Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it! (Part 2 Update added)

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Gilgamesh.

AJ, no... :uhh:

First of all, what Matt did isn't even legal. Second of all, you can't just adopt a whole child just because they're in what appears to be a toxic situation. Scratch that, do you even want kids?

Who's going to be watching him while y'all are work?

Is Matt okay!?  :uhh:

Barbie Dangerous

Right. I know his intentions are good but she seems desperate and dangerous..


GRAND ETERNAL SUPREME

Quote from: Gilgamesh. on January 28, 2020, 08:42:49 PM
AJ, no... :uhh:

First of all, what Matt did isn't even legal. Second of all, you can't just adopt a whole child just because they're in what appears to be a toxic situation. Scratch that, do you even want kids?

Who's going to be watching him while y'all are work?

Is Matt okay!?  :uhh:
yeah this is going to be an issue soon... And of course there an entire family that has claim over the bvy

RatherBe

Quote from: CoochieKing on January 28, 2020, 05:18:51 PM
Matt must be super fine and the sex must be out of this world cause

:shook:
i think I do pretty well for myself. Anything else you want to know? Good lord.



RatherBe

Matt here.

i know it's not permanent but I'm sorry I couldn't leave him there. Even if it's only a month of stability, it's something. I hope to instill some morals and a fight to want better.



GLOCK

Maybe.. my heart is too wide :stressed:
because this would've made me adore him even more .. what a stand up guy?

yes he should've talked it over with you but he probably used his instincts and compared how much u care for lil man and said "if aj saw this.. he wouldn't want him here either" 

the environment sounds 100% unsafe.. 
and as a god parent.. i know how I would've reacted if I saw any of my god kids in that atmosphere 

you love Matt and y'all have weathered some huge storms.. y'all will be fine. 
even if it's just for a little while.. what y'all are doing for him won't go without it's rewards..

I think in the next month you and Matt need to discuss and decide if this is permanent 

make sure the father isn't in the picture.. because that might be the next best option 

if he isn't.. I'd have the mother legally give Matt full custody of the kid.. so that she doesn't up and snatch him away .. and so that he can have medical coverage and such.

its the right thing to do

i adore this love story of you guys. 

GLOCK

Quote from: AJ on January 28, 2020, 08:57:20 PM
Matt here.

i know it's not permanent but I'm sorry I couldn't leave him there. Even if it's only a month of stability, it's something. I hope to instill some morals and a fight to want better.
hey bro.
I admire u so much man!

Would you be down for having him permanently?
Have you and his mother talked at all about that being an option?
Is his father around?

Gilgamesh.

I mean, your heart is in the right place...doesn't this wench have a sister or Mother or something :disgusted:

FRANCE

These updates >>>>>>>>>>>>

:kii: The story telling alone.

Now yeah, Matt is crazy as hell. I dunno. I wouldn't have even volunteered to be a godfather in the 1st place so someone I dont really know LIKE THAT (which would have avoided all of this). Yall are in too deep now so the more time u spend with the child, the more yall will get attached. 

So he goes home to the roach infested house and then snuggles up in bed with y'all? Nah son. Hey, if u dont intend on raising this kid through college and everything, and officially adopting him, cut the shit right now before it gets too messy. 

FRANCE

Quote from: GLOCK on January 28, 2020, 08:58:07 PM
Maybe.. my heart is too wide :stressed:
because this would've made me adore him even more .. what a stand up guy?

yes he should've talked it over with you but he probably used his instincts and compared how much u care for lil man and said "if aj saw this.. he wouldn't want him here either"

the environment sounds 100% unsafe..
and as a god parent.. i know how I would've reacted if I saw any of my god kids in that atmosphere

you love Matt and y'all have weathered some huge storms.. y'all will be fine.
even if it's just for a little while.. what y'all are doing for him won't go without it's rewards..

I think in the next month you and Matt need to discuss and decide if this is permanent

make sure the father isn't in the picture.. because that might be the next best option

if he isn't.. I'd have the mother legally give Matt full custody of the kid.. so that she doesn't up and snatch him away .. and so that he can have medical coverage and such.

its the right thing to do

i adore this love story of you guys.

Yeah, he's definitely a dope guy for this. Really big of him to step in. I just hope they dont get toooo attached and the mom gets her shit 2gether.

GLOCK

Clearly Matt wants to be a dad..
this might be Gods way of allowing him to do so 
:unsure:

the black community isn't as cut and dry as y'all are making it 

I legit know dozens of people who were raised by people that weren't their blood.. no legalities ... and had the best life possible 

:omf:

no telling where this kid would be without this ounce of peace 

GLOCK

Quote from: LF on January 28, 2020, 09:03:54 PM
Quote from: GLOCK on January 28, 2020, 08:58:07 PM
Maybe.. my heart is too wide :stressed:
because this would've made me adore him even more .. what a stand up guy?

yes he should've talked it over with you but he probably used his instincts and compared how much u care for lil man and said "if aj saw this.. he wouldn't want him here either"

the environment sounds 100% unsafe..
and as a god parent.. i know how I would've reacted if I saw any of my god kids in that atmosphere

you love Matt and y'all have weathered some huge storms.. y'all will be fine.
even if it's just for a little while.. what y'all are doing for him won't go without it's rewards..

I think in the next month you and Matt need to discuss and decide if this is permanent

make sure the father isn't in the picture.. because that might be the next best option

if he isn't.. I'd have the mother legally give Matt full custody of the kid.. so that she doesn't up and snatch him away .. and so that he can have medical coverage and such.

its the right thing to do

i adore this love story of you guys.

Yeah, he's definitely a dope guy for this. Really big of him to step in. I just hope they dont get toooo attached and the mom gets her shit 2gether.
the attachment mess already happened tbh

I just hope they define the lines

The mother doesn't seem to care tbh
And looks like she might be struggling with her own demons and drugs

She gave him up to Matt with no fight  :unsure:

Barbie Dangerous

Quote from: GLOCK on January 28, 2020, 09:03:57 PM
Clearly Matt wants to be a dad..
this might be Gods way of allowing him to do so
:unsure:

the black community isn't as cut and dry as y'all are making it

I legit know dozens of people who were raised by people that weren't their blood.. no legalities ... and had the best life possible

:omf:

no telling where this kid would be without this ounce of peace
The idea is adorable but it just sounds like the mother was once again trying to take advantage: this time, time away from the baby.


Gilgamesh.

She gave him to Matt, not AJ.

That's not fair to expect AJ to play Daddy just cause Matt feels sentimental. 

LiiVE

Hhxjjd not Matt basically kidnapping the lil boy :omgwatshappening:

was sis  not moved by him taking him?