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[Kurama]

Monogamy is important to me.

If I'm with you, then I'm with you. Relationships take a lot of work, and being monogamous is part of that.

However, I will say that all gay the couples I know that have been together over 7 years are open. So who knows if my view on that will change one day, but right now the whole open mess isn't for me.

My ex and I were monogamous(physically) but we started discussing bringing someone else in around the end of the 6th year.

I think its bothersome for the open relationships to sorta be the norm for SGL men. Its completely possible to have longevity without it imo.

[🦚]

If social media is a "threat" to you relationship... it's built on a very weak foundation.

Anyone can get cheated on ...I'm not going to act exempt to the mess. But y'all know when you're dealing with a straight up dog.

[Opposites Attract.]

If social media is a "threat" to you relationship... it's built on a very weak foundation.

Anyone can get cheated on ...I'm not going to act exempt to the mess. But y'all know when you're dealing with a straight up dog.

Agree. The signs are there early on.

[DVDDY.]

I know a couple that lets a third person in their bedroom occasionally. The only caveats are that it has to be someone they don't know, someone they both like, and they both cannot bottom for the person.

Personally, I don't care but if my partner wants to, I wouldn't want him bottoming him for anyone else. I've been in a threesome before though. That was fun but I was more into one of them and the other dude was pissed lol

I've heard this before. My friends who just married had a 3some but they said neither could bottom. What's the significance?

I think it's something about letting someone else inside them...getting what should be mine... I'll admit, I haven't fully thought about it but it just always made sense to me

[yummy]

No solid relationship require a 3rd party.

Besides it's usually 1 partner that's bored and wants to "openly" cheat and the other that's scared of being alone and goes a long with it.

People lose themselves in relationships and accept all kind of mess. Don't know how they do it.

If you're in a relationship and you both feel like seeing other people, then you both need to be the fuck single.

Eh, I think threesomes are just a sexual kink for most. Some people can have a sexual relationship with another person and leave any other emotions at the door.

[Nine]

Yeah. And I don't expect anything less from my SO.

[🦚]

No solid relationship require a 3rd party.

Besides it's usually 1 partner that's bored and wants to "openly" cheat and the other that's scared of being alone and goes a long with it.

People lose themselves in relationships and accept all kind of mess. Don't know how they do it.

If you're in a relationship and you both feel like seeing other people, then you both need to be the fuck single.

Eh, I think threesomes are just a sexual kink for most. Some people can have a sexual relationship with another person and leave any other emotions at the door.

I believe the girls that are single can have a threesome, a train an orgy if they want to. Once you choose to be in a relationship it's out of the question.

[Kurama]

If social media is a "threat" to you relationship... it's built on a very weak foundation.

Anyone can get cheated on ...I'm not going to act exempt to the mess. But y'all know when you're dealing with a straight up dog.

At first I thought the same thing. Social media does give you access to a larger pool of folks, new interactions to monitor, and essentially a new platform that has its own way tempting someone. Your partner definitely is responsible but it's not reasonable to think that having all this access to new/different folks at the touch of a button doesn't affect things.

[KippDaddy]

sidenote:

Im too honest and transparent to cheat. Before I even get to that point im just going to say how I feel and that this is the end.

Flat OUT.

right
like

[LOONA.]

No solid relationship require a 3rd party.

Besides it's usually 1 partner that's bored and wants to "openly" cheat and the other that's scared of being alone and goes a long with it.

People lose themselves in relationships and accept all kind of mess. Don't know how they do it.

If you're in a relationship and you both feel like seeing other people, then you both need to be the fuck single.

!!!

Tbh     

[LOONA.]

Do y'all know any couples that this has actually worked out for?

     

[GLOCK]

No solid relationship require a 3rd party.

Besides it's usually 1 partner that's bored and wants to "openly" cheat and the other that's scared of being alone and goes a long with it.

People lose themselves in relationships and accept all kind of mess. Don't know how they do it.

If you're in a relationship and you both feel like seeing other people, then you both need to be the fuck single.

Eh, I think threesomes are just a sexual kink for most. Some people can have a sexual relationship with another person and leave any other emotions at the door.

I believe the girls that are single can have a threesome, a train an orgy if they want to. Once you choose to be in a relationship it's out of the question.

yeah

[KippDaddy]

Do y'all know any couples that this has actually worked out for?

     

JK sorta
the world will never know

[KING BENTLEY.]

If social media is a "threat" to you relationship... it's built on a very weak foundation.

Anyone can get cheated on ...I'm not going to act exempt to the mess. But y'all know when you're dealing with a straight up dog.

but I do believe temptation exists
and as two men, both of yawl looking at insta booties all day
and ppl don't respect each others relationships anymore
I think if a couple has rules about social media it just shows they really care and don't want future problems, and that could be part of them wanting a strong foundation imo

[🦚]

If social media is a "threat" to you relationship... it's built on a very weak foundation.

Anyone can get cheated on ...I'm not going to act exempt to the mess. But y'all know when you're dealing with a straight up dog.

At first I thought the same thing. Social media does give you access to a larger pool of folks, new interactions to monitor, and essentially a new platform that has its own way tempting someone. Your partner definitely is responsible but it's not reasonable to think that having all this access to new/different folks at the touch of a button doesn't affect things.

I think it would be ridiculous to think your man won't find other ppl hot or even fantasize about them. But that's exactly where it needs to be and stay.
I don't do the whole going through the phone and social media monitoring...cuz if I even suspect some mess is going on...I'm out.