
:ohwow:
Do y'all talk everyday?
My besties are polar opposites. One is a girl and pne is a guy. The girl is my ace, we can go a month without talking...even tho we dont...and pickup like it's nothing. The guy bestfriend is super supercool. He is one of my biggest motivators.
I have a couple, I feel. we usually speak in some capacity everyday. I dont dress like anyone, not in highschool, but we do share some of the same ideals and outlooks on things.............the important things. Nothing wrong with having a difference of opinion on certain things but if u feel a certain way on something I really value, I cant. If Im questioning ur character then I cant be friends with u. So, its good to agree on core values and I do with every person I consider a close friend
Damn I have like 5 best friends :dead:
I think maybe 2 of us dress similarly, not too much though.
Personality wise we all really care about ppl or helping others and we're pretty transparent with one another.
My 2 older best friends from high school and I don't talk much, when we do though its back to normal.The other 3 we talk pretty frequently.
I do. It's my twin brother though. :feelinmyself:
I have 2
A man and a woman
I think we agree on 95% of everything
:traciandchelle:
Is it even possible to be really good friends with someone who has completely different views on things?
Quote from: Tanya Turner on July 24, 2016, 02:36:24 PM
I have 2, we're all similar, but very different at the same time.
Ones the sensible prude Queen, the others the crazy, spontaneous 'turn up' gorl and I'm the fabulous one who sometimes turns into the Tazmanian Devil. Hehe.
I woulda pegged u as the bitch tbh
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 24, 2016, 02:35:52 PM
Is it even possible to be really good friends with someone who has completely different views on things?
I'm starting to think u can't
That's what prompted this thread
I'm doing a bit of a cleanse TBH
I feel like it's time for me to remove so many ppl from my world
Sad part is .. I don't have many in my life but I feel I need to let almost everyone go
Quote from: Glock on July 24, 2016, 02:38:59 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 24, 2016, 02:35:52 PM
Is it even possible to be really good friends with someone who has completely different views on things?
I'm starting to think u can't
That's what prompted this thread
I'm doing a bit of a cleanse TBH
I feel like it's time for me to remove so many ppl from my world
Sad part is .. I don't have many in my life but I feel I need to let almost everyone go
I think as long as core values are intact, disagreement is fine. No one wants to have someone just agree with them on everything. I think healthy debate is great but If u are the other end of the spectrum on something I really hold dear and value, im probably not gonna be able to come back from that tbh :dead:
Depending on what it is, I view that as a character flaw and now ur a shitty person in my mind. Disagreement is needed tho. Its always good to get someone else's perspective because it can help u to view things differently
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 24, 2016, 02:45:39 PM
Quote from: Glock on July 24, 2016, 02:38:59 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 24, 2016, 02:35:52 PM
Is it even possible to be really good friends with someone who has completely different views on things?
I'm starting to think u can't
That's what prompted this thread
I'm doing a bit of a cleanse TBH
I feel like it's time for me to remove so many ppl from my world
Sad part is .. I don't have many in my life but I feel I need to let almost everyone go
I think as long as core values are intact, disagreement is fine. No one wants to have someone just agree with them on everything. I think healthy debate is great but If u are the other end of the spectrum on something I really hold dear and value, im probably not gonna be able to come back from that tbh :dead:
Depending on what it is, I view that as a character flaw and now ur a shitty person in my mind. Disagreement is needed tho. Its always good to get someone else's perspective because it can help u to view things differently
agreed!!
Thank u
Quote from: Corporate Cannibal. on July 24, 2016, 02:57:38 PM
I don't have any friends.
n
Fag u were just with ur girl last night. Stfu
I have several
Well i moved in with my best friend of 11 years
And we are similiar in core values
But ppul says hes the sexy one and im the interesting one and im like well why can i be the sexy one and him the interesting one....bitch
But nehoo
We dont talks everyday lol cause if im tired from work im anti social or if hes not feelin so chipper we just exhange hi"s and byes and talk it out later
When it comes to boys (like on grindr or his old friends)
Like it comes down to me being the brains and him being the brawn
In the sense that they would be attracted to him and sleep with him
But talk to me and share alot more stuff with me than they would him
Which is cool cause i can give him more inaight into how they think and whatnot
But chea
sddddsss
Quote from: TheNextLew on July 24, 2016, 03:32:39 PM
Well i moved in with my best friend of 11 years
And we are similiar in core values
But ppul says hes the sexy one and im the interesting one and im like well why can i be the sexy one and him the interesting one....bitch
But nehoo
We dont talks everyday lol cause if im tired from work im anti social or if hes not feelin so chipper we just exhange hi"s and byes and talk it out later
When it comes to boys (like on grindr or his old friends)
Like it comes down to me being the brains and him being the brawn
In the sense that they would be attracted to him and sleep with him
But talk to me and share alot more stuff with me than they would him
Which is cool cause i can give him more inaight into how they think and whatnot
But chea
:kii: :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii:
Ssdddddddddddd
I have 3 best friends. I realize that each best friend fulfill a specific quality or purpose for me that I need in a friendship. One bestie is my go to person for emotional support, deep convos, understanding, and knows me deeper than anyone. One bestie is the most LOYAL person you'll ever encounter and has been there since the beginning. And my other bestie is always ready to turn up at any given SECOND. Just a positive, genuine spirit and never have to question the friendship.
:dead: the kind that knows what the other is thinking without even saying too much or anything at all.
Its like my twin honestly.
Quote from: TheNextLew on July 24, 2016, 03:32:39 PM
We dont talks everyday lol cause if im tired from work im anti social or if hes not feelin so chipper we just exhange hi"s and byes and talk it out later
When it comes to boys (like on grindr or his old friends)
Like it comes down to me being the brains and him being the brawn
In the sense that they would be attracted to him and sleep with him
But talk to me and share alot more stuff with me than they would him
Which is cool cause i can give him more inaight into how they think and whatnot
But chea
aw I like that
Quote from: Corporate Cannibal. on July 24, 2016, 05:48:12 PM
Quote from: RIGGY on July 24, 2016, 03:01:48 PM
Quote from: Corporate Cannibal. on July 24, 2016, 02:57:38 PM
I don't have any friends.
n
Fag u were just with ur girl last night. Stfu
3quwoieghpFNOIQWE I just wanted to see what you were going to say.
fdfggggggg get this pity party shit outta here
Whew the way my fumes rose up
no bestie
That's pretty terr'
I have a female best friend. We are kind of growing in different directions,though.
We don't dress alike but we do share a lot of the same views.
Also, she's about to have a baby so I'm cutting her off
Quote from: Nice Stereo. on July 24, 2016, 07:39:51 PM
I have a female best friend. We are kind of growing in different directions,though.
We don't dress alike but we do share a lot of the same views.
Also, she's about to have a baby so I'm cutting her off
:dead:
did you guys used to dress alike hun?
(https://66.media.tumblr.com/75fa4424122af055c820c759aa54eaea/tumblr_n8byteAz3r1r1tfh9o1_500.gif)
Why are you quoting me, don't like ya lol
"Best Friend" is so high school to me.
:dead: :dead: :dead: :dead: :dead:
I agree, the term best friend is very lame but this doesnt change the facts. U definetly have a friend or two that u trust in most and confide in. Whether u call them that or not, u know their role in your life.
......or atleast u SHOULD :stressed:
🙄
n
I love my best friends. Ugh, they are like my brothers and sisters. I miss them terribly :stressed:
Quote from: Nice Stereo. on July 24, 2016, 07:44:46 PM
Why are you quoting me, don't like ya lol
I'll cut you up and feed you to fish.
Quote from: Magnolia Maymuru on July 24, 2016, 07:49:03 PM
"Best Friend" is so high school to me.
:dead: :dead: :dead: :dead: :dead:
!!!!!!
That's why when I hear LaLa say it I fuckin crine
Quote from: Lazarus on July 24, 2016, 08:46:40 PM
Quote from: Magnolia Maymuru on July 24, 2016, 07:49:03 PM
"Best Friend" is so high school to me.
:dead: :dead: :dead: :dead: :dead:
!!!!!!
That's why I hear LaLa say it I fuckin crine
s
have you guys had a lot of bes frens?
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 24, 2016, 07:53:09 PM
I agree, the term best friend is very lame but this doesnt change the facts. U definetly have a friend or two that u trust in most and confide in. Whether u call them that or not, u know their role in your life.
Very true.
V
How is best friend "highschool" ?
Tears
Quote from: BENTLEY! on July 24, 2016, 08:47:39 PM
Quote from: Lazarus on July 24, 2016, 08:46:40 PM
Quote from: Magnolia Maymuru on July 24, 2016, 07:49:03 PM
"Best Friend" is so high school to me.
:dead: :dead: :dead: :dead: :dead:
!!!!!!
That's why I hear LaLa say it I fuckin crine
s
have you guys had a lot of bes frens?
:dead:
I've had NONE. I'm more so cordial towards people. Don't call a lot of people "friends". The term associate or acquaintance suits just fit.
Quote from: Glock on July 24, 2016, 08:50:29 PM
V
How is best friend "highschool" ?
Tears
It kinda is
Nah. Its not.
Quote from: Corporate Cannibal. on July 24, 2016, 09:06:37 PM
I never thought being on here would get me a best friend.
!!!!!!!!
Y'all have best friends on here :dead:
awwwwww
Quote from: Lazarus on July 24, 2016, 09:08:22 PM
Y'all have best friends on here :dead:
Definitely do. Talk often, hung out, met each other's friends, etc. I see how u scoff at the thought because ur so closed off to people on here but this is a place where depending on the day u can spend alot of time. Its pretty natural to connect with people
yes
two peas on a pods we r!
Quote from: Glock on July 24, 2016, 08:50:29 PM
V
How is best friend "highschool" ?
Tears
bbb I've never heard anyone say that. I still hear adults say it so I didn't ever think of it as weird
I honestly find it weird if uve been somewhere for years and HAVEN'T made a genuine connection tbh
Now "Besties" is childish
Quote from: Glock on July 24, 2016, 08:50:29 PM
V
How is best friend "highschool" ?
Tears
!!!!
Like :uhh:
Quote from: Corporate Cannibal. on July 24, 2016, 09:06:37 PM
I never thought being on here would get me a best friend.
Dorks :wub:
Quote from: Kaeli. on July 24, 2016, 09:13:15 PM
Now "Besties" is childish
Its kinda tomato/tamato imo. Same shit, all childish :dead:
Me and Trey got drinks together just last week :stressed:
love that boy
Quote from: MelMel on July 24, 2016, 09:15:34 PM
Me and Trey got drinks together just last week :stressed:
love that boy
My bavis :wub: :flamebroiled:
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 24, 2016, 09:11:43 PM
Quote from: Lazarus on July 24, 2016, 09:08:22 PM
Y'all have best friends on here :dead:
Definitely do. Talk often, hung out, met each other's friends, etc. I see how u scoff at the thought because ur so closed off to people on here but this is a place where depending on the day u can spend alot of time. Its pretty natural to connect with people
How wonderful. Not necessarily closed off. I just come to the messageboard or any for that matter to be entertained. If something develop between a person and I cool. But it's great you found someone to call a best friend from a messageboard and develop a friendship.
Quote from: MelMel on July 24, 2016, 09:15:34 PM
Me and Trey got drinks together just last week :stressed:
love that boy
!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
:stressed: :stressed: :stressed: :stressed: :stressed:
Quote from: MelMel on July 24, 2016, 09:15:34 PM
Me and Trey got drinks together just last week :stressed:
love that boy
I lowkey love trey. He's hilarious
Quote from: Kurama on July 24, 2016, 09:17:03 PM
Quote from: MelMel on July 24, 2016, 09:15:34 PM
Me and Trey got drinks together just last week :stressed:
love that boy
My bavis :wub: :flamebroiled:
just needed yew :loose2when:
Quote from: Kurama on July 24, 2016, 09:17:03 PM
Quote from: MelMel on July 24, 2016, 09:15:34 PM
Me and Trey got drinks together just last week :stressed:
love that boy
My bavis :wub: :flamebroiled:
Love you fags!!!!!!!!!!!
:stressed: :stressed: :stressed: :stressed:
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 24, 2016, 09:18:44 PM
Quote from: MelMel on July 24, 2016, 09:15:34 PM
Me and Trey got drinks together just last week :stressed:
love that boy
I lowkey love trey. He's hilarious
he really is. :stressed:
and you are still a bitch :hmph:
I have a friend who I deeply connect with on so many levels. Sometimes we have the same thoughts.
But we never call each other "best friend", we simply know it.
Quote from: Lazarus on July 24, 2016, 09:17:08 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 24, 2016, 09:11:43 PM
Quote from: Lazarus on July 24, 2016, 09:08:22 PM
Y'all have best friends on here :dead:
Definitely do. Talk often, hung out, met each other's friends, etc. I see how u scoff at the thought because ur so closed off to people on here but this is a place where depending on the day u can spend alot of time. Its pretty natural to connect with people
How wonderful. Not necessarily closed off. I just come to the messageboard or any for that matter to be entertained. If something develop between a person and I cool. But it's great you found someone to call a best friend from a messageboard and develop a friendship.
Right and thats how i felt. I lowkey thought it was weird to talk to people from online, Some lifetime movie shi. but u meet people and u connect with them and develop a genuine friendship. I can honestly say i met a "best friend" (so corny) off here
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 24, 2016, 09:18:44 PM
Quote from: MelMel on July 24, 2016, 09:15:34 PM
Me and Trey got drinks together just last week :stressed:
love that boy
I lowkey love trey. He's hilarious
AWWWWW!!!!!!! Love you too bvy. :wub: :wub: :wub:
Quote from: MelMel on July 24, 2016, 09:19:24 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 24, 2016, 09:18:44 PM
Quote from: MelMel on July 24, 2016, 09:15:34 PM
Me and Trey got drinks together just last week :stressed:
love that boy
I lowkey love trey. He's hilarious
he really is. :stressed:
and you are still a bitch :hmph:
Yea, that's why i said "love trey" and not u, cant stand ya tbh LOLZ
:uhh:
:roflmao:
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 24, 2016, 09:21:31 PM
Quote from: Lazarus on July 24, 2016, 09:17:08 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 24, 2016, 09:11:43 PM
Quote from: Lazarus on July 24, 2016, 09:08:22 PM
Y'all have best friends on here :dead:
Definitely do. Talk often, hung out, met each other's friends, etc. I see how u scoff at the thought because ur so closed off to people on here but this is a place where depending on the day u can spend alot of time. Its pretty natural to connect with people
How wonderful. Not necessarily closed off. I just come to the messageboard or any for that matter to be entertained. If something develop between a person and I cool. But it's great you found someone to call a best friend from a messageboard and develop a friendship.
Right and thats how i felt. I lowkey thought it was weird to talk to people from online, Some lifetime movie shi. but u meet people and u connect with them and develop a genuine friendship. I can honestly say i met a "best friend" (so corny) off here
!!!!!!!! Exactly how I feel. And that's great you found someone to develop a friendship with offline.
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My best friend of 10 yrs and I are polar opposites in everything except our humor. We don't talk or hang out often because she has children. But when we do link it's like whatever, it's like we haven't been away from each other.
Me & my friend have been best friends for 17 years.. We can just give each other a look and know what each other is thinking we love the same music and we both from the same island so yea our vybe is >>>><<<<
mya i told you, you and i can be fwb
bffs*
Quote from: GRAND on July 24, 2016, 10:33:04 PM
mya i told you, you and i can be fwb
LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 24, 2016, 09:13:06 PM
I honestly find it weird if uve been somewhere for years and HAVEN'T made a genuine connection tbh
Sir Can you pass me the Cara
MEL sauce please
I consider my "best friend" my soulmate actually. Known each other since elementary.
We wouldn't be where we are in our lives today, without each other.
We motivate, encourage, and just love each other.
We're grateful.
It's rare to have a good friend, who grows WITH YOU, for so long.
f
Quote from: Ralf on July 24, 2016, 10:38:45 PM
I consider my "best friend" my soulmate actually.
Thats weird. We do that too. :ohwow:
Quote from: Kurama on July 24, 2016, 10:40:39 PM
Quote from: Ralf on July 24, 2016, 10:38:45 PM
I consider my "best friend" my soulmate actually.
Thats weird. We do that too. :ohwow:
Yea?
We don't even consider ourselves friends anymore.
More like family.
:dead:
But she is my soulmate. And I'm hers.
It's crazy, cause no matter what goes on in our lives, we always stay focused cause we have each other. That built-in support.
c
i see my ULTIMATE best friend as my soul mate too
i swear me and that guh came outta the same vagina
Quote from: GRAND on July 24, 2016, 10:45:07 PM
c
i see my ULTIMATE best friend as my soul mate too
i swear me and that guh came outta the same vagina
!!!!
:plzstop:
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 24, 2016, 09:11:43 PM
Quote from: Lazarus on July 24, 2016, 09:08:22 PM
Y'all have best friends on here :dead:
Definitely do. Talk often, hung out, met each other's friends, etc. I see how u scoff at the thought because ur so closed off to people on here but this is a place where depending on the day u can spend alot of time. Its pretty natural to connect with people
are you referring to glock?
Quote from: imani on July 24, 2016, 10:46:54 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 24, 2016, 09:11:43 PM
Quote from: Lazarus on July 24, 2016, 09:08:22 PM
Y'all have best friends on here :dead:
Definitely do. Talk often, hung out, met each other's friends, etc. I see how u scoff at the thought because ur so closed off to people on here but this is a place where depending on the day u can spend alot of time. Its pretty natural to connect with people
are you referring to glock?
No
Quote from: Magnolia Maymuru on July 24, 2016, 07:49:03 PM
"Best Friend" is so high school to me.
:dead: :dead: :dead: :dead: :dead:
! :dead:
Ermm. I have a couple close friends, one I've known since 7th grade, we fell out of touch after he moved to another state but we reconnected a few years back. I have another friend I've known since tenth grade...been contemplating cutting this fag off tho, and another friend I met through an ex boyfriend. He's a bit older and great for advice, took me to my first gay club when I was 17 :flamebroiled:
Wait you weren't talking about you and Glock, Von :dead:
No but glock is very cool too.
Vonc' you got me intrigued now :ohwow:
Me and my best friend who is a girl are total opposites. Everything from music to good are different! But she is the truest person I know. Understanding and caring. She and I have the deepest conversations
Do yall associate time knowing someone with having a meaningful friendship? Im always on the fence.
I think it's nice that people connect on here, on a deeper level.
There's a few people on here that I know (if I took a different approach to the forum) I'd click with, off the board. Spiritually, mentally, life-goals wise, etc.
Quote from: Kurama on July 24, 2016, 10:56:08 PM
Do yall associate time knowing someone with having a meaningful friendship? Im always on the fence.
No.
It's all vibes to me.
Time doesn't matter.
But of course knowing someone for just 2 weeks or 2 months wouldn't cut it.
:dead:
Quote from: Ralf on July 24, 2016, 10:56:13 PM
I think it's nice that people connect on here, on a deeper level.
!!!
Ppl have been here for a decade or so. Why the hell not? :dead:
Quote from: Kurama on July 24, 2016, 10:57:31 PM
Quote from: Ralf on July 24, 2016, 10:56:13 PM
I think it's nice that people connect on here, on a deeper level.
!!!
Ppl have been here for a decade or so. Why the hell not? :dead:
Yea.
Quote from: Ralf on July 24, 2016, 10:56:13 PM
I think it's nice that people connect on here, on a deeper level.
!!!!!! I find it quite interesting.
I'm gonna be honest, I suck at keeping up with friends. People really catch feelings easily if you miss a call or don't text back. Especially female friends. So I prefer associates for now. And it doesn't help that I keep to myself a lot. Just being honest. I have a good friend since HS tho and he's really the male version of me. We talk about anything and everything. We can go a long time without talking but talk like we were just kii-ing yesterday. I should call him soon. ;ff Oh and my sis. She's really my other half and someone I genuinely trust.
Quote from: Lazarus on July 24, 2016, 11:01:31 PM
Quote from: Ralf on July 24, 2016, 10:56:13 PM
I think it's nice that people connect on here, on a deeper level.
!!!!!! I find it quite interesting.
:diddraispoot: u ok bby
Quote from: Suah on July 24, 2016, 10:51:45 PM
Me and my best friend who is a girl are total opposites. Everything from music to good are different! But she is the truest person I know. Understanding and caring. She and I have the deepest conversations
!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Iman made me think of something.
You know you have a GOOD friend, when you can go 2-3 weeks without talking much due to just regular life stuff, and when u talk again, it's like you two were kii-ing just last night.
:kii:
Quote from: imani on July 24, 2016, 11:03:58 PM
Quote from: Lazarus on July 24, 2016, 11:01:31 PM
Quote from: Ralf on July 24, 2016, 10:56:13 PM
I think it's nice that people connect on here, on a deeper level.
!!!!!! I find it quite interesting.
:diddraispoot: u ok bby
I'm fine. I said what I said. I find it interesting that a person can connect with another person online on a deeper level. Most messageboard I've perched on the members kii and be on their way.
Quote from: Trey on July 24, 2016, 11:04:45 PM
Quote from: Suah on July 24, 2016, 10:51:45 PM
Me and my best friend who is a girl are total opposites. Everything from music to good are different! But she is the truest person I know. Understanding and caring. She and I have the deepest conversations
!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Luv that girl so much :stressed:
Quote from: Lazarus on July 24, 2016, 11:06:37 PM
Quote from: imani on July 24, 2016, 11:03:58 PM
Quote from: Lazarus on July 24, 2016, 11:01:31 PM
Quote from: Ralf on July 24, 2016, 10:56:13 PM
I think it's nice that people connect on here, on a deeper level.
!!!!!! I find it quite interesting.
:diddraispoot: u ok bby
I'm fine. I said what I said. I find interesting that a person can connect with another person online on a deeper level. Most messageboard the members kii and be on their way.
It's quite easy to connect to someone, actually.
Even if it's off in PMs and not really on the board.
I think everyone has their own perspective on it, and choose how far they'd take it.
Quote from: Lazarus on July 24, 2016, 11:06:37 PM
Quote from: imani on July 24, 2016, 11:03:58 PM
Quote from: Lazarus on July 24, 2016, 11:01:31 PM
Quote from: Ralf on July 24, 2016, 10:56:13 PM
I think it's nice that people connect on here, on a deeper level.
!!!!!! I find it quite interesting.
:diddraispoot: u ok bby
I'm fine. I said what I said. I find it interesting that a person can connect with another person online on a deeper level. Most messageboard I've perched on the members kii and be on their way.
s
Oh ok. A lot of people on here been posting for like 10 years so it's easy to connect. I actually feel like I know most of the ppl on here like I know them IRL :dead:
Quote from: imani on July 24, 2016, 11:09:03 PM
Quote from: Lazarus on July 24, 2016, 11:06:37 PM
Quote from: imani on July 24, 2016, 11:03:58 PM
Quote from: Lazarus on July 24, 2016, 11:01:31 PM
Quote from: Ralf on July 24, 2016, 10:56:13 PM
I think it's nice that people connect on here, on a deeper level.
!!!!!! I find it quite interesting.
:diddraispoot: u ok bby
I'm fine. I said what I said. I find it interesting that a person can connect with another person online on a deeper level. Most messageboard I've perched on the members kii and be on their way.
s
Oh ok. A lot of people on here been posting for like 10 years so it's easy to connect. I actually feel like I know most of the ppl on here like I know them IRL :dead:
Oh ok cool.
r u lonely
Quote from: Ralf on July 24, 2016, 11:08:15 PM
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Quote from: imani on July 24, 2016, 11:03:58 PM
Quote from: Lazarus on July 24, 2016, 11:01:31 PM
Quote from: Ralf on July 24, 2016, 10:56:13 PM
I think it's nice that people connect on here, on a deeper level.
!!!!!! I find it quite interesting.
:diddraispoot: u ok bby
I'm fine. I said what I said. I find interesting that a person can connect with another person online on a deeper level. Most messageboard the members kii and be on their way.
I think everyone has their own perspective on it, and choose how far they'd take it.
!!!!!!! Agreed.
Quote from: Ralf on July 24, 2016, 11:05:10 PM
Iman made me think of something.
You know you have a GOOD friend, when you can go 2-3 weeks without talking much due to just regular life stuff, and when u talk again, it's like you two were kii-ing just last night.
:kii:
sssddddddddddddddddd
That's how I am!!! I'm not really a "talk on the phone everyday" kind of fag, at least not anymore at this point in my life. And my college friends know that n respect it. But when we do talk or we all reunite, we just pick up right where we left the fuck OFF. :dead:
Quote from: Trey on July 24, 2016, 11:12:31 PM
Quote from: Ralf on July 24, 2016, 11:05:10 PM
Iman made me think of something.
You know you have a GOOD friend, when you can go 2-3 weeks without talking much due to just regular life stuff, and when u talk again, it's like you two were kii-ing just last night.
:kii:
sssddddddddddddddddd
That's how I am!!! I'm not really a "talk on the phone everyday" kind of fag, at least not anymore at this point in my life. And my college friends know that n respect it. But when we do talk or we all reunite, we just pick up right where we left the fuck OFF. :dead:
I fucking LOVE that. It's just a mutual understanding.
:plzstop:
The ones who act weird, "where you been?" :uhh:
I don't mess with them that often.
Annoying as fuck.
Quote from: Trey on July 24, 2016, 11:12:31 PM
Quote from: Ralf on July 24, 2016, 11:05:10 PM
Iman made me think of something.
You know you have a GOOD friend, when you can go 2-3 weeks without talking much due to just regular life stuff, and when u talk again, it's like you two were kii-ing just last night.
:kii:
sssddddddddddddddddd
That's how I am!!! I'm not really a "talk on the phone everyday" kind of fag, at least not anymore at this point in my life. And my college friends know that n respect it. But when we do talk or we all reunite, we just pick up right where we left the fuck OFF. :dead:
!!!!!!!! I love it so much. :plzstop:
Quote from: imani on July 24, 2016, 11:12:18 PM
r u lonely
Definitely not. Just a mere observation that's all.
Ch. I just came home from drinking wine and kii-kii-ing with my friend that I haven't seen since March.
:dead:
And we were catching up. Lashing our significant others.
:ohwow:
I just love that. Those kind of friendships slay.
:stressed:
Quote from: Kurama on July 24, 2016, 10:56:08 PM
Do yall associate time knowing someone with having a meaningful friendship? Im always on the fence.
hell no
people ive known for a few months have become some of my closest friends and some ive known for years i feel like we'll NEVER connect the way i have with others
but i also think being young, you go through a stage where you outgrow a lot of folks
people i used to be so close with when i was 18-19-20-21, im like, "wtf was WRONG with me" now
:kii:
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 24, 2016, 09:11:43 PM
Quote from: Lazarus on July 24, 2016, 09:08:22 PM
Y'all have best friends on here :dead:
Definitely do. Talk often, hung out, met each other's friends, etc. I see how u scoff at the thought because ur so closed off to people on here but this is a place where depending on the day u can spend alot of time. Its pretty natural to connect with people
!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
cackle if u want, but i can meet anyone on ANY format or circumstance and hit it off
im not perfect and its always hit or miss of course, but its definitely
possible :dead: nothing weird about it
Quote from: Ralf on July 24, 2016, 10:44:22 PM
Quote from: Kurama on July 24, 2016, 10:40:39 PM
Quote from: Ralf on July 24, 2016, 10:38:45 PM
I consider my "best friend" my soulmate actually.
Thats weird. We do that too. :ohwow:
Yea?
We don't even consider ourselves friends anymore.
More like family.
:dead:
But she is my soulmate. And I'm hers.
It's crazy, cause no matter what goes on in our lives, we always stay focused cause we have each other. That built-in support.
aw yes!!! i totally believe in having more than one soulmate, and i definitely believe that it doesn't necessarily have to
EVER be intimate. Not at all, actually
Quote from: RIGGY on July 24, 2016, 11:28:37 PM
Quote from: Ralf on July 24, 2016, 10:44:22 PM
Quote from: Kurama on July 24, 2016, 10:40:39 PM
Quote from: Ralf on July 24, 2016, 10:38:45 PM
I consider my "best friend" my soulmate actually.
Thats weird. We do that too. :ohwow:
Yea?
We don't even consider ourselves friends anymore.
More like family.
:dead:
But she is my soulmate. And I'm hers.
It's crazy, cause no matter what goes on in our lives, we always stay focused cause we have each other. That built-in support.
aw yes!!! i totally believe in having more than one soulmate, and i definitely believe that it doesn't necessarily have to
EVER be intimate. Not at all, actually
You can have a soulmate in friendship, soulmate in love, soulmate in business/creativity, etc. IMO.
Quote from: Kurama on July 24, 2016, 10:56:08 PM
Do yall associate time knowing someone with having a meaningful friendship? Im always on the fence.
Absolutely NOT
someone can show you what true friendship and support looks like in a really short amount of time. Time spent can sometimes be indicative of proximity and conveniency :dead: :dead: doesn't mean much to me
For me, when i can stop counting the years or even thinking about it, that's a great sign.
Quote from: RIGGY on July 24, 2016, 11:31:18 PM
Quote from: Kurama on July 24, 2016, 10:56:08 PM
Do yall associate time knowing someone with having a meaningful friendship? Im always on the fence.
Absolutely NOT
someone can show you what true friendship and support looks like in a really short amount of time. Time spent can sometimes be indicative of proximity and conveniency :dead: :dead: doesn't mean much to me
For me, when i can stop counting the years or even thinking about it, that's a great sign.
!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
however, me and my best friends just celebrated our ten year anniversary recently :stressed:
Quote from: GRAND on July 24, 2016, 11:19:46 PM
Quote from: Kurama on July 24, 2016, 10:56:08 PM
Do yall associate time knowing someone with having a meaningful friendship? Im always on the fence.
hell no
people ive known for a few months have become some of my closest friends and some ive known for years i feel like we'll NEVER connect the way i have with others
but i also think being young, you go through a stage where you outgrow a lot of folks
people i used to be so close with when i was 18-19-20-21, im like, "wtf was WRONG with me" now
:kii:
!!! Some of the most meaningful friendships I've made were very spur of the moment and it felt like I knew them forever :plzstop:
!!!
Brandfag have 'known' each other for almsot 2 years now
and we've connected on a level I've only attained with literally a couple of people
Luv that fag
:traciandchelle:
Quote from: GRAND on July 24, 2016, 11:19:46 PM
Quote from: Kurama on July 24, 2016, 10:56:08 PM
Do yall associate time knowing someone with having a meaningful friendship? Im always on the fence.
hell no
people ive known for a few months have become some of my closest friends and some ive known for years i feel like we'll NEVER connect the way i have with others
but i also think being young, you go through a stage where you outgrow a lot of folks
people i used to be so close with when i was 18-19-20-21, im like, "wtf was WRONG with me" now
:kii:
Yeah,
interesting because I lost one of my "best friends" of 15 years who I relocated here for and went through this really dark phase. Then I met 3 ppl who I call best friends now shortly after and I was like " :uhh:" what was I thinking :dead:
Quote from: imani on July 24, 2016, 11:03:21 PM
I'm gonna be honest, I suck at keeping up with friends. People really catch feelings easily if you miss a call or don't text back.
honestly, those aren't real friends. friends being annoyed with that is one thing, but flat out getting PISSED and wanting to never communicate again because my text wasn't as prompt as usual? :uhh: thats a mess
How bout asking me about my day or checking in on me in general instead of just assuming im ignoring you or some shit? Friends need to be understanding and always give each other the benefit of the doubt. If our friendship is fragile to the point where a missed text or call is all it takes for it to fall apart, then u can kindly fuck off for life and I'll be just fine
n
Quote from: Ralf on July 24, 2016, 11:05:10 PM
Iman made me think of something.
You know you have a GOOD friend, when you can go 2-3 weeks without talking much due to just regular life stuff, and when u talk again, it's like you two were kii-ing just last night.
:kii:
Quote from: Ralf on July 24, 2016, 11:14:05 PM
Quote from: Trey on July 24, 2016, 11:12:31 PM
Quote from: Ralf on July 24, 2016, 11:05:10 PM
Iman made me think of something.
You know you have a GOOD friend, when you can go 2-3 weeks without talking much due to just regular life stuff, and when u talk again, it's like you two were kii-ing just last night.
:kii:
sssddddddddddddddddd
That's how I am!!! I'm not really a "talk on the phone everyday" kind of fag, at least not anymore at this point in my life. And my college friends know that n respect it. But when we do talk or we all reunite, we just pick up right where we left the fuck OFF. :dead:
I fucking LOVE that. It's just a mutual understanding.
:plzstop:
The ones who act weird, "where you been?" :uhh:
I don't mess with them that often.
Annoying as fuck.
!!!!! :uhh: :uhh: :uhh:
Quote from: GRAND on July 24, 2016, 11:36:59 PM
!!!
Brandfag have 'known' each other for almsot 2 years now
and we've connected on a level I've only attained with literally a couple of people
Luv that fag
:traciandchelle:
there are certain things that members have shared with me and vice versa that people will never know
I really admire and care for quite a few members here
Quote from: RIGGY on July 24, 2016, 11:49:06 PM
Quote from: GRAND on July 24, 2016, 11:36:59 PM
!!!
Brandfag have 'known' each other for almsot 2 years now
and we've connected on a level I've only attained with literally a couple of people
Luv that fag
:traciandchelle:
there are certain things that members have shared with me and vice versa that people will never know
I really admire and care for quite a few members here
:traciandchelle: :stressed:
I've grown close with quite a few of you guys on here over the years
Some of u slay
!
:stressed: :loose2when:
Quote from: imani on July 24, 2016, 11:03:21 PM
I'm gonna be honest, I suck at keeping up with friends. People really catch feelings easily if you miss a call or don't text back. Especially female friends. So I prefer associates for now. And it doesn't help that I keep to myself a lot. Just being honest. I have a good friend since HS tho and he's really the male version of me. We talk about anything and everything. We can go a long time without talking but talk like we were just kii-ing yesterday. I should call him soon. ;ff Oh and my sis. She's really my other half and someone I genuinely trust.
!!!!
I've been trying to make some new friends since I moved but everybody I talk to wants to be either be in a relationship or take it somewhere sexual. And like you I don't really go out much. It's annoying
I should probably put in more effort into meeting people and stop being so closed off but oh well. I kinda like my alone time and space.
Quote from: Drais. on July 25, 2016, 12:54:22 AM
I should probably put in more effort into meeting people and stop being so closed off but oh well. I kinda like my alone time and space.
Quote from: Drais. on July 25, 2016, 12:54:22 AM
I should probably put in more effort into meeting people and stop being so closed off but oh well. I kinda like my alone time and space.
I enjoy my alone time too, WOO! BUT when u have someone ur really cool with they'll make u wanna spend more time or talk more. If ur my really good friend, i can talk to u even when I'm not in the mood to talk
g
I'm content with 1 or 2 people around me tho
Is that bad :dead:
I love company and being alone just the same
I like company that knows when to leave tho
:dead:
I can't TAKE some friends who want to stay till 1am drinking wine and kii-kii-ing on Tuesday night
Like girl, GET!
:dead:
I only hang out those kind of "all-nighters" friends on Fridays or weekend.
I hang out with the "done at 7-9pm" friends on the weekdays
:dead:
You kinda figure out who is who and how they move
But you love them all the same
Lol
:dead:
Quote from: FINE. on July 25, 2016, 01:04:39 AM
I'm content with 1 or 2 people around me tho
Is that bad :dead:
I love company and being alone just the same
I don't think that's bad at all.
I love my alone time, when I can get it.
I always question those who can't stand to be alone with their own thoughts, at all.
Quote from: Drais. on July 25, 2016, 12:54:22 AM
I should probably put in more effort into meeting people and stop being so closed off but oh well. I kinda like my alone time and space.
We are >><<
I hate when gurs try to make me feel bad about it though.
Closed off! Standoffish! Too quiet!
Like everybody isn't a loudmouth, obnoxious twat that fears being alone and needs company 247.
:everythingok:
Quote from: imani on July 25, 2016, 01:11:30 AM
Quote from: Drais. on July 25, 2016, 12:54:22 AM
I kinda like my alone time and space.
We are >><<
I'm kind of similar in a way.
I have my moments of not wanting to be bothered.
That's the reason why I couldn't do roommates.
Quote from: Drais. on July 25, 2016, 01:14:15 AM
I hate when gurs try to make me feel bad about it though.
Closed off! Standoffish! Too quiet!
Like everybody isn't a loudmouth, obnoxious twat that fears being alone and needs company 247.
:everythingok:
!!!!
Quote from: Drais. on July 25, 2016, 01:14:15 AM
I hate when gurs try to make me feel bad about it though.
Closed off! Standoffish! Too quiet!
Like everybody isn't a loudmouth, obnoxious twat that fears being alone and needs company 247.
:everythingok:
There's nothing wrong with that.
There's people who can't stand to be alone AT ALL, and to me that seems kinda off.
So there's no right or wrong.
Quote from: Drais. on July 25, 2016, 01:14:15 AM
I hate when gurs try to make me feel bad about it though.
Closed off! Standoffish! Too quiet!
Like everybody isn't a loudmouth, obnoxious twat that fears being alone and needs company 247.
:everythingok:
!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
:plzstop: :plzstop:
Can't stand to be around people like to be the center of attention all the time or just loud for no reason. I've always been quiet and to myself for the most part.
And people need to learn the difference between being alone and being lonely.
Quote from: Drais. on July 25, 2016, 01:21:22 AM
And people need to learn the difference between being alone and being lonely.
Definitely. There's a big difference between two.
I'm weary of anyone who can't stand to be alone tbh. Like why are you scared to have alone time? Personally, I can't hang out with people all the time cause it makes me feel drained. I absorb people's energies easily.
Quote from: imani on July 25, 2016, 01:27:26 AM
I can't hang out with people all the time cause it makes me feel drained. I absorb people's energies easily.
>>><<<
!!!!
It really is draining having to interact with so many people and so many energies and different personalities on a daily basis. At some point I just have to book it and recharge in my safe little haven.
I'm pretty cautious of people who hate being alone too. I WAS getting to know this one guy but he started telling me stuff like he hated sleeping in his bed alone and wanting me to spend the night because of it.
Nah
Quote from: imani on July 25, 2016, 01:27:26 AM
I'm weary of anyone who can't stand to be alone tbh. Like why are you scared to have alone time? Personally, I can't hang out with people all the time cause it makes me feel drained.
Bitch.
:uhh:
Why are you talking my language?
Quote from: Ralf on July 25, 2016, 01:31:43 AM
Quote from: imani on July 25, 2016, 01:27:26 AM
I'm weary of anyone who can't stand to be alone tbh. Like why are you scared to have alone time? Personally, I can't hang out with people all the time cause it makes me feel drained.
Bitch.
:uhh:
Why are you talking my language?
excuse me :usuresis:
Yes at all these introverts!!!!
Quote from: Drais. on July 25, 2016, 12:54:22 AM
I should probably put in more effort into meeting people and stop being so closed off but oh well. I kinda like my alone time and space.
!!!!
I have no close friends at the moment, just acquaintances really. I'm kinda fine just doing me.
Quote from: FINE. on July 25, 2016, 01:30:59 AM
Quote from: imani on July 25, 2016, 01:27:26 AM
I can't hang out with people all the time cause it makes me feel drained. I absorb people's energies easily.
>>><<<
nnn you are an introvert downe.
I hate when people just POP up unnaounced too :uhh:
I have three, two girls and guy.
I've known the girls since I was 16 and I tell them everything and vice versa. I'm so close with one of them, we used to sleep in the same bed, people thought we were dating for years but that's my ride or die :dead:
My other friend has a lot of the same interests as me, grew up in church, he sings so we connect about that kind of thing. We clash on certain issues (sexuality, politics) because we handled things very differently.
One thing I lvoe about my friends is that we're very honest with each other - I don't even think of them as friends anymore, they're family.
Quote from: FINE. on July 25, 2016, 01:30:59 AM
Quote from: imani on July 25, 2016, 01:27:26 AM
I can't hang out with people all the time cause it makes me feel drained. I absorb people's energies easily.
>>><<<
!!!!!!!!!!!
It's like I need a break from being social. :dead: Dating is draining too.
And I definitely bonded heavily with people on this board and built strong friendships. Bre and Mel are two of my closest friends TBQFH.
Quote from: Drais. on July 25, 2016, 12:51:27 AM
Quote from: imani on July 24, 2016, 11:03:21 PM
I'm gonna be honest, I suck at keeping up with friends. People really catch feelings easily if you miss a call or don't text back. Especially female friends. So I prefer associates for now. And it doesn't help that I keep to myself a lot. Just being honest. I have a good friend since HS tho and he's really the male version of me. We talk about anything and everything. We can go a long time without talking but talk like we were just kii-ing yesterday. I should call him soon. ;ff Oh and my sis. She's really my other half and someone I genuinely trust.
!!!!
I've been trying to make some new friends since I moved but everybody I talk to wants to be either be in a relationship or take it somewhere sexual. And like you I don't really go out much. It's annoying
!!
Ugh yeah
I have to make new friends cause I'm moving to a new city :stressed:
But my bestie is moving there too!
:cheerup:
V
Somewhere in florida? :hmph:
Quote from: 'lock on July 25, 2016, 09:23:23 AM
V
Somewhere in florida? :hmph:
Risktaker! New adventures! :dead:
Fffffff drag him
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 24, 2016, 09:14:42 PM
Quote from: Kaeli. on July 24, 2016, 09:13:15 PM
Now "Besties" is childish
Its kinda tomato/tamato imo. Same shit, all childish :dead:
!!!
I mean you have FRIENDS you love and appreciate, no need to rank them or add superlatives. And really if anything my "best friend" would me family.
Oh and alone time>>>>
Quote from: GRAND on July 25, 2016, 08:31:23 AM
I have to make new friends cause I'm moving to a new city :stressed:
But my bestie is moving there too!
:cheerup:
:uhh:
Quote from: Magnolia Maymuru on July 25, 2016, 09:54:06 AM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 24, 2016, 09:14:42 PM
Quote from: Kaeli. on July 24, 2016, 09:13:15 PM
Now "Besties" is childish
Its kinda tomato/tamato imo. Same shit, all childish :dead:
!!!
I mean you have FRIENDS you love and appreciate, no need to rank them or add superlatives. And really if anything my "best friend" would me family.
well your family are kinda stuck witt you regardless, so i'm not suprised you consider them your best friends.
Quote from: Gilgamesh. on July 25, 2016, 10:06:49 AM
Quote from: Magnolia Maymuru on July 25, 2016, 09:54:06 AM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 24, 2016, 09:14:42 PM
Quote from: Kaeli. on July 24, 2016, 09:13:15 PM
Now "Besties" is childish
Its kinda tomato/tamato imo. Same shit, all childish :dead:
!!!
I mean you have FRIENDS you love and appreciate, no need to rank them or add superlatives. And really if anything my "best friend" would me family.
well your family are kinda stuck witt you regardless, so i'm not suprised you consider them your best friends.
:omgwatshappening:
:plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop:
Quote from: Nice Stereo. on July 25, 2016, 10:00:56 AM
Quote from: GRAND on July 25, 2016, 08:31:23 AM
I have to make new friends cause I'm moving to a new city :stressed:
But my bestie is moving there too!
:cheerup:
:uhh:
ssssssssssssssssss
Hey!
Quote from: Lazarus on July 25, 2016, 10:17:18 AM
Quote from: Gilgamesh. on July 25, 2016, 10:06:49 AM
Quote from: Magnolia Maymuru on July 25, 2016, 09:54:06 AM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 24, 2016, 09:14:42 PM
Quote from: Kaeli. on July 24, 2016, 09:13:15 PM
Now "Besties" is childish
Its kinda tomato/tamato imo. Same shit, all childish :dead:
!!!
I mean you have FRIENDS you love and appreciate, no need to rank them or add superlatives. And really if anything my "best friend" would me family.
well your family are kinda stuck witt you regardless, so i'm not suprised you consider them your best friends.
:omgwatshappening:
:plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop:
wtf
Quote from: BigDawg on July 24, 2016, 02:16:24 PM
we can go a month without talking...even tho we dont...and pickup like it's nothing.
These are the best friendships to me. I honestly don't have the time or energy to talk to people every single day. And as a grown man, I'm just not gonna sit on the phone and talk frequently. So I appreciate a low maintenance friend like that. My two closest friends are alot different than I am. I actually disliked them both before we became friends :dead: But because we're so different we've been able to expose each other to different shit and learn from each other.
Quote from: Gilgamesh. on July 25, 2016, 10:06:49 AM
Quote from: Magnolia Maymuru on July 25, 2016, 09:54:06 AM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 24, 2016, 09:14:42 PM
Quote from: Kaeli. on July 24, 2016, 09:13:15 PM
Now "Besties" is childish
Its kinda tomato/tamato imo. Same shit, all childish :dead:
!!!
I mean you have FRIENDS you love and appreciate, no need to rank them or add superlatives. And really if anything my "best friend" would be family.
well your family are kinda stuck witt you regardless, so i'm not suprised you consider them your best friends.
Well that's the point. Friends come and go. Family stays. I love my family more than anything in the world, like one should. I don't know what you were trying to say here or if you were being shady?
It'd be sad if strangers mean more than siblings tbh. But not anybody has that blessing either.
ive got 6 boys in rotation right now
2 of them are a friend mess
Quote from: Magnolia Maymuru on July 25, 2016, 09:58:58 PM
Quote from: Gilgamesh. on July 25, 2016, 10:06:49 AM
Quote from: Magnolia Maymuru on July 25, 2016, 09:54:06 AM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 24, 2016, 09:14:42 PM
Quote from: Kaeli. on July 24, 2016, 09:13:15 PM
Now "Besties" is childish
Its kinda tomato/tamato imo. Same shit, all childish :dead:
!!!
I mean you have FRIENDS you love and appreciate, no need to rank them or add superlatives. And really if anything my "best friend" would be family.
well your family are kinda stuck witt you regardless, so i'm not suprised you consider them your best friends.
Well that's the point. Friends come and go. Family stays.
None of this is necessarily true, just say u don't have any best friends and leave it at that :dead:
How do y'all go months without talking to someone ur really close to? N
Easy tbh :dead:
n
Weird
Quote from: FINE. on July 25, 2016, 10:08:42 PM
How do y'all go months without talking to someone ur really close to? N
How close are you then, if you let 4 months pass between talking nn
It's really easy when you both have alot going on. I don't necessarily go months without checking in. But a few weeks can happen easily
Doesn't best friend consitute one singular best friend?
I mean if you can have multiple best friends, than sure I have about 3. But that's not the same as a best friend.
I can see a couple weeks..a month the most. People get busy and mentally just somewhere else but if we're close I'm not gonna let too much time go by :dead:
Quote from: FINE. on July 25, 2016, 10:08:42 PM
How do y'all go months without talking to someone ur really close to? N
fffff
Most of these besties sound like associates, no shade.
People have multiple best friends? Interesting
Quote from: Drais. on July 25, 2016, 10:24:06 PM
People have multiple best friends? Interesting
Yea i definitely have 2 and i guess the lapse in talking thing makes sense when i think about it because i talk to them PRETTY MUCH everyday
I understand what Real is saying
If you and someone are truly friends, they'd understand time flies and we just all get busy
I could go weeks w/o talking to my bestie and as soon as we speak again, everything just picks up where it was left off
There are no Ill feelings. I know the dyke is busy with her mans and her job.
Quote from: GRAND on July 25, 2016, 10:28:15 PM
I understand what Real is saying
If you and someone are truly friends, they'd understand time flies and we just all get busy
I could go weeks w/o talking to my bestie and as soon as we speak again, everything just picks up where it was left off
There are no Ill feelings. I know the dyke is busy with her mans and her job.
!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Quote from: GRAND on July 25, 2016, 10:28:15 PM
I understand what Real is saying
If you and someone are truly friends, they'd understand time flies and we just all get busy
I could go weeks w/o talking to my bestie and as soon as we speak again, everything just picks up where it was left off
There are no Ill feelings. I know the dyke is busy with her mans and her job.
But this too. When we don't speak its never any love lost. As an adult, we understand people have relationships, kids, jobs, etc.
What do y'all consider a bestie cause ffff
IDK it's like the word aint matching up with some of these descriptions and scenarios in here. The only time I've gone months without speaking to someone is if we had some type of fallout. Yeah people get "busy" but honestly if you really wanna make time for someone you can.
If I'm really close to you and you're in my circle like that we're gonna be constantly communicating whether I deem you my bestie or not.
IDK maybe I take the term too literal. Y'all besties just sound like homeboys and homegirls y'all chill with every now and then.
Quote from: GRAND on July 25, 2016, 10:28:15 PM
I understand what Real is saying
If you and someone are truly friends, they'd understand time flies and we just all get busy
I could go weeks w/o talking to my bestie and as soon as we speak again, everything just picks up where it was left off
There are no Ill feelings. I know the dyke is busy with her mans and her job.
Yeah that's how it is and I love that.
I hit up a friend and I haven't talked to in a couple months this weekend and the reply was "oh wow. you remember me"....I didn't respond. I aint got time for that shit :dead:
Quote from: Drais. on July 25, 2016, 10:34:28 PM
What do y'all consider a bestie cause ffff
IDK it's like the word aint matching up with some of these descriptions and scenarios in here. The only time I've gone months without speaking to someone is if we had some type of fallout. Yeah people get "busy" but honestly if you really wanna make time for someone you can.
If I'm really close to you and you're in my circle like that we're gonna be constantly communicating whether I deem you my bestie or not.
IDK maybe I take the term too literal. Y'all besties just sound like homeboys and homegirls y'all chill with every now and then.
!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :dead: :dead:
I thought it was just me
Quote from: Drais. on July 25, 2016, 10:34:28 PM
What do y'all consider a bestie cause ffff
IDK it's like the word aint matching up with some of these descriptions and scenarios in here. The only time I've gone months without speaking to someone is if we had some type of fallout. Yeah people get "busy" but honestly if you really wanna make time for someone you can.
If I'm really close to you and you're in my circle like that we're gonna be constantly communicating whether I deem you my bestie or not.
IDK maybe I take the term too literal. Y'all besties just sound like homeboys and homegirls y'all chill with every now and then.
well for me
We've both gotten into our careers and have found significant others. The things I used to share with her, I share with someone else now.
And it's the same for her. Eventually you just have less things to talk about.
Still my girl though. :traciandchelle:
Quote from: GRAND on July 25, 2016, 10:36:40 PM
Quote from: Drais. on July 25, 2016, 10:34:28 PM
What do y'all consider a bestie cause ffff
IDK it's like the word aint matching up with some of these descriptions and scenarios in here. The only time I've gone months without speaking to someone is if we had some type of fallout. Yeah people get "busy" but honestly if you really wanna make time for someone you can.
If I'm really close to you and you're in my circle like that we're gonna be constantly communicating whether I deem you my bestie or not.
IDK maybe I take the term too literal. Y'all besties just sound like homeboys and homegirls y'all chill with every now and then.
well for me
We've both gotten into our careers and have found significant others. The things I used to share with her, I share with someone else now.
And it's the same for her. Eventually you just have less things to talk about.
Still my girl though. :traciandchelle:
Yeah it's not that unfathomable lol
Quote from: GRAND on July 25, 2016, 10:36:40 PM
Quote from: Drais. on July 25, 2016, 10:34:28 PM
What do y'all consider a bestie cause ffff
IDK it's like the word aint matching up with some of these descriptions and scenarios in here. The only time I've gone months without speaking to someone is if we had some type of fallout. Yeah people get "busy" but honestly if you really wanna make time for someone you can.
If I'm really close to you and you're in my circle like that we're gonna be constantly communicating whether I deem you my bestie or not.
IDK maybe I take the term too literal. Y'all besties just sound like homeboys and homegirls y'all chill with every now and then.
well for me
We've both gotten into our careers and have found significant others. The things I used to share with her, I share with someone else now.
And it's the same for her. Eventually you just have less things to talk about.
Still my girl though. :traciandchelle:
Yea, its really not that hard for this stuff to happen.
Quote from: Don Draper on July 25, 2016, 09:49:55 PM
Quote from: BigDawg on July 24, 2016, 02:16:24 PM
we can go a month without talking...even tho we dont...and pickup like it's nothing.
These are the best friendships to me. I honestly don't have the time or energy to talk to people every single day. And as a grown man, I'm just not gonna sit on the phone and talk frequently. So I appreciate a low maintenance friend like that. My two closest friends are alot different than I am. I actually disliked them both before we became friends :dead: But because we're so different we've been able to expose each other to different shit and learn from each other.
wooooo!! This >>>>>
Quote from: Don Draper on July 25, 2016, 10:12:01 PM
It's really easy when you both have alot going on. I don't necessarily go months without checking in. But a few weeks can happen easily
!!!! Easily. that ain't even that long
I can't have the friends that use constant contact as way to gauge how much you still care for them. That's too fucking much
Quote from: RIGGY on July 25, 2016, 10:46:31 PM
Quote from: Don Draper on July 25, 2016, 10:12:01 PM
It's really easy when you both have alot going on. I don't necessarily go months without checking in. But a few weeks can happen easily
!!!! Easily. that ain't even that long
I can't have the friends that use constant contact as way to gauge how much you still care for them. That's too fucking much
Makes me cringe tbh. We ain't fuckin, we're friends :mmyulost:
I think it depends on the closeness and each individual's views on friendship in general n
I make time for those who really matter to me. We don't have to have our mouths LATCHED to each other's ballsacks 24/7 but I'm not gonna let weeks/months go by before I reach out to my "best friend"
Quote from: GRAND on July 25, 2016, 10:36:40 PM
Quote from: Drais. on July 25, 2016, 10:34:28 PM
What do y'all consider a bestie cause ffff
IDK it's like the word aint matching up with some of these descriptions and scenarios in here. The only time I've gone months without speaking to someone is if we had some type of fallout. Yeah people get "busy" but honestly if you really wanna make time for someone you can.
If I'm really close to you and you're in my circle like that we're gonna be constantly communicating whether I deem you my bestie or not.
IDK maybe I take the term too literal. Y'all besties just sound like homeboys and homegirls y'all chill with every now and then.
well for me
We've both gotten into our careers and have found significant others. The things I used to share with her, I share with someone else now.
And it's the same for her. Eventually you just have less things to talk about.
Still my girl though. :traciandchelle:
Of course the dynamic of your relationship will change as you get older and life changes but isn't the main thing about having a bestie is being able to talk about stuff you can't with no on else?
I don't really think I have a "bestie" but I have a certain friend that I share all my tea whether I'm in a relationship or not.
Quote from: FINE. on July 25, 2016, 10:52:27 PM
I think it depends on the closeness and each individual's views on friendship in general n
I make time for those who really matter to me. We don't have to have our mouths LATCHED to each other's ballsacks 24/7 but I'm not gonna let weeks/months go by before I reach out to my "best friend"
Yeah I just take friendships very seriously.
I'm already very closed off and keep most people at a distance so the small chance I do meet someone I can fuck with I'm definitely gonna hold onto you. I'm very loyal and caring and I'm not just gonna leave anybody hanging for a long period of time.
I've seen friendships crumble because people go through a crisis and their "bestie" is MIA thinking everything is fine. Nah, that's not me.
Quote from: Drais. on July 25, 2016, 10:52:45 PM
Quote from: GRAND on July 25, 2016, 10:36:40 PM
Quote from: Drais. on July 25, 2016, 10:34:28 PM
What do y'all consider a bestie cause ffff
IDK it's like the word aint matching up with some of these descriptions and scenarios in here. The only time I've gone months without speaking to someone is if we had some type of fallout. Yeah people get "busy" but honestly if you really wanna make time for someone you can.
If I'm really close to you and you're in my circle like that we're gonna be constantly communicating whether I deem you my bestie or not.
IDK maybe I take the term too literal. Y'all besties just sound like homeboys and homegirls y'all chill with every now and then.
well for me
We've both gotten into our careers and have found significant others. The things I used to share with her, I share with someone else now.
And it's the same for her. Eventually you just have less things to talk about.
Still my girl though. :traciandchelle:
Of course the dynamic of your relationship will change as you get older and life changes but isn't the main thing about having a bestie is being able to talk about stuff you can't with no on else?
I don't really think I have a "bestie" but I have a certain friend that I share all my tea whether I'm in a relationship or not.
no we still share things that I don't tell him
Everyone just has a different view on relationships because I could not talk to this girl for a year and I'd still consider her family at this point.
There isn't a single person on this earth that i trust more.
Now that's the other thing I think that makes for a "best friend" .....even if we haven't spoken in a few weeks, if you hit me up and need something, I'm making it a priority.
Quote from: Drais. on July 25, 2016, 10:55:38 PM
Quote from: FINE. on July 25, 2016, 10:52:27 PM
I think it depends on the closeness and each individual's views on friendship in general n
I make time for those who really matter to me. We don't have to have our mouths LATCHED to each other's ballsacks 24/7 but I'm not gonna let weeks/months go by before I reach out to my "best friend"
Yeah I just take friendships very seriously.
I'm already very closed off and keep most people at a distance so the small chance I do meet someone I can fuck with I'm definitely gonna hold onto you. I'm very loyal and caring and I'm not just gonna leave anybody hanging for a long period of time.
I've seen friendships crumble because people go through a crisis and their "bestie" is MIA thinking everything is fine. Nah, that's not me.
BITCH
We are HERE ><
Quote from: GRAND on July 25, 2016, 10:57:49 PM
Quote from: Drais. on July 25, 2016, 10:52:45 PM
Quote from: GRAND on July 25, 2016, 10:36:40 PM
Quote from: Drais. on July 25, 2016, 10:34:28 PM
What do y'all consider a bestie cause ffff
IDK it's like the word aint matching up with some of these descriptions and scenarios in here. The only time I've gone months without speaking to someone is if we had some type of fallout. Yeah people get "busy" but honestly if you really wanna make time for someone you can.
If I'm really close to you and you're in my circle like that we're gonna be constantly communicating whether I deem you my bestie or not.
IDK maybe I take the term too literal. Y'all besties just sound like homeboys and homegirls y'all chill with every now and then.
well for me
We've both gotten into our careers and have found significant others. The things I used to share with her, I share with someone else now.
And it's the same for her. Eventually you just have less things to talk about.
Still my girl though. :traciandchelle:
Of course the dynamic of your relationship will change as you get older and life changes but isn't the main thing about having a bestie is being able to talk about stuff you can't with no on else?
I don't really think I have a "bestie" but I have a certain friend that I share all my tea whether I'm in a relationship or not.
no we still share things that I don't tell him
Everyone just has a different view on relationships because I could not talk to this girl for a year and I'd still consider her family at this point.
There isn't a single person on this earth that i trust more.
This is what I'm not understanding though gggggg
Why would you let so much time pass by?
Because were locked in
Once were best fcking friends, the bond can't be fcking broken :bvy:
I just don't take the word "friend" lightly
Wait I don't let months pass though
There's too much MESS to discuss
We don't go more than 2 weeks MAX
Quote from: GRAND on July 25, 2016, 11:03:41 PM
Wait I don't let months pass though
There's too much MESS to discuss
We don't go more than 2 weeks MAX
Boy wtf
If you don't GIT
And just imagining you having a best friend let's me know she must be pretty messed up in the head like you.
:omgwatshappening:
D F<MDSM<DFS
i was saying i can see how it happens
and yes, shes equally as evil as myself and the funniest person ive ever met
we were just cackling @ an old classmates kid today
ugh
luv that girl :traciandchelle:
I'm reevaluating my definition of bestfriends TBH
But honestly friends as a whole can be draining and those are the ones I can't really fuck with.. Like emotional friends.. I hate them.. They take too much out of me
I like easy friendships
d
Yea... I dont have to lay up on the phone with somebody every day to prove my love and loyalty to them. :dead: That stage in my life is over... and all of my friends pretty much get that, but I get where both sides are coming from. People grow up, people get families, people get busy.... but that friendship never dies. However... I feel like people make time for what they care about. Thats why sometimes even if I'm sleepy and dont feel like fucking talking on the phone (I hate talking on the phone), I still pick up.... just so you'll know I care.
But I'll text all day though. :dead:
n
Quote from: Trey on July 25, 2016, 11:28:31 PM
d
Yea... I dont have to lay up on the phone with somebody every day to prove my love and loyalty to them. :dead: That stage in my life is over... and all of my friends pretty much get that, but I get where both sides are coming from. People grow up, people get families, people get busy.... but that friendship never dies. However... I feel like people make time for what they care about. Thats why sometimes even if I'm sleepy and dont feel like fucking talking on the phone (I hate talking on the phone), I still pick up.... just so you'll know I care.
But I'll text all day though. :dead:
All of this
Quote from: Trey on July 25, 2016, 11:28:31 PM
d
Yea... I dont have to lay up on the phone with somebody every day to prove my love and loyalty to them.
Yea, except i am a phone person tho so when we do talk id like to talk. Im done with texts after a lil while
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 25, 2016, 11:34:03 PM
Quote from: Trey on July 25, 2016, 11:28:31 PM
d
Yea... I dont have to lay up on the phone with somebody every day to prove my love and loyalty to them.
Yea, except i am a phone person tho so when we do talk id like to talk. Im done with texts after a lil while
Honestly, I feel like the only reason I hate talking on the phone is because I give people my FULL attention. If I'm texting, I can still see wtf is happening on Hollywood Divas.
:ohwow:
Quote from: Trey on July 25, 2016, 11:43:25 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 25, 2016, 11:34:03 PM
Quote from: Trey on July 25, 2016, 11:28:31 PM
d
Yea... I dont have to lay up on the phone with somebody every day to prove my love and loyalty to them.
Yea, except i am a phone person tho so when we do talk id like to talk. Im done with texts after a lil while
Honestly, I feel like the only reason I hate talking on the phone is because I give people my FULL attention. If I'm texting, I can still see wtf is happening on Hollywood Divas.
:ohwow:
you're trash hun
Quote from: Trey on July 25, 2016, 11:43:25 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 25, 2016, 11:34:03 PM
Quote from: Trey on July 25, 2016, 11:28:31 PM
d
Yea... I dont have to lay up on the phone with somebody every day to prove my love and loyalty to them.
Yea, except i am a phone person tho so when we do talk id like to talk. Im done with texts after a lil while
Honestly, I feel like the only reason I hate talking on the phone is because I give people my FULL attention. If I'm texting, I can still see wtf is happening on Hollywood Divas.
:ohwow:
sdddddsssss
And that's Probably why i like talking. I kinda require your full attention.
n
Quote from: Drais. on July 25, 2016, 10:34:28 PM
What do y'all consider a bestie cause ffff
IDK it's like the word aint matching up with some of these descriptions and scenarios in here. The only time I've gone months without speaking to someone is if we had some type of fallout. Yeah people get "busy" but honestly if you really wanna make time for someone you can.
If I'm really close to you and you're in my circle like that we're gonna be constantly communicating whether I deem you my bestie or not.
IDK maybe I take the term too literal. Y'all besties just sound like homeboys and homegirls y'all chill with every now and then.
no, in my case its just that we live in two different areas, and over time, situations/circumstances can change in a hurry. But over the years up until now, we'd built a bond SO close that not even a few weeks or a couple months could really destroy it. When you truly understand each other's quirks and LIFE to a certain extent, you rarely take things personal and literally just pick up where you left off and catch each other up on all the changes and new happenings that have gone on while you were apart.
Im not saying its a fun little habit to ignore each other for 5-6 weeks at a time as if it's routine :dead: just that it isn't necessary to talk every day either, because we've been there done that. Its how we built the bond we have now in the first place. I wouldn't hate an every day thing, but i dont need it either.
I cant be friends with people who have emotional problems. I did and we were CLOSE. But he became so draining after his bf who is still currently my friend broke up with him. He kinda started to seem suicidal or some shit. Idk. It was weird. It felt like he was sucking the happiness outta me.
Quote from: RIGGY on July 26, 2016, 12:52:45 AM
Quote from: Drais. on July 25, 2016, 10:34:28 PM
What do y'all consider a bestie cause ffff
IDK it's like the word aint matching up with some of these descriptions and scenarios in here. The only time I've gone months without speaking to someone is if we had some type of fallout. Yeah people get "busy" but honestly if you really wanna make time for someone you can.
If I'm really close to you and you're in my circle like that we're gonna be constantly communicating whether I deem you my bestie or not.
IDK maybe I take the term too literal. Y'all besties just sound like homeboys and homegirls y'all chill with every now and then.
no, in my case its just that we live in two different areas, and over time, situations/circumstances can change in a hurry. But over the years up until now, we'd built a bond SO close that not even a few weeks or a couple months could really destroy it. When you truly understand each other's quirks and LIFE to a certain extent, you rarely take things personal and literally just pick up where you left off and catch each other up on all the changes and new happenings that have gone on while you were apart.
Im not saying its a fun little habit to ignore each other for 5-6 weeks at a time as if it's routine :dead: just that it isn't necessary to talk every day either, because we've been there done that. Its how we built the bond we have now in the first place. I wouldn't hate an every day thing, but i dont need it either.
!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! yes this.
Like my best friends are currently living in different states for school/work. So we it's hard to talk to each other every day. But when we do, it's like, we are back in college, just lounging around and just talking the shit. :stressed: :stressed:
Like, my parents go around and call my besties their children. We are just family at this point. They are better than some of my brothers and sister :stressed:
Quote from: MelMel on July 26, 2016, 01:03:17 AM
Like, my parents go around and call my besties their children. We are just family at this point. They are better than some of my brothers and sister :stressed:
!
Quote from: Drais. on July 25, 2016, 10:55:38 PM
Quote from: FINE. on July 25, 2016, 10:52:27 PM
I think it depends on the closeness and each individual's views on friendship in general n
I make time for those who really matter to me. We don't have to have our mouths LATCHED to each other's ballsacks 24/7 but I'm not gonna let weeks/months go by before I reach out to my "best friend"
Yeah I just take friendships very seriously.
I'm already very closed off and keep most people at a distance so the small chance I do meet someone I can fuck with I'm definitely gonna hold onto you. I'm very loyal and caring and I'm not just gonna leave anybody hanging for a long period of time.
I've seen friendships crumble because people go through a crisis and their "bestie" is MIA thinking everything is fine. Nah, that's not me.
!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! This is so me too.
Quote from: FINE. on July 25, 2016, 10:52:27 PM
I think it depends on the closeness and each individual's views on friendship in general n
I make time for those who really matter to me. We don't have to have our mouths LATCHED to each other's ballsacks 24/7 but I'm not gonna let weeks/months go by before I reach out to my "best friend"
yea texts here and there saying "hey i miss you!! Just checking in" are normal and happen often with me and mine
There's a balance, which I'm all about in general
What yawl talkin bout
Quote from: RIGGY on July 26, 2016, 12:52:45 AM
Quote from: Drais. on July 25, 2016, 10:34:28 PM
What do y'all consider a bestie cause ffff
IDK it's like the word aint matching up with some of these descriptions and scenarios in here. The only time I've gone months without speaking to someone is if we had some type of fallout. Yeah people get "busy" but honestly if you really wanna make time for someone you can.
If I'm really close to you and you're in my circle like that we're gonna be constantly communicating whether I deem you my bestie or not.
IDK maybe I take the term too literal. Y'all besties just sound like homeboys and homegirls y'all chill with every now and then.
no, in my case its just that we live in two different areas, and over time, situations/circumstances can change in a hurry. But over the years up until now, we'd built a bond SO close that not even a few weeks or a couple months could really destroy it. When you truly understand each other's quirks and LIFE to a certain extent, you rarely take things personal and literally just pick up where you left off and catch each other up on all the changes and new happenings that have gone on while you were apart.
Im not saying its a fun little habit to ignore each other for 5-6 weeks at a time as if it's routine :dead: just that it isn't necessary to talk every day either, because we've been there done that. Its how we built the bond we have now in the first place. I wouldn't hate an every day thing, but i dont need it either.
All I know is you're gonna talk to me everyday and you're gonna deal.
:ohwow:
Quote from: RIGGY on July 26, 2016, 12:52:45 AM
Quote from: Drais. on July 25, 2016, 10:34:28 PM
What do y'all consider a bestie cause ffff
IDK it's like the word aint matching up with some of these descriptions and scenarios in here. The only time I've gone months without speaking to someone is if we had some type of fallout. Yeah people get "busy" but honestly if you really wanna make time for someone you can.
If I'm really close to you and you're in my circle like that we're gonna be constantly communicating whether I deem you my bestie or not.
IDK maybe I take the term too literal. Y'all besties just sound like homeboys and homegirls y'all chill with every now and then.
no, in my case its just that we live in two different areas, and over time, situations/circumstances can change in a hurry. But over the years up until now, we'd built a bond SO close that not even a few weeks or a couple months could really destroy it. When you truly understand each other's quirks and LIFE to a certain extent, you rarely take things personal and literally just pick up where you left off and catch each other up on all the changes and new happenings that have gone on while you were apart.
Im not saying its a fun little habit to ignore each other for 5-6 weeks at a time as if it's routine :dead: just that it isn't necessary to talk every day either, because we've been there done that. Its how we built the bond we have now in the first place. I wouldn't hate an every day thing, but i dont need it either.
Yes to this.
There's times when you can only talk here and there.
Text here and there, due to a random long week or something.
It's not a consistent habit.
But things don't get weird when happens, with your besties.
That's the best kind of friendship to have.
Furthermore, it's fun to CATCH up with all the foolishness that took place during the week.
:plzstop:
Quote from: Drais. on July 26, 2016, 01:19:23 AM
Quote from: RIGGY on July 26, 2016, 12:52:45 AM
Quote from: Drais. on July 25, 2016, 10:34:28 PM
What do y'all consider a bestie cause ffff
IDK it's like the word aint matching up with some of these descriptions and scenarios in here. The only time I've gone months without speaking to someone is if we had some type of fallout. Yeah people get "busy" but honestly if you really wanna make time for someone you can.
If I'm really close to you and you're in my circle like that we're gonna be constantly communicating whether I deem you my bestie or not.
IDK maybe I take the term too literal. Y'all besties just sound like homeboys and homegirls y'all chill with every now and then.
no, in my case its just that we live in two different areas, and over time, situations/circumstances can change in a hurry. But over the years up until now, we'd built a bond SO close that not even a few weeks or a couple months could really destroy it. When you truly understand each other's quirks and LIFE to a certain extent, you rarely take things personal and literally just pick up where you left off and catch each other up on all the changes and new happenings that have gone on while you were apart.
Im not saying its a fun little habit to ignore each other for 5-6 weeks at a time as if it's routine :dead: just that it isn't necessary to talk every day either, because we've been there done that. Its how we built the bond we have now in the first place. I wouldn't hate an every day thing, but i dont need it either.
All I know is you're gonna talk to me everyday and you're gonna deal.
:ohwow:
Lol.
A cute "night love" is common with your bestie if u can't have full convos.
Also, when we're dating others, there's nights where we can't talk much cause...
:ohwow:
Quote from: Don Draper on July 25, 2016, 10:58:48 PM
Now that's the other thing I think that makes for a "best friend" .....even if we haven't spoken in a few weeks, if you hit me up and need something, I'm making it a priority.
!!!!! let's not get it twisted :dead: y'all are taking it to the extreme. doesn't mean we're all
ignoring our friends
Just confident in the bonds we've made over time. I'll drop any and everything for the people I love
Quote from: RIGGY on July 26, 2016, 01:31:13 AM
Quote from: Don Draper on July 25, 2016, 10:58:48 PM
Now that's the other thing I think that makes for a "best friend" .....even if we haven't spoken in a few weeks, if you hit me up and need something, I'm making it a priority.
!!!!! let's not get it twisted :dead: y'all are taking it to the extreme. doesn't mean we're all ignoring our friends
Just confident in the bonds we've made over time. I'll drop any and everything for the people I love
s
So yea, Drais is right anyone sporadically talking to their "BFF" should probably reconsider calling them BFF.
Quote from: Ralf on July 26, 2016, 01:19:42 AM
Quote from: RIGGY on July 26, 2016, 12:52:45 AM
Quote from: Drais. on July 25, 2016, 10:34:28 PM
What do y'all consider a bestie cause ffff
IDK it's like the word aint matching up with some of these descriptions and scenarios in here. The only time I've gone months without speaking to someone is if we had some type of fallout. Yeah people get "busy" but honestly if you really wanna make time for someone you can.
If I'm really close to you and you're in my circle like that we're gonna be constantly communicating whether I deem you my bestie or not.
IDK maybe I take the term too literal. Y'all besties just sound like homeboys and homegirls y'all chill with every now and then.
no, in my case its just that we live in two different areas, and over time, situations/circumstances can change in a hurry. But over the years up until now, we'd built a bond SO close that not even a few weeks or a couple months could really destroy it. When you truly understand each other's quirks and LIFE to a certain extent, you rarely take things personal and literally just pick up where you left off and catch each other up on all the changes and new happenings that have gone on while you were apart.
Im not saying its a fun little habit to ignore each other for 5-6 weeks at a time as if it's routine :dead: just that it isn't necessary to talk every day either, because we've been there done that. Its how we built the bond we have now in the first place. I wouldn't hate an every day thing, but i dont need it either.
Yes to this.
There's times when you can only talk here and there.
Text here and there, due to a random long week or something.
It's not a consistent habit.
But things don't get weird when happens, with your besties.
That's the best kind of friendship to have.
Furthermore, it's fun to CATCH up with all the foolishness that took place during the week.
:plzstop:
omg ddfffff catching up after a few days and hearing all the MESS >
:kii:
Quote from: RIGGY on July 26, 2016, 01:36:26 AM
Quote from: Ralf on July 26, 2016, 01:19:42 AM
Quote from: RIGGY on July 26, 2016, 12:52:45 AM
Quote from: Drais. on July 25, 2016, 10:34:28 PM
What do y'all consider a bestie cause ffff
IDK it's like the word aint matching up with some of these descriptions and scenarios in here. The only time I've gone months without speaking to someone is if we had some type of fallout. Yeah people get "busy" but honestly if you really wanna make time for someone you can.
If I'm really close to you and you're in my circle like that we're gonna be constantly communicating whether I deem you my bestie or not.
IDK maybe I take the term too literal. Y'all besties just sound like homeboys and homegirls y'all chill with every now and then.
no, in my case its just that we live in two different areas, and over time, situations/circumstances can change in a hurry. But over the years up until now, we'd built a bond SO close that not even a few weeks or a couple months could really destroy it. When you truly understand each other's quirks and LIFE to a certain extent, you rarely take things personal and literally just pick up where you left off and catch each other up on all the changes and new happenings that have gone on while you were apart.
Im not saying its a fun little habit to ignore each other for 5-6 weeks at a time as if it's routine :dead: just that it isn't necessary to talk every day either, because we've been there done that. Its how we built the bond we have now in the first place. I wouldn't hate an every day thing, but i dont need it either.
Yes to this.
There's times when you can only talk here and there.
Text here and there, due to a random long week or something.
It's not a consistent habit.
But things don't get weird when happens, with your besties.
That's the best kind of friendship to have.
Furthermore, it's fun to CATCH up with all the foolishness that took place during the week.
:plzstop:
omg ddfffff catching up after a few days and hearing all the MESS >
:kii:
Yes
:kii:
Ch!!
What did your boyfriend do to you nowz?!
:nowgorl:
some of you are ridiculous passing judgments on someone elses friendship cause it doesn't suit what your friendship goals are everyone has their needs
life moves us in different directions and we grow and change and have different needs and priorities as our lives go on
but if you have a best friend they are going to be there through it all
if you have a seasonal friend it will tapor off
if you have friends for certain occasions then thats that
but real friends if you go a while without speaking and sutn happen they can call you up and u be like bishhh whats tea
and boom
i know i cannot deal with anyone needy clingy or not having anything going for themselves
fucking draining
ive cut my friends like that
but nehoo
yeah
Yeah I don't know if people I don't talk to for months and months aren't just friends instead of "best friends"...
I think you have best friends for different seasons and stages in your life.
Quote from: RIGGY on July 26, 2016, 01:36:26 AM
Quote from: Ralf on July 26, 2016, 01:19:42 AM
Quote from: RIGGY on July 26, 2016, 12:52:45 AM
Quote from: Drais. on July 25, 2016, 10:34:28 PM
What do y'all consider a bestie cause ffff
IDK it's like the word aint matching up with some of these descriptions and scenarios in here. The only time I've gone months without speaking to someone is if we had some type of fallout. Yeah people get "busy" but honestly if you really wanna make time for someone you can.
If I'm really close to you and you're in my circle like that we're gonna be constantly communicating whether I deem you my bestie or not.
IDK maybe I take the term too literal. Y'all besties just sound like homeboys and homegirls y'all chill with every now and then.
no, in my case its just that we live in two different areas, and over time, situations/circumstances can change in a hurry. But over the years up until now, we'd built a bond SO close that not even a few weeks or a couple months could really destroy it. When you truly understand each other's quirks and LIFE to a certain extent, you rarely take things personal and literally just pick up where you left off and catch each other up on all the changes and new happenings that have gone on while you were apart.
Im not saying its a fun little habit to ignore each other for 5-6 weeks at a time as if it's routine :dead: just that it isn't necessary to talk every day either, because we've been there done that. Its how we built the bond we have now in the first place. I wouldn't hate an every day thing, but i dont need it either.
Yes to this.
There's times when you can only talk here and there.
Text here and there, due to a random long week or something.
It's not a consistent habit.
But things don't get weird when happens, with your besties.
That's the best kind of friendship to have.
Furthermore, it's fun to CATCH up with all the foolishness that took place during the week.
:plzstop:
omg ddfffff catching up after a few days and hearing all the MESS >
:kii:
This sounds like me and Theo fffffff
Quote from: TheNextLew on July 26, 2016, 06:54:16 AM
some of you are ridiculous passing judgments on someone elses friendship cause it doesn't suit what your friendship goals are everyone has their needs
!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I looooooove Theo :loose2when: :loose2when: :loose2when:
His story telling >>>>>>>>>>>>
:stressed:
Quote from: RIGGY on July 26, 2016, 12:52:45 AM
Quote from: Drais. on July 25, 2016, 10:34:28 PM
What do y'all consider a bestie cause ffff
IDK it's like the word aint matching up with some of these descriptions and scenarios in here. The only time I've gone months without speaking to someone is if we had some type of fallout. Yeah people get "busy" but honestly if you really wanna make time for someone you can.
If I'm really close to you and you're in my circle like that we're gonna be constantly communicating whether I deem you my bestie or not.
IDK maybe I take the term too literal. Y'all besties just sound like homeboys and homegirls y'all chill with every now and then.
no, in my case its just that we live in two different areas, and over time, situations/circumstances can change in a hurry. But over the years up until now, we'd built a bond SO close that not even a few weeks or a couple months could really destroy it. When you truly understand each other's quirks and LIFE to a certain extent, you rarely take things personal and literally just pick up where you left off and catch each other up on all the changes and new happenings that have gone on while you were apart.
Im not saying its a fun little habit to ignore each other for 5-6 weeks at a time as if it's routine :dead: just that it isn't necessary to talk every day either, because we've been there done that. Its how we built the bond we have now in the first place. I wouldn't hate an every day thing, but i dont need it either.
>>>><<<<
I moved across that country recently and circumstances just changed...
Why is this pinned
So we can tell everyone how we're best friends real
:traciandchelle:
with benefits
Don't let may find out. He'd be devastated.
:raycharles2urmess:
You can have him luv. I been done.
Monk >>>
(https://uploadir.com/u/8c3z1qk0)
(https://uploadir.com/u/8c3z1qk0)
Must be "Claim men who don't acknowledge you" month.
:roflmao:
Every month for Day
Boy fuck you.
And stay out my PMs
(https://uploadir.com/u/8c3z1qk0)
Quote from: imani on July 26, 2016, 01:36:02 AM
s
So yea, Drais is right anyone sporadically talking to their "BFF" should probably reconsider calling them BFF.
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Honestly yeah
Wish I did maybe things would have been a lot different for me
Quote from: 1stsecuritybank on July 26, 2016, 01:33:06 PM
Wish I did maybe things would have been a lot different for me
:'(
Quote from: 'lock on July 26, 2016, 02:10:48 PM
Quote from: 1stsecuritybank on July 26, 2016, 01:33:06 PM
Wish I did maybe things would have been a lot different for me
:'(
Hugs I love u Glock n hope to meet u in real life one day
Quote from: 1stsecuritybank on July 26, 2016, 01:33:06 PM
Wish I did maybe things would have been a lot different for me
hhhhhh
:kii:
?
text me Glock 9012681009😘
:plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop:
There is an important chemistry between my three best friends and myself. We are all each other best friends. I really could not imagine life without these dummies. We all couldn't be more different in personality. We have the Responsible one, the Athlete, the Slut (myself), the Shy/Insecure one, and the "Celebrity." I love our dynamic because when we fight we get into heated discussions but at the end of it all we tell each other we love each other.
We all met at this orgy and it kinda clicked from there. I love my guys.
Omg this last page. Lord forgive me. My sides hurt
Quote from: Don Draper on July 26, 2016, 02:42:58 PM
Omg this last page. Lord forgive me. My sides hurt
nnnnnnnnnnn tears
Glock baby u gonna text me I really wanna hear your voice please
Quote from: Margeaux. on July 26, 2016, 02:42:19 PM
There is an important chemistry between my three best friends and myself. We are all each other best friends. I really could not imagine life without these dummies. We all couldn't be more different in personality. We have the Responsible one, the Athlete, the Slut (myself), the Shy/Insecure one, and the "Celebrity." I love our dynamic because when we fight we get into heated discussions but at the end of it all we tell each other we love each other.
We all met at this orgy and it kinda clicked from there. I love my guys.
The way u unapologetically own this :plzstop:
jffjf
Quote from: Margeaux. on July 26, 2016, 02:42:19 PM
There is an important chemistry between my three best friends and myself. We are all each other best friends. I really could not imagine life without these dummies. We all couldn't be more different in personality. We have the Responsible one, the Athlete, the Slut (myself), the Shy/Insecure one, and the "Celebrity." I love our dynamic because when we fight we get into heated discussions but at the end of it all we tell each other we love each other.
We all met at this orgy and it kinda clicked from there. I love my guys.
:kii: :kii: :kii: :kii:
U are really something else
Quote from: 1stsecuritybank on July 26, 2016, 02:43:55 PM
Glock baby u gonna text me I really wanna hear your voice please
BOY :kii:
These parody accounts
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 26, 2016, 02:46:42 PM
Quote from: 1stsecuritybank on July 26, 2016, 02:43:55 PM
Glock baby u gonna text me I really wanna hear your voice please
BOY :kii:
No u mean MAN. Glock I wish I met u in Atlanta u woulda loved me. I'm shy but woulda def showed u how us Mississippi guys get down
:kii:
what the world
Just sent my nudes to that number
Quote from: GRAND on July 26, 2016, 02:59:11 PM
Just sent my nudes to that number
That's a lie bby cus it's my phone n I'm using it now as I don't have a computer anymore. It was stolen in Atlanta
Quote from: Margeaux. on July 26, 2016, 02:42:19 PM
There is an important chemistry between my three best friends and myself. We are all each other best friends. I really could not imagine life without these dummies. We all couldn't be more different in personality. We have the Responsible one, the Athlete, the Slut (myself), the Shy/Insecure one, and the "Celebrity." I love our dynamic because when we fight we get into heated discussions but at the end of it all we tell each other we love each other.
We all met at this orgy and it kinda clicked from there. I love my guys.
(http://i.imgur.com/xt18JNv.gif)
what the ...
vvgvfffffffffffffffffffffffffff
Glock I'm not trolling please text or call me
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 26, 2016, 02:46:10 PM
Quote from: Margeaux. on July 26, 2016, 02:42:19 PM
There is an important chemistry between my three best friends and myself. We are all each other best friends. I really could not imagine life without these dummies. We all couldn't be more different in personality. We have the Responsible one, the Athlete, the Slut (myself), the Shy/Insecure one, and the "Celebrity." I love our dynamic because when we fight we get into heated discussions but at the end of it all we tell each other we love each other.
We all met at this orgy and it kinda clicked from there. I love my guys.
:kii: :kii: :kii: :kii:
U are really something else
:plzstop:
Quote from: 1stsecuritybank on July 26, 2016, 02:50:01 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 26, 2016, 02:46:42 PM
Quote from: 1stsecuritybank on July 26, 2016, 02:43:55 PM
Glock baby u gonna text me I really wanna hear your voice please
BOY :kii:
No u mean MAN. Glock I wish I met u in Atlanta u woulda loved me. I'm shy but woulda def showed u how us Mississippi guys get down
:plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop:
That damn auto correct. I meant we met Organic 😏
sdsdsg
gorl
just as aidy as ever
I have a best friend it's so scary we think alike but other than that we are totally opposite to each other.
Quote from: Poseidon on July 25, 2016, 10:11:01 PM
Quote from: FINE. on July 25, 2016, 10:08:42 PM
How do y'all go months without talking to someone ur really close to? N
How close are you then, if you let 4 months pass between talking nn
fhjjkdd
Still weird to me tbh
Quote from: Andrais. on July 19, 2018, 06:30:04 PM
Quote from: Poseidon on July 25, 2016, 10:11:01 PM
Quote from: FINE. on July 25, 2016, 10:08:42 PM
How do y'all go months without talking to someone ur really close to? N
How close are you then, if you let 4 months pass between talking nn
fhjjkdd
Still weird to me tbh
NNNHGFDDDFFVBBCCVBBVv
Life! Busy!
Y?all aren?t friends.
dhjjjkkkfdffgggggggggfgggggggggggggggffggg
Quote from: CREAM. on July 19, 2018, 06:32:37 PM
Quote from: Andrais. on July 19, 2018, 06:30:04 PM
Quote from: Poseidon on July 25, 2016, 10:11:01 PM
Quote from: FINE. on July 25, 2016, 10:08:42 PM
How do y'all go months without talking to someone ur really close to? N
How close are you then, if you let 4 months pass between talking nn
fhjjkdd
Still weird to me tbh
NNNHGFDDDFFVBBCCVBBVv
Life! Busy!
Y?all aren?t friends.
!
:rudone:
Omg at this being two years ago
Sjjsjjhshhshhv
Time fucking flies
Damn lemme hit up my bestie
Been a minute
Quote from: Ambiguous on July 19, 2018, 06:52:43 PM
Wow! Would ya look at that!
Boy I will KILL u and hide your remains in Newark.
KKKJJJJJGFFFDDDSFGGJJKKJJHGFFGGGFFFFFFFFGGHJHHGTTFfghhhhg
Bitch fuck you
Quote from: Ambiguous on July 19, 2018, 06:52:43 PM
Wow! Would ya look at that!
Boy I will KILL u and hide your remains in Newark.
wtf
should I alert the authorities?
:guys:
Right.
I?m...scared
:guys:
R u jefferey dahmer
Quote from: Ambiguous on July 19, 2018, 07:07:13 PM
Quote from: Cartier on July 19, 2018, 06:53:19 PM
Quote from: Ambiguous on July 19, 2018, 06:52:43 PM
Wow! Would ya look at that!
Boy I will KILL u and hide your remains in Newark.
wtf
should I alert the authorities?
:guys:
:cheerup: May-bee
(https://78.media.tumblr.com/3e4e44a16403c017713edbe5731ed7a3/tumblr_ml5gfzq5h01r6xpd0o1_500.jpg)
m
Honey the Newark bout to jump out in a sec
Ain?t been there in a while. LOL!
Quote from: CREAM. on July 19, 2018, 06:51:48 PM
Damn lemme hit up my bestie
Been a minute
fffjjjkdddddd
Now that you mention it I haven't talked to mine since Lemonade came out.
I think I'll text him when Lion King comes out next yr
Quote from: CREAM. on July 19, 2018, 07:18:05 PM
Honey the Newark bout to jump out in a sec
Ain?t been there in a while. LOL!
vcvvvbgbgffffggfgf
Y'all still alnt talked to y'all besties?
:diddraispoot:
Im waiting for him to just stick his dick in me already tbh
Ugh.
my threads >>
We like a lot of the same music.
Love to travel etc. similar life experiences
I def feel in most of my friendships they keep me grounded n down to earth. When my bffs aint around to chin check me my high maintenance level goes to the max.
One thing thats unique with my bffs is that we never argue or have any fall outs. We kinda been cool for decades. I just aim to make all moments fun n good energy #NoTime4Mess
Another interesting mess is we all between 6'2 and 6'4 ...no napoleons in my clique
damn this is 3 years old?
yeah, my bestie and i are damns soul mates
shes the ONLY person ive never had a disagreement with that im close with :dead:
we just.... CLICK
Actually there is 1 that is under 6 ft.
He not on bff level tho more of frenemie turned good friend over the last 3-4 years.
We kind of just shade each other and never really acknowledge the others accomplishments
I'll text her that I got a promotion and then she'll text me how she just got a new car
She'll text me a pic of her bby and I'll text her a new pair of boots I just bought
But that's why I lover her.