Honesty Hour: If someone is willing to have sex with you or does on the 1st date

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GLOCK

Quote from: GRAND on August 13, 2016, 01:45:04 PM
Quote from: 'lock on August 13, 2016, 01:37:57 PM
Quote from: GRAND on August 13, 2016, 01:36:12 PM
Quote from: 'lock on August 13, 2016, 01:29:18 PM
To Tons point .. That's sorta true
If both ppl have the same outlook on it then I can see it def working
But if one person doesn't quite believe in it ... Then I can see why one wouldn't get a call back
I've never had feelings for someone who wasn't sexually aggressive or mannish

:dead: :dead: :dead:

I'm going to tell you day one that I think you're attractive

So that's the hint right there that I'm not shy, so you better not be either



But if someone wants to wait that's fine. I usually don't mesh well with those folks
What prevents you guys from meshing well tho?
The fact that u didn't get to bust one?

Or the fact that u two have 2 different perspectives on sex in terms when to get it cracking?
the couple of people I've fallen for had the same views as myself.  :dead: :dead:

I'm not saying I can't have a connection with someone who believe in waiting, I'm saying I haven't.

I'm not going to throw myself at someone who clearly isn't trying to have sex. Anyway, it's usually fags trying to flirt with me because believe it or not, I give a sexually SHY mess initially
:plzstop:
Dont want anyone to know I'm thinking about stripping them naked while were watching Batman vs Superman

bxbxbb

I give a shy-OWT as well
But when I fully get comfortable.... The mess is apparent

Kurama

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I don't like anyone being too forward during the courtship phase, period.

yummy

the whole 90 day rule/virginal act is played. if the chemistry is there and you're both consenting then dew.

and I've never understood the idea that sex 'too soon' somehow weakens a relationship. if that's the case, maybe there wasn't anything more than a sexual attraction from jump.

Kurama

Quote from: 'lock on August 13, 2016, 01:47:31 PM
Quote from: GRAND on August 13, 2016, 01:45:04 PM
Quote from: 'lock on August 13, 2016, 01:37:57 PM
Quote from: GRAND on August 13, 2016, 01:36:12 PM
Quote from: 'lock on August 13, 2016, 01:29:18 PM
To Tons point .. That's sorta true
If both ppl have the same outlook on it then I can see it def working
But if one person doesn't quite believe in it ... Then I can see why one wouldn't get a call back
I've never had feelings for someone who wasn't sexually aggressive or mannish

:dead: :dead: :dead:

I'm going to tell you day one that I think you're attractive

So that's the hint right there that I'm not shy, so you better not be either



But if someone wants to wait that's fine. I usually don't mesh well with those folks
What prevents you guys from meshing well tho?
The fact that u didn't get to bust one?

Or the fact that u two have 2 different perspectives on sex in terms when to get it cracking?
the couple of people I've fallen for had the same views as myself.  :dead: :dead:

I'm not saying I can't have a connection with someone who believe in waiting, I'm saying I haven't.

I'm not going to throw myself at someone who clearly isn't trying to have sex. Anyway, it's usually fags trying to flirt with me because believe it or not, I give a sexually SHY mess initially
:plzstop:
Dont want anyone to know I'm thinking about stripping them naked while were watching Batman vs Superman

bxbxbb

I give a shy-OWT as well
But when I fully get comfortable.... The mess is apparent


No one believes either one of you


Opposites Attract.

Quote from: Kurama on August 13, 2016, 01:34:29 PM
Sometimes building a lil tension is more arousing then going straight for the mess right off the bat

thats just me tho


Then when you gotta get creative. You can't possibly have the same sex over and over.



It's unconditional, these days you know....

Cartierline

Quote from: Vonc2002 on August 13, 2016, 01:45:59 PM
OH YEA, I kinda dont like when u THROW it at me. Look, im the agressor. I wanna flirt my way into the undies
whenever u get that one person thats like Fuck me. FUCK ME NOW! :fuming:
Im kinda like :uhh: :calmdownsis:
and  turned off a bit tbh :dead:
ssssssssss !!!


If it DOES happen on the first date, it has to be natural.


Vonc2002

Quote from: ANIMMAI on August 13, 2016, 01:48:00 PM
the whole 90 day rule/virginal act is played. if the chemistry is there and you're both consenting then dew.

and I've never understood the idea that sex 'too soon' somehow weakens a relationship. if that's the case, maybe there wasn't anything more than a sexual attraction from jump.
BOOM!
Where is that girl holding that jug of juice when u need it :dead:
This is my pass to say WHATEVER tf I wanna say about the mess she releases so I don't wanna hear SHIT! Baby mama is a mess of a song btw





GRAND

Quote from: Kurama on August 13, 2016, 01:48:02 PM
Quote from: 'lock on August 13, 2016, 01:47:31 PM
Quote from: GRAND on August 13, 2016, 01:45:04 PM
Quote from: 'lock on August 13, 2016, 01:37:57 PM
Quote from: GRAND on August 13, 2016, 01:36:12 PM
Quote from: 'lock on August 13, 2016, 01:29:18 PM
To Tons point .. That's sorta true
If both ppl have the same outlook on it then I can see it def working
But if one person doesn't quite believe in it ... Then I can see why one wouldn't get a call back
I've never had feelings for someone who wasn't sexually aggressive or mannish

:dead: :dead: :dead:

I'm going to tell you day one that I think you're attractive

So that's the hint right there that I'm not shy, so you better not be either



But if someone wants to wait that's fine. I usually don't mesh well with those folks
What prevents you guys from meshing well tho?
The fact that u didn't get to bust one?

Or the fact that u two have 2 different perspectives on sex in terms when to get it cracking?
the couple of people I've fallen for had the same views as myself.  :dead: :dead:

I'm not saying I can't have a connection with someone who believe in waiting, I'm saying I haven't.

I'm not going to throw myself at someone who clearly isn't trying to have sex. Anyway, it's usually fags trying to flirt with me because believe it or not, I give a sexually SHY mess initially
:plzstop:
Dont want anyone to know I'm thinking about stripping them naked while were watching Batman vs Superman

bxbxbb

I give a shy-OWT as well
But when I fully get comfortable.... The mess is apparent


No one believes either one of you


XCCCX

Well/ hun I'm aware people think less of those that Fck on the first date

So just because I will fuck, doesn't mean I advertise it

Don't want anyone finding out I'm a whore


Opposites Attract.

Quote from: Vonc2002 on August 13, 2016, 01:45:59 PM
OH YEA, I kinda dont like when u THROW it at me. Look, im the agressor. I wanna flirt my way into the undies
whenever u get that one person thats like Fuck me. FUCK ME NOW! :fuming:
Im kinda like :uhh: :calmdownsis:
and  turned off a bit tbh :dead:

I'm that type. If I'm expecting dick then that's what I want. If I want to fuck and you keep telling me no we're done.



It's unconditional, these days you know....

GRAND


Lazarus

If its your thing by all means carry on. No judgement on my behalf.


Opposites Attract.

Quote from: ANIMMAI on August 13, 2016, 01:48:00 PM
the whole 90 day rule/virginal act is played. if the chemistry is there and you're both consenting then dew.

and I've never understood the idea that sex 'too soon' somehow weakens a relationship. if that's the case, maybe there wasn't anything more than a sexual attraction from jump.

!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!



It's unconditional, these days you know....

GRAND

My current love kept gazing in my eyes and wore basketball shorts on the first day we hung out

He knew what he was doin



And boom, we're coming up on our anniversary

So you never know