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Title: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: Herb. on November 30, 2015, 08:13:07 PM
This isn't a shady or passive thread...so Lemme just put it out there and say that this is based on my recent interactions with Vonc and Preme....and yum as well.

Why are some people so quick to question someone's "growth" but are always willing to accept behavior which is opposite in nature?

It reminds me of how Mary's fans just wanted her back in the trenches...just so she can better entertain them. :plzstop:

Not saying these are my fans, but u get my drift. The way I feel is.... If I wanted to be a bitch, or nasty etc. I'd be just that. And have no apologies about it.

Why r u so worried about what I'm supposedly portraying? Would u be as annoyed if I were portraying a malicious bitch? Wait don't even answer that cuz i already know the answer. U weren't annoyed. U found it to be fun! Delightful!

Now ask anyone outside of BSource who HERBERT is...and they'll tell u exactly whT u see now. A nice person who avoids confrontation but will get SNAPPY if He needs to. And is a little moody lol.

Even people on here who's talked with me outside the confines of this board will say that.

If you don't like me that's fine. But stop following me around accusing me of being fake.
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: Cocoa on November 30, 2015, 08:15:07 PM
d

Hun do me a fvr and shut the fuck up.

Good lord, you love to hear yourself talk.
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: Herb. on November 30, 2015, 08:24:23 PM
Quote from: Turtle Scuttler on November 30, 2015, 08:15:07 PM
d

Hun do me a fvr and shut the fuck up.

Good lord, you love to hear yourself talk.
Can't really hear text.

But I do enjoy writing.
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: Cocoa on November 30, 2015, 08:26:55 PM
And your hair looks like burnt ramen noodles.
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: Herb. on November 30, 2015, 08:28:06 PM
dfdfffffffffffffffffff
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: Kurama on November 30, 2015, 08:55:35 PM
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I don't generally think people question others growth or happiness, I think its more so the means/time it takes to get there. I also think there's this big misconception on here that when you have an opinion about something that's not to someones' liking, you're somehow upset or mad.

With someone with a LONG history of messing on the internet like yourself, doing a complete 180 merely months after to become this "high-road" "im above" type is definitely a reason to make others skeptical. Change is usually gradual and organic its not something that happens overnight or the span of 3 months. So the skepticism should really be understandable. If this is genuinely you then comments shouldn't really bother you too much, but that's another topic I dont feel like getting into.

Hope this helps put things into perspective for you tho.
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: BrokenHeartsHeal on November 30, 2015, 09:03:24 PM
Ur awesome bae, do you
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: Stewie on November 30, 2015, 09:03:49 PM
Quote from: Kurama on November 30, 2015, 08:55:35 PM
b

I don't generally think people question others growth or happiness, I think its more so the means/time it takes to get there. I also think there's this big misconception on here that when you have an opinion about something that's not to someones' liking, you're somehow upset or mad.

With someone with a LONG history of messing on the internet like yourself, doing a complete 180 merely months after to become this "high-road" "im above" type is definitely a reason to make others skeptical. Change is usually gradual and organic its not something that happens overnight or the span of 3 months. So the skepticism should really be understandable. If this is genuinely you then comments shouldn't really bother you too much, but that's another topic I dont feel like getting into.

Hope this helps put things into perspective for you tho.


:uhh:


Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: LiiVE on November 30, 2015, 09:05:09 PM
 :omgwatshappening:
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: L0NZ. on November 30, 2015, 09:07:03 PM
Nah I don't get fake from your evolution. Probably because we're around the same age, I get you.
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: mauza on November 30, 2015, 09:07:36 PM
Quote from: Kurama on November 30, 2015, 08:55:35 PM


With someone with a LONG history of messing on the internet like yourself, doing a complete 180 merely months after to become this "high-road" "im above" type is definitely a reason to make others skeptical. Change is usually gradual and organic its not something that happens overnight or the span of 3 months.

l

QuoteHope this helps put things into perspective for you tho.

omomomomo
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: Kurama on November 30, 2015, 09:08:16 PM
ffff

can yall fuckin not...
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: L0NZ. on November 30, 2015, 09:12:15 PM
Quote from: Kurama on November 30, 2015, 08:55:35 PM


With someone with a LONG history of messing on the internet like yourself, doing a complete 180 merely months after to become this "high-road" "im above" type is definitely a reason to make others skeptical. Change is usually gradual and organic its not something that happens overnight or the span of 3 months. So the skepticism should really be understandable.

But you're only speaking to what he chooses to give online, which is never 100% intrinsically accurate or true to any of us. You can't say Herbert did a 180 in merely months. I don't think you can question how genuine one's personal growth is, based on a change in how they handle internet people and how fast you saw it.
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: Stewie on November 30, 2015, 09:15:36 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on November 30, 2015, 09:07:03 PM
Nah I don't get fake from your evolution. Probably because we're around the same age, I get you.

!!!


its really just a maturity thing.
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: MAY on November 30, 2015, 09:19:03 PM
I want some butter pecan ice cream
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: Stewie on November 30, 2015, 09:19:34 PM
Quote from: MΛΥDΛΥ on November 30, 2015, 09:19:03 PM
I want some butter pecan ice cream

that's not vegan
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: BAPHOMET. on November 30, 2015, 09:20:10 PM
Quote from: MΛΥDΛΥ on November 30, 2015, 09:19:03 PM
I want some butter pecan ice cream

sounds lovely

(http://i.imgur.com/QpVFcK3.gif)
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: Kurama on November 30, 2015, 09:22:55 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on November 30, 2015, 09:12:15 PM
Quote from: Kurama on November 30, 2015, 08:55:35 PM


With someone with a LONG history of messing on the internet like yourself, doing a complete 180 merely months after to become this "high-road" "im above" type is definitely a reason to make others skeptical. Change is usually gradual and organic its not something that happens overnight or the span of 3 months. So the skepticism should really be understandable.

But you're only speaking to what he chooses to give online, which is never 100% intrinsically accurate or true to any of us. You can't say Herbert did a 180 in merely months. I don't think you can question how genuine one's personal growth is, based on a change in how they handle internet people and how fast you saw it.

That would be plausible had this just been "people on the internet". This is an online community. Some might even say an online family, people have grew up here and shared many of their own personal narratives with others. There have been several times when ppl have taken things quite personally, Herb included, and its understandable.

Also, the reason I'm speaking of online is for the same reason, we don't know him offline. Can't attest to his offline personality thus why I said if it's really him then stick with it, but dont act oblivious to why some people have this perception of you ONLINE....
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: Phantom on November 30, 2015, 09:24:18 PM
Fck vegan
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: Herb. on November 30, 2015, 09:25:34 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on November 30, 2015, 09:12:15 PM
Quote from: Kurama on November 30, 2015, 08:55:35 PM


With someone with a LONG history of messing on the internet like yourself, doing a complete 180 merely months after to become this "high-road" "im above" type is definitely a reason to make others skeptical. Change is usually gradual and organic its not something that happens overnight or the span of 3 months. So the skepticism should really be understandable.

But you're only speaking to what he chooses to give online, which is never 100% intrinsically accurate or true to any of us. You can't say Herbert did a 180 in merely months. I don't think you can question how genuine one's personal growth is, based on a change in how they handle internet people and how fast you saw it.
Perfect.

I was really sitting here thinking....what evidence does he have to support the claim that I did a 180 in 90 days?
Where's the timeline?
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: mauza on November 30, 2015, 09:26:13 PM
I had to google "ramen noodles" to visualize what that bitch was talking about...

what kind of evil land this board has become

I want a butter pecan ice cream too
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: Herb. on November 30, 2015, 09:27:01 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on November 30, 2015, 09:07:03 PM
Nah I don't get fake from your evolution. Probably because we're around the same age, I get you.
!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

>>><<<<<<<

BITCH. :plzstop:
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: L0NZ. on November 30, 2015, 09:29:11 PM
Quote from: Kurama on November 30, 2015, 09:22:55 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on November 30, 2015, 09:12:15 PM
Quote from: Kurama on November 30, 2015, 08:55:35 PM


With someone with a LONG history of messing on the internet like yourself, doing a complete 180 merely months after to become this "high-road" "im above" type is definitely a reason to make others skeptical. Change is usually gradual and organic its not something that happens overnight or the span of 3 months. So the skepticism should really be understandable.

But you're only speaking to what he chooses to give online, which is never 100% intrinsically accurate or true to any of us. You can't say Herbert did a 180 in merely months. I don't think you can question how genuine one's personal growth is, based on a change in how they handle internet people and how fast you saw it.

That would be plausible had this just been "people on the internet". This is an online community. Some might even say an online family, people have grew up here and shared many of their own personal narratives with others. There have been several times when ppl have taken things quite personally, Herb included, and its understandable.

Also, the reason I'm speaking of online is for the same reason, we don't know him offline. Can't attest to his offline personality thus why I said if it's really him then stick with it, but dont act oblivious to why some people have this perception of you ONLINE....

I see, I just think its immature for "those people" to not be able to consider that people change, and that it can very well be genuine because we AREN'T around them in their real lives to see that it was in fact, gradual.
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: Herb. on November 30, 2015, 09:32:16 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on November 30, 2015, 09:29:11 PM
Quote from: Kurama on November 30, 2015, 09:22:55 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on November 30, 2015, 09:12:15 PM
Quote from: Kurama on November 30, 2015, 08:55:35 PM


With someone with a LONG history of messing on the internet like yourself, doing a complete 180 merely months after to become this "high-road" "im above" type is definitely a reason to make others skeptical. Change is usually gradual and organic its not something that happens overnight or the span of 3 months. So the skepticism should really be understandable.

But you're only speaking to what he chooses to give online, which is never 100% intrinsically accurate or true to any of us. You can't say Herbert did a 180 in merely months. I don't think you can question how genuine one's personal growth is, based on a change in how they handle internet people and how fast you saw it.

That would be plausible had this just been "people on the internet". This is an online community. Some might even say an online family, people have grew up here and shared many of their own personal narratives with others. There have been several times when ppl have taken things quite personally, Herb included, and its understandable.

Also, the reason I'm speaking of online is for the same reason, we don't know him offline. Can't attest to his offline personality thus why I said if it's really him then stick with it, but dont act oblivious to why some people have this perception of you ONLINE....

I see, I just think its immature for "those people" to not be able to consider that people change, and that it can very well be genuine because we AREN'T around them in their real lives to see that it was in fact, gradual.
Book.

I love you.
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: GLOCK on November 30, 2015, 09:40:57 PM
I love u Afro I really do and I admire you
But I feel like everything with you is elevated .. Taken to the next level..
Like this thread .. It's a spin off of another spin off.. And on one end u say you don't understand or want people picking apart this new you but a thread like this comes off like you're trying to highlight this new you and in some form nudge at those that question you/your new developments

Like everything has become so extreme..
I don't think that u have to partake in mess ALL the time to enjoy this place but everything with you has become so sensitive..
And in some ways egged on by you ...
U know the mind thing that Malc tries to do?
Where he claims he has this ability to change the rhythm of the board?
He doesn't possess that but I feel like you do..
It may not be a on purpose thing but u are so impressionable ..
I hope it doesn't offend u but rather u will see where I'm coming from and if not .. I will drop it and hopefully we can still be cool... Cuz I do fuck with u..

But a lot of these things.. Issues.. Or spats come off often times orchestrated ..

U went hard with the new black thing..
The hair thing ..
The Indian/natural looking girls
Went hard with the dna thing
Going hard with this growth and development thing

It's nothing wrong with changing but sometimes i get a drag something thru the ground tea from u .. And I feel like u know what it will do to the gorls ..

Just my opinion
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: Herb. on November 30, 2015, 09:42:34 PM
Honestly I was seriously considering leaving this board for good.

But then I realized I enjoy you guys, this is really like a family. You guys make me laugh. Why take that away from myself? And deprive myself of a place I have so much fun at :dead:. But I told myself if I were to stay here, I have to be representing MYSELF in a way that I find to be respectable at this point in MY life. I am to conduct myself NO DIFFERENT than I would in my real life.

This is why you guys see no makeup, you see no cheap wigs (insert curly/ramen noodle joke here :dead: ) , you see no KEN DAHL. You see no AFRO. You see Herbert. I'm tired of playing characters and portraying things that I am not.

Respect for me is no longer being acknowledged for dragging someone the best. Or a handclap for a wonderful exposure of someone. Or effortlessly hurting someone's feelings. But I don't sit here and JUDGE people on here who still find joy in these things. Cuz guess what, that was me not too long ago, so who am I to sit on a high horse and say "oh no this is a mess, clean yourself up guys! :uhh: "

But this is what some of you are doing to ME. You're telling me I'm a fake, I'm a try hard, I'm this, I'm that.....You're JUDGING me. I'm not on here to argue with you guys or to read all day and all night.

I can see if I sat on a soapbox giving speeches about "don't read each other guys" and "you fucking heathens", but I am not doing that to ya'll. I'm letting you be without judgement. And that's nothing hard for me to do. I know what BSource is about. If I log on I should know what to expect. And i LOVE my BSource family, "flaws" and all.
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: Stewie on November 30, 2015, 09:43:22 PM
b

ugh
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: Stewie on November 30, 2015, 09:49:08 PM
that was to glock
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: Kurama on November 30, 2015, 09:50:09 PM
....
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: Phantom on November 30, 2015, 09:50:29 PM
Quote from: G L O C K on November 30, 2015, 09:40:57 PM
I love u Afro I really do and I admire you
But I feel like everything with you is elevated .. Taken to the next level..
Like this thread .. It's a spin off of another spin off.. And on one end u say you don't understand or want people picking apart this new you but a thread like this comes off like you're trying to highlight this new you and in some form nudge at those that question you/your new developments

Like everything has become so extreme..
I don't think that u have to partake in mess ALL the time to enjoy this place but everything with you has become so sensitive..
And in some ways egged on by you ...
U know the mind thing that Malc tries to do?
Where he claims he has this ability to change the rhythm of the board?
He doesn't possess that but I feel like you do..
It may not be a on purpose thing but u are so impressionable ..
I hope it doesn't offend u but rather u will see where I'm coming from and if not .. I will drop it and hopefully we can still be cool... Cuz I do fuck with u..

But a lot of these things.. Issues.. Or spats come off often times orchestrated ..

U went hard with the new black thing..
The hair thing ..
The Indian/natural looking girls
Went hard with the dna thing
Going hard with this growth and development thing

It's nothing wrong with changing but sometimes i get a drag something thru the ground tea from u .. And I feel like u know what it will do to the gorls ..

Just my opinion


Yeah sometimes it's just best to leave well enough alone. You're never gonna see eye to eye with some people no matter how many times you try to explain yourself. Hell, some people will give opposition just because it's you :dead: You know what it is. If they don't buy in, oh the fuck well. It is annoying to feel misunderstood, but sometimes you just gotta :letsmessfag:
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: Herb. on November 30, 2015, 09:57:43 PM
Quote from: G L O C K on November 30, 2015, 09:40:57 PM
I love u Afro I really do and I admire you
But I feel like everything with you is elevated .. Taken to the next level..
Like this thread .. It's a spin off of another spin off.. And on one end u say you don't understand or want people picking apart this new you but a thread like this comes off like you're trying to highlight this new you and in some form nudge at those that question you/your new developments

Like everything has become so extreme..
I don't think that u have to partake in mess ALL the time to enjoy this place but everything with you has become so sensitive..
And in some ways egged on by you ...
U know the mind thing that Malc tries to do?
Where he claims he has this ability to change the rhythm of the board?
He doesn't possess that but I feel like you do..
It may not be a on purpose thing but u are so impressionable ..
I hope it doesn't offend u but rather u will see where I'm coming from and if not .. I will drop it and hopefully we can still be cool... Cuz I do fuck with u..

But a lot of these things.. Issues.. Or spats come off often times orchestrated ..

U went hard with the new black thing..
The hair thing ..
The Indian/natural looking girls
Went hard with the dna thing
Going hard with this growth and development thing

It's nothing wrong with changing but sometimes i get a drag something thru the ground tea from u .. And I feel like u know what it will do to the gorls ..

Just my opinion
Well if that's my personality, what's the problem? This is who I am. There was never a real issue before with me "elevating" things when it was a thread about someone's exposure, etc. But this type of thread is just completely and overtly orchestrated? And uncalled for? This is where my confusion lies....

I make ONE thread about growth (cuz literally this is the only thread I've made about it) and I'm automatically RUNNING this topic into the ground? I'm sorry, but where's the logic in that?  This is what I'm talking about...... :plzstop:

However, I can accept that I do have a habit of LATCHING onto things and getting a bit obsessed! :cheerup: There are some things that NEVER change about people. Maybe that's the one thing that will be a mainstay with me. And I can definitely accept that, wholeheartedly. I believe there's truth in some of your words.

But I just believe there are some things you guys would rather not read. If this were a straight up dramatic call out thread with a cute read, drag and exposure, I doubt you'd be saying anything about me running something into the ground. It would simply be time 4 some mess. And if you say that I'm lying Glock..I will HURT u. :plzstop: U know its true.

And that's fine. But just say that you don't feel like reading about positivity or growth or whatever. I can understand that. It's just accusing people of being fake, etc. is what can get under skin.
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: Kurama on November 30, 2015, 09:59:07 PM
Quote from: Herbie on November 30, 2015, 09:25:34 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on November 30, 2015, 09:12:15 PM
Quote from: Kurama on November 30, 2015, 08:55:35 PM


With someone with a LONG history of messing on the internet like yourself, doing a complete 180 merely months after to become this "high-road" "im above" type is definitely a reason to make others skeptical. Change is usually gradual and organic its not something that happens overnight or the span of 3 months. So the skepticism should really be understandable.

But you're only speaking to what he chooses to give online, which is never 100% intrinsically accurate or true to any of us. You can't say Herbert did a 180 in merely months. I don't think you can question how genuine one's personal growth is, based on a change in how they handle internet people and how fast you saw it.
Perfect.

I was really sitting here thinking....what evidence does he have to support the claim that I did a 180 in 90 days?
Where's the timeline?

Well im glad Lonz was here for you to actually express that.

Secondly, this thread is based off of ppl on what? Bsource, which is an online forum correct? So why would i be discussing the changes in your real life when you proclaim that you have always been this person? There is actually a time frame as well...you still were fuckin messing when this board was created.

Maybe someone could point me to where I said anything about you offline, since you two seem to be harping on it. Which is interesting cuz it shouldnt really matter seeing how you take things personally here as if its "real life".... :uhh:
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: Kurama on November 30, 2015, 10:01:17 PM
g

Like did I miss something :dead: ? Did I say I knew him in real life? Either way Im not here for that  "completely opposite offline" shenanigans. So we can agree to disagree. I honestly chimed in since no one else was but not here for the obliviousness and deflections. Especially when several ppl have the exact same perception :uhh:
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: GLOCK on November 30, 2015, 10:02:32 PM
Quote from: Herbie on November 30, 2015, 09:57:43 PM
Quote from: G L O C K on November 30, 2015, 09:40:57 PM
I love u Afro I really do and I admire you
But I feel like everything with you is elevated .. Taken to the next level..
Like this thread .. It's a spin off of another spin off.. And on one end u say you don't understand or want people picking apart this new you but a thread like this comes off like you're trying to highlight this new you and in some form nudge at those that question you/your new developments

Like everything has become so extreme..
I don't think that u have to partake in mess ALL the time to enjoy this place but everything with you has become so sensitive..
And in some ways egged on by you ...
U know the mind thing that Malc tries to do?
Where he claims he has this ability to change the rhythm of the board?
He doesn't possess that but I feel like you do..
It may not be a on purpose thing but u are so impressionable ..
I hope it doesn't offend u but rather u will see where I'm coming from and if not .. I will drop it and hopefully we can still be cool... Cuz I do fuck with u..

But a lot of these things.. Issues.. Or spats come off often times orchestrated ..

U went hard with the new black thing..
The hair thing ..
The Indian/natural looking girls
Went hard with the dna thing
Going hard with this growth and development thing

It's nothing wrong with changing but sometimes i get a drag something thru the ground tea from u .. And I feel like u know what it will do to the gorls ..

Just my opinion
Well if that's my personality, what's the problem? This is who I am. There was never a real issue before with me "elevating" things when it was a thread about someone's exposure, etc. But this type of thread is just completely and overtly orchestrated? And uncalled for? This is where my confusion lies....

I make ONE thread about growth (cuz literally this is the only thread I've made about it) and I'm automatically RUNNING this topic into the ground? I'm sorry, but where's the logic in that?  This is what I'm talking about...... :plzstop:

However, I can accept that I do have a habit of LATCHING onto things and getting a bit obsessed! :cheerup: There are some things that NEVER change about people. Maybe that's the one thing that will be a mainstay with me. And I can definitely accept that, wholeheartedly. I believe there's truth in some of your words.

But I just believe there are some things you guys would rather not read. If this were a straight up dramatic call out thread with a cute read, drag and exposure, I doubt you'd be saying anything about me running something into the ground. It would simply be time 4 some mess. And if you say that I'm lying Glock..I will HURT u. :plzstop: U know its true.

And that's fine. But just say that you don't feel like reading about positivity or growth or whatever. I can understand that. It's just accusing people of being fake, etc. is what can get under skin.
Funny thing is..
I enjoy every fucking thing u post TBRFHWY

I was just stating what it gives off
It never bothers me..
I just want u to know how impressionable u are here..
I run into every thread u make .. I find it all enjoyable..

But I'm observant and I watch what ur topics and posts do..
Even the new ones with different intent!

But I just wanted to say that.. Don't mind me king
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: GLOCK on November 30, 2015, 10:03:00 PM
And I don't think ur fake.
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: Herb. on November 30, 2015, 10:07:00 PM
Quote from: G L O C K on November 30, 2015, 10:02:32 PM
Quote from: Herbie on November 30, 2015, 09:57:43 PM
Quote from: G L O C K on November 30, 2015, 09:40:57 PM
I love u Afro I really do and I admire you
But I feel like everything with you is elevated .. Taken to the next level..
Like this thread .. It's a spin off of another spin off.. And on one end u say you don't understand or want people picking apart this new you but a thread like this comes off like you're trying to highlight this new you and in some form nudge at those that question you/your new developments

Like everything has become so extreme..
I don't think that u have to partake in mess ALL the time to enjoy this place but everything with you has become so sensitive..
And in some ways egged on by you ...
U know the mind thing that Malc tries to do?
Where he claims he has this ability to change the rhythm of the board?
He doesn't possess that but I feel like you do..
It may not be a on purpose thing but u are so impressionable ..
I hope it doesn't offend u but rather u will see where I'm coming from and if not .. I will drop it and hopefully we can still be cool... Cuz I do fuck with u..

But a lot of these things.. Issues.. Or spats come off often times orchestrated ..

U went hard with the new black thing..
The hair thing ..
The Indian/natural looking girls
Went hard with the dna thing
Going hard with this growth and development thing

It's nothing wrong with changing but sometimes i get a drag something thru the ground tea from u .. And I feel like u know what it will do to the gorls ..

Just my opinion
Well if that's my personality, what's the problem? This is who I am. There was never a real issue before with me "elevating" things when it was a thread about someone's exposure, etc. But this type of thread is just completely and overtly orchestrated? And uncalled for? This is where my confusion lies....

I make ONE thread about growth (cuz literally this is the only thread I've made about it) and I'm automatically RUNNING this topic into the ground? I'm sorry, but where's the logic in that?  This is what I'm talking about...... :plzstop:

However, I can accept that I do have a habit of LATCHING onto things and getting a bit obsessed! :cheerup: There are some things that NEVER change about people. Maybe that's the one thing that will be a mainstay with me. And I can definitely accept that, wholeheartedly. I believe there's truth in some of your words.

But I just believe there are some things you guys would rather not read. If this were a straight up dramatic call out thread with a cute read, drag and exposure, I doubt you'd be saying anything about me running something into the ground. It would simply be time 4 some mess. And if you say that I'm lying Glock..I will HURT u. :plzstop: U know its true.

And that's fine. But just say that you don't feel like reading about positivity or growth or whatever. I can understand that. It's just accusing people of being fake, etc. is what can get under skin.
Funny thing is..
I enjoy every fucking thing u post TBRFHWY

I was just stating what it gives off
It never bothers me..
I just want u to know how impressionable u are here..
I run into every thread u make .. I find it all enjoyable..

But I'm observant and I watch what ur topics and posts do..
Even the new ones with different intent!

But I just wanted to say that.. Don't mind me king
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:howfestive: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: Luv u bvy  :wub:
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: L0NZ. on November 30, 2015, 10:07:11 PM
Gor
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: GLOCK on November 30, 2015, 10:07:51 PM
Love u too bby
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: Herb. on November 30, 2015, 10:07:57 PM
Quote from: Kurama on November 30, 2015, 09:59:07 PM
Quote from: Herbie on November 30, 2015, 09:25:34 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on November 30, 2015, 09:12:15 PM
Quote from: Kurama on November 30, 2015, 08:55:35 PM


With someone with a LONG history of messing on the internet like yourself, doing a complete 180 merely months after to become this "high-road" "im above" type is definitely a reason to make others skeptical. Change is usually gradual and organic its not something that happens overnight or the span of 3 months. So the skepticism should really be understandable.

But you're only speaking to what he chooses to give online, which is never 100% intrinsically accurate or true to any of us. You can't say Herbert did a 180 in merely months. I don't think you can question how genuine one's personal growth is, based on a change in how they handle internet people and how fast you saw it.
Perfect.

I was really sitting here thinking....what evidence does he have to support the claim that I did a 180 in 90 days?
Where's the timeline?

Well im glad Lonz was here for you to actually express that.

u good? :dead:

I was on the way home and couldn't really type what I wanted to on the pad. He hit it on the nail by the time I got here so voila! :cheerup: Why reiterate what was so perfectly stated?
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: L0NZ. on November 30, 2015, 10:09:50 PM
Quote from: Herbie on November 30, 2015, 10:07:57 PM
Quote from: Kurama on November 30, 2015, 09:59:07 PM
Quote from: Herbie on November 30, 2015, 09:25:34 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on November 30, 2015, 09:12:15 PM
Quote from: Kurama on November 30, 2015, 08:55:35 PM


With someone with a LONG history of messing on the internet like yourself, doing a complete 180 merely months after to become this "high-road" "im above" type is definitely a reason to make others skeptical. Change is usually gradual and organic its not something that happens overnight or the span of 3 months. So the skepticism should really be understandable.

But you're only speaking to what he chooses to give online, which is never 100% intrinsically accurate or true to any of us. You can't say Herbert did a 180 in merely months. I don't think you can question how genuine one's personal growth is, based on a change in how they handle internet people and how fast you saw it.
Perfect.

I was really sitting here thinking....what evidence does he have to support the claim that I did a 180 in 90 days?
Where's the timeline?

Well im glad Lonz was here for you to actually express that.

u good? :dead:

I was on the way home and couldn't really type what I wanted to on the pad. He hit it on the nail by the time I got here so voila! :cheerup: Why reiterate what was so perfectly stated?

sis is itching for your take on it. Did I miss!? I mean!?? Pardon!! WHEW!
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: Stewie on November 30, 2015, 10:10:04 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on November 30, 2015, 10:07:11 PM
Gor

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Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: Phantom on November 30, 2015, 10:10:46 PM
Bruv stop saying  TBRFHWY  :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop:
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: Herb. on November 30, 2015, 10:11:10 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on November 30, 2015, 10:09:50 PM
Quote from: Herbie on November 30, 2015, 10:07:57 PM
Quote from: Kurama on November 30, 2015, 09:59:07 PM
Quote from: Herbie on November 30, 2015, 09:25:34 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on November 30, 2015, 09:12:15 PM
Quote from: Kurama on November 30, 2015, 08:55:35 PM


With someone with a LONG history of messing on the internet like yourself, doing a complete 180 merely months after to become this "high-road" "im above" type is definitely a reason to make others skeptical. Change is usually gradual and organic its not something that happens overnight or the span of 3 months. So the skepticism should really be understandable.

But you're only speaking to what he chooses to give online, which is never 100% intrinsically accurate or true to any of us. You can't say Herbert did a 180 in merely months. I don't think you can question how genuine one's personal growth is, based on a change in how they handle internet people and how fast you saw it.
Perfect.

I was really sitting here thinking....what evidence does he have to support the claim that I did a 180 in 90 days?
Where's the timeline?

Well im glad Lonz was here for you to actually express that.

u good? :dead:

I was on the way home and couldn't really type what I wanted to on the pad. He hit it on the nail by the time I got here so voila! :cheerup: Why reiterate what was so perfectly stated?

sis is itching for your take on it. Did I miss!? I mean!?? Pardon!! WHEW!
sssss

I mean I didn't make this thread to argue with anyone or anything...
just wanted to be heard. it's only fair given the accusations that have been swirling around this board recently. :plzstop:

I'm good now  :stressed:

luv u GODnz
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: GLOCK on November 30, 2015, 10:13:14 PM
Quote from: Phantom on November 30, 2015, 10:10:46 PM
Bruv stop saying  TBRFHWY  :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop:
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Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: Herb. on November 30, 2015, 10:13:40 PM
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Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: Stewie on November 30, 2015, 10:15:01 PM
hjhjhjhjh this newfound obsession with ananda lewis
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: Kurama on November 30, 2015, 10:15:09 PM
oh tag team! Fuming!

if yall dont gtf... :kii:
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: L0NZ. on November 30, 2015, 10:15:17 PM
Quote from: Herbie on November 30, 2015, 10:11:10 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on November 30, 2015, 10:09:50 PM
Quote from: Herbie on November 30, 2015, 10:07:57 PM
Quote from: Kurama on November 30, 2015, 09:59:07 PM
Quote from: Herbie on November 30, 2015, 09:25:34 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on November 30, 2015, 09:12:15 PM
Quote from: Kurama on November 30, 2015, 08:55:35 PM


With someone with a LONG history of messing on the internet like yourself, doing a complete 180 merely months after to become this "high-road" "im above" type is definitely a reason to make others skeptical. Change is usually gradual and organic its not something that happens overnight or the span of 3 months. So the skepticism should really be understandable.

But you're only speaking to what he chooses to give online, which is never 100% intrinsically accurate or true to any of us. You can't say Herbert did a 180 in merely months. I don't think you can question how genuine one's personal growth is, based on a change in how they handle internet people and how fast you saw it.
Perfect.

I was really sitting here thinking....what evidence does he have to support the claim that I did a 180 in 90 days?
Where's the timeline?

Well im glad Lonz was here for you to actually express that.

u good? :dead:

I was on the way home and couldn't really type what I wanted to on the pad. He hit it on the nail by the time I got here so voila! :cheerup: Why reiterate what was so perfectly stated?

sis is itching for your take on it. Did I miss!? I mean!?? Pardon!! WHEW!
sssss

I mean I didn't make this thread to argue with anyone or anything...
just wanted to be heard. it's only fair given the accusations that have been swirling around this board recently. :plzstop:

I'm good now  :stressed:

luv u GODnz

So just for clarification, when you typed "other's happiness/growth" .... you didn't mean your BSource happiness did you?
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: L0NZ. on November 30, 2015, 10:15:33 PM
And oh.  :wub:
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: Herb. on November 30, 2015, 10:16:36 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on November 30, 2015, 10:15:17 PM
Quote from: Herbie on November 30, 2015, 10:11:10 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on November 30, 2015, 10:09:50 PM
Quote from: Herbie on November 30, 2015, 10:07:57 PM
Quote from: Kurama on November 30, 2015, 09:59:07 PM
Quote from: Herbie on November 30, 2015, 09:25:34 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on November 30, 2015, 09:12:15 PM
Quote from: Kurama on November 30, 2015, 08:55:35 PM


With someone with a LONG history of messing on the internet like yourself, doing a complete 180 merely months after to become this "high-road" "im above" type is definitely a reason to make others skeptical. Change is usually gradual and organic its not something that happens overnight or the span of 3 months. So the skepticism should really be understandable.

But you're only speaking to what he chooses to give online, which is never 100% intrinsically accurate or true to any of us. You can't say Herbert did a 180 in merely months. I don't think you can question how genuine one's personal growth is, based on a change in how they handle internet people and how fast you saw it.
Perfect.

I was really sitting here thinking....what evidence does he have to support the claim that I did a 180 in 90 days?
Where's the timeline?

Well im glad Lonz was here for you to actually express that.

u good? :dead:

I was on the way home and couldn't really type what I wanted to on the pad. He hit it on the nail by the time I got here so voila! :cheerup: Why reiterate what was so perfectly stated?

sis is itching for your take on it. Did I miss!? I mean!?? Pardon!! WHEW!
sssss

I mean I didn't make this thread to argue with anyone or anything...
just wanted to be heard. it's only fair given the accusations that have been swirling around this board recently. :plzstop:

I'm good now  :stressed:

luv u GODnz

So just for clarification, when you typed "other's happiness/growth" .... you didn't mean your BSource happiness did you?
no  :dead: What does "BSource happiness" even entail?

I'm sorry..and Kur it's no shade I swear, I love you and really appreciate and value your input.
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: L0NZ. on November 30, 2015, 10:17:53 PM
Quote from: Herbie on November 30, 2015, 10:16:36 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on November 30, 2015, 10:15:17 PM
Quote from: Herbie on November 30, 2015, 10:11:10 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on November 30, 2015, 10:09:50 PM
Quote from: Herbie on November 30, 2015, 10:07:57 PM
Quote from: Kurama on November 30, 2015, 09:59:07 PM
Quote from: Herbie on November 30, 2015, 09:25:34 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on November 30, 2015, 09:12:15 PM
Quote from: Kurama on November 30, 2015, 08:55:35 PM


With someone with a LONG history of messing on the internet like yourself, doing a complete 180 merely months after to become this "high-road" "im above" type is definitely a reason to make others skeptical. Change is usually gradual and organic its not something that happens overnight or the span of 3 months. So the skepticism should really be understandable.

But you're only speaking to what he chooses to give online, which is never 100% intrinsically accurate or true to any of us. You can't say Herbert did a 180 in merely months. I don't think you can question how genuine one's personal growth is, based on a change in how they handle internet people and how fast you saw it.
Perfect.

I was really sitting here thinking....what evidence does he have to support the claim that I did a 180 in 90 days?
Where's the timeline?

Well im glad Lonz was here for you to actually express that.

u good? :dead:

I was on the way home and couldn't really type what I wanted to on the pad. He hit it on the nail by the time I got here so voila! :cheerup: Why reiterate what was so perfectly stated?

sis is itching for your take on it. Did I miss!? I mean!?? Pardon!! WHEW!
sssss

I mean I didn't make this thread to argue with anyone or anything...
just wanted to be heard. it's only fair given the accusations that have been swirling around this board recently. :plzstop:

I'm good now  :stressed:

luv u GODnz

So just for clarification, when you typed "other's happiness/growth" .... you didn't mean your BSource happiness did you?
no  :dead: What does "BSource happiness" even entail?

I'm sorry..and Kur it's no shade I swear, I love you and really appreciate and value your input.

I mean sis couldnt fathom that you were referring to your personal, offline happiness/growth. I was just wondering though in case I was wrong and shit.
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: Herb. on November 30, 2015, 10:18:22 PM
Quote from: Stewie on November 30, 2015, 10:15:01 PM
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Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: Stewie on November 30, 2015, 10:19:50 PM
Quote from: Kurama on November 30, 2015, 10:15:09 PM
oh tag team! Fuming!

if yall dont gtf... :kii:

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Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: SUPREME on November 30, 2015, 10:22:01 PM
I don't think you're fake.

Just excessively dramatic in every way. And it's draining.

And I wouldn't find someone being excessively messy, cute either. Which is exactly why I didn't like glock when I first encountered him.

But I'm not trying to change who you are, I'll just continue what I was doing: ignoring it.
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: Stewie on November 30, 2015, 10:23:42 PM
Quote from: SUPREME on November 30, 2015, 10:22:01 PM
I don't think you're fake.

Just excessively dramatic in every way. And it's draining.

And I wouldn't find someone being excessively messy, cute either. Which is exactly why I didn't like glock when I first encountered him.

But I'm not trying to change who you are, I'll just continue what I was doing: ignoring it.

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Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: Herb. on November 30, 2015, 10:23:58 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on November 30, 2015, 10:17:53 PM
Quote from: Herbie on November 30, 2015, 10:16:36 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on November 30, 2015, 10:15:17 PM
Quote from: Herbie on November 30, 2015, 10:11:10 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on November 30, 2015, 10:09:50 PM
Quote from: Herbie on November 30, 2015, 10:07:57 PM
Quote from: Kurama on November 30, 2015, 09:59:07 PM
Quote from: Herbie on November 30, 2015, 09:25:34 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on November 30, 2015, 09:12:15 PM
Quote from: Kurama on November 30, 2015, 08:55:35 PM


With someone with a LONG history of messing on the internet like yourself, doing a complete 180 merely months after to become this "high-road" "im above" type is definitely a reason to make others skeptical. Change is usually gradual and organic its not something that happens overnight or the span of 3 months. So the skepticism should really be understandable.

But you're only speaking to what he chooses to give online, which is never 100% intrinsically accurate or true to any of us. You can't say Herbert did a 180 in merely months. I don't think you can question how genuine one's personal growth is, based on a change in how they handle internet people and how fast you saw it.
Perfect.

I was really sitting here thinking....what evidence does he have to support the claim that I did a 180 in 90 days?
Where's the timeline?

Well im glad Lonz was here for you to actually express that.

u good? :dead:

I was on the way home and couldn't really type what I wanted to on the pad. He hit it on the nail by the time I got here so voila! :cheerup: Why reiterate what was so perfectly stated?

sis is itching for your take on it. Did I miss!? I mean!?? Pardon!! WHEW!
sssss

I mean I didn't make this thread to argue with anyone or anything...
just wanted to be heard. it's only fair given the accusations that have been swirling around this board recently. :plzstop:

I'm good now  :stressed:

luv u GODnz

So just for clarification, when you typed "other's happiness/growth" .... you didn't mean your BSource happiness did you?
no  :dead: What does "BSource happiness" even entail?

I'm sorry..and Kur it's no shade I swear, I love you and really appreciate and value your input.

I mean sis couldnt fathom that you were referring to your personal, offline happiness/growth. I was just wondering though in case I was wrong and shit.
It's growth in many arenas. It's why I took a breather from Ken Dahl..started researching my family history...getting to the root of who I am as a person before I even think of adding on layers ever again....researching both my African and Native roots...realizing the struggle of those who have come before me so I can be just a BIT less entitled, ungrateful and fucking spoiled....there's so many things.....

You can't just walk on a board and decide to be happy, that's more like a portrayal and totally not organic. If change is real it starts in the mirror. Not on BSource. People on other channels of your life may SEE the difference, it's not something you have to announce. "Hey guys! Look! Growth! Changed me!" ... actions speak louder than fucking words. THis is the VERY first time that I have EVER made a topic about growth or happiness....so it is a testament to me , which I am very proud of, that my actions clearly have spoken louder than my words.

I didn't make this thread FIRST then turn around and go back to the same mess the next day. People notice a change, they speak on it, and I have addressed it. In that fucking order.
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: Herb. on November 30, 2015, 10:25:13 PM
Quote from: SUPREME on November 30, 2015, 10:22:01 PM
I don't think you're fake.

Just excessively dramatic in every way. And it's draining.

And I wouldn't find someone being excessively messy, cute either. Which is exactly why I didn't like glock when I first encountered him.

But I'm not trying to change who you are, I'll just continue what I was doing: ignoring it.
Then why didn't you call me out on being excessively messy before? Because oh hun, if there was ANYONE who knew mess, it was Afro.

I'm drawing a blank. THIS is where I get confused. Where the FUCK were u

when I was touching on their bahveys

I remember you kii cackling. Not exiting in disgust. Please.

Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: GLOCK on November 30, 2015, 10:28:22 PM
Fuck u Ton
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: Stewie on November 30, 2015, 10:29:16 PM
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Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: Stewie on November 30, 2015, 10:30:27 PM
Quote from: Herbie on November 30, 2015, 10:25:13 PM
Quote from: SUPREME on November 30, 2015, 10:22:01 PM
I don't think you're fake.

Just excessively dramatic in every way. And it's draining.

And I wouldn't find someone being excessively messy, cute either. Which is exactly why I didn't like glock when I first encountered him.

But I'm not trying to change who you are, I'll just continue what I was doing: ignoring it.
Then why didn't you call me out on being excessively messy before? Because oh hun, if there was ANYONE who knew mess, it was Afro.

I'm drawing a blank. THIS is where I get confused. Where the FUCK were u

when I was touching on their bahveys

I remember you kii cackling. Not exiting in disgust. Please.
sadfdsfdsffdf
'preme is bipolar and belongs in a loony bin...i've been saying this for weeks
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: SUPREME on November 30, 2015, 10:32:58 PM
Quote from: Herbie on November 30, 2015, 10:25:13 PM
Quote from: SUPREME on November 30, 2015, 10:22:01 PM
I don't think you're fake.

Just excessively dramatic in every way. And it's draining.

And I wouldn't find someone being excessively messy, cute either. Which is exactly why I didn't like glock when I first encountered him.

But I'm not trying to change who you are, I'll just continue what I was doing: ignoring it.
Then why didn't you call me out on being excessively messy before? Because oh hun, if there was ANYONE who knew mess, it was Afro.

I'm drawing a blank. THIS is where I get confused. Where the FUCK were u

when I was touching on their bahveys

I remember you kii cackling. Not exiting in disgust. Please.
I don't sit up and call out ANYONE for being a MESS in any way until it comes MY way

And today that's what happened

I made a thread, you came in with the dramatics, and it annoyed the fuck outta me

That's all there is to it.
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: throwintheTAL on November 30, 2015, 10:33:12 PM
Quote from: Stewie on November 30, 2015, 10:30:27 PM
Quote from: Herbie on November 30, 2015, 10:25:13 PM
Quote from: SUPREME on November 30, 2015, 10:22:01 PM
I don't think you're fake.

Just excessively dramatic in every way. And it's draining.

And I wouldn't find someone being excessively messy, cute either. Which is exactly why I didn't like glock when I first encountered him.

But I'm not trying to change who you are, I'll just continue what I was doing: ignoring it.
Then why didn't you call me out on being excessively messy before? Because oh hun, if there was ANYONE who knew mess, it was Afro.

I'm drawing a blank. THIS is where I get confused. Where the FUCK were u

when I was touching on their bahveys

I remember you kii cackling. Not exiting in disgust. Please.
sadfdsfdsffdf
'preme is bipolar and belongs in a loony bin...i've been saying this for weeks
fagg, that's rich comin from you

You're the main mental case on this bitch. You're worse off than Mista.
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: SUPREME on November 30, 2015, 10:34:29 PM
Quote from: G L O C K on November 30, 2015, 10:28:22 PM
Fuck u Ton
:traciandchelle:
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: Herb. on November 30, 2015, 10:34:59 PM
Quote from: Stewie on November 30, 2015, 10:30:27 PM
Quote from: Herbie on November 30, 2015, 10:25:13 PM
Quote from: SUPREME on November 30, 2015, 10:22:01 PM
I don't think you're fake.

Just excessively dramatic in every way. And it's draining.

And I wouldn't find someone being excessively messy, cute either. Which is exactly why I didn't like glock when I first encountered him.

But I'm not trying to change who you are, I'll just continue what I was doing: ignoring it.
Then why didn't you call me out on being excessively messy before? Because oh hun, if there was ANYONE who knew mess, it was Afro.

I'm drawing a blank. THIS is where I get confused. Where the FUCK were u

when I was touching on their bahveys

I remember you kii cackling. Not exiting in disgust. Please.
sadfdsfdsffdf
'preme is bipolar and belongs in a loony bin...i've been saying this for weeks
I wouldn't go that far :udontlookok:

But it's weird how he chose to "take a stand" against Mother Earth
Dramatic! Too much! Tone it down!

But in the next breath will tell someone to die of AIDS ....
:plzstop:

He doesn't realize or accept that his behavior could be considered very over the top.
I know that he's not serious. But imagine someone reading his posts that doesn't know how crazy he is. He doesn't think they're looking like :udontlookok: ???  :plzstop:

He's just not in the position to say what's too much and what isn't. Period. lol


Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: SUPREME on November 30, 2015, 10:39:27 PM
Quote from: Herbie on November 30, 2015, 10:34:59 PM
Quote from: Stewie on November 30, 2015, 10:30:27 PM
Quote from: Herbie on November 30, 2015, 10:25:13 PM
Quote from: SUPREME on November 30, 2015, 10:22:01 PM
I don't think you're fake.

Just excessively dramatic in every way. And it's draining.

And I wouldn't find someone being excessively messy, cute either. Which is exactly why I didn't like glock when I first encountered him.

But I'm not trying to change who you are, I'll just continue what I was doing: ignoring it.
Then why didn't you call me out on being excessively messy before? Because oh hun, if there was ANYONE who knew mess, it was Afro.

I'm drawing a blank. THIS is where I get confused. Where the FUCK were u

when I was touching on their bahveys

I remember you kii cackling. Not exiting in disgust. Please.
sadfdsfdsffdf
'preme is bipolar and belongs in a loony bin...i've been saying this for weeks
I wouldn't go that far :udontlookok:

But it's weird how he chose to "take a stand" against Mother Earth
Dramatic! Too much! Tone it down!

But in the next breath will tell someone to die of AIDS ....
:plzstop:

He doesn't realize or accept that his behavior could be considered very over the top.
I know that he's not serious. But imagine someone reading his posts that doesn't know how crazy he is. He doesn't think they're looking like :udontlookok: ???  :plzstop:

He's just not in the position to say what's too much and what isn't. Period. lol
But I say what I want and I don't give a fuck what anyone thinks about it

That's where you and I differ

You don't have to tell me you don't either, because we both know that's not the case.

And don't group me in some "take a stand" mess like I'm apart of some anti Ken campaign

Again, dramatic.
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: Stewie on November 30, 2015, 10:40:04 PM
Quote from: LISlikeliquor on November 30, 2015, 10:33:12 PM
Quote from: Stewie on November 30, 2015, 10:30:27 PM
Quote from: Herbie on November 30, 2015, 10:25:13 PM
Quote from: SUPREME on November 30, 2015, 10:22:01 PM
I don't think you're fake.

Just excessively dramatic in every way. And it's draining.

And I wouldn't find someone being excessively messy, cute either. Which is exactly why I didn't like glock when I first encountered him.

But I'm not trying to change who you are, I'll just continue what I was doing: ignoring it.
Then why didn't you call me out on being excessively messy before? Because oh hun, if there was ANYONE who knew mess, it was Afro.

I'm drawing a blank. THIS is where I get confused. Where the FUCK were u

when I was touching on their bahveys

I remember you kii cackling. Not exiting in disgust. Please.
sadfdsfdsffdf
'preme is bipolar and belongs in a loony bin...i've been saying this for weeks
fagg, that's rich comin from you

You're the main mental case on this bitch. You're worse off than Mista.

I can spell  :butwait!:
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: throwintheTAL on November 30, 2015, 10:41:58 PM
Quote from: Stewie on November 30, 2015, 10:40:04 PM
Quote from: LISlikeliquor on November 30, 2015, 10:33:12 PM
Quote from: Stewie on November 30, 2015, 10:30:27 PM
Quote from: Herbie on November 30, 2015, 10:25:13 PM
Quote from: SUPREME on November 30, 2015, 10:22:01 PM
I don't think you're fake.

Just excessively dramatic in every way. And it's draining.

And I wouldn't find someone being excessively messy, cute either. Which is exactly why I didn't like glock when I first encountered him.

But I'm not trying to change who you are, I'll just continue what I was doing: ignoring it.
Then why didn't you call me out on being excessively messy before? Because oh hun, if there was ANYONE who knew mess, it was Afro.

I'm drawing a blank. THIS is where I get confused. Where the FUCK were u

when I was touching on their bahveys

I remember you kii cackling. Not exiting in disgust. Please.
sadfdsfdsffdf
'preme is bipolar and belongs in a loony bin...i've been saying this for weeks
fagg, that's rich comin from you

You're the main mental case on this bitch. You're worse off than Mista.

I can spell  :butwait!:
I'm sure the voices in your head keep you on track for that
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: Herb. on November 30, 2015, 10:42:03 PM
Quote from: SUPREME on November 30, 2015, 10:32:58 PM
Quote from: Herbie on November 30, 2015, 10:25:13 PM
Quote from: SUPREME on November 30, 2015, 10:22:01 PM
I don't think you're fake.

Just excessively dramatic in every way. And it's draining.

And I wouldn't find someone being excessively messy, cute either. Which is exactly why I didn't like glock when I first encountered him.

But I'm not trying to change who you are, I'll just continue what I was doing: ignoring it.
Then why didn't you call me out on being excessively messy before? Because oh hun, if there was ANYONE who knew mess, it was Afro.

I'm drawing a blank. THIS is where I get confused. Where the FUCK were u

when I was touching on their bahveys

I remember you kii cackling. Not exiting in disgust. Please.
I don't sit up and call out ANYONE for being a MESS in any way until it comes MY way

Really?

I never addressed you, mentioned your name, or even sub shaded you :plzstop: But you felt a need to bring your mess MY way. I made one post in that rally thread and immediately had you breathing down my throat. When it wasn't even directed towards you :everythingok:

So don't play the whole "only mess when gorls mess with me" act. It's totally inapplicable. Try another angle, hun.
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: SUPREME on November 30, 2015, 10:46:52 PM
Quote from: Herbie on November 30, 2015, 10:42:03 PM
Quote from: SUPREME on November 30, 2015, 10:32:58 PM
Quote from: Herbie on November 30, 2015, 10:25:13 PM
Quote from: SUPREME on November 30, 2015, 10:22:01 PM
I don't think you're fake.

Just excessively dramatic in every way. And it's draining.

And I wouldn't find someone being excessively messy, cute either. Which is exactly why I didn't like glock when I first encountered him.

But I'm not trying to change who you are, I'll just continue what I was doing: ignoring it.
Then why didn't you call me out on being excessively messy before? Because oh hun, if there was ANYONE who knew mess, it was Afro.

I'm drawing a blank. THIS is where I get confused. Where the FUCK were u

when I was touching on their bahveys

I remember you kii cackling. Not exiting in disgust. Please.
I don't sit up and call out ANYONE for being a MESS in any way until it comes MY way

Really?

I never addressed you, mentioned your name, or even sub shaded you :plzstop: But you felt a need to bring your mess MY way. I made one post in that rally thread and immediately had you breathing down my throat. When it wasn't even directed towards you :everythingok:

So don't play the whole "only mess when gorls mess with me" act. It's totally inapplicable. Try another angle, hun.
If I was looking for a reason to bother you, that's not how I would do it.

Like I said, it annoyed me.

People annoy me sometimes. Today it was you.
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: Herb. on November 30, 2015, 10:47:26 PM
Quote from: SUPREME on November 30, 2015, 10:39:27 PM
Quote from: Herbie on November 30, 2015, 10:34:59 PM
Quote from: Stewie on November 30, 2015, 10:30:27 PM
Quote from: Herbie on November 30, 2015, 10:25:13 PM
Quote from: SUPREME on November 30, 2015, 10:22:01 PM
I don't think you're fake.

Just excessively dramatic in every way. And it's draining.

And I wouldn't find someone being excessively messy, cute either. Which is exactly why I didn't like glock when I first encountered him.

But I'm not trying to change who you are, I'll just continue what I was doing: ignoring it.
Then why didn't you call me out on being excessively messy before? Because oh hun, if there was ANYONE who knew mess, it was Afro.

I'm drawing a blank. THIS is where I get confused. Where the FUCK were u

when I was touching on their bahveys

I remember you kii cackling. Not exiting in disgust. Please.
sadfdsfdsffdf
'preme is bipolar and belongs in a loony bin...i've been saying this for weeks
I wouldn't go that far :udontlookok:

But it's weird how he chose to "take a stand" against Mother Earth
Dramatic! Too much! Tone it down!

But in the next breath will tell someone to die of AIDS ....
:plzstop:

He doesn't realize or accept that his behavior could be considered very over the top.
I know that he's not serious. But imagine someone reading his posts that doesn't know how crazy he is. He doesn't think they're looking like :udontlookok: ???  :plzstop:

He's just not in the position to say what's too much and what isn't. Period. lol
But I say what I want and I don't give a fuck what anyone thinks about it

Which is why I find it so laughable that you care so much about what I have to say.
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: Herb. on November 30, 2015, 10:47:56 PM
Quote from: SUPREME on November 30, 2015, 10:46:52 PM
Quote from: Herbie on November 30, 2015, 10:42:03 PM
Quote from: SUPREME on November 30, 2015, 10:32:58 PM
Quote from: Herbie on November 30, 2015, 10:25:13 PM
Quote from: SUPREME on November 30, 2015, 10:22:01 PM
I don't think you're fake.

Just excessively dramatic in every way. And it's draining.

And I wouldn't find someone being excessively messy, cute either. Which is exactly why I didn't like glock when I first encountered him.

But I'm not trying to change who you are, I'll just continue what I was doing: ignoring it.
Then why didn't you call me out on being excessively messy before? Because oh hun, if there was ANYONE who knew mess, it was Afro.

I'm drawing a blank. THIS is where I get confused. Where the FUCK were u

when I was touching on their bahveys

I remember you kii cackling. Not exiting in disgust. Please.
I don't sit up and call out ANYONE for being a MESS in any way until it comes MY way

Really?

I never addressed you, mentioned your name, or even sub shaded you :plzstop: But you felt a need to bring your mess MY way. I made one post in that rally thread and immediately had you breathing down my throat. When it wasn't even directed towards you :everythingok:

So don't play the whole "only mess when gorls mess with me" act. It's totally inapplicable. Try another angle, hun.
If I was looking for a reason to bother you, that's not how I would do it.

Like I said, it annoyed me.

People annoy me sometimes. Today it was you.
I thought this was an ongoing thing that you've been ignoring.

I'm confused..
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: Lane Bryant Jumpsuit on November 30, 2015, 10:49:33 PM
well lol in my opinion i always taken afro at face value
ive always believed  he was an opportunist with two sides of his face always
and the play two hands in the middle type and although some of that has changed i still see glimpses here and there
and im all for change cause ive gon thru a lil bit of change online and off but yeah i dunno what to say about this mother earth thing lol
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: SUPREME on November 30, 2015, 10:53:08 PM
Quote from: Herbie on November 30, 2015, 10:47:26 PM
Quote from: SUPREME on November 30, 2015, 10:39:27 PM
Quote from: Herbie on November 30, 2015, 10:34:59 PM
Quote from: Stewie on November 30, 2015, 10:30:27 PM
Quote from: Herbie on November 30, 2015, 10:25:13 PM
Quote from: SUPREME on November 30, 2015, 10:22:01 PM
I don't think you're fake.

Just excessively dramatic in every way. And it's draining.

And I wouldn't find someone being excessively messy, cute either. Which is exactly why I didn't like glock when I first encountered him.

But I'm not trying to change who you are, I'll just continue what I was doing: ignoring it.
Then why didn't you call me out on being excessively messy before? Because oh hun, if there was ANYONE who knew mess, it was Afro.

I'm drawing a blank. THIS is where I get confused. Where the FUCK were u

when I was touching on their bahveys

I remember you kii cackling. Not exiting in disgust. Please.
sadfdsfdsffdf
'preme is bipolar and belongs in a loony bin...i've been saying this for weeks
I wouldn't go that far :udontlookok:

But it's weird how he chose to "take a stand" against Mother Earth
Dramatic! Too much! Tone it down!

But in the next breath will tell someone to die of AIDS ....
:plzstop:

He doesn't realize or accept that his behavior could be considered very over the top.
I know that he's not serious. But imagine someone reading his posts that doesn't know how crazy he is. He doesn't think they're looking like :udontlookok: ???  :plzstop:

He's just not in the position to say what's too much and what isn't. Period. lol
But I say what I want and I don't give a fuck what anyone thinks about it

Which is why I find it so laughable that you care so much about what I have to say.
I don't think you're comprehending --

You came in MY thread, spewing bullshit and trying to make the mess about you.

Of COURSE I read your post. I usually read every post in a thread I make.

I know how to avoid the posts or thread of someone. I do it all the time.

But when someone comes in with bullshit I don't care about, I just want them to shut the fuck up.
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: Herb. on November 30, 2015, 10:53:24 PM
Quote from: TheNextLew on November 30, 2015, 10:49:33 PM
well lol in my opinion i always taken afro at face value
ive always believed  he was an opportunist with two sides of his face always
and the play two hands in the middle type and although some of that has changed i still see glimpses here and there
and im all for change cause ive gon thru a lil bit of change online and off but yeah i dunno what to say about this mother earth thing lol
I can TOTALLY accept this. And agree completely.

I am still very much a work in progress. Sometimes I get very SNAPPY, sometimes I get carried away. Sometimes I can still be shady. And I have to work more on that. But I have never claimed to be perfect. I am not "Mother Earth" who walks around here trying to be perfect. :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: Do I avoid conflict more often? Yes. Am I quite ashamed of mess I've done in the past? Absolutely. Am I striving to be my definition of better? YES.

This is why I love you Lew. You always swoop through with an unbiased, balanced and realistic perspective.
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: SUPREME on November 30, 2015, 10:55:00 PM
Quote from: Herbie on November 30, 2015, 10:47:56 PM
Quote from: SUPREME on November 30, 2015, 10:46:52 PM
Quote from: Herbie on November 30, 2015, 10:42:03 PM
Quote from: SUPREME on November 30, 2015, 10:32:58 PM
Quote from: Herbie on November 30, 2015, 10:25:13 PM
Quote from: SUPREME on November 30, 2015, 10:22:01 PM
I don't think you're fake.

Just excessively dramatic in every way. And it's draining.

And I wouldn't find someone being excessively messy, cute either. Which is exactly why I didn't like glock when I first encountered him.

But I'm not trying to change who you are, I'll just continue what I was doing: ignoring it.
Then why didn't you call me out on being excessively messy before? Because oh hun, if there was ANYONE who knew mess, it was Afro.

I'm drawing a blank. THIS is where I get confused. Where the FUCK were u

when I was touching on their bahveys

I remember you kii cackling. Not exiting in disgust. Please.
I don't sit up and call out ANYONE for being a MESS in any way until it comes MY way

Really?

I never addressed you, mentioned your name, or even sub shaded you :plzstop: But you felt a need to bring your mess MY way. I made one post in that rally thread and immediately had you breathing down my throat. When it wasn't even directed towards you :everythingok:

So don't play the whole "only mess when gorls mess with me" act. It's totally inapplicable. Try another angle, hun.
If I was looking for a reason to bother you, that's not how I would do it.

Like I said, it annoyed me.

People annoy me sometimes. Today it was you.
I thought this was an ongoing thing that you've been ignoring.

I'm confused..
Just cause I notice personality flaws, doesn't mean I harp on them. I'm a nice person.
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: Herb. on November 30, 2015, 10:55:39 PM
I'm so thankful and grateful for your niceness.
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: SUPREME on November 30, 2015, 10:56:41 PM
But really, I'm not into explaining myself beyond a certain point.

Nobody is obligated to care about what I say. I'm just supreme.
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: Herb. on November 30, 2015, 10:59:22 PM
I really don't care about your ramblings about me to be honest.

Regardless of what you say, nothing's changing.

I just felt the need to discuss it, and since I didn't want this thread to come off as passive or shady, I made sure to mention why I made the thread and who "inspired" it. Me taking your words into serious account is irrelevant. I'm here to state my point and keep it moving. Not to absorb your personal doctrine.

I thank you for participating and explaining yourself, though.
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: Lane Bryant Jumpsuit on November 30, 2015, 11:05:44 PM
Quote from: Herbie on November 30, 2015, 10:53:24 PM
Quote from: TheNextLew on November 30, 2015, 10:49:33 PM
well lol in my opinion i always taken afro at face value
ive always believed  he was an opportunist with two sides of his face always
and the play two hands in the middle type and although some of that has changed i still see glimpses here and there
and im all for change cause ive gon thru a lil bit of change online and off but yeah i dunno what to say about this mother earth thing lol
I can TOTALLY accept this. And agree completely.

I am still very much a work in progress. Sometimes I get very SNAPPY, sometimes I get carried away. Sometimes I can still be shady. And I have to work more on that. But I have never claimed to be perfect. I am not "Mother Earth" who walks around here trying to be perfect. :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: Do I avoid conflict more often? Yes. Am I quite ashamed of mess I've done in the past? Absolutely. Am I striving to be my definition of better? YES.

This is why I love you Lew. You always swoop through with an unbiased, balanced and realistic perspective.

thankies

but i applaud the efforts tho cause at the end of the day it does no body good
being messy all the time
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: Herb. on November 30, 2015, 11:08:01 PM
Quote from: TheNextLew on November 30, 2015, 11:05:44 PM
Quote from: Herbie on November 30, 2015, 10:53:24 PM
Quote from: TheNextLew on November 30, 2015, 10:49:33 PM
well lol in my opinion i always taken afro at face value
ive always believed  he was an opportunist with two sides of his face always
and the play two hands in the middle type and although some of that has changed i still see glimpses here and there
and im all for change cause ive gon thru a lil bit of change online and off but yeah i dunno what to say about this mother earth thing lol
I can TOTALLY accept this. And agree completely.

I am still very much a work in progress. Sometimes I get very SNAPPY, sometimes I get carried away. Sometimes I can still be shady. And I have to work more on that. But I have never claimed to be perfect. I am not "Mother Earth" who walks around here trying to be perfect. :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: Do I avoid conflict more often? Yes. Am I quite ashamed of mess I've done in the past? Absolutely. Am I striving to be my definition of better? YES.

This is why I love you Lew. You always swoop through with an unbiased, balanced and realistic perspective.

thankies

but i applaud the efforts tho cause at the end of the day it does no body good
being messy all the time
I fucking LOVE you. Ugh.

You get it Lew. This is why I ride for you , even though you yank at my fucking wig.

You're so real. And fucking unfiltered. And not trying to impress people on here. Gorls could really learn from you, including myself. :stressed:
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: Just Dropped In To See What Condition My Condition Was In on November 30, 2015, 11:13:35 PM
Okay, I have to say something:

As someone who has known Afro on and off message boards for well over 10 years now, (I was one of the few people who helped Afro start BH (Brandy's Horizons) along with Michelle and Corey (he's not on here but I still talk to his goofy self on FB) he is a genuinely nice person. We've had our own mess way back but we've actually talked on the phone many times outside of this board. Like we actually know things about one another personally that people on this board don't even know and probably wouldn't even care to know (that's from knowing some of the weird characters on this bitch anyway) we've talked about a number of things. Plus, we share something that most of you probably already know and that's our love for Toni Braxton that's where we originally bonded. But I see the growth within you and I guess it's because I hardly come on and post and so forth and my age as well. But you've grown a lot Afro and I see it bby. Don't worry about what others say just keep doing you.. Because most of you wasn't around when Afro used to REALLY MESS. That's all. Trust me. I know that Malcolm for one, wouldn't last a second around 2005 Afro. That's all. *drops mic* 
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: Lane Bryant Jumpsuit on November 30, 2015, 11:17:19 PM
Quote from: Herbie on November 30, 2015, 11:08:01 PM
Quote from: TheNextLew on November 30, 2015, 11:05:44 PM
Quote from: Herbie on November 30, 2015, 10:53:24 PM
Quote from: TheNextLew on November 30, 2015, 10:49:33 PM
well lol in my opinion i always taken afro at face value
ive always believed  he was an opportunist with two sides of his face always
and the play two hands in the middle type and although some of that has changed i still see glimpses here and there
and im all for change cause ive gon thru a lil bit of change online and off but yeah i dunno what to say about this mother earth thing lol
I can TOTALLY accept this. And agree completely.

I am still very much a work in progress. Sometimes I get very SNAPPY, sometimes I get carried away. Sometimes I can still be shady. And I have to work more on that. But I have never claimed to be perfect. I am not "Mother Earth" who walks around here trying to be perfect. :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: Do I avoid conflict more often? Yes. Am I quite ashamed of mess I've done in the past? Absolutely. Am I striving to be my definition of better? YES.

This is why I love you Lew. You always swoop through with an unbiased, balanced and realistic perspective.

thankies

but i applaud the efforts tho cause at the end of the day it does no body good
being messy all the time
I fucking LOVE you. Ugh.

You get it Lew. This is why I ride for you , even though you yank at my fucking wig.

You're so real. And fucking unfiltered. And not trying to impress people on here. Gorls could really learn from you, including myself. :stressed:

I agree :wub: i mean i know ppul be like well u are too honest and upfront or whatevs but
to hold it back imo means that there is a bit of shame there and on this road of life everything  helps shape us and everything happens for a reason and is a learning experience
i belive the devil hides in the lies we tell and the secrets that we keep

and im not about to be held hostage #letitgo  :caramelapple:


Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: Just Dropped In To See What Condition My Condition Was In on November 30, 2015, 11:18:09 PM
At the end of the day, everyone is experiencing growth in some way, shape, or form. You have to respect a person for that and if you don't, then the problem must be with YOU. Think about it. It's not shade or anything like that. This is just wise words that a 34 year old man is trying to pass on to people. Because I can tell from what I'm seeing in this thread some people need to read this. Read it, remember it, embrace it. It'll make YOU a better YOU.
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: Cocoa on November 30, 2015, 11:18:49 PM
Quote from: Herbie on November 30, 2015, 10:47:56 PM
I'm confused..

extremely...
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: Kurama on November 30, 2015, 11:19:15 PM
g
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: Cocoa on November 30, 2015, 11:21:31 PM
this is yummy btw

just borrowing this account from a friend

what's up

(http://profile.ak.fbcdn.net/hprofile-ak-ash2/369578_100000430593526_485251305_n.jpg)
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: Just Dropped In To See What Condition My Condition Was In on November 30, 2015, 11:21:33 PM
Quote from: Turtle Scuttler on November 30, 2015, 11:18:49 PM
Quote from: Herbie on November 30, 2015, 10:47:56 PM
I'm confused..

extremely...
Who are you? What is your problem? :uhh:
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: Herb. on November 30, 2015, 11:21:43 PM
Quote from: Jay. on November 30, 2015, 11:13:35 PM
Okay, I have to say something:

As someone who has known Afro on and off message boards for well over 10 years now, (I was one of the few people who helped Afro start BH (Brandy's Horizons) along with Michelle and Corey (he's not on here but I still talk to his goofy self on FB) he is a genuinely nice person. We've had our own mess way back but we've actually talked on the phone many times outside of this board. Like we actually know things about one another personally that people on this board don't even know and probably wouldn't even care to know (that's from knowing some of the weird characters on this bitch anyway) we've talked about a number of things. Plus, we share something that most of you probably already know and that's our love for Toni Braxton that's where we originally bonded. But I see the growth within you and I guess it's because I hardly come on and post and so forth and my age as well. But you've grown a lot Afro and I see it bby. Don't worry about what others say just keep doing you.. Because most of you wasn't around when Afro used to REALLY MESS. That's all. Trust me. I know that Malcolm for one, wouldn't last a second around 2005 Afro. That's all. *drops mic*
;mp'jo[nh9ip8gu7'f9yi6;8dtu5

jay :plzstop:

Thank you. :wub:

And you brought up a good point....this has all been a very gradual process....From BH (me being a completely wild off the wall, who want war, don't give a fuck kinda gorl)....to BSource (being a shady, long as u dn't fuck with me, we good ...but if u do, i'll rip u apart....type of gorl...) to now...just being one who just doesn't wanna be in MESS all the time, or as little as possible. And may even turn the cheek once or twice, or even three times.

I think it's totally related to slowly but gradually growing up. And I'm happy.
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: Herb. on November 30, 2015, 11:22:20 PM
Quote from: Jay. on November 30, 2015, 11:21:33 PM
Quote from: Turtle Scuttler on November 30, 2015, 11:18:49 PM
Quote from: Herbie on November 30, 2015, 10:47:56 PM
I'm confused..

extremely...
Who are you? What is your problem? :uhh:
It's some alternate account. Don't even bother. At least not until they log onto their real mess.
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: Cocoa on November 30, 2015, 11:23:05 PM
Quote from: Jay. on November 30, 2015, 11:21:33 PM
Quote from: Turtle Scuttler on November 30, 2015, 11:18:49 PM
Quote from: Herbie on November 30, 2015, 10:47:56 PM
I'm confused..

extremely...
Who are you? What is your problem? :uhh:

d

aside from the way you're frightening toni in your sig, what's your problem, hun?
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: Young on November 30, 2015, 11:23:21 PM
What's going on
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: Cocoa on November 30, 2015, 11:25:04 PM
so...this thread was basically a spin off thread disguised as an invitation to some sort of discussion?  :dead:

This has got to be getting old, Herb.  :dead: Surely, there are other ways to get a point across.
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: Just Dropped In To See What Condition My Condition Was In on November 30, 2015, 11:26:15 PM
Quote from: Herbie on November 30, 2015, 11:21:43 PM
Quote from: Jay. on November 30, 2015, 11:13:35 PM
Okay, I have to say something:

As someone who has known Afro on and off message boards for well over 10 years now, (I was one of the few people who helped Afro start BH (Brandy's Horizons) along with Michelle and Corey (he's not on here but I still talk to his goofy self on FB) he is a genuinely nice person. We've had our own mess way back but we've actually talked on the phone many times outside of this board. Like we actually know things about one another personally that people on this board don't even know and probably wouldn't even care to know (that's from knowing some of the weird characters on this bitch anyway) we've talked about a number of things. Plus, we share something that most of you probably already know and that's our love for Toni Braxton that's where we originally bonded. But I see the growth within you and I guess it's because I hardly come on and post and so forth and my age as well. But you've grown a lot Afro and I see it bby. Don't worry about what others say just keep doing you.. Because most of you wasn't around when Afro used to REALLY MESS. That's all. Trust me. I know that Malcolm for one, wouldn't last a second around 2005 Afro. That's all. *drops mic*
;mp'jo[nh9ip8gu7'f9yi6;8dtu5

jay :plzstop:

Thank you. :wub:

And you brought up a good point....this has all been a very gradual process....From BH (me being a completely wild off the wall, who want war, don't give a fuck kinda gorl)....to BSource (being a shady, long as u dn't fuck with me, we good ...but if u do, i'll rip u apart....type of gorl...) to now...just being one who just doesn't wanna be in MESS all the time, or as little as possible. And may even turn the cheek once or twice, or even three times.

I think it's totally related to slowly but gradually growing up. And I'm happy.
Exactly. All some of these miserable people need to do is just say that they don't like you and keep it moving. No need for the elementary dramatics. Save that for people who actually cares.
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: Herb. on November 30, 2015, 11:26:24 PM
An alternate account attempting to spew logic? This is rich.
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: RAY7 on November 30, 2015, 11:27:25 PM
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Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: tigernathan on November 30, 2015, 11:27:53 PM
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Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: SUPREME on November 30, 2015, 11:28:07 PM
Quote from: Turtle Scuttler on November 30, 2015, 11:21:31 PM
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Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: Just Dropped In To See What Condition My Condition Was In on November 30, 2015, 11:29:01 PM
Quote from: Turtle Scuttler on November 30, 2015, 11:23:05 PM
Quote from: Jay. on November 30, 2015, 11:21:33 PM
Quote from: Turtle Scuttler on November 30, 2015, 11:18:49 PM
Quote from: Herbie on November 30, 2015, 10:47:56 PM
I'm confused..

extremely...
Who are you? What is your problem? :uhh:

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aside from the way you're frightening toni in your sig, what's your problem, hun?
I'm not even going to entertain you tonight. Grow up for once.
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: tigernathan on November 30, 2015, 11:29:32 PM
Quote from: SUPREME on November 30, 2015, 11:28:07 PM
Quote from: Turtle Scuttler on November 30, 2015, 11:21:31 PM
this is yummy btw



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Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: throwintheTAL on November 30, 2015, 11:29:58 PM
Quote from: Turtle Scuttler on November 30, 2015, 11:23:05 PM
Quote from: Jay. on November 30, 2015, 11:21:33 PM
Quote from: Turtle Scuttler on November 30, 2015, 11:18:49 PM
Quote from: Herbie on November 30, 2015, 10:47:56 PM
I'm confused..

extremely...
Who are you? What is your problem? :uhh:

d

aside from the way you're frightening toni in your sig, what's your problem, hun?
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Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: Just Dropped In To See What Condition My Condition Was In on November 30, 2015, 11:32:04 PM
Quote from: Herbie on November 30, 2015, 11:26:24 PM
An alternate account attempting to spew logic? This is rich.
It goes to show how immature and petty some people can be.
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: RekeRig on November 30, 2015, 11:35:47 PM
Nnnnnn it's yummy guys
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: RAY7 on November 30, 2015, 11:37:11 PM
Quote from: RIG on November 30, 2015, 11:35:47 PM
Nnnnnn it's yummy guys
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He said so already
Is it ok to be sharing accounts though?
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: RekeRig on November 30, 2015, 11:38:16 PM
Quote from: ........ on November 30, 2015, 11:37:11 PM
Quote from: RIG on November 30, 2015, 11:35:47 PM
Nnnnnn it's yummy guys
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He said so already
Is it ok to be sharing accounts though?
yea lol pons does whatever he wants so why not

I've yet to see some rule on it
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: RAY7 on November 30, 2015, 11:41:20 PM
Quote from: RIG on November 30, 2015, 11:38:16 PM
Quote from: ........ on November 30, 2015, 11:37:11 PM
Quote from: RIG on November 30, 2015, 11:35:47 PM
Nnnnnn it's yummy guys
b
He said so already
Is it ok to be sharing accounts though?
yea lol pons does whatever he wants so why not

I've yet to see some rule on it
oh.
I think you should ban the account
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: Phantom on November 30, 2015, 11:42:09 PM
Quote from: RIG on November 30, 2015, 11:38:16 PM
Quote from: ........ on November 30, 2015, 11:37:11 PM
Quote from: RIG on November 30, 2015, 11:35:47 PM
Nnnnnn it's yummy guys
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He said so already
Is it ok to be sharing accounts though?
yea lol pons does whatever he wants so why not

I've yet to see some rule on it

Good point
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: Herb. on November 30, 2015, 11:50:21 PM
weird . Yums used that account to come @ me before on here.

but he swears up and down he's so real and upfront. lol

trust no alternate accounts would be made if I had to say something to him. but fume on, Yum!
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: leftout on November 30, 2015, 11:52:43 PM
Quote from: ........ on November 30, 2015, 11:41:20 PM
Quote from: RIG on November 30, 2015, 11:38:16 PM
Quote from: ........ on November 30, 2015, 11:37:11 PM
Quote from: RIG on November 30, 2015, 11:35:47 PMNnnnnn it's yummy guys
bHe said so already Is it ok to be sharing accounts though?
yea lol pons does whatever he wants so why not I've yet to see some rule on it
oh.I think you should ban the account
can u post ur pic and get banned for not usin the nsfw tag
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: Cocoa on November 30, 2015, 11:53:23 PM
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damn this account has dragged you too?

you really do irk the fck outta people  :uhh:
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: RAY7 on November 30, 2015, 11:54:33 PM
Quote from: leftout on November 30, 2015, 11:52:43 PM
Quote from: ........ on November 30, 2015, 11:41:20 PM
Quote from: RIG on November 30, 2015, 11:38:16 PM
Quote from: ........ on November 30, 2015, 11:37:11 PM
Quote from: RIG on November 30, 2015, 11:35:47 PMNnnnnn it's yummy guys
bHe said so already Is it ok to be sharing accounts though?
yea lol pons does whatever he wants so why not I've yet to see some rule on it
oh.I think you should ban the account
can u post ur pic and get banned for not usin the nsfw tag
no?
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: Herb. on November 30, 2015, 11:55:12 PM
Good deflection.

Point remains that you were behind it. Just like I knew you were behind the other account from the other board as well. But oh no, you swore up and down, never you, fake account to address Afro? Please! Not needed!

You're weaker than I thought you were. And that saddens me. Goodnite.
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: Cocoa on November 30, 2015, 11:57:10 PM
You're right

I had to sign into this account (and that other one) to tell you something I've told you numerous times before...

Please forgive me, Herbert :stressed:
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: Cocoa on November 30, 2015, 11:58:45 PM
anywho, night night

see you guys in a few days lolz
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: Herb. on November 30, 2015, 11:59:11 PM
Don't think mocking my mother's death was something you've told me "numerous times before"....
and it makes sense because when you mistakenly concluded I was the one who got the board shut down you immediately went back to my mother again, with NO problem.

You're kinda pathetic. And I'm sorry you're not a man enough to address me while I know it's you.

Grow some balls. You're from New York. I expect more.

Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: Lane Bryant Jumpsuit on December 01, 2015, 12:01:47 AM
Quote from: Herbie on November 30, 2015, 11:59:11 PM
Don't think mocking my mother's death was something you've told me "numerous times before"....
and it makes sense because when you mistakenly concluded I was the one who got the board shut down you immediately went back to my mother again, with NO problem.

You're kinda pathetic. And I'm sorry you're not a man enough to address me while I know it's you.

Grow some balls. You're from New York. I expect more.

iS IT TYRELLE?
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: Herb. on December 01, 2015, 12:02:26 AM
Quote from: TheNextLew on December 01, 2015, 12:01:47 AM
Quote from: Herbie on November 30, 2015, 11:59:11 PM
Don't think mocking my mother's death was something you've told me "numerous times before"....
and it makes sense because when you mistakenly concluded I was the one who got the board shut down you immediately went back to my mother again, with NO problem.

You're kinda pathetic. And I'm sorry you're not a man enough to address me while I know it's you.

Grow some balls. You're from New York. I expect more.

iS IT TYRELLE?
it's yum's scared, account hopping ass. :plzstop:
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: Herb. on December 01, 2015, 12:04:07 AM
And you'd think his invisibility in itself would be CLOAK enough.
Like, no one sees or knows who Yummy is :dead:

Where is the need to log onto another account to say something to me? :dead:
weird as hell. but will always be the first one to accuse others of being weirdos.
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: Lane Bryant Jumpsuit on December 01, 2015, 12:25:54 AM
Quote from: Herbie on December 01, 2015, 12:04:07 AM
And you'd think his invisibility in itself would be CLOAK enough.
Like, no one sees or knows who Yummy is :dead:

Where is the need to log onto another account to say something to me? :dead:
weird as hell. but will always be the first one to accuse others of being weirdos.

oh wow :kii: :kii: :dead: :dead:
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: Jon on December 01, 2015, 12:28:56 AM
Quote from: Herbie on November 30, 2015, 08:13:07 PM
This isn't a shady or passive thread...so Lemme just put it out there and say that this is based on my recent interactions with Vonc and Preme....and yum as well.


lol  :plzstop:
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: RekeRig on December 01, 2015, 01:37:24 AM
Quote from: Herbie on December 01, 2015, 12:04:07 AM
And you'd think his invisibility in itself would be CLOAK enough.
Like, no one sees or knows who Yummy is :dead:

Where is the need to log onto another account to say something to me? :dead:
weird as hell. but will always be the first one to accuse others of being weirdos.
his regular account was banned
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: Herb. on December 01, 2015, 01:51:01 AM
Quote from: RIG on December 01, 2015, 01:37:24 AM
Quote from: Herbie on December 01, 2015, 12:04:07 AM
And you'd think his invisibility in itself would be CLOAK enough.
Like, no one sees or knows who Yummy is :dead:

Where is the need to log onto another account to say something to me? :dead:
weird as hell. but will always be the first one to accuse others of being weirdos.
his regular account was banned
I'm talking about the other times he's come at me on here.

:plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop:

I'm convinced he's psycho at this point.

I know people say this a lot and I laughed before but I'm really creeped the fuck out for the first time on here.
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: BranLover on December 01, 2015, 03:24:24 AM
! I will never understand this. I've seen people on social media make negative posts about others who often promote positivity. It's sad that this causes anger or even skepticism. No one really knows the personal journey someone else is on so idk why it upsets people so much.
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: pCj on December 01, 2015, 03:37:24 AM
Quote from: Jay. on November 30, 2015, 11:13:35 PM
Okay, I have to say something:
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Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: ❄️☃️🌨� Shuji Feels Different 🌨�☃️❄️ on December 01, 2015, 03:48:01 AM
This thread has laid me the fuck out....
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: AIDS! on December 01, 2015, 06:26:10 AM
Quote from: ........ on November 30, 2015, 11:41:20 PM
Quote from: RIG on November 30, 2015, 11:38:16 PM
Quote from: ........ on November 30, 2015, 11:37:11 PM
Quote from: RIG on November 30, 2015, 11:35:47 PM
Nnnnnn it's yummy guys
b
He said so already
Is it ok to be sharing accounts though?
yea lol pons does whatever he wants so why not

I've yet to see some rule on it
oh.
I think you should ban the account
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Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: Bentley! on December 01, 2015, 09:24:32 AM
Quote from: pCj on December 01, 2015, 03:37:24 AM
Quote from: Jay. on November 30, 2015, 11:13:35 PM
Okay, I have to say something:
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Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: Zankou. on December 01, 2015, 09:36:51 AM
Quote from: Turtle Scuttler on November 30, 2015, 11:21:31 PM
this is yummy btw

just borrowing this account from a friend

what's up

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Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: GLOCK on December 01, 2015, 09:37:58 AM
Quote from: Bentley! on December 01, 2015, 09:24:32 AM
Quote from: pCj on December 01, 2015, 03:37:24 AM
Quote from: Jay. on November 30, 2015, 11:13:35 PM
Okay, I have to say something:
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Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: Zankou. on December 01, 2015, 09:39:15 AM
Quote from: pCj on December 01, 2015, 03:37:24 AM
Quote from: Jay. on November 30, 2015, 11:13:35 PM
Okay, I have to say something:
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Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: Herb. on December 01, 2015, 05:51:10 PM
Quote from: NexTae on December 01, 2015, 03:24:24 AM
! I will never understand this. I've seen people on social media make negative posts about others who often promote positivity. It's sad that this causes anger or even skepticism. No one really knows the personal journey someone else is on so idk why it upsets people so much.
you hit it on the nail. Luv u
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: &#8743; &#8744; &#8745; &#8746; on December 01, 2015, 06:06:30 PM
!!!!!!!

If you're not being a messy pathetic ass faggot the girls can't take. Don't get me wrong, I love to act my age and kii but there is more to life than that. If anything I feel it's my duty as a voice to use it in a way that inspires or encourage. In 2015, I feel it's important to focus on Civil Rights for Minorities and POC, in general. It might come off bitter, abrasive, etc but I'm using my voice to hopefully wake up at least one user/poster to think and become engaged. Outside of this board there is still real life. Yall are grown as men like some of yall are in your late 20s early 30s. It's cool to mess and be petty but not every fucking day.

I know some people might pull that "It's just a message board" shit and while it's true, the negative energy you're putting out into the universe will come back to you regardless of the platform.
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: Herb. on December 01, 2015, 06:11:04 PM
Quote from: M?RGĖ??X on December 01, 2015, 06:06:30 PM
!!!!!!!

If you're not being a messy pathetic ass faggot the girls can't take. Don't get me wrong, I love to act my age and kii but there is more to life than that. If anything I feel it's my duty as a voice to use it in a way that inspires or encourage. In 2015, I feel it's important to focus on Civil Rights for Minorities and POC, in general. It might come off bitter, abrasive, etc but I'm using my voice to hopefully wake up at least one user/poster to think and become engaged. Outside of this board there is still real life. Yall are grown as men like some of yall are in your late 20s early 30s. It's cool to mess and be petty but not every fucking day.

I know some people might pull that "It's just a message board" shit and while it's true, the negative energy you're putting out into the universe will come back to you regardless of the platform.
Ugh.

Why do I agree with 99% of the mess u say

You're right. It's about using your voice for something productive . That's how I feel personally. I don't know why people take that as you looking down on or trying to better than them. It's weird and very unsettling.

I can see if I was bothering them or judging them...but to just come at and judge me so freely and randomly...
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: Cocoa on December 01, 2015, 06:17:51 PM
This isn't Ymy anymore guys.

He got special priviledges to this account yesterday to drag Afro from banland, but now the password has been changed and he has been returned to his regular account. :ohwow:
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: Admin on December 01, 2015, 06:25:50 PM
Hey Cocoa Puff
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: Cocoa on December 01, 2015, 06:58:07 PM
Quote from: squid on December 01, 2015, 06:25:50 PM
Hey Cocoa Puff

Crispy*

:howfestive:
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: mauza on December 01, 2015, 09:07:55 PM
Quote from: GRILL on December 01, 2015, 09:36:51 AM
Quote from: Turtle Scuttler on November 30, 2015, 11:21:31 PM
this is yummy btw

just borrowing this account from a friend

what's up

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:plzstop: :plzstop:

omg :kii:
Title: Re: Why do people always question others happiness/growth?
Post by: Scott. on December 02, 2015, 01:24:46 PM
Quote from: M?RGĖ??X on December 01, 2015, 06:06:30 PM
!!!!!!!

If you're not being a messy pathetic ass faggot the girls can't take. Don't get me wrong, I love to act my age and kii but there is more to life than that. If anything I feel it's my duty as a voice to use it in a way that inspires or encourage. In 2015, I feel it's important to focus on Civil Rights for Minorities and POC, in general. It might come off bitter, abrasive, etc but I'm using my voice to hopefully wake up at least one user/poster to think and become engaged. Outside of this board there is still real life. Yall are grown as men like some of yall are in your late 20s early 30s. It's cool to mess and be petty but not every fucking day.

I know some people might pull that "It's just a message board" shit and while it's true, the negative energy you're putting out into the universe will come back to you regardless of the platform.

I agree