https://www.facebook.com/460399774066661/videos/787704818002820/?theater
I just can't...
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why did i sit and watch this fucking mess
OMG these women are ridiculous. Like, are they fuckin serious?
Black people embarrass me so much :plzstop: Just yuck. I really can't anymore.
When she started yelling for help... :uhh:
not you have no authority to get my kids' haircuts wtf is this
and why does she have the kids under his bumper :everythingok:
the way he finished grandma off with the husband cheating mess has me screaming
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ya know Earl.....................................? Ya know Earl..................................?
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how the hell do y'all find this mess
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this is y oscar dnt use u napp' heads!
he should've ran them all over. Would've served them right
"You know what Earl... You know what"
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Sis was baffled by the tea on her husband :kii: :kii:
Quote from: imaan. on January 22, 2016, 03:39:39 PM
Black people embarrass me so much :plzstop: Just yuck. I really can't anymore.
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this nigga mess has me in fucking tears
woo!
praying for my peoples
Quote from: Young on January 22, 2016, 03:40:35 PM
the way he finished grandma off with the husband cheating mess has me screaming
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ya know Earl.....................................? Ya know Earl..................................?
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here come ya momma :hmph:
Quote from: imaan. on January 22, 2016, 03:42:19 PM
"You know what Earl... You know what"
:plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop:
Sis was baffled by the tea on her husband :kii: :kii:
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Quote from: imaan. on January 22, 2016, 03:39:39 PM
Black people embarrass me so much :plzstop: Just yuck. I really can't anymore.
Hunny dont you support a child rapist
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Quote from: Young on January 22, 2016, 03:43:01 PM
Quote from: imaan. on January 22, 2016, 03:42:19 PM
"You know what Earl... You know what"
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Sis was baffled by the tea on her husband :kii: :kii:
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I won't even answer that
I betcha wont!
When she started to quiz the other child :uhh: :plzstop:
It's really not always black men.
There's always a no shit black woman up under some no shit nigga. I really can't. It's like an epidemic and I'm not saying this because of this video. I've been around a lot of blacks these past couple of weeks more then I've ever been in my life :kii: and it's really a cycle. I'm embarrassed tbh.
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that LONG FUCKING PAUSE after Earl spilled the fucking TEA
Barbra was fucking GAGGING
Quote from: Saturn. on January 22, 2016, 03:44:48 PM
I won't even answer that
I betcha wont!
That part made me scream :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop:
"You kn- I'm not gonna even answer that"
"I betcha ya won't :welllol: "
u touchin me?!
HEELLPP!
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did u jus hurt me?
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did u jus hurt me?? :usureuok:
Quote from: Blues clue on January 22, 2016, 03:47:02 PM
u touchin me?!
HEELLPP!
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that fucking boar tried it :kii:
a fckin BOAR
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Quote from: Blues clue on January 22, 2016, 03:47:44 PM
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did u jus hurt me?
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did u jus hurt me?? :usureuok:
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this is so disgusting to watch
And the fact that she's purposely doing this in front of the kids is so disgusting.
This bitch is clearly bitter & spiteful, and she's gonna try to turn these kids against him.
"Put him down...you're over the time."
So he can't hug his child until it's his turn to have custody?
I can't :plzstop:
cause he cut the hair :uhh:
he definitely should have called her before cutting their hair off.
hair may not mean anything to him but it could mean it to her, she has nice hair herself, i'm sure the kids do too. unless she had them walking around looking a mess, which I doubt.
i damn sure know if someone cut my childs hair off without calling I'd be digging into their ass as well. parent, babysitter, bestie, cousin....don't give a fuck, u gonna get it! :cheerup:
but
both of them are dead wrong for this. literally. LITERALLY putting their kids in the middle of their own mess
Quote from: MΛΥDΛΥ on January 22, 2016, 03:54:54 PM
"Put him down...you're over the time."
So he can't hug his child until it's his turn to have custody?
I can't :plzstop:
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Lew handled that the best way he could
Wow
oh no scratch the car! ga 'head !
no thats their train!
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this is a fucking mess
im hollering at this bitter ass bitch :dead:
Quote from: Young on January 22, 2016, 03:47:53 PM
Quote from: Blues clue on January 22, 2016, 03:47:02 PM
u touchin me?!
HEELLPP!
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that fucking boar tried it :kii:
when Tonya threw them hands up
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Quote from: Herbie on January 22, 2016, 03:56:35 PM
he definitely should have called her before cutting their hair off.
hair may not mean anything to him but it could mean it to her, she has nice hair herself, i'm sure the kids do too. unless she had them walking around looking a mess, which I doubt.
i damn sure know if someone cut my childs hair off without calling I'd be digging into their ass as well.
but
both of them are dead wrong for this. literally. LITERALLY putting their kids in the middle of their own mess
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This is why people need to be more careful about who they procreate with because...
And why would she let those kids driver their toy trains on Lews car :uhh:
Some women deserve to be single mothers
Bitching and acting a damn clown over a haircut
Quote from: Herbie on January 22, 2016, 03:56:35 PM
he definitely should have called her before cutting their hair off.
hair may not mean anything to him but it could mean it to her, she has nice hair herself, i'm sure the kids do too. unless she had them walking around looking a mess, which I doubt.
i damn sure know if someone cut my childs hair off without calling I'd be digging into their ass as well.
but
both of them are dead wrong for this. literally. LITERALLY putting their kids in the middle of their own mess
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huh ? she's just being petty.
It'll grow right back. :dead: she's acting like he cut off one of their fingers or some mess.
Quote from: ANIMMAI on January 22, 2016, 03:59:07 PM
This is why people need to be more careful about who they procreate with because...
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This guy I know told me how his babymama is taking their child and moving to a difference state because she's upset he cheated :plzstop: I really can't.
I wanted to see more :plzstop:
this really is sad tho...
she KNOWS what shes doing and the impact all of this can have on the kids; yet she's using it to manipulate the children's views of the father as well.
"they're gonna remember you as an image of taking this away ..!"
how spiteful, spineline, hateful, and disgusting?
like..wow :uhh:
it's a haircut, but we don't know how long their hair was
and what work she had been putting in to maintain it.
if they had long hair that means she had to be putting in work to keep it kept and growing.
now if they already had a close shaven caesar mess owt to begin with
she's going way overboard with the reaction and nitpicking.
i think it's because they're boys that people won't see the big deal, I suppose.
if it were girls I guarantee you this thread would be full of different replies.
could you imagine someone bringing Tia's son back to her with a close shaven Caesar
surprise! :cheerup:
(http://gorgeousingrey.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/05/Tia-Mowry-husband-and-son.jpg)
she would gather the fuck out of them :dead:
when Nana picked up that rock
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Quote from: Herbie on January 22, 2016, 04:04:52 PM
could you imagine someone bringing Tia's child back to her with a close shaven Caesar
surprise! :cheerup:
(http://gorgeousingrey.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/05/Tia-Mowry-husband-and-son.jpg)
she would gather the fuck out of them :dead:
I don't think Tia would be making some dramatic scene in front of her child or involving her family in the mess :dead:
That's what kind of has everyone repulsed by this video :ermm:
I want her social media so I can personally harass her.
Quote from: Herbie on January 22, 2016, 04:02:57 PM
it's a haircut, but we don't know how long their hair was
and what work she had been putting in to maintain it.
if they had long hair that means she had to be putting in work to keep it kept and growing.
now if they already had a close shaven caesar mess owt to begin with
she's going way overboard with the reaction and nitpicking.
i think it's because they're boys that people won't see the big deal, I suppose.
if it were girls I guarantee you this thread would be full of different replies.
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They obviously had an afro.
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if she told him not to cut their hair he shoulda respec tht
didnt really seem to be about a haircut honestly. Not ONCE did she say "u cut off all their beautiful hair" or even allude to something like that. CLEARLY she was bitter about him not fckn with her. Like she was mad about a haircut but what was the point of interrogating the other child about who his mother was, PLEASE!
Quote from: ANIMMAI on January 22, 2016, 04:07:03 PM
Quote from: Herbie on January 22, 2016, 04:04:52 PM
could you imagine someone bringing Tia's child back to her with a close shaven Caesar
surprise! :cheerup:
(http://gorgeousingrey.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/05/Tia-Mowry-husband-and-son.jpg)
she would gather the fuck out of them :dead:
I don't think Tia would be making some dramatic scene in front of her child or involving her family in the mess :dead:
That's what kind of has everyone repulsed by this video :ermm:
I understand that but I also see a lot of replies saying "its just a haircut", as if she doesn't even have a reason to be upset to begin with. Let alone overtly dramatic. That's what I am addressing.
I've already stated that they're both kind of idiots. Him for not calling and her for telling her sons to key his car and mess.
Quote from: ANIMMAI on January 22, 2016, 04:07:03 PM
Quote from: Herbie on January 22, 2016, 04:04:52 PM
could you imagine someone bringing Tia's child back to her with a close shaven Caesar
surprise! :cheerup:
(http://gorgeousingrey.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/05/Tia-Mowry-husband-and-son.jpg)
she would gather the fuck out of them :dead:
I don't think Tia would be making some dramatic scene in front of her child or involving her family in the mess :dead:
That's what kind of has everyone repulsed by this video :ermm:
Yea, halfway into the video, the details surrounding the haircut became irrelevant. She started to reveal her true intent for making it a big deal in the first place. The "did you hurt me?! HELLLLPPP!" part sealed it for me.
This had NOTHING to do with haircuts.
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did u jus hurt me!
Quote from: imaan. on January 22, 2016, 04:07:16 PM
Quote from: Herbie on January 22, 2016, 04:02:57 PM
it's a haircut, but we don't know how long their hair was
and what work she had been putting in to maintain it.
if they had long hair that means she had to be putting in work to keep it kept and growing.
now if they already had a close shaven caesar mess owt to begin with
she's going way overboard with the reaction and nitpicking.
i think it's because they're boys that people won't see the big deal, I suppose.
if it were girls I guarantee you this thread would be full of different replies.
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They obviously had an afro.
and i'm sure it was beautiful :omgwatshappening:
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yea. this wasn't about some simple haircut
yea they r right
she trailed off durin tha vidya
n her mom was talmbout a buncha mess too
they needa fix this
for tha kids!
Quote from: Vonc2002 on January 22, 2016, 04:07:45 PM
didnt really seem to be about a haircut honestly. Not ONCE did she say "u cut off all their beautiful hair" or even allude to something like that. CLEARLY she was bitter about him not fckn with her. Like she was mad about a haircut but what was the point of interrogating the other child about who his mother was, PLEASE!
!!!!!!!! Ding ding ding.
The way they ran up on the child in the CARSEAT. WHATS YOUR MOMMA NAME? WHO ARE YOU??
She wanted to know who his new flame was.
lemme finish watching the vidya. maybe i'll get the bigger picture u guys are seeing
Yeah it had nothing to do with them having beautiful hair because if you listened the grandma herself said they already had a haircut.
Quote from: L0NZ. on January 22, 2016, 04:09:11 PM
Quote from: ANIMMAI on January 22, 2016, 04:07:03 PM
Quote from: Herbie on January 22, 2016, 04:04:52 PM
could you imagine someone bringing Tia's child back to her with a close shaven Caesar
surprise! :cheerup:
(http://gorgeousingrey.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/05/Tia-Mowry-husband-and-son.jpg)
she would gather the fuck out of them :dead:
I don't think Tia would be making some dramatic scene in front of her child or involving her family in the mess :dead:
That's what kind of has everyone repulsed by this video :ermm:
Yea, halfway into the video, the details surrounding the haircut became irrelevant. She started to reveal her true intent for making it a big deal in the first place. The "did you hurt me?! HELLLLPPP!" part sealed it for me.
This had NOTHING to do with haircuts.
EVEN BEFORE THAT, when she said u left us and he said oh, thought I left u :dead:
she clearly was bitter as FCK
Quote from: Vonc2002 on January 22, 2016, 04:07:45 PM
didnt really seem to be about a haircut honestly. Not ONCE did she say "u cut off all their beautiful hair" or even allude to something like that. CLEARLY she was bitter about him not fckn with her. Like she was mad about a haircut but what was the point of interrogating the other child about who his mother was, PLEASE!
!!!!
She's a woman scorned
Quote from: Herbie on January 22, 2016, 04:11:05 PM
lemme finish watching the vidya. maybe i'll get the bigger picture u guys are seeing
sis wtf.
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Quote from: Lion Babe on January 22, 2016, 04:11:11 PM
Yeah it had nothing to do with them having beautiful hair because if you listened the grandma herself said they already had a haircut.
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Quote from: Vonc2002 on January 22, 2016, 04:11:16 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on January 22, 2016, 04:09:11 PM
Quote from: ANIMMAI on January 22, 2016, 04:07:03 PM
Quote from: Herbie on January 22, 2016, 04:04:52 PM
could you imagine someone bringing Tia's child back to her with a close shaven Caesar
surprise! :cheerup:
(http://gorgeousingrey.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/05/Tia-Mowry-husband-and-son.jpg)
she would gather the fuck out of them :dead:
I don't think Tia would be making some dramatic scene in front of her child or involving her family in the mess :dead:
That's what kind of has everyone repulsed by this video :ermm:
Yea, halfway into the video, the details surrounding the haircut became irrelevant. She started to reveal her true intent for making it a big deal in the first place. The "did you hurt me?! HELLLLPPP!" part sealed it for me.
This had NOTHING to do with haircuts.
EVEN BEFORE THAT, when she said u left us and he said oh, thought I left u :dead:
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Quote from: Herbie on January 22, 2016, 04:11:05 PM
lemme finish watching the vidya. maybe i'll get the bigger picture u guys are seeing
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Quote from: L0NZ. on January 22, 2016, 04:12:31 PM
Quote from: Herbie on January 22, 2016, 04:11:05 PM
lemme finish watching the vidya. maybe i'll get the bigger picture u guys are seeing
sis wtf.
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i honestly couldn't bear to continue, if this mess isn't cringe worthy i don't know what is
tears @ Af' trying to get into some hair tutorial mess. :kii:
This had nothing to do with hair, luv. When have nigs ever wanted their boys to keep their hair in an afro?
She just wanted to control him and is upset they're no longer together.
Quote from: imaan. on January 22, 2016, 04:14:14 PM
tears @ Af' trying to get into some hair tutorial mess. :kii:
This had nothing to do with hair, luv. When have nigs ever wanted their boys to keep their hair in an afro?
She just wanted to control him and is upset they're no longer together.
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Quote from: Herbie on January 22, 2016, 04:02:57 PM
it's a haircut, but we don't know how long their hair was
and what work she had been putting in to maintain it.
if they had long hair that means she had to be putting in work to keep it kept and growing.
now if they already had a close shaven caesar mess owt to begin with
she's going way overboard with the reaction and nitpicking.
i think it's because they're boys that people won't see the big deal, I suppose.
if it were girls I guarantee you this thread would be full of different replies.
well for one ; like you said: we dont know how long the hair was .
so lets not choose any sides to justify the reaction or defend it
aside from the hair altogether:
the woman is making a public scene in front of her children
is using her rights to back this man into a corner just to be spiteful about the hair
is using her own children by manipulating their minds into having the perception she has of him; that alone is completely horrible. she's completely fine with her sons growing up hating their father because their minds were tampered with into thinking he was so villainous--completely disgusting.
She is literally continuing the cycle of broken black families; and right before our eyes.
its much bigger than the hair lol
Put him down, ur over the time has me fckn HOLLERING :kii:
They aren't even black tf
:everythingok:
Quote from: Herbie on January 22, 2016, 04:14:50 PM
Quote from: imaan. on January 22, 2016, 04:14:14 PM
tears @ Af' trying to get into some hair tutorial mess. :kii:
This had nothing to do with hair, luv. When have nigs ever wanted their boys to keep their hair in an afro?
She just wanted to control him and is upset they're no longer together.
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Sor'
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Quote from: Vonc2002 on January 22, 2016, 04:13:55 PM
Quote from: Herbie on January 22, 2016, 04:11:05 PM
lemme finish watching the vidya. maybe i'll get the bigger picture u guys are seeing
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Quote from: imaan. on January 22, 2016, 04:14:14 PM
tears @ Af' trying to get into some hair tutorial mess. :kii:
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i wish tht faggot would
not while im here
Quote from: Vonc2002 on January 22, 2016, 04:07:45 PM
didnt really seem to be about a haircut honestly. Not ONCE did she say "u cut off all their beautiful hair" or even allude to something like that. CLEARLY she was bitter about him not fckn with her. Like she was mad about a haircut but what was the point of interrogating the other child about who his mother was, PLEASE!
!!!!!
there were no tears or rubbing of the hair. nothing about what she was doing was about the hair. she was doing everything she could to torment him; and in front of the children. when she and the mother went to that car and then tried to yell for help; thats when i knew she was totally driven by hate and spite. im sure the hair did piss her off but the way she carried on had nothing to do with the hair.
Quote from: Young on January 22, 2016, 04:16:17 PM
Quote from: Herbie on January 22, 2016, 04:02:57 PM
it's a haircut, but we don't know how long their hair was
and what work she had been putting in to maintain it.
if they had long hair that means she had to be putting in work to keep it kept and growing.
now if they already had a close shaven caesar mess owt to begin with
she's going way overboard with the reaction and nitpicking.
i think it's because they're boys that people won't see the big deal, I suppose.
if it were girls I guarantee you this thread would be full of different replies.
well for one ; like you said: we dont know how long the hair was .
so lets not choose any sides to justify the reaction or defend it
aside from the hair altogether:
the woman is making a public scene in front of her children
is using her rights to back this man into a corner just to be spiteful about the hair
is using her own children by manipulating their minds into having the perception she has of him; that alone is completely horrible. she's completely fine with her sons growing up hating their father because their minds were tampered with into thinking he was so villainous--completely disgusting.
She is literally continuing the cycle of broken black families; and right before our eyes.
its much bigger than the hair lol
:stressed:
sor' guys...honestly I just saw the first couple minutes not the whole thing and the only thing I kept thinking was how fucking dare this nigger :omgwatshappening: :omgwatshappening: :mmyulost: and :udontlookok: @ the mother :uhh: :uhh: it wasn't even funny to me, just completely sad.
i had to turn it off. i'll try 2 look at the rest of it
Quote from: Young on January 22, 2016, 04:16:17 PM
Quote from: Herbie on January 22, 2016, 04:02:57 PM
it's a haircut, but we don't know how long their hair was
and what work she had been putting in to maintain it.
if they had long hair that means she had to be putting in work to keep it kept and growing.
now if they already had a close shaven caesar mess owt to begin with
she's going way overboard with the reaction and nitpicking.
i think it's because they're boys that people won't see the big deal, I suppose.
if it were girls I guarantee you this thread would be full of different replies.
well for one ; like you said: we dont know how long the hair was .
so lets not choose any sides to justify the reaction or defend it
aside from the hair altogether:
the woman is making a public scene in front of her children
is using her rights to back this man into a corner just to be spiteful about the hair
is using her own children by manipulating their minds into having the perception she has of him; that alone is completely horrible. she's completely fine with her sons growing up hating their father because their minds were tampered with into thinking he was so villainous--completely disgusting.
She is literally continuing the cycle of broken black families; and right before our eyes.
its much bigger than the hair lol
!!!!!!!!!!!
All I could say was "This is why"
just tragic. SMH.
this should definitely be seen as child abuse. the way they're tugging on them, things being said in front of them........instructions given to upset the other parent....
The're both dumb as hell.
She was doing way too much over a haircut and he was being petty by not telling her where they got it cut.
Quote from: Gilgamesh. on January 22, 2016, 04:23:56 PM
The're both dumb as hell.
She was doing way too much over a haircut and he was being petty by not telling her where they got it cut.
Quote from: Vonc2002 on January 22, 2016, 04:11:16 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on January 22, 2016, 04:09:11 PM
Quote from: ANIMMAI on January 22, 2016, 04:07:03 PM
Quote from: Herbie on January 22, 2016, 04:04:52 PM
could you imagine someone bringing Tia's child back to her with a close shaven Caesar
surprise! :cheerup:
(http://gorgeousingrey.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/05/Tia-Mowry-husband-and-son.jpg)
she would gather the fuck out of them :dead:
I don't think Tia would be making some dramatic scene in front of her child or involving her family in the mess :dead:
That's what kind of has everyone repulsed by this video :ermm:
Yea, halfway into the video, the details surrounding the haircut became irrelevant. She started to reveal her true intent for making it a big deal in the first place. The "did you hurt me?! HELLLLPPP!" part sealed it for me.
This had NOTHING to do with haircuts.
EVEN BEFORE THAT, when she said u left us and he said oh, thought I left u :dead:
she clearly was bitter as FCK
!!!!
she's HURT
her perfect family is over and he moved on and she cant deal. so shes gonna use the kids to get back at him.
the fact that she went up to the other child asking about his MOTHER lets you KNOW she worried about who has Earl so completely unattached to her emotionally.
She needs to grow UP.
The fact that she had these kids up against his car
so he couldn't back out :uhh:
What mother does that?
I hope he did go and put this on record because a bitch this bitter is dangerous. He needs to be accumulating shit on her
her mother looks white/hispanic to me
Quote from: inluvwitbran on January 22, 2016, 04:26:16 PM
The fact that she had these kids up against his car
so he couldn't back out :uhh:
What mother does that?
!!!!!
shes screaming all this mess over some hair while STANDING them behind a CAR to force her ex into talking to her; she uses the trucks as bait to keep them entertained and has the NERVE to make the father look like the villian for trying to remove them from the whole situation
ugh
sickening
Quote from: Saturn. on January 22, 2016, 04:24:18 PM
Quote from: Gilgamesh. on January 22, 2016, 04:23:56 PM
The're both dumb as hell.
She was doing way too much over a haircut and he was being petty by not telling her where they got it cut.
Because its a dumb ass question, they got their haircut at the fuckin barbershop dumb bitch. He knows her well enough to know the question was being asked so that the answer could fuel her vile ass fire.
yeah i think the grandmother was half white
you kno what, earl?
you know what?? :omgwatshappening:
still watching the video...but by looking at her/her mom etc
her reaction could speak to cultural differences
like lil sis said, most African Americans believe in shaving the boys head and perming/straightening the girl's head. which would explain why he probably said to himself "my boys need to look 'fresh'" and cut it off
but then u have this woman who's family clearly is at the very least, highly admixed...I think they may feel a lot differently about cutting hair to be really honest. she genuinely seems upset that it was done.
If you notice, white women LOVE seeing their black kids' hair grow. Look at Heidi Klum. Her kids have kinky hair and she loves it and lets it grow, and even saved it in little baggies to hold on to whatever she cut. But then we had a BLACK woman to come behind her and say "who the fuck wants to save that mess? :uhh: " and got her ass chewed out by other black people who probably secretly think the same way but was upset someone said it and embarrassed us. if we're keeping it ALL the way 100.
Quote from: L0NZ. on January 22, 2016, 04:32:53 PM
Quote from: Saturn. on January 22, 2016, 04:24:18 PM
Quote from: Gilgamesh. on January 22, 2016, 04:23:56 PM
The're both dumb as hell.
She was doing way too much over a haircut and he was being petty by not telling her where they got it cut.
Because its a dumb ass question, they got their haircut at the fuckin barbershop dumb bitch. He knows her well enough to know the question was being asked so that the answer could fuel her vile ass fire.
!!!!!
it was completely a question used to derail from the original point . he didnt even wanna entertain it.
he was trying to be the bigger person.
:usuresis:
Quote from: Herbie on January 22, 2016, 04:34:13 PM
still watching the video...but by looking at her/her mom etc
her reaction could speak to cultural differences
like lil sis said, most African Americans believe in shaving the boys head and perming/straightening the girl's head. which would explain why he probably said to himself "my boys need to look 'fresh'" and cut it off
but then u have this woman who's family clearly is at the very least, highly admixed...I think they may feel a lot differently about cutting hair to be really honest. she genuinely seems upset that it was done.
If you notice, white women LOVE seeing their black kids' hair grow. Look at Heidi Klum. Her kids have kinky hair and she loves it and lets it grow, and even saved it in little baggies to hold on to whatever she cut. But then we had a BLACK woman to come behind her and say "who the fuck wants to save that mess? :uhh: " and got her ass chewed out by other black people who probably secretly think the same way but was upset someone said it and embarrassed us. if we're keeping it ALL the way 100.
Chile.
So what abut everything else we've been discussing.
Not this excuse for her.
Quote from: Herbie on January 22, 2016, 04:34:13 PM
still watching the video...but by looking at her/her mom etc
her reaction could speak to cultural differences
like lil sis said, most African Americans believe in shaving the boys head and perming/straightening the girl's head. which would explain why he probably said to himself "my boys need to look 'fresh'" and cut it off
but then u have this woman who's family clearly is at the very least, highly admixed...I think they may feel a lot differently about cutting hair to be really honest. she genuinely seems upset that it was done.
If you notice, white women LOVE seeing their black kids' hair grow. Look at Heidi Klum. Her kids have kinky hair and she loves it and lets it grow, and even saved it in little baggies to hold on to whatever she cut. But then we had a BLACK woman to come behind her and say "who the fuck wants to save that mess? :uhh: " and got her ass chewed out by other black people who probably secretly think the same way but was upset someone said it and embarrassed us. if we're keeping it ALL the way 100.
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sis....how did u turn it back into hair and not look past it to see everything in the video had little or nothing to do with culture, hair/race/mixing etc ? :plzstop: :udontlookok:
I'm crying
LONZ!!!!!!!!!!!!
>>>>><<<<<
I thought that was the most asinine question. Where did they get their hair cut :fuming:
Ummmmmm WHAT :uhh:
I honestly didnt really think he was being petty at all....................until he told Grandma Grandpa had stepped out :dead:
Not going right back to the hair thing... I just..
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Af' bby, this has nothing to do with admixture, hair texture or that other stuff :plzstop:
They all appear black and black guys like getting haircuts. It makes them feel clean, I think. Idk even my brother gets haircuts and my dad takes him. I think white women don't get their boys haircuts because they don't know how to maintain black hair. Again, this situation has nothing to do with haircuts. She just wanted to be difficult.
Im fuckin HOLLERING! :kii:
Boy put down that box of Dark n Lovely and wake up
Quote from: Vonc2002 on January 22, 2016, 04:38:00 PM
LONZ!!!!!!!!!!!!
>>>>><<<<<
I thought that was the most asinine question. Where did they get their hair cut :fuming:
Ummmmmm WHAT :uhh:
I honestly didnt really think he was being petty at all....................until he told Grandma Grandpa had stepped out :dead:
sdfdfdfdfdfdfdfdfdfdfdfdfdfdfdfdfdfdfdfdfdfdfdfdfdfdfdfdfdfdfdfdfdfdfdfdfdfdfdfdfdfdfdfdfdfdfdfdfdf
but !!!
that mess needed to be said
i wish he had said something to snatch Miss Piggy together with too
Quote from: L0NZ. on January 22, 2016, 04:35:53 PM
Quote from: Herbie on January 22, 2016, 04:34:13 PM
still watching the video...but by looking at her/her mom etc
her reaction could speak to cultural differences
like lil sis said, most African Americans believe in shaving the boys head and perming/straightening the girl's head. which would explain why he probably said to himself "my boys need to look 'fresh'" and cut it off
but then u have this woman who's family clearly is at the very least, highly admixed...I think they may feel a lot differently about cutting hair to be really honest. she genuinely seems upset that it was done.
If you notice, white women LOVE seeing their black kids' hair grow. Look at Heidi Klum. Her kids have kinky hair and she loves it and lets it grow, and even saved it in little baggies to hold on to whatever she cut. But then we had a BLACK woman to come behind her and say "who the fuck wants to save that mess? :uhh: " and got her ass chewed out by other black people who probably secretly think the same way but was upset someone said it and embarrassed us. if we're keeping it ALL the way 100.
Chile.
So what abut everything else we've been discussing.
Not this excuse for her.
My point is, you guys are saying this has NOTHING to do with the haircut. I just don't agree, even after watching more of this. Nothing at all? Not even in the least bit? I believe cultural differences definitely may come into play here a bit.
She was NOT genuinely upset about shit.
Im sorry.
You would NOT NOT NOT run up on a child in the backseat with 21 questions if you were mad about some hair.
You wouldn't scream rape and bloody murder if someone nudges you to get you out of said child's face.
You wouldnt use your children as orange cones.
You wouldnt call the police over some hair.
The bitterness she displayed...ch..bitch would have used anyyyyythingggg to initiate a confrontation.
Quote from: Baphomet. on January 22, 2016, 04:38:43 PM
Not going right back to the hair thing... I just..
(http://i.imgur.com/FB00XXY.gif)
:plzstop:
Not sis about to tell us they're 2% NA and how NA's don't like cutting their hair or something.
(http://i.imgur.com/FB00XXY.gif)
Quote from: imaan. on January 22, 2016, 04:40:14 PM
Quote from: Baphomet. on January 22, 2016, 04:38:43 PM
Not going right back to the hair thing... I just..
(http://i.imgur.com/FB00XXY.gif)
:plzstop:
Not sis about to tell us they're 2% NA and how NA's don't like cutting their hair or something.
(http://i.imgur.com/FB00XXY.gif)
:kii: :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii:
I used Heidi Klum as an example. Not someone with Native ancestry.
She's a white woman, who loves her kid's kinky hair. They're not Native, or Hispanic, they're black with kinky hair and she doesn't want anyone touching it. She saves it. Some mothers take this seriously. You guys are overlooking that.
Quote from: Herbie on January 22, 2016, 04:39:26 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on January 22, 2016, 04:35:53 PM
Quote from: Herbie on January 22, 2016, 04:34:13 PM
still watching the video...but by looking at her/her mom etc
her reaction could speak to cultural differences
like lil sis said, most African Americans believe in shaving the boys head and perming/straightening the girl's head. which would explain why he probably said to himself "my boys need to look 'fresh'" and cut it off
but then u have this woman who's family clearly is at the very least, highly admixed...I think they may feel a lot differently about cutting hair to be really honest. she genuinely seems upset that it was done.
If you notice, white women LOVE seeing their black kids' hair grow. Look at Heidi Klum. Her kids have kinky hair and she loves it and lets it grow, and even saved it in little baggies to hold on to whatever she cut. But then we had a BLACK woman to come behind her and say "who the fuck wants to save that mess? :uhh: " and got her ass chewed out by other black people who probably secretly think the same way but was upset someone said it and embarrassed us. if we're keeping it ALL the way 100.
Chile.
So what abut everything else we've been discussing.
Not this excuse for her.
My point is, you guys are saying this has NOTHING to do with the haircut. I just don't agree, even after watching more of this. Nothing at all? Not even in the least bit? I believe cultural differences definitely may come into play here a bit.
i think the difference is its not about WHY she's mad. its about what shes DOING in the video; and TO & in FRONT OF her kids.
WHY is really neither here nor there. Thats the issue here.
Quote from: L0NZ. on January 22, 2016, 04:39:32 PM
She was NOT genuinely upset about shit.
Im sorry.
You would NOT NOT NOT run up on a child in the backseat with 21 questions if you were mad about some hair.
You wouldn't scream rape and bloody murder if someone nudges you to get you out of said child's face.
You wouldnt use your children as orange cones.
You wouldnt call the police over some hair.
The bitterness she displayed...ch..bitch would have used anyyyyythingggg to initiate a confrontation.
I just snorted :kii:
Quote from: imaan. on January 22, 2016, 04:42:39 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on January 22, 2016, 04:39:32 PM
She was NOT genuinely upset about shit.
Im sorry.
You would NOT NOT NOT run up on a child in the backseat with 21 questions if you were mad about some hair.
You wouldn't scream rape and bloody murder if someone nudges you to get you out of said child's face.
You wouldnt use your children as orange cones.
You wouldnt call the police over some hair.
The bitterness she displayed...ch..bitch would have used anyyyyythingggg to initiate a confrontation.
I just snorted :kii:
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Quote from: L0NZ. on January 22, 2016, 04:39:32 PM
She was NOT genuinely upset about shit.
You wouldnt use your children as orange cones.
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but !!!!
She's fucking BITTER and her ACTIONS showed it was about everything else BUT hair in those moments
Quote from: Young on January 22, 2016, 04:39:20 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on January 22, 2016, 04:38:00 PM
LONZ!!!!!!!!!!!!
>>>>><<<<<
I thought that was the most asinine question. Where did they get their hair cut :fuming:
Ummmmmm WHAT :uhh:
I honestly didnt really think he was being petty at all....................until he told Grandma Grandpa had stepped out :dead:
sdfdfdfdfdfdfdfdfdfdfdfdfdfdfdfdfdfdfdfdfdfdfdfdfdfdfdfdfdfdfdfdfdfdfdfdfdfdfdfdfdfdfdfdfdfdfdfdfdf
but !!!
that mess needed to be said
i wish he had said something to snatch Miss Piggy together with too
Him having another woman's child in the back seat was enough
A pure smack in the face
She clearly still loves and wants him.
She's awful.
I'm sure the alimony was probably a mess as well..
She seems so spiteful
Guys, I'm just now realizing she used those kids to block him from backing up :plzstop: omg :kii: No wonder they were hiding behind the bumper. WTF! :uhh:
I also used Tia as an example. A black woman with a black child. Who maintains her son's hair.
Honestly I think this conversation would be totally different if it were girls who had their head shaven off by dad. It would be horrific, unthinkable, how could he. And anyone who says it wouldn't is a liar.
Quote from: imaan. on January 22, 2016, 04:42:39 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on January 22, 2016, 04:39:32 PM
She was NOT genuinely upset about shit.
Im sorry.
You would NOT NOT NOT run up on a child in the backseat with 21 questions if you were mad about some hair.
You wouldn't scream rape and bloody murder if someone nudges you to get you out of said child's face.
You wouldnt use your children as orange cones.
You wouldnt call the police over some hair.
The bitterness she displayed...ch..bitch would have used anyyyyythingggg to initiate a confrontation.
I just snorted :kii:
OMFG
That made me yell out fckn LOUD :kii:
Quote from: Herbie on January 22, 2016, 04:45:02 PM
I also used Tia as an example. A black woman with a black child. Who maintains her son's hair.
Honestly I think this conversation would be totally different if it were girls who had their head shaven off by dad. It would be horrific, unthinkable, how could he. And anyone who says it wouldn't is a liar.
:uhh:
Luv... beloved... :uhh:
Quote from: Herbie on January 22, 2016, 04:45:02 PM
I also used Tia as an example. A black woman with a black child. Who maintains her son's hair.
Honestly I think this conversation would be totally different if it were girls who had their head shaven off by dad. It would be horrific, unthinkable, how could he. And anyone who says it wouldn't is a liar.
:rudone:
Quote from: imaan. on January 22, 2016, 04:45:57 PM
Quote from: Herbie on January 22, 2016, 04:45:02 PM
I also used Tia as an example. A black woman with a black child. Who maintains her son's hair.
Honestly I think this conversation would be totally different if it were girls who had their head shaven off by dad. It would be horrific, unthinkable, how could he. And anyone who says it wouldn't is a liar.
:uhh:
Luv... beloved... :uhh:
So you would still feel that it was OK for him to do what he did?
I really want you guys to answer that.
did dis bitch tell the children to scratch the car?
Boyyyyyyyyyyyyyy
Quote from: Herbie on January 22, 2016, 04:45:02 PM
I also used Tia as an example. A black woman with a black child. Who maintains her son's hair.
:kii: :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii:
Quote from: imaan. on January 22, 2016, 04:42:39 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on January 22, 2016, 04:39:32 PM
She was NOT genuinely upset about shit.
Im sorry.
You would NOT NOT NOT run up on a child in the backseat with 21 questions if you were mad about some hair.
You wouldn't scream rape and bloody murder if someone nudges you to get you out of said child's face.
You wouldnt use your children as orange cones.
You wouldnt call the police over some hair.
The bitterness she displayed...ch..bitch would have used anyyyyythingggg to initiate a confrontation.
I just snorted :kii:
Im over here BARKING like a doberman ''sdsdsdf'fddf
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Quote from: Herbie on January 22, 2016, 04:45:02 PM
I also used Tia as an example. A black woman with a black child. Who maintains her son's hair.
Honestly I think this conversation would be totally different if it were girls who had their head shaven off by dad. It would be horrific, unthinkable, how could he. And anyone who says it wouldn't is a liar.
That's a really extreme comparison. I don't see most fathers taking their daughters to a salon and telling the stylist to give her a low cut fade just to piss mom off.
And like I said before, Tia would probably have a little more sense than to make this kind of scene in public and use her child as a damn speed bump.
I am in here HOLLERING :kii:
Quote from: Baphomet. on January 22, 2016, 04:47:47 PM
Quote from: imaan. on January 22, 2016, 04:42:39 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on January 22, 2016, 04:39:32 PM
She was NOT genuinely upset about shit.
Im sorry.
You would NOT NOT NOT run up on a child in the backseat with 21 questions if you were mad about some hair.
You wouldn't scream rape and bloody murder if someone nudges you to get you out of said child's face.
You wouldnt use your children as orange cones.
You wouldnt call the police over some hair.
The bitterness she displayed...ch..bitch would have used anyyyyythingggg to initiate a confrontation.
I just snorted :kii:
Im over here BARKING like a doberman ''sdsdsdf'fddf
fd
fd
g
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NNBVCCXVVBNNMMMM
I really wanna know what they thought they were gonna do to the kid in the backseat :uhh:
This thuggish behavior
And I doubt she ran up on this other kid inquiring about who his mother is because she didn't like his haircut.
This sheboon was on a rampage!
Quote from: Herbie on January 22, 2016, 04:45:02 PM
I also used Tia as an example. A black woman with a black child. Who maintains her son's hair.
Honestly I think this conversation would be totally different if it were girls who had their head shaven off by dad. It would be horrific, unthinkable, how could he. And anyone who says it wouldn't is a liar.
d
But the grandmother said herself they the children had already been given a haircut though, so how could the haircut be the problem?
If cutting the child's hair is not listed in his rights as a parent it should not have been done.
Sometimes you have to acknowledge who the fire starter was. In this case, it would be him.
If your situation with your ex is already rocky, why GIVE her a reason to get on your case?
Why not call her and talk with her about it?
Yes, she turned all the way up once the boys were there with their Caesars. But this could have been avoided. Women are catty and spiteful, it's in their nature. Sor'. So if your dumb ass gives them an excuse to rip you apart, it'll be done.
She's still dead wrong for involving her kids. Very immature. Don't think I am excusing her behavior. But he knew what he was doing as well. Especially considering the fact that he refused to let her know where they got the cut at.
And the cuts didn't even look cute. Do you see what the barber did to their heads? :uhh:
Quote from: Herbie on January 22, 2016, 04:46:47 PM
Quote from: imaan. on January 22, 2016, 04:45:57 PM
Quote from: Herbie on January 22, 2016, 04:45:02 PM
I also used Tia as an example. A black woman with a black child. Who maintains her son's hair.
Honestly I think this conversation would be totally different if it were girls who had their head shaven off by dad. It would be horrific, unthinkable, how could he. And anyone who says it wouldn't is a liar.
:uhh:
Luv... beloved... :uhh:
So you would still feel that it was OK for him to do what he did?
I really want you guys to answer that.
I don't understand why you're trying to turn this into a hair debate :overit:
It's not common for girls to get their head shaved off so of course that would be valid reaction but it's common for black boys to go to barbers and get a haircut. Perhaps you should watch the whole video :uhh: She was upset because the dad didn't ask her first if they could get their haircut, not the haircut it self. The mom was upset because she didn't have control over the situation and wanted to be petty. Noticed how she kept saying "MY kids"? or how both the mom and the grandmother started to go into the car asking the other child questions? This inappropriate behavior didn't have shit to do with hair.
There's no cultural difference. They're all African Americans.
af' are you o fckin K? :uhh:
Quote from: Lion Babe on January 22, 2016, 04:50:15 PM
Quote from: Herbie on January 22, 2016, 04:45:02 PM
I also used Tia as an example. A black woman with a black child. Who maintains her son's hair.
Honestly I think this conversation would be totally different if it were girls who had their head shaven off by dad. It would be horrific, unthinkable, how could he. And anyone who says it wouldn't is a liar.
d
But the grandmother said herself they the children had already been given a haircut though, so how could the haircut be the problem?
We don't know what she meant by hair cut. Hair cut could mean a simple trim, a shape up, etc. Hair cut is very general and doesn't always mean completely shaven off.
And even if she is maintaining their mess with cuts it makes me wonder even more why he would get it cut AGAIN. What was the point or logic in that?
:dead: :dead: :dead: :dead: :dead: :dead: :dead: :dead:
Quote from: Herbie on January 22, 2016, 04:41:44 PM
I used Heidi Klum as an example. Not someone with Native ancestry.
She's a white woman, who loves her kid's kinky hair. They're not Native, or Hispanic, they're black with kinky hair and she doesn't want anyone touching it. She saves it. Some mothers take this seriously. You guys are overlooking that.
We're not talking about Heidi though. :plzstop: You dont know if this woman puts their hair in baggies to keep. But we can all pretty clearly see the scorned undertone throughout the entire video. You're overlooking that. You're talking about Heidi Klum putting her adopted kids' hair in a ziploc and not Carla who is doing stunts and shows in front of her kids using a haircut as a green light to act a fool. If it wasnt the haircut it woulda been their toy trains, exceeding the allotted time for visits, the number of car seats in the car, oh wait...... she nit picked all that too
The woman was petty and bitter. She tried to be technical and she was a bad example for this children.
But then I can understand sometimes you just get really mad over little things like this, but you still need to have composure.
You guys are saying I'm trying to turn something to a hair debate
when the whole thing was based on a haircut
My focus and argument is different, not random. know the difference.
Quote from: Herbie on January 22, 2016, 04:41:44 PM
I used Heidi Klum as an example. Not someone with Native ancestry.
She's a white woman, who loves her kid's kinky hair. They're not Native, or Hispanic, they're black with kinky hair and she doesn't want anyone touching it. She saves it. Some mothers take this seriously. You guys are overlooking that.
sis i love you but no.
its not that we're overlooking it; its that you arent looking past the hair/race/culture thing.
and we know maybe its because of your latest personal revelations in this area.
but whats going on in the video and whats being discussed has A LOT more to do other things than hair. and its rooted with the hate and bitterness this woman has for this man Earl. And whats scariest about the whole video is we see a 3 generation depiction coming into to form before our eyes. we see the grandmother who is obviously just as scorned and distracted by her own bitter emotions that she too was unable to keep the focus of her anger on and about the hair. and we see it happening with the baby mother. whats scariest about her is that she is also CREATING the next generational cycle right before our very own eyes. but this time to her 2 little black sons. shes dangerous. those poor little boys...smh. they will grow up in an environment where two of the most important women in their lives are okay with being driven by bitter and spiteful emotions. it gets deep..and scary.
the entire video is sad; and your points on hair are extremely valid as to WHY both women could be mad.
but again, whats going on in the video and whats being discussed isnt about why they're mad its about how they're handling that "anger" and how the children are being used and affected by it all.
Um
Quote from: Herbie on January 22, 2016, 04:45:02 PM
I also used Tia as an example. A black woman with a black child. Who maintains her son's hair.
Honestly I think this conversation would be totally different if it were girls who had their head shaven off by dad. It would be horrific, unthinkable, how could he. And anyone who says it wouldn't is a liar.
AFRO SIS.
Who would do that though?
You can't just.... TAKE your daughter somewhere and get her a lil bootsie fade without it being clear that you wanted mess. He took the lil niggas to get haircuts like most dads, uncles do............. :melmel:
Quote from: imaan. on January 22, 2016, 04:44:21 PM
Guys, I'm just now realizing she used those kids to block him from backing up :plzstop: omg :kii: No wonder they were hiding behind the bumper. WTF! :uhh:
!!!!
truly disgusting.
its just a small foreshadow of her showing that she's able to put her kids in harms way to get what she wants not only out of Earl, but mainly for HERSELF. disgusting.
Quote from: Herbie on January 22, 2016, 04:53:54 PM
You guys are saying I'm trying to turn something to a hair debate
when the whole thing was based on a haircut
My focus and argument is different, not random. know the difference.
he coulda brought those kids to her the same way she dropped em off and her argument woulda been why DIDNT u get them a haircut. It was NOT about a haircut. Thats what she chose to take issue with because she was a scorned fool. If the argument and the entire video wouldve focused SOLELY on that and not all this other mess then maybe I could atleast TRY and see what ur saying. She went from telling the kids to scratch his car, to he couldnt pick up or kiss the kids because he was over time, to Q&Aing another child, like PLEA!
Quote from: Herbie on January 22, 2016, 04:53:54 PM
You guys are saying I'm trying to turn something to a hair debate
when the whole thing was based on a haircut
My focus and argument is different, not random. know the difference.
v
No, it was based on the mom claiming to be the custodial parent therefore the dad should've asked her first if they could've got a haircut :plzstop:
and this:
has me in tears :plzstop:
Quote from: Herbie on January 22, 2016, 04:52:47 PM
Quote from: Lion Babe on January 22, 2016, 04:50:15 PM
Quote from: Herbie on January 22, 2016, 04:45:02 PM
I also used Tia as an example. A black woman with a black child. Who maintains her son's hair.
Honestly I think this conversation would be totally different if it were girls who had their head shaven off by dad. It would be horrific, unthinkable, how could he. And anyone who says it wouldn't is a liar.
d
But the grandmother said herself they the children had already been given a haircut though, so how could the haircut be the problem?
We don't know what she meant by hair cut. Hair cut could mean a simple trim, a shape up, etc. Hair cut is very general and doesn't always mean completely shaven off.
And even if she is maintaining their mess with cuts it makes me wonder even more why he would get it cut AGAIN. What was the point or logic in that?
You know damn well what she meant by a haircut :plzstop:
You're just on your whole ancestry/natural hair wave, luv :plea: Not everyone is going to share those viewpoints. Especially African Americans.
Quote from: L0NZ. on January 22, 2016, 04:53:17 PM
Quote from: Herbie on January 22, 2016, 04:41:44 PM
I used Heidi Klum as an example. Not someone with Native ancestry.
She's a white woman, who loves her kid's kinky hair. They're not Native, or Hispanic, they're black with kinky hair and she doesn't want anyone touching it. She saves it. Some mothers take this seriously. You guys are overlooking that.
We're not talking about Heidi though. :plzstop: You dont know if this woman puts their hair in baggies to keep. But we can all pretty clearly see the scorned undertone throughout the entire video. You're overlooking that. You're talking about Heidi Klum putting her adopted kids' hair in a ziploc and not Carla who is doing stunts and shows in front of her kids using a haircut as a green light to act a fool. If it wasnt the haircut it woulda been their toy trains, exceeding the allotted time for visits, the number of car seats in the car, oh wait...... she nit picked all that too
All her kids, also the black ones, came out her vagina, sis.
:supluv:
Quote from: Vonc2002 on January 22, 2016, 04:57:33 PM
Quote from: Herbie on January 22, 2016, 04:53:54 PM
You guys are saying I'm trying to turn something to a hair debate
when the whole thing was based on a haircut
My focus and argument is different, not random. know the difference.
he coulda brought those kids to her the same way she dropped em off and her argument woulda be why DIDNT u get them a haircut. It was NOT about a haircut. Thats what she chose to take issue with because she was a scorned fool. If the argument and the entire video wouldve focused SOLELY on that and not all this other mess then maybe I could atleast TRY and see what ur saying. She went from telling the kids to scratch his car, to he couldnt pick up or kiss the kids because he was over time, to Q&Aing another child, like PLEA!
!!!! Exactly. It would've been something else even if he didn't get them a haircut.
Quote from: Herbie on January 22, 2016, 04:52:47 PM
Quote from: Lion Babe on January 22, 2016, 04:50:15 PM
Quote from: Herbie on January 22, 2016, 04:45:02 PM
I also used Tia as an example. A black woman with a black child. Who maintains her son's hair.
Honestly I think this conversation would be totally different if it were girls who had their head shaven off by dad. It would be horrific, unthinkable, how could he. And anyone who says it wouldn't is a liar.
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But the grandmother said herself they the children had already been given a haircut though, so how could the haircut be the problem?
We don't know what she meant by hair cut. Hair cut could mean a simple trim, a shape up, etc. Hair cut is very general and doesn't always mean completely shaven off.
And even if she is maintaining their mess with cuts it makes me wonder even more why he would get it cut AGAIN. What was the point or logic in that?
Exactly. If they are already getting haircuts, why is this one such a big deal?
:supluv:
Because it's not....there's a bigger issue she has.
And I don't believe he cut off some flowing adonis locks and curls because as talkative as that bitch was, she would have mentioned that, I'm sure.
Quote from: L0NZ. on January 22, 2016, 04:53:17 PM
Quote from: Herbie on January 22, 2016, 04:41:44 PM
I used Heidi Klum as an example. Not someone with Native ancestry.
She's a white woman, who loves her kid's kinky hair. They're not Native, or Hispanic, they're black with kinky hair and she doesn't want anyone touching it. She saves it. Some mothers take this seriously. You guys are overlooking that.
We're not talking about Heidi though. :plzstop: You dont know if this woman puts their hair in baggies to keep. But we can all pretty clearly see the scorned undertone throughout the entire video. You're overlooking that. You're talking about Heidi Klum putting her adopted kids' hair in a ziploc and not Carla who is doing stunts and shows in front of her kids using a haircut as a green light to act a fool. If it wasnt the haircut it woulda been their toy trains, exceeding the allotted time for visits, the number of car seats in the car, oh wait...... she nit picked all that too
I already said multiple times how wrong she is.
And how immature she acted.
Why do you guys keep overlooking that?
I'm just saying that she could have genuinely been triggered.
Sometimes people act a fool when they are set off by something. Depending on their personality.
Quote from: Herbie on January 22, 2016, 04:59:19 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on January 22, 2016, 04:53:17 PM
Quote from: Herbie on January 22, 2016, 04:41:44 PM
I used Heidi Klum as an example. Not someone with Native ancestry.
She's a white woman, who loves her kid's kinky hair. They're not Native, or Hispanic, they're black with kinky hair and she doesn't want anyone touching it. She saves it. Some mothers take this seriously. You guys are overlooking that.
We're not talking about Heidi though. :plzstop: You dont know if this woman puts their hair in baggies to keep. But we can all pretty clearly see the scorned undertone throughout the entire video. You're overlooking that. You're talking about Heidi Klum putting her adopted kids' hair in a ziploc and not Carla who is doing stunts and shows in front of her kids using a haircut as a green light to act a fool. If it wasnt the haircut it woulda been their toy trains, exceeding the allotted time for visits, the number of car seats in the car, oh wait...... she nit picked all that too
I already said multiple times how wrong she is.
And how immature she acted.
Why do you guys keep overlooking that?
I'm just saying that she could have genuinely been triggered.
Sometimes people act a fool when they are set off by something. Depending on their personality.
I understand.
You think the haircuts triggered a genuine reaction.
I think it gave her a reason to be a bitch.
Quote from: L0NZ. on January 22, 2016, 05:00:33 PM
Quote from: Herbie on January 22, 2016, 04:59:19 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on January 22, 2016, 04:53:17 PM
Quote from: Herbie on January 22, 2016, 04:41:44 PM
I used Heidi Klum as an example. Not someone with Native ancestry.
She's a white woman, who loves her kid's kinky hair. They're not Native, or Hispanic, they're black with kinky hair and she doesn't want anyone touching it. She saves it. Some mothers take this seriously. You guys are overlooking that.
We're not talking about Heidi though. :plzstop: You dont know if this woman puts their hair in baggies to keep. But we can all pretty clearly see the scorned undertone throughout the entire video. You're overlooking that. You're talking about Heidi Klum putting her adopted kids' hair in a ziploc and not Carla who is doing stunts and shows in front of her kids using a haircut as a green light to act a fool. If it wasnt the haircut it woulda been their toy trains, exceeding the allotted time for visits, the number of car seats in the car, oh wait...... she nit picked all that too
I already said multiple times how wrong she is.
And how immature she acted.
Why do you guys keep overlooking that?
I'm just saying that she could have genuinely been triggered.
Sometimes people act a fool when they are set off by something. Depending on their personality.
I understand.
You think the haircuts triggered a genuine reaction.
I think it gave her a reason to be a bitch.
I think she's just a bitch period. Don't think it's an act anytime someone is gross enough to have their kids key up their dad's car. That's a genuine, undiluted bitch my love. And anything that triggers her will bring it right on out.
SHe's not the first woman to try to turn her kids against their fathers and be genuinely upset that he's in their lives after he did her wrong (in her mind). This definitely isn't an exclusively "black" thing either. It's more of a
woman thing. But fucking mess.
Quote from: Herbie on January 22, 2016, 04:50:24 PM
If cutting the child's hair is not listed in his rights as a parent it should not have been done.
Sometimes you have to acknowledge who the fire starter was. In this case, it would be him.
If your situation with your ex is already rocky, why GIVE her a reason to get on your case?
Why not call her and talk with her about it?
Yes, she turned all the way up once the boys were there with their Caesars. But this could have been avoided. Women are catty and spiteful, it's in their nature. Sor'. So if your dumb ass gives them an excuse to rip you apart, it'll be done.
She's still dead wrong for involving her kids. Very immature. Don't think I am excusing her behavior. But he knew what he was doing as well. Especially considering the fact that he refused to let her know where they got the cut at.
And the cuts didn't even look cute. Do you see what the barber did to their heads? :uhh:
sis for one, the grandma already acknowledged that the boys have had haircuts before. and not just once in past; it's reoccurring. "You want the bill?"
So the Tia example doesnt really work here at this point. Nor does the fact that the baby mother would be pissed about cultural impact or the loss of years work of maintaining 3b curly locks.
I dont think the court order is that he CANT cut their hair. I think he just needs permission. Thats what it looks like the baby mother was alluding to as well. So if he was wrong about anything; it was that he did not get permission from the mother.
And we also know thats part of the reason she woman was angry because she kept yelling "did you ask? did you call?"
she wanted that communication. Earl is clearly over this woman. We can see this and he verbalizes this. We also see that the woman has emotions about this because she goes into HIS car, asks a random child about WHO he is and the name of the parent of the child so she can see if she can piece some things together for herself. The grandmother even comes to help do so.
Its alot bigger than this hair stuff sis..
Quote from: Herbie on January 22, 2016, 05:05:02 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on January 22, 2016, 05:00:33 PM
Quote from: Herbie on January 22, 2016, 04:59:19 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on January 22, 2016, 04:53:17 PM
Quote from: Herbie on January 22, 2016, 04:41:44 PM
I used Heidi Klum as an example. Not someone with Native ancestry.
She's a white woman, who loves her kid's kinky hair. They're not Native, or Hispanic, they're black with kinky hair and she doesn't want anyone touching it. She saves it. Some mothers take this seriously. You guys are overlooking that.
We're not talking about Heidi though. :plzstop: You dont know if this woman puts their hair in baggies to keep. But we can all pretty clearly see the scorned undertone throughout the entire video. You're overlooking that. You're talking about Heidi Klum putting her adopted kids' hair in a ziploc and not Carla who is doing stunts and shows in front of her kids using a haircut as a green light to act a fool. If it wasnt the haircut it woulda been their toy trains, exceeding the allotted time for visits, the number of car seats in the car, oh wait...... she nit picked all that too
I already said multiple times how wrong she is.
And how immature she acted.
Why do you guys keep overlooking that?
I'm just saying that she could have genuinely been triggered.
Sometimes people act a fool when they are set off by something. Depending on their personality.
I understand.
You think the haircuts triggered a genuine reaction.
I think it gave her a reason to be a bitch.
I think she's just a bitch period. Don't think it's an act anytime someone is gross enough to have their kids key up their dad's car. That's a genuine, undiluted bitch my love. And anything that triggers her will bring it right on out.
SHe's not the first woman to try to turn her kids against their fathers and be genuinely upset that he's in their lives after he did her wrong (in her mind). This definitely isn't an exclusively "black" thing either. It's more of a woman thing. But fucking mess.
:ohwow: hey Fro!
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Quote from: Herbie on January 22, 2016, 04:59:19 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on January 22, 2016, 04:53:17 PM
Quote from: Herbie on January 22, 2016, 04:41:44 PM
I used Heidi Klum as an example. Not someone with Native ancestry.
She's a white woman, who loves her kid's kinky hair. They're not Native, or Hispanic, they're black with kinky hair and she doesn't want anyone touching it. She saves it. Some mothers take this seriously. You guys are overlooking that.
We're not talking about Heidi though. :plzstop: You dont know if this woman puts their hair in baggies to keep. But we can all pretty clearly see the scorned undertone throughout the entire video. You're overlooking that. You're talking about Heidi Klum putting her adopted kids' hair in a ziploc and not Carla who is doing stunts and shows in front of her kids using a haircut as a green light to act a fool. If it wasnt the haircut it woulda been their toy trains, exceeding the allotted time for visits, the number of car seats in the car, oh wait...... she nit picked all that too
I already said multiple times how wrong she is.
And how immature she acted.
Why do you guys keep overlooking that?
I'm just saying that she could have genuinely been triggered.
Sometimes people act a fool when they are set off by something. Depending on their personality.
I think the crime doesn't warrant the "punishment" is the point
If she's mad that he cut their hair she needs to call him and cuss him out
or just pull him aside face 2 face. Putting her kids in danger over a haircut is ridiculous. What if he tried to back out and didn't see the kids back there? Fuck a haircut, even if he was wrong for doing it
the kids didn't deserve to see them interacting like that or to be told to dislike their own father. She's 100% wrong no excuse
Quote from: Young on January 22, 2016, 05:06:05 PM
We also see that the woman has emotions about this because she goes into HIS car, asks a random child about WHO he is and the name of the parent of the child so she can see if she can piece some things together for herself. The grandmother even comes to help do so.
Its alot bigger than this hair stuff sis..
fffffffffff that was the NASTIEST part of this :dead: :dead: :kii: :kii: :kii:
Its that bitch Keisha aint it!! I fucking KNEW EHT!
Quote from: Young on January 22, 2016, 04:54:26 PM
Quote from: Herbie on January 22, 2016, 04:41:44 PM
I used Heidi Klum as an example. Not someone with Native ancestry.
She's a white woman, who loves her kid's kinky hair. They're not Native, or Hispanic, they're black with kinky hair and she doesn't want anyone touching it. She saves it. Some mothers take this seriously. You guys are overlooking that.
sis i love you but no.
its not that we're overlooking it; its that you arent looking past the hair/race/culture thing.
and we know maybe its because of your latest personal revelations in this area.
but whats going on in the video and whats being discussed has A LOT more to do other things than hair. and its rooted with the hate and bitterness this woman has for this man Earl. And whats scariest about the whole video is we see a 3 generation depiction coming into to form before our eyes. we see the grandmother who is obviously just as scorned and distracted by her own bitter emotions that she too was unable to keep the focus of her anger on and about the hair. and we see it happening with the baby mother. whats scariest about her is that she is also CREATING the next generational cycle right before our very own eyes. but this time to her 2 little black sons. shes dangerous. those poor little boys...smh. they will grow up in an environment where two of the most important women in their lives are okay with being driven by bitter and spiteful emotions. it gets deep..and scary.
the entire video is sad; and your points on hair are extremely valid as to WHY both women could be mad.
but again, whats going on in the video and whats being discussed isnt about why they're mad its about how they're handling that "anger" and how the children are being used and affected by it all.
The thing is that I'm not oblivious to the fact that this woman is bitter, scorned, angry and catty. Why do you guys keep replying to me like I am? :dead: I never refuted that. But he's wrong for doing this.
Quote from: Herbie on January 22, 2016, 05:10:04 PM
Quote from: Young on January 22, 2016, 04:54:26 PM
Quote from: Herbie on January 22, 2016, 04:41:44 PM
I used Heidi Klum as an example. Not someone with Native ancestry.
She's a white woman, who loves her kid's kinky hair. They're not Native, or Hispanic, they're black with kinky hair and she doesn't want anyone touching it. She saves it. Some mothers take this seriously. You guys are overlooking that.
sis i love you but no.
its not that we're overlooking it; its that you arent looking past the hair/race/culture thing.
and we know maybe its because of your latest personal revelations in this area.
but whats going on in the video and whats being discussed has A LOT more to do other things than hair. and its rooted with the hate and bitterness this woman has for this man Earl. And whats scariest about the whole video is we see a 3 generation depiction coming into to form before our eyes. we see the grandmother who is obviously just as scorned and distracted by her own bitter emotions that she too was unable to keep the focus of her anger on and about the hair. and we see it happening with the baby mother. whats scariest about her is that she is also CREATING the next generational cycle right before our very own eyes. but this time to her 2 little black sons. shes dangerous. those poor little boys...smh. they will grow up in an environment where two of the most important women in their lives are okay with being driven by bitter and spiteful emotions. it gets deep..and scary.
the entire video is sad; and your points on hair are extremely valid as to WHY both women could be mad.
but again, whats going on in the video and whats being discussed isnt about why they're mad its about how they're handling that "anger" and how the children are being used and affected by it all.
The thing is that I'm not oblivious to the fact that this woman is bitter, scorned, angry and catty. Why do you guys keep replying to me like I am? :dead: I never refuted that. But he's wrong for doing this.
i didnt say or think you dont agree that the woman has issues, and i agree that he should communicate with the mother; and probably shouldnt have cut the hair altogether
but i think that is such a small issue when it comes to everything we saw in the video.
and i think thats where the disagreement lies.
you seem to weigh the two issues alot differently than everyone else is all sis
Quote from: Young on January 22, 2016, 05:14:13 PM
Quote from: Herbie on January 22, 2016, 05:10:04 PM
Quote from: Young on January 22, 2016, 04:54:26 PM
Quote from: Herbie on January 22, 2016, 04:41:44 PM
I used Heidi Klum as an example. Not someone with Native ancestry.
She's a white woman, who loves her kid's kinky hair. They're not Native, or Hispanic, they're black with kinky hair and she doesn't want anyone touching it. She saves it. Some mothers take this seriously. You guys are overlooking that.
sis i love you but no.
its not that we're overlooking it; its that you arent looking past the hair/race/culture thing.
and we know maybe its because of your latest personal revelations in this area.
but whats going on in the video and whats being discussed has A LOT more to do other things than hair. and its rooted with the hate and bitterness this woman has for this man Earl. And whats scariest about the whole video is we see a 3 generation depiction coming into to form before our eyes. we see the grandmother who is obviously just as scorned and distracted by her own bitter emotions that she too was unable to keep the focus of her anger on and about the hair. and we see it happening with the baby mother. whats scariest about her is that she is also CREATING the next generational cycle right before our very own eyes. but this time to her 2 little black sons. shes dangerous. those poor little boys...smh. they will grow up in an environment where two of the most important women in their lives are okay with being driven by bitter and spiteful emotions. it gets deep..and scary.
the entire video is sad; and your points on hair are extremely valid as to WHY both women could be mad.
but again, whats going on in the video and whats being discussed isnt about why they're mad its about how they're handling that "anger" and how the children are being used and affected by it all.
The thing is that I'm not oblivious to the fact that this woman is bitter, scorned, angry and catty. Why do you guys keep replying to me like I am? :dead: I never refuted that. But he's wrong for doing this.
i didnt say or think you dont agree that the woman has issues, and i agree that he should communicate with the mother; and probably shouldnt have cut the hair altogether
but i think that is such a small issue when it comes to everything we saw in the video.
and i think thats where the disagreement lies.
you seem to weigh the two issues alot differently than everyone else is all sis
Yeah, that's all it is.
And I'll be reasonable and honest and say that me being in the minority here probably does have to do with the fact that I love natural hair, know the maintenance it takes, etc. I can admit that. But if anything that just shows how differently people see things.
I don't care if it were my cousin, husband that I love dearly, bestie...bring my child back to me bald and you're getting your scalp snatched next. If I handle that, and you know I handle that, why switch up the routine? I can understand why she may have been genuinely triggered.
But I will admit my "bias".
These poor children caught in the mess
And sometimes when you're not cool with someone it's easy to assume that they're doing things intentionally just to spite you, even when they aren't. Haven't we all had that experience, or at least witnessed it? Anything small will have you GNAWING at their wig.
Quote from: Herbie on January 22, 2016, 05:17:18 PM
Quote from: Young on January 22, 2016, 05:14:13 PM
Quote from: Herbie on January 22, 2016, 05:10:04 PM
Quote from: Young on January 22, 2016, 04:54:26 PM
Quote from: Herbie on January 22, 2016, 04:41:44 PM
I used Heidi Klum as an example. Not someone with Native ancestry.
She's a white woman, who loves her kid's kinky hair. They're not Native, or Hispanic, they're black with kinky hair and she doesn't want anyone touching it. She saves it. Some mothers take this seriously. You guys are overlooking that.
sis i love you but no.
its not that we're overlooking it; its that you arent looking past the hair/race/culture thing.
and we know maybe its because of your latest personal revelations in this area.
but whats going on in the video and whats being discussed has A LOT more to do other things than hair. and its rooted with the hate and bitterness this woman has for this man Earl. And whats scariest about the whole video is we see a 3 generation depiction coming into to form before our eyes. we see the grandmother who is obviously just as scorned and distracted by her own bitter emotions that she too was unable to keep the focus of her anger on and about the hair. and we see it happening with the baby mother. whats scariest about her is that she is also CREATING the next generational cycle right before our very own eyes. but this time to her 2 little black sons. shes dangerous. those poor little boys...smh. they will grow up in an environment where two of the most important women in their lives are okay with being driven by bitter and spiteful emotions. it gets deep..and scary.
the entire video is sad; and your points on hair are extremely valid as to WHY both women could be mad.
but again, whats going on in the video and whats being discussed isnt about why they're mad its about how they're handling that "anger" and how the children are being used and affected by it all.
The thing is that I'm not oblivious to the fact that this woman is bitter, scorned, angry and catty. Why do you guys keep replying to me like I am? :dead: I never refuted that. But he's wrong for doing this.
i didnt say or think you dont agree that the woman has issues, and i agree that he should communicate with the mother; and probably shouldnt have cut the hair altogether
but i think that is such a small issue when it comes to everything we saw in the video.
and i think thats where the disagreement lies.
you seem to weigh the two issues alot differently than everyone else is all sis
Yeah, that's all it is.
And I'll be reasonable and honest and say that me being in the minority here probably does have to do with the fact that I love natural hair, know the maintenance it takes, etc. I can admit that. But if anything that just shows how differently people see things.
I don't care if it were my cousin, husband that I love dearly, bestie...bring my child back to me bald and you're getting your scalp snatched next. If I handle that, and you know I handle that, why switch up the routine? I can understand why she may have been genuinely triggered.
But I will admit my "bias".
sdsdsdsdsdsssd
yeah i definitely can relate in some ways. I literally tend to my hair 24/7
luv my mess :supluv:
dsdsd
but i dunno, I just feel like even if for the sake of knowing the severe effects all of this can have on the two boys & how it only adds to the next cycle of broken black families; the mother should kinda pull back and maybe reevaluate her actions a lil more here. IMO i think in this case; shes more in the wrong when looking at the bigger picture.
Quote from: Young on January 22, 2016, 05:22:40 PM
Quote from: Herbie on January 22, 2016, 05:17:18 PM
Quote from: Young on January 22, 2016, 05:14:13 PM
Quote from: Herbie on January 22, 2016, 05:10:04 PM
Quote from: Young on January 22, 2016, 04:54:26 PM
Quote from: Herbie on January 22, 2016, 04:41:44 PM
I used Heidi Klum as an example. Not someone with Native ancestry.
She's a white woman, who loves her kid's kinky hair. They're not Native, or Hispanic, they're black with kinky hair and she doesn't want anyone touching it. She saves it. Some mothers take this seriously. You guys are overlooking that.
sis i love you but no.
its not that we're overlooking it; its that you arent looking past the hair/race/culture thing.
and we know maybe its because of your latest personal revelations in this area.
but whats going on in the video and whats being discussed has A LOT more to do other things than hair. and its rooted with the hate and bitterness this woman has for this man Earl. And whats scariest about the whole video is we see a 3 generation depiction coming into to form before our eyes. we see the grandmother who is obviously just as scorned and distracted by her own bitter emotions that she too was unable to keep the focus of her anger on and about the hair. and we see it happening with the baby mother. whats scariest about her is that she is also CREATING the next generational cycle right before our very own eyes. but this time to her 2 little black sons. shes dangerous. those poor little boys...smh. they will grow up in an environment where two of the most important women in their lives are okay with being driven by bitter and spiteful emotions. it gets deep..and scary.
the entire video is sad; and your points on hair are extremely valid as to WHY both women could be mad.
but again, whats going on in the video and whats being discussed isnt about why they're mad its about how they're handling that "anger" and how the children are being used and affected by it all.
The thing is that I'm not oblivious to the fact that this woman is bitter, scorned, angry and catty. Why do you guys keep replying to me like I am? :dead: I never refuted that. But he's wrong for doing this.
i didnt say or think you dont agree that the woman has issues, and i agree that he should communicate with the mother; and probably shouldnt have cut the hair altogether
but i think that is such a small issue when it comes to everything we saw in the video.
and i think thats where the disagreement lies.
you seem to weigh the two issues alot differently than everyone else is all sis
Yeah, that's all it is.
And I'll be reasonable and honest and say that me being in the minority here probably does have to do with the fact that I love natural hair, know the maintenance it takes, etc. I can admit that. But if anything that just shows how differently people see things.
I don't care if it were my cousin, husband that I love dearly, bestie...bring my child back to me bald and you're getting your scalp snatched next. If I handle that, and you know I handle that, why switch up the routine? I can understand why she may have been genuinely triggered.
But I will admit my "bias".
sdsdsdsdsdsssd
yeah i definitely can relate in some ways. I literally tend to my hair 24/7
luv my mess :supluv:
dsdsd
but i dunno, I just feel like even if for the sake of knowing the severe effects all of this can have on the two boys & how it only adds to the next cycle of broken black families; the mother should kinda pull back and maybe reevaluate her actions a lil more here. IMO i think in this case; shes more in the wrong when looking at the bigger picture.
This is more common than you'd think unfortunately. The results of divorce/separation when kids are involved are almost always very nasty. This just happened to be caught on tape for us to see.
Unlike the murders, etc. and mess that occur out of anger when parents win custody and mess. It gets brutal as fuck.
Which is why BOTH parents should be doing everything they can to keep the peace. Which involves healthy amounts of communication. He missed the mark, she missed the mark. To me it's more about who was wronger, not who was wrong.
Quote from: L0NZ. on January 22, 2016, 05:06:24 PM
Quote from: Herbie on January 22, 2016, 05:05:02 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on January 22, 2016, 05:00:33 PM
Quote from: Herbie on January 22, 2016, 04:59:19 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on January 22, 2016, 04:53:17 PM
Quote from: Herbie on January 22, 2016, 04:41:44 PM
I used Heidi Klum as an example. Not someone with Native ancestry.
She's a white woman, who loves her kid's kinky hair. They're not Native, or Hispanic, they're black with kinky hair and she doesn't want anyone touching it. She saves it. Some mothers take this seriously. You guys are overlooking that.
We're not talking about Heidi though. :plzstop: You dont know if this woman puts their hair in baggies to keep. But we can all pretty clearly see the scorned undertone throughout the entire video. You're overlooking that. You're talking about Heidi Klum putting her adopted kids' hair in a ziploc and not Carla who is doing stunts and shows in front of her kids using a haircut as a green light to act a fool. If it wasnt the haircut it woulda been their toy trains, exceeding the allotted time for visits, the number of car seats in the car, oh wait...... she nit picked all that too
I already said multiple times how wrong she is.
And how immature she acted.
Why do you guys keep overlooking that?
I'm just saying that she could have genuinely been triggered.
Sometimes people act a fool when they are set off by something. Depending on their personality.
I understand.
You think the haircuts triggered a genuine reaction.
I think it gave her a reason to be a bitch.
I think she's just a bitch period. Don't think it's an act anytime someone is gross enough to have their kids key up their dad's car. That's a genuine, undiluted bitch my love. And anything that triggers her will bring it right on out.
SHe's not the first woman to try to turn her kids against their fathers and be genuinely upset that he's in their lives after he did her wrong (in her mind). This definitely isn't an exclusively "black" thing either. It's more of a woman thing. But fucking mess.
:ohwow: hey Fro!
hey bewskie :stressed:
Quote from: Herbie on January 22, 2016, 03:56:35 PM
he definitely should have called her before cutting their hair off.
hair may not mean anything to him but it could mean it to her, she has nice hair herself, i'm sure the kids do too. unless she had them walking around looking a mess, which I doubt.
i damn sure know if someone cut my childs hair off without calling I'd be digging into their ass as well. parent, babysitter, bestie, cousin....don't give a fuck, u gonna get it! :cheerup:
but
both of them are dead wrong for this. literally. LITERALLY putting their kids in the middle of their own mess
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That wasn't about a haircut.
This bitch is bitter and still trying to control this man any way that she can.
And he's petty as well.
If he really wanted the mess to end he could have told her where he took them to get the haircut.
He was low key antagonizing her and she was using her kids as pawns in their game.
They're both wrong, and he learns how to communicate if he wants to avoid his car getting keyed up.
She was clearly more aggressive but he's not innocent. That's all I'm saying.
Like most people who co-parent after divorce or separation, they're playing tit for tat
They got their hair cut at the barbershop. I know it's hard for Carla to fathom but, that's most likely where he took them, to get a haircut.
Quote from: Gilgamesh. on January 22, 2016, 04:23:56 PM
The're both dumb as hell.
She was doing way too much over a haircut and he was being petty by not telling her where they got it cut.
I mean, why did he need to tell her where they got it cut? What's the purpose?
Is she gonna go get the hair and glue it back on their scalps? :uhh:
Him saying "bar-ber-shop" to her mental ass is not going to cure her bitterness.
Are we sure???...cuz those shape ups look atrocious :uhh:
I wouldn't be surprised if it were done at home.
Quote from: MΛΥDΛΥ on January 23, 2016, 01:46:55 PM
Quote from: Gilgamesh. on January 22, 2016, 04:23:56 PM
The're both dumb as hell.
She was doing way too much over a haircut and he was being petty by not telling her where they got it cut.
I mean, why did he need to tell her where they got it cut? What's the purpose?
Is she gonna go get the hair and glue it back on their scalps? :uhh:
Probably. With her crazy ass.
Quote from: Herbie on January 22, 2016, 04:39:26 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on January 22, 2016, 04:35:53 PM
Quote from: Herbie on January 22, 2016, 04:34:13 PM
still watching the video...but by looking at her/her mom etc
her reaction could speak to cultural differences
like lil sis said, most African Americans believe in shaving the boys head and perming/straightening the girl's head. which would explain why he probably said to himself "my boys need to look 'fresh'" and cut it off
but then u have this woman who's family clearly is at the very least, highly admixed...I think they may feel a lot differently about cutting hair to be really honest. she genuinely seems upset that it was done.
If you notice, white women LOVE seeing their black kids' hair grow. Look at Heidi Klum. Her kids have kinky hair and she loves it and lets it grow, and even saved it in little baggies to hold on to whatever she cut. But then we had a BLACK woman to come behind her and say "who the fuck wants to save that mess? :uhh: " and got her ass chewed out by other black people who probably secretly think the same way but was upset someone said it and embarrassed us. if we're keeping it ALL the way 100.
Chile.
So what abut everything else we've been discussing.
Not this excuse for her.
My point is, you guys are saying this has NOTHING to do with the haircut. I just don't agree, even after watching more of this. Nothing at all? Not even in the least bit? I believe cultural differences definitely may come into play here a bit.
I don't think there are any cultural differences.
They are in Louisiana. She gives a Creole mess, which is pretty much considered Black, or a strain of.
Her mother is clearly a light skinned Black woman.
This bitch is just being petty. He left her & got with another chick, and she can't deal.
He probably got tired of her controlling ways and her mother meddling in their mess.
Quote from: L0NZ. on January 22, 2016, 04:39:32 PM
She was NOT genuinely upset about shit.
Im sorry.
You would NOT NOT NOT run up on a child in the backseat with 21 questions if you were mad about some hair.
You wouldn't scream rape and bloody murder if someone nudges you to get you out of said child's face.
You wouldnt use your children as orange cones.
You wouldnt call the police over some hair.
The bitterness she displayed...ch..bitch would have used anyyyyythingggg to initiate a confrontation.
!!!!
Notice how when the hair thing didn't work she started with the jackets.
Quote from: MΛΥDΛΥ on January 23, 2016, 01:56:47 PM
Quote from: Herbie on January 22, 2016, 04:39:26 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on January 22, 2016, 04:35:53 PM
Quote from: Herbie on January 22, 2016, 04:34:13 PM
still watching the video...but by looking at her/her mom etc
her reaction could speak to cultural differences
like lil sis said, most African Americans believe in shaving the boys head and perming/straightening the girl's head. which would explain why he probably said to himself "my boys need to look 'fresh'" and cut it off
but then u have this woman who's family clearly is at the very least, highly admixed...I think they may feel a lot differently about cutting hair to be really honest. she genuinely seems upset that it was done.
If you notice, white women LOVE seeing their black kids' hair grow. Look at Heidi Klum. Her kids have kinky hair and she loves it and lets it grow, and even saved it in little baggies to hold on to whatever she cut. But then we had a BLACK woman to come behind her and say "who the fuck wants to save that mess? :uhh: " and got her ass chewed out by other black people who probably secretly think the same way but was upset someone said it and embarrassed us. if we're keeping it ALL the way 100.
Chile.
So what abut everything else we've been discussing.
Not this excuse for her.
My point is, you guys are saying this has NOTHING to do with the haircut. I just don't agree, even after watching more of this. Nothing at all? Not even in the least bit? I believe cultural differences definitely may come into play here a bit.
I don't think there are any cultural differences.
They are in Louisiana. She gives a Creole mess, which is pretty much considered Black, or a strain of.
Her mother is clearly a light skinned Black woman.
This bitch is just being petty. He left her & got with another chick, and she can't deal.
He probably got tired of her controlling ways and her mother meddling in their mess.
But Creoles (if they are in fact Creole) do actually have their own culture...perhaps one of the most diverse , and are known for separating themselves from other Blacks...yes the
social constructs that are in place say that they are simply "black", but they consider themselves to be their own little world separate from others...much like their ancestors who were Free People of Color and gave a regal "above it all" tea, and owned slaves even though they were of African descent themselves.
(http://www.gannett-cdn.com/-mm-/b17dbd7671e28a064e5ae896f19b13b79d57f13a/c=0-218-8000-6218&r=x404&c=534x401/local/-/media/Monroe/2015/04/26/B9317107826Z.1_20150426152659_000_G7HAJBMED.1-0.jpg)
Don't mean to get that deep into it, but culture differences are definitely present in that community.
Hhghghghgg
Quote from: MΛΥDΛΥ on January 23, 2016, 01:58:08 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on January 22, 2016, 04:39:32 PM
She was NOT genuinely upset about shit.
Im sorry.
You would NOT NOT NOT run up on a child in the backseat with 21 questions if you were mad about some hair.
You wouldn't scream rape and bloody murder if someone nudges you to get you out of said child's face.
You wouldnt use your children as orange cones.
You wouldnt call the police over some hair.
The bitterness she displayed...ch..bitch would have used anyyyyythingggg to initiate a confrontation.
!!!!
Notice how when the hair thing didn't work she started with the jackets.
And everything else.
Like I said, if not the haircuts, it woulda been anything else.
Quote from: Gilgamesh. on January 22, 2016, 04:23:56 PM
The're both dumb as hell.
She was doing way too much over a haircut and he was being petty by not telling her where they got it cut.
why does "where" matter?
poor kids. them crying in the background broke my heart.
i agree though, he could have just said where they got the haircuts and said he was trying to help but that next time he'll consult with her first. done.
Quote from: MΛΥDΛΥ on January 23, 2016, 01:46:55 PM
Quote from: Gilgamesh. on January 22, 2016, 04:23:56 PM
The're both dumb as hell.
She was doing way too much over a haircut and he was being petty by not telling her where they got it cut.
I mean, why did he need to tell her where they got it cut? What's the purpose?
Is she gonna go get the hair and glue it back on their scalps? :uhh:
Right. She clearly didn't care where either. Hence her talking about everything else once she realized he wa spaying the girl dust.
That question was just a way for her to get more out of him .
She's clearly crazy.
sometimes you just have to be the bigger person so everyone can move the hell on
Quote from: MΛΥDΛΥ on January 23, 2016, 01:58:08 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on January 22, 2016, 04:39:32 PM
She was NOT genuinely upset about shit.
Im sorry.
You would NOT NOT NOT run up on a child in the backseat with 21 questions if you were mad about some hair.
You wouldn't scream rape and bloody murder if someone nudges you to get you out of said child's face.
You wouldnt use your children as orange cones.
You wouldnt call the police over some hair.
The bitterness she displayed...ch..bitch would have used anyyyyythingggg to initiate a confrontation.
!!!!
Notice how when the hair thing didn't work she started with the jackets.
!!!!
She gave an "oh yah! Where my jack' ?!" Reeeeeeal Quick!
She's a fckn mess
He probably didn't say because he didn't want her to go to the shop
and embarrass him, or have one of the guys insult her in the wrong way
and mess up his relationship
afro you in here giving hair care lessons again ?
Quote from: Herbie on January 23, 2016, 02:00:54 PM
Quote from: MΛΥDΛΥ on January 23, 2016, 01:56:47 PM
Quote from: Herbie on January 22, 2016, 04:39:26 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on January 22, 2016, 04:35:53 PM
Quote from: Herbie on January 22, 2016, 04:34:13 PM
still watching the video...but by looking at her/her mom etc
her reaction could speak to cultural differences
like lil sis said, most African Americans believe in shaving the boys head and perming/straightening the girl's head. which would explain why he probably said to himself "my boys need to look 'fresh'" and cut it off
but then u have this woman who's family clearly is at the very least, highly admixed...I think they may feel a lot differently about cutting hair to be really honest. she genuinely seems upset that it was done.
If you notice, white women LOVE seeing their black kids' hair grow. Look at Heidi Klum. Her kids have kinky hair and she loves it and lets it grow, and even saved it in little baggies to hold on to whatever she cut. But then we had a BLACK woman to come behind her and say "who the fuck wants to save that mess? :uhh: " and got her ass chewed out by other black people who probably secretly think the same way but was upset someone said it and embarrassed us. if we're keeping it ALL the way 100.
Chile.
So what abut everything else we've been discussing.
Not this excuse for her.
My point is, you guys are saying this has NOTHING to do with the haircut. I just don't agree, even after watching more of this. Nothing at all? Not even in the least bit? I believe cultural differences definitely may come into play here a bit.
I don't think there are any cultural differences.
They are in Louisiana. She gives a Creole mess, which is pretty much considered Black, or a strain of.
Her mother is clearly a light skinned Black woman.
This bitch is just being petty. He left her & got with another chick, and she can't deal.
He probably got tired of her controlling ways and her mother meddling in their mess.
But Creoles (if they are in fact Creole) do actually have their own culture...perhaps one of the most diverse , and are known for separating themselves from other Blacks...yes the social constructs that are in place say that they are simply "black", but they consider themselves to be their own little world separate from others...much like their ancestors who were Free People of Color and gave a regal "above it all" tea, and owned slaves even though they were of African descent themselves.
(http://www.gannett-cdn.com/-mm-/b17dbd7671e28a064e5ae896f19b13b79d57f13a/c=0-218-8000-6218&r=x404&c=534x401/local/-/media/Monroe/2015/04/26/B9317107826Z.1_20150426152659_000_G7HAJBMED.1-0.jpg)
Don't mean to get that deep into it, but culture differences are definitely present in that community.
This is true, but it's not so much like that anymore, especially in Louisiana.
My ex-stepdad and his fam are Creole from Louisiana. We spent a lot of time down there
and for the most part Creole folks are pretty much light skinned or mixed Black folks.
There aren't many if any cultural differences because their cultures are pretty much the same.
Quote from: DFW>>>> on January 23, 2016, 02:19:33 PM
afro you in here giving hair care lessons again ?
why, do u need one?
Sor', but the whole argument was based off of a haircut. So for some of ya'll acting like I randomly popped in here talking about haircuts, it's fucking weird to me. If you don't feel her concern about their haircut was genuine, that's fine, just say that. But to say I'm in here trying to give tutorials and mess, where is that coming from?
I can't even remember the last time I talked about hair care on here. And the only time I gave a "tutorial" is when Dorian made a thread asking me to. :uhh:
Quote from: Young on January 22, 2016, 03:40:35 PM
the way he finished grandma off with the husband cheating mess has me screaming
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Quote from: Herbie on January 23, 2016, 02:32:17 PM
Sor', but the whole argument was based off of a haircut. So for some of ya'll acting like I randomly popped in here talking about haircuts, it's fucking weird to me. If you don't feel her concern about their haircut was genuine, that's fine, just say that. But to say I'm in here trying to give tutorials and mess, where is that coming from?
I can't even remember the last time I talked about hair care on here.
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Yeah that's definitely not happening in here
But It's pretty clear in the video that the girl could really care less about the hair at this point. She was bringing everything else up to keep him there. If she was going on and on about the hair and how she cherishes hair because of her creole culture then I could see your points having more validity to what's going on here but she clearly is just a bitter woman; and so was her mother. And she may not even be fckn Creole
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Light and black don't mean creole yawl.
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These photos of ancient creole culture and things are just kinda shifting from the video and the actually tragic things happening in it, such as the effects on the boys
Quote from: Blues clue on January 22, 2016, 03:47:44 PM
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did u jus hurt me?
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did u jus hurt me?? :usureuok:
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Quote from: Sirius on January 23, 2016, 02:46:20 PM
Quote from: Blues clue on January 22, 2016, 03:47:44 PM
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But I agree 10000% threat he should have called her
And I'm SURE it annoyed tf outta the woman
And I'm sure that's why everything even started in the first place.
So he's at fault for that. The remaining several minutes of the video was all her though
Quote from: Herbie on January 23, 2016, 02:47:01 PM
Quote from: Sirius on January 23, 2016, 02:46:20 PM
Quote from: Blues clue on January 22, 2016, 03:47:44 PM
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Quote from: Young on January 23, 2016, 02:45:04 PM
Quote from: Herbie on January 23, 2016, 02:32:17 PM
Sor', but the whole argument was based off of a haircut. So for some of ya'll acting like I randomly popped in here talking about haircuts, it's fucking weird to me. If you don't feel her concern about their haircut was genuine, that's fine, just say that. But to say I'm in here trying to give tutorials and mess, where is that coming from?
I can't even remember the last time I talked about hair care on here.
Sbdbdbdbdbdbdbdbdbdbdbdbdf :plzstop:
Yeah that's definitely not happening in here
But It's pretty clear in the video that the girl could really care less about the hair at this point. She was bringing everything else up to keep him there. If she was going on and on about the hair and how she cherishes hair because of her creole culture then I could see your points having more validity to what's going on here but she clearly is just a bitter woman; and so was her mother. And she may not even be fckn Creole
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Light and black don't mean creole yawl.
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These photos of ancient creole culture and things are just kinda shifting from the video and the actually tragic things happening in it, such as the effects on the boys
Not "ancient" :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop:
Well if every person who entered the thread didn't feel a need to challenge my opinion instead of just letting it be, I wouldn't have to keep going deeper and deeper. :plzstop: :plzstop:
He spoke on cultural differences, Creoles have DEEP ROOTED cultural differences from other African Americans. Because I went in depth does not mean I am sidetracking. Eddie's argument is that since everyone in this video are all just "Black"....there should be no difference in culture. Yes I broke it down a bit but that's what you're supposed to be. Be able to back up what you're talking about with facts.
And I didn't even bring up Creoles...
see, this is what I am talking about. Eddie is the one who dragged them into this thread. :dead: :dead:
and we don't even know if they're Creole or not :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :usureuok:
Quote from: Herbie on January 23, 2016, 02:50:54 PM
And I didn't even bring up Creoles...
see, this is what I am talking about. Eddie is the one who dragged them into this thread. :dead: :dead:
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Did you just hurt me? :everythingok:
Quote from: MΛΥDΛΥ on January 23, 2016, 02:51:50 PM
Quote from: Herbie on January 23, 2016, 02:50:54 PM
And I didn't even bring up Creoles...
see, this is what I am talking about. Eddie is the one who dragged them into this thread. :dead: :dead:
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Quote from: MΛΥDΛΥ on January 23, 2016, 02:51:50 PM
Quote from: Herbie on January 23, 2016, 02:50:54 PM
And I didn't even bring up Creoles...
see, this is what I am talking about. Eddie is the one who dragged them into this thread. :dead: :dead:
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Did you just hurt me? :everythingok:
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Sorry af' sis
May u in here calling these women 'eole?
And you faggots in here all of a sudden acting like sidetracking a thread is a big crime when it's a big part of BSource DNA....I just... :dead: A topic about GHan's show turned into an African lesson and "drag Vonc" party 20 pages before I even entered it.
But me talking about hair, in a thread based on a damn haircut is random and weird. :usureuok:
Save it faggots. :uhh:
Quote from: Young on January 23, 2016, 02:54:32 PM
Quote from: MΛΥDΛΥ on January 23, 2016, 02:51:50 PM
Quote from: Herbie on January 23, 2016, 02:50:54 PM
And I didn't even bring up Creoles...
see, this is what I am talking about. Eddie is the one who dragged them into this thread. :dead: :dead:
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Did you just hurt me? :everythingok:
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May u in here calling these women 'eole?
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I saw the Louisiana license plate and said they COULD be.
Just making a lil observation :plzstop:
Quote from: Young on January 23, 2016, 02:54:32 PM
Quote from: MΛΥDΛΥ on January 23, 2016, 02:51:50 PM
Quote from: Herbie on January 23, 2016, 02:50:54 PM
And I didn't even bring up Creoles...
see, this is what I am talking about. Eddie is the one who dragged them into this thread. :dead: :dead:
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May u in here calling these women 'eole?
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Quote from: martian on January 23, 2016, 02:17:20 PM
sometimes you just have to be the bigger person so everyone can move the hell on
He wanted to but she posted the kids up under his wheels.
Quote from: MΛΥDΛΥ on January 22, 2016, 03:54:54 PM
"Put him down...you're over the time."
So he can't hug his child until it's his turn to have custody?
I can't :plzstop:
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i like her...
there's something...ladylike about her :ohwow:
Quote from: L0NZ. on January 23, 2016, 03:56:12 PM
Quote from: martian on January 23, 2016, 02:17:20 PM
sometimes you just have to be the bigger person so everyone can move the hell on
He wanted to but she posted the kids up under his wheels.
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Quote from: Young on January 23, 2016, 04:15:44 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on January 23, 2016, 03:56:12 PM
Quote from: martian on January 23, 2016, 02:17:20 PM
sometimes you just have to be the bigger person so everyone can move the hell on
He wanted to but she posted the kids up under his wheels.
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Quote from: King on January 23, 2016, 04:12:54 PM
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i like her...
there's something...ladylike about her :ohwow:
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Quote from: Young on January 23, 2016, 04:15:44 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on January 23, 2016, 03:56:12 PM
Quote from: martian on January 23, 2016, 02:17:20 PM
sometimes you just have to be the bigger person so everyone can move the hell on
He wanted to but she posted the kids up under his wheels.
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Quote from: Herbie on January 22, 2016, 04:04:52 PM
could you imagine someone bringing Tia's child back to her with a close shaven Caesar
surprise! :cheerup:
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she would gather the fuck out of them :dead:
I don't think Tia would be making some dramatic scene in front of her child or involving her family in the mess :dead:
That's what kind of has everyone repulsed by this video :ermm:
Yea, halfway into the video, the details surrounding the haircut became irrelevant. She started to reveal her true intent for making it a big deal in the first place. The "did you hurt me?! HELLLLPPP!" part sealed it for me.
This had NOTHING to do with haircuts.
EVEN BEFORE THAT, when she said u left us and he said oh, thought I left u :dead:
she clearly was bitter as FCK
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Quote from: Young on January 22, 2016, 04:20:10 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on January 22, 2016, 04:07:45 PM
didnt really seem to be about a haircut honestly. Not ONCE did she say "u cut off all their beautiful hair" or even allude to something like that. CLEARLY she was bitter about him not fckn with her. Like she was mad about a haircut but what was the point of interrogating the other child about who his mother was, PLEASE!
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there were no tears or rubbing of the hair. nothing about what she was doing was about the hair. she was doing everything she could to torment him; and in front of the children. when she and the mother went to that car and then tried to yell for help; thats when i knew she was totally driven by hate and spite. im sure the hair did piss her off but the way she carried on had nothing to do with the hair.
bcncncncncv not rubbing their bald scalps in tears
Quote from: Vonc2002 on January 22, 2016, 04:38:00 PM
LONZ!!!!!!!!!!!!
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I thought that was the most asinine question. Where did they get their hair cut :fuming:
Ummmmmm WHAT :uhh:
I honestly didnt really think he was being petty at all....................until he told Grandma Grandpa had stepped out :dead:
vbhhhhhhh I was wondering why that mattered, as if she was gonna press charges on the salon
Quote from: DFW>>>> on January 23, 2016, 02:19:33 PM
afro you in here giving hair care lessons again ?
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Quote from: Herbie on January 23, 2016, 02:00:54 PM
Quote from: MΛΥDΛΥ on January 23, 2016, 01:56:47 PM
Quote from: Herbie on January 22, 2016, 04:39:26 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on January 22, 2016, 04:35:53 PM
Quote from: Herbie on January 22, 2016, 04:34:13 PM
still watching the video...but by looking at her/her mom etc
her reaction could speak to cultural differences
like lil sis said, most African Americans believe in shaving the boys head and perming/straightening the girl's head. which would explain why he probably said to himself "my boys need to look 'fresh'" and cut it off
but then u have this woman who's family clearly is at the very least, highly admixed...I think they may feel a lot differently about cutting hair to be really honest. she genuinely seems upset that it was done.
If you notice, white women LOVE seeing their black kids' hair grow. Look at Heidi Klum. Her kids have kinky hair and she loves it and lets it grow, and even saved it in little baggies to hold on to whatever she cut. But then we had a BLACK woman to come behind her and say "who the fuck wants to save that mess? :uhh: " and got her ass chewed out by other black people who probably secretly think the same way but was upset someone said it and embarrassed us. if we're keeping it ALL the way 100.
Chile.
So what abut everything else we've been discussing.
Not this excuse for her.
My point is, you guys are saying this has NOTHING to do with the haircut. I just don't agree, even after watching more of this. Nothing at all? Not even in the least bit? I believe cultural differences definitely may come into play here a bit.
I don't think there are any cultural differences.
They are in Louisiana. She gives a Creole mess, which is pretty much considered Black, or a strain of.
Her mother is clearly a light skinned Black woman.
This bitch is just being petty. He left her & got with another chick, and she can't deal.
He probably got tired of her controlling ways and her mother meddling in their mess.
But Creoles (if they are in fact Creole) do actually have their own culture...perhaps one of the most diverse , and are known for separating themselves from other Blacks...yes the social constructs that are in place say that they are simply "black", but they consider themselves to be their own little world separate from others...much like their ancestors who were Free People of Color and gave a regal "above it all" tea, and owned slaves even though they were of African descent themselves.
(http://www.gannett-cdn.com/-mm-/b17dbd7671e28a064e5ae896f19b13b79d57f13a/c=0-218-8000-6218&r=x404&c=534x401/local/-/media/Monroe/2015/04/26/B9317107826Z.1_20150426152659_000_G7HAJBMED.1-0.jpg)
Don't mean to get that deep into it, but culture differences are definitely present in that community.
:dead:
Quote from: Herbie on January 23, 2016, 02:23:20 PM
Quote from: DFW>>>> on January 23, 2016, 02:19:33 PM
afro you in here giving hair care lessons again ?
why, do u need one?
yes .. i need something to enhance the curls in my head.. any product suggestions?
:plzstop:
it smells like underage piss in here now
:plzstop:
smells like Indiana poverty and flop acting career in hea
(https://57.media.tumblr.com/cc0805cf03f7efdd8650eb7918568dc4/tumblr_o1ffqpyA4Y1s243b3o1_400.gif)
You guys laugh and find problems with little things, but what about the fact that this thread is saying that co-parenting drama is a Black thing? And embarrassing to us? No one found issue with that? When white people are out here killing each other because dad got custody and mess....And these stories are broadcasted on television, by the way?
http://abcnews.go.com/US/story?id=90241&page=1
(http://bloximages.chicago2.vip.townnews.com/herald-review.com/content/tncms/assets/v3/editorial/f/2d/f2d4281e-5503-5f62-81a4-8c8852fd00df/f2d4281e-5503-5f62-81a4-8c8852fd00df.image.jpg)
You guys pick and choose what you find to be out of line. Apparently discussing hair in a haircut thread, and discussing Creoles when someone else wrongly assumed that someone is based off their appearance, is random and weird.
But singling Blacks out as if we're the only people with overt familial dysfunction is perfectly fine, let's chat about that, let's touch and agree on that, even though 2 of the 3 parties in this video barely look Black. But I can take a note, when anything is about hair I should just shut up and not put my two cents in. Otherwise everything I say will be challenged and contradicted. LOL.
And what's even richer is that someone who doesn't even think they look African and said Africans are ugly when they give a purebred mess owt straight off the damn boat from West Africa is in here laughing it up.
And if I am being brutally honest....what I have to say is way too important to some of you. If you don't want me to go in depth or continue on, just don't engage me. I have my opinion, it hasn't changed, but here's the good news: it doesn't affect your life. Maybe if I didn't have 12 hyenas on the back of my opinions at once I wouldn't have to fight them off with any information I have to defend my thoughts.
I'm done here.
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i wond' wat cec' is doin rite now
Fucking Bebe, fagg'
That incestuous slut!
Quote from: imaan. on January 23, 2016, 06:48:32 PM
Fucking Bebe, fagg'
That incestuous slut!
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>><<
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:diddraispoot:
Quote from: Blues clue on January 23, 2016, 06:45:13 PM
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i wond' wat cec' is doin rite now
nmmmmmmmmmmm
Vddsggffffd
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Perhaps the patch wasn't there before and sis wanted to read the barber. Sad video, overall.
thats a ringworm
Her and her mother were fucking disgusting.
Quote from: ANIMMAI on January 23, 2016, 05:51:37 PM
Quote from: Herbie on January 23, 2016, 02:00:54 PM
Quote from: MΛΥDΛΥ on January 23, 2016, 01:56:47 PM
Quote from: Herbie on January 22, 2016, 04:39:26 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on January 22, 2016, 04:35:53 PM
Quote from: Herbie on January 22, 2016, 04:34:13 PM
still watching the video...but by looking at her/her mom etc
her reaction could speak to cultural differences
like lil sis said, most African Americans believe in shaving the boys head and perming/straightening the girl's head. which would explain why he probably said to himself "my boys need to look 'fresh'" and cut it off
but then u have this woman who's family clearly is at the very least, highly admixed...I think they may feel a lot differently about cutting hair to be really honest. she genuinely seems upset that it was done.
If you notice, white women LOVE seeing their black kids' hair grow. Look at Heidi Klum. Her kids have kinky hair and she loves it and lets it grow, and even saved it in little baggies to hold on to whatever she cut. But then we had a BLACK woman to come behind her and say "who the fuck wants to save that mess? :uhh: " and got her ass chewed out by other black people who probably secretly think the same way but was upset someone said it and embarrassed us. if we're keeping it ALL the way 100.
Chile.
So what abut everything else we've been discussing.
Not this excuse for her.
My point is, you guys are saying this has NOTHING to do with the haircut. I just don't agree, even after watching more of this. Nothing at all? Not even in the least bit? I believe cultural differences definitely may come into play here a bit.
I don't think there are any cultural differences.
They are in Louisiana. She gives a Creole mess, which is pretty much considered Black, or a strain of.
Her mother is clearly a light skinned Black woman.
This bitch is just being petty. He left her & got with another chick, and she can't deal.
He probably got tired of her controlling ways and her mother meddling in their mess.
But Creoles (if they are in fact Creole) do actually have their own culture...perhaps one of the most diverse , and are known for separating themselves from other Blacks...yes the social constructs that are in place say that they are simply "black", but they consider themselves to be their own little world separate from others...much like their ancestors who were Free People of Color and gave a regal "above it all" tea, and owned slaves even though they were of African descent themselves.
(http://www.gannett-cdn.com/-mm-/b17dbd7671e28a064e5ae896f19b13b79d57f13a/c=0-218-8000-6218&r=x404&c=534x401/local/-/media/Monroe/2015/04/26/B9317107826Z.1_20150426152659_000_G7HAJBMED.1-0.jpg)
Don't mean to get that deep into it, but culture differences are definitely present in that community.
:dead:
sssssss herb luv
Quote from: ANIMMAI on January 23, 2016, 06:03:12 PM
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Where can I watch this video lol
Quote from: Herbie on January 23, 2016, 06:10:57 PM
You guys laugh and find problems with little things, but what about the fact that this thread is saying that co-parenting drama is a Black thing? And embarrassing to us? No one found issue with that? When white people are out here killing each other because dad got custody and mess....And these stories are broadcasted on television, by the way?
http://abcnews.go.com/US/story?id=90241&page=1
(http://bloximages.chicago2.vip.townnews.com/herald-review.com/content/tncms/assets/v3/editorial/f/2d/f2d4281e-5503-5f62-81a4-8c8852fd00df/f2d4281e-5503-5f62-81a4-8c8852fd00df.image.jpg)
You guys pick and choose what you find to be out of line. Apparently discussing hair in a haircut thread, and discussing Creoles when someone else wrongly assumed that someone is based off their appearance, is random and weird.
But singling Blacks out as if we're the only people with overt familial dysfunction is perfectly fine, let's chat about that, let's touch and agree on that, even though 2 of the 3 parties in this video barely look Black. But I can take a note, when anything is about hair I should just shut up and not put my two cents in. Otherwise everything I say will be challenged and contradicted. LOL.
And what's even richer is that someone who doesn't even think they look African and said Africans are ugly when they give a purebred mess owt straight off the damn boat from West Africa is in here laughing it up.
!!!!!!
This bothers me a lot on here which is why I said before, these kinds of discussions are very uncomfortable for me.
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vvvv
Earl created a GoFundMe and detailed the situation in the section. That bitch is EVIL. Ugh. I want her destroyed.
https://www.gofundme.com/kbw39apg
Not a go fund me
kljhmnbgfvdcxjnhgbfvdcsx
fund him for wat?!?!
This could've been avoided.
He shouldn't have cut their hair. This is the entire reason why he hasn't seen his kids in 2 years
J / k
This bitch is nuts. :omgwatshappening:
Quote from: Herbie on January 26, 2016, 06:24:11 PM
This could've been avoided.
He shouldn't have cut their hair. This is the entire reason why he hasn't seen his kids in 2 years
Gorl
Quote from: Saturn. on January 26, 2016, 06:25:03 PM
Quote from: Herbie on January 26, 2016, 06:24:11 PM
This could've been avoided.
He shouldn't have cut their hair. This is the entire reason why he hasn't seen his kids in 2 years
Gorl
f
like...
Quote from: Marilyn on January 26, 2016, 06:19:53 PM
Earl created a GoFundMe and detailed the situation in the section. That bitch is EVIL. Ugh. I want her destroyed.
https://www.gofundme.com/kbw39apg
Twenty grand? fff
Earl better facetime those bbys and call it a night
dsgfd
jus r'ported his page!
his sob stor' dnt fckin moves me
boo hoo
kids! evil ex!
there r ppl out their starving earl!
tbh u seem to luv ur boys a bit..too much..like how shans luv lastacia sickfuck
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hbvcvnv
did u....did u just hurts me? :bvy:
He's already raised more than Krystal wtf
Quote from: ANIMMAI on January 26, 2016, 06:28:00 PM
hbvcvnv
did u....did u just hurts me? :bvy:
,umyuntbvrcdtgjklmmjnhbvcccccccccccccccccccccccccwedx
didchu...
didchu jus hurt me?
AH! didchu jus HURT me?! :usureuok:
Vvvvvvvvvvvvvvv
Quote from: Baphomet. on January 26, 2016, 06:25:57 PM
Quote from: Saturn. on January 26, 2016, 06:25:03 PM
Quote from: Herbie on January 26, 2016, 06:24:11 PM
This could've been avoided.
He shouldn't have cut their hair. This is the entire reason why he hasn't seen his kids in 2 years
Gorl
f
like...
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Fools.
Quote from: Blues clue on January 26, 2016, 06:29:38 PM
Quote from: ANIMMAI on January 26, 2016, 06:28:00 PM
hbvcvnv
did u....did u just hurts me? :bvy:
,umyuntbvrcdtgjklmmjnhbvcccccccccccccccccccccccccwedx
didchu...
didchu jus hurt me?
AH! didchu jus HURT me?! :usureuok:
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Faggot
I'll kill u hun.