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im really only talking to 2 guys rn, I was just in a 6 month relationship tht ended in february mind u.

one of tha dude has 4 kids so im not gon talk 'bout him

tha other guy who i see like evryday is fckin fine, he aint tht tall but he fine asf
we had sex for tha firs time yesterday night nd he toe my shit up, he frm tha south but idk how comfortable he is 100% like...bein with a girl like me.
be hes sweet, hope it goes somewhere.

Does bae know u had a sex change?

[RatherBe]

Sex & Love ....

I use to think those things correlated ... but ... If sexual intercourse is the only time or way you guys can experience a non-physical euphoric mess together .... it will burn owt quick

so yea, with that said, it's very good to wait until you at least see elements of that person that align with you organically.

If you want something real that will last. You gotta find a deeper spiritual bond with somebody outside of what their body can do for you, or what your body can do for them.

When that happens, the intercourse is really so much better.

But in the same way good sex can't predict a relationship being good or lasting, sex on the first night won't determine those things either. It all depends on a person's mindset and how mature they are.

I love this bent! I wasn't trying to group them together btw. just wanted to put in the title the 3 major things we would be hitting in this thread. Sometimes they will correlate and sometimes they will be stand alone topics. but I love love LOVE your response.

[GLOCK]

Sle u ever been in a relationship bby?

mutiple.

im shocked king

[GLOCK]

First question.

In dating, would you need to have sex to know if youre able to be in a relationship with an individual or do you believe that sex is something that should be saved until after you two(or three etc.) are exclusive?

this is a safe space guys.. come on in and take a seat

It honestly depends
I did feel that way until I've encountered someone that made me feel differently
Just being around them and sharing each other's time.. talking and just understanding each other.. the vibe felt strong enough that it didn't matter whether or not the sex was good .. and that it was worth committing to and then figuring each other out sexually

I've learned that sex is giving too much power in a relationship..
it is 100% important but it is something that can be built upon verses a connection.. I feel that that is very natural .. something that sorta just happens .. and u can't really work on that.. it either is or it isn't

!!! I know how to kinda weed out niggas that just wanna fuck and niggas I know I'm compatible with and wanna get to know If I have chemistry with someone and there's a connection...I tend to wait before we dive into sex. Mainly because I can see potential and want  us to get to know each other more. 9/10 if the chemistry is there I feel like the sex is most likely gonna be good when we do get there. Throwing sex into the mix early on can sometimes complicate things.

for sure

However I do think sexuality shouldn't necessarily come with a date.. it should come with a feeling .. something protected and such but more than anything a vibe

Cuz as long as there is a vibe .. the sex can't be that bad

[GLOCK]

Sex & Love ....

I use to think those things correlated ... but ... If sexual intercourse is the only time or way you guys can experience a non-physical euphoric mess together .... it will burn owt quick

so yea, with that said, it's very good to wait until you at least see elements of that person that align with you organically.

If you want something real that will last. You gotta find a deeper spiritual bond with somebody outside of what their body can do for you, or what your body can do for them.

When that happens, the intercourse is really so much better.

But in the same way good sex can't predict a relationship being good or lasting, sex on the first night won't determine those things either. It all depends on a person's mindset and how mature they are.

period

!!!!!

[Edge gorl]

im really only talking to 2 guys rn, I was just in a 6 month relationship tht ended in february mind u.

one of tha dude has 4 kids so im not gon talk 'bout him

tha other guy who i see like evryday is fckin fine, he aint tht tall but he fine asf
we had sex for tha firs time yesterday night nd he toe my shit up, he frm tha south but idk how comfortable he is 100% like...bein with a girl like me.
be hes sweet, hope it goes somewhere.

Does bae know u had a sex change?

i tell evry dude within 1st day or few days of textin'/hangin' out (mostly text)

im not tryna waste no time wit drama, "u said wat?"
no sir!

iont got time for tht
most these niggas dnt gaf no way so id rather get it out tha way
i wanna husband!...want these eggs cracked...i wann' family

so it must be honest frm get go

[GLOCK]

im really only talking to 2 guys rn, I was just in a 6 month relationship tht ended in february mind u.

one of tha dude has 4 kids so im not gon talk 'bout him

tha other guy who i see like evryday is fckin fine, he aint tht tall but he fine asf
we had sex for tha firs time yesterday night nd he toe my shit up, he frm tha south but idk how comfortable he is 100% like...bein with a girl like me.
be hes sweet, hope it goes somewhere.

Does bae know u had a sex change?

i tell evry dude within 1st day or few days of textin'/hangin' out (mostly text)

im not tryna waste no time wit drama, "u said wat?"
no sir!

iont got time for tht
most these niggas dnt gaf no way so id rather get it out tha way
i wanna husband!...want these eggs cracked...i wann' family

so it must be honest frm get go

proud of you

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Sle u ever been in a relationship bby?

mutiple.

im shocked king

Why is this?

[GLOCK]

Sle u ever been in a relationship bby?

mutiple.

im shocked king

Why is this?

u always seem so disconnected from these topics jjjj
I know it's a message board mess so in a lot of ways it isn't real life but u always seem cold about these talks bby
Like ur too good for a lot stuff
U know ur one of my faves but 
It just never feels like ur normal like us 

[Edge gorl]

im really only talking to 2 guys rn, I was just in a 6 month relationship tht ended in february mind u.

one of tha dude has 4 kids so im not gon talk 'bout him

tha other guy who i see like evryday is fckin fine, he aint tht tall but he fine asf
we had sex for tha firs time yesterday night nd he toe my shit up, he frm tha south but idk how comfortable he is 100% like...bein with a girl like me.
be hes sweet, hope it goes somewhere.

Does bae know u had a sex change?

i tell evry dude within 1st day or few days of textin'/hangin' out (mostly text)

im not tryna waste no time wit drama, "u said wat?"
no sir!

iont got time for tht
most these niggas dnt gaf no way so id rather get it out tha way
i wanna husband!...want these eggs cracked...i wann' family

so it must be honest frm get go

proud of you

[GLOCK]

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Sle u ever been in a relationship bby?

mutiple.

im shocked king

Why is this?

u always seem so disconnected from these topics jjjj
I know it's a message board mess so in a lot of ways it isn't real life but u always seem cold about these talks bby
Like ur too good for a lot stuff
U know ur one of my faves but 
It just never feels like ur normal like us 

Asdff. I know I can come off a lil posh n snobby... but I'm a very down to earth zørls. I can take my wavy Brazilian mess out the bun n have some fun 

Now I don't do it often because I view relationships in a very unconventional way. There are too many things im not interested in that most of the zørls on here are looking for.

[GLOCK]

Sle u ever been in a relationship bby?

mutiple.

im shocked king

Why is this?

u always seem so disconnected from these topics jjjj
I know it's a message board mess so in a lot of ways it isn't real life but u always seem cold about these talks bby
Like ur too good for a lot stuff
U know ur one of my faves but 
It just never feels like ur normal like us 

Asdff. I know I can come off a lil posh n snobby... but I'm a very down to earth zørls. I can take my wavy Brazilian mess out the bun n have some fun 

Now I don't do it often because I view relationships in a very unconventional way. There are too many things im not interested in that most of the zørls on here are looking for.

jjxjxjxjdj


You know I love an upper ass bitch!
Ack-a!
How do u view them king?

[BrokenHeartsHeal]

When I look at it this way... everyone in my family is old and single and that's looking like my trajectory too. Only ONE of my multiple cousins has a wife and kid, literally everyone else just got pieces or they single af never heard of them dating or being with someone since forever.  like last time my mom had a relationship was in what, 2003? I aint never seen love in my fam, just babies pop up.

[GLOCK]

Break the cycle Keef