:ohwow:
q
Nah. love them tho
:blessed:
n
No
Not never even ever. If my friend is doing well im in a proud space, not a they're showing me up space. People like that are disgusting. If ANYTHING id probably feel more motivated to succeed because if the people around me are doing well then it makes me wanna aspire for more or to maximize my potential
YH
yeah
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Hell no
Why would I have feelings of competition towards my friends.
If they have something I want, I just use them as inspiration.
In fact I told one of my friends recently that I aspire to be like her in a certain way.
Nope.
Quote from: GRAND SUPREME on October 18, 2016, 05:46:09 PM
Hell no
Why would I have feelings of competition towards my friends.
If they have something I want, I just use them as inspiration.
In fact I told one of my friends recently that I aspire to be like her in a certain way.
!!!!!!!!!
Like im so excited when a friend has good news.
Quote from: Vonc2002 on October 18, 2016, 05:48:03 PM
Quote from: GRAND SUPREME on October 18, 2016, 05:46:09 PM
Hell no
Why would I have feelings of competition towards my friends.
If they have something I want, I just use them as inspiration.
In fact I told one of my friends recently that I aspire to be like her in a certain way.
!!!!!!!!!
Like im so excited when a friend has good news.
!!
the only person ive ever been jealous of is the whore that sleeps with michael b jordan
:young:
Quote from: Vonc2002 on October 18, 2016, 05:48:03 PM
Quote from: GRAND SUPREME on October 18, 2016, 05:46:09 PM
Hell no
Why would I have feelings of competition towards my friends.
If they have something I want, I just use them as inspiration.
In fact I told one of my friends recently that I aspire to be like her in a certain way.
!!!!!!!!!
Like im so excited when a friend has good news.
Yes, my friend recently go married. Same sex IR couple and I was jealous as hell. Jealous does not mean hateful nor spiteful. It's okay to be jealous sometimes you just have to make sure it doesn't become nasty. Jealousy could be the boost that you needed to get on the right track.
u want a white mans?
No I don't think so
I have like 2 friends that are very competitive. But I don't think we've ever been down n out when something good happens to the other.
but it's more of a motivational tool!
cause I'm not going to be the only one at the table on mute when ppl ask
"so what's everybody been up to?"
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*gulps wine* .... "say again?"
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Quote from: Bulldagger on October 18, 2016, 06:02:40 PM
Yes, my friend recently go married. Same sex IR couple and I was jealous as hell. Jealous does not mean hateful nor spiteful. It's okay to be jealous sometimes you just have to make sure it doesn't become nasty. Jealousy could be the boost that you needed to get on the right track.
Then ur not describing jealousy. Jealousy is what it is. U can't have ur own definition for it. By definition, jealous does indeed mean spiteful. U might wanna look for another word to describe what ur feeling because the definition of jealous is set in stone
I've never been jealous of anyone let alone someone I call a friend. I like to see everyone around me happy, healthy and successful. My circle is very encouraging and inspiring. Love my crew.
Not as an adult
When I was younger.
I dunno why it's so hard for ppl to admit they get jealous. It's normal. n
Ur not a machine.
f
Jealousy is not something everyone suffers with. Sometimes ur affliction is just that, ur own :dead:
Quote from: Vonc2002 on October 18, 2016, 06:14:06 PM
Quote from: Bulldagger on October 18, 2016, 06:02:40 PM
Yes, my friend recently go married. Same sex IR couple and I was jealous as hell. Jealous does not mean hateful nor spiteful. It's okay to be jealous sometimes you just have to make sure it doesn't become nasty. Jealousy could be the boost that you needed to get on the right track.
Then ur not describing jealousy. Jealousy is what it is. U can't have ur own definition for it. By definition, jealous does indeed mean spiteful. U might wanna look for another word to describe what ur feeling because the definition of jealous is set in stone
You're wrong, sweets. Jealous and spiteful are two totally different words. There is such a thing as healthy jealousy. Google it. Jealousy is natural; however, how you react to the emotion of jealousy is what determines whether the jealousy is healthy.
You've mistaken jealousy for hateful, which black people tend to mix up a lot. When they say you 're hating on someone, which they actually mean jealous of someone. Which was always odd to me because If i'm hating on you how is that a bad thing if I don't like you? I do hate you. LOL but I digress...
n
What is this thing talking about
Quote from: FINE. on October 18, 2016, 06:28:56 PM
When I was younger.
I dunno why it's so hard for ppl to admit they get jealous. It's normal. n
Ur not a machine.
!!!
It's human :dead:
Quote from: COCO on October 18, 2016, 06:36:33 PM
Quote from: FINE. on October 18, 2016, 06:28:56 PM
When I was younger.
I dunno why it's so hard for ppl to admit they get jealous. It's normal. n
Ur not a machine.
!!!
It's human :dead:
sdsdsdd
Yeah.
These are definitions of jealousy
jealous: resentment against a rival, a person enjoying success or advantage, etc., or against another's success or advantage itself.
2.
mental uneasiness from suspicion or fear of rivalry, unfaithfulness, etc., as in love or aims.
All that other stuff may be how u justify a jealous nature but jealousy is what is. Good jealousy :dead:
There are tons of words in the English language, im sure there's one to define what ur describing. Aint no positive connotation to jealous
Quote from: FINE. on October 18, 2016, 06:34:49 PM
n
What is this thing talking about
Don't be rude, hon. I'm just correcting a misunderstanding.
Quote from: FINE. on October 18, 2016, 06:28:56 PM
When I was younger.
I dunno why it's so hard for ppl to admit they get jealous. It's normal. n
Ur not a machine.
fdnnnnnnn !!
jealousy? what is that? :shannonsmissing:
n
Quote from: Vonc2002 on October 18, 2016, 06:39:22 PM
These are definitions of jealousy
jealous: resentment against a rival, a person enjoying success or advantage, etc., or against another's success or advantage itself.
2.
mental uneasiness from suspicion or fear of rivalry, unfaithfulness, etc., as in love or aims.
All that other stuff may be how u justify a jealous nature but jealousy is what is. Good jealousy :dead:
There are tons of words in the English language, im sure there's one to define what ur describing. Aint no positive connotation to jealous
girl
Quote from: Vonc2002 on October 18, 2016, 06:39:22 PM
These are definitions of jealousy
jealous: resentment against a rival, a person enjoying success or advantage, etc., or against another's success or advantage itself.
2.
mental uneasiness from suspicion or fear of rivalry, unfaithfulness, etc., as in love or aims.
All that other stuff may be how u justify a jealous nature but jealousy is what is. Good jealousy :dead:
There are tons of words in the English language, im sure there's one to define what ur describing. Aint no positive connotation to jealous
If there are many definitions according to you, how is mine wrong? lol Many therapists and psychologists have spoken about how jealousy can be a good thing. It is a natural emotion. People are going to be jealous. One of my favorite books by an author called David Burns talks about it as well through cognitive therapy. Again, it's not always nasty.
If your friends are progressing in life and you're still stuck in the same place, you're going to feel some kind of way naturally. You can still be happy for them, but still you're going to be a little bit envious and that is okay.
Quote from: Nine on October 18, 2016, 06:39:36 PM
Quote from: FINE. on October 18, 2016, 06:28:56 PM
When I was younger.
I dunno why it's so hard for ppl to admit they get jealous. It's normal. n
Ur not a machine.
fdnnnnnnn !!
jealousy? what is that? :shannonsmissing:
hdjdjsjsjs
Like at some point in your life u were never jealous?
I'm peeing.
Quote from: Bulldagger on October 18, 2016, 06:43:13 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on October 18, 2016, 06:39:22 PM
These are definitions of jealousy
jealous: resentment against a rival, a person enjoying success or advantage, etc., or against another's success or advantage itself.
2.
mental uneasiness from suspicion or fear of rivalry, unfaithfulness, etc., as in love or aims.
All that other stuff may be how u justify a jealous nature but jealousy is what is. Good jealousy :dead:
There are tons of words in the English language, im sure there's one to define what ur describing. Aint no positive connotation to jealous
If there are many definitions according to you, how is mine wrong?
Because none of them are this :kii:
Quote from: Vonc2002 on October 18, 2016, 06:45:06 PM
Quote from: Bulldagger on October 18, 2016, 06:43:13 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on October 18, 2016, 06:39:22 PM
These are definitions of jealousy
jealous: resentment against a rival, a person enjoying success or advantage, etc., or against another's success or advantage itself.
2.
mental uneasiness from suspicion or fear of rivalry, unfaithfulness, etc., as in love or aims.
All that other stuff may be how u justify a jealous nature but jealousy is what is. Good jealousy :dead:
There are tons of words in the English language, im sure there's one to define what ur describing. Aint no positive connotation to jealous
If there are many definitions according to you, how is mine wrong?
Because none of them are this :kii:
Ok, sis. I'mma let you have it. :kii:
I'm with vonc on this one
I don't feel like jealously is a trait that everyone has -- just like any other human trait.
And tho i don't recall being jealous of too many people in my life, the thread SPECIFICALLY asks if uve been jealous of FRIENDS. It aint talking about being jealous ever, at any point in ur life. Some of ya'll just be talkin to talk :dead:
Only as a child
I remember being jealous of my friend because his dad bought him a telescope
I cried and my dad bought me one. I used it once
Quote from: GRAND SUPREME on October 18, 2016, 06:47:08 PM
I'm with vonc on this one
I don't feel like jealously is a trait that everyone has -- just like any other human trait.
!!!!!!
Sorry but yea :dead:
Jealousy is an emotion. Not a trait. We all have emotions.
Quote from: GRAND SUPREME on October 18, 2016, 06:47:08 PM
I'm with vonc on this one
I don't feel like jealously is a trait that everyone has -- just like any other human trait.
Who said it was? It's a natural emotion it shouldn't be constant. If it is, something is a matter with you. :uhh:
It's just like anything else
Being courageous, humorous, sincere, trustworthy, or reliable -- some people just aren't those things
Quote from: FINE. on October 18, 2016, 06:49:21 PM
Jealousy is an emotion. Not a trait. We all have emotions.
Preach sis. What they preaching. :uhh:
Nope. I think it's always good to have friends who are doing "better" or making big moves. It's motivating.
Quote from: GRAND SUPREME on October 18, 2016, 06:50:10 PM
It's just like anything else
Being courageous, humorous, sincere, trustworthy, or reliable -- some people just aren't those things
RIGHT :plzstop:
Quote from: GRAND SUPREME on October 18, 2016, 06:50:10 PM
It's just like anything else
Being courageous, humorous, sincere, trustworthy, or reliable -- some people just aren't those things
Well, they sound like they have issues if that's them all the time. Jealousy every now and again is fine.
Quote from: Bulldagger on October 18, 2016, 06:49:36 PM
Quote from: GRAND SUPREME on October 18, 2016, 06:47:08 PM
I'm with vonc on this one
I don't feel like jealously is a trait that everyone has -- just like any other human trait.
Who said it was? It's a natural emotion it shouldn't be constant. If it is, something is a matter with you. :uhh:
page 2
Just like how you can feel happy, sad, angry...you can also be envious lol
Quote from: Bulldagger on October 18, 2016, 06:51:33 PM
Quote from: GRAND SUPREME on October 18, 2016, 06:50:10 PM
It's just like anything else
Being courageous, humorous, sincere, trustworthy, or reliable -- some people just aren't those things
Well, they sound like they have issues if that's them all the time. Jealousy every now and again is fine.
I'm saying some people never or rarely experience it.
Especially as it pertains to this topic.
Quote from: COCO on October 18, 2016, 06:51:49 PM
Just like how you can feel happy, sad, angry...you can also be envious lol
envy is another story though
Quote from: GRAND SUPREME on October 18, 2016, 06:52:21 PM
Quote from: Bulldagger on October 18, 2016, 06:51:33 PM
Quote from: GRAND SUPREME on October 18, 2016, 06:50:10 PM
It's just like anything else
Being courageous, humorous, sincere, trustworthy, or reliable -- some people just aren't those things
Well, they sound like they have issues if that's them all the time. Jealousy every now and again is fine.
I'm saying some people never or rarely experience it.
Especially as it pertains to this topic.
Well, I guess.
Just google this and you'll find many different articles that go into depth. It's really not a bad thing -- jealousy. :)
Black people think so and I think it has a lot to do with the slave mentality of there can only be one, so you can't let your feelings show. But I digress again.
Quote from: Bulldagger on October 18, 2016, 06:54:44 PM
Quote from: GRAND SUPREME on October 18, 2016, 06:52:21 PM
Quote from: Bulldagger on October 18, 2016, 06:51:33 PM
Quote from: GRAND SUPREME on October 18, 2016, 06:50:10 PM
It's just like anything else
Being courageous, humorous, sincere, trustworthy, or reliable -- some people just aren't those things
Well, they sound like they have issues if that's them all the time. Jealousy every now and again is fine.
I'm saying some people never or rarely experience it.
Especially as it pertains to this topic.
Well, I guess.
Just google this and you'll find many different articles that go into depth. It's really not a bad thing -- jealousy. :)
Black people think so and I think it has a lot to do with the slave mentality of there can only be one, so you can't let your feelings show. But I digress again.
!!! it comes down to being 'covetous' not being a good thing and it being a sin
And it's not synonymous with hatred or wishing bad on someone. Like it's normal to want something a friend has that you don't or w/e the case is :dead:
Like it's not far fetched :uhh:
You can be jealous and still show support and/or motivate someone
It shouldn't have such a negative connotation attached to it to where ppl are like "oh no! Would/could never!"
Well if uve found empowerment in ur jealous nature and consider it a good thing, good for u. I can emphatically say I've never been jealous of a friend.
Quote from: Bulldagger on October 18, 2016, 06:54:44 PM
Quote from: GRAND SUPREME on October 18, 2016, 06:52:21 PM
Quote from: Bulldagger on October 18, 2016, 06:51:33 PM
Quote from: GRAND SUPREME on October 18, 2016, 06:50:10 PM
It's just like anything else
Being courageous, humorous, sincere, trustworthy, or reliable -- some people just aren't those things
Well, they sound like they have issues if that's them all the time. Jealousy every now and again is fine.
I'm saying some people never or rarely experience it.
Especially as it pertains to this topic.
Well, I guess.
Just google this and you'll find many different articles that go into depth. It's really not a bad thing -- jealousy. :)
Black people think so and I think it has a lot to do with the slave mentality of there can only be one, so you can't let your feelings show. But I digress again.
don't throw some
BLACK PEOPLE mess at me, especially when white people are the first ones to get HOT when a black person is successful at something and try to discredit or mimic you
Not tonight
:calmdownsis:
Quote from: FINE. on October 18, 2016, 06:56:19 PM
And it's not synonymous with hatred or wishing bad on someone. Like it's normal to want something a friend has that you don't or w/e the case is :dead:
Like it's not far fetched :uhh:
You can be jealous and still show support and/or motivate someone
It shouldn't have such a negative connotation attached to it to where ppl are like "oh no! Would/could never!"
and it shouldn't be so far fetched to believe some people just don't experience that towards their friends
Quote from: Vonc2002 on October 18, 2016, 06:57:24 PM
Well if uve found empowerment in ur jealous nature and consider it a good thing, good for u. I can emphatically say I've never been jealous of a friend.
good for you
Yea, dont know how race is being brought into the convo :dead:
A minute ago it was EVERYONE. natural, human emotion
Now for some reason it REALLY plagues niggers :dead:
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Quote from: COCO on October 18, 2016, 06:58:52 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on October 18, 2016, 06:57:24 PM
Well if uve found empowerment in ur jealous nature and consider it a good thing, good for u. I can emphatically say I've never been jealous of a friend.
good for you
Ummm don't need ur congratulations but thanx.
Quote from: GRAND SUPREME on October 18, 2016, 06:58:49 PM
Quote from: FINE. on October 18, 2016, 06:56:19 PM
And it's not synonymous with hatred or wishing bad on someone. Like it's normal to want something a friend has that you don't or w/e the case is :dead:
Like it's not far fetched :uhh:
You can be jealous and still show support and/or motivate someone
It shouldn't have such a negative connotation attached to it to where ppl are like "oh no! Would/could never!"
and it shouldn't be so far fetched to believe some people just don't experience that towards their friends
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Quote from: COCO on October 18, 2016, 06:56:12 PM
Quote from: Bulldagger on October 18, 2016, 06:54:44 PM
Quote from: GRAND SUPREME on October 18, 2016, 06:52:21 PM
Quote from: Bulldagger on October 18, 2016, 06:51:33 PM
Quote from: GRAND SUPREME on October 18, 2016, 06:50:10 PM
It's just like anything else
Being courageous, humorous, sincere, trustworthy, or reliable -- some people just aren't those things
Well, they sound like they have issues if that's them all the time. Jealousy every now and again is fine.
I'm saying some people never or rarely experience it.
Especially as it pertains to this topic.
Well, I guess.
Just google this and you'll find many different articles that go into depth. It's really not a bad thing -- jealousy. :)
Black people think so and I think it has a lot to do with the slave mentality of there can only be one, so you can't let your feelings show. But I digress again.
!!! it comes down to being 'covetous' not being a good thing and it being a sin
it has nothing to do with that ONLY ONE mentality
That makes absolutely NO sense. In fact, if someone had that mentality it would make perfect sense that they would be jealous of someone else and whatever they accomplished :kii: :kii:
Quote from: GRAND SUPREME on October 18, 2016, 06:58:49 PM
Quote from: FINE. on October 18, 2016, 06:56:19 PM
And it's not synonymous with hatred or wishing bad on someone. Like it's normal to want something a friend has that you don't or w/e the case is :dead:
Like it's not far fetched :uhh:
You can be jealous and still show support and/or motivate someone
It shouldn't have such a negative connotation attached to it to where ppl are like "oh no! Would/could never!"
and it shouldn't be so far fetched to believe some people just don't experience that towards their friends
:kii: :kii: :kii:
(https://media.giphy.com/media/sQWHEy7NxjsyY/giphy.gif)
All I'm saying is, I personally don't experience it often (and I'm only saying often to be generous)
I feel like to be jealous of something, you have to be in competition. And I don't consider myself in competition with anyone. Not because I'm trying to be better than everyone, not because I feel like I have to be the only black man to do this this and that
But because I feel like every human has their own path. Everyone. And they're all different. So it's impossible for me to compare myself or to compete with anyone else.
That's why it just doesn't happen.
Guess me and Que are just evil bitches huh
:cheerup:
Quote from: GRAND SUPREME on October 18, 2016, 07:04:02 PM
All I'm saying is, I personally don't experience it often (and I'm only saying often to be generous)
I feel like to be jealous of something, you have to be in competition. And I don't consider myself in competition with anyone. Not because I'm trying to be better than everyone, not because I feel like I have to be the only black man to do this this and that
But because I feel like every human has their own path. Everyone. And they're all different. So it's impossible for me to compare myself or to compete with anyone else.
That's why it just doesn't happen.
when I tink jealous, I don't think competition. I just think...jealous. But everyone is different. And I'm very opinionated and kinda bitchy so excuse me.
Quote from: FINE. on October 18, 2016, 07:07:07 PM
Quote from: GRAND SUPREME on October 18, 2016, 07:04:02 PM
All I'm saying is, I personally don't experience it often (and I'm only saying often to be generous)
I feel like to be jealous of something, you have to be in competition. And I don't consider myself in competition with anyone. Not because I'm trying to be better than everyone, not because I feel like I have to be the only black man to do this this and that
But because I feel like every human has their own path. Everyone. And they're all different. So it's impossible for me to compare myself or to compete with anyone else.
That's why it just doesn't happen.
when I tink jealous, I don't think competition. I just think...jealous. But everyone is different. And I'm very opinionated and kinda bitchy so excuse me.
That's the only way I feel about it :dead:
How exactly do you define it? Im trying to get a better understanding
naw.
Me and my friends slay together :feelinmyself:
Quote from: pettypatty on October 18, 2016, 07:14:16 PM
naw.
Me and my friends slay together :feelinmyself:
sddddddddddd
This is how i feel tbh
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Quote from: GRAND SUPREME on October 18, 2016, 07:11:30 PM
Quote from: FINE. on October 18, 2016, 07:07:07 PM
Quote from: GRAND SUPREME on October 18, 2016, 07:04:02 PM
All I'm saying is, I personally don't experience it often (and I'm only saying often to be generous)
I feel like to be jealous of something, you have to be in competition. And I don't consider myself in competition with anyone. Not because I'm trying to be better than everyone, not because I feel like I have to be the only black man to do this this and that
But because I feel like every human has their own path. Everyone. And they're all different. So it's impossible for me to compare myself or to compete with anyone else.
That's why it just doesn't happen.
when I tink jealous, I don't think competition. I just think...jealous. But everyone is different. And I'm very opinionated and kinda bitchy so excuse me.
That's the only way I feel about it :dead:
How exactly do you define it? Im trying to get a better understanding
just lowkey saltiness mixed with being desirous of whatever the person might have. It's an emotion that pops up from time to time. :dead:
If someone is jealous all the time then there's a problem. That's just how I see it.
Quote from: FINE. on October 18, 2016, 07:20:55 PM
Quote from: GRAND SUPREME on October 18, 2016, 07:11:30 PM
Quote from: FINE. on October 18, 2016, 07:07:07 PM
Quote from: GRAND SUPREME on October 18, 2016, 07:04:02 PM
All I'm saying is, I personally don't experience it often (and I'm only saying often to be generous)
I feel like to be jealous of something, you have to be in competition. And I don't consider myself in competition with anyone. Not because I'm trying to be better than everyone, not because I feel like I have to be the only black man to do this this and that
But because I feel like every human has their own path. Everyone. And they're all different. So it's impossible for me to compare myself or to compete with anyone else.
That's why it just doesn't happen.
when I tink jealous, I don't think competition. I just think...jealous. But everyone is different. And I'm very opinionated and kinda bitchy so excuse me.
That's the only way I feel about it :dead:
How exactly do you define it? Im trying to get a better understanding
just lowkey saltiness mixed with being desirous of whatever the person might have. It's an emotion that pops up from time to time. :dead:
If someone is jealous all the time then there's a problem. That's just how I see it.
i guess i understand
i will say the last time i strongly felt this was during a fuck/relationship
:melmel:
but it was a competition :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: maybe thats why i associate it in such a way
no
I'm jumping in on the tail end, but I DO see what Que is saying. It's a common human emotion.
are you guys saying you've NEVER felt jealousy at all?
or just never felt that way towards someone you consider a friend?
Quote from: Nine on October 18, 2016, 06:39:36 PM
Quote from: FINE. on October 18, 2016, 06:28:56 PM
When I was younger.
I dunno why it's so hard for ppl to admit they get jealous. It's normal. n
Ur not a machine.
fdnnnnnnn !!
jealousy? what is that? :shannonsmissing:
d
not evryone esperiences this emotion hon
u want us to lie n make u two faggots feel bettr
it aint damns happ'nin!
Quote from: Tinker Hell on October 18, 2016, 07:42:28 PM
Quote from: Nine on October 18, 2016, 06:39:36 PM
Quote from: FINE. on October 18, 2016, 06:28:56 PM
When I was younger.
I dunno why it's so hard for ppl to admit they get jealous. It's normal. n
Ur not a machine.
fdnnnnnnn !!
jealousy? what is that? :shannonsmissing:
d
not evryone esperiences this emotion hon
u want us to lie n make u two faggots feel bettr
it aint damns happ'nin!
go feed your fucking baby
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Quote from: GRAND SUPREME on October 18, 2016, 07:31:56 PM
Quote from: FINE. on October 18, 2016, 07:20:55 PM
Quote from: GRAND SUPREME on October 18, 2016, 07:11:30 PM
Quote from: FINE. on October 18, 2016, 07:07:07 PM
Quote from: GRAND SUPREME on October 18, 2016, 07:04:02 PM
All I'm saying is, I personally don't experience it often (and I'm only saying often to be generous)
I feel like to be jealous of something, you have to be in competition. And I don't consider myself in competition with anyone. Not because I'm trying to be better than everyone, not because I feel like I have to be the only black man to do this this and that
But because I feel like every human has their own path. Everyone. And they're all different. So it's impossible for me to compare myself or to compete with anyone else.
That's why it just doesn't happen.
when I tink jealous, I don't think competition. I just think...jealous. But everyone is different. And I'm very opinionated and kinda bitchy so excuse me.
That's the only way I feel about it :dead:
How exactly do you define it? Im trying to get a better understanding
just lowkey saltiness mixed with being desirous of whatever the person might have. It's an emotion that pops up from time to time. :dead:
If someone is jealous all the time then there's a problem. That's just how I see it.
i guess i understand
i will say the last time i strongly felt this was during a fuck/relationship
:melmel:
but it was a competition :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: maybe thats why i associate it in such a way
He was jealous of you? :ohwow:
Quote from: BENTLEY! on October 18, 2016, 07:42:13 PM
I'm jumping in on the tail end, but I DO see what Que is saying. It's a common human emotion.
are you guys saying you've NEVER felt jealousy at all?
or just never felt that way towards someone you consider a friend?
Apparently its not as common as u guys think it is. Im not gonna say never because i may have when i was younger, don't remember, but i can't recall a time when I've felt jealous about someone..........EVER, so i can for certain say this about friends
tha onl' time i was jealous is wen my bestie jessica got to go on tha skool ski trip & couldnt cuz i was grounded
there.
Quote from: COCO on October 18, 2016, 07:43:44 PM
Quote from: Tinker Hell on October 18, 2016, 07:42:28 PM
Quote from: Nine on October 18, 2016, 06:39:36 PM
Quote from: FINE. on October 18, 2016, 06:28:56 PM
When I was younger.
I dunno why it's so hard for ppl to admit they get jealous. It's normal. n
Ur not a machine.
fdnnnnnnn !!
jealousy? what is that? :shannonsmissing:
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not evryone esperiences this emotion hon
u want us to lie n make u two faggots feel bettr
it aint damns happ'nin!
go feed your fucking baby
and clean that made in china puss
Quote from: FINE. on October 18, 2016, 07:45:48 PM
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Quote from: GRAND SUPREME on October 18, 2016, 07:04:02 PM
All I'm saying is, I personally don't experience it often (and I'm only saying often to be generous)
I feel like to be jealous of something, you have to be in competition. And I don't consider myself in competition with anyone. Not because I'm trying to be better than everyone, not because I feel like I have to be the only black man to do this this and that
But because I feel like every human has their own path. Everyone. And they're all different. So it's impossible for me to compare myself or to compete with anyone else.
That's why it just doesn't happen.
when I tink jealous, I don't think competition. I just think...jealous. But everyone is different. And I'm very opinionated and kinda bitchy so excuse me.
That's the only way I feel about it :dead:
How exactly do you define it? Im trying to get a better understanding
just lowkey saltiness mixed with being desirous of whatever the person might have. It's an emotion that pops up from time to time. :dead:
If someone is jealous all the time then there's a problem. That's just how I see it.
i guess i understand
i will say the last time i strongly felt this was during a fuck/relationship
:melmel:
but it was a competition :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: maybe thats why i associate it in such a way
He was jealous of you? :ohwow:
oh no, as in, me and this guy broke up and became fuck buddies, then i realized time was being split between me and someone else and i became a lunatic
:melmel:
that moment in my life, i was jealous. :melmel:
Quote from: Vonc2002 on October 18, 2016, 07:46:04 PM
Quote from: BENTLEY! on October 18, 2016, 07:42:13 PM
I'm jumping in on the tail end, but I DO see what Que is saying. It's a common human emotion.
are you guys saying you've NEVER felt jealousy at all?
or just never felt that way towards someone you consider a friend?
Apparently its not as common as u guys think it is. Im not gonna say never because i may have when i was younger, don't remember, but i can't recall a time when I've felt jealous about someone..........EVER, so i can for certain say this about friends
see ... yawl kinda got me with the hateful part tho
I think I've wanted something, maybe that a co-worker or colleague had... but it was never hateful or spiteful
I mean I guess you can call it competitive, but I was still fuming they got something I felt I should have had
not in a hateful way tho! :plzstop:
Ohhhhhh i didn't even think about relationship jealousy. Im not that either at all really but im definitely more susceptible to those feelings of jealousy
Meh, I wouldn't say jealous. I think that's too strong of a word. When I was younger maybe
.I would be frustrated how their lives were going in comparison to my own back then.
I was the poor one in my circle and my other friends all had cars, allowances, and access to things I couldn't have. It became frustrating when they didn't realize how being poor affected the way I moved around and saw things. Never came off as not wanting good things for them and we've always been supportive & uplifting. It was moreso "why did they get these things and I dont" kinda thing....back then at least lolz
:blessed:
Quote from: Tinker Hell on October 18, 2016, 07:47:15 PM
tha onl' time i was jealous is wen my bestie jessica got to go on tha skool ski trip & couldnt cuz i was grounded
there.
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Fuck u
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:omgwatshappening:
,dsmFSMFSM<DS<MDF jk
:traciandchelle:
Quote from: Kurama on October 18, 2016, 07:51:10 PM
Meh, I wouldn't say jealous. I think that's too strong of a word. When I was younger maybe
.I would be frustrated how their lives were going in comparison to my own back then.
I was the poor one in my circle and my other friends all had cars, allowances, and access to things I couldn't have. It became frustrating when they didn't realize how being poor affected the way I moved around and saw things. Never came off as not wanting good things for them and we've always been supportive & uplifting. It was moreso "why did they get these things and I dont" kinda thing....back then at least lolz
:blessed:
something about you just ... resounds within me :blush:
Jealous is a bit strong, envious would probably be more applicable.
I've seen people who don't work hard or have to grind for anything have just about everything handed to them and that bothers because it makes me think I'm somehow not meant to truly have what I want out of life. I'm trying to hardest to unlearn this because I shouldn't be modeling my own idea of success around someone else's accomplishments, but it's annoying.
ENVIOUS! that's the middle-ground
5 pages and yawl didn't come up with the word :uhh:
Quote from: ANIMMAI on October 18, 2016, 07:55:45 PM
Jealous is a bit strong, envious would probably be more applicable.
I've seen people who don't work hard or have to grind for anything have just about everything handed to them and that bothers because it makes me think I'm somehow not meant to truly have what I want out of life. I'm trying to hardest to unlearn this because I shouldn't be modeling my own idea of success around someone else's accomplishments, but it's annoying.
cxxxxx
its gonna happen
i didn't know the true meaning of 'having to work 10x as hard as a (white) man' until this past year or so
all you can do is your best and eventually true talent, ethics, and hard work will be worth it.
:melmel:
Thankfully never. I'm never jealous and I never hold grudges.
I do envy some of the gorls for their bawdies sometimes but then I don't know what struggle they had and just appreciate what I have.
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Quote from: BENTLEY! on October 18, 2016, 11:30:48 PM
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SSDSSDSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS
I can't STAND u :kii:
never jealous. Always happy for their achievements. Only when I was at my lowest mentally did I feel like I haven't done much in my life compared to them though, I'll admit.
Quote from: Kurama on October 18, 2016, 07:51:10 PM
Meh, I wouldn't say jealous. I think that's too strong of a word. When I was younger maybe
.I would be frustrated how their lives were going in comparison to my own back then.
I was the poor one in my circle and my other friends all had cars, allowances, and access to things I couldn't have. It became frustrating when they didn't realize how being poor affected the way I moved around and saw things. Never came off as not wanting good things for them and we've always been supportive & uplifting. It was moreso "why did they get these things and I dont" kinda thing....back then at least lolz
:blessed:
:'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'(
yessssssssssssssssssssssssss!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
:stressed: :stressed: :stressed:
Quote from: MelMel on October 18, 2016, 11:33:34 PM
never jealous. Always happy for their achievements. Only when I was at my lowest mentally did I feel like I haven't done much in my life compared to them though, I'll admit.
Yea, but that still isn't jealousy tho. I think seeing someone succeed can definitely make u reevaluate what ur doing and what u need to do to become more satisfied in ur own life
Quote from: Vonc2002 on October 18, 2016, 11:36:22 PM
Quote from: MelMel on October 18, 2016, 11:33:34 PM
never jealous. Always happy for their achievements. Only when I was at my lowest mentally did I feel like I haven't done much in my life compared to them though, I'll admit.
Yea, but that still isn't jealousy tho. I think seeing someone succeed can definitely make u reevaluate what ur doing and what u need to do to become more satisfied in ur own life
yes!!!!!
Not jealous but I definitely have friends that have done and do things that I aspire to do.
And vice versa.
That's what friends are for IMO.
Make eachother better and inspire one another
Quote from: Young on October 18, 2016, 11:41:02 PM
Not jealous but I definitely have friends that have done and do things that I aspire to do.
And vice versa.
That's what friends are for IMO.
Make eachother better and inspire one another
!!!!!!!!!!! :stressed: :stressed:
Quote from: Young on October 18, 2016, 11:41:02 PM
Not jealous but I definitely have friends that have done and do things that I aspire to do.
And vice versa.
That's what friends are for IMO.
Make eachother better and inspire one another
YES! Jealous has never come to my mind when thinking of my friends and/or their accomplishments.
Young, i can tell ur a good friend, faggot self
Quote from: Vonc2002 on October 18, 2016, 11:43:18 PM
Young, i can tell ur a good friend, faggot self
Sbdbbddbdbdbdbdddddd
Thnx soot'nc
I try :stressed:
Quote from: da trade b thirstay on October 18, 2016, 11:48:43 PM
I think the word "jealousy" is given such a heavy weight, that people disassociate themselves with it.
Example:
Now being "jealous" of your friend...and saying "awww that's so cool, dang I want that too!" (which is essentially what you're saying if their accomplishments move you to aspire for the same) Could easily be mistaken for one another, depending on who you ask.
Envy is a very dark and powerful word. And it's directly associate with jealousy. I don't think anyone should feel that type of thing towards anyone they consider to be a friend. But I do agree that saying "Awww, I want that too! Lemme get on my mess and get it!" To me it's a lil jealousy lol. but it's cute jealousy and useful jealousy.
Not sitting somewhere fuming at your own friend for them doing well. You should be happy you're associated with people who are making moves in life. Birds of the feather.
sdhshshshs
Everything you've said I said earlier
It's just..how I see it tbh
Inspired, the most.
Never jealous.
I can't tell the last time I focused on what someone else was doing, though.
:dead:
I have such a tight relationship with God/universe, that it's mainly just "us" that I attend to.
Quote from: R on October 18, 2016, 11:53:32 PM
Inspired, the most.
Never jealous.
This seems to be the consensus, except for a couple of jealous ones here and there :ohwow:
Wonder how Glock feels
And no shade, but this shouldn't be limited to friends...
Some family members can do the most when they see you're doing well...
Quote from: R on October 18, 2016, 11:56:40 PM
I can't tell the last time I focused on what someone else was doing, though.
:dead:
Now THIS is true too. Im very focused on me and how i can better myself. I don't look around to see who has what, who's doing what, etc. I take inventory and self reflect on my life all by myself and decide "am i happy here", "why or why not", "if no, what can i do to get myself where i wanna go"
Quote from: Vonc2002 on October 19, 2016, 12:01:12 AM
Quote from: R on October 18, 2016, 11:56:40 PM
I can't tell the last time I focused on what someone else was doing, though.
:dead:
Now THIS is true too. Im very focused on me and how i can better myself. I don't look around to see who has what, who's doing what, etc. Im take inventory of my life all by myself and decide "am i happy here", "why or why not", "if no, what can i do to get myself where i wanna go"
!!!!!!!!!!!
In all honesty.
I think comparing yourself to others, looking at what people are doing, is an immature way to self-growth.
Because if you think about it, someone will always be "doing something ELSE" than what you are doing.
Create your own sense of self-actualization, on YOUR terms, challenge YOURSELF based on YOUR own life experiences. Be inspired, of course, but stay in tune with your core.
Quote from: R on October 19, 2016, 12:07:17 AM
I think comparing yourself to others, looking at what people are doing, is an immature way to self-growth.
Because if you think about it, someone will always be "doing something ELSE" than what you are doing.
Create your own sense of self-actualization, on YOUR terms, challenge YOURSELF based on YOUR own life experiences. Be inspired, of course, but stay in tune with your core.
!!!!!!!!!!
And i think the more confident and secure u are in what ur doing, the choices uve made, ur path ur taking to get where u wanna be, etc. U experience less of these type of feelings and emotions. Ralf, u better speak a bit
:rudone:
Quote from: da trade b thirstay on October 19, 2016, 12:10:49 AM
Quote from: R on October 19, 2016, 12:07:17 AM
I think comparing yourself to others, looking at what people are doing, is an immature way to self-growth.
hmmmm...
Interesting. One would have to compare themselves to a friend if their friend's news prompts a reevaluation of self.
There's a responsible way to be inspired, IMO.
Not every inspiration requires a reevaluation -- sometimes it just adds/compliments a "continuation" of a positive path that you're already ON. It's like your friend is equally yoked with you, although you live different lives. So you never feel less than or greater than. Hence, no jealousy.
I find those individuals less likely to be comparing themselves, changing paths, or taking emotional and mental hits.
Quote from: Vonc2002 on October 19, 2016, 12:11:03 AM
Quote from: R on October 19, 2016, 12:07:17 AM
I think comparing yourself to others, looking at what people are doing, is an immature way to self-growth.
Because if you think about it, someone will always be "doing something ELSE" than what you are doing.
Create your own sense of self-actualization, on YOUR terms, challenge YOURSELF based on YOUR own life experiences. Be inspired, of course, but stay in tune with your core.
!!!!!!!!!!
And i think the more confident and secure u are in what ur doing, the choices uve made, ur path ur taking to get where u wanna be, etc. U experience less of these type of feelings and emotions.
Ralf, u probably won't answer this but I'll ask anyway. What (if any) religion do u practice?
All in all, jealousy is a normal human emotion.
But just like any emotion...
There's healthy and unhealthy levels.
Quote from: R on October 19, 2016, 12:30:07 AM
All in all, jealousy is a normal human emotion.
It is but not everybody experiences every single human emotion. Hate is a human emotion, i cant say I've ever hated anyone.
Quote from: Vonc2002 on October 19, 2016, 12:28:52 AM
Ralf, u probably won't answer this but I'll ask anyway. What (if any) religion do u practice?
Hey ralf, did u see this? LOLZ
Afro hun it didn't ask if others are jealous of u, but if you are jealous of others. You never had that?
Quote from: da trade b thirstay on October 19, 2016, 12:32:26 AM
Quote from: R on October 19, 2016, 12:24:17 AM
Quote from: da trade b thirstay on October 19, 2016, 12:10:49 AM
Quote from: R on October 19, 2016, 12:07:17 AM
I think comparing yourself to others, looking at what people are doing, is an immature way to self-growth.
hmmmm...
Interesting. One would have to compare themselves to a friend if their friend's news prompts a reevaluation of self.
There's a responsible way to be inspired, IMO.
Not every inspiration requires a reevaluation -- sometimes it just adds/compliments a "continuation" of a positive path that you're already ON. It's like your friend is equally yoked with you, although you live different lives. So you never feel less than or greater than. Hence, no jealousy.
I find those individuals less likely to be comparing themselves, changing paths, or taking emotional and mental hits.
Well, reevaluation is a word that was used by others in this thread to describe what they do once they hear of their friend's good news.
I feel the same, if your friend has you reevaluating your life, how is that not a bit of a comparison and insecurity? I don't get it, but mess.
If your friend has you reevaluating your entire life, comparing yourself to them (putting yourself down), based off every accomplishment they achieve, then yes, that is a major issue. :dead:
But no shade to anyone who does that, that is not the reality for all of us.
There are people who are relatively stable within their lives, and who get inspired from time to time, WITHOUT the need to put themselves down, feel insecure, or get jealous. :dead: It's no different than BRANDY being an inspiration, for instance. I'm not jealous of sis. :dead: But I'm inspired. Look at it that way...
Good night luvs.
:wub:
No.
jealousy is then that lady from the we aint gon be in a fire not today video said she had three kids
and someone in the comments is steaming saying she got 3 kids but i cant even get a text back lmao
Quote from: da trade b thirstay on October 19, 2016, 12:40:37 AM
Quote from: Magnolia Maymuru on October 19, 2016, 12:37:30 AM
Afro hun it didn't ask if others are jealous of u, but if you are jealous of others. You never had that?
no lolz
[youtube start=8]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KFtj59DuX9A[/youtube]
not buying it
yeah, but i was unhappy with where I was in my life at the time. It's hard to be happy for someone when thinks aren't working out for you :dead:
When a family friend's clothing line got picked up at JC Penny's.We're the same age so I was like "r u tryna show me up bitch?" :diddraispoot:
I don't even know where that came from I don't even wanna design clothes
Of a friend? No
Of bitches with fine trade?
:fuming: