I just wanna know sdddddddddddddd
It seems like the gorls are okay w/ being the sideline of some DL trade with a wife, kids/ other significant others
It seems like the gorls are okay with just fckn anybody and whenever as long as Prep is in hand
It seems like the gorls are okay with being gay to an extent but you can't be too fem or its unattractive-- and many are still learning to accept trans
It seems like the gorls are okay with very shallow views on life/dating/ interactions with others and don't really care to navigate through life on a deeper and more emotionally connected level
Among other observations I've made
So where is the line drawn?
Are the gorls okay with pedophilia a bit--as long as it isn't too edgy?
Are the gorls okay with having sponsors and people take care of them in exchange for giving booch and mess?
Are the gorls okay with Grindr being so sexually driven and hard to find someone to actually DATE?
I mean--do gays even believe REAL gay love (and the like) can exist?
Are we okay with the level of perversion circling around the community (and culture as a whole of course) and how we've almost become desensitized to it?
Do we believe that two same-sex parents can successfully raise a sane, happy, and productive member of society? A family?
Are we happy with the community as a whole?
Sometimes I just wonder.......while I pray of course.
:ummwhat:
Go AWF luv!!
vvvvvvvv
I just look at the community and my heart is in shambles
Truly . Maybe it?s because I hopelessly just wish and want more for us.
But I dunno maybe I?m very unrealistic
:ohwow: :ohwow: :ohwow: :ohwow:
snsnsnsnsssss
Sorry yawl if it seems random
Lew?s post in that other thread really set me off
And this isn?t about him per say but it was the final straw mess
The truth is so powerful..nothing but facts in your post bby ..now if the gorls choose to listen or not..that's on them.
What is "Real gay love" ? :ummwhat:
Quote from: Baph Perdomo. on November 05, 2018, 11:06:46 AM
What is "Real gay love" ? :ummwhat:
Something you'll never have so stop trying to understand.
Quote from: Baph Perdomo. on November 05, 2018, 11:06:46 AM
What is "Real gay love" ? :ummwhat:
Same sex individuals who truly love eachother and have devoted their lives to loving eachother through thick and thin . REALLY.
Quote from: BowDown on November 05, 2018, 11:07:14 AM
Quote from: Baph Perdomo. on November 05, 2018, 11:06:46 AM
What is "Real gay love" ? :ummwhat:
Something you'll never have so stop trying to understand.
(http://i64.tinypic.com/2rhphqr.jpg)
Quote from: Young on November 05, 2018, 10:52:59 AM
I just wanna know sdddddddddddddd
It seems like the gorls are okay w/ being the sideline of some DL trade with a wife, kids/ other significant others
It seems like the gorls are okay with just fckn anybody and whenever as long as Prep is in hand
It seems like the gorls are okay with being gay to an extent but you can't be too fem or its unattractive-- and many are still learning to accept trans
It seems like the gorls are okay with very shallow views on life/dating/ interactions with others and don't really care to navigate through life on a deeper and more emotionally connected level
Among other observations I've made
So where is the line drawn?
Are the gorls okay with pedophilia a bit--as long as it isn't too edgy?
Are the gorls okay with Grindr being so sexually driven and hard to find someone to actually DATE?
Are we okay with the level of perversion circling around the community (and culture as a whole of course) and how we've almost become desensitized to it?
Are we happy with the community as a whole?
Its funny because I was gonna post in the random thread today about how I wish gay men (especially black gay men) didn't learn to see themselves as sexual beings and nothing more most times. I think that has a lot to do with the first couple of posts.
The pedophilia mess is FUCKIN WILD to me. I know how it was when we were growing up young and gay and having old niggas try to get us. Now im starting to see that some of my friends--or former friends-- are becoming predators now. I legit had someone I was close with tell me they try to get with younger dudes(18-23) cause they're gullible and let you do anything to them, this nigga is 33. Havent talked to his trash self since and we were cool for almost a decade.
Hate our community most times but ya still gotta stand up for it
Quote from: Young on November 05, 2018, 11:08:21 AM
Quote from: Baph Perdomo. on November 05, 2018, 11:06:46 AM
What is "Real gay love" ? :ummwhat:
Same sex individuals who truly love eachother and have devoted their lives to loving eachother through thick and thin . REALLY.
It doesn't exist. It's hard for a man and a woman to make a relationship work..two faggots? That's a recipe for disaster. This, of course, doesn't apply to any of us here though. We the upper echelon of gay.
QuoteAre the gorls okay with having sponsors and people take care of them in exchange for giving booch and mess?
Are the gorls okay with Grindr being so sexually driven and hard to find someone to actually DATE?
this isn't exclusive to gays.
edit: and the app for Straights is Tinder.
I don't really think all of the things are exclusive to gay men but men in general: just driven by sex.
And I posted that before I saw the post before me.
Tea
Although i'll say that this isn't exclusive to us
There are a lot of homewreckers, side chicks/dudes, & trashy people out there regardless of gender or sexuality
We just need to do better
Quote from: Baph Perdomo. on November 05, 2018, 11:12:11 AM
QuoteAre the gorls okay with having sponsors and people take care of them in exchange for giving booch and mess?
Are the gorls okay with Grindr being so sexually driven and hard to find someone to actually DATE?
this isn't exclusive to gays.
edit: and the app for Straights is Tinder.
d
instead of trying to find a fallacy you can just contribute ya know?
:mmyulost:
Quote from: Kurama on November 05, 2018, 11:10:40 AM
Quote from: Young on November 05, 2018, 10:52:59 AM
I just wanna know sdddddddddddddd
It seems like the gorls are okay w/ being the sideline of some DL trade with a wife, kids/ other significant others
It seems like the gorls are okay with just fckn anybody and whenever as long as Prep is in hand
It seems like the gorls are okay with being gay to an extent but you can't be too fem or its unattractive-- and many are still learning to accept trans
It seems like the gorls are okay with very shallow views on life/dating/ interactions with others and don't really care to navigate through life on a deeper and more emotionally connected level
Among other observations I've made
So where is the line drawn?
Are the gorls okay with pedophilia a bit--as long as it isn't too edgy?
Are the gorls okay with Grindr being so sexually driven and hard to find someone to actually DATE?
Are we okay with the level of perversion circling around the community (and culture as a whole of course) and how we've almost become desensitized to it?
Are we happy with the community as a whole?
Its funny because I was gonna post in the random thread today about how I wish gay men (especially black gay men) didn't learn to see themselves as sexual beings and nothing more most times. I think that has a lot to do with the first couple of posts.
The pedophilia mess is FUCKIN WILD to me. I know how it was when we were growing up young and gay and having old niggas try to get us. Now im starting to see that some of my friends--or former friends-- are becoming predators now. I legit had someone I was close with tell me they try to get with younger dudes(18-23) cause they're gullible and let you do anything to them, this nigga is 33. Havent talked to his trash self since and we were cool for almost a decade.
Hate our community most times but ya still gotta stand up for it
Wooooo chile...I just..
This is crazy
I mean, most of these issues aren?t really exclusive to the queer community and I don?t think anyone has the definitive answer to solve it all.
I will say that I think it?s important that we arm younger black gays with all the self assurance and confidence they can possibly have. I learned a lot about navigating this world through my friendships with older gay men.
Quote from: Baph Perdomo. on November 05, 2018, 11:12:11 AM
QuoteAre the gorls okay with having sponsors and people take care of them in exchange for giving booch and mess?
Are the gorls okay with Grindr being so sexually driven and hard to find someone to actually DATE?
this isn't exclusive to gays.
edit: and the app for Straights is Tinder.
That's why I said the desensitization of sex/sexuality of a whole isn't just a gay thing
I agree
Quote from: Freeruu on November 05, 2018, 11:14:11 AM
Tea
Although i'll say that this isn't exclusive to us
There are a lot of homewreckers, side chicks/dudes, & trashy people out there regardless of gender or sexuality
We just need to do better
This is true too
Quote from: Kurama on November 05, 2018, 11:14:46 AM
Quote from: Baph Perdomo. on November 05, 2018, 11:12:11 AM
QuoteAre the gorls okay with having sponsors and people take care of them in exchange for giving booch and mess?
Are the gorls okay with Grindr being so sexually driven and hard to find someone to actually DATE?
this isn't exclusive to gays.
edit: and the app for Straights is Tinder.
d
instead of trying to find a fallacy you can just contribute ya know?
:mmyulost:
sddddddddddddddddddddddddddddd
Quote from: ANIMMAI on November 05, 2018, 11:18:31 AM
I mean, most of these issues aren?t really exclusive to the queer community and I don?t think anyone has the definitive answer to solve it all.
I will say that I think it?s important that we arm younger black gays with all the self assurance and confidence they can possibly have. I learned a lot about navigating this world through my friendships with older gay men.
What did you learn from older gays?
And we should probably stop viewing queer relationships under a heteronormative lens or emulating some outdated nuclear family structure.
I think it's definitely important to be aware of your community
For myself, I have some gay friends, however my closest friends are straight. And not to sound judgmental but its due to a lot of people within the community falling prey to a lot of what I talked about in the OP. Especially the shallow part.
Quote from: Bloody Tears on November 05, 2018, 11:11:46 AM
Quote from: Young on November 05, 2018, 11:08:21 AM
Quote from: Baph Perdomo. on November 05, 2018, 11:06:46 AM
What is "Real gay love" ? :ummwhat:
Same sex individuals who truly love eachother and have devoted their lives to loving eachother through thick and thin . REALLY.
It doesn't exist. It's hard for a man and a woman to make a relationship work..two faggots? That's a recipe for disaster. This, of course, doesn't apply to any of us here though. We the upper echelon of gay.
(https://media.giphy.com/media/l0HlvtIPzPdt2usKs/200.gif)
Quote from: BowDown on November 05, 2018, 11:19:40 AM
Quote from: ANIMMAI on November 05, 2018, 11:18:31 AM
I mean, most of these issues aren?t really exclusive to the queer community and I don?t think anyone has the definitive answer to solve it all.
I will say that I think it?s important that we arm younger black gays with all the self assurance and confidence they can possibly have. I learned a lot about navigating this world through my friendships with older gay men.
What did you learn from older gays?
Avoiding certain toxic relationships, learning how to being a better friend, the importance of self validation, emotional intelligence etc;
I have a great relationship with my father, but there are certain aspects of my life that he (or any other straight man) would never be able to relate to or empathize with.
Quote from: ANIMMAI on November 05, 2018, 11:18:31 AM
I mean, most of these issues aren?t really exclusive to the queer community and I don?t think anyone has the definitive answer to solve it all.
I will say that I think it?s important that we arm younger black gays with all the self assurance and confidence they can possibly have. I learned a lot about navigating this world through my friendships with older gay men.
Faghot , don't all orientations this.
I want to hear from ya!
:ohwow:
Quote from: Forever Indian on November 05, 2018, 11:19:35 AM
I think there's no way in hell to really address Black gay issues without addressing Black issues first.
!!!
tbh I wasn't trying to pin it down to race also, but you're right about that. For the black gay community its two different battles.
Quote from: ANIMMAI on November 05, 2018, 11:20:14 AM
And we should probably stop viewing queer relationships under a heteronormative lens or emulating some outdated nuclear family structure.
Can you expound a bit on this?
Quote from: ANIMMAI on November 05, 2018, 11:23:06 AM
Quote from: BowDown on November 05, 2018, 11:19:40 AM
Quote from: ANIMMAI on November 05, 2018, 11:18:31 AM
I mean, most of these issues aren?t really exclusive to the queer community and I don?t think anyone has the definitive answer to solve it all.
I will say that I think it?s important that we arm younger black gays with all the self assurance and confidence they can possibly have. I learned a lot about navigating this world through my friendships with older gay men.
What did you learn from older gays?
Avoiding certain toxic relationships, learning how to being a better friend, the importance of self validation, emotional intelligence etc;
I have a great relationship with my father, but there are certain aspects of my life that he (or any other straight man) would never be able to relate to or empathize with.
ack! I wish I had a davi. I also feel like your HEALTHY relationship with another man sort of assisted in you discovering gay older men who had sense. That's a rare experience for most of us.
:damselindistress:
Quote from: ANIMMAI on November 05, 2018, 11:23:06 AM
Quote from: BowDown on November 05, 2018, 11:19:40 AM
Quote from: ANIMMAI on November 05, 2018, 11:18:31 AM
I mean, most of these issues aren?t really exclusive to the queer community and I don?t think anyone has the definitive answer to solve it all.
I will say that I think it?s important that we arm younger black gays with all the self assurance and confidence they can possibly have. I learned a lot about navigating this world through my friendships with older gay men.
What did you learn from older gays?
Avoiding certain toxic relationships, learning how to being a better friend, the importance of self validation, emotional intelligence etc;
I have a great relationship with my father, but there are certain aspects of my life that he (or any other straight man) would never be able to relate to or empathize with.
That's pretty interesting. I feel like a lot of gay men have many gay associates but very few gay friends let alone older gay friends. Sounds extremely beneficial..
Yummy is probably talking about how gays (white/black/etc) get into the whole "Top/Bottom" and using as gender roles.
Like the Male and Female relationship. Trying to emulate heterosexual archetypes.
Quote from: Young on November 05, 2018, 11:24:17 AM
Quote from: ANIMMAI on November 05, 2018, 11:20:14 AM
And we should probably stop viewing queer relationships under a heteronormative lens or emulating some outdated nuclear family structure.
Can you expound a bit on this?
Well, I?ve never been gung-ho about the notion that marriage and children should be something that EVERYONE should aspire to partake in. And relationship oriented fags love to assume that someone who is single or prefers to date around is promiscuous or having sex with multiple partners because of some past trauma. And I think it has a lot to do with some gays idolizing heterosexual relationships and wanting to live up some false standard of normalcy.
Quote from: Forever Indian on November 05, 2018, 11:11:24 AM
Honestly, I'm really not too concerned with the "gay community".
Hope that doesn't sound mean or anything but it's real.
I am most concerned with the state of the Black community right now - especially financially.
Have been thinking of silent ways that I can help.
Being a "WOO WOO FIGHT THE POWER" type of activist really isn't something fitting for my personality, but my thoughts are to use anything that God has given me in a way that will help and inspire my people.
And I recently became a member of the Cherokee Historical Society - to help maintain history and an identity that some people may have preferred be washed away, forgotten or LOST.
But , power to the glow sticks and stuff.
ccccc
I know what you mean to an extent sis.
Tbh I don't really label myself much or play a super active role in the LGBT community.
And I know I should. However I do feel like if you belong to a certain group of people, you feel for the issues they face a bit more.
And force you to even look at yourself in ways.
Definitely agree with what you said about helping the black community too. I want to start banking black for starters.
Quote from: Baph Perdomo. on November 05, 2018, 11:29:06 AM
Yummy is probably talking about how gays (white/black/etc) get into the whole "Top/Bottom" and using as gender roles.
Like the Male and Female relationship. Trying to emulate heterosexual archetypes.
This too...but I don?t wanna dictate how other people exist in their relationships. If you and your partner are comfortable with roles then more power to the both of you, but don?t expect everyone else to be on that.
This is hot, keep talking guys lolz.
Quote from: BowDown on November 05, 2018, 11:27:12 AM
Quote from: ANIMMAI on November 05, 2018, 11:23:06 AM
Quote from: BowDown on November 05, 2018, 11:19:40 AM
Quote from: ANIMMAI on November 05, 2018, 11:18:31 AM
I mean, most of these issues aren?t really exclusive to the queer community and I don?t think anyone has the definitive answer to solve it all.
I will say that I think it?s important that we arm younger black gays with all the self assurance and confidence they can possibly have. I learned a lot about navigating this world through my friendships with older gay men.
What did you learn from older gays?
Avoiding certain toxic relationships, learning how to being a better friend, the importance of self validation, emotional intelligence etc;
I have a great relationship with my father, but there are certain aspects of my life that he (or any other straight man) would never be able to relate to or empathize with.
That's pretty interesting. I feel like a lot of gay men have many gay associates but very few gay friends let alone older gay friends. Sounds extremely beneficial..
!!!!!
I don't have a CLOSE middle aged gay friend like that--but I'd love one
I do have a lesbian couple about 10 years my senior and we have really REALLY good red table discussions. We'll sit at dinner for hours and kii and talk soul to soul
Quote from: Forever Indian on November 05, 2018, 11:31:06 AM
I see what Yummy's getting at - even down to the traditional wedding and mess.
A ceremony originally built for a bride and groom.
It kinda boggles me. Your union isn't "traditional", why should your wedding be? :omf:
But I always consider that maybe that's their dream mess. I dunno.
Right, and a lot of that traces back to my other point of self validation. A lot of gays are so desperate for acceptance and spend too much worrying about being seen as ?normal?.
You?re a faggot, they will never see you as their equal. Get over it and get on with your life.
:udontlookok:
So where is the line drawn?
Are the gorls okay with pedophilia a bit--as long as it isn't too edgy? What? :uhh:
Are the gorls okay with having sponsors and people take care of them in exchange for giving booch and mess? I don't think this is a "Gay" issue, some people want less for themselves.
Are the gorls okay with Grindr being so sexually driven and hard to find someone to actually DATE? Yes because that's the purpose of the app. Ain't no one looking for their forever on Grindr - I hope.
I mean--do gays even believe REAL gay love (and the like) can exist? Yes. However, I think Men in general don't put relationships as priority or life goal the way women do. I also think a lot of Gay men use their sexuality as an excuse for a lack of commitment.
Are we okay with the level of perversion circling around the community (and culture as a whole of course) and how we've almost become desensitized to it? Can't relate cause y'all Americans are on some other ish.
Do we believe that two same-sex parents can successfully raise a sane, happy, and productive member of society? A family? Yes but I personally wouldn't want to raise a child without a strong female influence.
Are we happy with the community as a whole? Again, the UK scene is different but I think it's gotten a lot better. I think the younger generation here are more conscious of their actions and have sense of fearlessness that my generation (30+) lacked.
Quote from: Baph Perdomo. on November 05, 2018, 11:29:06 AM
Yummy is probably talking about how gays (white/black/etc) get into the whole "Top/Bottom" and using as gender roles.
Like the Male and Female relationship. Trying to emulate heterosexual archetypes.
Well I think it's more so a discussion of finding someone who is compatible for YOU.
And yes, from a LGBT standpoint, it's much more complex. In which, gender roles shouldn't really be a THING anyway tbh .
But when you KNOW yourself on a deeper level, you can find someone who fits you like a hand in glove and you can have long, lasting love.
That convo can go much deeper about what that all means and what each person identifies as, but I most certainly believe you can be the same sex as your partner and live a committed life with a family and the whole 9, done much like the way we see traditionally.
Quote from: ANIMMAI on November 05, 2018, 11:36:58 AM
Quote from: Forever Indian on November 05, 2018, 11:31:06 AM
I see what Yummy's getting at - even down to the traditional wedding and mess.
A ceremony originally built for a bride and groom.
It kinda boggles me. Your union isn't "traditional", why should your wedding be? :omf:
But I always consider that maybe that's their dream mess. I dunno.
Right, and a lot of that traces back to my other point of self validation. A lot of gays are so desperate for acceptance and spend too much worrying about being seen as ?normal?.
You?re a faggot, they will never see you as their equal. Get over it and get on with your life.
:udontlookok:
!!!!!
Not trying to derail but this is a parallel between Blacks & Whites. Or any subgroup with the dominant group tbh.
And another thing, I?m tired of seeing fags whining bout other folks? preferences. You?re not going to guilt or shame anyone into finding you attractive. Maybe that person is dealing with some shallowness or self hate issues, but quit acting like you actually care about that and aren?t really just upset that the sexual attraction isn?t recriprocated.
(http://i489.photobucket.com/albums/rr257/breakforever/myGIFS/sinnyshitsonu.gif)
Quote from: ANIMMAI on November 05, 2018, 11:29:29 AM
Quote from: Young on November 05, 2018, 11:24:17 AM
Quote from: ANIMMAI on November 05, 2018, 11:20:14 AM
And we should probably stop viewing queer relationships under a heteronormative lens or emulating some outdated nuclear family structure.
Can you expound a bit on this?
Well, I?ve never been gung-ho about the notion that marriage and children should be something that EVERYONE should aspire to partake in. And relationship oriented fags love to assume that someone who is single or prefers to date around is promiscuous or having sex with multiple partners because of some past trauma. And I think it has a lot to do with some gays idolizing heterosexual relationships and wanting to live up some false standard of normalcy.
I get what you mean to an extent. And that's true-- not everyone cares to have kids, get married etc.
Which is totally fine.
But are you also saying you don't believe it's true at all?-- to have a successful life-long lasting gay/same-sex relationship regardless of the specificities of how they operate?
Quote from: ANIMMAI on November 05, 2018, 11:32:03 AM
Quote from: Baph Perdomo. on November 05, 2018, 11:29:06 AM
Yummy is probably talking about how gays (white/black/etc) get into the whole "Top/Bottom" and using as gender roles.
Like the Male and Female relationship. Trying to emulate heterosexual archetypes.
This too...but I don?t wanna dictate how other people exist in their relationships. If you and your partner are comfortable with roles then more power to the both of you, but don?t expect everyone else to be on that.
Hmmm...I see what you mean
Quote from: Young on November 05, 2018, 11:46:32 AM
Quote from: ANIMMAI on November 05, 2018, 11:29:29 AM
Quote from: Young on November 05, 2018, 11:24:17 AM
Quote from: ANIMMAI on November 05, 2018, 11:20:14 AM
And we should probably stop viewing queer relationships under a heteronormative lens or emulating some outdated nuclear family structure.
Can you expound a bit on this?
Well, I?ve never been gung-ho about the notion that marriage and children should be something that EVERYONE should aspire to partake in. And relationship oriented fags love to assume that someone who is single or prefers to date around is promiscuous or having sex with multiple partners because of some past trauma. And I think it has a lot to do with some gays idolizing heterosexual relationships and wanting to live up some false standard of normalcy.
I get what you mean to an extent. And that's true-- not everyone cares to have kids, get married etc.
Which is totally fine.
But are you also saying you don't believe it's true at all?-- to have a successful life-long lasting gay/same-sex relationship regardless of the specificities of how they operate?
Of course not, I know a lot of gay couple in long term relationships. I just don?t think everyone is emotionally equipped for it.
almost there guys :ohwow:
Quote from: ANIMMAI on November 05, 2018, 11:44:04 AM
And another thing, I?m tired of seeing fags whining bout other folks? preferences. You?re not going to guilt or shame anyone into finding you attractive. Maybe that person is dealing with some shallowness or self hate issues, but quit acting like you actually care about that and aren?t really just upset that the sexual attraction isn?t recriprocated.
(http://i489.photobucket.com/albums/rr257/breakforever/myGIFS/sinnyshitsonu.gif)
dssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss
This is true too--if you aint cute, you might wanna work on that
But gorls the community as a whole is SHALLOW
Quote from: Gilgamesh. on November 05, 2018, 11:37:56 AM
So where is the line drawn?
Are the gorls okay with pedophilia a bit--as long as it isn't too edgy? What? :uhh:
Are the gorls okay with having sponsors and people take care of them in exchange for giving booch and mess? I don't think this is a "Gay" issue, some people want less for themselves.
Are the gorls okay with Grindr being so sexually driven and hard to find someone to actually DATE? Yes because that's the purpose of the app. Ain't no one looking for their forever on Grindr - I hope.
I mean--do gays even believe REAL gay love (and the like) can exist? Yes. However, I think Men in general don't put relationships as priority or life goal the way women do. I also think a lot of Gay men use their sexuality as an excuse for a lack of commitment.
Are we okay with the level of perversion circling around the community (and culture as a whole of course) and how we've almost become desensitized to it? Can't relate cause y'all Americans are on some other ish.
Do we believe that two same-sex parents can successfully raise a sane, happy, and productive member of society? A family? Yes but I personally wouldn't want to raise a child without a strong female influence.
Are we happy with the community as a whole? Again, the UK scene is different but I think it's gotten a lot better. I think the younger generation here are more conscious of their actions and have sense of fearlessness that my generation (30+) lacked.
Beautiful input.
I felt like the topic was getting diluted a bit into a "gay love! vs Str8 love!" thing--when what spun this topic originally was because the community is a fckn mess. flat tf OWT.
I'm just trying to get a better understanding as to why that is.
:shannonsmissing:
I like what Bre said a while ago about black and brown men needing to lie to survive, lying to themselves, peer groups, family, friends ect about who they are, it becomes 2nd nature to them, and it sometimes is the reason why romantic relationships break down
Quote from: WTF on November 05, 2018, 12:02:21 PM
I like what Bre said a while ago about black and brown men needing lie to survive, lying to themselves, peer groups, family, friends ect about who they are, it becomes 2nd nature to them, and it sometimes is the reasons why romantic relationships break down
woah
Now you hit on some mess for sure :young:
Quote from: Young on November 05, 2018, 10:59:39 AM
vvvvvvvv
I just look at the community and my heart is in shambles
Truly . Maybe it?s because I hopelessly just wish and want more for us.
But I dunno maybe I?m very unrealistic
Also could mean that you envy these gorls :justabit:
Quote from: Forever Indian on November 05, 2018, 12:04:49 PM
And I do find it interesting when Black people don't really prefer their own kind
But as long as they're not purposely doing some "HEAR YE HEAR YE!!!!" mess to announce it....
To each his own.
This is just my personal thought-- but I don't think anyone should ever "prefer" someone outside of their race.
With that being said having no preference at all is totally fine.
Quote from: BrokenHeartsHeal on November 05, 2018, 12:08:17 PM
Quote from: Young on November 05, 2018, 10:59:39 AM
vvvvvvvv
I just look at the community and my heart is in shambles
Truly . Maybe it?s because I hopelessly just wish and want more for us.
But I dunno maybe I?m very unrealistic
Also could mean that you envy these gorls :justabit:
envy who?
(http://i64.tinypic.com/2rhphqr.jpg)
Quote from: Forever Indian on November 05, 2018, 12:10:18 PM
Quote from: Young on November 05, 2018, 12:08:35 PM
Quote from: Forever Indian on November 05, 2018, 12:04:49 PM
And I do find it interesting when Black people don't really prefer their own kind
But as long as they're not purposely doing some "HEAR YE HEAR YE!!!!" mess to announce it....
To each his own.
This is just my personal thought-- but I don't think anyone should ever "prefer" someone outside of their race.
With that being said having no preference at all is totally fine.
Agreed.
I find beauty in all men - Black, White, Hispanic, Asian, whatever. :cheerup: But there's just something about a Black man that feels like home.
Always will.
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Quote from: WTF on November 05, 2018, 12:02:21 PM
I like what Bre said a while ago about black and brown men needing to lie to survive, lying to themselves, peer groups, family, friends ect about who they are, it becomes 2nd nature to them, and it sometimes is the reason why romantic relationships break down
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wow faggots are the fuck terrible, huh?
Sounds like y?all hang around the wrong kinda people lol But I do find fems ewww.
tha gay commun' is a mess
frm an outsiders POV lookin' in ...yall are trash.
Quote from: Ulysses on November 05, 2018, 01:48:26 PM
Sounds like y?all hang around the wrong kinda people lol But I do find fems ewww.
Why
Quote from: my liddo top dolla ho on November 05, 2018, 01:52:21 PM
tha gay commun' is a mess
frm an outsiders POV lookin' in ...yall are trash.
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Quote from: Ulysses on November 05, 2018, 01:48:26 PM
Sounds like y?all hang around the wrong kinda people lol But I do find fems ewww.
QuoteIt seems like the gorls are okay with being gay to an extent but you can't be too fem or its unattractive--
QuoteAre we happy with the community as a whole?
:mmywheresddy:
Fuck the community
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I can?t do a pierced dick mess
That?s bout it
Quote from: Forever Indian on November 05, 2018, 03:39:40 PM
Quote from: Glock on November 05, 2018, 03:05:20 PM
Fuck the community
The community fucked my husband
I see why
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Quote from: Choke on November 05, 2018, 03:36:40 PM
I can?t do a pierced dick mess
That?s bout it
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Gays would be in a much better position if they all had the same views as Choke tbh.
All gays are not the same so it bothers me to see people say "Fem Gays are ewww" Let me correct that and say some personality traits of some GAY men are ewww and imo most guys who think they're so "Masculine" and "Straight acting" have the same attributes and qualities of a Feminine gay. Real "Straight men" just do. They don't have to pretend. If that makes sense.
It?s just how I feel. Everyone has preferences. And I?m also not saying to be overly masculine. I?m not shaming them either, just would never f*ck with them.
everyone should just die
much easier that way
When you come for Beyonce. Anything else fucking GOES, it seems.
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Be nice guys. Different experiences, different perspectives. All good
Quote from: Kurama on November 05, 2018, 05:18:02 PM
Be nice guys. Different experiences, different perspectives. All good
Quote from: Young on November 05, 2018, 10:59:39 AM
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I just look at the community and my heart is in shambles
Truly . Maybe it?s because I hopelessly just wish and want more for us.
But I dunno maybe I?m very unrealistic
bbbhhhhhhhh i thought someone sucked ur mans dick or something
This is crazy
Quote from: 1RIG on November 05, 2018, 05:22:22 PM
Quote from: Young on November 05, 2018, 10:59:39 AM
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I just look at the community and my heart is in shambles
Truly . Maybe it?s because I hopelessly just wish and want more for us.
But I dunno maybe I?m very unrealistic
bbbhhhhhhhh i thought someone sucked ur mans dick or something
This is crazy
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You know the fuck what :plzstop:
Quote from: Trey on November 05, 2018, 05:10:18 PM
When you come for Beyonce. Anything else fucking GOES, it seems.
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what is the problem?
I believe in real and true gay love. But in this day and age where everything is so fast and at your finger tips. You can see where it'll be hard for guys to settle down and build a life together. It's sad because many of us will grow old, miserable and most likely alone.
And at some point I was okay with being the side guy for the married, DL and/or guy with the significant other. But then I realized I'm not getting anything from that. After a quick fuck and rump on the beach or some secluded hill top. They go back home to their own lives. And I'm dropped off at home. And left alone in an empty bed.
We have to draw the line somewhere. So I just stopped with those type of guys.
Quote from: Kurama on November 05, 2018, 05:18:02 PM
Be nice guys. Different experiences, different perspectives. All good
im sick of you always trying to tell me what to fucking DO. Let?s just start THERE
Quote from: Forever Indian on November 05, 2018, 06:28:48 PM
Quote from: Blackpantha on November 05, 2018, 06:17:02 PM
I believe in real and true gay love. But in this day and age where everything is so fast and at your finger tips. You can see where it'll be hard for guys to settle down and build a life together. It's sad because many of us will grow old, miserable and most likely alone.
And at some point I was okay with being the side guy for the married, DL and/or guy with the significant other. But then I realized I'm not getting anything from that. After a quick fuck and rump on the beach or some secluded hill top. They go back home to their own lives. And I'm dropped off at home. And left alone in an empty bed.
We have to draw the line somewhere. So I just stopped with those type of guys.
:guys:
I think it also comes with age
I mean if you're looking for nothing more than a quickie, who cares if someone's married or involved tbh :omf:
But to be strung along with some sort of hope for something more....kinda sad.
Pump your brakes hunty. No one said anything about being strung out. Did you read anything about being strung out in my post?
Did you just accuse him of being on food stamps?
What kind of gays are y'all around wtf.
This thread title mfmc
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I agree young. Gays are disgusting.
I'll read the OP in a bit
Quote from: Blackpantha on November 05, 2018, 06:17:02 PM
I believe in real and true gay love. But in this day and age where everything is so fast and at your finger tips. You can see where it'll be hard for guys to settle down and build a life together. It's sad because many of us will grow old, miserable and most likely alone.
And at some point I was okay with being the side guy for the married, DL and/or guy with the significant other. But then I realized I'm not getting anything from that. After a quick fuck and rump on the beach or some secluded hill top. They go back home to their own lives. And I'm dropped off at home. And left alone in an empty bed.
We have to draw the line somewhere. So I just stopped with those type of guys.
Love the honesty in this post
Quote from: Forever Indian on November 05, 2018, 06:28:48 PM
Quote from: Blackpantha on November 05, 2018, 06:17:02 PM
I believe in real and true gay love. But in this day and age where everything is so fast and at your finger tips. You can see where it'll be hard for guys to settle down and build a life together. It's sad because many of us will grow old, miserable and most likely alone.
And at some point I was okay with being the side guy for the married, DL and/or guy with the significant other. But then I realized I'm not getting anything from that. After a quick fuck and rump on the beach or some secluded hill top. They go back home to their own lives. And I'm dropped off at home. And left alone in an empty bed.
We have to draw the line somewhere. So I just stopped with those type of guys.
I mean if you're looking for nothing more than a quickie, who cares if someone's married or involved tbh :omf:
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Quote from: Forever Indian on November 05, 2018, 07:12:40 PM
I didn't say that was your story :guys:
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Quote from: Forever Indian on November 05, 2018, 11:11:24 AM
Honestly, I'm really not too concerned with the "gay community".
Reported.
Quote from: Trey on November 05, 2018, 06:25:02 PM
Quote from: Kurama on November 05, 2018, 05:18:02 PM
Be nice guys. Different experiences, different perspectives. All good
im sick of you always trying to tell me what to fucking DO. Let?s just start THERE
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:letsmessfag:
Quote from: Forever Indian on November 05, 2018, 11:11:24 AM
Honestly, I'm really not too concerned with the "gay community".
This tbh
I just mind my business and focus on myself because I don't relate to most of the people I meet in the community.
There's not really a definitive answer for any of this either.
Because you're bored? The song is slaying the charts.
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https://twitter.com/tlrd/status/1058753755166978048
^o)
Quote from: Baph Perdomo. on November 06, 2018, 01:52:39 AM
https://twitter.com/tlrd/status/1058753755166978048
^o)
kill them all
Quote from: Forever Indian on November 05, 2018, 09:26:29 PM
Quote from: LOONA. on November 05, 2018, 09:23:59 PM
Quote from: Forever Indian on November 05, 2018, 11:11:24 AM
Honestly, I'm really not too concerned with the "gay community".
This tbh
I just mind my business and focus on myself because I don't relate to most of the people I meet in the community.
There's not really a definitive answer for any of this either.
Beautiful.
Now get your ASS in that fucking Top 10 egg thread.
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Quote from: Baph Perdomo. on November 06, 2018, 01:52:39 AM
https://twitter.com/tlrd/status/1058753755166978048
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Why is his throupling infuriate you all? Weren?t you just talking about overcoming heterosexual norms?
:ummwhat:
is this even normal for heteros
Quote from: WTF on November 06, 2018, 12:39:20 PM
is this even normal for heteros
That?s my point though: gays have an issue with it
because it?s not a heterosexual norm.
:blink:
it shouldn't be a norm for anyone tbfh
and frankee is just an attention seeker, no one takes this serious
But they said to kill them ALL. :unsure:
Yh
Can we get back to discussing Black GBT folks now?
Quote from: BowDown on November 06, 2018, 12:41:02 PM
Quote from: WTF on November 06, 2018, 12:39:20 PM
is this even normal for heteros
That?s my point though: gays have an issue with it because it?s not a heterosexual norm.
huh
Quote from: Kurama on November 06, 2018, 12:55:41 PM
Can we get back to discussing Black GBT folks now?
Did you see the preview for the new Fuck House scene? :ohwow: Hotrod is back
Quote from: ANIMMAI on November 06, 2018, 01:48:56 PM
Quote from: Kurama on November 06, 2018, 12:55:41 PM
Can we get back to discussing Black GBT folks now?
Did you see the preview for the new Fuck House scene? :ohwow: Hotrod is back
Wait...King said he was done....lemme just go take a peek :ohwow: :ohwow: :ohwow:
getting Aidy
All my fave Black gay porn stars looked wash. No one ever looks good after a few years. yuck! :unsure:
ssss
This is what it?s comes to in here huh
:melmel:
Quote from: Young on November 06, 2018, 03:22:54 PM
ssss
This is what it?s comes to in here huh
:melmel:
fags tbh
Quote from: Baph Perdomo. on November 06, 2018, 04:09:09 PM
Quote from: Young on November 06, 2018, 03:22:54 PM
ssss
This is what it?s comes to in here huh
:melmel:
fags tbh
*he says as he opens each link in a new tab from the boochie thread*
What was said?
Quote from: WTF on November 06, 2018, 04:38:21 PM
Quote from: Baph Perdomo. on November 06, 2018, 04:09:09 PM
Quote from: Young on November 06, 2018, 03:22:54 PM
ssss
This is what it?s comes to in here huh
:melmel:
fags tbh
*he says as he opens each link in a new tab from the boochie thread*
Not anything with HotAids in the vid im not
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