Spankings don't "fix" ppl

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LOONA.

I never really understood it.

And I've never encountered a person who was only whooped once and then got their act together. IDK why people use it as an excuse to make people behave. People start behaving as they age and mature regardless gggg.

The most I got was a thump on the head and my toys taken away. Oh yeah, and no eating out mess. Now THAT was brutal.   

LOONA.

Quote from: Don't Hurt Yourself on July 24, 2016, 09:29:13 PM
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Quote from: L0NZ. on July 24, 2016, 07:52:47 PM
Quote from: imani on July 24, 2016, 06:40:50 PM
I wish ppl would stop thinking that :hmph:

I was spanked and still did what I wanted :hmph:

This is just your one, personal experience. Thread title cannot be stated as fact.

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Instilling fear in a child by inflicting pain won't fix them. Psych 101. Not just based on my experience.
What's a better alternative? Time outs don't work either.

Talking to them.

So what if a child has autism or adhd?

ds :uhh:

You get them professional help. I hope you're not suggesting beating a child with a disability is more effective.
I'm legit scared of some of u's.

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Not curing Autism with a switch

Sounds like something a black person would do, no shade.

Our community is such a mess. Trying to pray everything away and use violence to sold everything.   

The Brandy Barbie

Quote from: jtwoeleven on July 24, 2016, 08:49:16 PM
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Quote from: imani on July 24, 2016, 08:08:27 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on July 24, 2016, 07:52:47 PM
Quote from: imani on July 24, 2016, 06:40:50 PM
I wish ppl would stop thinking that :hmph:

I was spanked and still did what I wanted :hmph:

This is just your one, personal experience. Thread title cannot be stated as fact.

s

Instilling fear in a child by inflicting pain won't fix them. Psych 101. Not just based on my experience.
What's a better alternative? Time outs don't work either.

Talking to them.

So what if a child has autism or adhd?

Not spanking an autistic child for not paying attention.  Do you fully understand what autism is?

Young



4 fucking k

Quote from: The Brandy Barbie on July 25, 2016, 01:20:00 AM
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Quote from: Genesis on July 24, 2016, 08:14:31 PM
Quote from: imani on July 24, 2016, 08:08:27 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on July 24, 2016, 07:52:47 PM
Quote from: imani on July 24, 2016, 06:40:50 PM
I wish ppl would stop thinking that :hmph:

I was spanked and still did what I wanted :hmph:

This is just your one, personal experience. Thread title cannot be stated as fact.

s

Instilling fear in a child by inflicting pain won't fix them. Psych 101. Not just based on my experience.
What's a better alternative? Time outs don't work either.

Talking to them.

So what if a child has autism or adhd?

Not spanking an autistic child for not paying attention.  Do you fully understand what autism is?

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Angel In Disguise

I'm not reading this thread but, spankings definitely work...up to a certain age. If you're still "spanking" at 12, you've failed.

I'm talking about these little kids in the stores throwing tantrums. They need their mommas to take them in the bathroom and give them something to cry about. That threat always shut me up.

At a certain age, though, children respond to "No TV" or "No video games".  You shouldn't have to spank anymore.

Cartierline

Tbh yeah, with all the spankings and scoldings I got as a child I still did what I wanted anyway.

I'm not against spanking but some parents go WAY overboard.

GLOCK

Well everyone knows how I feel about this :cheerup:

KING BENTLEY.

Quote from: Cartier on July 25, 2016, 08:16:54 AM
Tbh yeah, with all the spankings and scoldings I got as a child I still did what I wanted anyway.

I'm not against spanking but some parents go WAY overboard.
you don't get to do what you want to do
you need a correct spanking
Come to my house and I'll give you a good lashing on those cakes
Then you'll act right

H.#.G.*.Z

D.I.E.G.O.

Quote from: BENTLEY! on July 25, 2016, 09:59:52 AM
Quote from: Cartier on July 25, 2016, 08:16:54 AM
Tbh yeah, with all the spankings and scoldings I got as a child I still did what I wanted anyway.

I'm not against spanking but some parents go WAY overboard.
you don't get to do what you want to do
you need a correct spanking
Come to my house and I'll give you a good lashing on those cakes
Then you'll act right

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Gilgamesh.

Quote from: Baphomet. on July 24, 2016, 06:47:17 PM
Quote from: Young on July 24, 2016, 06:45:17 PM
It's a form of discipline like anything else.



Kids will do what they want regardless if they choose to


:blink:  if kids are gonna do what they want then what was the point?

if that's your logic why don't we just let them live in wild and figure it out themselves :plzstop:

CHOKE

It's about respect

Children are going to do what they want regardless and yes ''thugs and rappers''
were more than likely spanked but at the end of the day I bet all of them respect their parents

Unlike Jayden and Sarah who never get disciplined and  call their moms bitches and tell them to shut the fuck up at the dinner table


Admin

Quote from: Chokeme on July 25, 2016, 11:38:55 AM
Unlike Jayden and Sarah who never get disciplined and  call their moms bitches and tell them to shut the fuck up at the dinner table


Leave Jayd' alone :usureuok:

Cartierline

Quote from: BENTLEY! on July 25, 2016, 09:59:52 AM
Quote from: Cartier on July 25, 2016, 08:16:54 AM
Tbh yeah, with all the spankings and scoldings I got as a child I still did what I wanted anyway.

I'm not against spanking but some parents go WAY overboard.
you don't get to do what you want to do
you need a correct spanking
Come to my house and I'll give you a good lashing on those cakes
Then you'll act right
sddssssssss  :ohwow: