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[SUPREME]

j

you girls are crazy

[Herb.]

nnnn

People like to assume you're lying since your truth doesn't match up with theirs, or maybe what their expectation of what your truth should be I suppose; so it may seem unrealistic. But I've never lied on here, no reason to do so. Simply sharing my story. Kind of crazy how your truth can cause such a ruckus.

Says a lot, tbh. About others

[Zankou.]

j

you girls are crazy

I'm in here crying

[Marilyn]

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[SUPREME]

And I know some of you will kii but being of mixed heritage is a huge reason I struggled so much with my hair, not knowing what to do with it for so long. It's kinky and it's curly at the same time. It's thick, dense hair with a looser curl, and although it appears very full its actually very fine in texture (the strands themselves), which makes it tricky finding good product to use. Any person who has my hair will tell you that. Then you have other black people telling you how jealous they are of your hair...asking you about your heritage.....I know it sounds funny that I'd complain about something like that, but its part of what drove me to this test to be honest.

Here in the south the "good hair' complex is stronger than anywhere else I've ever been. They want to know WHY you have it....HOW did u get it....why ur curl pattern is so consistent...the list goes on, and its always black women. It's weird having women tell you that they envy something on you -- cuz ur a man or others will ask u , "does it naturally curl like that?".....which is the question I really detest. Like, why would I perm my fucking head.

I mean, even on the board, all I do is post a pic of my hair and people start talking about it -- whether making jokes or asking what I use, or whatever. Imagine it in real life for me.

I know I'm venting about something that may seem rather trivial and even comedic upon reading it, but I just want to possibly open some minds as to what goes on and why I sought answers. This wasn't random. People see hair that is not strictly kinky and automatically jump to a "Native AMerican heritage" conclusion. That's ignorance within our community, I don't know where it began...but I don't want to encourage or foster it. So next time someone asks I'll be prepared with educated answers.

#endrant . U guys can post a random letter under this essay now. got some studying to do....love u bvys!!!!!!!!! i'm watching u stay fabulous
and keep fucking twirling

j

ken you're getting yourself into that spot where you're constantly explaining yourself and people feed off of it, and then you inadvertently explain yourself more

once you get there you can't get out of it

STOP!

 

[Jon]

nnnn

People like to assume you're lying since your truth doesn't match up with theirs, or maybe what their expectation of what your truth should be I suppose; so it may seem unrealistic. But I've never lied on here, no reason to do so. Simply sharing my story. Kind of crazy how your truth can cause such a ruckus.

Says a lot, tbh. About others

you should upload your raw dna data to gedmatch.com. its free and gives you more info.

[Zankou.]

Yeah luv. Just post your mess and punch. If the girls don't believe you .. Who cares lol

[yummy]

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that stop drop and roll patti did

[Herb.]

I mean, I did kinda just post my mess and punch.

Preme, That paragraph you quoted was the reason for why I did a DNA test. Not an explanation to anyone here. Honestly I wouldn't dedicate that much energy to anyone in particular here, not anymore at least. As you can see, when the gorls came with their mess, I kii'ed and punched. Simply commented on the anger and hostility I sensed -- which others noticed and noted as well (Glock and Jayd)

I know my truth. So to get upset about someone challenging it, or to pull out powerpoint presentations to debate with them would be useless. It's MINE. That's sad on their part, if it upsets them.

lolz!

[Zankou.]

 

[Herb.]

 

[Phantom]

Its just that first sentence  like gorl, who are these people? I would never look at her or her hair and wonder if she's mixed/ what she's mixed with. Like.... Where  I just see nigger tbh  and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that.

[Herb.]

Happy lab' day bvy's lolz

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[Jon]

Its just that first sentence  like gorl, who are these people? I would never look at her or her hair and wonder if she's mixed/ what she's mixed with. Like.... Where  I just see nigger tbh  and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that.

But what's wrong with wanting know where you came from? lol

[Ｂｏｏｍｚ]

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Herb gorl!

I didn't come back into this thread after my last reply. But reading through it now and I'm realizing you group me as one of the negative gorls?
I didn't mean harm.

We use to joke like that remember? A bitch goes on a short sabbatical and loses her sense of humor.