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Sle u ever been in a relationship bby?

mutiple.

im shocked king

Why is this?

u always seem so disconnected from these topics jjjj
I know it's a message board mess so in a lot of ways it isn't real life but u always seem cold about these talks bby
Like ur too good for a lot stuff
U know ur one of my faves but 
It just never feels like ur normal like us 

Asdff. I know I can come off a lil posh n snobby... but I'm a very down to earth zørls. I can take my wavy Brazilian mess out the bun n have some fun 

Now I don't do it often because I view relationships in a very unconventional way. There are too many things im not interested in that most of the zørls on here are looking for.

jjxjxjxjdj


You know I love an upper ass bitch!
Ack-a!
How do u view them king?

I don't believe in the whole getting married, living together, joint acc mess. IDC how much he has or doesn't have ..keep your mess over there.

I'm also not someone who feels the need to spend every fucking second with the guy I'm dating. Most of my friends get in amess and all of a sudden they lose their individuality  In a none rona world I travel a lot for work...if that's something you can't handle 

I'm also not going through phones, messages, stalking... you just make yourself look silly. One of my friends once caught a nigga I was dating texting someone he knew. The whole ordeal with the confrontation was so embarrassing...never again. I'm not here to boost anyone's self esteem.

And I get that most of this makes me seem a bit cold. But I'm still that one that will ride off that cliff with you if it comes to it.

There's just certain silly stuff that I am bit too seasoned for.

[LOONA.]

Meh

I feel like anybody that's ever been in a serious long term relationship knows that sex isnt always going to be a priority nor will it make a break or relationship

So basically my answer is no

[🦚]

It can break amess. If its really wack would you go again?

[LOONA.]

Some people are wired differently. What may have worked sexually on one partner might not work on the next. It doesnt mean that its wack or you're bad at it and if you want to be in a relationship with someone I think its important to learn their body and what turns them on.

[GLOCK]

Sle u ever been in a relationship bby?

mutiple.

im shocked king

Why is this?

u always seem so disconnected from these topics jjjj
I know it's a message board mess so in a lot of ways it isn't real life but u always seem cold about these talks bby
Like ur too good for a lot stuff
U know ur one of my faves but 
It just never feels like ur normal like us 

Asdff. I know I can come off a lil posh n snobby... but I'm a very down to earth zørls. I can take my wavy Brazilian mess out the bun n have some fun 

Now I don't do it often because I view relationships in a very unconventional way. There are too many things im not interested in that most of the zørls on here are looking for.

jjxjxjxjdj


You know I love an upper ass bitch!
Ack-a!
How do u view them king?

I don't believe in the whole getting married, living together, joint acc mess. IDC how much he has or doesn't have ..keep your mess over there.

I'm also not someone who feels the need to spend every fucking second with the guy I'm dating. Most of my friends get in amess and all of a sudden they lose their individuality  In a none rona world I travel a lot for work...if that's something you can't handle 

I'm also not going through phones, messages, stalking... you just make yourself look silly. One of my friends once caught a nigga I was dating texting someone he knew. The whole ordeal with the confrontation was so embarrassing...never again. I'm not here to boost anyone's self esteem.

And I get that most of this makes me seem a bit cold. But I'm still that one that will ride off that cliff with you if it comes to it.

There's just certain silly stuff that I am bit too seasoned for.

wait cuz I kinda agree a bit actually

I don't really care for marriage .. though I respect it and look at it very highly ..
it's just not for me

I also can not lose my individuality
What's the point of dating someone and u guys become the same damn person
I need my air to breathe ..
I 100% get u now then king. Life will def shape ur outlook on shit and how u move with folks ..

This all makes sense
Libra self

[LOONA.]

But in my experience the sex is always good for me if theres a connection dating or casual

[Bentley. HARRIS!]

Sex & Love ....

I use to think those things correlated ... but ... If sexual intercourse is the only time or way you guys can experience a non-physical euphoric mess together .... it will burn owt quick

so yea, with that said, it's very good to wait until you at least see elements of that person that align with you organically.

If you want something real that will last. You gotta find a deeper spiritual bond with somebody outside of what their body can do for you, or what your body can do for them.

When that happens, the intercourse is really so much better.

But in the same way good sex can't predict a relationship being good or lasting, sex on the first night won't determine those things either. It all depends on a person's mindset and how mature they are.

I love this bent! I wasn't trying to group them together btw. just wanted to put in the title the 3 major things we would be hitting in this thread. Sometimes they will correlate and sometimes they will be stand alone topics. but I love love LOVE your response.

Oh yea! You came up with another hit thread mess bby.

What you and Dory have are kinda unique in our community.

sssss my mess was kinda long winded, but I think I ended up with an open-ended answer 😞

Cause ... some ppl feel instant connection. I didn't have SEX per say, but me and my guy fu la la'd on the first real date date. But we had spent some weeks up all night talking. And haven't went a day without talking to that nigga since. He gets on my nerves

Dammit, where's my day wine 🍷  at

Ugh

[BrokenHeartsHeal]

Break the cycle Keef

I don't really see it for me at this point in my life. I have too many barriers and things to work on:

• Sex: I've settled for less too many times that I now have super high standards when it comes to appearance, but just too insecure to approach people that I feel are worth my time and my body.
• I'm very particular when it comes to sex. I genuinely don't like anal and that's a hangup for most niggas so that's not gonna cut it. I have to settle for people that are either too vanilla or into alternative things that are just too edgy for me. Never a meet me where I'm at type of mess.
• I'm still learning how to be affectionate and suck at literally all five love languages.
• Outside of being intimate during sex, I don't want to be touched and I don't like any type of odor or fragrance other than mine. I literally gag when I'm laid up with someone but bite the bullet
• I don't have time for conflict, so it's so easy for me to end off relationships if I feel like there's nothing to talk about that I feel will fix things for the long term.
• I have trust issues and I'm quick to end shit if I feel you done something that I don't like (even without proof or communication).
• When somethings wrong, communication is only key when I want it to be. And when I am in the wrong I have a problem with ownership.
• I'm extremely selfless otherwise, which isn't always good.

But I promise I am a good guy though, I'm not a bitch or anything. I'm so reserved but also goofy and have patience for days. 

[fedswatchin]

Don't believe in relationships and never will. A waste of time it is. My fave is very codependent and it's kinda cringe

[Edge gorl]

,

[GRAND ETERNAL SUPREME]

Yes. 

To maintain? No. 

[🦚]

Don't believe in relationships and never will. A waste of time it is. My fave is very codependent and it's kinda cringe

Ciara clearly wears the pants in that relationship and its cute to me.

[fedswatchin]

Don't believe in relationships and never will. A waste of time it is. My fave is very codependent and it's kinda cringe

Ciara clearly wears the pants in that relationship and its cute to me.

she's subservient to him

[🦚]

Don't believe in relationships and never will. A waste of time it is. My fave is very codependent and it's kinda cringe

Ciara clearly wears the pants in that relationship and its cute to me.

she's subservient to him

Nah she def in charge.

[Yes?]

I believe one should get to truly know their potential love interest before being intimate. Build a connection. Intimacy is a very sacred yet beautiful part of life (when it's right) and it shouldn't be given to just anybody.