Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it! (Part 2 Update added)

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FRANCE

Whew!

James is messy as fuck. How u gon walk up to somebody's man and introduce yourself to them like that? Instead of waiting for YOU to do the honours, if you even cared to do that? And all the shit he was sayin. Nah man. Im sure there's a reason why he's "new in town". Bestie? He's the killer!

GRAND ETERNAL SUPREME

Quote from: Tonkaman on July 14, 2019, 01:45:35 AM
Yeah I don't like James.  :uhh: gotta watch him, seems he tryna get close to one of yall...

HUGO

What company is this making y'all pay for your own meals for a work outing?

:diddraispoot:

Barbie Dangerous

July 14, 2019, 08:47:51 AM #513 Last Edit: July 14, 2019, 09:00:24 AM by BowDown
Quote from: Hugo on July 14, 2019, 08:46:46 AM
What company is this making y'all pay for your own meals for a work outing?

:diddraispoot:
Sounds like co-workers decided to get together but they misinterpreted as a meeting..


HUGO

Quote from: BowDown on July 14, 2019, 08:47:51 AM
Quote from: Hugo on July 14, 2019, 08:46:46 AM
What company is this making y'all pay for your own meals for a work outing?

:diddraispoot:
Sounds like co-workers decided to get together but they thought it was misinterpretation as a meeting..

ff
I see
:dead:

oph.

Quote from: THE' LEE-HILL on July 14, 2019, 09:27:24 AM
Ok ok, can we get Matt's take on recent events,  I'm want both sides of the story/opinions

:ohwow:

fghhhhh not a guest spot cameo mess

RatherBe

Quote from: THE' LEE-HILL on July 14, 2019, 09:27:24 AM
Ok ok, can we get Matt's take on recent events,  I'm wanting both sides of the story/opinions

:ohwow:
Lol I'll have him log on. He keeps saying he's gonna make an account.



MelMel

Quote from: AJ on July 14, 2019, 01:25:05 AM
PART 1

WHEW bitch, its been close to 3 years since this mess initially jumped down.

honestly I stopped posting shit because.... there was no "stories" to tell per say and then also real life started hitting us and I really didnt think we was gonna make it for a while... so I just briefly mentioned him or if he was on my account sometimes he would speak but yeah.... scary times, my love.


As you know from the update part in 2017 like middle of Aprilish, Matt and I moved in together and we got pitbull puppy named "Trix" like in June . Its a boy but I named him after Tricks from the players club...  :dead: one of my favorite movies

anyway, living with Matt was not bad at all. but we decided to move out of his condo which was one bedroom into a 3 bedroom so that we could have more space because the one bedroom was wayyyyy to small for us and the dog.
we got a bigger place in like October and then... Matt got into a car accident and messed up his hands, as you know he's a Barber. so yeah... his income basically stopped. the bills basically fell on me.. which is what really "matured" our relationship, it was after that that I truly realized honeymoon phase was over and we BOTH had to strap up our boots and   work to try and save our relationship. At this time I was in 2 online classes, working 2 jobs & playing counselor to Matt through his recovery. The crazy thing about cutting hair, you don't really realize how cut throat it is until you're unable to work. the income just stopped, some of his clients moved on in his 2 months of recovery and it was just an overall weird phase of cutting back to try and make ends meet. which was not a problem ever before. Matt paid the major bills and his car note and I covered the small bills like light, our cell phone bills & my car note. Matt also took care of the "play" money.. so date money, travel money and just splurge money. we had a good system. but it came tumbling tf downe. even when he started working again, he couldnt cut for as long, and he had to basically build up his clientele again. so I would say we were off track until about April 2018. in this time we were arguing a lot about him feel neglected, but a bitch was busy... I had to make the money, which I had no problem but after working 2 jobs and doing school work 5 days out of the week, my sex drive was low and I didn't really feel like going out for dates... I wanted to sleep more than anything. nigga was really tryna fuck with half functioning hands. :kii: im used to be tossed around and picked up and choked... yeah that shit was on a stand still.. when we did have sex, I had to pull out all my tricks to make it what we was use to. so he was enjoying it but because I was working hard as shit... I like to see him pleasured, I get pleasure out of that but I wasn't getting what I was use to. which wasn't a big deal because I knew the situation but he still wanted to fuck like 2,3 times a week like normal.... as I said a bitch was TIYAAADD. lol so... a man who's ego is bruised from not being able to work, can't have sex as much as he wants, and has to be taken care of for a bit.... equation for disaster lol.

more specifically we got into a huge argument over my coworker, who dropped me off at home.
so lets call the co worker James... James was gay. When I got my newer second job in June 2018 I came home on the like 3rd day and was like....

"BABBBBEE!!! Guess what?!?"

matt's nonchalant ass: "Wassup?" -he was watching some dumb ass sports game, so he was paying attention but not fully.-

me: "I have a gay co worker!! I love this job already!! I can't wait to go back tomorrow!"

now he must've heard.. "I have this sexy ass gay co worker, I love his ass! I can't wait to see him tomorrow!" because the tv muted and I look up from my MacBook in the kitchen and this is Matt...

so he like... "what's his name?, what's he like?, do he gotta boyfriend? where he from?"

so I answer the his questions and he got this look on his face like... idk kinda like "This is some new shit, I hope I can really trust you." that's how I read it at least he didn't say much but I basically got what I wanted for the rest of the night so... hey I took it.


fast forward to like July.. I was taking the train to work. so Matt would drop me off at the train then go cut and pick me up at the end of the day. Well this day we were having team meeting/ outing.. so when I found out the plans, I texted Matt to let him know he didn't have to come get me from the train, we were going to a restaurant, I told him when we were finishing up I would call/ text him and he could get me from there... Matt first question, "who all going?" so I told him... originally it me, James, 5 other people from the job. so he was like alright cool. low-key I think Matt was looking for a reason to meet James anyway to kinda scope him out.. he denies but.. I really dont feel like im wrong.

I must have some luck with dinners. because I get there and we sitting down and peoples wives and husbands start coming.. so what I thought was a strict business team meeting, really turned out to be "lets get to know each other outside of work and get fucked up" dinner... so im irritated because as I've said a bitch be TIYYYAADD I would've rather went the fuck home.. I came to the dinner with notes, plans, ideas and all types of other shit to go over and it wasn't that type of party. so James whispers to me.."Did you know they was bringing all these people?" so im like "absolutely not or I would have not been here."
so he say.. "well are you gonna call your guy and tell him to come?"
me: "no, I dont really mix my personal life up with my work life. and ion really think he would be interested in coming now at this point."

cool so we wrapping up and I text Matt. so I told James that I would be leaving soon because my ride was coming.. *I told him this because we were mainly talking to each other because we were the only ones without guest. I didn't know if he was getting picked up or taking transportation, so I told him so that I wouldn't just be leaving him there by himself to be the extra wheel and he could make provisions so we could leave at the same time*

matt texts me says he's outside... so at this point I tell James "okay... im out, ill see you Monday."
im walking to the truck and I thought James was behind me because we were leaving at the same time.... no I went to get in the truck and all I hear is.... "Hi im James nice to meet you!!!" so I turn around and im startled because I thought he was gone from behind me at this point. so im like...'Boy, what the hell"
Matt reaches over and shakes his hand and is like.. "Nice to meet you man! how you liking the new gig?!?"
James: "I love it!! me and my bestie be in there cracking up all day..."

so im lost.... like ohhhh he alluding to me.. idk what's up with that shit, how im just your best friend all of sudden?? we aint had no convo about that :plzstop: Matt laughing cuz he see im lost as fuck..but I let him have it because James is new to town. so im like constantly saying okay ill see you Monday because low-key Matt looked good asf and I was tryna get him home while was still in the mood. lmfao so James like..."oop, where y'all rushing off too?" so I say.. "im tryna spend some time with my nigga." and then I shoot Matt the eyes so he know im with the bullshit tonight.'
James annoying ass gon say..."well you couldve told him to come here for dinner but you said naw.. everybody else had they people here."

so im looking him like...

matt: "ohhh, so this wasn't a business meeting?"

James:"Chile hell nah, we aint talk about shit dealing with that damn company. but I took care of him we was good" *I cringed* cuz im like wtf you mean you took care of me? I paid for my own shit, we only talked but im more than capable of talking to the others

I can tell Matt is annoyed now because its like James was doing too much and trying to allude to us getting close.

on the car ride home we talk about it. and Matt is like.."you dont think its weird that you dont be having time to go out with me but you went out with your colleagues and sorta lied about it."
once I explain to him the situation and acknowledge that I could do better as far as me and him going on dates... he was cool but was just like ..."hold up, then why ol boy explain it like that, why he try to make it seem like you knew the set up before you got there? and what he mean he took care of you, you didn't have enough money for your bill or something" im like... "I have no fucking clue why he said it like that... and I paid for my own stuff so I guess he meant like he made sure I wasn't by myself.. I really dont know."

Matt: yeah, ion like his ass. dont really know what it is but... I aint really feeling dude at all be careful around him. He a lil slippery.

slippery means sketchy.. its some shit Matt and his friends use, dont ask me why... I dont fucking know... but that it for now
I had to pause and praise  :enchantress:

Vonc2002

Quote from: AJ on July 14, 2019, 06:37:32 PM
Quote from: THE' LEE-HILL on July 14, 2019, 09:27:24 AM
Ok ok, can we get Matt's take on recent events,  I'm wanting both sides of the story/opinions

:ohwow:
Lol I'll have him log on. He keeps saying he's gonna make an account.
:plzstop:
This is my pass to say WHATEVER tf I wanna say about the mess she releases so I don't wanna hear SHIT! Baby mama is a mess of a song btw





MelMel


MelMel


GLOCK

Quote from: AJ on July 14, 2019, 02:36:10 AM
Quote from: EXPENSIVE DICK on July 14, 2019, 02:27:22 AM
Bittttt

:gorlonfire:

this is mess
James is messy a bit..

did we find out why they seemed so familiar
well I knew that they didnt know each other because James had moved into town for the job... the most James knew was just that I had a boyfriend and that his name was Matt. lol bu you know how the girls do... they try to act like they know more than they actually do.
Matt was just being nice I guess, which is surprising because he can be a loner and kinda stand offish.. but I guess from that lil interaction Matt knew he didnt like him... and honestly, he was so spot tf on.
:ohwowtellmemore:

GLOCK

Quote from: AJ on July 14, 2019, 06:37:32 PM
Quote from: THE' LEE-HILL on July 14, 2019, 09:27:24 AM
Ok ok, can we get Matt's take on recent events,  I'm wanting both sides of the story/opinions

:ohwow:
Lol I'll have him log on. He keeps saying he's gonna make an account.
Bruv slide through :thatssowendy:


RatherBe

Part 2

So honestly I brushed Matt off because I wrote it off as him being overprotective.

The next Monday, James asks if it would be okay if Matt cuts his hair. So im feeling awkward because I know Matt dont really like him. So I text Matt and ask him about it. And matts like... "well how do you feel about it?" I tell him im good... Matt says... "money is money, so im cool but he got have to tone down all the extra shit."

As soon as I tell James, that Matt will cut his hair he asks for his number... and im like... he has an app that you can book through... he tries to laugh it off... and so I say, "You have a personal relationship with me... not Matt. We are very different. Dont lose your barber trying to make a friend." James try to assure me that he meant nothing by asking for his number.. whatever.

maybe like a month later, Matt comes home from the shop, im in the bed already, he's playing the playstation on the edge and just blurts out ... "im not gon be able to cut your boy hair no more?" so I say "okay.. what happened?" He says "nothing but I just can't get with him, like his vibe is off." So the next day.. Matt texts me from the shop saying... "Uhh yeah we gotta talk."
So im like...."Ummm, what's going on?!" and then I step out and call him because I thought it was something with his family and he's like... we need to have this convo in person. so I had 30 mins left of work. Matt couldnt get me from work but he had dropped me off.. So I was telling James that I was gonna uber home and he's like ill take you.. so im like cool.

get in the car with James and then Matt calls and is like "where are you?! im on my way home now, I finished early. You need me to come get you?"
I tell him im pulling up to the house, James was dropping me off. (James is looking straight ahead with this nervous face, but I didnt put two and two together until after the mess popped off)

Matt says "WHAT?! Im pulling up right now, mfs think im a joke I see"

honestly the statement was so random and I was so caught off guard.. I thought he was talking to somebody else in the background on his end... I know that makes no sense but it was soooo random on my end that I just KNEW he wasn't talking to me.

so im like "HELLO? who you talking to? who is that?" and just he hangs up
I call back and Matt sends me to VM.. so now im panicking because im lost. so I tell James to hurry up and he like "why you tell him I was dropping you off?"

Me: "MF, i didnt know it was a secret. what do you mean?!


James: Yeah let me just hurry up and get you home.

So now im starting to get pissed.

we pull up and I hop out fast, mind you I had been calling Matt this whole time and getting sent to vm. So I get out the car and im like he aint home yet so im calling while im standing outside. James pull off but couldnt get to the corner and I hear a big ass tire screech and horns... so im leaving a vm at the time and im not even paying attention until I look down the street and I see its Matt's truck an he's basically blocked James car from going anywhere and got out his car

me running down the street:


I get to them James is in his car with the windows up. Matt is banging on his windows telling him to get out.

So im trying to calm Matt down and he snatch away from me and say.. "MOVE!"
and I ask him who tf he talking to.

James talking shit... but still in the car so I tell James to shut up and drive off because he obviously pussy.
I swear to God like a dumb ass white broad in a scary movie... he must've accidentally hit the unlock button or never locked because Matt yanked at his door and the shit opened.




me:


Matt and James:


Matt is screaming... "Didnt I tell yo hoe ass, to stay away from him??? You thought I was playin about mine, I should break yo fuckin jaw."

good thing he didnt actually hit him.. he back up and now im pissed cuz I dont know what is happening.

im suprised the police aint been called at this point.. I scream... "WHAT THE FUCK IS GOWIN ON?!"

Matt: "This nigga sitting in my chair yesterday, asking me about a threesome... when I told his ass we dont be on that,... he gon say, YOU told him you would be open to try it with someone you felt comfortable (alluding to himself) and maybe I dont know you all that well. and then he asked me how I felt about doing threesomes with somebody else. Telling me, that  cheating dont make me a bad boyfriend, you may already be cheating on me. (it was a lot honestly)

so now im looking at James like...

James slow ass getting off the ground.. talking about "I didnt say that. he misinterpreted what I said!"

Matt: "bitch, aint no mf misinterpretation! you said it word for word! and I told your ass when you DM'd me on instagram this morning to stay away from him! didnt I? I aint got no reason to lie!! you better get in this raggedy ass shit and gon before I fuck you up"

-side note- when Matt gets hood sometimes I just..



James finally gets in his car and zoom off.

so now me and Matt walking back to our place arguing because I felt like he shouldve told me last night... he talking about, "I knew you was tired and you had a headache and its not like it went anywhere."

personally, I dont give a fuck! Tell me! I would've aired the shit out when I saw him at work the next day, in my eyes it made Matt look like he was hiding something because I felt like it was the obvious right choice to just tell me and he technically lied because he told me nothing happened.

so he pull out the DM's and show me... the messages were something like "Thanks for the cut. Really hoping that I didnt offend you and that we can keep the convo last night between us. I apologize"

Matt says... "Yo you really got some nerve. This aint some shit you can just smooth over with an apology. Ion keep shit from AJ, so I haven't found the right way to tell him but best believe its gon be discussed. The best thing you can do is leave both of us alone. Y'all work together and thats it... you aint his mf friend no more. im making that decision. Leave him alone"

So me and Matt had an understanding but we were still pissed at each other because.. I felt like he shouldve told me night of & he shouldn't have lied. I also dont like the fact that I was calling him and he was ignoring me. He felt like I pushed James on him and he had told me he didnt like him... I dont agree but im sure he'll explain this whenever he logs on. but one thing we were in agreement on was that I was gon let James have it the next day. I called him that night but he didnt answer

The next day... James called in, said he had a family emergency.. I knew it was bullshit because he had no family in town. he missed the next day after too.. so im like he really missing money because he dont wanna face me.. so I text him like.. "you dont gotta miss work to dodge me. aint nobody gon do nothing to you." which wasn't completely true because.. I was debating that within myself  :kii:

he came back to work the day after I texted him and I didnt say shit to him and he didnt say nothing to me... we basically never talked again... by September he had gotten terminated from the company due a complaint that he was harassing another straight guy and making him feel uncomfortable.. I texted Matt and told him he was getting fired and why and Matt's response was...

"Can I beat his ass now?"

the end.