Does it change ur perception of them?
Does this mean there's no future for a strong relationship?
Does it make you think "they do this with everyone"?
If so.. How long should one wait?
spin off of Ifran thread .. Always wanted discuss this actually ! :ohwow:
Tbh one part of me thinks: "Do they do that with everyone?", but I won't get myself worked up over this right now. I'll see what the person is really about if we make it past the 5th date or so. And you can always try to see if they're still interested when the 2nd date doesn't include sex (if the 1st one already included sex).
Nope.
I prefer sex first then the date to make things less awkward. Sometimes sex while on a date is amazing as well.
That's that new age shit. Im not here for it.
Quote from: BrandySavedMyLife on August 13, 2016, 01:05:18 PM
Tbh one part of me thinks: "Do they do that with everyone?", but I won't get myself worked up over this right now. I'll see what the person is really about if we make it past the 5th date or so. And you can always try to see if they're still interested when the 2nd date doesn't include sex (if the 1st one already included sex).
but what if y'all sexual chemistry is so off the charts that every time y'all see each other... Y'all MESS :howfestive:
Quote from: Kurama on August 13, 2016, 01:06:45 PM
That's that new age shit. Im not here for it.
which stance bby?
tbh I can't really trust someone who wants to mess on the first date. I really do think "do they do this with everyone"
:damselindistress:
More power to those who do, but yeah, not for me.
:udontlookok:
I mean what is the purpose of dating if we just fuckin at the end of the night? That in my opinion makes you a fwb.
We aren't females, we're men. We shouldn't date like heterosexual people. Men are natural sexual beings. I'm firm in believing if he ain't fucking on me, he fucking on someone else. Even if it's just a suck on the first date, you're still engaging. I can't chill with any nigga without having sex. I'm a shy person anyways so the sex opens me up a bit.
Quote from: 'lock on August 13, 2016, 01:08:09 PM
Quote from: Kurama on August 13, 2016, 01:06:45 PM
That's that new age shit. Im not here for it.
which stance bby?
Sex on the 1st date. It's like people use sex as a means to getting to know one another or decide to date someone(these days). Then they get surprised when their mess crumbles 4 days later cuz someone cheated. No disrespect :dead:
Quote from: Margeaux. on August 13, 2016, 01:10:25 PM
We aren't females, we're men. We shouldn't date like heterosexual people. Men are natural sexual beings. I'm firm in believing if he ain't fucking on me, he fucking on someone else. Even if it's just a suck on the first date, you're still engaging. I can't chill with any nigga without having sex. I'm a shy person anyways so the sex opens me up a bit.
You're so interesting Marg. Sexual liberation is cool tho if that's ur thing.
It all depends. If there was actually a connection and you actually spent the date vibing and getting to know eachother.
If you both met at a park and talked for an hour,
spent 30 mins staring at your phones in awkward silence.
then starting making out, then giving each other head and then started fucking
then yea.
:udontlookok: that would change perspective and I wouldn't take them serious as far as "long-term relationsip"-wise
BUT,
if y'all went on a date.
had good conversation and chemistry,
enjoyed each other's company and spent the whole day together having a successful date.
that's totally different.
if the sexual tension is there,
fuck like porn stars a BIT!
:feelinmyself:
but ONLY if the sexual tension is there.
I wouldn't say every date should be a
"wanna go back to my place?"
:ohwow:
b
(http://pic100.picturetrail.com/VOL1164/13386359/23854331/410700942.jpg)
Quote from: 'lock on August 13, 2016, 01:07:52 PM
Quote from: BrandySavedMyLife on August 13, 2016, 01:05:18 PM
Tbh one part of me thinks: "Do they do that with everyone?", but I won't get myself worked up over this right now. I'll see what the person is really about if we make it past the 5th date or so. And you can always try to see if they're still interested when the 2nd date doesn't include sex (if the 1st one already included sex).
but what if y'all sexual chemistry is so off the charts that every time y'all see each other... Y'all MESS :howfestive:
i think thats whats gonna happen. Tbqfh. Ki
Quote from: Kurama on August 13, 2016, 01:12:36 PM
Quote from: Margeaux. on August 13, 2016, 01:10:25 PM
We aren't females, we're men. We shouldn't date like heterosexual people. Men are natural sexual beings. I'm firm in believing if he ain't fucking on me, he fucking on someone else. Even if it's just a suck on the first date, you're still engaging. I can't chill with any nigga without having sex. I'm a shy person anyways so the sex opens me up a bit.
You're so interesting Marg. Sexual liberation is cool tho if that's ur thing.
:whatfuneralbill:
I just think you learn so much about a person after you have sex with them. I can really on speak my experiences but Men are the most vulnerable after they cum.
Quote from: Margeaux. on August 13, 2016, 01:06:20 PM
Nope.
I prefer sex first then the date to make things less awkward. Sometimes sex while on a date is amazing as well.
U KILL ME :dead:
honestly, lets just fuck when we first meet to go head and get it out the way(http://i.imgur.com/oYkKD0F.gif)
:dead: :dead: :dead:
Quote from: BigDawg on August 13, 2016, 01:10:13 PM
I mean what is the purpose of dating if we just fuckin at the end of the night? That in my opinion makes you a fwb.
also true. I wish it was that easy though.
Quote from: Margeaux. on August 13, 2016, 01:10:25 PM
We aren't females, we're men. We shouldn't date like heterosexual people. Men are natural sexual beings. I'm firm in believing if he ain't fucking on me, he fucking on someone else. Even if it's just a suck on the first date, you're still engaging. I can't chill with any nigga without having sex. I'm a shy person anyways so the sex opens me up a bit.
what if you're not in the mood and just wanna have a nice concersation, and they just wanna fuck every single time you see them?
Quote from: BrandySavedMyLife on August 13, 2016, 01:19:40 PM
Quote from: Margeaux. on August 13, 2016, 01:10:25 PM
We aren't females, we're men. We shouldn't date like heterosexual people. Men are natural sexual beings. I'm firm in believing if he ain't fucking on me, he fucking on someone else. Even if it's just a suck on the first date, you're still engaging. I can't chill with any nigga without having sex. I'm a shy person anyways so the sex opens me up a bit.
what if you're not in the mood and just wanna have a nice concersation, and they just wanna fuck every single time you see them?
That's why you establish the situation right then and there. Someone has to speak up and say what they're looking for. You should be engaging in conversation after yall fuck.
Quote from: Kurama on August 13, 2016, 01:11:14 PM
Quote from: 'lock on August 13, 2016, 01:08:09 PM
Quote from: Kurama on August 13, 2016, 01:06:45 PM
That's that new age shit. Im not here for it.
which stance bby?
Sex on the 1st date. It's like people use sex as a means to getting to know one another or decide to date someone(these days). Then they get surprised when their mess crumbles 4 days later cuz someone cheated. No disrespect :dead:
I'm torn. Sex isn't the sole decidinh factor for me, when dating somebody. On the other hand if we're both cuddling and are hard as fuck, are we gonna do something about it or nah? Even just a handjob.
Quote from: Vonc2002 on August 13, 2016, 01:18:22 PM
Quote from: Margeaux. on August 13, 2016, 01:06:20 PM
Nope.
I prefer sex first then the date to make things less awkward. Sometimes sex while on a date is amazing as well.
U KILL ME :dead:
honestly, lets just fuck when we first meet to go head and get it out the way
(http://i.imgur.com/oYkKD0F.gif)
:dead: :dead: :dead:
This is accurate as fuck lmfao
With all my long term Bfs we never did it on the first date
Quote from: Margeaux. on August 13, 2016, 01:22:15 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on August 13, 2016, 01:18:22 PM
Quote from: Margeaux. on August 13, 2016, 01:06:20 PM
Nope.
I prefer sex first then the date to make things less awkward. Sometimes sex while on a date is amazing as well.
U KILL ME :dead:
honestly, lets just fuck when we first meet to go head and get it out the way
(http://i.imgur.com/oYkKD0F.gif)
:dead: :dead: :dead:
This is accurate as fuck lmfao
:plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop:
Quote from: BrandySavedMyLife on August 13, 2016, 01:18:26 PM
Quote from: BigDawg on August 13, 2016, 01:10:13 PM
I mean what is the purpose of dating if we just fuckin at the end of the night? That in my opinion makes you a fwb.
also true. I wish it was that easy though.
I have learned to set the standard from the beginning. If we are just smashing then it will strictly be only that. If we are dating and the potential is there to be in a relationship then having sex so early in the game taints things imo. It can in some cases send the wrong message. Men are so fickle, most of the time even if the sex is poppin they can simply just be adding you to the roster of "homies they break off now and again".
Yeah I kinda feel like if you fuck on the first date, what else is there to do really? It's possible that you COULD fuck on the first date and still have a long-term relationship after, but that's really unlikely imo.
Just keep it cute with some kissing.
Quote from: Kurama on August 13, 2016, 01:11:14 PM
Quote from: 'lock on August 13, 2016, 01:08:09 PM
Quote from: Kurama on August 13, 2016, 01:06:45 PM
That's that new age shit. Im not here for it.
which stance bby?
Sex on the 1st date. It's like people use sex as a means to getting to know one another or decide to date someone(these days). Then they get surprised when their mess crumbles 4 days later cuz someone cheated. No disrespect :dead:
im kinda here with u
But then on the other hand I know ppl who have lasted after doing this
I for one never had a relationship with any guy I did it on the first date with but that could possibly change if the vibe was 100%
My current dude did kiss the tip of my dick when I dropped him off after our first date
It was so random.. Yet hot but we didn't have intimacy until the 2nd month
Quote from: Cartier on August 13, 2016, 01:24:45 PM
Yeah I kinda feel like if you fuck on the first date, what else is there to do really? It's possible that you COULD fuck on the first date and still have a long-term relationship after, but that's really unlikely imo.
Just keep it cute with some kissing.
what if you have it on the 2nd date? Or one month down the line? It goes downhill afterwards aswell or what?
n
I want someone that's just like me
If we BANG on the first day, so be it.
The issue comes if we can't decide on and workout being a couple
I don't judge if u wanna smash me on the first date. I'd be offended if they didn't tbh
But have never had sex on the first date. I did blow him tho.
Quote from: Vonc2002 on August 13, 2016, 01:18:22 PM
Quote from: Margeaux. on August 13, 2016, 01:06:20 PM
Nope.
I prefer sex first then the date to make things less awkward. Sometimes sex while on a date is amazing as well.
U KILL ME :dead:
honestly, lets just fuck when we first meet to go head and get it out the way
(http://i.imgur.com/oYkKD0F.gif)
:dead: :dead: :dead:
!!
Yes marg
Clearly we connected if we're on a date
(http://i.imgur.com/oYkKD0F.gif)
Quote from: BrandySavedMyLife on August 13, 2016, 01:26:48 PM
Quote from: Cartier on August 13, 2016, 01:24:45 PM
Yeah I kinda feel like if you fuck on the first date, what else is there to do really? It's possible that you COULD fuck on the first date and still have a long-term relationship after, but that's really unlikely imo.
Just keep it cute with some kissing.
what if you have it on the 2nd date? Or one month down the line? It goes downhill afterwards aswell or what?
Idk it might :cheerup:
Do you, hun. That was just my opinion on things.
Quote from: Capricorn King on August 13, 2016, 01:23:01 PM
With all my long term Bfs we never did it on the first date
the opposite for me
Everyone I waited with, was a FAILURE
(http://i.imgur.com/oYkKD0F.gif)
To Tons point .. That's sorta true
If both ppl have the same outlook on it then I can see it def working
But if one person doesn't quite believe in it ... Then I can see why one wouldn't get a call back
Quote from: BrandySavedMyLife on August 13, 2016, 01:21:51 PM
Quote from: Kurama on August 13, 2016, 01:11:14 PM
Quote from: 'lock on August 13, 2016, 01:08:09 PM
Quote from: Kurama on August 13, 2016, 01:06:45 PM
That's that new age shit. Im not here for it.
which stance bby?
Sex on the 1st date. It's like people use sex as a means to getting to know one another or decide to date someone(these days). Then they get surprised when their mess crumbles 4 days later cuz someone cheated. No disrespect :dead:
I'm torn. Sex isn't the sole decidinh factor for me, when dating somebody. On the other hand if we're both cuddling and are hard as fuck, are we gonna do something about it or nah? Even just a handjob.
I thought Glock meant full blown sex idk. I see ur point tho.
Im not saying it's not a possibility for something to flourish(probably wont be the healthiest tho) but I just think its really unlikely.
Quote from: BigDawg on August 13, 2016, 01:23:58 PM
Quote from: BrandySavedMyLife on August 13, 2016, 01:18:26 PM
Quote from: BigDawg on August 13, 2016, 01:10:13 PM
I mean what is the purpose of dating if we just fuckin at the end of the night? That in my opinion makes you a fwb.
also true. I wish it was that easy though.
I have learned to set the standard from the beginning. If we are just smashing then it will strictly be only that. If we are dating and the potential is there to be in a relationship then having sex so early in the game taints things imo. It can in some cases send the wrong message. Men are so fickle, most of the time even if the sex is poppin they can simply just be adding you to the roster of "homies they break off now and again".
Okay but what if,
SCENARIO:
You had a nice dinner and movie.
Get back to your place and you invited him in because you wanted to show him something you told him you had on the date that he wanted to see.
Like something y'all vibed over, like you have a special "COLLECTION"
and he was like
"OH WOW, I LOVE THOSE!"
:ohwow:
and you invite him in after the night is over to look at your collection.
and y'all giggling and talking and mess.
:feelinmyself:
then, a small silence happens and you glance over into his eyes and you noticed the color of them, and he starts looking sexier at the specific moment up close.
y'all have y'all first kiss,
then one thing lead to another...
sexual tension is heavy...
WHAT WOULD YA DO?
:ohwow:
plz explain
I am talking about full out sex
but yea, I dont think waiting to have sex does anything tbh. Honestly, im the type of person that talks and talks anyway so im pretty familiar with anyone I like and have decided to go on a date with. having sex isnt gonna change my perspective. If a person's goal was to smash and go thats gonna happen whether its date 1 or date 5.
Quote from: GRAND on August 13, 2016, 01:29:10 PM
Quote from: Capricorn King on August 13, 2016, 01:23:01 PM
With all my long term Bfs we never did it on the first date
the opposite for me
Everyone I waited with, was a FAILURE
(http://i.imgur.com/oYkKD0F.gif)
:plzstop:
Quote from: Vonc2002 on August 13, 2016, 01:18:22 PM
Quote from: Margeaux. on August 13, 2016, 01:06:20 PM
Nope.
I prefer sex first then the date to make things less awkward. Sometimes sex while on a date is amazing as well.
U KILL ME :dead:
honestly, lets just fuck when we first meet to go head and get it out the way
(http://i.imgur.com/oYkKD0F.gif)
:dead: :dead: :dead:
d,m.dmf :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii:
Quote from: GRAND on August 13, 2016, 01:29:10 PM
Quote from: Capricorn King on August 13, 2016, 01:23:01 PM
With all my long term Bfs we never did it on the first date
the opposite for me
Everyone I waited with, was a FAILURE
(http://i.imgur.com/oYkKD0F.gif)
so fck waiting and ATLEAST get a nut off?
(http://i.imgur.com/oYkKD0F.gif)
Sometimes building a lil tension is more arousing then going straight for the mess right off the bat
thats just me tho
(http://i.imgur.com/oYkKD0F.gif)
Quote from: 'lock on August 13, 2016, 01:29:18 PM
To Tons point .. That's sorta true
If both ppl have the same outlook on it then I can see it def working
But if one person doesn't quite believe in it ... Then I can see why one wouldn't get a call back
I've never had feelings for someone who wasn't sexually aggressive or mannish
:dead: :dead: :dead:
I'm going to tell you day one that I think you're attractive
So that's the hint right there that I'm not shy, so you better not be either
(http://i.imgur.com/oYkKD0F.gif)
But if someone wants to wait that's fine. I usually don't mesh well with those folks
Quote from: Kurama on August 13, 2016, 01:34:29 PM
Sometimes building a lil tension is more arousing then going straight for the mess right off the bat
thats just me tho
(http://i.imgur.com/oYkKD0F.gif)
!!!!
IMO once you had them....you already had them gggg
Doesn't meant 10/10 it doesn't work afterwards, but it's less likely
Quote from: Kurama on August 13, 2016, 01:34:29 PM
Sometimes building a lil tension is more arousing then going straight for the mess right off the bat
thats just me tho
(http://i.imgur.com/oYkKD0F.gif)
Me as well.. Waiting >>
I kinda like to fight a bit the first time ..
A sexually frustrated mess...
Rape, if you will
(http://i.imgur.com/oYkKD0F.gif)
Quote from: 'lock on August 13, 2016, 01:29:18 PM
To Tons point .. That's sorta true
If both ppl have the same outlook on it then I can see it def working
But if one person doesn't quite believe in it ... Then I can see why one wouldn't get a call back
what kinda failed audition?!
Quote from: 'lock on August 13, 2016, 01:36:22 PM
Quote from: Kurama on August 13, 2016, 01:34:29 PM
Sometimes building a lil tension is more arousing then going straight for the mess right off the bat
thats just me tho
(http://i.imgur.com/oYkKD0F.gif)
Me as well.. Waiting >>
I kinda like to fight a bit the first time ..
A sexually frustrated mess...
Rape, if you will
(http://i.imgur.com/oYkKD0F.gif)
gggfffffgggg
Quote from: Kurama on August 13, 2016, 01:29:47 PM
Quote from: BrandySavedMyLife on August 13, 2016, 01:21:51 PM
Quote from: Kurama on August 13, 2016, 01:11:14 PM
Quote from: 'lock on August 13, 2016, 01:08:09 PM
Quote from: Kurama on August 13, 2016, 01:06:45 PM
That's that new age shit. Im not here for it.
which stance bby?
Sex on the 1st date. It's like people use sex as a means to getting to know one another or decide to date someone(these days). Then they get surprised when their mess crumbles 4 days later cuz someone cheated. No disrespect :dead:
I'm torn. Sex isn't the sole decidinh factor for me, when dating somebody. On the other hand if we're both cuddling and are hard as fuck, are we gonna do something about it or nah? Even just a handjob.
I thought Glock meant full blown sex idk. I see ur point tho.
Im not saying it's not a possibility for something to flourish(probably wont be the healthiest tho) but I just think its really unlikely.
alright fair enough. Well i was talking oral sex maximum.
Quote from: Kurama on August 13, 2016, 01:34:29 PM
Sometimes building a lil tension is more arousing then going straight for the mess right off the bat
thats just me tho
(http://i.imgur.com/oYkKD0F.gif)
:justabit:
:heyddy:
Quote from: GRAND on August 13, 2016, 01:36:12 PM
Quote from: 'lock on August 13, 2016, 01:29:18 PM
To Tons point .. That's sorta true
If both ppl have the same outlook on it then I can see it def working
But if one person doesn't quite believe in it ... Then I can see why one wouldn't get a call back
I've never had feelings for someone who wasn't sexually aggressive or mannish
:dead: :dead: :dead:
I'm going to tell you day one that I think you're attractive
So that's the hint right there that I'm not shy, so you better not be either
(http://i.imgur.com/oYkKD0F.gif)
But if someone wants to wait that's fine. I usually don't mesh well with those folks
What prevents you guys from meshing well tho?
The fact that u didn't get to bust one?
Or the fact that u two have 2 different perspectives on sex in terms when to get it cracking?
I dont believe in just random, casual sex. I think thats wack and sex is better with a connection ANYWAY. BUT, im not about marking a calendar to give this perception of virginal. If our first date is THAT intense and we vibe enough then get tf naked
(http://i.imgur.com/oYkKD0F.gif)
I'm in no rush tbh, a little tug and grab if they end up at my apartment is cool though.
I don't think having sex on the first date ruins anything, however, all the guys I know that wanted to smash on the first date ended up being douches. I don't now if there's any correlation but that's my experience.
Quote from: 'lock on August 13, 2016, 01:36:22 PM
Quote from: Kurama on August 13, 2016, 01:34:29 PM
Sometimes building a lil tension is more arousing then going straight for the mess right off the bat
thats just me tho
(http://i.imgur.com/oYkKD0F.gif)
Me as well.. Waiting >>
I kinda like to fight a bit the first time ..
A sexually frustrated mess...
Rape, if you will
(http://i.imgur.com/oYkKD0F.gif)
Boiiiiiiiiiiii
but If they're into that kind of kink
(http://i.imgur.com/oYkKD0F.gif)
Quote from: Vonc2002 on August 13, 2016, 01:37:58 PM
I dont believe in just random, casual sex. I think thats wack and sex is better with a connection ANYWAY. BUT, im not about marking a calendar to give this perception of virginal. If our first date is THAT intense and we vibe enough then get tf naked
(http://i.imgur.com/oYkKD0F.gif)
:plzstop: but !!!
Quote from: BrandySavedMyLife on August 13, 2016, 01:37:18 PM
Quote from: Kurama on August 13, 2016, 01:29:47 PM
Quote from: BrandySavedMyLife on August 13, 2016, 01:21:51 PM
Quote from: Kurama on August 13, 2016, 01:11:14 PM
Quote from: 'lock on August 13, 2016, 01:08:09 PM
Quote from: Kurama on August 13, 2016, 01:06:45 PM
That's that new age shit. Im not here for it.
which stance bby?
Sex on the 1st date. It's like people use sex as a means to getting to know one another or decide to date someone(these days). Then they get surprised when their mess crumbles 4 days later cuz someone cheated. No disrespect :dead:
I'm torn. Sex isn't the sole decidinh factor for me, when dating somebody. On the other hand if we're both cuddling and are hard as fuck, are we gonna do something about it or nah? Even just a handjob.
I thought Glock meant full blown sex idk. I see ur point tho.
Im not saying it's not a possibility for something to flourish(probably wont be the healthiest tho) but I just think its really unlikely.
alright fair enough. Well i was talking oral sex maximum.
Oh a mean lil lick n suck for a sec is tension-building too.
:wellheythere:
Quote from: BrandySavedMyLife on August 13, 2016, 01:36:40 PM
Quote from: 'lock on August 13, 2016, 01:29:18 PM
To Tons point .. That's sorta true
If both ppl have the same outlook on it then I can see it def working
But if one person doesn't quite believe in it ... Then I can see why one wouldn't get a call back
what kinda failed audition?!
fff
See I don't think sex should be treated like an audition/interview or sumn
The first time is usually not the best time because u have to get to know someone's body..
What turns them on
What makes them quiver
What makes them melt..
What makes their legs shake
What makes them nut
What makes them submit..
What makes them completely satisfied
It takes several occurrences
(http://i.imgur.com/oYkKD0F.gif)
Quote from: Gilgamesh. on August 13, 2016, 01:38:14 PM
I'm in no rush tbh, a little tug and grab if they end up at my apartment is cool though.
I don't think having sex on the first date ruins anything, however, all the guys I know that wanted to smash on the first date ended up being douches. I don't now if there's any correlation but that's my experience.
i can imagine that most guys would want sex with you on the first date.
Quote from: Kurama on August 13, 2016, 01:38:31 PM
Quote from: 'lock on August 13, 2016, 01:36:22 PM
Quote from: Kurama on August 13, 2016, 01:34:29 PM
Sometimes building a lil tension is more arousing then going straight for the mess right off the bat
thats just me tho
(http://i.imgur.com/oYkKD0F.gif)
Me as well.. Waiting >>
I kinda like to fight a bit the first time ..
A sexually frustrated mess...
Rape, if you will
(http://i.imgur.com/oYkKD0F.gif)
Boiiiiiiiiiiii
but If they're into that kind of kink
(http://i.imgur.com/oYkKD0F.gif)
Ffffffff
A lil smash and grab ain't never hurt nobody
(http://i.imgur.com/oYkKD0F.gif)
Quote from: Vonc2002 on August 13, 2016, 01:34:01 PM
Quote from: GRAND on August 13, 2016, 01:29:10 PM
Quote from: Capricorn King on August 13, 2016, 01:23:01 PM
With all my long term Bfs we never did it on the first date
the opposite for me
Everyone I waited with, was a FAILURE
(http://i.imgur.com/oYkKD0F.gif)
so fck waiting and ATLEAST get a nut off?
(http://i.imgur.com/oYkKD0F.gif)
its not a requirement, Im just not going to hold out because of some 1630s standards.
If I feel like they're special to me, they deserve all of me
:ohwow:
Quote from: Nine on August 13, 2016, 01:09:17 PM
tbh I can't really trust someone who wants to mess on the first date. I really do think "do they do this with everyone"
:damselindistress:
More power to those who do, but yeah, not for me.
:udontlookok:
Same for you.
(http://i.imgur.com/oYkKD0F.gif)
SCENARIO:
You had a nice dinner and movie.
Get back to your place and you invited him in because you wanted to show him something you told him you had on the date that he wanted to see.
Like something y'all vibed over, like you have a special "COLLECTION"
and he was like
"OH WOW, I LOVE THOSE!"
:ohwow:
and you invite him in after the night is over to look at your collection.
and y'all giggling and talking and mess.
:feelinmyself:
then, a small silence happens and you glance over into his eyes and you noticed the color of them, and he starts looking sexier at the specific moment up close.
y'all have y'all first kiss,
then one thing lead to another...
sexual tension is heavy...
WHAT WOULD YA DO?
:ohwow:
plz explain
Quote from: BrandySavedMyLife on August 13, 2016, 01:40:32 PM
Quote from: Gilgamesh. on August 13, 2016, 01:38:14 PM
I'm in no rush tbh, a little tug and grab if they end up at my apartment is cool though.
I don't think having sex on the first date ruins anything, however, all the guys I know that wanted to smash on the first date ended up being douches. I don't now if there's any correlation but that's my experience.
i can imagine that most guys would want sex with you on the first date.
sdsdsdsdsdss
did u mean for this to be a PM?
I kinda like to work for my mess ..
Then feeling u out to see if ur ready... And just when I think ur there... Kinda seducing u and giving u no other choice
An Enchantress of sorts
(http://i.imgur.com/oYkKD0F.gif)
Quote from: Vonc2002 on August 13, 2016, 01:41:49 PM
Quote from: BrandySavedMyLife on August 13, 2016, 01:40:32 PM
Quote from: Gilgamesh. on August 13, 2016, 01:38:14 PM
I'm in no rush tbh, a little tug and grab if they end up at my apartment is cool though.
I don't think having sex on the first date ruins anything, however, all the guys I know that wanted to smash on the first date ended up being douches. I don't now if there's any correlation but that's my experience.
i can imagine that most guys would want sex with you on the first date.
sdsdsdsdsdss
did u mean for this to be a PM?
sdddfff
Shoot your fuckin shot then! 'Saved!
Quote from: Kurama on August 13, 2016, 01:43:00 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on August 13, 2016, 01:41:49 PM
Quote from: BrandySavedMyLife on August 13, 2016, 01:40:32 PM
Quote from: Gilgamesh. on August 13, 2016, 01:38:14 PM
I'm in no rush tbh, a little tug and grab if they end up at my apartment is cool though.
I don't think having sex on the first date ruins anything, however, all the guys I know that wanted to smash on the first date ended up being douches. I don't now if there's any correlation but that's my experience.
i can imagine that most guys would want sex with you on the first date.
sdsdsdsdsdss
did u mean for this to be a PM?
sdddfff
Shoot your fuckin shot then! 'Saved!
MBCCCVBBNNNVNMMM
Go in for the kill then, If
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Quote from: 'lock on August 13, 2016, 01:37:57 PM
Quote from: GRAND on August 13, 2016, 01:36:12 PM
Quote from: 'lock on August 13, 2016, 01:29:18 PM
To Tons point .. That's sorta true
If both ppl have the same outlook on it then I can see it def working
But if one person doesn't quite believe in it ... Then I can see why one wouldn't get a call back
I've never had feelings for someone who wasn't sexually aggressive or mannish
:dead: :dead: :dead:
I'm going to tell you day one that I think you're attractive
So that's the hint right there that I'm not shy, so you better not be either
(http://i.imgur.com/oYkKD0F.gif)
But if someone wants to wait that's fine. I usually don't mesh well with those folks
What prevents you guys from meshing well tho?
The fact that u didn't get to bust one?
Or the fact that u two have 2 different perspectives on sex in terms when to get it cracking?
the couple of people I've fallen for had the same views as myself. :dead: :dead:
I'm not saying I can't have a connection with someone who believe in waiting, I'm saying I haven't.
I'm not going to throw myself at someone who clearly isn't trying to have sex. Anyway, it's usually fags trying to flirt with me because believe it or not, I give a sexually SHY mess initially
:plzstop:
Dont want anyone to know I'm thinking about stripping them naked while were watching Batman vs Superman
Quote from: 'lock on August 13, 2016, 01:42:50 PM
I kinda like to work for my mess ..
Then feeling u out to see if ur ready... And just when I think ur there... Kinda seducing u and giving u no other choice
An Enchantress of sorts
(http://i.imgur.com/oYkKD0F.gif)
xbxbxbxbxbc
OH YEA, I kinda dont like when u THROW it at me. Look, im the agressor. I wanna flirt my way into the undies
whenever u get that one person thats like Fuck me. FUCK ME NOW! :fuming:
Im kinda like :uhh: :calmdownsis:
and turned off a bit tbh :dead:
Enchantress has me HOLLERING :kii:
Quote from: Vonc2002 on August 13, 2016, 01:45:59 PM
OH YEA, I kinda dont like when u THROW it at me. Look, im the agressor. I wanna flirt my way into the undies
whenever u get that one person thats like Fuck me. FUCK ME NOW! :fuming:
Im kinda like :uhh: :calmdownsis:
and turned off a bit tbh :dead:
bbbbdjj screaming
Quote from: GRAND on August 13, 2016, 01:45:04 PM
Quote from: 'lock on August 13, 2016, 01:37:57 PM
Quote from: GRAND on August 13, 2016, 01:36:12 PM
Quote from: 'lock on August 13, 2016, 01:29:18 PM
To Tons point .. That's sorta true
If both ppl have the same outlook on it then I can see it def working
But if one person doesn't quite believe in it ... Then I can see why one wouldn't get a call back
I've never had feelings for someone who wasn't sexually aggressive or mannish
:dead: :dead: :dead:
I'm going to tell you day one that I think you're attractive
So that's the hint right there that I'm not shy, so you better not be either
(http://i.imgur.com/oYkKD0F.gif)
But if someone wants to wait that's fine. I usually don't mesh well with those folks
What prevents you guys from meshing well tho?
The fact that u didn't get to bust one?
Or the fact that u two have 2 different perspectives on sex in terms when to get it cracking?
the couple of people I've fallen for had the same views as myself. :dead: :dead:
I'm not saying I can't have a connection with someone who believe in waiting, I'm saying I haven't.
I'm not going to throw myself at someone who clearly isn't trying to have sex. Anyway, it's usually fags trying to flirt with me because believe it or not, I give a sexually SHY mess initially
:plzstop:
Dont want anyone to know I'm thinking about stripping them naked while were watching Batman vs Superman
bxbxbb
I give a shy-OWT as well
But when I fully get comfortable.... The mess is apparent
(http://i.imgur.com/oYkKD0F.gif)
d
I don't like anyone being too forward during the courtship phase, period.
the whole 90 day rule/virginal act is played. if the chemistry is there and you're both consenting then dew.
and I've never understood the idea that sex 'too soon' somehow weakens a relationship. if that's the case, maybe there wasn't anything more than a sexual attraction from jump.
Quote from: 'lock on August 13, 2016, 01:47:31 PM
Quote from: GRAND on August 13, 2016, 01:45:04 PM
Quote from: 'lock on August 13, 2016, 01:37:57 PM
Quote from: GRAND on August 13, 2016, 01:36:12 PM
Quote from: 'lock on August 13, 2016, 01:29:18 PM
To Tons point .. That's sorta true
If both ppl have the same outlook on it then I can see it def working
But if one person doesn't quite believe in it ... Then I can see why one wouldn't get a call back
I've never had feelings for someone who wasn't sexually aggressive or mannish
:dead: :dead: :dead:
I'm going to tell you day one that I think you're attractive
So that's the hint right there that I'm not shy, so you better not be either
(http://i.imgur.com/oYkKD0F.gif)
But if someone wants to wait that's fine. I usually don't mesh well with those folks
What prevents you guys from meshing well tho?
The fact that u didn't get to bust one?
Or the fact that u two have 2 different perspectives on sex in terms when to get it cracking?
the couple of people I've fallen for had the same views as myself. :dead: :dead:
I'm not saying I can't have a connection with someone who believe in waiting, I'm saying I haven't.
I'm not going to throw myself at someone who clearly isn't trying to have sex. Anyway, it's usually fags trying to flirt with me because believe it or not, I give a sexually SHY mess initially
:plzstop:
Dont want anyone to know I'm thinking about stripping them naked while were watching Batman vs Superman
bxbxbb
I give a shy-OWT as well
But when I fully get comfortable.... The mess is apparent
(http://i.imgur.com/oYkKD0F.gif)
No one believes either one of you
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Quote from: Kurama on August 13, 2016, 01:34:29 PM
Sometimes building a lil tension is more arousing then going straight for the mess right off the bat
thats just me tho
(http://i.imgur.com/oYkKD0F.gif)
Then when you gotta get creative. You can't possibly have the same sex over and over.
Quote from: Vonc2002 on August 13, 2016, 01:45:59 PM
OH YEA, I kinda dont like when u THROW it at me. Look, im the agressor. I wanna flirt my way into the undies
whenever u get that one person thats like Fuck me. FUCK ME NOW! :fuming:
Im kinda like :uhh: :calmdownsis:
and turned off a bit tbh :dead:
ssssssssss !!!
If it DOES happen on the first date, it has to be natural.
:omgwatshappening:
Quote from: ANIMMAI on August 13, 2016, 01:48:00 PM
the whole 90 day rule/virginal act is played. if the chemistry is there and you're both consenting then dew.
and I've never understood the idea that sex 'too soon' somehow weakens a relationship. if that's the case, maybe there wasn't anything more than a sexual attraction from jump.
BOOM!Where is that girl holding that jug of juice when u need it :dead:
Quote from: Kurama on August 13, 2016, 01:48:02 PM
Quote from: 'lock on August 13, 2016, 01:47:31 PM
Quote from: GRAND on August 13, 2016, 01:45:04 PM
Quote from: 'lock on August 13, 2016, 01:37:57 PM
Quote from: GRAND on August 13, 2016, 01:36:12 PM
Quote from: 'lock on August 13, 2016, 01:29:18 PM
To Tons point .. That's sorta true
If both ppl have the same outlook on it then I can see it def working
But if one person doesn't quite believe in it ... Then I can see why one wouldn't get a call back
I've never had feelings for someone who wasn't sexually aggressive or mannish
:dead: :dead: :dead:
I'm going to tell you day one that I think you're attractive
So that's the hint right there that I'm not shy, so you better not be either
(http://i.imgur.com/oYkKD0F.gif)
But if someone wants to wait that's fine. I usually don't mesh well with those folks
What prevents you guys from meshing well tho?
The fact that u didn't get to bust one?
Or the fact that u two have 2 different perspectives on sex in terms when to get it cracking?
the couple of people I've fallen for had the same views as myself. :dead: :dead:
I'm not saying I can't have a connection with someone who believe in waiting, I'm saying I haven't.
I'm not going to throw myself at someone who clearly isn't trying to have sex. Anyway, it's usually fags trying to flirt with me because believe it or not, I give a sexually SHY mess initially
:plzstop:
Dont want anyone to know I'm thinking about stripping them naked while were watching Batman vs Superman
bxbxbb
I give a shy-OWT as well
But when I fully get comfortable.... The mess is apparent
(http://i.imgur.com/oYkKD0F.gif)
No one believes either one of you
(http://i.imgur.com/oYkKD0F.gif)
XCCCX
Well/ hun I'm aware people think less of those that Fck on the first date
So just because I will fuck, doesn't mean I advertise it
Don't want anyone finding out I'm a whore
(http://i.imgur.com/oYkKD0F.gif)
Quote from: Vonc2002 on August 13, 2016, 01:45:59 PM
OH YEA, I kinda dont like when u THROW it at me. Look, im the agressor. I wanna flirt my way into the undies
whenever u get that one person thats like Fuck me. FUCK ME NOW! :fuming:
Im kinda like :uhh: :calmdownsis:
and turned off a bit tbh :dead:
I'm that type. If I'm expecting dick then that's what I want. If I want to fuck and you keep telling me no we're done.
(http://i.imgur.com/oYkKD0F.gif)
Wow this thread makes me look like a slut
W/E
YOLO
(http://i.imgur.com/oYkKD0F.gif)
If its your thing by all means carry on. No judgement on my behalf.
Quote from: ANIMMAI on August 13, 2016, 01:48:00 PM
the whole 90 day rule/virginal act is played. if the chemistry is there and you're both consenting then dew.
and I've never understood the idea that sex 'too soon' somehow weakens a relationship. if that's the case, maybe there wasn't anything more than a sexual attraction from jump.
!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
My current love kept gazing in my eyes and wore basketball shorts on the first day we hung out
He knew what he was doin
(http://i.imgur.com/oYkKD0F.gif)
And boom, we're coming up on our anniversary
So you never know
(http://i.imgur.com/oYkKD0F.gif)
Quote from: GRAND on August 13, 2016, 01:53:20 PM
My current love kept gazing in my eyes and wore basketball shorts on the first day we hung out
He knew what he was doin
(http://i.imgur.com/oYkKD0F.gif)
And boom, we're coming up on our anniversary
So you never know
(http://i.imgur.com/oYkKD0F.gif)
Awww :'(
Quote from: Margeaux. on August 13, 2016, 01:51:37 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on August 13, 2016, 01:45:59 PM
OH YEA, I kinda dont like when u THROW it at me. Look, im the agressor. I wanna flirt my way into the undies
whenever u get that one person thats like Fuck me. FUCK ME NOW! :fuming:
Im kinda like :uhh: :calmdownsis:
and turned off a bit tbh :dead:
I'm that type. If I'm expecting dick then that's what I want. If I want to fuck and you keep telling me know we're done.
(http://i.imgur.com/oYkKD0F.gif)
Marg u just seem like a mess tbh :dead:
So what did u wanna do tonight
Marg:YOU! :heyddy: :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii:
well marg I respect u for knowing who u are tho
s
Exclusivity is a major part of dating or relationship building(imo). Ppl generally don't want something; an accomplishment or "trophy" if they feel anyone can attain it easily.
But all of this shit we're talking about is social constructed.
Do you at the end of the day
(http://i.imgur.com/oYkKD0F.gif)
Quote from: GRAND on August 13, 2016, 01:51:47 PM
Wow this thread makes me look like a slut
W/E
YOLO
(http://i.imgur.com/oYkKD0F.gif)
MBCCCVVVBBBBBBBBBBBBBBB
U are so fucking edgy ...
Quote from: Capricorn King on August 13, 2016, 01:54:02 PM
Quote from: GRAND on August 13, 2016, 01:53:20 PM
My current love kept gazing in my eyes and wore basketball shorts on the first day we hung out
He knew what he was doin
(http://i.imgur.com/oYkKD0F.gif)
And boom, we're coming up on our anniversary
So you never know
(http://i.imgur.com/oYkKD0F.gif)
Awww :'(
Congrats
:stressed:
Quote from: Vonc2002 on August 13, 2016, 01:45:59 PM
OH YEA, I kinda dont like when u THROW it at me. Look, im the agressor. I wanna flirt my way into the undies
whenever u get that one person thats like Fuck me. FUCK ME NOW! :fuming:
Im kinda like :uhh: :calmdownsis:
and turned off a bit tbh :dead:
!!!!
like, chill :uhh:
Quote from: Kurama on August 13, 2016, 01:55:28 PM
s
Exclusivity is a major part of dating or relationship building(imo). Ppl generally don't want something; an accomplishment or "trophy" if they feel anyone can attain it easily.
But all of this shit we're talking about is social constructed.
Do you at the end of the day
(http://i.imgur.com/oYkKD0F.gif)
Who wants to be someone's accomplishment tho? :dead: That sounds gross
I wanna connect and have a good time...whether it results in a quick nut or a committed relationship. All these "rules" are unnecessary.
(http://i.imgur.com/oYkKD0F.gif)
Quote from: ANIMMAI on August 13, 2016, 01:57:37 PM
Quote from: Kurama on August 13, 2016, 01:55:28 PM
s
Exclusivity is a major part of dating or relationship building(imo). Ppl generally don't want something; an accomplishment or "trophy" if they feel anyone can attain it easily.
But all of this shit we're talking about is social constructed.
Do you at the end of the day
(http://i.imgur.com/oYkKD0F.gif)
Who wants to be someone's accomplishment tho? :dead: That sounds gross
I wanna connect and have a good time...whether it results in a quick nut or a committed relationship. All these "rules" are unnecessary.
(http://i.imgur.com/oYkKD0F.gif)
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I agree, but it's a social thing. That's why we have things like slut-shaming or ridiculing people who "wife hoes".
It's hard to deviate from that way of thinking, at least i've personally struggled with it.
but I dew wanna look at something I built with another person and feel accomplished tho
(http://i.imgur.com/oYkKD0F.gif)
Quote from: 𝚌𝚑𝚊𝚛𝚕𝚒𝚎. on August 13, 2016, 01:29:49 PM
Quote from: BigDawg on August 13, 2016, 01:23:58 PM
Quote from: BrandySavedMyLife on August 13, 2016, 01:18:26 PM
Quote from: BigDawg on August 13, 2016, 01:10:13 PM
I mean what is the purpose of dating if we just fuckin at the end of the night? That in my opinion makes you a fwb.
also true. I wish it was that easy though.
I have learned to set the standard from the beginning. If we are just smashing then it will strictly be only that. If we are dating and the potential is there to be in a relationship then having sex so early in the game taints things imo. It can in some cases send the wrong message. Men are so fickle, most of the time even if the sex is poppin they can simply just be adding you to the roster of "homies they break off now and again".
Okay but what if,
SCENARIO:
You had a nice dinner and movie.
Get back to your place and you invited him in because you wanted to show him something you told him you had on the date that he wanted to see.
Like something y'all vibed over, like you have a special "COLLECTION"
and he was like
"OH WOW, I LOVE THOSE!"
:ohwow:
and you invite him in after the night is over to look at your collection.
and y'all giggling and talking and mess.
:feelinmyself:
then, a small silence happens and you glance over into his eyes and you noticed the color of them, and he starts looking sexier at the specific moment up close.
y'all have y'all first kiss,
then one thing lead to another...
sexual tension is heavy...
WHAT WOULD YA DO?
:ohwow:
plz explain
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Trutfully I have done the hookup on the first date thing and has proven to be uncessful. So I have been doing things differently. Definitely not a tease but I am ain't toochin my booch at the end of the night.
Yes.
D
Honestly..... I don't know. Cuz personally, I feel like if you're rushing to have sex with someone before you even get to know them on a deeper level, you're not too interested in a relationship. And I don't like wasting time. So I guess that answered the question. :dead:
Quote from: Trey on August 13, 2016, 02:26:12 PM
D
Honestly..... I don't know. Cuz personally, I feel like if you're rushing to have sex with someone before you even get to know them on a deeper level, you're not too interested in a relationship. And I don't like wasting time. So I guess that answered the question. :dead:
Sometimes it's not even about wanting to be in a relationship. :dead: So many people have hidden agendas to why they want to have sex with you in the first place on the first date. It's possible they could try to pass on an STD, etc. Never know what a person is thinking. It's sad tho.
I suck dick, thats the most i'd do.
but the date would have to be off the chain and you paid for everything
Quote from: BrokenHeartsHeal on August 13, 2016, 02:41:31 PM
I suck dick, thats the most i'd do.
HONESTLY, thats kinda worse imo
Quote from: Vonc2002 on August 13, 2016, 03:10:34 PM
Quote from: BrokenHeartsHeal on August 13, 2016, 02:41:31 PM
I suck dick, thats the most i'd do.
HONESTLY, thats kinda worse imo
sssddd
I mean yeah fag you're sucking all these dicks but not taking them?
Useless tbh
as long as u dnt stink
idc wat we do
sex
robbery
fraud missions
jus dnt be musty wen i MEET u
but its ok aftr a few hours, i wont care thens <3
\
Quote from: Chao on August 13, 2016, 04:02:06 PM
as long as u dnt stink
idc wat we do
sex
robbery
fraud missions
jus dnt be musty wen i MEET u
but its ok aftr a few hours, i wont care thens <3
ssssssds
You're so open mindeds
:youready:
nah me and my ex fuck on the first date in the back of the car and we were together for 5 years :dead:
Yeah that's how it's supposed to be
Quote from: Nine on August 13, 2016, 01:09:17 PM
tbh I can't really trust someone who wants to mess on the first date. I really do think "do they do this with everyone"
:damselindistress:
More power to those who do, but yeah, not for me.
:udontlookok:
This.
n
Look, It takes TWO to have sex, so who am I to lose respect for someone because WE chose to go through with it? anything is possible and although it isn't ideal to fuck or "mess around" on a first date, I never rule anything out.
There aren't any rules or guidelines I necessarily follow when it comes to that. You really never know how it'll work out. It's possible to get cheated on even if you wait 6 months and never touch each other, just as it's possible the other way around.
Quote from: Vonc2002 on August 13, 2016, 01:31:34 PM
but yea, I dont think waiting to have sex does anything tbh. Honestly, im the type of person that talks and talks anyway so im pretty familiar with anyone I like and have decided to go on a date with. having sex isnt gonna change my perspective. If a person's goal was to smash and go thats gonna happen whether its date 1 or date 5.
!!!!!!
you can feel someone out and get a pretty good gauge on their intentions rather quickly IMO
Any time I've held out on sexual acts, it was purely for self and my own thoughts about ME. Never really has anything to do with the other person.
And like you said, sex doesn't really change my outlook on folks. I don't judge the other person afterwards, and I certainly don't catch feelings afterwards :uhh:
That's always been strange to me. If I didn't feel these things beforehand, sex certainly isn't going to sway me either way
Quote from: Vonc2002 on August 13, 2016, 01:37:58 PM
I dont believe in just random, casual sex. I think thats wack and sex is better with a connection ANYWAY. BUT, im not about marking a calendar to give this perception of virginal. If our first date is THAT intense and we vibe enough then get tf naked
(http://i.imgur.com/oYkKD0F.gif)
:kii:
Quote from: Kurama on August 13, 2016, 01:55:28 PM
s
Exclusivity is a major part of dating or relationship building(imo). Ppl generally don't want something; an accomplishment or "trophy" if they feel anyone can attain it easily.
But all of this shit we're talking about is social constructed.
Do you at the end of the day
(http://i.imgur.com/oYkKD0F.gif)
this is true too, but just because they choose to do that with ME doesn't always mean they've done that with something else. Maybe our dynamic during that date and the pull we have and feel is way different than anything they'd ever experienced
Turn off.
And if I did fuck, that's all it'd ever be. I can't take that serious
yes
Quote from: MelMel on August 13, 2016, 07:31:03 PM
yes
D
I mean, you're fucking BEFORE the damn date.
(http://i.imgur.com/oYkKD0F.gif)
Quote from: GRAND on August 13, 2016, 03:11:45 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on August 13, 2016, 03:10:34 PM
Quote from: BrokenHeartsHeal on August 13, 2016, 02:41:31 PM
I suck dick, thats the most i'd do.
HONESTLY, thats kinda worse imo
sssddd
I mean yeah fag you're sucking all these dicks but not taking them?
Useless tbh
i don't like to get fucked okay? :everythingok:
Quote from: MelMel on August 13, 2016, 09:04:14 PM
Quote from: Trey on August 13, 2016, 09:00:50 PM
Quote from: MelMel on August 13, 2016, 07:31:03 PM
yes
D
I mean, you're fucking BEFORE the damn date.
(http://i.imgur.com/oYkKD0F.gif)
there's a date?
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Quote from: BrokenHeartsHeal on August 13, 2016, 09:05:19 PM
Quote from: GRAND on August 13, 2016, 03:11:45 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on August 13, 2016, 03:10:34 PM
Quote from: BrokenHeartsHeal on August 13, 2016, 02:41:31 PM
I suck dick, thats the most i'd do.
HONESTLY, thats kinda worse imo
sssddd
I mean yeah fag you're sucking all these dicks but not taking them?
Useless tbh
i don't like to get fucked okay? :everythingok:
ur a top?
Quote from: Don Draper on August 13, 2016, 07:22:59 PM
Turn off.
And if I did fuck, that's all it'd ever be. I can't take that serious
n
n
I think it's different for men/gay couples cause... these posts.
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It depends
If you're talking about someone I literally just met then sex on a first date is highly unlikely.
But if we're talking someone I'm already friends with and we start dating then I don't see the problem.
IDK if I meet someone and right off the bat they just want to have sex I kinda find that disrespectful. Is that all you see me as? Someone people just can't control their hormones though.
If I were 17 again I probably wouldn't mind it tbh but now that I'm older i just value my body more. Sex is very powerful and I just don't think everyone deserves your cookies like that.
it leaves nothing to look forward too... int
you hit the climax or one of the high parts of your "relationship" with the person on your first night....just seems like...whats the point after that...
i just don't understand why sex is the determining factor of what your relationship means/will mean
:dead:
if you dont see it as some BE ALL END ALL, then it shouldn't be that big of a deal if you have it, nor not, IMO
Quote from: Drais. on August 13, 2016, 11:54:07 PM
IDK if I meet someone and right off the bat they just want to have sex I kinda find that disrespectful. Is that all you see me as? Someone people just can't control their hormones though.
Yea they just want ur nookie, Drai' :ohwow:
Quote from: GRAND on August 14, 2016, 12:07:00 AM
i just don't understand why sex is the determining factor of what your relationship means/will mean
:dead:
if you dont see it as some BE ALL END ALL, then it shouldn't be that big of a deal if you have it, nor not, IMO
!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Quote from: Kaeli. on August 14, 2016, 12:09:34 AM
Quote from: Drais. on August 13, 2016, 11:54:07 PM
IDK if I meet someone and right off the bat they just want to have sex I kinda find that disrespectful. Is that all you see me as? Someone people just can't control their hormones though.
Yea they just want ur nookie, Drai' :ohwow:
That's why I don't take fags seriously tbh, especially young ones.
That's the one thing I love about women. They're so much more mature and honest about what they want when it comes to dating.
Quote from: GRAND on August 14, 2016, 12:07:00 AM
i just don't understand why sex is the determining factor of what your relationship means/will mean
:dead:
if you dont see it as some BE ALL END ALL, then it shouldn't be that big of a deal if you have it, nor not, IMO
!!!!!!!!!
Like, condeming people for responding to what is natural, it's silly. And then to write someone off for engaging in the same thing u just did :dead:
So we both clearly felt a way and there was a mutual attraction but im somehow held to a higher standard and shouldve resisted, even tho it's okay for u, dumb tbh
It doesn't change my perception in a negative way. I don't think it's an indication of anything to come in terms of the relationship.
Quote from: GoDiegoGo on August 14, 2016, 01:37:37 AM
It doesn't change my perception in a negative way. I don't think it's an indication of anything to come in terms of the relationship.
wassup with your FTM friend. Put me on bruv
Quote from: AJ on August 14, 2016, 12:00:24 AM
it leaves nothing to look forward too... int
you hit the climax or one of the high parts of your "relationship" with the person on your first night....just seems like...whats the point after that...
gorl if yawl reach the climax on the first night yawl not doing it right :dead:
Passion should intensify. I'm not gonna lie, I messed the first night. But that wasn't the height
No ma'am ... months later still texting 24/7 ... wanting more of this man ... locked in a Cali hotel room screaming n shaking with this man
Jesus
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Quote from: BENTLEY! on August 14, 2016, 01:50:03 AM
Quote from: GoDiegoGo on August 14, 2016, 01:37:37 AM
It doesn't change my perception in a negative way. I don't think it's an indication of anything to come in terms of the relationship.
wassup with your FTM friend. Put me on bruv
:omgwatshappening:
Quote from: Vonc2002 on August 14, 2016, 01:20:22 AM
Quote from: GRAND on August 14, 2016, 12:07:00 AM
i just don't understand why sex is the determining factor of what your relationship means/will mean
:dead:
if you dont see it as some BE ALL END ALL, then it shouldn't be that big of a deal if you have it, nor not, IMO
!!!!!!!!!
Like, condeming people for responding to what is natural, it's silly.
Oh natural! Evolution! Men are men!
This rhetoric is just as archaic as the ppl who choose to be more reserved or "traditional". Ain't shit silly about it, just difference stances.
:usureuok:
Quote from: Kurama on August 14, 2016, 09:14:15 AM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on August 14, 2016, 01:20:22 AM
Quote from: GRAND on August 14, 2016, 12:07:00 AM
i just don't understand why sex is the determining factor of what your relationship means/will mean
:dead:
if you dont see it as some BE ALL END ALL, then it shouldn't be that big of a deal if you have it, nor not, IMO
!!!!!!!!!
Like, condeming people for responding to what is natural, it's silly.
Oh natural! Evolution! Men are men!
This rhetoric is just as archaic as the ppl who choose to be more reserved or "traditional". Ain't shit silly about it, just difference stances.
:usureuok:
Quote from: Don Draper on August 13, 2016, 07:22:59 PM
Turn off.
And if I did fuck, that's all it'd ever be. I can't take that serious
That's how I feel about it. If my intentions are to fuck someone, then that is all it will ever be, especially on the first date. More than likely there will be no future dates following that. For a first date I want to get to know that person and see where it can progress too without diving into the sack on the first night.
Quote from: BigDawg on August 14, 2016, 09:57:47 AM
Quote from: Don Draper on August 13, 2016, 07:22:59 PM
Turn off.
And if I did fuck, that's all it'd ever be. I can't take that serious
That's how I feel about it. If my intentions are to fuck someone, then that is all it will ever be, especially on the first date. More than likely there will be no future dates following that. For a first date I want to get to know that person and see where it can progress too without diving into the sack on the first night.
Pretty much lol I'm never gonna initiate sex on a first date, but that doesn't mean I won't partake if it happens. There just won't be a relationship to follow. Some people are cool with smashing out the gate and then dating that person....and that's fine. I'm personally just not that guy. Different strokes man. No faux outrage needed
If I have sex with someone on the first date, then I definitely don't take the relationship too seriously. :ohwow: :ohwow:
Quote from: BENTLEY! on August 14, 2016, 02:01:00 AM
Quote from: AJ on August 14, 2016, 12:00:24 AM
it leaves nothing to look forward too... int
you hit the climax or one of the high parts of your "relationship" with the person on your first night....just seems like...whats the point after that...
gorl if yawl reach the climax on the first night yawl not doing it right :dead:
Passion should intensify. I'm not gonna lie, I messed the first night. But that wasn't the height
No ma'am ... months later still texting 24/7 ... wanting more of this man ... locked in a Cali hotel room screaming n shaking with this man
Jesus
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I somewhat agree when I meant high parts I meant like things you remember or important parts
Like First Date
First time taking a trip
meeting family
Sex
Moving in
Things like those.. Idk.. Maybe it's because I'm a hopeless romantic so I remember dates like those
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Awwwwwww
Quote from: Don Draper on August 14, 2016, 10:12:16 AM
Quote from: BigDawg on August 14, 2016, 09:57:47 AM
Quote from: Don Draper on August 13, 2016, 07:22:59 PM
Turn off.
And if I did fuck, that's all it'd ever be. I can't take that serious
That's how I feel about it. If my intentions are to fuck someone, then that is all it will ever be, especially on the first date. More than likely there will be no future dates following that. For a first date I want to get to know that person and see where it can progress too without diving into the sack on the first night.
Pretty much lol I'm never gonna initiate sex on a first date, but that doesn't mean I won't partake if it happens. There just won't be a relationship to follow. Some people are cool with smashing out the gate and then dating that person....and that's fine. I'm personally just not that guy. Different strokes man. No faux outrage needed
The funniest thing about this thread is that every single Capricorn that posted in hea has the same exact stance
Quote from: 'lock on August 14, 2016, 03:50:52 PM
The funniest thing about this thread is that every single Capricorn that posted in hea has the same exact stance
!!!
:plzstop:
I guess we're just classy
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