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Title: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it! (Part 2 Update added)
Post by: RatherBe on September 01, 2016, 11:34:04 PM
Original story is on PG 1
1st time story is on PG 4
quick update is on PG 30
Family Reunion Story is on PG 32
2019 Update Story Part1 is on PG 36
2019 Update Story Part 2 is on PG 38
Original Story
okay so i dont remember when i made the initial thread but.. i told you guys i kinda thought that my barber liked me but i didnt wanna fuck up a good thing because hes a dope ass barber...


well we started hanging out, first with his friends a lot at like bars and sports games...


slowly but surely we started to venture off and hang out by ourselves also. whether it was right before or right after meeting up with his guy friends... the more we hung out and closer we got AS FRIENDS i noticed he became a lot more defensive for me... like no sly or overly rude jokes were to be made about me or if he felt like i would take offensive.. he would NIP it in the bud and i would be like
:ermm: "you aint have to do that.. i can take a joke and if it goes too far i can handle myself." and he would be like "nah, fuck that you my homeboy, and i started bringing you around so imma make sure you comfortable." or something to that extent

so im like  :ohwow: "okay then!" but since he was so hell bent on using the term "homeboy, homie, brodie, etc." i chalked it up as strictly friends and i didnt wanna fuck it up because by this point he was giving me free haircut every now and again... so i was like yeah.. let me chill


but my birthday was at the end of july.. and so he like a week later he asked did i wanna go out because he was out of town the weekend of my birthday.. so i was like cool.. im thinking we were about to go meet up with his boys and drink but we pulled up to the movie theater.. and im like " :uhh: its just me and you?" and hes like "yeah... i really wanna see suicide squad, you dont wanna be here or something" and i was like "no its nothing like that i was just suprised"

*we had a quick convo here about him not being ashamed to be seen in public or hang out with me as if i already didnt know*...

the movies just feels a lot more intimate for two guys that are just friends to be going..but whatev.. we go in.. he buys the tickets... i INSIST on buying the popcorn and drinks because.. yea i just do! lol i bought to separate popcorns *REMEMBER THIS PART*

so all is good, we are like half way through the movie... then he starts getting on his phone alot at this point.. so i think nothing of it because im really into the movie... all of a sudden i get a text saying
"you know you couldve just got one big pop corn and we coulda just shared.. what you think i got cooties or sumn?"
so im straight up looking like at this point:
(http://vignette1.wikia.nocookie.net/glee/images/b/bd/Cutie_smirk_santana.gif/revision/latest?cb=20130217215357)

and i cant help it but i go into complete flirt mode and i text him back and say "lol you probably do...idk!!"
and we both laugh a bit and just started watching the movie again..

~another twenty minutes go by and i get another text but i didnt see him take his phone out so i knew he wasnt the one texting me... so i just was like ill get to it once the movies was over..

Yall!!! he tapped me and was like... "you know your phone went off right" im thinking like "nigga, how you hear my phone on vibrate :uhh:" so im like fuck it ill just check it... but ill do it fast because i was into the movie!! (i like movies :dead:) so i check it and ts from him and it says "would you think it was weird if i asked to hold your hand?"

so on the inside im like:(http://i0.kym-cdn.com/entries/icons/original/000/020/001/krabs.jpg)

but i had to be cool so on the outside im like: (http://www.reactiongifs.com/r/ioA8mSM1.gif)

and i say "ummm.. idk" and he just grabs my hand and holds it..
so now im like fuck the movie, nigga you got my attention! but really i had to play it cool.

so the movie ends and we are headed to go to the bars with his friends.. and we start having a quick convo about what happened in the movie... and hes just saying he didnt know why but he felt compelled to hold my hand and that he feels really close to me.. im not really saying much but an occasional "oh.. wow.. really...aww.. cool." because im trying to play it cool but inside im fucking losing it..
so then we start talking about what i did for my actual birthday night... because he always thinks that i have a bunch a guys that wanna be with me(hes right, but i pay them no mind) so im like "i spent my birthday night lonely as fuck i got no action!"...

so I kid you not... he looks at me like:
(https://media.giphy.com/media/l14qxlCgJ0zUk/giphy.gif)

he immediatley picks up his phone to call his boys and made some bs excuse why we werent meeting them at the bar anymore... im like why you lie to them and say that... and he says hes changing the plans...10 mins late we pull up at his house

...AND THATS WHEN I FUCKING KNEW

long story short.. i ended up getting impaled that night.. ill spare yall the details of that, this is already long enough.

HAPPY BITHDAYS TO ME! :roflmao:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Vonc2002 on September 01, 2016, 11:44:28 PM
Quote from: AJ on September 01, 2016, 11:34:04 PM


  lol i bought to separate popcorns *REMEMBER THIS PART*


I surely will, illiterate ass
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Vonc2002 on September 01, 2016, 11:47:37 PM
Happy belated birthday to you, i guess lolz
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Cowboy Nine on September 01, 2016, 11:47:50 PM
Quote from: AJ on September 01, 2016, 11:34:04 PM
okay so i dont remember when i made the initial thread but.. i told you guys i kinda thought that my barber liked me but i didnt wanna fuck up a good thing because hes a dope ass barber...


well we started hanging out, first with his friends a lot at like bars and sports games...


slowly but surely we started to venture off and hang out by ourselves also. whether it was right before or right after meeting up with his guy friends... the more we hung out and closer we got AS FRIENDS i noticed he became a lot more defensive for me... like no sly or overly rude jokes were to be made about me or if he felt like i would take offensive.. he would NIP it in the bud and i would be like
:ermm: "you aint have to do that.. i can take a joke and if it goes too far i can handle myself." and he would be like "nah, fuck that you my homeboy, and i started bringing you around so imma make sure you comfortable." or something to that extent

so im like  :ohwow: "okay then!" but since he was so hell bent on using the term "homeboy, homie, brodie, etc." i chalked it up as strictly friends and i didnt wanna fuck it up because by this point he was giving me free haircut every now and again... so i was like yeah.. let me chill


but my birthday was at the end of july.. and so he like a week later he asked did i wanna go out because he was out of town the weekend of my birthday.. so i was like cool.. im thinking we were about to go meet up with his boys and drink but we pulled up to the movie theater.. and im like " :uhh: its just me and you?" and hes like "yeah... i really wanna see suicide squad, you dont wanna be here or something" and i was like "no its nothing like that i was just suprised"

*we had a quick convo here about him not being ashamed to be seen in public or hang out with me as if i already didnt know*...

the movies just feels a lot more intimate for two guys that are just friends to be going..but whatev.. we go in.. he buys the tickets... i INSIST on buying the popcorn and drinks because.. yea i just do! lol i bought to separate popcorns *REMEMBER THIS PART*

so all is good, we are like half way through the movie... then he starts getting on his phone alot at this point.. so i think nothing of it because im really into the movie... all of a sudden i get a text saying
"you know you couldve just got one big pop corn and we coulda just shared.. what you think i got cooties or sumn?"
so im straight up looking like at this point:
(http://vignette1.wikia.nocookie.net/glee/images/b/bd/Cutie_smirk_santana.gif/revision/latest?cb=20130217215357)

and i cant help it but i go into complete flirt mode and i text him back and say "lol you probably do...idk!!"
and we both laugh a bit and just started watching the movie again..

~another twenty minutes go by and i get another text but i didnt see him take his phone out so i knew he wasnt the one texting me... so i just was like ill get to it once the movies was over..

Yall!!! he tapped me and was like... "you know your phone went off right" im thinking like "nigga, how you hear my phone on vibrate :uhh:" so im like fuck it ill just check it... but ill do it fast because i was into the movie!! (i like movies :dead:) so i check it and ts from him and it says "would you think it was weird if i asked to hold your hand?"

so on the inside im like:(http://i0.kym-cdn.com/entries/icons/original/000/020/001/krabs.jpg)

but i had to be cool so on the outside im like: (http://www.reactiongifs.com/r/ioA8mSM1.gif)

and i say "ummm.. idk" and he just grabs my hand and holds it..
so now im like fuck the movie, nigga you got my attention! but really i had to play it cool.

so the movie ends and we are headed to go to the bars with his friends.. and we start having a quick convo about what happened in the movie... and hes just saying he didnt know why but he felt compelled to hold my hand and that he feels really close to me.. im not really saying much but an occasional "oh.. wow.. really...aww.. cool." because im trying to play it cool but inside im fucking losing it..
so then we start talking about what i did for my actual birthday night... because he always thinks that i have a bunch a guys that wanna be with me(hes right, but i pay them no mind) so im like "i spent my birthday night lonely as fuck i got no action!"...

so I kid you not... he looks at me like:
(https://media.giphy.com/media/l14qxlCgJ0zUk/giphy.gif)

he immediatley picks up his phone to call his boys and made some bs excuse why we werent meeting them at the bar anymore... im like why you lie to them and say that... and he says hes changing the plans...10 mins late we pull up at his house

...AND THATS WHEN I FUCKING KNEW

long story short.. i ended up getting impaled that night.. ill spare yall the details of that, this is already long enough.

HAPPY BITHDAYS TO ME! :roflmao:
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Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Aalonso. on September 01, 2016, 11:48:11 PM
no the fuck you won't. not after I read all that shit. keep typing
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: 1stsecuritybank on September 01, 2016, 11:48:40 PM
Happy 4 u n stuff. Hope u guys get married n have longevity. Love is beautiful animals to find nowadays. Luv u aj bbvies
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Young on September 01, 2016, 11:48:57 PM
This was so cute to read lol

Like something out of a book

Awwww this was cute babe
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Vonc2002 on September 01, 2016, 11:48:57 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on September 01, 2016, 11:48:11 PM
no the fuck you won't. not after I read all that shit. keep typing
It was a bit of a page turner, i got the point tho. Go turn on some porn f
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Vonc2002 on September 01, 2016, 11:49:31 PM
Quote from: Young on September 01, 2016, 11:48:57 PM
This was so cute to read lol

Like something out of a book

Awwww this was cute babe
It was
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: KING BENTLEY. on September 01, 2016, 11:50:01 PM
Quote from: AJ on September 01, 2016, 11:34:04 PM

...AND THATS WHEN I FUCKING KNEW
KNEW FCKIN WHAT?!!
(http://i0.kym-cdn.com/entries/icons/original/000/020/001/krabs.jpg)
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: RatherBe on September 01, 2016, 11:50:14 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on September 01, 2016, 11:44:28 PM
Quote from: AJ on September 01, 2016, 11:34:04 PM


  lol i bought to separate popcorns *REMEMBER THIS PART*


I surely will, illiterate ass
i had already fixed it fucker! :gorlonfire:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: leftout on September 01, 2016, 11:51:24 PM
Bitch, my strap is ERECT!

Get ur DL trade, hun! :cheerup:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Cowboy Nine on September 01, 2016, 11:51:50 PM
awwww that was cute. not him asking to hold ur hand.

and then y'all messing afterward

:omgwatshappening:

u still getting free haircuts

:ohwow:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Young on September 01, 2016, 11:52:56 PM
Quote from: aGhoulact on September 01, 2016, 11:51:24 PM
Bitch, my strap is ERECT!



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Not simply placing it on the night stand
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: KING BENTLEY. on September 01, 2016, 11:53:26 PM
so wait... I'm assuming the friends know you're gay and they are asking why he's around you
and he's correcting them?
:butim16robert:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: GRAND on September 01, 2016, 11:56:54 PM
Quote from: Young on September 01, 2016, 11:52:56 PM
Quote from: aGhoulact on September 01, 2016, 11:51:24 PM
Bitch, my strap is ERECT!



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Not simply placing it on the night stand
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Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: GLOCK on September 01, 2016, 11:58:49 PM
Omfg
Ack!
Woooooooo!
I'm so happy for you.
Where are things now?
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: RatherBe on September 01, 2016, 11:59:24 PM
Quote from: BENTLEY! on September 01, 2016, 11:53:26 PM
so wait... I'm assuming the friends know you're gay and they are asking why he's around you
and he's correcting them?
:butim16robert:
im sure they know... im not like over the top but im not necesarily hiding either...so just like any dumb straight male.. they make jokes and ask dumb shit.... but he dont stand for none of it

his friend: "so like whats the point in having sex with a guy what pleasure are you supposed to get?"
him: "lol my nigga you must be tryna find out or sumn, chill on him dude!"
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: leftout on September 01, 2016, 11:59:43 PM
This must mean AJ got cakes :ohwow:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: RatherBe on September 02, 2016, 12:00:22 AM
Quote from: Nine on September 01, 2016, 11:51:50 PM
awwww that was cute. not him asking to hold ur hand.

and then y'all messing afterward

:omgwatshappening:

u still getting free haircuts

:ohwow:
Am.
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: MelMel on September 02, 2016, 12:01:04 AM
Quote from: aGhoulact on September 01, 2016, 11:51:24 PM
Bitch, my strap is ERECT!

Get ur DL trade, hun! :cheerup:
:plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: 1stsecuritybank on September 02, 2016, 12:01:59 AM
Quote from: aGhoulact on September 01, 2016, 11:59:43 PM
This must mean AJ got cakes :ohwow:

Probably so.  :youready:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: MelMel on September 02, 2016, 12:02:14 AM
Quote from: AJ on September 01, 2016, 11:34:04 PM
long story short.. i ended up getting impaled that night

that's all I ever want for my bbys
:stressed:

and happy birthday bby  :stressed: :stressed: :stressed:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Vonc2002 on September 02, 2016, 12:04:20 AM
Quote from: BENTLEY! on September 01, 2016, 11:53:26 PM
so wait... I'm assuming the friends know you're gay and they are asking why he's around you
and he's correcting them?
:butim16robert:
Thats kinda what i got. If they said something that could be taken as homophobic then ol boy  :fuming:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: RatherBe on September 02, 2016, 12:05:07 AM
Quote from: G on September 01, 2016, 11:58:49 PM
Omfg
Ack!
Woooooooo!
I'm so happy for you.
Where are things now?
we had sex one other time since then.. we still hang out, a lot actually but anytime he brings up a relationship.. i kinda stray away from the convo... i dont want him to feel like since we have good sex that we gotta be in a relationship.. i just wanna make sure hes ready and that its not like a forced thing
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: 1stsecuritybank on September 02, 2016, 12:06:02 AM
Wait I missed dat part. Happy fucking BORN DAY GLENDA. BITCH FUCKING GIVE EM HELL DIS WEEKEND!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :caseoftheherp:  :gotchafag:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: charlie. on September 02, 2016, 12:08:10 AM
Quote from: GRAND on September 01, 2016, 11:56:54 PM
Quote from: Young on September 01, 2016, 11:52:56 PM
Quote from: aGhoulact on September 01, 2016, 11:51:24 PM
Bitch, my strap is ERECT!



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Not simply placing it on the night stand
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Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: charlie. on September 02, 2016, 12:08:45 AM
Quote from: Young on September 01, 2016, 11:48:57 PM
This was so cute to read lol

Like something out of a book

Awwww this was cute babe

lol yea
:stressed:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Treasure on September 02, 2016, 12:10:12 AM
Quote from: BENTLEY! on September 01, 2016, 11:50:01 PM
Quote from: AJ on September 01, 2016, 11:34:04 PM

...AND THATS WHEN I FUCKING KNEW
KNEW FCKIN WHAT?!!
(http://i0.kym-cdn.com/entries/icons/original/000/020/001/krabs.jpg)
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Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Aalonso. on September 02, 2016, 12:12:50 AM
vvvv
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: RatherBe on September 02, 2016, 12:15:57 AM
ill update if anything significant happens
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Treasure on September 02, 2016, 12:17:56 AM
*tryin to figure out a stor' to tell to tops this*
(https://uploadir.com/u/ofgkjca4)
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: GLOCK on September 02, 2016, 12:18:08 AM
When did all this happen Bruv
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: KING BENTLEY. on September 02, 2016, 12:18:15 AM
Quote from: Chao on September 02, 2016, 12:17:56 AM
*tryin to figure out a stor' to tell to tops this*
(https://uploadir.com/u/ofgkjca4)
:plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: RatherBe on September 02, 2016, 12:21:29 AM
Quote from: G on September 02, 2016, 12:18:08 AM
When did all this happen Bruv

first weekend in august
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Vonc2002 on September 02, 2016, 12:23:08 AM
Quote from: Chao on September 02, 2016, 12:17:56 AM
*tryin to figure out a stor' to tell to tops this*
(https://uploadir.com/u/ofgkjca4)
:kii: :kii: :kii: :kii:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: GLOCK on September 02, 2016, 12:23:39 AM
Quote from: AJ on September 02, 2016, 12:21:29 AM
Quote from: G on September 02, 2016, 12:18:08 AM
When did all this happen Bruv

first weekend in august
ommmf
This is fresh
Ack! Glad u took my advice
Definitely take ur time
He seems nice
Did u ask him if he had been with other guys?
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: MelMel on September 02, 2016, 12:34:04 AM
Quote from: Chao on September 02, 2016, 12:17:56 AM
*tryin to figure out a stor' to tell to tops this*
(https://uploadir.com/u/ofgkjca4)
:plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: RatherBe on September 02, 2016, 12:35:49 AM
Quote from: G on September 02, 2016, 12:23:39 AM
Quote from: AJ on September 02, 2016, 12:21:29 AM
Quote from: G on September 02, 2016, 12:18:08 AM
When did all this happen Bruv

first weekend in august
ommmf
This is fresh
Ack! Glad u took my advice
Definitely take ur time
He seems nice
Did u ask him if he had been with other guys?
lil story about that and then im done for the night

i asked after we first time we had sex because he didnt seem too out of his element
he said no.. i was his first.. so i said okay and thought nothing of it... like 3 or 4 days later we we're in the car and he just turns the music down after we park and says "i gotta be honest, i lied to you the other day. i had sex with one other guy before you. if this does happen to go anywhere, i dont wanna start building on lies. so sorry about that. wont happen again. you forgive me?"

call me a punk bitch but i couldnt even be mad... i was like "i appreciate your honesty" and just gave him a big hug
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: GLOCK on September 02, 2016, 12:42:00 AM
Quote from: AJ on September 02, 2016, 12:35:49 AM
Quote from: G on September 02, 2016, 12:23:39 AM
Quote from: AJ on September 02, 2016, 12:21:29 AM
Quote from: G on September 02, 2016, 12:18:08 AM
When did all this happen Bruv

first weekend in august
ommmf
This is fresh
Ack! Glad u took my advice
Definitely take ur time
He seems nice
Did u ask him if he had been with other guys?
lil story about that and then im done for the night

i asked after we first time we had sex because he didnt seem too out of his element
he said no.. i was his first.. so i said okay and thought nothing of it... like 3 or 4 days later we we're in the car and he just turns the music down after we park and says "i gotta be honest, i lied to you the other day. i had sex with one other guy before you. if this does happen to go anywhere, i dont wanna start building on lies. so sorry about that. wont happen again. you forgive me?"

call me a punk bitch but i couldnt even be mad... i was like "i appreciate your honesty" and just gave him a big hug
i really like this guy Bruv
U did the right thing
He seems so sincere and like he's trying to find his way
Hella happy for you ... I hope that something serious comes from this
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Lane Bryant Jumpsuit on September 02, 2016, 12:43:12 AM
Bayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyybeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

Gettttttt thatt dickkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk

Yasssssssssssssssssssssddsssssssssssssssssssssss









Ssssssssssssssssssssssssssss


This is so epic how organic this happened



I need more details what happend after u pulled up to that fuckin house

(Pauses barbershop3 )
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Mel. on September 02, 2016, 12:45:52 AM
Quote from: CH∆RLIЄ. on September 02, 2016, 12:08:10 AM
Quote from: GRAND on September 01, 2016, 11:56:54 PM
Quote from: Young on September 01, 2016, 11:52:56 PM
Quote from: aGhoulact on September 01, 2016, 11:51:24 PM
Bitch, my strap is ERECT!



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Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: RatherBe on September 02, 2016, 12:48:51 AM
Quote from: TheNextLew on September 02, 2016, 12:43:12 AM
Bayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyybeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

Gettttttt thatt dickkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk

Yasssssssssssssssssssssddsssssssssssssssssssssss









Ssssssssssssssssssssssssssss


This is so epic how organic this happened



I need more details what happend after u pulled up to that fuckin house

(Pauses barbershop3 )
lol story mode? or just quick to the point lol
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Lane Bryant Jumpsuit on September 02, 2016, 12:52:09 AM
Not my fucking strap
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Lane Bryant Jumpsuit on September 02, 2016, 12:57:01 AM
Quote from: AJ on September 02, 2016, 12:48:51 AM
Quote from: TheNextLew on September 02, 2016, 12:43:12 AM
Bayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyybeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

Gettttttt thatt dickkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk

Yasssssssssssssssssssssddsssssssssssssssssssssss









Ssssssssssssssssssssssssssss


This is so epic how organic this happened



I need more details what happend after u pulled up to that fuckin house

(Pauses barbershop3 )
lol story mode? or just quick to the point lol

I want story mode this is too much not to be missin details
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: b7 on September 02, 2016, 01:17:40 AM
Quote from: L0NZ. on September 01, 2016, 11:48:11 PM
no the fuck you won't. not after I read all that shit. keep typing
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yea that wasn't no long read. lemme keep digging through this thread lolz
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: b7 on September 02, 2016, 01:18:17 AM
Quote from: Young on September 01, 2016, 11:52:56 PM
Quote from: aGhoulact on September 01, 2016, 11:51:24 PM
Bitch, my strap is ERECT!



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Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: RatherBe on September 02, 2016, 01:35:55 AM
hey wheres the NSFW tag for the story i dont wanna break any rules
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: MelMel on September 02, 2016, 01:40:19 AM
it's the sp tag
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: b7 on September 02, 2016, 01:42:12 AM
Quote from: AJ on September 02, 2016, 01:35:55 AM
hey wheres the NSFW tag for the story i dont wanna break any rules
boy u good lol
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: DrewBabyLove on September 02, 2016, 02:10:41 AM
thanks for posting!
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Palladium on September 02, 2016, 02:11:02 AM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on September 01, 2016, 11:49:31 PM
Quote from: Young on September 01, 2016, 11:48:57 PM
This was so cute to read lol

Like something out of a book

Awwww this was cute babe
It was


DDDDDDDDDD
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: RatherBe on September 02, 2016, 02:11:55 AM
First Time Story

okay.. so as far as the sex.. (im sorry if this is a lot for one night, im weirdly excited to tell yall)

we pull up at the house...
im still tryna act dumb and innocent so im like "you want me to come in or are you just running in to get something and coming right back out."

he looks at me exactly like: (http://i.makeagif.com/media/6-17-2015/ahJA9v.gif)

so im like okay... fine!
we get in the house and hes like imma cook for you.. so im like damn tuhhnight must be my fckn NIGHT, this nigga knows how to  COOK too?!? i was wet

im sitting in the living room hes in the kitchen, im thinking im about to get some FOOD, 10 mins later he's like "come eat" seo im confused as shit like did he heat up some left overs?

this nigga made 4 things of easy mac with Doritos to dip in the mac and cheese :plzstop:
sooooo im laughing my ass off at this point.. and he like "dont laugh at me... this my special recipe.."
after i continuously laugh hes like "iight keep laughing... imma get you back, dont trip" (https://encrypted-tbn2.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcQzwCbLz9_c8U78vUWMrAzbpaT0wWBJ81Ar9EKeYwIFtf681_TqwPI0hQhb)
so we eat (the shit was actually really good... i just ate it like 5mins ago tbfh, im hooked on it)


so im tryna give him hints that we gotta go to the store so i can make sure im set for the night.. :kii:
so im saying shit like "i really want some snacks!" so he knows we gotta go to the store.. eventually he catches it and we leave out.. get to the store.. and hes like "im gonna go look for -something random- for my house." im like okay.. i already know hes lying because he went in the aisle where the condoms were.. so that was just more confirmation that i wasnt tripping!... so i get the stuff i need and hurry up and check and meet him at the car..

get back home and we start playing playstation (he was surprised i knew how to play) afterwhile i got tired of playing it. (they play that shit all night... idk how) so i told him i was going to shower and asked for a shirt and shorts


this nigga replies under his breath: "you aint gon need it but okay"(http://memesvault.com/wp-content/uploads/Okay-Waka-Flocka-Meme-15.gif)

so i said "what" and hes just laughing.. so i pay it and go to the bathroom... handle my business and shower..
i come out of the bathroom and hes in the bed and he looks sleep so low key im like: (http://i.kinja-img.com/gawker-media/image/upload/u7pso92buenrnxtqduva.gif)

so im just like well fuck it... im just gonna go to sleep... he has this huge bed so i turn off the light and i get in the bed but stay on one side.. as soon as i settled.. he put his leg on me and was like "i know yo ass aint going to sleep." me tryna be cute and innocent im like: "im not?" and he says "stop playing with me, yo" so by this time ive realized that hes completely naked but not hard... so he gets up to turn on the small light..and i see his dick for the first time... not gon lie.. it didnt look big... so im like.. well i cant turn back now.. so hes back at the bed and he starts kissing my neck asking me if i feel comfortable" i tell him yea.. he keeps going

now i look down i SWEAR to yall his dick has gone from 4inches soft to like 9inches and theres a slight curve im like: (http://media.tenor.co/images/d7a55a84c89006fed1d1e39d0934c6e6/raw)
hes looking at me now like: (https://em.wattpad.com/04f4c2c17b81b49a4015d26309b19671f41bf366/687474703a2f2f32352e6d656469612e74756d626c722e636f6d2f74756d626c725f6d326c70333533725a64317271333666396f315f3530302e676966?s=fit&h=360&w=360&q=80)

so i did what any real bitch in my shoes would do... i dive in head first... start giving him head...he couldnt take it... he knew it! he kept tryna stop me but.. i kinda just took control until he kinda ran.

then the unexpected: he just took control of evrything.. i stood up, he pushed me back on the bed and pulled me by my leg to the middle of the bed (it was a huge fckn bed) and says "You ready?"

im tryna be all tough and shit so im like: (http://media.riffsy.com/images/f262f307283bb6ac3e432f66debec48a/raw)

BIIIIIIITCCCHHHH big mistake!
he slid in... i didnt give fuck.. i yelled.. i know his neighbors heard me.. at first he was shushing me..but after while he was saying shit like "dont get quiet on me now, I told you i was gon get ya ass back for laughing." "Shit aint funny now huh?" shit like that... im in heaven!he couldnt figure out if he wanted to make slow strokes or fuck like we hated each other.. either way like i said im in HEAVEN..

we switched postilions like 4 or 5 time and he just keeps coming back..im thinking in my head "sooner or later you gon hafta cut this shit out, im getting sleepy! this goes on for like an hour and a half... and i get the feeling that hes tired but feels like he gotta prove something by lasting and fucking for a long time so im just like... "You tired? cuz i am. lol :uhh:" and hes like yeah i actually am.. hes looking like he marched Selma.. sweat is EVERYWHERE... so we finished(figuratively and literally) and i go get back in the shower he asks can he join... im like nigga we way past that stage now, i mean why not conserve water.. i get out first since i got in before him and wait for him to get out... i ask him once he puts his shorts on... (wouldnt put a shirt on) if hes taking me home or should i call an uber..

i aint clingy and i wasnt about to be  just assuming he wanted me to spend the night.. so i was prepared to leave

so hes like.. you dont feel comfortable sleeping here or something and i tell him my resoning

him again: (http://i.makeagif.com/media/6-17-2015/ahJA9v.gif) he literally comes over knocks my stuff out my hand and picks me up and carries me to back to bed. we cuddle for a bit but then he says.. "i dont want you to think im rude but i cant cuddle for the whole night."
im like: (http://gifsec.com/wp-content/uploads/GIF/2014/03/Hallelujah-GIF.gif?gs=a) thank you father!!! i hate that all night cuddling shit.. nigga back up off me so i can take my ass to sleep!!

we go to sleep and like 5hrs later his alarm goes off... he has an appointment to cut somebody's hair... he tells me he only has 2 appointments and that he'll be back in like 2hrs to check on me and see if im ready to leave and to make myself at home... and then he left
yea thats it
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Treasure on September 02, 2016, 02:23:57 AM
Quotewe switched postilions

omf these fanceh words AJ

im damns jealous   :young:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Vonc2002 on September 02, 2016, 02:27:53 AM
I am reading this and HOLLERING :kii:
U need to write books
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Vonc2002 on September 02, 2016, 02:29:52 AM
Quote"You tired? cuz i am. lol :uhh:" and hes like yeah i actually am.. hes looking like he marched Selma..
Im sounding off like a damn alarm
:kii: :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Lane Bryant Jumpsuit on September 02, 2016, 03:05:30 AM
Omfggggg this is amazing

I cant belive this


Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Cartierline on September 02, 2016, 03:39:54 AM
Awwww it's actually really cute how you guys met and developed your relationship.

This sex story too  :flamebroiled: :flamebroiled: :flamebroiled:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: FlowerBomb on September 02, 2016, 04:07:12 AM
Not me going through the pages like a Harry Potter book
:ohwow: :ohwow:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Palladium on September 02, 2016, 04:13:30 AM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on September 02, 2016, 02:27:53 AM
I am reading this and HOLLERING :kii:
U need to write books

!!!!!!

:plzstop:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Gilgamesh. on September 02, 2016, 04:32:27 AM
Quote from: Capricorn King on September 02, 2016, 04:07:12 AM
Not me going through the pages like a Harry Potter book
:ohwow: :ohwow:

not me perched at my desk like
(http://65.media.tumblr.com/3de253ea5490c199e06d0818b5500f2b/tumblr_ocnhhipP2E1tguoxuo1_1280.jpg)
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: FlowerBomb on September 02, 2016, 04:51:58 AM
Kddjjdjddkdkdksms
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: GLOCK on September 02, 2016, 11:06:26 AM
bbbnnnnbnnnnmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: GLOCK on September 02, 2016, 11:06:57 AM
im crying!
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: GLOCK on September 02, 2016, 11:07:06 AM
this was hot as fuck tho!
ack!


Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: GLOCK on September 02, 2016, 11:07:31 AM
whew the last line is so me.

i hate cuddling all night
ch..
i need my space or i will not be able to SLEEP
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: JRocka on September 02, 2016, 11:12:57 AM
yesssss AJ BOOK...happy belated! he genuinely likes you but didn't know how to express himself! kinda reminds me of Wade and Noah :dead:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Zankou. on September 02, 2016, 11:14:20 AM
Quote from: L0NZ. on September 01, 2016, 11:48:11 PM
no the fuck you won't. not after I read all that shit. keep typing

!!!!!!!

I'm PISSED
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: GLOCK on September 02, 2016, 11:14:48 AM
Quote from: Nice Stereo. on September 02, 2016, 11:14:20 AM
Quote from: L0NZ. on September 01, 2016, 11:48:11 PM
no the fuck you won't. not after I read all that shit. keep typing

!!!!!!!

I'm PISSED

fff keep reading
he spills all the beans
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Zankou. on September 02, 2016, 11:16:12 AM
Quote from: TheNextLew on September 02, 2016, 12:43:12 AM
Bayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyybeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

Gettttttt thatt dickkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk

Yasssssssssssssssssssssddsssssssssssssssssssssss









Ssssssssssssssssssssssssssss


This is so epic how organic this happened



I need more details what happend after u pulled up to that fuckin house

(Pauses barbershop3 )

S
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: GRAND on September 02, 2016, 11:17:15 AM
Quote from: AJ on September 01, 2016, 11:34:04 PM

so on the inside im like:(http://i0.kym-cdn.com/entries/icons/original/000/020/001/krabs.jpg)

SSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Zankou. on September 02, 2016, 11:18:32 AM
Quotethis nigga made 4 things of easy mac with Doritos to dip in the mac and cheese

DSSSSSSSSS
AF
A
SD
AS
DAS
C
'AS
C'A
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: LOONA. on September 02, 2016, 11:19:38 AM
Quote from: L0NZ. on September 01, 2016, 11:48:11 PM
no the fuck you won't. not after I read all that shit. keep typing

O fckn K!!!!

Not this cliffhanger. AJ bitch       
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: GRAND on September 02, 2016, 11:20:33 AM
Quote from: Chao on September 02, 2016, 12:17:56 AM
*tryin to figure out a stor' to tell to tops this*
(https://uploadir.com/u/ofgkjca4)
nmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm,
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Zankou. on September 02, 2016, 11:20:39 AM
skip to page 4 drais
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: LOONA. on September 02, 2016, 11:21:05 AM
Quote from: Damnation on September 01, 2016, 11:51:24 PM
Bitch, my strap is ERECT!

Get ur DL trade, hun! :cheerup:

ddjkkkkcccc

What kinda body party       
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: GRAND on September 02, 2016, 11:24:31 AM
Quote from: AJ on September 02, 2016, 02:11:55 AM
not gon lie.. it didnt look big... so im like.. well i cant turn back now..
SSSSSSSSSSSS
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: RatherBe on September 02, 2016, 11:25:04 AM
Quote from: LiBra on September 02, 2016, 11:12:57 AM
yesssss AJ BOOK...happy belated! he genuinely likes you but didn't know how to express himself! kinda reminds me of Wade and Noah :dead:
Yeah.. I didn't wanna compare it to that.. Because I didn't want people to think i was just making the shit up but.. Yea :plzstop: I can see that.
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: JRocka on September 02, 2016, 11:25:10 AM
Quote from: AJ on September 02, 2016, 12:05:07 AM
Quote from: G on September 01, 2016, 11:58:49 PM
Omfg
Ack!
Woooooooo!
I'm so happy for you.
Where are things now?
we had sex one other time since then.. we still hang out, a lot actually but anytime he brings up a relationship.. i kinda stray away from the convo... i dont want him to feel like since we have good sex that we gotta be in a relationship.. i just wanna make sure hes ready and that its not like a forced thing

understandable
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: JRocka on September 02, 2016, 11:25:36 AM
Quote from: AJ on September 02, 2016, 11:25:04 AM
Quote from: LiBra on September 02, 2016, 11:12:57 AM
yesssss AJ BOOK...happy belated! he genuinely likes you but didn't know how to express himself! kinda reminds me of Wade and Noah :dead:
Yeah.. I didn't wanna compare it to that.. Because I didn't want people to think i was just making the shit up but.. Yea :plzstop: I can see that.
was the first time similar :dead: :dead: or did you had to show him the ropes? was he already experience?  :ATLcameo:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Cowboy Nine on September 02, 2016, 11:25:53 AM
I'm crying

The follow up story was kinda...hawts

:flamebroiled:

get it AJ

(http://i60.tinypic.com/2mdkmjm.jpg)
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: GRAND on September 02, 2016, 11:25:54 AM
Quotei mean why not conserve water..

im in tears
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: LOONA. on September 02, 2016, 11:26:01 AM
Quote from: AJ on September 02, 2016, 02:11:55 AM
okay.. so as far as the sex.. (im sorry if this is a lot for one night, im weirdly excited to tell yall)

we pull up at the house...
im still tryna act dumb and innocent so im like "you want me to come in or are you just running in to get something and coming right back out."

he looks at me exactly like: (http://i.makeagif.com/media/6-17-2015/ahJA9v.gif)

so im like okay... fine!
we get in the house and hes like imma cook for you.. so im like damn tuhhnight must be my fckn NIGHT, this nigga knows how to  COOK too?!? i was wet

im sitting in the living room hes in the kitchen, im thinking im about to get some FOOD, 10 mins later he's like "come eat" seo im confused as shit like did he heat up some left overs?

this nigga made 4 things of easy mac with Doritos to dip in the mac and cheese :plzstop:
sooooo im laughing my ass off at this point.. and he like "dont laugh at me... this my special recipe.."
after i continuously laugh hes like "iight keep laughing... imma get you back, dont trip" (https://encrypted-tbn2.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcQzwCbLz9_c8U78vUWMrAzbpaT0wWBJ81Ar9EKeYwIFtf681_TqwPI0hQhb)
so we eat (the shit was actually really good... i just ate it like 5mins ago tbfh, im hooked on it)


so im tryna give him hints that we gotta go to the store so i can make sure im set for the night.. :kii:
so im saying shit like "i really want some snacks!" so he knows we gotta go to the store.. eventually he catches it and we leave out.. get to the store.. and hes like "im gonna go look for -something random- for my house." im like okay.. i already know hes lying because he went in the aisle where the condoms were.. so that was just more confirmation that i wasnt tripping!... so i get the stuff i need and hurry up and check and meet him at the car..

get back home and we start playing playstation (he was surprised i knew how to play) afterwhile i got tired of playing it. (they play that shit all night... idk how) so i told him i was going to shower and asked for a shirt and shorts


this nigga replies under his breath: "you aint gon need it but okay"(http://memesvault.com/wp-content/uploads/Okay-Waka-Flocka-Meme-15.gif)

so i said "what" and hes just laughing.. so i pay it and go to the bathroom... handle my business and shower..
i come out of the bathroom and hes in the bed and he looks sleep so low key im like: (http://i.kinja-img.com/gawker-media/image/upload/u7pso92buenrnxtqduva.gif)

so im just like well fuck it... im just gonna go to sleep... he has this huge bed so i turn off the light and i get in the bed but stay on one side.. as soon as i settled.. he put his leg on me and was like "i know yo ass aint going to sleep." me tryna be cute and innocent im like: "im not?" and he says "stop playing with me, yo" so by this time ive realized that hes completely naked but not hard... so he gets up to turn on the small light..and i see his dick for the first time... not gon lie.. it didnt look big... so im like.. well i cant turn back now.. so hes back at the bed and he starts kissing my neck asking me if i feel comfortable" i tell him yea.. he keeps going

now i look down i SWEAR to yall his dick has gone from 4inches soft to like 9inches and theres a slight curve im like: (http://media.tenor.co/images/d7a55a84c89006fed1d1e39d0934c6e6/raw)
hes looking at me now like: (https://em.wattpad.com/04f4c2c17b81b49a4015d26309b19671f41bf366/687474703a2f2f32352e6d656469612e74756d626c722e636f6d2f74756d626c725f6d326c70333533725a64317271333666396f315f3530302e676966?s=fit&h=360&w=360&q=80)

so i did what any real bitch in my shoes would do... i dive in head first... start giving him head...he couldnt take it... he knew it! he kept tryna stop me but.. i kinda just took control until he kinda ran.

then the unexpected: he just took control of evrything.. i stood up, he pushed me back on the bed and pulled me by my leg to the middle of the bed (it was a huge fckn bed) and says "You ready?"

im tryna be all tough and shit so im like: (http://media.riffsy.com/images/f262f307283bb6ac3e432f66debec48a/raw)

BIIIIIIITCCCHHHH big mistake!
he slid in... i didnt give fuck.. i yelled.. i know his neighbors heard me.. at first he was shushing me..but after while he was saying shit like "dont get quiet on me now, I told you i was gon get ya ass back for laughing." "Shit aint funny now huh?" shit like that... im in heaven!he couldnt figure out if he wanted to make slow strokes or fuck like we hated each other.. either way like i said im in HEAVEN..

we switched postilions like 4 or 5 time and he just keeps coming back..im thinking in my head "sooner or later you gon hafta cut this shit out, im getting sleepy! this goes on for like an hour and a half... and i get the feeling that hes tired but feels like he gotta prove something by lasting and fucking for a long time so im just like... "You tired? cuz i am. lol :uhh:" and hes like yeah i actually am.. hes looking like he marched Selma.. sweat is EVERYWHERE... so we finished(figuratively and literally) and i go get back in the shower he asks can he join... im like nigga we way past that stage now, i mean why not conserve water.. i get out first since i got in before him and wait for him to get out... i ask him once he puts his shorts on... (wouldnt put a shirt on) if hes taking me home or should i call an uber..

i aint clingy and i wasnt about to be  just assuming he wanted me to spend the night.. so i was prepared to leave

so hes like.. you dont feel comfortable sleeping here or something and i tell him my resoning

him again: (http://i.makeagif.com/media/6-17-2015/ahJA9v.gif) he literally comes over knocks my stuff out my hand and picks me up and carries me to back to bed. we cuddle for a bit but then he says.. "i dont want you to think im rude but i cant cuddle for the whole night."
im like: (http://gifsec.com/wp-content/uploads/GIF/2014/03/Hallelujah-GIF.gif?gs=a) thank you father!!! i hate that all night cuddling shit.. nigga back up off me so i can take my ass to sleep!!

we go to sleep and like 5hrs later his alarm goes off... he has an appointment to cut somebody's hair... he tells me he only has 2 appointments and that he'll be back in like 2hrs to check on me and see if im ready to leave and to make myself at home... and then he left
yea thats it

Ommmmmmmm

Yes get the peen sis!!!

:gorlonfire: :gorlonfire: :gorlonfire: :gorlonfire:

I'm so happy for you

Hope it works out for ya       
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: GRAND on September 02, 2016, 11:28:10 AM
that was adorable
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: LOONA. on September 02, 2016, 11:28:22 AM
Quote from: AJ on September 02, 2016, 12:05:07 AM
Quote from: G on September 01, 2016, 11:58:49 PM
Omfg
Ack!
Woooooooo!
I'm so happy for you.
Where are things now?
we had sex one other time since then.. we still hang out, a lot actually but anytime he brings up a relationship.. i kinda stray away from the convo... i dont want him to feel like since we have good sex that we gotta be in a relationship.. i just wanna make sure hes ready and that its not like a forced thing

Don't keep him waiting too long. He might punch on to the next if he feels like it aint going nowhere foreal.       
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: JRocka on September 02, 2016, 11:30:50 AM
Quote from: Drais. on September 02, 2016, 11:26:01 AM
Quote from: AJ on September 02, 2016, 02:11:55 AM
okay.. so as far as the sex.. (im sorry if this is a lot for one night, im weirdly excited to tell yall)

we pull up at the house...
im still tryna act dumb and innocent so im like "you want me to come in or are you just running in to get something and coming right back out."

he looks at me exactly like: (http://i.makeagif.com/media/6-17-2015/ahJA9v.gif)

so im like okay... fine!
we get in the house and hes like imma cook for you.. so im like damn tuhhnight must be my fckn NIGHT, this nigga knows how to  COOK too?!? i was wet

im sitting in the living room hes in the kitchen, im thinking im about to get some FOOD, 10 mins later he's like "come eat" seo im confused as shit like did he heat up some left overs?

this nigga made 4 things of easy mac with Doritos to dip in the mac and cheese :plzstop:
sooooo im laughing my ass off at this point.. and he like "dont laugh at me... this my special recipe.."
after i continuously laugh hes like "iight keep laughing... imma get you back, dont trip" (https://encrypted-tbn2.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcQzwCbLz9_c8U78vUWMrAzbpaT0wWBJ81Ar9EKeYwIFtf681_TqwPI0hQhb)
so we eat (the shit was actually really good... i just ate it like 5mins ago tbfh, im hooked on it)


so im tryna give him hints that we gotta go to the store so i can make sure im set for the night.. :kii:
so im saying shit like "i really want some snacks!" so he knows we gotta go to the store.. eventually he catches it and we leave out.. get to the store.. and hes like "im gonna go look for -something random- for my house." im like okay.. i already know hes lying because he went in the aisle where the condoms were.. so that was just more confirmation that i wasnt tripping!... so i get the stuff i need and hurry up and check and meet him at the car..

get back home and we start playing playstation (he was surprised i knew how to play) afterwhile i got tired of playing it. (they play that shit all night... idk how) so i told him i was going to shower and asked for a shirt and shorts


this nigga replies under his breath: "you aint gon need it but okay"(http://memesvault.com/wp-content/uploads/Okay-Waka-Flocka-Meme-15.gif)

so i said "what" and hes just laughing.. so i pay it and go to the bathroom... handle my business and shower..
i come out of the bathroom and hes in the bed and he looks sleep so low key im like: (http://i.kinja-img.com/gawker-media/image/upload/u7pso92buenrnxtqduva.gif)

so im just like well fuck it... im just gonna go to sleep... he has this huge bed so i turn off the light and i get in the bed but stay on one side.. as soon as i settled.. he put his leg on me and was like "i know yo ass aint going to sleep." me tryna be cute and innocent im like: "im not?" and he says "stop playing with me, yo" so by this time ive realized that hes completely naked but not hard... so he gets up to turn on the small light..and i see his dick for the first time... not gon lie.. it didnt look big... so im like.. well i cant turn back now.. so hes back at the bed and he starts kissing my neck asking me if i feel comfortable" i tell him yea.. he keeps going

now i look down i SWEAR to yall his dick has gone from 4inches soft to like 9inches and theres a slight curve im like: (http://media.tenor.co/images/d7a55a84c89006fed1d1e39d0934c6e6/raw)
hes looking at me now like: (https://em.wattpad.com/04f4c2c17b81b49a4015d26309b19671f41bf366/687474703a2f2f32352e6d656469612e74756d626c722e636f6d2f74756d626c725f6d326c70333533725a64317271333666396f315f3530302e676966?s=fit&h=360&w=360&q=80)

so i did what any real bitch in my shoes would do... i dive in head first... start giving him head...he couldnt take it... he knew it! he kept tryna stop me but.. i kinda just took control until he kinda ran.

then the unexpected: he just took control of evrything.. i stood up, he pushed me back on the bed and pulled me by my leg to the middle of the bed (it was a huge fckn bed) and says "You ready?"

im tryna be all tough and shit so im like: (http://media.riffsy.com/images/f262f307283bb6ac3e432f66debec48a/raw)

BIIIIIIITCCCHHHH big mistake!
he slid in... i didnt give fuck.. i yelled.. i know his neighbors heard me.. at first he was shushing me..but after while he was saying shit like "dont get quiet on me now, I told you i was gon get ya ass back for laughing." "Shit aint funny now huh?" shit like that... im in heaven!he couldnt figure out if he wanted to make slow strokes or fuck like we hated each other.. either way like i said im in HEAVEN..

we switched postilions like 4 or 5 time and he just keeps coming back..im thinking in my head "sooner or later you gon hafta cut this shit out, im getting sleepy! this goes on for like an hour and a half... and i get the feeling that hes tired but feels like he gotta prove something by lasting and fucking for a long time so im just like... "You tired? cuz i am. lol :uhh:" and hes like yeah i actually am.. hes looking like he marched Selma.. sweat is EVERYWHERE... so we finished(figuratively and literally) and i go get back in the shower he asks can he join... im like nigga we way past that stage now, i mean why not conserve water.. i get out first since i got in before him and wait for him to get out... i ask him once he puts his shorts on... (wouldnt put a shirt on) if hes taking me home or should i call an uber..

i aint clingy and i wasnt about to be  just assuming he wanted me to spend the night.. so i was prepared to leave

so hes like.. you dont feel comfortable sleeping here or something and i tell him my resoning

him again: (http://i.makeagif.com/media/6-17-2015/ahJA9v.gif) he literally comes over knocks my stuff out my hand and picks me up and carries me to back to bed. we cuddle for a bit but then he says.. "i dont want you to think im rude but i cant cuddle for the whole night."
im like: (http://gifsec.com/wp-content/uploads/GIF/2014/03/Hallelujah-GIF.gif?gs=a) thank you father!!! i hate that all night cuddling shit.. nigga back up off me so i can take my ass to sleep!!

we go to sleep and like 5hrs later his alarm goes off... he has an appointment to cut somebody's hair... he tells me he only has 2 appointments and that he'll be back in like 2hrs to check on me and see if im ready to leave and to make myself at home... and then he left
yea thats it

Ommmmmmmm

Yes get the peen sis!!!

:gorlonfire: :gorlonfire: :gorlonfire: :gorlonfire:

I'm so happy for you

Hope it works out for ya       

yassssssss this is fucking hot
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Zankou. on September 02, 2016, 11:33:29 AM
I think AJ is my new favorite member

this story was so detailed whew!
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: RatherBe on September 02, 2016, 11:36:46 AM
Quote from: LiBra on September 02, 2016, 11:25:36 AM
Quote from: AJ on September 02, 2016, 11:25:04 AM
Quote from: LiBra on September 02, 2016, 11:12:57 AM
yesssss AJ BOOK...happy belated! he genuinely likes you but didn't know how to express himself! kinda reminds me of Wade and Noah :dead:
Yeah.. I didn't wanna compare it to that.. Because I didn't want people to think i was just making the shit up but.. Yea :plzstop: I can see that.
was the first time similar :dead: :dead: or did you had to show him the ropes? was he already experience?  :ATLcameo:

Definitely wasn't out of his element!! :plzstop:.. I mean at first he started timid.. But I think we both were just kinda nervous...

But when he got comfortable... Bitch.. He turned into a gotdamn aggressive beast out of a cage for the first time in months.. But he was still gentle at some points.. It's hard to kinda explain
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: LOONA. on September 02, 2016, 11:39:04 AM
Whew

I'm so hots right now

:heyddy:       

Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Zankou. on September 02, 2016, 11:39:52 AM
so are you two bfs now?
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Harlem on September 02, 2016, 11:43:15 AM
Quote from: Nice Stereo. on September 02, 2016, 11:33:29 AM
I think AJ is my new favorite member

this story was so detailed whew!

!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: RatherBe on September 02, 2016, 11:44:09 AM
Quote from: Drais. on September 02, 2016, 11:28:22 AM
Quote from: AJ on September 02, 2016, 12:05:07 AM
Quote from: G on September 01, 2016, 11:58:49 PM
Omfg
Ack!
Woooooooo!
I'm so happy for you.
Where are things now?
we had sex one other time since then.. we still hang out, a lot actually but anytime he brings up a relationship.. i kinda stray away from the convo... i dont want him to feel like since we have good sex that we gotta be in a relationship.. i just wanna make sure hes ready and that its not like a forced thing

Don't keep him waiting too long. He might punch on to the next if he feels like it aint going nowhere foreal.       

I mean because I'm starting to care about him ALOT..I just wanna make sure that I'm not unintentionally pressuring him.. I would never forgive myself..

I think it's just not confirmed honestly.. I have the password to his phone.. one day he literally left his phone in my car.. I had it for half of the day.. And I went ALL thru that bitch.. Lurk game was on 1000+ that day!!  :kii: he called me from his co worker phone and was telling me to text his clients from his phones to confirm their times for appointments.. So i saw all the messages that came in and all the threads  :dead: he was in no hurry to get his phone back 😩
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Vonc2002 on September 02, 2016, 11:46:20 AM
Quote from: AJ on September 02, 2016, 11:44:09 AM
Quote from: Drais. on September 02, 2016, 11:28:22 AM
Quote from: AJ on September 02, 2016, 12:05:07 AM
Quote from: G on September 01, 2016, 11:58:49 PM
Omfg
Ack!
Woooooooo!
I'm so happy for you.
Where are things now?
we had sex one other time since then.. we still hang out, a lot actually but anytime he brings up a relationship.. i kinda stray away from the convo... i dont want him to feel like since we have good sex that we gotta be in a relationship.. i just wanna make sure hes ready and that its not like a forced thing

Don't keep him waiting too long. He might punch on to the next if he feels like it aint going nowhere foreal.       

I mean because I'm starting to care about him ALOT..I just wanna make sure that I'm not unintentionally pressuring him.. I would never forgive myself..

I think it's just not confirmed honestly.. I have the password to his phone.. one day he literally left his phone in my car.. I had it for half of the day.. And I went ALL thru that bitch.. Lurk game was on 1000+ that day!!  :kii: he called me from his co worker phone and was telling me to text his clients from his phones to confirm their times for appointments.. So i saw all the messages that came in and all the threads  :dead: he was in no hurry to get his phone back 😩
oh he loves u, cause CH!
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: RatherBe on September 02, 2016, 11:51:58 AM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on September 02, 2016, 11:46:20 AM
Quote from: AJ on September 02, 2016, 11:44:09 AM
Quote from: Drais. on September 02, 2016, 11:28:22 AM
Quote from: AJ on September 02, 2016, 12:05:07 AM
Quote from: G on September 01, 2016, 11:58:49 PM
Omfg
Ack!
Woooooooo!
I'm so happy for you.
Where are things now?
we had sex one other time since then.. we still hang out, a lot actually but anytime he brings up a relationship.. i kinda stray away from the convo... i dont want him to feel like since we have good sex that we gotta be in a relationship.. i just wanna make sure hes ready and that its not like a forced thing

Don't keep him waiting too long. He might punch on to the next if he feels like it aint going nowhere foreal.       

I mean because I'm starting to care about him ALOT..I just wanna make sure that I'm not unintentionally pressuring him.. I would never forgive myself..

I think it's just not confirmed honestly.. I have the password to his phone.. one day he literally left his phone in my car.. I had it for half of the day.. And I went ALL thru that bitch.. Lurk game was on 1000+ that day!!  :kii: he called me from his co worker phone and was telling me to text his clients from his phones to confirm their times for appointments.. So i saw all the messages that came in and all the threads  :dead: he was in no hurry to get his phone back 😩
oh he loves u, cause CH!
:plzstop: yeah I was like I'll just bring it back he was like.. Well if you're on the other side of town.. Just hold on to it... If you don't mind playing receptionist for a little bit...

I was like say the fuck no more.. I tore the fucking phone APART! Went thru EVERYFCKNTHING nnnnnnnnn
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Zankou. on September 02, 2016, 11:52:32 AM
Quote from: AJ on September 02, 2016, 11:44:09 AM
Quote from: Drais. on September 02, 2016, 11:28:22 AM
Quote from: AJ on September 02, 2016, 12:05:07 AM
Quote from: G on September 01, 2016, 11:58:49 PM
Omfg
Ack!
Woooooooo!
I'm so happy for you.
Where are things now?
we had sex one other time since then.. we still hang out, a lot actually but anytime he brings up a relationship.. i kinda stray away from the convo... i dont want him to feel like since we have good sex that we gotta be in a relationship.. i just wanna make sure hes ready and that its not like a forced thing

Don't keep him waiting too long. He might punch on to the next if he feels like it aint going nowhere foreal.       

I mean because I'm starting to care about him ALOT..I just wanna make sure that I'm not unintentionally pressuring him.. I would never forgive myself..

I think it's just not confirmed honestly.. I have the password to his phone.. one day he literally left his phone in my car.. I had it for half of the day.. And I went ALL thru that bitch.. Lurk game was on 1000+ that day!!  :kii: he called me from his co worker phone and was telling me to text his clients from his phones to confirm their times for appointments.. So i saw all the messages that came in and all the threads  :dead: he was in no hurry to get his phone back 😩

yeah you guys are gonna get married
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: JRocka on September 02, 2016, 11:52:50 AM
Quote from: AJ on September 02, 2016, 11:36:46 AM
Quote from: LiBra on September 02, 2016, 11:25:36 AM
Quote from: AJ on September 02, 2016, 11:25:04 AM
Quote from: LiBra on September 02, 2016, 11:12:57 AM
yesssss AJ BOOK...happy belated! he genuinely likes you but didn't know how to express himself! kinda reminds me of Wade and Noah :dead:
Yeah.. I didn't wanna compare it to that.. Because I didn't want people to think i was just making the shit up but.. Yea :plzstop: I can see that.
was the first time similar :dead: :dead: or did you had to show him the ropes? was he already experience?  :ATLcameo:

Definitely wasn't out of his element!! :plzstop:.. I mean at first he started timid.. But I think we both were just kinda nervous...

But when he got comfortable... Bitch.. He turned into a gotdamn aggressive beast out of a cage for the first time in months.. But he was still gentle at some points.. It's hard to kinda explain

yessssssss.....i think you guys will turn out to be a hot couple  :howfestive:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Cartierline on September 02, 2016, 11:54:09 AM
If he's letting you go through his phone completely unrestricted then it's kinda official hun :flamebroiled:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: LOONA. on September 02, 2016, 11:56:24 AM
Quote from: AJ on September 02, 2016, 11:44:09 AM
Quote from: Drais. on September 02, 2016, 11:28:22 AM
Quote from: AJ on September 02, 2016, 12:05:07 AM
Quote from: G on September 01, 2016, 11:58:49 PM
Omfg
Ack!
Woooooooo!
I'm so happy for you.
Where are things now?
we had sex one other time since then.. we still hang out, a lot actually but anytime he brings up a relationship.. i kinda stray away from the convo... i dont want him to feel like since we have good sex that we gotta be in a relationship.. i just wanna make sure hes ready and that its not like a forced thing

Don't keep him waiting too long. He might punch on to the next if he feels like it aint going nowhere foreal.       

I mean because I'm starting to care about him ALOT..I just wanna make sure that I'm not unintentionally pressuring him.. I would never forgive myself..

I think it's just not confirmed honestly.. I have the password to his phone.. one day he literally left his phone in my car.. I had it for half of the day.. And I went ALL thru that bitch.. Lurk game was on 1000+ that day!!  :kii: he called me from his co worker phone and was telling me to text his clients from his phones to confirm their times for appointments.. So i saw all the messages that came in and all the threads  :dead: he was in no hurry to get his phone back 😩

Aw that's so cute.

You definitely need to sit him and have a talk to confirm what y'all are doing.       

Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: leftout on September 02, 2016, 11:57:34 AM
This is so sweet :stressed: what does he look like?
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: GLOCK on September 02, 2016, 12:02:39 PM
YEAH what does he give bruv
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: yummy on September 02, 2016, 12:24:11 PM
Quotethis nigga made 4 things of easy mac with Doritos to dip in the mac and cheese

q

:uhh:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: yummy on September 02, 2016, 12:24:43 PM
but wow get that dick  :whatgunofficer:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Cartierline on September 02, 2016, 12:24:59 PM
Quote from: ANIMMAI on September 02, 2016, 12:24:11 PM
Quotethis nigga made 4 things of easy mac with Doritos to dip in the mac and cheese

q

:uhh:
vvvvvv


can't say he's not resourceful lolz :justabit:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Aalonso. on September 02, 2016, 12:28:09 PM
Quote from: Cartier on September 02, 2016, 11:54:09 AM
If he's letting you go through his phone completely unrestricted then it's kinda official hun :flamebroiled:


fff that or the complete opposite.
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Zankou. on September 02, 2016, 12:29:41 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on September 02, 2016, 12:28:09 PM
Quote from: Cartier on September 02, 2016, 11:54:09 AM
If he's letting you go through his phone completely unrestricted then it's kinda official hun :flamebroiled:


fff that or the complete opposite.

knjhbnhk
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Aalonso. on September 02, 2016, 12:29:43 PM
Quote from: ANIMMAI on September 02, 2016, 12:24:11 PM
Quotethis nigga made 4 things of easy mac with Doritos to dip in the mac and cheese

q

:uhh:

don't hate cuz sis messing with a real trade. that's some nigga shit.
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Glenda on September 02, 2016, 12:34:22 PM
Wait sis, because I am sifting through these pages like there's a link to "Perfect Illusion" in hea.  :ohwow: :ohwow:

This story was HOT! Yaaassssss boo!
I'm happy for you and jealous af at the same time.  :ohwow: :flamebroiled: :flamebroiled: :flamebroiled:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Aalonso. on September 02, 2016, 12:35:50 PM
sis he's picking you up like sleeping beauty and pulling you across the bed very whichaway are you a small person
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: JRocka on September 02, 2016, 12:37:53 PM
Quote from: AJ on September 02, 2016, 11:44:09 AM
Quote from: Drais. on September 02, 2016, 11:28:22 AM
Quote from: AJ on September 02, 2016, 12:05:07 AM
Quote from: G on September 01, 2016, 11:58:49 PM
Omfg
Ack!
Woooooooo!
I'm so happy for you.
Where are things now?
we had sex one other time since then.. we still hang out, a lot actually but anytime he brings up a relationship.. i kinda stray away from the convo... i dont want him to feel like since we have good sex that we gotta be in a relationship.. i just wanna make sure hes ready and that its not like a forced thing

Don't keep him waiting too long. He might punch on to the next if he feels like it aint going nowhere foreal.       

I mean because I'm starting to care about him ALOT..I just wanna make sure that I'm not unintentionally pressuring him.. I would never forgive myself..

I think it's just not confirmed honestly.. I have the password to his phone.. one day he literally left his phone in my car.. I had it for half of the day.. And I went ALL thru that bitch.. Lurk game was on 1000+ that day!!  :kii: he called me from his co worker phone and was telling me to text his clients from his phones to confirm their times for appointments.. So i saw all the messages that came in and all the threads  :dead: he was in no hurry to get his phone back 😩

if this ain't confirmation what he wants to be with you i don't what to say...u literally have the password to the phone and he trust you with business clients as well  :receipts:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Aalonso. on September 02, 2016, 12:37:58 PM
and not you buying a fleet in self checkout and zooming out the store so he can't see what you got. like your coot was Aquafina already
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: FlowerBomb on September 02, 2016, 12:39:25 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on September 02, 2016, 12:37:58 PM
like your coot was Aquafina already
cant breathe
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: GLOCK on September 02, 2016, 12:45:21 PM
Quote from: Capricorn King on September 02, 2016, 12:39:25 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on September 02, 2016, 12:37:58 PM
like your coot was Aquafina already
cant breathe
WTFFFFFFFFFFFFF
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: FlowerBomb on September 02, 2016, 12:46:55 PM
Jjjjjjju
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Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Glenda on September 02, 2016, 12:47:56 PM
 :kii:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: FlowerBomb on September 02, 2016, 12:49:00 PM
It used to be to hard buy fleet though
Now idgaf
Sometimes I even slam the shit on the counter with a proud smile
'ha I'm paying with cash!'
:popeyes:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: GLOCK on September 02, 2016, 12:49:43 PM
Quote from: Capricorn King on September 02, 2016, 12:49:00 PM
It used to be to hard buy fleet though
Now idgaf
Sometimes I even slam the shit on the counter with a proud smile
'ha I'm paying with cash!'
:popeyes:
:kii: :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: RatherBe on September 02, 2016, 01:01:23 PM
Ddddd y'all make my damn day!
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Glenda on September 02, 2016, 01:05:18 PM
Bit I need to take notes.  :supluv:

The way u were able to play it cool the whole damn time.  :ohwow:

The texting part is where I would have fucked up. Like, really nigga we gon text throughout the whole movie??  :uhh:

:plzstop:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: RatherBe on September 02, 2016, 01:08:31 PM
Quote from: G on September 02, 2016, 12:02:39 PM
YEAH what does he give bruv
Idk who he really looks like but he's like Carmel skin kinda athletic.. You can tell he use to be real fit for sports but now he just kinda works out periodically.. That kinda body he's like 6 ft and his hair cut is like Bryson Tillers if that helps.
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: JRocka on September 02, 2016, 01:10:36 PM
Quote from: Glenda on September 02, 2016, 01:05:18 PM
Bit I need to take notes.  :supluv:

The way u were able to play it cool the whole damn time.  :ohwow:

The texting part is where I would have fucked up. Like, really nigga we gon text throughout the whole movie??  :uhh:

:plzstop:

the texting thru the movies was so cute
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: RatherBe on September 02, 2016, 01:11:01 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on September 02, 2016, 12:35:50 PM
sis he's picking you up like sleeping beauty and pulling you across the bed very whichaway are you a small person
5'9
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Young on September 02, 2016, 01:11:42 PM
s

I barely fleet....isn't it unsafe for your immune system?
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: JRocka on September 02, 2016, 01:12:18 PM
 :mmyulost:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: RatherBe on September 02, 2016, 01:14:31 PM
I mean.. I don't usually have too but seeing as this was our first time and i didn't know how much or what he knew, I wasn't taking the risk
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Young on September 02, 2016, 01:15:06 PM
No I hear you; makes sense
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: JRocka on September 02, 2016, 01:15:15 PM
Quote from: AJ on September 02, 2016, 01:14:31 PM
I mean.. I don't usually have too but seeing as this was our first time and u didn't know how much or what he knew, I wasn't taking the risk

i agree luv
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Young on September 02, 2016, 01:15:44 PM
I was just saying I hope gorls aren't fleeting every damn week
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: JRocka on September 02, 2016, 01:17:01 PM
every damn week??? :dead: that's kinda unhealthy
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Aalonso. on September 02, 2016, 01:17:36 PM
girls who don't fleet before sex may not shit on dudes, but they leave a doo doo film.
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: GLOCK on September 02, 2016, 01:17:48 PM
Quote from: AJ on September 02, 2016, 01:08:31 PM
Quote from: G on September 02, 2016, 12:02:39 PM
YEAH what does he give bruv
Idk who he really looks like but he's like Carmel skin kinda athletic.. You can tell he use to be real fit for sports but now he just kinda works out periodically.. That kinda body he's like 6 ft and his hair cut is like Bryson Tillers if that helps.
:ohwow:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: GLOCK on September 02, 2016, 01:18:22 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on September 02, 2016, 01:17:36 PM
a doo doo film.
What in the Spielberg fuck?
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: FlowerBomb on September 02, 2016, 01:24:31 PM
Quote from: G on September 02, 2016, 01:18:22 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on September 02, 2016, 01:17:36 PM
a doo doo film.
What in the Spielbeg fuck?
im in pain
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Aalonso. on September 02, 2016, 01:26:42 PM
Quote from: Capricorn King on September 02, 2016, 01:24:31 PM
Quote from: G on September 02, 2016, 01:18:22 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on September 02, 2016, 01:17:36 PM
a doo doo film.
What in the Spielbeg fuck?
im in pain

a light coating
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: FlowerBomb on September 02, 2016, 01:27:10 PM
BYE
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: RatherBe on September 02, 2016, 01:28:06 PM
You guys really got me thinking tho.. I don't wanna wait too long...


My mom always has said.. Don't get in a relationship before your first argument.. And that the first argument will tell you a lot about the person and the potential relationship
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Zankou. on September 02, 2016, 01:28:18 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on September 02, 2016, 01:17:36 PM
girls who don't fleet before sex may not shot on dudes, but they leave a doo doo film.

this 'Talk Sex with Sue Johanson' analysis :kii:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: FlowerBomb on September 02, 2016, 01:29:05 PM
Who posted they fleeted with hot ass water and almost made chitlins?
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: GLOCK on September 02, 2016, 01:29:32 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on September 02, 2016, 01:26:42 PM
Quote from: Capricorn King on September 02, 2016, 01:24:31 PM
Quote from: G on September 02, 2016, 01:18:22 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on September 02, 2016, 01:17:36 PM
a doo doo film.
What in the Spielbeg fuck?
im in pain

a light coating
Is it paint?
:omgwatshappening:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Zankou. on September 02, 2016, 01:29:38 PM
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Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: GLOCK on September 02, 2016, 01:30:05 PM
Quote from: AJ on September 02, 2016, 01:28:06 PM
You guys really got me thinking tho.. I don't wanna wait too long...


My mom always has said.. Don't get in a relationship before your first argument.. And that the first argument will tell you a lot about the person and the potential relationship
damnnnnn
That's some real shit
Omf
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Aalonso. on September 02, 2016, 01:30:24 PM
Quote from: G on September 02, 2016, 01:29:32 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on September 02, 2016, 01:26:42 PM
Quote from: Capricorn King on September 02, 2016, 01:24:31 PM
Quote from: G on September 02, 2016, 01:18:22 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on September 02, 2016, 01:17:36 PM
a doo doo film.
What in the Spielbeg fuck?
im in pain

a light coating
Is it paint?
:omgwatshappening:

that's one way of putting
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: RatherBe on September 02, 2016, 01:30:26 PM
Quote from: Capricorn King on September 02, 2016, 01:29:05 PM
Who posted they fleeted with hot ass water and almost made chitlins?
this guy named @Nerdonic on Twitter
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: FlowerBomb on September 02, 2016, 01:30:43 PM
Quote from: G on September 02, 2016, 01:30:05 PM
Quote from: AJ on September 02, 2016, 01:28:06 PM
You guys really got me thinking tho.. I don't wanna wait too long...


My mom always has said.. Don't get in a relationship before your first argument.. And that the first argument will tell you a lot about the person and the potential relationship
damnnnnn
That's some real shit
Omf
!!!!!!!!!!
This is truth coz
:plzstop:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Kurama on September 02, 2016, 01:31:43 PM
This was really fuckin adorable
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Aalonso. on September 02, 2016, 01:31:47 PM
Quote from: AJ on September 02, 2016, 01:30:26 PM
Quote from: Capricorn King on September 02, 2016, 01:29:05 PM
Who posted they fleeted with hot ass water and almost made chitlins?
this guy named @Nerdonic on Twitter

omfggggggggh I remember that. It's still fuckin funny. currently crine
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: FlowerBomb on September 02, 2016, 01:33:02 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on September 02, 2016, 01:31:47 PM
Quote from: AJ on September 02, 2016, 01:30:26 PM
Quote from: Capricorn King on September 02, 2016, 01:29:05 PM
Who posted they fleeted with hot ass water and almost made chitlins?
this guy named @Nerdonic on Twitter

omfggggggggh I remember that. It's still fuckin funny. currently crine
!!!!!!!!!
Coz it really BOILS up in there
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Zankou. on September 02, 2016, 01:34:08 PM
Quote from: Kurama on September 02, 2016, 01:31:43 PM
This was really fuckin adorable

did you read the rest?

:omgwatshappening:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Cartierline on September 02, 2016, 01:38:34 PM
why the FUCK would you fleet with boiling water? :omgwatshappening:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: RatherBe on September 02, 2016, 01:40:01 PM
Quote from: Cartier on September 02, 2016, 01:38:34 PM
why the FUCK would you fleet with boiling water? :omgwatshappening:
yeah cnt relate :kii:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: FlowerBomb on September 02, 2016, 01:40:13 PM
Well II thought it would feel better than cold water
Dunno what he thought
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: RatherBe on September 02, 2016, 02:07:08 PM
Well yeah.. I gotta give my props to Glock..

This shit wouldn't have gone down if it wasn't for him.. Swear!
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Glenda on September 02, 2016, 02:15:08 PM
So what's his situation? Is he still in the 'set, or?

:omgwatshappening:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: GLOCK on September 02, 2016, 02:15:59 PM
Quote from: AJ on September 02, 2016, 02:07:08 PM
Well yeah.. I gotta give my props to Glock..

This shit wouldn't have gone down if it wasn't for him.. Swear!
:'(

U know I got u bby Bruv
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: JRocka on September 02, 2016, 02:16:41 PM
Quote from: Capricorn King on September 02, 2016, 01:29:05 PM
Who posted they fleeted with hot ass water and almost made chitlins?

:plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Buy The Stars✨ on September 02, 2016, 02:35:44 PM
ThAt is awesome !!

So question .. Why would he be afraid to hang out with you in public at the movies ? Are you very flamboyant ? Are yall dating now or Just friends with benefits ? Sorry if you answered this but this thread is too long lol
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Cowgirl on September 02, 2016, 02:42:09 PM
 :ohwow:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: RatherBe on September 02, 2016, 03:15:16 PM
Quote from: TEXASbama on September 02, 2016, 02:35:44 PM
ThAt is awesome !!

So question .. Why would he be afraid to hang out with you in public at the movies ? Are you very flamboyant ? Are yall dating now or Just friends with benefits ? Sorry if you answered this but this thread is too long lol
I don't think I'm flamboyant I'm not hiding anything tho..

He's actually not afraid at all.. He doesn't care.. I'm always the one giving an " :uhh: you sure?" mess

But yea he's pretty protective actually.. Not ashamed at all
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: RatherBe on September 02, 2016, 03:17:23 PM
Quote from: Glenda on September 02, 2016, 02:15:08 PM
So what's his situation? Is he still in the 'set, or?

:omgwatshappening:
I don't think I get what you're asking lol
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: b7 on September 02, 2016, 03:23:02 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on September 02, 2016, 12:35:50 PM
sis he's picking you up like sleeping beauty and pulling you across the bed very whichaway are you a small person
sssddfsddd stfu
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Glenda on September 02, 2016, 03:33:52 PM
Quote from: AJ on September 02, 2016, 03:17:23 PM
Quote from: Glenda on September 02, 2016, 02:15:08 PM
So what's his situation? Is he still in the 'set, or?

:omgwatshappening:
I don't think I get what you're asking lol

DDdDdd

First:

Is he out of the closet?

Second:

Have you guys talked about his situation and what he's going through, what he's looking for and vice versa?

:howfestive: :sobusyjetsetter:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Pearls Khan on September 02, 2016, 03:58:12 PM
Quote from: Capricorn King on September 02, 2016, 12:49:00 PM
It used to be to hard buy fleet though
Now idgaf
Sometimes I even slam the shit on the counter with a proud smile
'ha I'm paying with cash!'
:popeyes:

Shnbbbrhhdhddhdjdjkskznxnnxgthhhfs

What on earth
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: RatherBe on September 02, 2016, 03:58:32 PM
Quote from: Glenda on September 02, 2016, 03:33:52 PM
Quote from: AJ on September 02, 2016, 03:17:23 PM
Quote from: Glenda on September 02, 2016, 02:15:08 PM
So what's his situation? Is he still in the 'set, or?

:omgwatshappening:
I don't think I get what you're asking lol

DDdDdd

First:

Is he out of the closet?

Second:

Have you guys talked about his situation and what he's going through, what he's looking for and vice versa?

:howfestive: :sobusyjetsetter:
Ohhhh gotcha.. I wouldn't say he's out.. He's not going around telling people he likes e and we slept together.. They still think he's straight..

He tries to talk about some stuff with me but a lot of times I shy away from it because I don't want him to feel pressured because we're having sex..

I'm gonna stop doing that..
He just says he really likes me and he's mentioned a relationship a couple of times
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Treasure on September 02, 2016, 04:02:30 PM
an' man who fckin pick u up is a keeper!


n yea i luv tht u guys didnt rush into a r'lationship
tha journey to one >> :supluv:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Glenda on September 02, 2016, 04:09:14 PM
Quote from: AJ on September 02, 2016, 03:58:32 PM
Quote from: Glenda on September 02, 2016, 03:33:52 PM
Quote from: AJ on September 02, 2016, 03:17:23 PM
Quote from: Glenda on September 02, 2016, 02:15:08 PM
So what's his situation? Is he still in the 'set, or?

:omgwatshappening:
I don't think I get what you're asking lol

DDdDdd

First:

Is he out of the closet?

Second:

Have you guys talked about his situation and what he's going through, what he's looking for and vice versa?

:howfestive: :sobusyjetsetter:
Ohhhh gotcha.. I wouldn't say he's out.. He's not going around telling people he likes e and we slept together.. They still think he's straight..

He tries to talk about some stuff with me but a lot of times I shy away from it because I don't want him to feel pressured because we're having sex..

I'm gonna stop doing that..
He just says he really likes me and he's mentioned a relationship a couple of times

Hmmm....

Keep us updated, sis.  :howfestive: :sobusyjetsetter:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: LOONA. on September 02, 2016, 04:09:18 PM
Quote from: Cartier on September 02, 2016, 01:38:34 PM
why the FUCK would you fleet with boiling water? :omgwatshappening:

fffkkkggggggggggffffff       
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: b7 on September 02, 2016, 04:12:00 PM
Quote from: AJ on September 02, 2016, 03:58:32 PM
Quote from: Glenda on September 02, 2016, 03:33:52 PM
Quote from: AJ on September 02, 2016, 03:17:23 PM
Quote from: Glenda on September 02, 2016, 02:15:08 PM
So what's his situation? Is he still in the 'set, or?

:omgwatshappening:
I don't think I get what you're asking lol

DDdDdd

First:

Is he out of the closet?

Second:

Have you guys talked about his situation and what he's going through, what he's looking for and vice versa?

:howfestive: :sobusyjetsetter:
Ohhhh gotcha.. I wouldn't say he's out.. He's not going around telling people he likes e and we slept together.. They still think he's straight..

He tries to talk about some stuff with me but a lot of times I shy away from it because I don't want him to feel pressured because we're having sex..

I'm gonna stop doing that..
He just says he really likes me and he's mentioned a relationship a couple of times
if you shy away from these real conversations, you'll never truly get to know him and be able to make a sound
decision about it all. give ur self a chance to make an informed choice either way
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Glenda on September 02, 2016, 04:16:24 PM
Quote from: Rig's on September 02, 2016, 04:12:00 PM
Quote from: AJ on September 02, 2016, 03:58:32 PM
Quote from: Glenda on September 02, 2016, 03:33:52 PM
Quote from: AJ on September 02, 2016, 03:17:23 PM
Quote from: Glenda on September 02, 2016, 02:15:08 PM
So what's his situation? Is he still in the 'set, or?

:omgwatshappening:
I don't think I get what you're asking lol

DDdDdd

First:

Is he out of the closet?

Second:

Have you guys talked about his situation and what he's going through, what he's looking for and vice versa?

:howfestive: :sobusyjetsetter:
Ohhhh gotcha.. I wouldn't say he's out.. He's not going around telling people he likes e and we slept together.. They still think he's straight..

He tries to talk about some stuff with me but a lot of times I shy away from it because I don't want him to feel pressured because we're having sex..

I'm gonna stop doing that..
He just says he really likes me and he's mentioned a relationship a couple of times
if you shy away from these real conversations, you'll never truly get to know him and be able to make a sound
decision about it all. give ur self a chance to make an informed choice either way

!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: RatherBe on September 02, 2016, 04:24:13 PM
Yeah.. After reading some of the responses I realize that's kinda foolish of me..

That's why I said I'm gonna stop doing that.
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Aalonso. on September 02, 2016, 04:25:33 PM
wait are you the person who asked what does it mean if someone doesn't text you all day
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: 4 fucking k on September 02, 2016, 04:31:40 PM
Quote from: AJ on September 01, 2016, 11:34:04 PM
okay so i dont remember when i made the initial thread but.. i told you guys i kinda thought that my barber liked me but i didnt wanna fuck up a good thing because hes a dope ass barber...


well we started hanging out, first with his friends a lot at like bars and sports games...


slowly but surely we started to venture off and hang out by ourselves also. whether it was right before or right after meeting up with his guy friends... the more we hung out and closer we got AS FRIENDS i noticed he became a lot more defensive for me... like no sly or overly rude jokes were to be made about me or if he felt like i would take offensive.. he would NIP it in the bud and i would be like
:ermm: "you aint have to do that.. i can take a joke and if it goes too far i can handle myself." and he would be like "nah, fuck that you my homeboy, and i started bringing you around so imma make sure you comfortable." or something to that extent

so im like  :ohwow: "okay then!" but since he was so hell bent on using the term "homeboy, homie, brodie, etc." i chalked it up as strictly friends and i didnt wanna fuck it up because by this point he was giving me free haircut every now and again... so i was like yeah.. let me chill


but my birthday was at the end of july.. and so he like a week later he asked did i wanna go out because he was out of town the weekend of my birthday.. so i was like cool.. im thinking we were about to go meet up with his boys and drink but we pulled up to the movie theater.. and im like " :uhh: its just me and you?" and hes like "yeah... i really wanna see suicide squad, you dont wanna be here or something" and i was like "no its nothing like that i was just suprised"

*we had a quick convo here about him not being ashamed to be seen in public or hang out with me as if i already didnt know*...

the movies just feels a lot more intimate for two guys that are just friends to be going..but whatev.. we go in.. he buys the tickets... i INSIST on buying the popcorn and drinks because.. yea i just do! lol i bought to separate popcorns *REMEMBER THIS PART*

so all is good, we are like half way through the movie... then he starts getting on his phone alot at this point.. so i think nothing of it because im really into the movie... all of a sudden i get a text saying
"you know you couldve just got one big pop corn and we coulda just shared.. what you think i got cooties or sumn?"
so im straight up looking like at this point:
(http://vignette1.wikia.nocookie.net/glee/images/b/bd/Cutie_smirk_santana.gif/revision/latest?cb=20130217215357)

and i cant help it but i go into complete flirt mode and i text him back and say "lol you probably do...idk!!"
and we both laugh a bit and just started watching the movie again..

~another twenty minutes go by and i get another text but i didnt see him take his phone out so i knew he wasnt the one texting me... so i just was like ill get to it once the movies was over..

Yall!!! he tapped me and was like... "you know your phone went off right" im thinking like "nigga, how you hear my phone on vibrate :uhh:" so im like fuck it ill just check it... but ill do it fast because i was into the movie!! (i like movies :dead:) so i check it and ts from him and it says "would you think it was weird if i asked to hold your hand?"

so on the inside im like:(http://i0.kym-cdn.com/entries/icons/original/000/020/001/krabs.jpg)

but i had to be cool so on the outside im like: (http://www.reactiongifs.com/r/ioA8mSM1.gif)

and i say "ummm.. idk" and he just grabs my hand and holds it..
so now im like fuck the movie, nigga you got my attention! but really i had to play it cool.

so the movie ends and we are headed to go to the bars with his friends.. and we start having a quick convo about what happened in the movie... and hes just saying he didnt know why but he felt compelled to hold my hand and that he feels really close to me.. im not really saying much but an occasional "oh.. wow.. really...aww.. cool." because im trying to play it cool but inside im fucking losing it..
so then we start talking about what i did for my actual birthday night... because he always thinks that i have a bunch a guys that wanna be with me(hes right, but i pay them no mind) so im like "i spent my birthday night lonely as fuck i got no action!"...

so I kid you not... he looks at me like:
(https://media.giphy.com/media/l14qxlCgJ0zUk/giphy.gif)

he immediatley picks up his phone to call his boys and made some bs excuse why we werent meeting them at the bar anymore... im like why you lie to them and say that... and he says hes changing the plans...10 mins late we pull up at his house

...AND THATS WHEN I FUCKING KNEW

long story short.. i ended up getting impaled that night.. ill spare yall the details of that, this is already long enough.

HAPPY BITHDAYS TO ME! :roflmao:

;
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: yummy on September 02, 2016, 04:39:52 PM
Quote from: Young on September 02, 2016, 01:11:42 PM
s

I barely fleet....isn't it unsafe for your immune system?

:hmph:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: RatherBe on September 02, 2016, 05:35:11 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on September 02, 2016, 04:25:33 PM
wait are you the person who asked what does it mean if someone doesn't text you all day
n


no
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Lane Bryant Jumpsuit on September 03, 2016, 03:29:22 AM
Im gonna get pounded sunday night
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Cartierline on September 03, 2016, 03:32:43 AM
r u jealous?
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Gilgamesh. on September 03, 2016, 03:39:05 AM
Quote from: GRAND on September 02, 2016, 11:20:33 AM
Quote from: Chao on September 02, 2016, 12:17:56 AM
*tryin to figure out a stor' to tell to tops this*
(https://uploadir.com/u/ofgkjca4)
nmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm,

,nbnn;n :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Gilgamesh. on September 03, 2016, 03:42:41 AM
Quote from: AJ on September 02, 2016, 11:51:58 AM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on September 02, 2016, 11:46:20 AM
Quote from: AJ on September 02, 2016, 11:44:09 AM
Quote from: Drais. on September 02, 2016, 11:28:22 AM
Quote from: AJ on September 02, 2016, 12:05:07 AM
Quote from: G on September 01, 2016, 11:58:49 PM
Omfg
Ack!
Woooooooo!
I'm so happy for you.
Where are things now?
we had sex one other time since then.. we still hang out, a lot actually but anytime he brings up a relationship.. i kinda stray away from the convo... i dont want him to feel like since we have good sex that we gotta be in a relationship.. i just wanna make sure hes ready and that its not like a forced thing

Don't keep him waiting too long. He might punch on to the next if he feels like it aint going nowhere foreal.       

I mean because I'm starting to care about him ALOT..I just wanna make sure that I'm not unintentionally pressuring him.. I would never forgive myself..

I think it's just not confirmed honestly.. I have the password to his phone.. one day he literally left his phone in my car.. I had it for half of the day.. And I went ALL thru that bitch.. Lurk game was on 1000+ that day!!  :kii: he called me from his co worker phone and was telling me to text his clients from his phones to confirm their times for appointments.. So i saw all the messages that came in and all the threads  :dead: he was in no hurry to get his phone back
oh he loves u, cause CH!
:plzstop: yeah I was like I'll just bring it back he was like.. Well if you're on the other side of town.. Just hold on to it... If you don't mind playing receptionist for a little bit...

I was like say the fuck no more.. I tore the fucking phone APART! Went thru EVERYFCKNTHING nnnnnnnnn

I love you :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii: :kii:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Gilgamesh. on September 03, 2016, 03:47:22 AM
Quote from: G on September 02, 2016, 01:29:32 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on September 02, 2016, 01:26:42 PM
Quote from: Capricorn King on September 02, 2016, 01:24:31 PM
Quote from: G on September 02, 2016, 01:18:22 PM
Quote from: L0NZ. on September 02, 2016, 01:17:36 PM
a doo doo film.
What in the Spielbeg fuck?
im in pain

a light coating
Is it paint?
:omgwatshappening:

NNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN

varnish!
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: SouravMay on September 03, 2016, 06:16:23 AM
this story was great
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: SouravMay on September 03, 2016, 06:29:15 AM
Quote from: AJ on September 02, 2016, 02:11:55 AM
okay.. so as far as the sex.. (im sorry if this is a lot for one night, im weirdly excited to tell yall)

we pull up at the house...
im still tryna act dumb and innocent so im like "you want me to come in or are you just running in to get something and coming right back out."

he looks at me exactly like: (http://i.makeagif.com/media/6-17-2015/ahJA9v.gif)

so im like okay... fine!
we get in the house and hes like imma cook for you.. so im like damn tuhhnight must be my fckn NIGHT, this nigga knows how to  COOK too?!? i was wet

im sitting in the living room hes in the kitchen, im thinking im about to get some FOOD, 10 mins later he's like "come eat" seo im confused as shit like did he heat up some left overs?

this nigga made 4 things of easy mac with Doritos to dip in the mac and cheese :plzstop:
sooooo im laughing my ass off at this point.. and he like "dont laugh at me... this my special recipe.."
after i continuously laugh hes like "iight keep laughing... imma get you back, dont trip" (https://encrypted-tbn2.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcQzwCbLz9_c8U78vUWMrAzbpaT0wWBJ81Ar9EKeYwIFtf681_TqwPI0hQhb)
so we eat (the shit was actually really good... i just ate it like 5mins ago tbfh, im hooked on it)


so im tryna give him hints that we gotta go to the store so i can make sure im set for the night.. :kii:
so im saying shit like "i really want some snacks!" so he knows we gotta go to the store.. eventually he catches it and we leave out.. get to the store.. and hes like "im gonna go look for -something random- for my house." im like okay.. i already know hes lying because he went in the aisle where the condoms were.. so that was just more confirmation that i wasnt tripping!... so i get the stuff i need and hurry up and check and meet him at the car..

get back home and we start playing playstation (he was surprised i knew how to play) afterwhile i got tired of playing it. (they play that shit all night... idk how) so i told him i was going to shower and asked for a shirt and shorts


this nigga replies under his breath: "you aint gon need it but okay"(http://memesvault.com/wp-content/uploads/Okay-Waka-Flocka-Meme-15.gif)

so i said "what" and hes just laughing.. so i pay it and go to the bathroom... handle my business and shower..
i come out of the bathroom and hes in the bed and he looks sleep so low key im like: (http://i.kinja-img.com/gawker-media/image/upload/u7pso92buenrnxtqduva.gif)

so im just like well fuck it... im just gonna go to sleep... he has this huge bed so i turn off the light and i get in the bed but stay on one side.. as soon as i settled.. he put his leg on me and was like "i know yo ass aint going to sleep." me tryna be cute and innocent im like: "im not?" and he says "stop playing with me, yo" so by this time ive realized that hes completely naked but not hard... so he gets up to turn on the small light..and i see his dick for the first time... not gon lie.. it didnt look big... so im like.. well i cant turn back now.. so hes back at the bed and he starts kissing my neck asking me if i feel comfortable" i tell him yea.. he keeps going

now i look down i SWEAR to yall his dick has gone from 4inches soft to like 9inches and theres a slight curve im like: (http://media.tenor.co/images/d7a55a84c89006fed1d1e39d0934c6e6/raw)
hes looking at me now like: (https://em.wattpad.com/04f4c2c17b81b49a4015d26309b19671f41bf366/687474703a2f2f32352e6d656469612e74756d626c722e636f6d2f74756d626c725f6d326c70333533725a64317271333666396f315f3530302e676966?s=fit&h=360&w=360&q=80)

so i did what any real bitch in my shoes would do... i dive in head first... start giving him head...he couldnt take it... he knew it! he kept tryna stop me but.. i kinda just took control until he kinda ran.

then the unexpected: he just took control of evrything.. i stood up, he pushed me back on the bed and pulled me by my leg to the middle of the bed (it was a huge fckn bed) and says "You ready?"

im tryna be all tough and shit so im like: (http://media.riffsy.com/images/f262f307283bb6ac3e432f66debec48a/raw)

BIIIIIIITCCCHHHH big mistake!
he slid in... i didnt give fuck.. i yelled.. i know his neighbors heard me.. at first he was shushing me..but after while he was saying shit like "dont get quiet on me now, I told you i was gon get ya ass back for laughing." "Shit aint funny now huh?" shit like that... im in heaven!he couldnt figure out if he wanted to make slow strokes or fuck like we hated each other.. either way like i said im in HEAVEN..

we switched postilions like 4 or 5 time and he just keeps coming back..im thinking in my head "sooner or later you gon hafta cut this shit out, im getting sleepy! this goes on for like an hour and a half... and i get the feeling that hes tired but feels like he gotta prove something by lasting and fucking for a long time so im just like... "You tired? cuz i am. lol :uhh:" and hes like yeah i actually am.. hes looking like he marched Selma.. sweat is EVERYWHERE... so we finished(figuratively and literally) and i go get back in the shower he asks can he join... im like nigga we way past that stage now, i mean why not conserve water.. i get out first since i got in before him and wait for him to get out... i ask him once he puts his shorts on... (wouldnt put a shirt on) if hes taking me home or should i call an uber..

i aint clingy and i wasnt about to be  just assuming he wanted me to spend the night.. so i was prepared to leave

so hes like.. you dont feel comfortable sleeping here or something and i tell him my resoning

him again: (http://i.makeagif.com/media/6-17-2015/ahJA9v.gif) he literally comes over knocks my stuff out my hand and picks me up and carries me to back to bed. we cuddle for a bit but then he says.. "i dont want you to think im rude but i cant cuddle for the whole night."
im like: (http://gifsec.com/wp-content/uploads/GIF/2014/03/Hallelujah-GIF.gif?gs=a) thank you father!!! i hate that all night cuddling shit.. nigga back up off me so i can take my ass to sleep!!

we go to sleep and like 5hrs later his alarm goes off... he has an appointment to cut somebody's hair... he tells me he only has 2 appointments and that he'll be back in like 2hrs to check on me and see if im ready to leave and to make myself at home... and then he left
yea thats it


omf there is a part 2 mess


lemme dig in!!!
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: SouravMay on September 03, 2016, 06:45:47 AM
AJ what did you discover on his phone?

:howfestive: :howfestive:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: RatherBe on September 03, 2016, 04:49:55 PM
Quote from: Magnolia Maymuru on September 03, 2016, 06:45:47 AM
AJ what did you discover on his phone?

:howfestive: :howfestive:
He had a couple of girls texting him saying "I miss you!" Or "Hey stranger!"

He'd respond like "I miss you more!"

Then they'd say like "we should get together."

And he'd be like "I be so busy.. We'll see if I have some time."
Or just not respond at all :plzstop:

I saw some nudes of his and some other girls in his photos

I saw some OLD dms from Instagram when he had a girlfriend and he was telling the girls in his DMs that they were gorgeous but he wasn't interested because he was taken..

I also went through his Facebook messenger (which were mainly haircut appointments)

And I opened up his snapchats of thirsty females saying shit like "I know you miss this!" with a random pic or just "hey sexy" messages that he hadn't opened from like weeks at a time. Yeah but I opened up all the old snaps and the ones that were new.

He really doesn't do shit! Which surprised me!!  :plzstop: :kii:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Cowgirl on September 03, 2016, 04:52:19 PM
This complete investigation!!!

:plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: RatherBe on September 03, 2016, 05:11:23 PM
Quote from: BowDown on September 03, 2016, 04:52:19 PM
This complete investigation!!!

:plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop:
I started to go through the emails.. But I figured it was all spam and no one uses email to casually communicate.. So I devoted my time elsewhere. His phone was also constantly blowing up with his clients so it was distracting my lurk concentration.. I really had to focus in  :kii:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: LOONA. on September 04, 2016, 10:04:43 AM
Damn is there an app you didn't go through?

       

:dead:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Zankou. on September 04, 2016, 10:15:48 AM
Omg this extreme invasion of privacy wtf
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: GLOCK on September 04, 2016, 10:20:16 AM
Aj boy
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: GLOCK on September 04, 2016, 10:22:00 AM
Just let that be ur last time doing that
If y'all get serious don't make that a habit because the smallest message could impart insecurity..
And going through someone's phones isn't healthy.. Good thing he gave u the greenlight but next time... Find peace in what you read in the past ... And trust him until he shows u otherwise
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: RatherBe on September 04, 2016, 04:00:12 PM
Quote from: G on September 04, 2016, 10:22:00 AM
Just let that be ur last time doing that
If y'all get serious don't make that a habit because the smallest message could impart insecurity..
And going through someone's phones isn't healthy.. Good thing he gave u the greenlight but next time... Find peace in what you read in the past ... And trust him until he shows u otherwise
i mean I'm really not a lurker... Given the situation of him being "curious" I needed to know the real tea.. Or if he was just acting a way in front of me.. I was also looking mostly to see if there were conversations about me and if there was anything negative or two faced.. It was a one time thing.. Just so I know what the fuck is really uhp!
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Lane Bryant Jumpsuit on September 04, 2016, 04:06:17 PM
Quote from: G on September 04, 2016, 10:22:00 AM
Just let that be ur last time doing that
If y'all get serious don't make that a habit because the smallest message could impart insecurity..
And going through someone's phones isn't healthy.. Good thing he gave u the greenlight but next time... Find peace in what you read in the past ... And trust him until he shows u otherwise

That sounds like brandy on 90210

Ask for the truth but trust that hes given it to you lol
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Treasure on September 04, 2016, 04:21:05 PM
gorl shutup
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Cartierline on September 04, 2016, 04:25:46 PM
:omgwatshappening:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Treasure on September 04, 2016, 04:32:03 PM
 :supluv:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: GLOCK on September 04, 2016, 04:52:39 PM
Quote from: AJ on September 04, 2016, 04:00:12 PM
Quote from: G on September 04, 2016, 10:22:00 AM
Just let that be ur last time doing that
If y'all get serious don't make that a habit because the smallest message could impart insecurity..
And going through someone's phones isn't healthy.. Good thing he gave u the greenlight but next time... Find peace in what you read in the past ... And trust him until he shows u otherwise
i mean I'm really not a lurker... Given the situation of him being "curious" I needed to know the real tea.. Or if he was just acting a way in front of me.. I was also looking mostly to see if there were conversations about me and if there was anything negative or two faced.. It was a one time thing.. Just so I know what the fuck is really uhp!
I got u! Just wanted to say cuz I hear so many people surfing thru their dudes mess

And yeah.. It ruins the trust
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Vonc2002 on September 04, 2016, 06:19:31 PM
Quote from: AJ on September 04, 2016, 04:00:12 PM
Quote from: G on September 04, 2016, 10:22:00 AM
Just let that be ur last time doing that
If y'all get serious don't make that a habit because the smallest message could impart insecurity..
And going through someone's phones isn't healthy.. Good thing he gave u the greenlight but next time... Find peace in what you read in the past ... And trust him until he shows u otherwise
i mean I'm really not a lurker... Given the situation of him being "curious" I needed to know the real tea.. Or if he was just acting a way in front of me.. I was also looking mostly to see if there were conversations about me and if there was anything negative or two faced.. It was a one time thing.. Just so I know what the fuck is really uhp!
Meh, i chalk what u did up to human curiosity. Im not a nosy person either but if it's sitting in my face id look too. I don't find what u did to be that big a deal and most people wouldve done the same.
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Cowgirl on September 04, 2016, 06:24:06 PM
I don't think wanting to go thru a person's phone means you're insecure, it's just curiosity in general. I don't care if it's your boyfriend, your sister, your mother, your boss, etc. If someone gives you a phone, I'm pretty sure you fags would tear it up and down and read away.
:overit:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Cowgirl on September 04, 2016, 06:27:12 PM
Quote from: ?nico m?. on September 04, 2016, 06:26:10 PM
Quote from: BowDown on September 04, 2016, 06:24:06 PM
I don't think wanting to go thru a person's phone means you're insecure, it's just curiosity in general. I don't care if it's your boyfriend, your sister, your mother, your boss, etc. If someone gives you a phone, I'm pretty sure you fags would tear it up and down and read away.
:overit:
I think it's a person to person thing.

Personally, I would never go through my sister's phone. Simply because I may find something I'd rather not see. What if there are sexual texts or something? That is her business and I hope she'd respect my privacy as well because there are things on my phone that I'd rather my sisters not see.

But it depends on the person I guess. I'm big on privacy.
Personally, fuck yew.
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Vonc2002 on September 04, 2016, 06:28:06 PM
Quote from: BowDown on September 04, 2016, 06:24:06 PM
I don't think wanting to go thru a person's phone means you're insecure, it's just curiosity in general. I don't care if it's your boyfriend, your sister, your mother, your boss, etc. If someone gives you a phone, I'm pretty sure you fags would tear it up and down and read away.
:overit:
!!!!!!!!!!!!
insecure
PLEA, my college roommate left their phone and i did the same thing. Like its here so :letsmessfag:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Cowgirl on September 04, 2016, 06:31:51 PM
Quote from: ?nico m?. on September 04, 2016, 06:28:29 PM
Quote from: BowDown on September 04, 2016, 06:27:12 PM
Quote from: ?nico m?. on September 04, 2016, 06:26:10 PM
Quote from: BowDown on September 04, 2016, 06:24:06 PM
I don't think wanting to go thru a person's phone means you're insecure, it's just curiosity in general. I don't care if it's your boyfriend, your sister, your mother, your boss, etc. If someone gives you a phone, I'm pretty sure you fags would tear it up and down and read away.
:overit:
I think it's a person to person thing.

Personally, I would never go through my sister's phone. Simply because I may find something I'd rather not see. What if there are sexual texts or something? That is her business and I hope she'd respect my privacy as well because there are things on my phone that I'd rather my sisters not see.

But it depends on the person I guess. I'm big on privacy.
Personally, fuck yew.
:supluv:
Are you calling me nosey?
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Cowgirl on September 04, 2016, 06:32:58 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on September 04, 2016, 06:28:06 PM
Quote from: BowDown on September 04, 2016, 06:24:06 PM
I don't think wanting to go thru a person's phone means you're insecure, it's just curiosity in general. I don't care if it's your boyfriend, your sister, your mother, your boss, etc. If someone gives you a phone, I'm pretty sure you fags would tear it up and down and read away.
:overit:
!!!!!!!!!!!!
insecure
PLEA, my college roommate left their phone and i did the same thing. Like its here so :letsmessfag:
!!!!


If God really didn't want me to read it he would've placed a passcode on it!
:cheerup:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: FlowerBomb on September 04, 2016, 06:35:48 PM
Djdjdjdjdkdksksksks
I went through my dads phone once
I pray to god every night I could unsee some of the things I saw
Never again
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Vonc2002 on September 04, 2016, 06:39:01 PM
My father is old school and doesn't have a cell phone and my mom doesn't hide anything in hers. She doesn't even have a passcode on her phone. I wouldnt go thru my family's phones anyway. I wouldnt wanna see their escapades
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: GRAND on September 04, 2016, 06:39:24 PM
Quote from: AJ on September 03, 2016, 04:49:55 PM
Quote from: Magnolia Maymuru on September 03, 2016, 06:45:47 AM
AJ what did you discover on his phone?

:howfestive: :howfestive:
He had a couple of girls texting him saying "I miss you!" Or "Hey stranger!"

He'd respond like "I miss you more!"

Then they'd say like "we should get together."

And he'd be like "I be so busy.. We'll see if I have some time."
Or just not respond at all :plzstop:

I saw some nudes of his and some other girls in his photos

I saw some OLD dms from Instagram when he had a girlfriend and he was telling the girls in his DMs that they were gorgeous but he wasn't interested because he was taken..

I also went through his Facebook messenger (which were mainly haircut appointments)

And I opened up his snapchats of thirsty females saying shit like "I know you miss this!" with a random pic or just "hey sexy" messages that he hadn't opened from like weeks at a time. Yeah but I opened up all the old snaps and the ones that were new.

He really doesn't do shit! Which surprised me!!  :plzstop: :kii:
VZVZVZVZVZVZV
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: FlowerBomb on September 04, 2016, 06:40:25 PM
Hhhhh he's got a big dick though
I see why he has so many kids
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: FlowerBomb on September 04, 2016, 06:42:21 PM
 :cheerup:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Cartierline on September 04, 2016, 06:43:16 PM
sssssss not Jayd' peeping his dad's dick pics
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: FlowerBomb on September 04, 2016, 06:44:23 PM
hsjsjs
And the ANGLES :uhh:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Vonc2002 on September 04, 2016, 06:45:03 PM
Honestly, i think he maybe couldve even left the phone with that intention tbh. Like who doesn't have a code on their phone? And who would say "oh no that's fine, KEEP IT!" When you say ur willing to bring it back? Ol buddy probably got a work phone and another MESS phone or some shit :dead:
But, maybe he doesn't and he's really this uber squeaky clean person. Iono, but going thru his phone wasnt outta the way, especially in this scenario. U didn't even know he was trying to fck with u, so ur looking for the fckn deets. I can dig it
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: FlowerBomb on September 04, 2016, 06:45:30 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on September 04, 2016, 06:45:03 PM
Honestly, i think he maybe couldve even left the phone with that intention tbh. Like who doesn't have a code on their phone? And who would say "oh no that's fine, KEEP IT!" When you say ur willing to bring it back? Ol buddy probably got a work phone and another MESS phone or some shit :dead:
But, maybe he doesn't and he's really this uber squeaky clean person. Iono, but going thru his phone wasnt outta the way, especially in this scenario. U didn't even know he was trying to fck with u, so ur looking for the fckn deets. I can dig it
h
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: FlowerBomb on September 04, 2016, 06:45:44 PM
Shut up
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Vonc2002 on September 04, 2016, 06:46:35 PM
Quote from: Capricorn King on September 04, 2016, 06:40:25 PM
Hhhhh he's got a big dick though
I see why he has so many kids
:diddraispoot:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Vonc2002 on September 04, 2016, 06:47:43 PM
Quote from: Capricorn King on September 04, 2016, 06:45:44 PM
Shut up
Fck u
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: FlowerBomb on September 04, 2016, 06:47:58 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on September 04, 2016, 06:47:43 PM
Quote from: Capricorn King on September 04, 2016, 06:45:44 PM
Shut up
Fck u
after you
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Cartierline on September 04, 2016, 06:48:12 PM
Quote from: Capricorn King on September 04, 2016, 06:44:23 PM
hsjsjs
And the ANGLES :uhh:
:ohwow:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: FlowerBomb on September 04, 2016, 06:49:39 PM
He's nasty!
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Cowgirl on September 04, 2016, 06:49:44 PM
Quote from: Capricorn King on September 04, 2016, 06:40:25 PM
Hhhhh he's got a big dick though
I see why he has so many kids
vnerpb

:everythingok:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: FlowerBomb on September 04, 2016, 06:50:48 PM
Possibly
:popeyes:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: GRAND on September 04, 2016, 06:52:23 PM
I keep my phone unlocked

.
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: FlowerBomb on September 04, 2016, 06:53:22 PM
Quote from: GRAND on September 04, 2016, 06:52:23 PM
I keep my phone unlocked

.
!!!
I have never had a password
Mainly because I can never remember
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Lane Bryant Jumpsuit on September 04, 2016, 06:55:52 PM
Quote from: ?nico m?. on September 04, 2016, 06:43:14 PM
[youtube autoplay=1 start=31]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j2CdzhUJDsE[/youtube]

Lmao me and my roomate are still kiiing about this we randomly say ...im mixed
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Cowgirl on September 04, 2016, 06:56:29 PM
I keep my phone unlocked too. Anyone who wants to read is more than welcome to it!
:cheerup:

(http://i1123.photobucket.com/albums/l547/veryfunnygifs2/Screen%20Shot%202016-09-04%20at%2010.51.39%20AM_zps1jbmiaeh.png)
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: FlowerBomb on September 04, 2016, 06:57:28 PM
Quote from: BowDown on September 04, 2016, 06:56:29 PM
I keep my phone unlocked too. Anyone who wants to read is more than welcome to it!
:cheerup:

(http://i1123.photobucket.com/albums/l547/veryfunnygifs2/Screen%20Shot%202016-09-04%20at%2010.51.39%20AM_zps1jbmiaeh.png)
jjsjsjsjsj
Do you have nudes?
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: FlowerBomb on September 04, 2016, 06:57:54 PM
You should delete them
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: FlowerBomb on September 04, 2016, 06:58:11 PM
No one wants to see that
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Cowgirl on September 04, 2016, 06:59:54 PM
fjoereer


I take nudes but I don't save them. I will, however, randomly come across a nude of myself when I'm going through my photo stream.
:dead: :dead: :dead: :dead: :dead:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Cowgirl on September 04, 2016, 07:00:21 PM
Quote from: Capricorn King on September 04, 2016, 06:58:11 PM
No one wants to see that
:nogrammynoneck:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Zankou. on September 04, 2016, 07:02:20 PM
Yeah going thru someone's phone is definitely insecure lol
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Zankou. on September 04, 2016, 07:04:59 PM
Quote from: Capricorn King on September 04, 2016, 06:40:25 PM
Hhhhh he's got a big dick though
I see why he has so many kids

Wtf
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Vonc2002 on September 04, 2016, 07:10:38 PM
Wow, can't believe y'all don't lock ur phones. Im in the habit of locking mine every single time I'm not actively using it. But i guess it depends on what u have in ur phone too. Like if i ever left my phone in someone's car id  move heaven and earth to get it. My phone was stolen recently and the first thing i thought of was all the mess they'd see if they got it unlocked :kii:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: FlowerBomb on September 04, 2016, 07:11:23 PM
What kinda mess
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Cartierline on September 04, 2016, 07:12:03 PM
Yeah can't imagine using my phone without a lock tbh :udontlookok:

I have too much MESS on it
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Vonc2002 on September 04, 2016, 07:12:49 PM
Quote from: Capricorn King on September 04, 2016, 07:11:23 PM
What kinda mess
:jarvwhereru:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: FlowerBomb on September 04, 2016, 07:13:11 PM
Quote from: Cartier on September 04, 2016, 07:12:03 PM
Yeah can't imagine using my phone without a lock tbh :udontlookok:

I have too much MESS on it
:hmph:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: FlowerBomb on September 04, 2016, 07:13:36 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on September 04, 2016, 07:12:49 PM
Quote from: Capricorn King on September 04, 2016, 07:11:23 PM
What kinda mess
:jarvwhereru:
you know I'm telling pon' right
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Vonc2002 on September 04, 2016, 07:14:37 PM
Quote from: Cartier on September 04, 2016, 07:12:03 PM
Yeah can't imagine using my phone without a lock tbh :udontlookok:

I have too much MESS on it
!!!!!!!!
When  someone even wants to see my phone i kinda :everythingok:

I have to damn near be holding it while u do whatever it is u wanna do :dead:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: GRAND on September 04, 2016, 07:15:25 PM
Idc if someone saw the mess in my phone.... Unless its like my mom

I left an SD card full of nudes at my old apartment. I'm sure someone got an EYEFULL LOLZ
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Vonc2002 on September 04, 2016, 07:16:35 PM
Quote from: GRAND on September 04, 2016, 07:15:25 PM
Idc if someone saw the mess in my phone.... Unless its like my mom

I left an SD card full of nudes at my old apartment. I'm sure someone got an EYEFULL LOLZ
Well someone i didn't know, ok maybe. Anyone else, nah
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Zankou. on September 04, 2016, 07:18:51 PM
Quote from: GRAND on September 04, 2016, 07:15:25 PM
Idc if someone saw the mess in my phone.... Unless its like my mom

I left an SD card full of nudes at my old apartment. I'm sure someone got an EYEFULL LOLZ

Do you think it's insecure to read your boyfriend's texts?
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Vonc2002 on September 04, 2016, 07:19:20 PM
Quote from: ?nico m?. on September 04, 2016, 07:17:24 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on September 04, 2016, 07:14:37 PM
Quote from: Cartier on September 04, 2016, 07:12:03 PM
Yeah can't imagine using my phone without a lock tbh :udontlookok:

I have too much MESS on it
!!!!!!!!
When  someone even wants to see my phone i kinda :everythingok:

I have to damn near be holding it while u do whatever it is u wanna do :dead:
That's interesting. You're fiercely protective of your own personal device but see no problem snooping in other people's stuff. lol
Which is exactly why i don't leave my shit anywhere, EVER. I know how human curiosity is. If i left it somewhere im asking for it to get looked thru. But even if i did, there's an almost instantaneous lock on my phone, so im not worried about it LOLZ
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Zankou. on September 04, 2016, 07:19:56 PM
What kind of "lick"?
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: GLOCK on September 04, 2016, 07:20:24 PM
Quote from: Nice Stereo. on September 04, 2016, 07:02:20 PM
Yeah going thru someone's phone is definitely insecure lol
'

fff
im crying
:plzstop:

like  :uhh:

vdvxvdfvbdfbdfb
any need to go thru someones phone for any reason reeks of insecurity

now with Aj.. i get why he did it... i wouldnt have done it
but i get why he did it but it was clearly giving to him to kinda make him see that he wasnt paying attention to anyone else

Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Vonc2002 on September 04, 2016, 07:20:58 PM
Too slow
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: GLOCK on September 04, 2016, 07:21:00 PM
Quote from: Nice Stereo. on September 04, 2016, 07:18:51 PM
Quote from: GRAND on September 04, 2016, 07:15:25 PM
Idc if someone saw the mess in my phone.... Unless its like my mom

I left an SD card full of nudes at my old apartment. I'm sure someone got an EYEFULL LOLZ

Do you think it's insecure to read your boyfriend's texts?

xcvxv
very
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: GRAND on September 04, 2016, 07:21:34 PM
Quote from: Nice Stereo. on September 04, 2016, 07:18:51 PM
Quote from: GRAND on September 04, 2016, 07:15:25 PM
Idc if someone saw the mess in my phone.... Unless its like my mom

I left an SD card full of nudes at my old apartment. I'm sure someone got an EYEFULL LOLZ

Do you think it's insecure to read your boyfriend's texts?
in the early stages? Not really

But if it's a consistent thing through the course of the relationship, yes
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Zankou. on September 04, 2016, 07:21:43 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on September 04, 2016, 07:20:58 PM
Too slow
Hun what kind of lick is on your phone
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Zankou. on September 04, 2016, 07:22:15 PM
Quote from: GRAND on September 04, 2016, 07:21:34 PM
Quote from: Nice Stereo. on September 04, 2016, 07:18:51 PM
Quote from: GRAND on September 04, 2016, 07:15:25 PM
Idc if someone saw the mess in my phone.... Unless its like my mom

I left an SD card full of nudes at my old apartment. I'm sure someone got an EYEFULL LOLZ

Do you think it's insecure to read your boyfriend's texts?
in the early stages? Not really

But if it's a consistent thing through the course of the relationship, yes

Hmmm oh ok
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Zankou. on September 04, 2016, 07:22:34 PM
Quote from: ?nico m?. on September 04, 2016, 07:21:09 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on September 04, 2016, 07:19:20 PM
Quote from: ?nico m?. on September 04, 2016, 07:17:24 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on September 04, 2016, 07:14:37 PM
Quote from: Cartier on September 04, 2016, 07:12:03 PM
Yeah can't imagine using my phone without a lock tbh :udontlookok:

I have too much MESS on it
!!!!!!!!
When  someone even wants to see my phone i kinda :everythingok:

I have to damn near be holding it while u do whatever it is u wanna do :dead:
That's interesting. You're fiercely protective of your own personal device but see no problem snooping in other people's stuff. lol
Which is exactly why i don't leave my shit anywhere, EVER. I know how human curiosity is. If i left it somewhere im asking for it to get looked thru. But even if i did, there's an almost instantaneous lock on my phone, so im not worried about it LOLZ
cool

Bitch
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: GRAND on September 04, 2016, 07:23:05 PM
I checked one good time though LMAO

Haven't been in his phone since
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Zankou. on September 04, 2016, 07:23:24 PM
Quote from: G on September 04, 2016, 07:20:24 PM
Quote from: Nice Stereo. on September 04, 2016, 07:02:20 PM
Yeah going thru someone's phone is definitely insecure lol
'

fff
im crying
:plzstop:

like  :uhh:

vdvxvdfvbdfbdfb
any need to go thru someones phone for any reason reeks of insecurity

now with Aj.. i get why he did it... i wouldnt have done it
but i get why he did it but it was clearly giving to him to kinda make him see that he wasnt paying attention to anyone else

!!

I can also see what Tonio is saying about the early stages of a relationship also
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Vonc2002 on September 04, 2016, 07:23:40 PM
Quote from: GRAND on September 04, 2016, 07:21:34 PM
Quote from: Nice Stereo. on September 04, 2016, 07:18:51 PM
Quote from: GRAND on September 04, 2016, 07:15:25 PM
Idc if someone saw the mess in my phone.... Unless its like my mom

I left an SD card full of nudes at my old apartment. I'm sure someone got an EYEFULL LOLZ

Do you think it's insecure to read your boyfriend's texts?
in the early stages? Not really

But if it's a consistent thing through the course of the relationship, yes
I agree with this. I wouldnt consistently go thru someone's phone.
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Cowgirl on September 04, 2016, 07:24:20 PM
I think it's insecure if you constantly have to read but if you brush upon texts every few years or so, noting wrong with it.
:letsmessfag:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: GLOCK on September 04, 2016, 07:25:28 PM
Quote from: Nice Stereo. on September 04, 2016, 07:23:24 PM
Quote from: G on September 04, 2016, 07:20:24 PM
Quote from: Nice Stereo. on September 04, 2016, 07:02:20 PM
Yeah going thru someone's phone is definitely insecure lol
'

fff
im crying
:plzstop:

like  :uhh:

vdvxvdfvbdfbdfb
any need to go thru someones phone for any reason reeks of insecurity

now with Aj.. i get why he did it... i wouldnt have done it
but i get why he did it but it was clearly giving to him to kinda make him see that he wasnt paying attention to anyone else
!!

I can also see what Tonio is saying about the early stages of a relationship also

my major issue is making a habit out of it
texts can have so many different interpretations and such.. idk..
it just never ends well when rummaging thru someone things.. even if they left it there for u to see..
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Young on September 04, 2016, 07:25:43 PM
Why the page jump

What's going on
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Zankou. on September 04, 2016, 07:26:37 PM
They dragged you babe
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: FlowerBomb on September 04, 2016, 07:27:16 PM
Yh they said your hair is fake
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Vonc2002 on September 04, 2016, 07:27:46 PM
Quote from: BowDown on September 04, 2016, 07:24:20 PM
I think it's insecure if you constantly have to read but if you brush upon texts every few years or so, noting wrong with it.
:letsmessfag:
Honestly, i don't give a fck about texts. Ive never gone thru someone's phone and read texts. Lets cut out the middle man, i go straight for the pics and vids :kii:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Young on September 04, 2016, 07:27:50 PM
oh okay!
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Zankou. on September 04, 2016, 07:29:15 PM
Shshsdhdhxhshshss

Hey love
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Young on September 04, 2016, 07:34:03 PM
Bbbbbbbbbb hey bby luv
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Lane Bryant Jumpsuit on September 04, 2016, 08:22:19 PM
Quote from: ?nico m?. on September 04, 2016, 07:17:24 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on September 04, 2016, 07:14:37 PM
Quote from: Cartier on September 04, 2016, 07:12:03 PM
Yeah can't imagine using my phone without a lock tbh :udontlookok:

I have too much MESS on it
!!!!!!!!
When  someone even wants to see my phone i kinda :everythingok:

I have to damn near be holding it while u do whatever it is u wanna do :dead:
That's interesting. You're fiercely protective of your own personal device but see no problem snooping in other people's stuff. lol

Gather ha

Same ghuh always tambout logic

Like


Oh nie its just curious

But then

Move heaven and earth to prevent them from sein mess

Not right
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: b7 on September 04, 2016, 08:56:38 PM
Quote from: AJ on September 04, 2016, 04:00:12 PM
Quote from: G on September 04, 2016, 10:22:00 AM
Just let that be ur last time doing that
If y'all get serious don't make that a habit because the smallest message could impart insecurity..
And going through someone's phones isn't healthy.. Good thing he gave u the greenlight but next time... Find peace in what you read in the past ... And trust him until he shows u otherwise
i mean I'm really not a lurker... Given the situation of him being "curious" I needed to know the real tea.. Or if he was just acting a way in front of me.. I was also looking mostly to see if there were conversations about me and if there was anything negative or two faced.. It was a one time thing.. Just so I know what the fuck is really uhp!
yeah please dont do that again

nothing i despise more, honestly ssdssdd

i kinda FUMED reading that
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: b7 on September 04, 2016, 08:58:16 PM
Quote from: ?nico m?. on September 04, 2016, 06:26:10 PM
Quote from: BowDown on September 04, 2016, 06:24:06 PM
I don't think wanting to go thru a person's phone means you're insecure, it's just curiosity in general. I don't care if it's your boyfriend, your sister, your mother, your boss, etc. If someone gives you a phone, I'm pretty sure you fags would tear it up and down and read away.
:overit:
I think it's a person to person thing.

Personally, I would never go through my sister's phone. Simply because I may find something I'd rather not see. What if there are sexual texts or something? That is her business and I hope she'd respect my privacy as well because there are things on my phone that I'd rather my sisters not see.

But it depends on the person I guess. I'm big on privacy. A personal device is well, personal.
right

speak for yourselves in here  :uhh:

gay! fags!  all go through!  n

nah
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Vonc2002 on September 04, 2016, 08:59:44 PM
Because I've looked thru someone's phone, i should make mine accessible and not care if people look thru mine? :dead:

Because i know people are nosey/curious, is exactly why i protect my phone the way i do. If that didn't make sense to you, u probably don't have much.......... especially if ur  going up for a lew cosign :kii:

Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: b7 on September 04, 2016, 09:02:54 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on September 04, 2016, 07:27:46 PM
Quote from: BowDown on September 04, 2016, 07:24:20 PM
I think it's insecure if you constantly have to read but if you brush upon texts every few years or so, noting wrong with it.
:letsmessfag:
Honestly, i don't give a fck about texts. Ive never gone thru someone's phone and read texts. Lets cut out the middle man, i go straight for the pics and vids :kii:
;c;vv
v
v

Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: yummy on September 04, 2016, 09:04:56 PM
Quote from: Capricorn King on September 04, 2016, 06:40:25 PM
Hhhhh he's got a big dick though
I see why he has so many kids

:hmph:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Zankou. on September 04, 2016, 09:06:24 PM
u guys ok?
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: yummy on September 04, 2016, 09:06:32 PM
Quote from: BowDown on September 04, 2016, 06:59:54 PM
I take nudes

n
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Vonc2002 on September 04, 2016, 09:07:06 PM
And i didn't ask u to understand it :dead:
I didn't quote u in here saying "oh wow DONT AGREE"
U spoke ur peace and i spoke mine. For some reason u love to quote me looking for my logic on things, i don't give a shit about urs :plzstop:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: b7 on September 04, 2016, 09:08:47 PM
i'd like permission to beat youngs ass
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: yummy on September 04, 2016, 09:08:47 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on September 04, 2016, 07:14:37 PM
Quote from: Cartier on September 04, 2016, 07:12:03 PM
Yeah can't imagine using my phone without a lock tbh :udontlookok:

I have too much MESS on it
!!!!!!!!
When  someone even wants to see my phone i kinda :everythingok:

I have to damn near be holding it while u do whatever it is u wanna do :dead:

I was showing a co-worker a pic the other day and she swiped a bit and I almost karate chopped the fck outta her

Girl, if you don't sit your nosy ass back  :diddraispoot:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: b7 on September 04, 2016, 09:10:20 PM
Quote from: ANIMMAI on September 04, 2016, 09:08:47 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on September 04, 2016, 07:14:37 PM
Quote from: Cartier on September 04, 2016, 07:12:03 PM
Yeah can't imagine using my phone without a lock tbh :udontlookok:

I have too much MESS on it
!!!!!!!!
When  someone even wants to see my phone i kinda :everythingok:

I have to damn near be holding it while u do whatever it is u wanna do :dead:


Girl, if you don't sit your nosy ass back  :diddraispoot:
S;D;D;DDSSS
DSD
D
S
D

WHY do people take it upon themselves to do shit like that  :uhh:  a girl i was doing a play with pulled that shit in the
car a couple years back. "Wow u really love Brandy lmao omg is THAT your .... "


:damselindistress:


dumb bitch
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Zankou. on September 04, 2016, 09:11:53 PM
Quote from: ANIMMAI on September 04, 2016, 09:08:47 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on September 04, 2016, 07:14:37 PM
Quote from: Cartier on September 04, 2016, 07:12:03 PM
Yeah can't imagine using my phone without a lock tbh :udontlookok:

I have too much MESS on it
!!!!!!!!
When  someone even wants to see my phone i kinda :everythingok:

I have to damn near be holding it while u do whatever it is u wanna do :dead:

I was showing a co-worker a pic the other day and she swiped a bit and I almost karate chopped the fck outta her

Girl, if you don't sit your nosy ass back  :diddraispoot:

;asldmkas'dlams

my mom does that and I truly don't care

:letsmessfag:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: yummy on September 04, 2016, 09:12:25 PM
djbdbdvxxsnsn

"omg I love this outfit

*swipes*

woah :ohwow: "
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Zankou. on September 04, 2016, 09:12:33 PM
Quote from: Rig's on September 04, 2016, 09:10:20 PM
Quote from: ANIMMAI on September 04, 2016, 09:08:47 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on September 04, 2016, 07:14:37 PM
Quote from: Cartier on September 04, 2016, 07:12:03 PM
Yeah can't imagine using my phone without a lock tbh :udontlookok:

I have too much MESS on it
!!!!!!!!
When  someone even wants to see my phone i kinda :everythingok:

I have to damn near be holding it while u do whatever it is u wanna do :dead:


Girl, if you don't sit your nosy ass back  :diddraispoot:
S;D;D;DDSSS
DSD
D
S
D

WHY do people take it upon themselves to do shit like that  :uhh:  a girl i was doing a play with pulled that shit in the
car a couple years back. "Wow u really love Brandy lmao omg is THAT your .... "


:damselindistress:


dumb bitch

omd'asdasdasd
as
da
da

a

you know what
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Vonc2002 on September 04, 2016, 09:13:49 PM
Quote from: ?nico m?. on September 04, 2016, 09:07:54 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on September 04, 2016, 09:07:06 PM
And i didn't ask u to understand it :dead:
I didn't quote u in here saying "oh wow DONT AGREE"

Is there a new feature where we request permission before quoting?

Can we exit the 5th grade for a few minutes and continue the discussion
I just don't understand why u quote me (it happens all the time) looking to find flaws in wtf i do. Like even in here, u respond with "cool" then come back questioning why i don't allow my phone to be accessible since i didn't condemn snooping. Like faggot, move tf away from me :dead:
Im in here discussing as everyone else. We have different viewpoints but you'll never see me quoting u questioning why u move the way u move, idgaf. Go wash your hair and stay outta my quotes
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Vonc2002 on September 04, 2016, 09:16:13 PM
Quote from: ?nico m?. on September 04, 2016, 09:08:54 PM
or not.... sss cuz I'm over it.
Like you said, I said what I said, you the same.

Ur over it but u shouldve never been concerned  :dead:
Ur over me doing why i do what i do and taking the time out to quote me to say that u don't agree? Ok  :kii:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Vonc2002 on September 04, 2016, 09:18:01 PM
Quote from: ANIMMAI on September 04, 2016, 09:08:47 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on September 04, 2016, 07:14:37 PM
Quote from: Cartier on September 04, 2016, 07:12:03 PM
Yeah can't imagine using my phone without a lock tbh :udontlookok:

I have too much MESS on it
!!!!!!!!
When  someone even wants to see my phone i kinda :everythingok:

I have to damn near be holding it while u do whatever it is u wanna do :dead:

I was showing a co-worker a pic the other day and she swiped a bit and I almost karate chopped the fck outta her

Girl, if you don't sit your nosy ass back  :diddraispoot:
:kii: :kii: :kii:
Forreal, that's why i go to what i wanna show u and hold it while u look  :dead:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Vonc2002 on September 04, 2016, 09:22:11 PM
Quote from: ?nico m?. on September 04, 2016, 09:16:37 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on September 04, 2016, 09:13:49 PM
Quote from: ?nico m?. on September 04, 2016, 09:07:54 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on September 04, 2016, 09:07:06 PM
And i didn't ask u to understand it :dead:
I didn't quote u in here saying "oh wow DONT AGREE"

Is there a new feature where we request permission before quoting?

Can we exit the 5th grade for a few minutes and continue the discussion
I just don't understand why u quote me (it happens all the time) looking to find flaws in wtf i do. Like even in here, u respond with "cool" then come back questioning why i don't allow my phone to be accessible since i didn't condemn snooping. Like faggot, move tf away from me :dead:
Im in here discussing as everyone else. We have different viewpoints but you'll never see me quoting u questioning why u move the way u move, idgaf. Go wash your hair and stay outta my quotes
Yeah you're absolutely right, instead I'll find you in my threads "crying" until someone asks if you're OK.

Vonc, keep it moving.  You sound like a child. We're done for tonight
f
I go in ur threads and "cry" just like i do anyone else's, u aint special :dead:
If u wanna think some man likes u cause he likes ur sister that aint my business, nor do i fckn care. I betcha i didn't ask u to elaborate on that fairytale ass fantasy in that thread. Are we done? U prompted the whole entire back n forth, so it's good to know all ur questions were answered :dead:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Zankou. on September 04, 2016, 09:24:05 PM
what the
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: GLOCK on September 04, 2016, 09:24:57 PM
Quote from: Rig's on September 04, 2016, 08:56:38 PM
Quote from: AJ on September 04, 2016, 04:00:12 PM
Quote from: G on September 04, 2016, 10:22:00 AM
Just let that be ur last time doing that
If y'all get serious don't make that a habit because the smallest message could impart insecurity..
And going through someone's phones isn't healthy.. Good thing he gave u the greenlight but next time... Find peace in what you read in the past ... And trust him until he shows u otherwise
i mean I'm really not a lurker... Given the situation of him being "curious" I needed to know the real tea.. Or if he was just acting a way in front of me.. I was also looking mostly to see if there were conversations about me and if there was anything negative or two faced.. It was a one time thing.. Just so I know what the fuck is really uhp!
yeah please dont do that again

nothing i despise more, honestly ssdssdd

i kinda FUMED reading that
ffffff
Hey luv
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Vonc2002 on September 04, 2016, 09:25:41 PM
Quote from: Nice Stereo. on September 04, 2016, 09:24:05 PM
what the
:supluv:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Meathead_33127 on September 04, 2016, 09:38:42 PM
I really don't like to post on boards but I just can't contain myself with this convo! Pleas don't allow someone to tell you checking someone's phone who you allowed to enter your body is insecure. That has nothing to do with insecurity.  You are responsible to make sure your dealing with someone who legit! It's not something that you have to do all the time but when you and someone are on that level of intimacy there is no such thing as off limits. I feel sorry for anyone that doesn't feel entitled to know everything about a person who is having sex with you. Personally I feel you could have found a number of things that may have saved your life..but you didn't which is good. All the messages and I miss yous would have been an issue for me but it wasn't  for you but great. As you continue to develop a relationship you should look into stuff and ensure that you are able to trust this person. That's not insecurity that's called knowing your worth and what you want!
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: GLOCK on September 04, 2016, 09:39:15 PM
Quote from: Rig's on September 04, 2016, 09:10:20 PM
Quote from: ANIMMAI on September 04, 2016, 09:08:47 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on September 04, 2016, 07:14:37 PM
Quote from: Cartier on September 04, 2016, 07:12:03 PM
Yeah can't imagine using my phone without a lock tbh :udontlookok:

I have too much MESS on it
!!!!!!!!
When  someone even wants to see my phone i kinda :everythingok:

I have to damn near be holding it while u do whatever it is u wanna do :dead:


Girl, if you don't sit your nosy ass back  :diddraispoot:
S;D;D;DDSSS
DSD
D
S
D

WHY do people take it upon themselves to do shit like that  :uhh:  a girl i was doing a play with pulled that shit in the
car a couple years back. "Wow u really love Brandy lmao omg is THAT your .... "


:damselindistress:


dumb bitch
people are so disgusting
I hate nosey ass people
:uhh:

Like why ...
Get ur own damn business
Hate when ppl just scroll thru my phone
This girl ( a friend of mines) that I fcked found some niggas ass pics in my phone once ...
Bitch watched me key in my password
I left my phone for like 3 minutes and this bitch said I know ur code  :uhh:

I said  :uhh:
Opened my phone up and saw she was in the deleted pics section
And I had all his ass pics in there
I just let the shit go.. And she did too apparently .. Fucked her again and she never mentioned it
Nosey bitch
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: GLOCK on September 04, 2016, 09:40:20 PM
Quote from: Meathead_33127 on September 04, 2016, 09:38:42 PM
I really don't like to post on boards but I just can't contain myself with this convo! Pleas don't allow someone to tell you checking someone's phone who you allowed to enter your body is insecure. That has nothing to do with insecurity.  You are responsible to make sure your dealing with someone who legit! It's not something that you have to do all the time but when you and someone are on that level of intimacy there is no such thing as off limits. I feel sorry for anyone that doesn't feel entitled to know everything about a person who is having sex with you. Personally I feel you could have found a number of things that may have saved your life..but you didn't which is good. All the messages and I miss yous would have been an issue for me but it wasn't  for you but great. As you continue to develop a relationship you should look into stuff and ensure that you are able to trust this person. That's not insecurity that's called knowing your worth and what you want!
n
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: GLOCK on September 04, 2016, 09:41:35 PM
So now going through someone's worth basically solidifies ones worth!

Excellent!
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Vonc2002 on September 04, 2016, 09:43:41 PM
Quote from: Meathead_33127 on September 04, 2016, 09:38:42 PM
I really don't like to post on boards but I just can't contain myself with this convo! Pleas don't allow someone to tell you checking someone's phone who you allowed to enter your body is insecure. That has nothing to do with insecurity.  You are responsible to make sure your dealing with someone who legit! It's not something that you have to do all the time but when you and someone are on that level of intimacy there is no such thing as off limits. I feel sorry for anyone that doesn't feel entitled to know everything about a person who is having sex with you. Personally I feel you could have found a number of things that may have saved your life..but you didn't which is good. All the messages and I miss yous would have been an issue for me but it wasn't  for you but great. As you continue to develop a relationship you should look into stuff and ensure that you are able to trust this person. That's not insecurity that's called knowing your worth and what you want!
f
Ur kinda doing alot tbh. And the i miss u msgs are irrelevant at this point because they aren't a couple
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Meathead_33127 on September 04, 2016, 09:43:59 PM
Quote from: G on September 04, 2016, 09:41:35 PM
So now going through someone's worth basically solidifies ones worth!

Excellent!


Glad you agree!
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: GLOCK on September 04, 2016, 09:44:42 PM
n

Boy :usuresis:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Meathead_33127 on September 04, 2016, 09:45:12 PM
Nevermind
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Vonc2002 on September 04, 2016, 09:48:58 PM
So because u have sex with someone, ur now entitled to know evrything about them and who they talk to and share i miss u msgs with :dead:
They didn't have a conversation about exclusivity before the sex and he didn't have the right to go thru his phone anyway so none of what he saw was even supposed to be seen. U sound like one of those extra clingy/crazy people that u duck and Dodge after sex :dead:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: GLOCK on September 04, 2016, 09:50:37 PM
Hope pons.. I mean meathead posts more.
Welcome Hun
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: FINE. on September 04, 2016, 09:53:10 PM
Quote from: ?nico m?. on September 04, 2016, 09:50:09 PM
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DDDDDFDDSDDDFFFFFDDDDDFFFDSSSDDDDFDDSDDDSSS
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: GLOCK on September 04, 2016, 09:53:50 PM
These inkwell twists have me TOPPLED over :kii:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: b7 on September 04, 2016, 09:56:05 PM
Quote from: Meathead_33127 on September 04, 2016, 09:38:42 PM
I really don't like to post on boards but I just can't contain myself with this convo! Pleas don't allow someone to tell you checking someone's phone who you allowed to enter your body is insecure. That has nothing to do with insecurity.  You are responsible to make sure your dealing with someone who legit! It's not something that you have to do all the time but when you and someone are on that level of intimacy there is no such thing as off limits. I feel sorry for anyone that doesn't feel entitled to know everything about a person who is having sex with you. Personally I feel you could have found a number of things that may have saved your life..but you didn't which is good. All the messages and I miss yous would have been an issue for me but it wasn't  for you but great. As you continue to develop a relationship you should look into stuff and ensure that you are able to trust this person. That's not insecurity that's called knowing your worth and what you want!
n

looking through someone's personal things isn't going to answer all of those questions, so now what? sounds like you
simply have trust issues. Question your decision making in terms of who you allow to enter you in the first place, if you must
do all THAT. 
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: b7 on September 04, 2016, 09:57:01 PM
Quote from: G on September 04, 2016, 09:39:15 PM
Quote from: Rig's on September 04, 2016, 09:10:20 PM
Quote from: ANIMMAI on September 04, 2016, 09:08:47 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on September 04, 2016, 07:14:37 PM
Quote from: Cartier on September 04, 2016, 07:12:03 PM
Yeah can't imagine using my phone without a lock tbh :udontlookok:

I have too much MESS on it
!!!!!!!!
When  someone even wants to see my phone i kinda :everythingok:

I have to damn near be holding it while u do whatever it is u wanna do :dead:


Girl, if you don't sit your nosy ass back  :diddraispoot:
S;D;D;DDSSS
DSD
D
S
D

WHY do people take it upon themselves to do shit like that  :uhh:  a girl i was doing a play with pulled that shit in the
car a couple years back. "Wow u really love Brandy lmao omg is THAT your .... "


:damselindistress:


dumb bitch
people are so disgusting
I hate nosey ass people
:uhh:

Like why ...
Get ur own damn business
Hate when ppl just scroll thru my phone
This girl ( a friend of mines) that I fcked found some niggas ass pics in my phone once ...
Bitch watched me key in my password
I left my phone for like 3 minutes and this bitch said I know ur code  :uhh:

I said  :uhh:
Opened my phone up and saw she was in the deleted pics section
And I had all his ass pics in there
I just let the shit go.. And she did too apparently .. Fucked her again and she never mentioned it
Nosey bitch
embarrasing. and to brag on it :uhh: learned ur code LMAO  :uhh: s;s;dsddds
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Vonc2002 on September 04, 2016, 09:57:32 PM
Quote from: Rig's on September 04, 2016, 09:56:05 PM
Quote from: Meathead_33127 on September 04, 2016, 09:38:42 PM
I really don't like to post on boards but I just can't contain myself with this convo! Pleas don't allow someone to tell you checking someone's phone who you allowed to enter your body is insecure. That has nothing to do with insecurity.  You are responsible to make sure your dealing with someone who legit! It's not something that you have to do all the time but when you and someone are on that level of intimacy there is no such thing as off limits. I feel sorry for anyone that doesn't feel entitled to know everything about a person who is having sex with you. Personally I feel you could have found a number of things that may have saved your life..but you didn't which is good. All the messages and I miss yous would have been an issue for me but it wasn't  for you but great. As you continue to develop a relationship you should look into stuff and ensure that you are able to trust this person. That's not insecurity that's called knowing your worth and what you want!
n

looking through someone's personal things isn't going to answer all of those questions, so now what? sounds like you
simply have trust issues. Question your decision making in terms of who you allow to enter you in the first place, if you must
do all THAT.
Yea, now THIS post sounds like insecurity issues, definitely
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Lane Bryant Jumpsuit on September 04, 2016, 09:58:09 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on September 04, 2016, 08:59:44 PM
Because I've looked thru someone's phone, i should make mine accessible and not care if people look thru mine? :dead:

Because i know people are nosey/curious, is exactly why i protect my phone the way i do. If that didn't make sense to you, u probably don't have much.......... especially if ur  going up for a lew cosign :kii:

It goes back to the golden rule bby

Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: RatherBe on September 04, 2016, 09:59:30 PM
Wth happened in here..

Just to clear up anything..


I don't usually go through phones.
Actually this was my first time doing it ever..

As I said before lol.. Because he was identifying as straight at a point... I felt the need to make sure this wasn't some game of front he was putt on on with me. We aren't in a relationship but we are strongly considering one.. And this will be my first time in a situation like this. I hear you guys talk about DL dudes and how they act homophobic but like dick on the low.. I felt for my sake that I needed to just check and make sure that this was something I can manage..

Btw I had a talk with him about how he identifies and the whole closet thing...

He said something about not really caring about what people think that he's gonna do what makes him happy regardless.. However he isn't quite comfortable with broadcasting that he's into a guy.. But if he was asked he wouldn't really deny it.. he just doesn't feel comfortable yet with voluntarily disclosing his sexual preference.. I'm okay with that, to me its understandable. He never hides me or tells me how to act. When he says he doesn't care.. I truly get that from him.
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Meathead_33127 on September 04, 2016, 09:59:59 PM
I didn't post to start a debate. It has nothing to do with being clingy or trust issues. I just honestly feel that we set standards to low and I don't believe in sex outside of a relationship so I guess I'm writing from a deeper perspective..I respect all of your opinions. Good night! If how you have been living up to this point has worked for you, continue on!
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: GLOCK on September 04, 2016, 10:00:48 PM
Quote from: Rig's on September 04, 2016, 09:57:01 PM
Quote from: G on September 04, 2016, 09:39:15 PM
Quote from: Rig's on September 04, 2016, 09:10:20 PM
Quote from: ANIMMAI on September 04, 2016, 09:08:47 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on September 04, 2016, 07:14:37 PM
Quote from: Cartier on September 04, 2016, 07:12:03 PM
Yeah can't imagine using my phone without a lock tbh :udontlookok:

I have too much MESS on it
!!!!!!!!
When  someone even wants to see my phone i kinda :everythingok:

I have to damn near be holding it while u do whatever it is u wanna do :dead:


Girl, if you don't sit your nosy ass back  :diddraispoot:
S;D;D;DDSSS
DSD
D
S
D

WHY do people take it upon themselves to do shit like that  :uhh:  a girl i was doing a play with pulled that shit in the
car a couple years back. "Wow u really love Brandy lmao omg is THAT your .... "


:damselindistress:


dumb bitch
people are so disgusting
I hate nosey ass people
:uhh:

Like why ...
Get ur own damn business
Hate when ppl just scroll thru my phone
This girl ( a friend of mines) that I fcked found some niggas ass pics in my phone once ...
Bitch watched me key in my password
I left my phone for like 3 minutes and this bitch said I know ur code  :uhh:

I said  :uhh:
Opened my phone up and saw she was in the deleted pics section
And I had all his ass pics in there
I just let the shit go.. And she did too apparently .. Fucked her again and she never mentioned it
Nosey bitch
embarrasing. and to brag on it :uhh: learned ur code LMAO  :uhh: s;s;dsddds
people are disgusting
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: yummy on September 04, 2016, 10:01:22 PM
Quote from: Meathead_33127 on September 04, 2016, 09:59:59 PM
I didn't post to start a debate. It has nothing to do with being clingy or trust issues. I just honestly feel that we set standards to low and I don't believe in sex outside of a relationship so I guess I'm writing from a deeper perspective..I respect all of your opinions. Good night! If how you have been living up to this point has worked for you, continue on!

did u just call me a faggot
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: GLOCK on September 04, 2016, 10:01:48 PM
Quote from: AJ on September 04, 2016, 09:59:30 PM
Wth happened in here..

Just to clear up anything..


I don't usually go through phones.
Actually this was my first time doing it ever..

As I said before lol.. Because he was identifying as straight at a point... I felt the need to make sure this wasn't some game of front he was putt on on with me. We aren't in a relationship but we are strongly considering one.. And this will be my first time in a situation like this. I hear you guys talk about DL dudes and how they act homophobic but like dick on the low.. I felt for my sake that I needed to just check and make sure that this was something I can manage..

Btw I had a talk with him about how he identifies and the whole closet thing...

He said something about not really caring about what people think that he's gonna do what makes him happy regardless.. However he isn't quite comfortable with broadcasting that he's into a guy.. But if he was asked he wouldn't really deny it.. he just doesn't feel comfortable yet with voluntarily disclosing his sexual preference.. I'm okay with that, to me its understandable. He never hides me or tells me how to act. When he says he doesn't care.. I truly get that from him.
you guys are gonna be good!!!
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: GLOCK on September 04, 2016, 10:02:19 PM
Quote from: Meathead_33127 on September 04, 2016, 09:59:59 PM
I didn't post to start a debate. It has nothing to do with being clingy or trust issues. I just honestly feel that we set standards to low and I don't believe in sex outside of a relationship so I guess I'm writing from a deeper perspective..I respect all of your opinions. Good night! If how you have been living up to this point has worked for you, continue on!
dont leave ...
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Meathead_33127 on September 04, 2016, 10:03:58 PM
Quote from: G on September 04, 2016, 10:02:19 PM
Quote from: Meathead_33127 on September 04, 2016, 09:59:59 PM
I didn't post to start a debate. It has nothing to do with being clingy or trust issues. I just honestly feel that we set standards to low and I don't believe in sex outside of a relationship so I guess I'm writing from a deeper perspective..I respect all of your opinions. Good night! If how you have been living up to this point has worked for you, continue on!
dont leave ...

I didn't..I'm just not posting anymore..but Ill continue reading
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Vonc2002 on September 04, 2016, 10:04:32 PM
AJ u don't have to justify your actions. u did what u did, and that's THAT :hmph:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: FINE. on September 04, 2016, 10:05:03 PM
n
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: GLOCK on September 04, 2016, 10:05:32 PM
Quote from: Meathead_33127 on September 04, 2016, 10:03:58 PM
Quote from: G on September 04, 2016, 10:02:19 PM
Quote from: Meathead_33127 on September 04, 2016, 09:59:59 PM
I didn't post to start a debate. It has nothing to do with being clingy or trust issues. I just honestly feel that we set standards to low and I don't believe in sex outside of a relationship so I guess I'm writing from a deeper perspective..I respect all of your opinions. Good night! If how you have been living up to this point has worked for you, continue on!
dont leave ...

I didn't..I'm just not posting anymore..but Ill continue reading
ff people have disagreements lol
Continue to post
Everyone has an opinion
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Meathead_33127 on September 04, 2016, 10:07:39 PM
Quote from: G on September 04, 2016, 10:05:32 PM
Quote from: Meathead_33127 on September 04, 2016, 10:03:58 PM
Quote from: G on September 04, 2016, 10:02:19 PM
Quote from: Meathead_33127 on September 04, 2016, 09:59:59 PM
I didn't post to start a debate. It has nothing to do with being clingy or trust issues. I just honestly feel that we set standards to low and I don't believe in sex outside of a relationship so I guess I'm writing from a deeper perspective..I respect all of your opinions. Good night! If how you have been living up to this point has worked for you, continue on!
dont leave ...

I didn't..I'm just not posting anymore..but Ill continue reading
ff people have disagreements lol
Continue to post
Everyone has an opinion


I'm better at being a spectator on these boards but yeah I agree..we don't have to agree..and I see everyone's point
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Young on September 04, 2016, 10:12:00 PM
Quote from: Rig's on September 04, 2016, 09:08:47 PM
i'd like permission to beat youngs ass

Fffffffgggggg c'mere

:takeallofme:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Palladium on September 05, 2016, 01:16:06 AM
Quote from: ?nico m?. on September 04, 2016, 09:50:09 PM
(https://scontent-atl3-1.xx.fbcdn.net/v/t1.0-9/14063843_10206869377005299_159536811605679409_n.jpg?oh=e06ca5df86fde375cb6a1dcc40d95625&oe=58466522)



ddddddddddfdssssdddddddddddddsssssss

Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: GRAND on September 05, 2016, 06:11:10 AM
Quote from: ANIMMAI on September 04, 2016, 09:08:47 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on September 04, 2016, 07:14:37 PM
Quote from: Cartier on September 04, 2016, 07:12:03 PM
Yeah can't imagine using my phone without a lock tbh :udontlookok:

I have too much MESS on it
!!!!!!!!
When  someone even wants to see my phone i kinda :everythingok:

I have to damn near be holding it while u do whatever it is u wanna do :dead:

I was showing a co-worker a pic the other day and she swiped a bit and I almost karate chopped the fck outta her

Girl, if you don't sit your nosy ass back  :diddraispoot:
SSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: GRAND on September 05, 2016, 06:12:31 AM
Quote from: Nice Stereo. on September 04, 2016, 09:24:05 PM
what the
mnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: GRAND on September 05, 2016, 06:16:18 AM
Quote from: Meathead_33127 on September 04, 2016, 09:59:59 PM
I didn't post to start a debate. It has nothing to do with being clingy or trust issues. I just honestly feel that we set standards to low and I don't believe in sex outside of a relationship so I guess I'm writing from a deeper perspective..
!!!

Going through someones phone because they nut in you is so deeps.

I get it girl.

Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: SouravMay on September 05, 2016, 06:23:37 AM
I would go through people's phones out of mere curiosity but never tell them or act on any information I might get. It's just really interesting to see how other ppl act in their most private context. To me it is just mere research on human behavior and not symptom for underlying insecurities. If I could I'd rummage through everybody's phone, who seems interesting to me.
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: LOONA. on September 05, 2016, 07:49:00 AM
Quote from: Nice Stereo. on September 04, 2016, 07:02:20 PM
Yeah going thru someone's phone is definitely insecure lol

Not necessarily

Going through your brother or sister's phone would just mean you're nosey. It could very well be the same in a relationship. Some people just don't know how to mind their damn business. I've never gone through someone's phone. IDK I just don't have the desire to.

I like my privacy but I have no problem with someone looking in my phone because there's nothing in there I'm ashamed someone would see.         

Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: LOONA. on September 05, 2016, 07:56:03 AM
And I don't see a problem with with AJ did.

One of my friends avoided a messy ass situation when he found out a guy that wanted to date him was married with kids by checking his phone.       

Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Cowgirl on September 05, 2016, 09:43:22 AM
Quote from: Drais. on September 05, 2016, 07:56:03 AM
And I don't see a problem with with AJ did.

One of my friends avoided a messy ass situation when he found out a guy that wanted to date him was married with kids by checking his phone.       

Beautiful. A little investigation here and there will literally save your life tbh!
:blessed: :blessed: :blessed: :blessed: :blessed:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: leftout on September 05, 2016, 09:58:29 AM
Quote from: Magnolia Maymuru on September 05, 2016, 06:23:37 AM
I would go through people's phones out of mere curiosity but never tell them or act on any information I might get. It's just really interesting to see how other ppl act in their most private context. To me it is just mere research on human behavior and not symptom for underlying insecurities. If I could I'd rummage through everybody's phone, who seems interesting to me.
get ur harriet the fagg spy ass
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: RatherBe on September 05, 2016, 12:33:41 PM
Quote from: Drais. on September 05, 2016, 07:56:03 AM
And I don't see a problem with with AJ did.

One of my friends avoided a messy ass situation when he found out a guy that wanted to date him was married with kids by checking his phone.       

Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: GLOCK on September 05, 2016, 12:45:20 PM
Aj I hope u didn't take my posts the wrong way.. They really wasn't for u.
Trust me
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: RatherBe on September 05, 2016, 01:56:14 PM
Quote from: BOOCHIE MANE on September 05, 2016, 12:45:20 PM
Aj I hope u didn't take my posts the wrong way.. They really wasn't for u.
Trust me
No I didn't!

If I read correctly you were saying that relying on it to tell me everything or constantly doing it was bad. I just took it as a general blanket statement.
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: LOONA. on September 05, 2016, 02:00:07 PM
Quote from: BOOCHIE MANE on September 05, 2016, 12:45:20 PM
Aj I hope u didn't take my posts the wrong way.. They really wasn't for u.
Trust me

Not boochie man

Faggot
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Treasure on September 05, 2016, 02:08:55 PM
Quote from: ?nico m?. on September 04, 2016, 10:02:59 PM
oh shit
gorl i will knock u into nex week
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: GLOCK on September 05, 2016, 02:27:19 PM
Quote from: AJ on September 05, 2016, 01:56:14 PM
Quote from: BOOCHIE MANE on September 05, 2016, 12:45:20 PM
Aj I hope u didn't take my posts the wrong way.. They really wasn't for u.
Trust me
No I didn't!

If I read correctly you were saying that relying on it to tell me everything or constantly doing it was bad. I just took it as a general blanket statement.
yes baby!
I'm not worried anyway! Y'all gone be good
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: GLOCK on September 05, 2016, 02:27:45 PM
Quote from: Drais. on September 05, 2016, 02:00:07 PM
Quote from: BOOCHIE MANE on September 05, 2016, 12:45:20 PM
Aj I hope u didn't take my posts the wrong way.. They really wasn't for u.
Trust me

Not boochie man

Faggot
VVVVVVVBBBBBBBBBBNB

that's me :blessed:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Zankou. on September 05, 2016, 02:34:48 PM
m
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: GLOCK on September 05, 2016, 02:35:17 PM
Quote from: ?nico m?. on September 05, 2016, 02:32:56 PM
ur a top :omgwatshappening:
:omgwatshappening:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: GLOCK on September 05, 2016, 02:36:37 PM
Yes boy fffffffffffffffffffffff
I guess my posts are lil too flaming 💅🏿
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: LOONA. on September 05, 2016, 02:50:15 PM
f

Top of the damn dick you must mean.     

Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: GLOCK on September 05, 2016, 02:57:41 PM
Yeah the top my dick smushed into those graham colored cakes FAGG
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: RatherBe on October 12, 2016, 12:57:18 AM
We did it!! We made it official yesterday!!! Im officially in a relationship!!

we had our first official argument... ill update the thread with that maybe tonight or tomorrow.. but im extremely excited and cant wait to share details with you guys!
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: FINE. on October 12, 2016, 01:00:27 AM
n
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Vonc2002 on October 12, 2016, 01:01:16 AM
Awwww, that's nice. Not our first official argument :plzstop:
Im loving this journey with u mess tho :dead:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: RatherBe on October 12, 2016, 01:09:08 AM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on October 12, 2016, 01:01:16 AM
Awwww, that's nice. Not our first official argument :plzstop:
Im loving this journey with u mess tho :dead:



this is why i said that  :dead:
Quote from: AJ on September 02, 2016, 01:28:06 PM
You guys really got me thinking tho.. I don't wanna wait too long...


My mom always has said.. Don't get in a relationship before your first argument.. And that the first argument will tell you a lot about the person and the potential relationship
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Just Dropped In To See What Condition My Condition Was In on October 12, 2016, 01:12:08 AM
Quote from: FINE. on October 12, 2016, 01:00:27 AM
n
f
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Vonc2002 on October 12, 2016, 01:16:14 AM
Quote from: AJ on October 12, 2016, 01:09:08 AM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on October 12, 2016, 01:01:16 AM
Awwww, that's nice. Not our first official argument :plzstop:
Im loving this journey with u mess tho :dead:



this is why i said that  :dead:
Quote from: AJ on September 02, 2016, 01:28:06 PM
You guys really got me thinking tho.. I don't wanna wait too long...


My mom always has said.. Don't get in a relationship before your first argument.. And that the first argument will tell you a lot about the person and the potential relationship
Well the argument must've proved them solid as a person. Im glad because i was lowkey rooting for you. I'll be here to read the update when u post it. Ur stories are always entertaining :dead:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Heated🔥 on October 12, 2016, 03:22:52 AM
Somebody give me a synopsis.
:diddraispoot:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Eternal Bell on October 12, 2016, 03:46:03 AM
Quote from: Corporate Cannibal. on October 12, 2016, 01:08:12 AM
lol congrats hun!
ddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddecd
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Eternal Bell on October 12, 2016, 03:46:30 AM
i think corp' is kinda jealous of bruv


so ill b tha firs to rlly say..CONGRAT'! =D
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Cowgirl on October 12, 2016, 06:00:39 AM
Quote from: AJ on October 12, 2016, 12:57:18 AM
We did it!! We made it official yesterday!!! Im officially in a relationship!!

we had our first official argument... ill update the thread with that maybe tonight or tomorrow.. but im extremely excited and cant wait to share details with you guys!
:stressed:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Glenda on October 12, 2016, 11:03:52 AM
Yaasss werk
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: GRAND on October 12, 2016, 11:15:47 AM
Aweeee

Is there a sex tape
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Aalonso. on October 12, 2016, 01:51:50 PM
Quote from: AJ on October 12, 2016, 01:09:08 AM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on October 12, 2016, 01:01:16 AM
Awwww, that's nice. Not our first official argument :plzstop:
Im loving this journey with u mess tho :dead:



this is why i said that  :dead:
Quote from: AJ on September 02, 2016, 01:28:06 PM
You guys really got me thinking tho.. I don't wanna wait too long...


My mom always has said.. Don't get in a relationship before your first argument.. And that the first argument will tell you a lot about the person and the potential relationship


ddddd
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Vonc2002 on October 13, 2016, 04:40:34 PM
AJ? :damselindistress:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: GLOCK on October 13, 2016, 04:49:56 PM
Quote from: AJ on October 12, 2016, 12:57:18 AM
We did it!! We made it official yesterday!!! Im officially in a relationship!!

we had our first official argument... ill update the thread with that maybe tonight or tomorrow.. but im extremely excited and cant wait to share details with you guys!
:'(
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: RatherBe on October 13, 2016, 04:58:57 PM
I didn't post because I thought people were making fun of it lol
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Vonc2002 on October 13, 2016, 05:01:06 PM
Boy fck them. U have people trying to emulate ur mess and can't quite pull it off. This thread aint 26 pgs for nothing. We were interested clearly, so go head and post
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Eternal Bell on October 13, 2016, 05:02:01 PM
!!!!!!!!

im rlly happ' for u AJ

Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: GRAND on October 13, 2016, 05:08:19 PM
yeah i wanted to know more too

:diddraispoot:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Zankou. on October 13, 2016, 05:08:56 PM
Quote from: AJ on October 13, 2016, 04:58:57 PM
I didn't post because I thought people were making fun of it lol

who? :uhh:

Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: JRocka on October 13, 2016, 05:21:14 PM
congrats hun
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Vonc2002 on October 13, 2016, 05:22:18 PM
A couple people came in with "f" when he said they were official and he was gonna update. AJ, if u don't post the mess and to hell with everybody else, sicka u
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: GRAND on October 13, 2016, 05:23:36 PM
Quote from: Jay. on October 12, 2016, 01:12:08 AM
Quote from: FINE. on October 12, 2016, 01:00:27 AM
n
f
:udontlookok:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Zankou. on October 13, 2016, 05:24:41 PM
fuck them!

where's the fckin TEA
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: SouravMay on October 13, 2016, 05:25:06 PM
where is the continuation of the story?
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Rxxf on October 13, 2016, 05:29:58 PM
Quote from: AJ on September 01, 2016, 11:34:04 PM
okay so i dont remember when i made the initial thread but.. i told you guys i kinda thought that my barber liked me but i didnt wanna fuck up a good thing because hes a dope ass barber...


well we started hanging out, first with his friends a lot at like bars and sports games...


slowly but surely we started to venture off and hang out by ourselves also. whether it was right before or right after meeting up with his guy friends... the more we hung out and closer we got AS FRIENDS i noticed he became a lot more defensive for me... like no sly or overly rude jokes were to be made about me or if he felt like i would take offensive.. he would NIP it in the bud and i would be like
:ermm: "you aint have to do that.. i can take a joke and if it goes too far i can handle myself." and he would be like "nah, fuck that you my homeboy, and i started bringing you around so imma make sure you comfortable." or something to that extent

so im like  :ohwow: "okay then!" but since he was so hell bent on using the term "homeboy, homie, brodie, etc." i chalked it up as strictly friends and i didnt wanna fuck it up because by this point he was giving me free haircut every now and again... so i was like yeah.. let me chill


but my birthday was at the end of july.. and so he like a week later he asked did i wanna go out because he was out of town the weekend of my birthday.. so i was like cool.. im thinking we were about to go meet up with his boys and drink but we pulled up to the movie theater.. and im like " :uhh: its just me and you?" and hes like "yeah... i really wanna see suicide squad, you dont wanna be here or something" and i was like "no its nothing like that i was just suprised"

*we had a quick convo here about him not being ashamed to be seen in public or hang out with me as if i already didnt know*...

the movies just feels a lot more intimate for two guys that are just friends to be going..but whatev.. we go in.. he buys the tickets... i INSIST on buying the popcorn and drinks because.. yea i just do! lol i bought to separate popcorns *REMEMBER THIS PART*

so all is good, we are like half way through the movie... then he starts getting on his phone alot at this point.. so i think nothing of it because im really into the movie... all of a sudden i get a text saying
"you know you couldve just got one big pop corn and we coulda just shared.. what you think i got cooties or sumn?"
so im straight up looking like at this point:
(http://vignette1.wikia.nocookie.net/glee/images/b/bd/Cutie_smirk_santana.gif/revision/latest?cb=20130217215357)

and i cant help it but i go into complete flirt mode and i text him back and say "lol you probably do...idk!!"
and we both laugh a bit and just started watching the movie again..

~another twenty minutes go by and i get another text but i didnt see him take his phone out so i knew he wasnt the one texting me... so i just was like ill get to it once the movies was over..

Yall!!! he tapped me and was like... "you know your phone went off right" im thinking like "nigga, how you hear my phone on vibrate :uhh:" so im like fuck it ill just check it... but ill do it fast because i was into the movie!! (i like movies :dead:) so i check it and ts from him and it says "would you think it was weird if i asked to hold your hand?"

so on the inside im like:(http://i0.kym-cdn.com/entries/icons/original/000/020/001/krabs.jpg)

but i had to be cool so on the outside im like: (http://www.reactiongifs.com/r/ioA8mSM1.gif)

and i say "ummm.. idk" and he just grabs my hand and holds it..
so now im like fuck the movie, nigga you got my attention! but really i had to play it cool.

so the movie ends and we are headed to go to the bars with his friends.. and we start having a quick convo about what happened in the movie... and hes just saying he didnt know why but he felt compelled to hold my hand and that he feels really close to me.. im not really saying much but an occasional "oh.. wow.. really...aww.. cool." because im trying to play it cool but inside im fucking losing it..
so then we start talking about what i did for my actual birthday night... because he always thinks that i have a bunch a guys that wanna be with me(hes right, but i pay them no mind) so im like "i spent my birthday night lonely as fuck i got no action!"...

so I kid you not... he looks at me like:
(https://media.giphy.com/media/l14qxlCgJ0zUk/giphy.gif)

he immediatley picks up his phone to call his boys and made some bs excuse why we werent meeting them at the bar anymore... im like why you lie to them and say that... and he says hes changing the plans...10 mins late we pull up at his house

...AND THATS WHEN I FUCKING KNEW

long story short.. i ended up getting impaled that night.. ill spare yall the details of that, this is already long enough.

HAPPY BITHDAYS TO ME! :roflmao:


THIS STORY WAS FUCKING EVERYTHING
YES! BITCH!
YOU SLAYED.

:plzstop:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Rxxf on October 13, 2016, 05:35:13 PM
AND UM, I need more
:uhh:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: SouravMay on October 13, 2016, 05:36:53 PM
Quote from: R on October 13, 2016, 05:35:13 PM
AND UM, I need more
:uhh:

there is. He wrote an amazing part 2
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: GLOCK on October 13, 2016, 05:38:51 PM
Yeah Aj
Spill
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Rxxf on October 13, 2016, 05:42:54 PM
Quote from: Magnolia Maymuru on October 13, 2016, 05:36:53 PM
Quote from: R on October 13, 2016, 05:35:13 PM
AND UM, I need more
:uhh:

there is. He wrote an amazing part 2

Ch.. I'm going thru the thread, someone link me
:dead:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: RatherBe on October 13, 2016, 06:55:49 PM
I'm gonna update.. I'm just really busy and can't concentrate enough to get all the details out the way I usually do.
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: RatherBe on October 14, 2016, 03:57:22 AM
so like 3wks ago me and Matt got into a argument.

at this point we were definitely more than friends and fck buddies. he had stuff at my apartment and i had things at his place also..

so one day, i believe it was a Wednesday or Thursday,he told me to be dressed by a certain time, he was coming to get me and we were going out to dinner. So im nervous because he wasnt giving me any detail and usually when he gets like this he has something tricky up his sleeve... but still excited.

so im tryin to dress for anything. didnt want to be too dressy or too casual. so i end up putting on a nice dress shirt and nice fitted jeans. he picks me up like 20mins late... i shouldve known then something wasnt quite right because he's EXTREMELY punctual. so i get in the car and he looks frustrated.

i ask..."so now that im dressed and in the car, can you tell me where we are going?" trying to break the ice or start a convo.. i felt awkward.
he takes this huge breath like ive annoyed him(https://i.kinja-img.com/gawker-media/image/upload/s--t2KyJA8j--/692589421628868424.gif) and is like "no, just sit back and ride. thanks."
now usually, hes sarcastic and i was waiting for him to add a smirk or comedic relief to lighten that statement. didnt happen.

so im trying to hold my inner Tasmanian Devil in at this point: (https://media.giphy.com/media/cXzCCUYwnReVO/giphy.gif)

and im just like ok, ill give him a minute. obviously hes had a day and rather than try to dig to find out now, potentially aggravating him even more before dinner.. i just chilled out

the car ride was like 15 mins and aside from the radio, it was extremely quiet.

we finally pull up to Cheesecake Factory and im actually happy because i hadnt been there in a minute.
walk in and he tells the host that he has a reservation for 5. so im trying to figure out who's coming. we go sit and its just us two waiting for the other three and its still quiet. Now, im starting to get annoyed and its getting harder and harder to hold my tongue. so i just say.. "is there something wrong? did i upset you or something, because if this was how you were gonna act all night you couldve left me at home and i couldve ordered Chinese food."

hes looking at me like he wants to curse me out. im wishing he would try it. but all he says is "Yo, will you chill out?"

so to contain myself i get up and go to bathroom. im in the bathroom trying to make sure im not overreacting because I had NEVER seen him act like the way he was...so im trying to get my attitude together. i was in there for like 10 mins.. i go out to the table and theres two ladies and a man there. NEVER seen them before.

i get to the table. introduce myself. and the first lady who is older is like "Hi Nice to me you. Im ____, His mom.. this is his sister,___ and his dad,___.

(https://media.tenor.co/images/87c2a55f05fe4fa12b4730d7201f0f09/raw)

i give the two ladies hugs and shake the dads hand. then sit down.

the sister's older than us and was like "we've heard so much about you! nice to finally meet you!" so i say "Well i hope that its been good things youve heard. and likewise."

we're just having a general conversation at this point.. he seems to be easing up a bit so im like thank god.

finally. the mom asks (she was a sweetheart) if you dont mind me asking, do you date guys?
his dad is sitting there like: (https://media1.giphy.com/media/MsWnkCVSXz73i/200_s.gif)
his sister:(https://media1.popsugar-assets.com/files/thumbor/07SFw-xNAyyvdTUvAA1gITRHFKE/fit-in/1024x1024/filters:format_auto-!!-:strip_icc-!!-/2015/02/20/833/n/1922398/65b72eca5248522e_Zkhw1/i/Funny-Rihanna-GIFs.gif)
me:(http://www.totalprosports.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/12/david-stern-water.gif)
him:(http://66.media.tumblr.com/d37426d10cf1fcabade87bf618b34fe3/tumblr_nd3c8egKDL1tq9q5vo1_400.gif)

so idk how to answer because idk how much hes told them about me and if hes told them anything about us... i didnt wanna give him away i felt like that should be a convo that he should have with them

so i just answer truthfully.. i said "yes mam. i do."

she then asks.. "do you like my son?" and at this point EVERYTHING becomes a fckn blur.. she was so sweet but very inquisitive, she just kept going mostly all dinner long... and i was waiting on him to step in a be the over protective asshole he usual is... but that guy didnt show up to this dinner.. i felt like he left me hanging... but i got through it (no thanks to him)

so dinners over... im pissed, i pack up most of my food (lost my appetite) i pay for my food and tell him im gonna step outside to take a phone call while they were still at the table talking... but i really just didnt want to sit there and risk getting asked more questions.

as im outside they all come out as they are walking to their car and they give me a hug and say "nice to finally meet you"

me and him get in the car. im livid.. im not saying anything, i just want him to drop me off at home.

this nigger decides he feels like being social now, cracking jokes, tickling etc

im not amused or moved by any of it (http://straightfromthea.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/tumblr_inline_mr2ursk2Ls1qz4rgp.gif)

so hes like "whats up with you?" i say something like "the same thing that was wrong with you earlier"
idk what he did or said at this point because i noticed that we were pulling up to his house and i was NOT expecting that... i JUST KNEW he did not think i was staying at his place after this.

so i go in and sit down on the couch trying to weigh in my mind if im overeating or not and he says "im gonna go hop in the shower, you wanna find a movie for us to watch when i get out?

(https://media.giphy.com/media/vV0arHQScnxMk/giphy.gif)
"ummmm.... i aint gon be here when you get out the shower, im goin home!"

he starts playing stupid. "WHHAATT? Why you acting like that? Fuck is wrong with you right now!?"

so remeber that Tasmanian devil i was trying to keep caged, well.... (https://media.giphy.com/media/LkMja2OMTYE1i/200.gif)

i unleashed everything... i told him how i thought it was kinda fucked up for him to suprise invite his parents, catching me completely off guard and then to sit there and let his mom tear me apart with questions why he sat in lala land.. any other time hes fckn superman, lastly i told him he was acting like a lil bitch and if i wanted to deal with some shit like this i could have gave into another nigga who  was ctually out

lol my mistake...
after i said that, him: (http://mrwgifs.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/11/Angry-Bruce-Banner-Transforms-Into-The-Hulk-In-The-Avengers.gif)

tbh, i was turned on.. but i wasnt letting him know that or backing the fuck down... we're yelling over each other, nothings getting accomplished.

so i finally say "i just wanna go home! i dont wanna be here anymore!" and he says hes not taking me until we get to the bottom of it. so i just order an uber... when it pulls up i go outside to get in the car he comes to his front door and says "if you leave now, dont worry about coming back" i turned around and told him he had me fucked up... and got in the car and left... i got home and he tried calling like 2hrs later.. i ignored it he called like up until 4am and then i guess he fell asleep because the calls just stopped :kii: then 4 or 5 days went by and we hadnt spoken

longest 5 days of my fckn life.. i missed him so much. but im a prideful person. especially when i know im right.. dont hold your breath thinking im gonna come to you or try to resolve with you... ill just deal with the shit until i dont feel it anymore (i know, its bad.. its something ive got to work on)

so yea hadnt spoke with him for a min on the last day.. he stopped by my job on my lunch and was like can we go sit down and talk.. if you say dont want to, i wont bother you again... so i was trying to act
like i didnt want to but inside i didnt want to lose him...

its the prideful bitch in me, im working on it SORRY! (https://m.popkey.co/05a911/ZDwNl.gif)

so i give in and we go to a little coffee shop and sit to talk. he starts telling me that he had a rough day that day and he was planning on coming out to his family that night, so he was nervous and anxious but when he got to the table he froze up and didnt do what he planned to do...i told him that even if that was his plan it was still bogus to not let me in on it.. or give me a heads up because i was blindsided... he said he wanted it to be a surprise and that he thought it would make me happy. i made sure to explain to him that i was happy ans supportive in his choice if he was ready but just would like a heads up in dire situations like that and for him to not be an ass... he agreed and apologized for everything.. i apologized for blowing up and the whole "OUT" comment i made at his place. he gave me a hug and started telling me how hard the past couple of days were without us speaking or seeing each other and for the first time he told me he loved me. thats it.
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: FRANCE on October 14, 2016, 04:04:12 AM
and? AND?

(http://gifsec.com/wp-content/uploads/GIF/2014/07/regina-hall-popcorn-gif.gif?gs=a)
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Vonc2002 on October 14, 2016, 04:15:30 AM
Quote from: Francois Lite on October 14, 2016, 04:04:12 AM
and? AND?

(http://gifsec.com/wp-content/uploads/GIF/2014/07/regina-hall-popcorn-gif.gif?gs=a)
sdddddddddddddddddddddsds
!!!!!!!!!!!!
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: GRAND on October 14, 2016, 04:16:59 AM
Was it his family or friends

:gorlonfire:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Gilgamesh. on October 14, 2016, 04:22:25 AM
nigga i want MOAH
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Vonc2002 on October 14, 2016, 04:35:32 AM
Im crying at hold in my inner tasmanian devil. Something like that would've been a real test for me :dead:
no, sit back n ride. thanks
Uhhh, scuse me  :uhh:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: RatherBe on October 14, 2016, 05:24:16 AM
sorry guys i accidentally hit post while i was still writing... the rest of the story is in this quote
Quote from: AJ on October 14, 2016, 03:57:22 AM
so like 3wks ago me and Matt got into a argument.

at this point we were definitely more than friends and fck buddies. he had stuff at my apartment and i had things at his place also..

so one day, i believe it was a Wednesday or Thursday,he told me to be dressed by a certain time, he was coming to get me and we were going out to dinner. So im nervous because he wasnt giving me any detail and usually when he gets like this he has something tricky up his sleeve... but still excited.

so im tryin to dress for anything. didnt want to be too dressy or too casual. so i end up putting on a nice dress shirt and nice fitted jeans. he picks me up like 20mins late... i shouldve known then something wasnt quite right because he's EXTREMELY punctual. so i get in the car and he looks frustrated.

i ask..."so now that im dressed and in the car, can you tell me where we are going?" trying to break the ice or start a convo.. i felt awkward.
he takes this huge breath like ive annoyed him(https://i.kinja-img.com/gawker-media/image/upload/s--t2KyJA8j--/692589421628868424.gif) and is like "no, just sit back and ride. thanks."
now usually, hes sarcastic and i was waiting for him to add a smirk or comedic relief to lighten that statement. didnt happen.

so im trying to hold my inner Tasmanian Devil in at this point: (https://media.giphy.com/media/cXzCCUYwnReVO/giphy.gif)

and im just like ok, ill give him a minute. obviously hes had a day and rather than try to dig to find out now, potentially aggravating him even more before dinner.. i just chilled out

the car ride was like 15 mins and aside from the radio, it was extremely quiet.

we finally pull up to Cheesecake Factory and im actually happy because i hadnt been there in a minute.
walk in and he tells the host that he has a reservation for 5. so im trying to figure out who's coming. we go sit and its just us two waiting for the other three and its still quiet. Now, im starting to get annoyed and its getting harder and harder to hold my tongue. so i just say.. "is there something wrong? did i upset you or something, because if this was how you were gonna act all night you couldve left me at home and i couldve ordered Chinese food."

hes looking at me like he wants to curse me out. im wishing he would try it. but all he says is "Yo, will you chill out?"

so to contain myself i get up and go to bathroom. im in the bathroom trying to make sure im not overreacting because I had NEVER seen him act like the way he was...so im trying to get my attitude together. i was in there for like 10 mins.. i go out to the table and theres two ladies and a man there. NEVER seen them before.

i get to the table. introduce myself. and the first lady who is older is like "Hi Nice to me you. Im ____, His mom.. this is his sister,___ and his dad,___.

(https://media.tenor.co/images/87c2a55f05fe4fa12b4730d7201f0f09/raw)

i give the two ladies hugs and shake the dads hand. then sit down.

the sister's older than us and was like "we've heard so much about you! nice to finally meet you!" so i say "Well i hope that its been good things youve heard. and likewise."

we're just having a general conversation at this point.. he seems to be easing up a bit so im like thank god.

finally. the mom asks (she was a sweetheart) if you dont mind me asking, do you date guys?
his dad is sitting there like: (https://media1.giphy.com/media/MsWnkCVSXz73i/200_s.gif)
his sister:(https://media1.popsugar-assets.com/files/thumbor/07SFw-xNAyyvdTUvAA1gITRHFKE/fit-in/1024x1024/filters:format_auto-!!-:strip_icc-!!-/2015/02/20/833/n/1922398/65b72eca5248522e_Zkhw1/i/Funny-Rihanna-GIFs.gif)
me:(http://www.totalprosports.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/12/david-stern-water.gif)
him:(http://66.media.tumblr.com/d37426d10cf1fcabade87bf618b34fe3/tumblr_nd3c8egKDL1tq9q5vo1_400.gif)

so idk how to answer because idk how much hes told them about me and if hes told them anything about us... i didnt wanna give him away i felt like that should be a convo that he should have with them

so i just answer truthfully.. i said "yes mam. i do."

she then asks.. "do you like my son?" and at this point EVERYTHING becomes a fckn blur.. she was so sweet but very inquisitive, she just kept going mostly all dinner long... and i was waiting on him to step in a be the over protective asshole he usual is... but that guy didnt show up to this dinner.. i felt like he left me hanging... but i got through it (no thanks to him)

so dinners over... im pissed, i pack up most of my food (lost my appetite) i pay for my food and tell him im gonna step outside to take a phone call while they were still at the table talking... but i really just didnt want to sit there and risk getting asked more questions.

as im outside they all come out as they are walking to their car and they give me a hug and say "nice to finally meet you"

me and him get in the car. im livid.. im not saying anything, i just want him to drop me off at home.

this nigger decides he feels like being social now, cracking jokes, tickling etc

im not amused or moved by any of it (http://straightfromthea.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/tumblr_inline_mr2ursk2Ls1qz4rgp.gif)

so hes like "whats up with you?" i say something like "the same thing that was wrong with you earlier"
idk what he did or said at this point because i noticed that we were pulling up to his house and i was NOT expecting that... i JUST KNEW he did not think i was staying at his place after this.

so i go in and sit down on the couch trying to weigh in my mind if im overeating or not and he says "im gonna go hop in the shower, you wanna find a movie for us to watch when i get out?

(https://media.giphy.com/media/vV0arHQScnxMk/giphy.gif)
"ummmm.... i aint gon be here when you get out the shower, im goin home!"

he starts playing stupid. "WHHAATT? Why you acting like that? Fuck is wrong with you right now!?"

so remeber that Tasmanian devil i was trying to keep caged, well.... (https://media.giphy.com/media/LkMja2OMTYE1i/200.gif)

i unleashed everything... i told him how i thought it was kinda fucked up for him to suprise invite his parents, catching me completely off guard and then to sit there and let his mom tear me apart with questions why he sat in lala land.. any other time hes fckn superman, lastly i told him he was acting like a lil bitch and if i wanted to deal with some shit like this i could have gave into another nigga who  was ctually out

lol my mistake...
after i said that, him: (http://mrwgifs.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/11/Angry-Bruce-Banner-Transforms-Into-The-Hulk-In-The-Avengers.gif)

tbh, i was turned on.. but i wasnt letting him know that or backing the fuck down... we're yelling over each other, nothings getting accomplished.

so i finally say "i just wanna go home! i dont wanna be here anymore!" and he says hes not taking me until we get to the bottom of it. so i just order an uber... when it pulls up i go outside to get in the car he comes to his front door and says "if you leave now, dont worry about coming back" i turned around and told him he had me fucked up... and got in the car and left... i got home and he tried calling like 2hrs later.. i ignored it he called like up until 4am and then i guess he fell asleep because the calls just stopped :kii: then 4 or 5 days went by and we hadnt spoken

longest 5 days of my fckn life.. i missed him so much. but im a prideful person. especially when i know im right.. dont hold your breath thinking im gonna come to you or try to resolve with you... ill just deal with the shit until i dont feel it anymore (i know, its bad.. its something ive got to work on)

so yea hadnt spoke with him for a min on the last day.. he stopped by my job on my lunch and was like can we go sit down and talk.. if you say dont want to, i wont bother you again... so i was trying to act
like i didnt want to but inside i didnt want to lose him...

its the prideful bitch in me, im working on it SORRY! (https://m.popkey.co/05a911/ZDwNl.gif)

so i give in and we go to a little coffee shop and sit to talk. he starts telling me that he had a rough day that day and he was planning on coming out to his family that night, so he was nervous and anxious but when he got to the table he froze up and didnt do what he planned to do...i told him that even if that was his plan it was still bogus to not let me in on it.. or give me a heads up because i was blindsided... he said he wanted it to be a surprise and that he thought it would make me happy. i made sure to explain to him that i was happy ans supportive in his choice if he was ready but just would like a heads up in dire situations like that and for him to not be an ass... he agreed and apologized for everything.. i apologized for blowing up and the whole "OUT" comment i made at his place. he gave me a hug and started telling me how hard the past couple of days were without us speaking or seeing each other and for the first time he told me he loved me. thats it.
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: FlowerBomb on October 14, 2016, 05:46:12 AM
ACK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Vonc2002 on October 14, 2016, 05:53:57 AM
Omg :plzstop:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: FlowerBomb on October 14, 2016, 05:54:46 AM
AJ does he still cut your hair?
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: RatherBe on October 14, 2016, 05:56:04 AM
Quote from: COCO on October 14, 2016, 05:54:46 AM
AJ does he still cut your hair?
yes
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Vonc2002 on October 14, 2016, 06:00:21 AM
This is really nice to me awwwww :stressed:
Look, im petty too cause i didn't take issue with ANYTHING u did :plzstop:
:nowgorl:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Vonc2002 on October 14, 2016, 06:01:09 AM
Quote from: COCO on October 14, 2016, 05:54:46 AM
AJ does he still cut your hair?
I was wondering this too for some random reason
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: RatherBe on October 14, 2016, 06:05:45 AM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on October 14, 2016, 06:00:21 AM
This is really nice to me awwwww :stressed:
Look, im petty too cause i didn't take issue with ANYTHING u did :plzstop:
:nowgorl:
good!!! I'm not as crazy as I thought :plzstop:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Vonc2002 on October 14, 2016, 06:10:41 AM
Quote from: AJ on October 14, 2016, 06:05:45 AM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on October 14, 2016, 06:00:21 AM
This is really nice to me awwwww :stressed:
Look, im petty too cause i didn't take issue with ANYTHING u did :plzstop:
:nowgorl:
good!!! I'm not as crazy as I thought :plzstop:
Not at all. I thought u handled urself pretty well all things considered. I definitely wouldve been very respectful to the parentals but been BOILING on the inside. That was pretty inconsiderate. Im glad y'all ironed things out tho, that's wassup.
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Eternal Bell on October 14, 2016, 06:14:27 AM
awww its so nice yall two mades up bruv

he was def' fckin wrong & im glad he see tht now
u handled tha situation perfecly tho
communication is alway key!

btw, hope my thread doesnt take 'way frm urs!
my life jus been so craz' gorl! lols =3
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Vonc2002 on October 14, 2016, 06:16:53 AM
Quote from: Tinker Hell on October 14, 2016, 06:14:27 AM

btw, hope my thread doesnt take 'way frm urs!
my life jus been so craz' gorl! lols =3
sdddddddddddddddddd
It didn't. Luv ur fables tho
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: FlowerBomb on October 14, 2016, 06:23:42 AM
Quote from: AJ on October 14, 2016, 05:56:04 AM
Quote from: COCO on October 14, 2016, 05:54:46 AM
AJ does he still cut your hair?
yes
:wellheythere:
that's..sexy
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Gilgamesh. on October 14, 2016, 06:25:51 AM
He was dead-ass wrong for setting you up like that.

So wait, what was the Dad's and sister's reaction?
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: SouravMay on October 14, 2016, 06:44:36 AM
Omg let me get tf in

Best romance story on Bsource for sure
:receipts: :stressed:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: leftout on October 14, 2016, 06:46:44 AM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on October 14, 2016, 06:10:41 AM
Quote from: AJ on October 14, 2016, 06:05:45 AM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on October 14, 2016, 06:00:21 AM
This is really nice to me awwwww :stressed:
Look, im petty too cause i didn't take issue with ANYTHING u did :plzstop:
:nowgorl:
good!!! I'm not as crazy as I thought :plzstop:
Not at all. I thought u handled urself pretty well all things considered. I definitely wouldve been very respectful to the parentals but been BOILING on the inside. That was pretty inconsiderate. Im glad y'all ironed things out tho, that's wassup.
you wouldn't have just talked it over in the car ride home? why go home with him if you were just gonna be unresponsive and call an uber home anyway? :damselindistress: :butim16robert:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: leftout on October 14, 2016, 06:47:30 AM
but who is Lis to pass judgement? hell, if vonc thinks it's okay :cheerup:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Vonc2002 on October 14, 2016, 06:52:54 AM
Quote from: Damnation on October 14, 2016, 06:46:44 AM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on October 14, 2016, 06:10:41 AM
Quote from: AJ on October 14, 2016, 06:05:45 AM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on October 14, 2016, 06:00:21 AM
This is really nice to me awwwww :stressed:
Look, im petty too cause i didn't take issue with ANYTHING u did :plzstop:
:nowgorl:
good!!! I'm not as crazy as I thought :plzstop:
Not at all. I thought u handled urself pretty well all things considered. I definitely wouldve been very respectful to the parentals but been BOILING on the inside. That was pretty inconsiderate. Im glad y'all ironed things out tho, that's wassup.
you wouldn't have just talked it over in the car ride home? why go home with him if you were just gonna be unresponsive and call an uber home anyway? :damselindistress: :butim16robert:
But did u read, the guy took him to his place. His intention was to go home. How the hell u gon blindside ol boy with this whole scenario and then act like everything is cool and oh, pick out a movie
Nah he was owed an apology and im glad he stood his ground. U have to teach people how to treat u and if he had let this shit slide or shrug it off, that's setting a precedent for things to come.
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: leftout on October 14, 2016, 06:54:10 AM
that couldn't have been discussed in the car ride home? :ohwow:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Vonc2002 on October 14, 2016, 06:59:50 AM
Well he was pissed. Ur not always in a mood to discuss RIGHT then and there. From the sounds of it he wanted to just go home and probably deal with it later. Shit hit the fan when ol boy took it upon himself to bring him back to his house and that's when he was forced to just say wtf he felt. And then had the nerve to say "if u leave don't bother coming back" da FCK? :uhh:
Cause u pulled some bullshit and im not just cool with it? Yea, AJ handled himself well IMO
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: leftout on October 14, 2016, 07:02:54 AM
you should probs get better control of your emotions then, vonc
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Vonc2002 on October 14, 2016, 07:03:21 AM
Ok :dead:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: FlowerBomb on October 14, 2016, 07:04:24 AM
 :plzstop:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: leftout on October 14, 2016, 07:04:38 AM
& after you do that, take this L
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: GRAND on October 14, 2016, 07:25:59 AM
v

His parents know.

If they didn't before they knew then.
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: GRAND on October 14, 2016, 07:28:33 AM
Quote from: Damnation on October 14, 2016, 07:04:38 AM
& after you do that, take this L
bvvvvvv
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: GRAND on October 14, 2016, 07:29:19 AM
Glad you guys resolved it though

Btw can I get a hookup on a haircut LOL

Tell him I'm your bsource gorl
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Demm_ on October 14, 2016, 07:32:04 AM
Aj....you better tell these stories!!!
What kinda Eric Jerome Dickey?!?
(http://i39.tinypic.com/207rmds.jpg)
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Zankou. on October 14, 2016, 07:36:22 AM
Chhhhhhhh when you walked back to the table and he introduced the 3 guests as his parents I woulda started swinging
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Demm_ on October 14, 2016, 07:40:17 AM
But, I respect your honesty. When Mother wouldve asked me if I liked dudes and her son, I would have lied...

(http://i40.tinypic.com/20ic1v5.jpg)
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Freemala Harris on October 14, 2016, 08:08:32 AM
I admire your tenacity.

I would have walked owt if a nigga just surprised his family on me w/o any prior warning. No ma'am.  :overit:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: FlowerBomb on October 14, 2016, 08:09:26 AM
Quote from: Demm_ on October 14, 2016, 07:40:17 AM
But, I respect your honesty. When Mother wouldve asked me if I liked dudes and her son, I would have lied...

(http://i40.tinypic.com/20ic1v5.jpg)
!!!!!!
The LOOKS I would have gave my partner :dead:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: FRANCE on October 14, 2016, 09:22:01 AM
Yeah, he was wrong for not telling you. On the flip side, his intention wasnt bad. He was just trying to come out the best way he knew how. The idea was just fucking terrible. But its a good thing u left and didnt talk to him for a few days cause that time apart really allowed both of u to analyze ur feelings for each other. Well with him, only took 2hrs. Lol. Why niggas and bitches always do that? "U'll never hear from me ever again." Then they stay blowing up ur phone and post subliminals all over social media :uhh:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: GLOCK on October 14, 2016, 10:47:20 AM
This was everything.
Relationships can be so hard..
I get what he was trying to do but he kinda just threw u to the wolves smh
He def in a sense came out to them but still he should've told u so u could've been prepared and been more of a support to him
I'm happy y'all worked thru this tho.
That's what matters most


I'm so happy you guys have made it official
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Kurama on October 14, 2016, 10:56:30 AM
Quote from: Nice Stereo. on October 14, 2016, 07:36:22 AM
Chhhhhhhh when you walked back to the table and he introduced the 3 guests as his parents I woulda started swinging

dfdfdffd


Aj, this was really cute tho! Im a fan of you two!
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: RatherBe on October 14, 2016, 01:12:47 PM
Quote from: Gilgamesh. on October 14, 2016, 06:25:51 AM
He was dead-ass wrong for setting you up like that.

So wait, what was the Dad's and sister's reaction?
The dad just let the mom do all the talking.. he wasn't rude or anything but you can tell he wasn't like big on getting answers to that type of stuff... his sister was more interested.. his fam was very nice tho.. they all gave me a hug on the way out, lol even the dad gave me a lil "hood shake up hug" so I don't THINK he was repulsed.
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: RatherBe on October 14, 2016, 01:20:35 PM
Quote from: Damnation on October 14, 2016, 06:46:44 AM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on October 14, 2016, 06:10:41 AM
Quote from: AJ on October 14, 2016, 06:05:45 AM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on October 14, 2016, 06:00:21 AM
This is really nice to me awwwww :stressed:
Look, im petty too cause i didn't take issue with ANYTHING u did :plzstop:
:nowgorl:
good!!! I'm not as crazy as I thought :plzstop:
Not at all. I thought u handled urself pretty well all things considered. I definitely wouldve been very respectful to the parentals but been BOILING on the inside. That was pretty inconsiderate. Im glad y'all ironed things out tho, that's wassup.
you wouldn't have just talked it over in the car ride home? why go home with him if you were just gonna be unresponsive and call an uber home anyway? :damselindistress: :butim16robert:
Hey, so I thought he was gonna drop me off at home. Given the situation and the attitude he displayed, I didn't think he wanted to be bothered with me enough for me to spend the night.. when he started joking and mess, I was already in the car.

I didn't want to talk about it right then because I was extremely pissed and I know how I get. I don't really think about the weight of my words before I say them when I get to that point.. so I try to stay quiet, digest the situation and then come back when I'm able to MATURELY discuss my feelings like a grown up. I know myself, and that's how I choose to handle situations when I get to that point. He kinda didn't leave me room for that when we pulled up to his house. I called an uber because he said he wasn't taking me home. And I knew, even now I'm happy I did because there is no telling what i would've said if I stayed there trying to talk it out. I could've said something that I would've not been able to come back from.
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Opposites Attract. on October 14, 2016, 01:28:49 PM
Quote from: Freeruu on October 14, 2016, 08:08:32 AM
I admire your tenacity.

I would have walked owt if a nigga just surprised his family on me w/o any prior warning. No ma'am.  :overit:

!!!!!!!!

But AJ is just like me. Never let them see you sweat publicly but once you get behind closed doors, show your fucking ass.
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Vonc2002 on October 14, 2016, 01:43:27 PM
Quote from: AJ on October 14, 2016, 01:20:35 PM
Quote from: Damnation on October 14, 2016, 06:46:44 AM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on October 14, 2016, 06:10:41 AM
Quote from: AJ on October 14, 2016, 06:05:45 AM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on October 14, 2016, 06:00:21 AM
This is really nice to me awwwww :stressed:
Look, im petty too cause i didn't take issue with ANYTHING u did :plzstop:
:nowgorl:
good!!! I'm not as crazy as I thought :plzstop:
Not at all. I thought u handled urself pretty well all things considered. I definitely wouldve been very respectful to the parentals but been BOILING on the inside. That was pretty inconsiderate. Im glad y'all ironed things out tho, that's wassup.
you wouldn't have just talked it over in the car ride home? why go home with him if you were just gonna be unresponsive and call an uber home anyway? :damselindistress: :butim16robert:
Hey, so I thought he was gonna drop me off at home. Given the situation and the attitude he displayed, I didn't think he wanted to be bothered with me enough for me to spend the night.. when he started joking and mess, I was already in the car.

I didn't want to talk about it right then because I was extremely pissed and I know how I get. I don't really think about the weight of my words before I say them when I get to that point.. so I try to stay quiet, digest the situation and then come back when I'm able to MATURELY discuss my feelings like a grown up. I know myself, and that's how I choose to handle situations when I get to that point. He kinda didn't leave me room for that when we pulled up to his house. I called an uber because he said he wasn't taking me home. And I knew, even now I'm happy I did because there is no telling what i would've said if I stayed there trying to talk it out. I could've said something that I would've not been able to come back from.
Yea, me being a logical thinking person figured this without u having to say it. U have to spell some things out for some of these fools
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: FRANCE on October 14, 2016, 02:17:36 PM
Damn Vonc. :kii: But I agree.
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: JRocka on October 14, 2016, 02:52:51 PM
oooh nice AJ..this is so romantic and i'm really happy for you! he's ready to come out to his parents for you that's a major move and it shows he's ready to be with you for the long haul...and yes the I Love You moment :ack:
Plus I'm proud of you and how you handled that surprise confrontation with his family...i honestly don't think you're overreacting cause i would acted the same way :dead:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: RatherBe on May 02, 2017, 05:57:16 PM
Quick Update
hey guys bit of an update and maybe a lil story time for ole time sakes nnn later (idk how interesting itll be to yall) but heres kinda whats been going on with us
On the 11th of this Month me and Matt will have made 7months.
-I moved into his place last month
-We're planning to get a dog soon lol
and just being completely honest this is the hardest ive ever worked in a relationship. we both have our flaws for instance from previous relationships and experience, we've come to find out that i can be guarded and stand offish, with him it can be his anger lol (he's NEVER threatened or hit me guys lol so dont worry) but he beats the shit of this punching bag he has in the house and works out when he gets mad.. but we're working on it because he never really communicates why hes mad or whats bothering him... he just explodes sometimes... with this he's also protective i think ive told yall that but the closer we've gotten, its almost too much at times.. where ill literally have to tell him to chill. but hes like that with his mom, sis and dad too.. but still we're working on him chilling out. (they all love me by the way... i call his mom "mama" now and his dad "papa dukes" lol)

hes become very affectionate lol, surprisingly im not the more affectionate one.. ive found out on the inside hes the hugest punk lol he's always under me or doing something cute...(sometimes he does read through the posts on here with me or ill tell him about stuff on here. i think his faves are vonc and pons going back and forth :dead: and he likes the shitlist threads smh)

yeah but overall.. this has been REAL work, its not a fairy tale but i wouldnt change a damn thing nor do i regret anything. i love him, truly do. i wanna spend the rest of my life with him.
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Vonc2002 on May 02, 2017, 06:22:46 PM
Awwwwww, AJ how old are u guys? Moving in has worked out well?  Y'all didn't waste any fckn time and i just know moving in with someone can bring out different parts of their personality. Or moreso that's when u REALLY get to know them
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: RatherBe on May 02, 2017, 06:33:58 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on May 02, 2017, 06:22:46 PM
Awwwwww, AJ how old are u guys? Moving in has worked out well?  Y'all didn't waste any fckn time and i just know moving in with someone can bring out different parts of their personality. Or moreso that's when u REALLY get to know them
im 24 he's 26
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: BigDawg on May 02, 2017, 06:42:57 PM
How nice
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: b7 on May 02, 2017, 06:43:49 PM
reading page one and then the last page ... omf
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Eternal Bell on May 02, 2017, 06:43:52 PM
Quote from: AJ on May 02, 2017, 05:57:16 PM
hey guys bit of an update and maybe a lil story time for ole time sakes nnn later (idk how interesting itll be to yall) but heres kinda whats been going on with us
On the 11th of this Month me and Matt will have made 7months.
-I moved into his place last month
-We're planning to get a dog soon lol
and just being completely honest this is the hardest ive ever worked in a relationship. we both have our flaws for instance from previous relationships and experience, we've come to find out that i can be guarded and stand offish, with him it can be his anger lol (he's NEVER threatened or hit me guys lol so dont worry) but he beats the shit of this punching bag he has in the house and works out when he gets mad.. but we're working on it because he never really communicates why hes mad or whats bothering him... he just explodes sometimes... with this he's also protective i think ive told yall that but the closer we've gotten, its almost too much at times.. where ill literally have to tell him to chill. but hes like that with his mom, sis and dad too.. but still we're working on him chilling out. (they all love me by the way... i call his mom "mama" now and his dad "papa dukes" lol)

hes become very affectionate lol, surprisingly im not the more affectionate one.. ive found out on the inside hes the hugest punk lol he's always under me or doing something cute...(sometimes he does read through the posts on here with me or ill tell him about stuff on here. i think his faves are vonc and pons going back and forth :dead: and he likes the shitlist threads smh)

yeah but overall.. this has been REAL work, its not a fairy tale but i wouldnt change a damn thing nor do i regret anything. i love him, truly do. i wanna spend the rest of my life with him.

awww
we r both wit mens!
:sistas:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: FlowerBomb on May 02, 2017, 07:10:50 PM
 :'(
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Navyman on May 02, 2017, 07:21:38 PM
 :stressed:

That's dope, work it out bro the best way you can.Thats good your not scared of him with the anger issues, that can become very draining.
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Lane Bryant Jumpsuit on May 02, 2017, 07:29:57 PM
lmao
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: RatherBe on May 02, 2017, 07:34:33 PM
Quote from: Tonkaman on May 02, 2017, 07:21:38 PM
:stressed:

That's dope, work it out bro the best way you can.Thats good your not scared of him with the anger issues, that can become very draining.
i mean its not something where i feel im in danger... other than that the same patience he extends to me when im a brat i can extend to him.
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: fedswatchin on May 02, 2017, 08:19:07 PM
what a lovely story
(http://i.imgur.com/81n0UD4.gif)
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: sawayama on May 02, 2017, 08:45:59 PM
Quote from: GLO' on September 04, 2016, 09:39:15 PM
Quote from: Rig's on September 04, 2016, 09:10:20 PM
Quote from: ANIMMAI on September 04, 2016, 09:08:47 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on September 04, 2016, 07:14:37 PM
Quote from: Cartier on September 04, 2016, 07:12:03 PM
Yeah can't imagine using my phone without a lock tbh :udontlookok:

I have too much MESS on it
!!!!!!!!
When  someone even wants to see my phone i kinda :everythingok:

I have to damn near be holding it while u do whatever it is u wanna do :dead:


Girl, if you don't sit your nosy ass back  :diddraispoot:
S;D;D;DDSSS
DSD
D
S
D

WHY do people take it upon themselves to do shit like that  :uhh:  a girl i was doing a play with pulled that shit in the
car a couple years back. "Wow u really love Brandy lmao omg is THAT your .... "


:damselindistress:


dumb bitch
people are so disgusting
I hate nosey ass people
:uhh:

Like why ...
Get ur own damn business
Hate when ppl just scroll thru my phone
This girl ( a friend of mines) that I fcked found some niggas ass pics in my phone once ...
Bitch watched me key in my password
I left my phone for like 3 minutes and this bitch said I know ur code  :uhh:

I said  :uhh:
Opened my phone up and saw she was in the deleted pics section
And I had all his ass pics in there
I just let the shit go.. And she did too apparently .. Fucked her again and she never mentioned it
Nosey bitch

B
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: fedswatchin on May 02, 2017, 08:50:35 PM
glock ur bi?

i've seen it all
(http://i.imgur.com/agYqRGj.gif)
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Lane Bryant Jumpsuit on May 02, 2017, 08:59:20 PM
Quote from: OwnIt on May 02, 2017, 08:50:35 PM
glock ur bi?

i've seen it all
(http://i.imgur.com/agYqRGj.gif)

Lol his sexy points went up a bit

Big dick self
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Vonc2002 on May 02, 2017, 09:01:23 PM
Quote from: OwnIt on May 02, 2017, 08:50:35 PM
glock ur bi?

i've seen it all
(http://i.imgur.com/agYqRGj.gif)
Glock been said that
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: sawayama on May 02, 2017, 09:07:23 PM
Great story  :'(
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Vonc2002 on May 02, 2017, 09:09:02 PM
Quote from: JaySeeJay on May 02, 2017, 09:07:23 PM
Great story  :'(
Wasn't it tho :stressed:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Drogon on May 02, 2017, 09:12:51 PM
Quote from: Young on September 01, 2016, 11:48:57 PM
This was so cute to read lol

Like something out of a book

Awwww this was cute babe

Yeah kinda like those bgc stories...which some are nice
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: sawayama on May 02, 2017, 09:15:59 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on May 02, 2017, 09:09:02 PM
Quote from: JaySeeJay on May 02, 2017, 09:07:23 PM
Great story  :'(
Wasn't it tho :stressed:

Especially since guys tend to be on some dumb shit at this age. It's refreshing to see something genuine like this
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Navyman on May 02, 2017, 09:55:38 PM
Quote from: TheNextLew on May 02, 2017, 08:59:20 PM
Quote from: OwnIt on May 02, 2017, 08:50:35 PM
glock ur bi?

i've seen it all
(http://i.imgur.com/agYqRGj.gif)

Lol his sexy points went up a bit

Big dick self
I wonder how he look, lmao?
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: b7 on May 03, 2017, 12:01:52 AM
Quote from: L0NZ. on September 01, 2016, 11:48:11 PM
no the fuck you won't. not after I read all that shit. keep typing
sfffffffff
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Lane Bryant Jumpsuit on May 03, 2017, 12:10:12 AM
Quote from: Tonkaman on May 02, 2017, 09:55:38 PM
Quote from: TheNextLew on May 02, 2017, 08:59:20 PM
Quote from: OwnIt on May 02, 2017, 08:50:35 PM
glock ur bi?

i've seen it all
(http://i.imgur.com/agYqRGj.gif)

Lol his sexy points went up a bit

Big dick self
I wonder how he look, lmao?

Yea lol
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: GLOCK on May 07, 2017, 12:36:40 PM
Aj!
This makes me so damn happy
It's amazing how communication can be the saving grace of something great
I'm happy for u and him
This is amazing
Regardless of y'all flaws .. it's dope that y'all are able to see them and work towards bettering y'all selves ...
Have your family met him?

I feel snubbed btw :uhh:
How am I not his damn fave :usureuok:

VBNNN jk!
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: GLOCK on May 07, 2017, 12:37:28 PM
Quote from: 1RIG on May 03, 2017, 12:01:52 AM
Quote from: L0NZ. on September 01, 2016, 11:48:11 PM
no the fuck you won't. not after I read all that shit. keep typing
sfffffffff
lonz is a kii  :dead:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: RatherBe on May 07, 2017, 01:01:19 PM
Quote from: GLO' on May 07, 2017, 12:36:40 PM
Aj!
This makes me so damn happy
It's amazing how communication can be the saving grace of something great
I'm happy for u and him
This is amazing
Regardless of y'all flaws .. it's dope that y'all are able to see them and work towards bettering y'all selves ...
Have your family met him?

I feel snubbed btw :uhh:
How am I not his damn fave :usureuok:

VBNNN jk!
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
lol he loves you!! He knows you're the reason we got together..

I think you and MelMel are his faves, he just likes to see Vonc and pons go back and forth on the board. He doesn't really like Afro from when he called home "the help"  :kii:
He's met my mom, aunties and grandma.
I went to his family reunion.. that was gonna be my next "story time"
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: GLOCK on May 07, 2017, 01:05:11 PM
Quote from: AJ on May 07, 2017, 01:01:19 PM
Quote from: GLO' on May 07, 2017, 12:36:40 PM
Aj!
This makes me so damn happy
It's amazing how communication can be the saving grace of something great
I'm happy for u and him
This is amazing
Regardless of y'all flaws .. it's dope that y'all are able to see them and work towards bettering y'all selves ...
Have your family met him?

I feel snubbed btw :uhh:
How am I not his damn fave :usureuok:

VBNNN jk!
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
lol he loves you!! He knows you're the reason we got together..

I think you and MelMel are his faves, he just likes to see Vonc and pons go back and forth on the board. He doesn't really like Afro from when he called home "the help"  :kii:
He's met my mom, aunties and grandma.
I went to his family reunion.. that was gonna be my next "story time"
:stressed:

Ack---a!
My bruv in law! Tell him I said "hi" :gotchafag:

CHNNXBBNNNNNMMM

I can't wait bby. Make sure it's very in detail
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: b7 on May 07, 2017, 03:33:11 PM
Ommmm I'm ready for the next story king
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: RatherBe on May 08, 2017, 05:35:35 AM
Family Reunion Story

Lol so earlier this year.. me and Matt traveled to Natchez, Mississippi for his family reunion.

Hell. On. Earth.


So first Matt asked me if i wanted to go, and i responded with instantaneous, swift, black ass "HELL NO!"... in my opinion i had met the mfs that mattered (parents and sister) and initially that shit didnt go too well. i didnt feel like putting myself in that uncomfortable position and risking our relationship.. so i was like...(https://img.memesuper.com/86c7a53e00221ac46324ff9645d710a9_its-a-no-from-me-its-a-no-from-me-meme_400-300.jpeg)
PERIOD!!
he was going on about how he hadnt been in 3 years and how he really wanted me to go with.. in my head im thinking the following
1.)
(http://38.media.tumblr.com/eda6a9779fd2b28d79edfde816e5c23d/tumblr_inline_nsti3cXKiY1s4aa9f_500.gif)
nigga if you aint been in 3 damn years, whats another year?


2.)
(https://media.giphy.com/media/MsWnkCVSXz73i/giphy.gif)
What about it is so bad that you dont wanna go alone and that you havent been in three years


3.)
(https://media.tenor.co/images/34c475a04ae8ad698a144f9eae0ff69b/tenor.gif)No!


needless to say he was upset..lolz, i was pretty set in my ways about not going until... his mom called and asked me to go.. i think he had her do it, because he knows i cant tell her no, usually (he wants me to put here that, thats not true.) whatever, back to what i was saying.. i was trying really hard to say no, she just was not going for it and she is just sooo sweet. so when we were all at his parent's house a day later, i was asking them more questions about the trip.. "how long was the ride?" "were we all riding together?" "where we were staying?' "did his family know about me and matt, we're they accepting?"  the whole NINE i was not about to get caught slipping this time... so they assure me that its all cool and that me, matt and his sis could ride together because his parents were going down 2 days before.. matt said that we were staying at the hotel and that his sister would probably stay with us and his parents were staying at the family's house.. and he says that the rest of his family is like his parents and sister.. i agree to all of this and im cool... the ride there was LIT.. Matt drove while me and sis drank :plzstop: it was lit.

we got there and went straight to the hotel. called his parents and told them we made it. got food and matt knocked out because he had been driving the whole time. me and baby sis, stayed up watching movies and talking..

next morning was the reunion. we get there and honestly everything felt okay. matts walking around introducing me to people as his "friend" which didnt bother me. every things  going good.. inside the house we meet his granny and she was so cool lol funny as shit too..we're sitting talking to her and matts cousins came in... they do the "long time, so see!!" "stranger" schpeel... grandma chimes in on this... and then she says "hell. i wanted to know who was keeping my baby away from me!"
matt: (https://media.giphy.com/media/yoery5CatB1vi/giphy.gif)
me:(https://images.gr-assets.com/hostedimages/1474117986ra/20556563.gif)
his sister is just giggling...

so one of his cousin is like we about to go play some ball.. you wanna come play or you wanna stay in here with the ladies and gossip..
(http://cdn.skim.gs/images/c_fill,dpr_1.0,h_391,w_695/britney-spears-gif/the-best-side-eye-gifs-to-text-in-every-situation) so im like are you talking to me... hes like yeah.. i know you dont play no ball.. matts smirking because he knows i can play. so matts like we'll do two on two. us against you and whoever... so they thought it was gonna be easy. the first game was close but we lost, so they wanted to bet on the next game, and we beat the hell out of them of course they started talking straight nigga bullshit... calling me princess :kii:, saying i was cheating, saying matt was doing all the work.. which we all knew was a lie. :plzstop: the last game i ended up tripping and scarring up my knee a lil... they were talking trash saying it was time to go inside and sit with the ladies and it was a man's sport. but i wanted to finish even though matt kept asking me if i was sure...  i wasnt bothered by their lil comments but matt was getting mad... i didnt want him to show his ass and fully give himself away so after we won the last game i said i was going inside to ice my knee (some type of bull shit) i forgot what i said.
while we're in the house..me and matt in there talking about what they were saying and im trying to assure him that im fine, the cousin comes in the room where we are and is like "i just came to check on my little princess." i laugh. matt no so much.
matt is looking at the cuz like: (http://thesource.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/02/ye-vogue-10.gif)
it got awkward and silent
the cousin eventually caught the hint and left. i walk towards the bathroom i see matts sister. im talking to her about everything, laughing. the annoying ass cousin walks up again... now im starting to get annoyed and hes like "dont be over here lying..you garbage on the court." so im like "...but you see who won and who lost, right? RIGHT!" so he mustve gotten in his feelings about that because that was the first time that i actually had responded to one of his remarks... and he says "you only wanted to play to touch on some dudes."
Me: (https://media.tenor.co/images/b00797bafe2ea3b0f18529a2abfe3664/tenor.gif) you asked me if i wanted to play, so what does that make y- nvm." and i walk off back outside
now its time to eat... the food was soooo good...me and matt were eating together but i guess at some point when i wasnt looking he got up. i called his phone but it was at the table. so i know he wasnt far. there was this 2 year old that i started playing with and feeding, she really took a liking to me.. her mom was like "i cant believe shes acting like that with you... she usually dont like strangers." so now its like 3 kids and we are all just playing in the yard.. so thats where my focus was.. i hadnt noticed that matt hadnt came back yet. like 20 mins later matt comes out.. and i can tell somethings happened.

he walks up to me and asks real quietly because the kids are there.. "Are you uncomfortable and do you wanna be here?"

i say im fine and hes like are you sure.. while we are talking matts mom and sister come out and matts mom is like "im sooo sorry that happened."

im confused AF.. i just ate good and at this point im having the time of my life running a mini daycare.
matt is like "ma just give me a sec."

im like "whats going on"(https://media.giphy.com/media/AAsj7jdrHjtp6/giphy.gif)
the energy has completely shifted and now everybody is lookin on our direction
so matts sister is like.. "well, hell ill say it! i told him what my cousin said to you in the hallway, i sure tf did!"(https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/originals/e4/54/9f/e4549f501d61a451b199b5f7e574d184.gif)

matts like if you wanna go.. just say so and we can leave right now. i lowkey was ready but i felt bad because matt hadnt seen his grandma in like 3 years (i think that was the main point of the trip and why he wanted to go so bad) i didnt wanna be selfish by saying i was ready to go, so im like no really im fine we can stay. so i continue playing with the kids and matt is either right by me or watching like a hawk to see if anyone comes to say anything to me... about 25 mins go by and the cousin comes out of nowhere i guess one of the kids that were hanging outside with me was his... he comes and picks the lil boy up and tells him he needs to stay with him, mind you the whole day the lil boy has been running around free (i mean it is a family reunion and basically everyone there is family) but now all of a sudden the nigga wants to be dad of the year..


matt sees this and just yells... "THATS IT! Get your shit. We're leaving now, 'fore i break this retarded ass nigga's neck." (i later found out the cousin couldnt read :kii: ...so that was the sting) the cousin obviously heard.. he charges out the house yelling. him and matt are passing words at this point... well really its just the cousin because matt just kept saying real calmly "make me fuck you up in front of these kids.." so i knew matt was about to try to whoop his ass.. so i just say "Okay lets go!" i didnt even wanna argue with matt about staying at this point, it had already gone too far. hes like im about to unlock the door, tell my sister if shes coming with us we're leaving now. i get his sister and we get in the car. matts walking towards the car and at this point im not sure what was said because out of no where matt does a 180 and turns around and is walking back towards the cousin..the cousin pushes matt first and then matt spears the shit out of him.. like some shit you would see in WWE
(https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/originals/97/c6/41/97c6419dcb2b69c3b8621d79668b343f.jpg)
im watching all this but im like SHOOK because everything happened so fast. needless to say by the time i got over there matts dad and some other guys had already broke them up. Matts dad was cursing him tf out for fighting and stooping that low
for the first time i seen matt disrespect his parents.. he looked his dad STRAIGHT in the eye and was like:
(http://www.reactiongifs.com/r/tpdgaf.gif)
so then matt and his dad started arguing.. by this time i knew matt was in a RAGE for him to talk to his dad like that.. so i literally had to drag him to the car... his dad is like "yeah get him, somebody better talk some sense into him."
meanwhile the cousin is limping into the house still talking shit :kii:

finally get in the car and the sister fall asleep on the way to the hotel... me and matt start talking and hes calmed down a little bit but hes still upset. while we are talking i see a tear come down his face and he tries to play it off but i know he was cryin a little bit.. so we pulled up to the hotel and the sister goes up to the room we stay in the car talking.. i think that was the first time that he really got to see that everybody aint as accepting of the lifestyle now that hes IN IT. and i think he couldnt believe he had went that far with his dad..

the next day we went back to the house so he could apologize to his grandma, spend more time with her and say bye to everyone because we were leaving that night. he didnt speak to his dad while we were there but he talked to him on the way home.. me and his sister took turns driving back.. so matt could chill. yea dassit.




















my cousin still is illiterate and broke. -from matt
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Post by: FlowerBomb on May 08, 2017, 06:21:15 AM
Omgggghhhhhhhhh
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: GLOCK on May 08, 2017, 02:16:01 PM
:guys:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Gilgamesh. on May 08, 2017, 02:23:44 PM
I'm halfway through and I'm screaming already ffff
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: GLOCK on May 08, 2017, 02:37:07 PM
Quote from: AJ on May 08, 2017, 05:35:35 AM
im confused AF.. i just ate good and at this point im having the time of my life running a mini daycare.


VBNNNBBNVBNNVVBNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: GLOCK on May 08, 2017, 02:38:59 PM
Quote from: AJso matts sister is like.. "well, hell ill say it! i told him what my cousin said to you in the hallway, i sure tf did!"


x?v
zs
dv
SDv
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DV

yes QUEENS
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: GLOCK on May 08, 2017, 02:41:17 PM
Quote.the cousin pushes matt first and then matt spears the shit out of him.. like some shit you would see in WWE

:guys:

wtf is going awn?
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: GLOCK on May 08, 2017, 02:42:12 PM
Quote from: AJhe looked his dad STRAIGHT in the eye and was like:

IM TURNED on tbh  :uhh:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: GLOCK on May 08, 2017, 02:45:57 PM
zvxv zsvscascsdcscsc


Quote from: MATTmy cousin still is illiterate and broke. -from matt



BOY

zxvxc

ur family is a mess but exactly what wouldve happened at my 'union tbh

xcb
xb


Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Navyman on May 08, 2017, 03:13:01 PM
 :stressed:


If he introduced you as his friend, how did they know you guys we're an item?


Btw Matt slays
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: RatherBe on May 08, 2017, 04:16:17 PM
Quote from: Tonkaman on May 08, 2017, 03:13:01 PM
:stressed:


If he introduced you as his friend, how did they know you guys we're an item?


Btw Matt slays
I think they kinda just assumed. But it was a fair assumption. He introduced me as a friend.. but he didnt act any different than he would if we were home.. he wasn't like kissing and hugging on me.. but idk, you can just tell sometimes when two people are together. So it was fair.. at first I think they just picked up on my mannerisms.. like I've said before, I'm not over the top flamboyant but I'm not trying to hide anything ever so I think initially.. the cousin was just tryna get under my skin. He wasn't expecting Matt to be more bothered than me..
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: FlowerBomb on May 08, 2017, 04:32:29 PM
Quote from: GLO' on May 08, 2017, 02:45:57 PM
zvxv zsvscascsdcscsc


Quote from: MATTmy cousin still is illiterate and broke. -from matt



BOY

zxvxc

ur family is a mess but exactly what wouldve happened at my 'union tbh

xcb
xb
bynyunybnynumunununynynh
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: SouravMay on May 08, 2017, 04:51:27 PM
the cousin sounds like a character lol... glad ur man had ur back
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: LOONA. on May 10, 2017, 09:38:29 AM
Quote from: Tonkaman on May 08, 2017, 03:13:01 PM
:stressed:


If he introduced you as his friend, how did they know you guys we're an item?


Btw Matt slays

I mean who takes a "friend" to a family reunion, especially the type of reunion you gotta travel and stay in rooms and shit for? It was obvious lol.   
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: LOONA. on May 10, 2017, 09:38:53 AM
But what in the madea hell

I hope everything goes over smoothly.     

Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: AIDS on May 10, 2017, 10:01:57 AM
this iconic ass story

:gorlonfire:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: GLOCK on May 10, 2017, 10:17:38 AM
Quote from: Fuck you. on May 10, 2017, 10:01:57 AM
this iconic ass story

:gorlonfire:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Navyman on May 10, 2017, 12:38:42 PM
Quote from: Drais. on May 10, 2017, 09:38:29 AM
Quote from: Tonkaman on May 08, 2017, 03:13:01 PM
:stressed:


If he introduced you as his friend, how did they know you guys we're an item?


Btw Matt slays

I mean who takes a "friend" to a family reunion, especially the type of reunion you gotta travel and stay in rooms and shit for? It was obvious lol.   
Happens all the time in Chicago
:letsmessfag:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Navyman on May 10, 2017, 12:39:58 PM
Quote from: AJ on May 08, 2017, 04:16:17 PM
Quote from: Tonkaman on May 08, 2017, 03:13:01 PM
:stressed:


If he introduced you as his friend, how did they know you guys we're an item?


Btw Matt slays
I think they kinda just assumed. But it was a fair assumption. He introduced me as a friend.. but he didnt act any different than he would if we were home.. he wasn't like kissing and hugging on me.. but idk, you can just tell sometimes when two people are together. So it was fair.. at first I think they just picked up on my mannerisms.. like I've said before, I'm not over the top flamboyant but I'm not trying to hide anything ever so I think initially.. the cousin was just tryna get under my skin. He wasn't expecting Matt to be more bothered than me..
I can see that, glad he held you down. y'all sound like y'all are in it for the long haul
:stressed:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: RatherBe on May 10, 2017, 01:38:58 PM
Quote from: Tahj Zezo. on May 09, 2017, 01:37:54 PM
think cuz wanted to hiddit lolz
his broke ass couldn't afford my conversation  :feelinmyself:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: RatherBe on July 13, 2019, 12:53:05 AM
👀.... its been a while
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Vonc2002 on July 13, 2019, 12:54:38 AM
WOWWWWW!!!!!! This was almost 3 fckn yrs ago 
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: RatherBe on July 13, 2019, 01:01:46 AM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 13, 2019, 12:54:38 AM
WOWWWWW!!!!!! This was almost 3 fckn yrs ago
I KNOOWWWWW... :dead:

Thinking of maybe doing a story time tomorrow.

for the new members if youre interested or if ya just wanna refresh the mess..

Initial story is on PG 1
1st time story is on PG 4
quick update is on PG 30
Family Reunion Story is on PG 32
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: MelMel on July 13, 2019, 01:02:29 AM
fuck them newbies bby 

:wub:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: GLOCK on July 13, 2019, 01:02:47 AM
:gorlonfire:

give us an update 
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: MelMel on July 13, 2019, 01:07:06 AM
Quote from: Xavier on July 13, 2019, 01:04:05 AM
Quote from: MelMel on July 13, 2019, 01:02:29 AM
fuck them newbies bby

:wub:
:guys:
you are my bby sis

I don't think of you as a newbie  :wub: :wub:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: GLOCK on July 13, 2019, 01:08:10 AM
Quote from: MelMel on July 13, 2019, 01:02:29 AM
fuck them newbies bby

:wub:
hcjdjjdjd

Aj feels the same way  :kii:
He's just being nice
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Vonc2002 on July 13, 2019, 01:13:59 AM
Quote from: MelMel on July 13, 2019, 01:07:06 AM
Quote from: Xavier on July 13, 2019, 01:04:05 AM
Quote from: MelMel on July 13, 2019, 01:02:29 AM
fuck them newbies bby

:wub:
:guys:
you are my bby sis

I don't think of you as a newbie  :wub: :wub:
Who gives af what u think of him as
Doesn't negate what he is. Xavier fck dis boy
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: MelMel on July 13, 2019, 01:15:19 AM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 13, 2019, 01:13:59 AM
Quote from: MelMel on July 13, 2019, 01:07:06 AM
Quote from: Xavier on July 13, 2019, 01:04:05 AM
Quote from: MelMel on July 13, 2019, 01:02:29 AM
fuck them newbies bby

:wub:
:guys:
you are my bby sis

I don't think of you as a newbie  :wub: :wub:
Who gives af what u think of him as
Doesn't negate what he is. Xavier fck dis boy
see this is why you win the rudest member award at the Ghannys every damn year because no one asked your opinion on anything.

Black bitch
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: MelMel on July 13, 2019, 01:15:47 AM
Vonc always got to MESS with me
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Vonc2002 on July 13, 2019, 01:16:31 AM
The rudest member isnt an award category
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: RatherBe on July 13, 2019, 01:19:01 AM
Quote from: EXPENSIVE DICK on July 13, 2019, 01:08:10 AM
Quote from: MelMel on July 13, 2019, 01:02:29 AM
fuck them newbies bby

:wub:
hcjdjjdjd

Aj feels the same way  :kii:
He's just being nice
well yeah. :letsmessfag:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: MelMel on July 13, 2019, 01:19:30 AM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 13, 2019, 01:16:31 AM
The rudest member isnt an award category
stfu
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: GLOCK on July 13, 2019, 01:20:33 AM
Quote from: AJ on July 13, 2019, 01:19:01 AM
Quote from: EXPENSIVE DICK on July 13, 2019, 01:08:10 AM
Quote from: MelMel on July 13, 2019, 01:02:29 AM
fuck them newbies bby

:wub:
hcjdjjdjd

Aj feels the same way  :kii:
He's just being nice
well yeah. :letsmessfag:
Kii
:cheerup:
We need a reset on this bitch.. to a previous date tbh
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: MelMel on July 13, 2019, 01:21:51 AM
Quote from: EXPENSIVE DICK on July 13, 2019, 01:20:33 AM
Quote from: AJ on July 13, 2019, 01:19:01 AM
Quote from: EXPENSIVE DICK on July 13, 2019, 01:08:10 AM
Quote from: MelMel on July 13, 2019, 01:02:29 AM
fuck them newbies bby

:wub:
hcjdjjdjd

Aj feels the same way  :kii:
He's just being nice
well yeah. :letsmessfag:
Kii
:cheerup:
We need a reset on this bitch.. to a previous date tbh
!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: b7 on July 13, 2019, 01:23:22 AM
Quote from: AJ on July 13, 2019, 12:53:05 AM
👀.... its been a while
bdbndnfnf biiiiiitch

This iconic mess
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: GLOCK on July 13, 2019, 01:24:36 AM
Quote from: 1RIG on July 13, 2019, 01:23:22 AM
Quote from: AJ on July 13, 2019, 12:53:05 AM
👀.... its been a while
bdbndnfnf biiiiiitch

This iconic mess
remember how this ignited so much mess  :plzstop:

All the stories and shit popping up

Isn't this how lew got started with all his intricate mess?
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: RatherBe on July 13, 2019, 01:29:16 AM
Quote from: MelMel on July 13, 2019, 01:21:51 AM
Quote from: EXPENSIVE DICK on July 13, 2019, 01:20:33 AM
Quote from: AJ on July 13, 2019, 01:19:01 AM
Quote from: EXPENSIVE DICK on July 13, 2019, 01:08:10 AM
Quote from: MelMel on July 13, 2019, 01:02:29 AM
fuck them newbies bby

:wub:
hcjdjjdjd

Aj feels the same way  :kii:
He's just being nice
well yeah. :letsmessfag:
Kii
:cheerup:
We need a reset on this bitch.. to a previous date tbh
!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
these new girls, just won't dew.
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Vonc2002 on July 13, 2019, 01:30:10 AM
Quote from: EXPENSIVE DICK on July 13, 2019, 01:24:36 AM
Quote from: 1RIG on July 13, 2019, 01:23:22 AM
Quote from: AJ on July 13, 2019, 12:53:05 AM
👀.... its been a while
bdbndnfnf biiiiiitch

This iconic mess
remember how this ignited so much mess  :plzstop:

All the stories and shit popping up

Isn't this how lew got started with all his intricate mess?
Isn't this when afro started to get mad and lash out at AJ because he got a boyfriend outta the situation but the cable man never called him back
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: GLOCK on July 13, 2019, 01:30:42 AM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 13, 2019, 01:30:10 AM
Quote from: EXPENSIVE DICK on July 13, 2019, 01:24:36 AM
Quote from: 1RIG on July 13, 2019, 01:23:22 AM
Quote from: AJ on July 13, 2019, 12:53:05 AM
👀.... its been a while
bdbndnfnf biiiiiitch

This iconic mess
remember how this ignited so much mess  :plzstop:

All the stories and shit popping up

Isn't this how lew got started with all his intricate mess?
Isn't this when afro started to get mad and lash out at AJ because he got a boyfriend outta the situation but the cable man never called him back
wha th :guys:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: GLOCK on July 13, 2019, 01:31:10 AM
Yeah it was around the same time 
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Vonc2002 on July 13, 2019, 01:32:00 AM
Quote from: EXPENSIVE DICK on July 13, 2019, 01:31:10 AM
Yeah it was around the same time
sdsddfddffdxzdddzdffdffddffgggggffdfddddf
:plzstop:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Drogon on July 13, 2019, 01:36:27 AM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 13, 2019, 01:30:10 AM
Quote from: EXPENSIVE DICK on July 13, 2019, 01:24:36 AM
Quote from: 1RIG on July 13, 2019, 01:23:22 AM
Quote from: AJ on July 13, 2019, 12:53:05 AM
👀.... its been a while
bdbndnfnf biiiiiitch

This iconic mess
remember how this ignited so much mess  :plzstop:

All the stories and shit popping up

Isn't this how lew got started with all his intricate mess?
Isn't this when afro started to get mad and lash out at AJ because he got a boyfriend outta the situation but the cable man never called him back

:guys:

:omgwatshappening:

Let me dig in a bit !
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: RatherBe on July 13, 2019, 01:43:10 AM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 13, 2019, 01:30:10 AM
Quote from: EXPENSIVE DICK on July 13, 2019, 01:24:36 AM
Quote from: 1RIG on July 13, 2019, 01:23:22 AM
Quote from: AJ on July 13, 2019, 12:53:05 AM
👀.... its been a while
bdbndnfnf biiiiiitch

This iconic mess
remember how this ignited so much mess  :plzstop:

All the stories and shit popping up

Isn't this how lew got started with all his intricate mess?
Isn't this when afro started to get mad and lash out at AJ because he got a boyfriend outta the situation but the cable man never called him back
now this I remember vividly.
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Vonc2002 on July 13, 2019, 01:49:02 AM
:plzstop:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Gilgamesh. on July 13, 2019, 02:00:36 AM
Y'all ain't shit. gggggg

AJ, happy you and King are still together :stressed:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: RatherBe on July 13, 2019, 02:01:20 AM
Quote from: Gilgamesh. on July 13, 2019, 02:00:36 AM
Y'all ain't shit. gggggg

AJ, happy you and King are still together :stressed:
lol well...

something like that. :plzstop:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: b7 on July 13, 2019, 02:01:28 AM
Quote from: EXPENSIVE DICK on July 13, 2019, 01:24:36 AM
Quote from: 1RIG on July 13, 2019, 01:23:22 AM
Quote from: AJ on July 13, 2019, 12:53:05 AM
👀.... its been a while
bdbndnfnf biiiiiitch

This iconic mess
remember how this ignited so much mess  :plzstop:

All the stories and shit popping up

Isn't this how lew got started with all his intricate mess?
bdnndjfncncnc and people questioning the validity of the mess

It was ...  everything. I was so excited for AJ and still am

:ohwow:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Vonc2002 on July 13, 2019, 02:04:44 AM
Quote from: AJ on July 13, 2019, 02:01:20 AM
Quote from: Gilgamesh. on July 13, 2019, 02:00:36 AM
Y'all ain't shit. gggggg

AJ, happy you and King are still together :stressed:
lol well...

something like that. :plzstop:
:thatssowendy:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Gilgamesh. on July 13, 2019, 02:05:59 AM
Quote from: AJ on July 13, 2019, 02:01:20 AM
Quote from: Gilgamesh. on July 13, 2019, 02:00:36 AM
Y'all ain't shit. gggggg

AJ, happy you and King are still together :stressed:
lol well...

something like that. :plzstop:

:gorlonfire:

When is the next story time?
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: b7 on July 13, 2019, 02:06:41 AM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 13, 2019, 02:04:44 AM
Quote from: AJ on July 13, 2019, 02:01:20 AM
Quote from: Gilgamesh. on July 13, 2019, 02:00:36 AM
Y'all ain't shit. gggggg

AJ, happy you and King are still together :stressed:
lol well...

something like that. :plzstop:
:thatssowendy:
now u know what

What in the polygamy is going on over there
:ohwow:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: RatherBe on July 13, 2019, 02:16:50 AM
Quote from: 1RIG on July 13, 2019, 02:06:41 AM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 13, 2019, 02:04:44 AM
Quote from: AJ on July 13, 2019, 02:01:20 AM
Quote from: Gilgamesh. on July 13, 2019, 02:00:36 AM
Y'all ain't shit. gggggg

AJ, happy you and King are still together :stressed:
lol well...

something like that. :plzstop:
:thatssowendy:
now u know what

What in the polygamy is going on over there
:ohwow:
lol matt would kill my ass :plzstop:.. nothing like that
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Navyman on July 13, 2019, 02:23:28 AM
Quote from: AJ on July 13, 2019, 02:01:20 AM
Quote from: Gilgamesh. on July 13, 2019, 02:00:36 AM
Y'all ain't shit. gggggg

AJ, happy you and King are still together :stressed:
lol well...

something like that. :plzstop:
You gotta update :stressed:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: RatherBe on July 13, 2019, 02:24:50 AM
Quote from: Gilgamesh. on July 13, 2019, 02:05:59 AM
Quote from: AJ on July 13, 2019, 02:01:20 AM
Quote from: Gilgamesh. on July 13, 2019, 02:00:36 AM
Y'all ain't shit. gggggg

AJ, happy you and King are still together :stressed:
lol well...

something like that. :plzstop:

:gorlonfire:

When is the next story time?
Quote from: Gilgamesh. on July 13, 2019, 02:05:59 AM
Quote from: AJ on July 13, 2019, 02:01:20 AM
Quote from: Gilgamesh. on July 13, 2019, 02:00:36 AM
Y'all ain't shit. gggggg

AJ, happy you and King are still together :stressed:
lol well...

something like that. :plzstop:

:gorlonfire:

When is the next story time?
im gonna try for later on today.. you know I like details and gifs
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: RatherBe on July 14, 2019, 01:25:05 AM
PART 1

WHEW bitch, its been close to 3 years since this mess initially jumped down.

honestly I stopped posting shit because.... there was no "stories" to tell per say and then also real life started hitting us and I really didnt think we was gonna make it for a while... so I just briefly mentioned him or if he was on my account sometimes he would speak but yeah.... scary times, my love.


As you know from the update part in 2017 like middle of Aprilish, Matt and I moved in together and we got pitbull puppy named "Trix" like in June . Its a boy but I named him after Tricks from the players club...  :dead: one of my favorite movies

anyway, living with Matt was not bad at all. but we decided to move out of his condo which was one bedroom into a 3 bedroom so that we could have more space because the one bedroom was wayyyyy to small for us and the dog.
we got a bigger place in like October and then... Matt got into a car accident and messed up his hands, as you know he's a Barber. so yeah... his income basically stopped. the bills basically fell on me.. which is what really "matured" our relationship, it was after that that I truly realized honeymoon phase was over and we BOTH had to strap up our boots and   work to try and save our relationship. At this time I was in 2 online classes, working 2 jobs & playing counselor to Matt through his recovery. The crazy thing about cutting hair, you don't really realize how cut throat it is until you're unable to work. the income just stopped, some of his clients moved on in his 2 months of recovery and it was just an overall weird phase of cutting back to try and make ends meet. which was not a problem ever before. Matt paid the major bills and his car note and I covered the small bills like light, our cell phone bills & my car note. Matt also took care of the "play" money.. so date money, travel money and just splurge money. we had a good system. but it came tumbling tf downe. even when he started working again, he couldnt cut for as long, and he had to basically build up his clientele again. so I would say we were off track until about April 2018. in this time we were arguing a lot about him feel neglected, but a bitch was busy... I had to make the money, which I had no problem but after working 2 jobs and doing school work 5 days out of the week, my sex drive was low and I didn't really feel like going out for dates... I wanted to sleep more than anything. nigga was really tryna fuck with half functioning hands. :kii: im used to be tossed around and picked up and choked... yeah that shit was on a stand still.. when we did have sex, I had to pull out all my tricks to make it what we was use to. so he was enjoying it but because I was working hard as shit... I like to see him pleasured, I get pleasure out of that but I wasn't getting what I was use to. which wasn't a big deal because I knew the situation but he still wanted to fuck like 2,3 times a week like normal.... as I said a bitch was TIYAAADD. lol so... a man who's ego is bruised from not being able to work, can't have sex as much as he wants, and has to be taken care of for a bit.... equation for disaster lol.

more specifically we got into a huge argument over my coworker, who dropped me off at home.
so lets call the co worker James... James was gay. When I got my newer second job in June 2018 I came home on the like 3rd day and was like....

"BABBBBEE!!! Guess what?!?" (https://media.giphy.com/media/6YCelxMJo0txK/giphy.gif)

matt's nonchalant ass: "Wassup?" -he was watching some dumb ass sports game, so he was paying attention but not fully.-

me: "I have a gay co worker!! I love this job already!! I can't wait to go back tomorrow!"

now he must've heard.. "I have this sexy ass gay co worker, I love his ass! I can't wait to see him tomorrow!" because the tv muted and I look up from my MacBook in the kitchen and this is Matt...(https://media1.tenor.com/images/a503833b05a741e30d7d4092725a915b/tenor.gif?itemid=7395054)

so he like... "what's his name?, what's he like?, do he gotta boyfriend? where he from?"
(https://media1.tenor.com/images/9bd8a082dde76c00a1fb877c536f4bd7/tenor.gif?itemid=11624983)
so I answer the his questions and he got this look on his face like... idk kinda like "This is some new shit, I hope I can really trust you." that's how I read it at least he didn't say much but I basically got what I wanted for the rest of the night so... hey I took it.


fast forward to like July.. I was taking the train to work. so Matt would drop me off at the train then go cut and pick me up at the end of the day. Well this day we were having team meeting/ outing.. so when I found out the plans, I texted Matt to let him know he didn't have to come get me from the train, we were going to a restaurant, I told him when we were finishing up I would call/ text him and he could get me from there... Matt first question, "who all going?" so I told him... originally it me, James, 5 other people from the job. so he was like alright cool. low-key I think Matt was looking for a reason to meet James anyway to kinda scope him out.. he denies but.. I really dont feel like im wrong.

I must have some luck with dinners. because I get there and we sitting down and peoples wives and husbands start coming.. so what I thought was a strict business team meeting, really turned out to be "lets get to know each other outside of work and get fucked up" dinner... so im irritated because as I've said a bitch be TIYYYAADD I would've rather went the fuck home.. I came to the dinner with notes, plans, ideas and all types of other shit to go over and it wasn't that type of party. so James whispers to me.."Did you know they was bringing all these people?" so im like "absolutely not or I would have not been here."
so he say.. "well are you gonna call your guy and tell him to come?"
me: "no, I dont really mix my personal life up with my work life. and ion really think he would be interested in coming now at this point."

cool so we wrapping up and I text Matt. so I told James that I would be leaving soon because my ride was coming.. *I told him this because we were mainly talking to each other because we were the only ones without guest. I didn't know if he was getting picked up or taking transportation, so I told him so that I wouldn't just be leaving him there by himself to be the extra wheel and he could make provisions so we could leave at the same time*

matt texts me says he's outside... so at this point I tell James "okay... im out, ill see you Monday."
im walking to the truck and I thought James was behind me because we were leaving at the same time.... no I went to get in the truck and all I hear is.... "Hi im James nice to meet you!!!" so I turn around and im startled because I thought he was gone from behind me at this point. so im like...'Boy, what the hell"
Matt reaches over and shakes his hand and is like.. "Nice to meet you man! how you liking the new gig?!?"
James: "I love it!! me and my bestie be in there cracking up all day..."

so im lost.... like ohhhh he alluding to me.. idk what's up with that shit, how im just your best friend all of sudden?? we aint had no convo about that :plzstop: Matt laughing cuz he see im lost as fuck..but I let him have it because James is new to town. so im like constantly saying okay ill see you Monday because low-key Matt looked good asf and I was tryna get him home while was still in the mood. lmfao so James like..."oop, where y'all rushing off too?" so I say.. "im tryna spend some time with my nigga." and then I shoot Matt the eyes so he know im with the bullshit tonight.'
James annoying ass gon say..."well you couldve told him to come here for dinner but you said naw.. everybody else had they people here."

so im looking him like...(https://media.giphy.com/media/qKQYjh70EK8zm/giphy.gif)

matt: "ohhh, so this wasn't a business meeting?"

James:"Chile hell nah, we aint talk about shit dealing with that damn company. but I took care of him we was good" *I cringed* cuz im like wtf you mean you took care of me? I paid for my own shit, we only talked but im more than capable of talking to the others

I can tell Matt is annoyed now because its like James was doing too much and trying to allude to us getting close.

on the car ride home we talk about it. and Matt is like.."you dont think its weird that you dont be having time to go out with me but you went out with your colleagues and sorta lied about it."
once I explain to him the situation and acknowledge that I could do better as far as me and him going on dates... he was cool but was just like ..."hold up, then why ol boy explain it like that, why he try to make it seem like you knew the set up before you got there? and what he mean he took care of you, you didn't have enough money for your bill or something" im like... "I have no fucking clue why he said it like that... and I paid for my own stuff so I guess he meant like he made sure I wasn't by myself.. I really dont know."

Matt: yeah, ion like his ass. dont really know what it is but... I aint really feeling dude at all be careful around him. He a lil slippery.

slippery means sketchy.. its some shit Matt and his friends use, dont ask me why... I dont fucking know... but that it for now
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Vonc2002 on July 14, 2019, 01:28:13 AM
BITCH! This surprise release  :gorlonfire:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: ophababes. on July 14, 2019, 01:37:37 AM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on September 01, 2016, 11:44:28 PM
Quote from: AJ on September 01, 2016, 11:34:04 PM


  lol i bought to separate popcorns *REMEMBER THIS PART*


I surely will, illiterate ass


fgghhhhhjjjjjjjjjjj

FUCK vonc
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Vonc2002 on July 14, 2019, 01:39:38 AM
Damn..... I'm really a fckn bitch huh  :unsure:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Navyman on July 14, 2019, 01:40:12 AM
Quote from: AJ on July 14, 2019, 01:25:05 AM
PART 1

WHEW bitch, its been close to 3 years since this mess initially jumped down.

honestly I stopped posting shit because.... there was no "stories" to tell per say and then also real life started hitting us and I really didnt think we was gonna make it for a while... so I just briefly mentioned him or if he was on my account sometimes he would speak but yeah.... scary times, my love.


As you know from the update part in 2017 like middle of Aprilish, Matt and I moved in together and we got pitbull puppy named "Trix" like in June . Its a boy but I named him after Tricks from the players club...  :dead: one of my favorite movies

anyway, living with Matt was not bad at all. but we decided to move out of his condo which was one bedroom into a 3 bedroom so that we could have more space because the one bedroom was wayyyyy to small for us and the dog.
we got a bigger place in like October and then... Matt got into a car accident and messed up his hands, as you know he's a Barber. so yeah... his income basically stopped. the bills basically fell on me.. which is what really "matured" our relationship, it was after that that I truly realized honeymoon phase was over and we BOTH and to strap up our boots and   work to try and save our relationship. At this time I was in 2 online classes, working 2 jobs & playing counselor to Matt through his recovery. The crazy thing about cutting hair, you don't really realize how cut throat it is until you're unable to work. the income just stopped, some of his clients moved on in his 2 months of recovery and it was just an overall weird phase of cutting back to try and make ends meet. which was not a problem ever before. Matt paid the major bills and his car note and I covered the small bills like light, our cell phone bills & my car note. Matt also took care of the "play" money.. so date money, travel money and just splurge money. we had a good system. but it came tumbling tf downe. even when he started working again, he couldnt cut for as long, and he had to basically build up his clientele again. so I would say we were off track until about April 2018. in this time we were arguing a lot about him feel neglected, but a bitch was busy... I had to make the money, which I had no problem but after working 2 jobs and doing school work 5 days out of the week, my sex drive was low and I didn't really feel like going out for dates... I wanted to sleep more than anything. nigga was really tryna fuck with half functioning hands. :kii: im used to be tossed around and picked up and choked... yeah that shit was on a stand still.. when we did have sex, I had to pull out all my tricks to make it what we was use to. so he was enjoying it but because I was working hard as shit... I like to see him pleasured, I get pleasure out of that but I wasn't getting what I was use to. which wasn't a big deal because I knew the situation but he still wanted to fuck like 2,3 times a week like normal.... as I said a bitch was TIYAAADD. lol so... a man who's ego is bruised from not being able to work, can't have sex as much as he wants, and has to be taken care of for a bit.... equation for disaster lol.

more specifically we got into a huge argument over my coworker, who dropped me off at home.
so lets call the co worker James... James was gay. When I got my newer second job in June 2018 I came home on the like 3rd day and was like....

"BABBBBEE!!! Guess what?!?" (https://media.giphy.com/media/6YCelxMJo0txK/giphy.gif)

matt's nonchalant ass: "Wassup?" -he was watching some dumb ass sports game, so he was paying attention but not fully.-

me: "I have a gay co worker!! I love this job already!! I can't wait to go back tomorrow!"

now he must've heard.. "I have this sexy ass gay co worker, I love his ass! I can't wait to see him tomorrow!" because the tv muted and I look up from my MacBook in the kitchen and this is Matt...(https://media1.tenor.com/images/a503833b05a741e30d7d4092725a915b/tenor.gif?itemid=7395054)

so he like... "what's his name?, what's he like?, do he gotta boyfriend? where he from?"
(https://media1.tenor.com/images/9bd8a082dde76c00a1fb877c536f4bd7/tenor.gif?itemid=11624983)
so I answer the his questions and he got this look on his face like... idk kinda like "This is some new shit, I hope I can really trust you." that's how I read it at least he didn't say much but I basically got what I wanted for the rest of the night so... hey I took it.


fast forward to like July.. I was taking the train to work. so Matt would drop me off at the train then go cut and pick me up at the end of the day. Well this day we were having team meeting/ outing.. so when I found out the plans, I texted Matt to let him know he didn't have to come get me from the train, we were going to a restaurant, I told him when we were finishing up I would call/ text him and he could get me from there... Matt first question, "who all going?" so I told him... originally it me, James, 5 other people from the job. so he was like alright cool. low-key I think Matt was looking for a reason to meet James anyway to kinda scope him out.. he denies but.. I really dont feel like im wrong.

I must have some luck with dinners. because I get there and we sitting down and peoples wives and husbands start coming.. so what I thought was a strict business team meeting, really turned out to be "lets get to know each other outside of work and get fucked up" dinner... so im irritated because as I've said a bitch be TIYYYAADD I would've rather went the fuck home.. I came to the dinner with notes, plans, ideas and all types of other shit to go over and it wasn't that type of party. so James whispers to me.."Did you know they was bringing all these people?" so im like "absolutely not or I would have not been here."
so he say.. "well are you gonna call your guy and tell him to come?"
me: "no, I dont really mix my personal life up with my work life. and ion really think he would be interested in coming now at this point."

cool so we wrapping up and I text Matt. so I told James that I would be leaving soon because my ride was coming.. *I told him this because we were mainly talking to each other because we were the only ones without guest. I didn't know if he was getting picked up or taking transportation, so I told him so that I wouldn't just be leaving him there by himself to be the extra wheel and he could make provisions so we could leave at the same time*

matt texts me says he's outside... so at this point I tell James "okay... im out, ill see you Monday."
im walking to the truck and I thought James was behind me because we were leaving at the same time.... no I went to get in the truck and all I hear is.... "Hi im James nice to meet you!!!" so I turn around and im startled because I thought he was gone from behind me at this point. so im like...'Boy, what the hell"
Matt reaches over and shakes his hand and is like.. "Nice to meet you man! how you liking the new gig?!?"
James: "I love it!! me and my bestie be in there cracking up all day..."

so im lost.... like ohhhh he alluding to me.. idk what's up with that shit, how im just your best friend all of sudden?? we aint had no convo about that :plzstop: Matt laughing cuz he see im lost as fuck..but I let him have it because James is new to town. so im like constantly saying okay ill see you Monday because low-key Matt looked good asf and I was tryna get him home while was still in the mood. lmfao so James like..."oop, where y'all rushing off too?" so I say.. "im tryna spend some time with my nigga." and then I shoot Matt the eyes so he know im with the bullshit tonight.'
James annoying ass gon say..."well you couldve told him to come here for dinner but you said naw.. everybody else had they people here."

so im looking him like...(https://media.giphy.com/media/qKQYjh70EK8zm/giphy.gif)

matt: "ohhh, so this wasn't a business meeting?"

James:"Chile hell nah, we aint talk about shit dealing with that damn company. but I took care of him we was good" *I cringed* cuz im like wtf you mean you took care of me? I paid for my own shit, we only talked but im more than capable of talking to the others

I can tell Matt is annoyed now because its like James was doing too much and trying to allude to us getting close.

on the car ride home we talk about it. and Matt is like.."you dont think its weird that you dont be having time to go out with me but you went out with your colleagues and sorta lied about it."
once I explain to him the situation and acknowledge that I could do better as far as me and him going on dates... he was cool but was just like ..."hold up, then why ol boy explain it like that, why he try to make it seem like you knew the set up before you got there? and what he mean he took care of you, you didn't have enough money for your bill or something" im like... "I have no fucking clue why he said it like that... and I paid for my own stuff so I guess he meant like he made sure I wasn't by myself.. I really dont know."

Matt: yeah, ion like his ass. dont really know what it is but... I aint really feeling dude at all be careful around him. He a lil slippery.

slippery means sketchy.. its some shit Matt and his friends use, dont ask me why... I dont fucking know... but that it for now
I'm only a quarter through this and bitch!  :gorlonfire:

Life is really a trip though, not the accident injuring his hands the main source of income. That was a straight test.

And this only part one. Let me finish. :stressed:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Good Morning Gorgeous on July 14, 2019, 01:44:29 AM
 :stressed: When will Part 2 be released!!! I'm just getting caught up on this Brandy Source Series and I'm hooked.  :gorlonfire:

:shannonsmissing: @ your coworker. He definitely sounds suspect. Keep your eye on him.  :watchit:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Navyman on July 14, 2019, 01:45:35 AM
Yeah I don't like James.  :uhh: gotta watch him, seems he tryna get close to one of yall...
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Vonc2002 on July 14, 2019, 01:50:57 AM
Quote from: AJ on July 14, 2019, 01:25:05 AM
PART 1


me: "I have a gay co worker!! I love this job already!! I can't wait to go back tomorrow!"

now he must've heard.. "I have this sexy ass gay co worker, I love his ass! I can't wait to see him tomorrow!" because the tv muted and I look up from my MacBook in the kitchen and this is Matt...(https://media1.tenor.com/images/a503833b05a741e30d7d4092725a915b/tenor.gif?itemid=7395054)

so he like... "what's his name?, what's he like?, do he gotta boyfriend? where he from?"
(https://media1.tenor.com/images/9bd8a082dde76c00a1fb877c536f4bd7/tenor.gif?itemid=11624983)

U be having me HOLLERING  :kii:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: RatherBe on July 14, 2019, 01:53:50 AM
Quote from: mylogistics on July 14, 2019, 01:44:29 AM
:stressed: When will Part 2 be released!!! I'm just getting caught up on this Brandy Source Series and I'm hooked.  :gorlonfire:

:shannonsmissing: @ your coworker. He definitely sounds suspect. Keep your eye on him.  :watchit:
lmfaooo I didn't mean to be dramatic with the whole part 1, part 2 mess. I honestly just got tired of typing and didnt wanna miss details lol.. when it gets to this point I dont even proofread so sorry for typos lol

ill try to do it tomorrow because if I dont do it by tomorrow it'll be hard to get done throughout the week with work.
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: ophababes. on July 14, 2019, 01:58:18 AM
this original story in the OP.... accccckkk

:ohwow: :ohwow: :ohwow:

get 'ick, king !
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: RatherBe on July 14, 2019, 02:00:42 AM
Quote from: the ophelia edition on July 14, 2019, 01:58:18 AM
this original story in the OP.... accccckkk

:ohwow: :ohwow: :ohwow:

get 'ick, king !
im thinking ill put all the updates and page numbers in there.. there's about 5 stories in here lol
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: ophababes. on July 14, 2019, 02:02:30 AM
Quote from: AJ on July 14, 2019, 02:00:42 AM
Quote from: the ophelia edition on July 14, 2019, 01:58:18 AM
this original story in the OP.... accccckkk

:ohwow: :ohwow: :ohwow:

get 'ick, king !
im thinking ill put all the updates and page numbers in there.. there's about 5 stories in here lol

not reading the rest yet, tbh

i feel like they will just depress my single ass asssddddfffffffff
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: b7 on July 14, 2019, 02:08:58 AM
Biiiiiiiitch lemme get in and stan
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Navyman on July 14, 2019, 02:16:18 AM
Quote from: LoveMeNot #MAGA on September 02, 2016, 12:17:56 AM
*tryin to figure out a stor' to tell to tops this*
(https://uploadir.com/u/ofgkjca4)
Why are yall like this
:plzstop: :plzstop:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Navyman on July 14, 2019, 02:23:02 AM
Quote from: Meathead_33127 on September 04, 2016, 09:38:42 PM
I really don't like to post on boards but I just can't contain myself with this convo! Pleas don't allow someone to tell you checking someone's phone who you allowed to enter your body is insecure. That has nothing to do with insecurity.  You are responsible to make sure your dealing with someone who legit! It's not something that you have to do all the time but when you and someone are on that level of intimacy there is no such thing as off limits. I feel sorry for anyone that doesn't feel entitled to know everything about a person who is having sex with you. Personally I feel you could have found a number of things that may have saved your life..but you didn't which is good. All the messages and I miss yous would have been an issue for me but it wasn't  for you but great. As you continue to develop a relationship you should look into stuff and ensure that you are able to trust this person. That's not insecurity that's called knowing your worth and what you want!
!!! A word. I completely understand this today.
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: GLOCK on July 14, 2019, 02:27:22 AM
Bittttt

:gorlonfire:

this is mess 
James is messy a bit.. 

did we find out why they seemed so familiar 
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: RatherBe on July 14, 2019, 02:36:10 AM
Quote from: EXPENSIVE DICK on July 14, 2019, 02:27:22 AM
Bittttt

:gorlonfire:

this is mess
James is messy a bit..

did we find out why they seemed so familiar
well I knew that they didnt know each other because James had moved into town for the job... the most James knew was just that I had a boyfriend and that his name was Matt. lol bu you know how the girls do... they try to act like they know more than they actually do.
Matt was just being nice I guess, which is surprising because he can be a loner and kinda stand offish.. but I guess from that lil interaction Matt knew he didnt like him... and honestly, he was so spot tf on.
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Vonc2002 on July 14, 2019, 02:37:26 AM
Quote from: AJ on July 14, 2019, 02:36:10 AM
Quote from: EXPENSIVE DICK on July 14, 2019, 02:27:22 AM
Bittttt

:gorlonfire:

this is mess
James is messy a bit..

did we find out why they seemed so familiar
well I knew that they didnt know each other because James had moved into town for the job... the most James knew was just that I had a boyfriend and that his name was Matt. lol bu you know how the girls do... they try to act like they know more than they actually do.
Matt was just being nice I guess, which is surprising because he can be a loner and kinda stand offish.. but I guess from that lil interaction Matt knew he didnt like him... and honestly, he was so spot tf on.
Damn I'm ready for the next mess :thatssowendy:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Navyman on July 14, 2019, 02:46:00 AM
Quote from: Demm_ on October 14, 2016, 07:40:17 AM
But, I respect your honesty. When Mother wouldve asked me if I liked dudes and her son, I would have lied...

(http://i40.tinypic.com/20ic1v5.jpg)
:kii: :kii:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: b7 on July 14, 2019, 03:04:13 AM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 14, 2019, 01:28:13 AM
BITCH! This surprise release  :gorlonfire:
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Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Cowgirl on July 14, 2019, 08:29:04 AM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 14, 2019, 01:28:13 AM
BITCH! This surprise release  :gorlonfire:
:gorlonfire:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Cowgirl on July 14, 2019, 08:30:21 AM
Quote from: AJ on July 14, 2019, 01:25:05 AM
James annoying ass gon say..."well you couldve told him to come here for dinner but you said naw.. everybody else had they people here."

so im looking him like...

matt: "ohhh, so this wasn't a business meeting?"

James:"Chile hell nah, we aint talk about shit dealing with that damn company. but I took care of him we was good"
Sorry but James needs to go. He's no good for you at this point in your relationship.
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Cartierline on July 14, 2019, 08:38:37 AM
James sounds annoying. From what you described of him, I don't like him either.
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: FRANCE on July 14, 2019, 08:41:14 AM
Whew!

James is messy as fuck. How u gon walk up to somebody's man and introduce yourself to them like that? Instead of waiting for YOU to do the honours, if you even cared to do that? And all the shit he was sayin. Nah man. Im sure there's a reason why he's "new in town". Bestie? He's the killer!
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: ton on July 14, 2019, 08:42:03 AM
Quote from: Tonkaman on July 14, 2019, 01:45:35 AM
Yeah I don't like James.  :uhh: gotta watch him, seems he tryna get close to one of yall...
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: HUGO on July 14, 2019, 08:46:46 AM
What company is this making y'all pay for your own meals for a work outing?

:diddraispoot:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Cowgirl on July 14, 2019, 08:47:51 AM
Quote from: Hugo on July 14, 2019, 08:46:46 AM
What company is this making y'all pay for your own meals for a work outing?

:diddraispoot:
Sounds like co-workers decided to get together but they misinterpreted as a meeting..
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: HUGO on July 14, 2019, 08:59:35 AM
Quote from: BowDown on July 14, 2019, 08:47:51 AM
Quote from: Hugo on July 14, 2019, 08:46:46 AM
What company is this making y'all pay for your own meals for a work outing?

:diddraispoot:
Sounds like co-workers decided to get together but they thought it was misinterpretation as a meeting..

ff
I see
:dead:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: ophababes. on July 14, 2019, 09:29:16 AM
Quote from: THE' LEE-HILL on July 14, 2019, 09:27:24 AM
Ok ok, can we get Matt's take on recent events,  I'm want both sides of the story/opinions

:ohwow:

fghhhhh not a guest spot cameo mess
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: RatherBe on July 14, 2019, 06:37:32 PM
Quote from: THE' LEE-HILL on July 14, 2019, 09:27:24 AM
Ok ok, can we get Matt's take on recent events,  I'm wanting both sides of the story/opinions

:ohwow:
Lol I'll have him log on. He keeps saying he's gonna make an account.
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: MelMel on July 14, 2019, 06:39:50 PM
Quote from: AJ on July 14, 2019, 01:25:05 AM
PART 1

WHEW bitch, its been close to 3 years since this mess initially jumped down.

honestly I stopped posting shit because.... there was no "stories" to tell per say and then also real life started hitting us and I really didnt think we was gonna make it for a while... so I just briefly mentioned him or if he was on my account sometimes he would speak but yeah.... scary times, my love.


As you know from the update part in 2017 like middle of Aprilish, Matt and I moved in together and we got pitbull puppy named "Trix" like in June . Its a boy but I named him after Tricks from the players club...  :dead: one of my favorite movies

anyway, living with Matt was not bad at all. but we decided to move out of his condo which was one bedroom into a 3 bedroom so that we could have more space because the one bedroom was wayyyyy to small for us and the dog.
we got a bigger place in like October and then... Matt got into a car accident and messed up his hands, as you know he's a Barber. so yeah... his income basically stopped. the bills basically fell on me.. which is what really "matured" our relationship, it was after that that I truly realized honeymoon phase was over and we BOTH had to strap up our boots and   work to try and save our relationship. At this time I was in 2 online classes, working 2 jobs & playing counselor to Matt through his recovery. The crazy thing about cutting hair, you don't really realize how cut throat it is until you're unable to work. the income just stopped, some of his clients moved on in his 2 months of recovery and it was just an overall weird phase of cutting back to try and make ends meet. which was not a problem ever before. Matt paid the major bills and his car note and I covered the small bills like light, our cell phone bills & my car note. Matt also took care of the "play" money.. so date money, travel money and just splurge money. we had a good system. but it came tumbling tf downe. even when he started working again, he couldnt cut for as long, and he had to basically build up his clientele again. so I would say we were off track until about April 2018. in this time we were arguing a lot about him feel neglected, but a bitch was busy... I had to make the money, which I had no problem but after working 2 jobs and doing school work 5 days out of the week, my sex drive was low and I didn't really feel like going out for dates... I wanted to sleep more than anything. nigga was really tryna fuck with half functioning hands. :kii: im used to be tossed around and picked up and choked... yeah that shit was on a stand still.. when we did have sex, I had to pull out all my tricks to make it what we was use to. so he was enjoying it but because I was working hard as shit... I like to see him pleasured, I get pleasure out of that but I wasn't getting what I was use to. which wasn't a big deal because I knew the situation but he still wanted to fuck like 2,3 times a week like normal.... as I said a bitch was TIYAAADD. lol so... a man who's ego is bruised from not being able to work, can't have sex as much as he wants, and has to be taken care of for a bit.... equation for disaster lol.

more specifically we got into a huge argument over my coworker, who dropped me off at home.
so lets call the co worker James... James was gay. When I got my newer second job in June 2018 I came home on the like 3rd day and was like....

"BABBBBEE!!! Guess what?!?" (https://media.giphy.com/media/6YCelxMJo0txK/giphy.gif)

matt's nonchalant ass: "Wassup?" -he was watching some dumb ass sports game, so he was paying attention but not fully.-

me: "I have a gay co worker!! I love this job already!! I can't wait to go back tomorrow!"

now he must've heard.. "I have this sexy ass gay co worker, I love his ass! I can't wait to see him tomorrow!" because the tv muted and I look up from my MacBook in the kitchen and this is Matt...(https://media1.tenor.com/images/a503833b05a741e30d7d4092725a915b/tenor.gif?itemid=7395054)

so he like... "what's his name?, what's he like?, do he gotta boyfriend? where he from?"
(https://media1.tenor.com/images/9bd8a082dde76c00a1fb877c536f4bd7/tenor.gif?itemid=11624983)
so I answer the his questions and he got this look on his face like... idk kinda like "This is some new shit, I hope I can really trust you." that's how I read it at least he didn't say much but I basically got what I wanted for the rest of the night so... hey I took it.


fast forward to like July.. I was taking the train to work. so Matt would drop me off at the train then go cut and pick me up at the end of the day. Well this day we were having team meeting/ outing.. so when I found out the plans, I texted Matt to let him know he didn't have to come get me from the train, we were going to a restaurant, I told him when we were finishing up I would call/ text him and he could get me from there... Matt first question, "who all going?" so I told him... originally it me, James, 5 other people from the job. so he was like alright cool. low-key I think Matt was looking for a reason to meet James anyway to kinda scope him out.. he denies but.. I really dont feel like im wrong.

I must have some luck with dinners. because I get there and we sitting down and peoples wives and husbands start coming.. so what I thought was a strict business team meeting, really turned out to be "lets get to know each other outside of work and get fucked up" dinner... so im irritated because as I've said a bitch be TIYYYAADD I would've rather went the fuck home.. I came to the dinner with notes, plans, ideas and all types of other shit to go over and it wasn't that type of party. so James whispers to me.."Did you know they was bringing all these people?" so im like "absolutely not or I would have not been here."
so he say.. "well are you gonna call your guy and tell him to come?"
me: "no, I dont really mix my personal life up with my work life. and ion really think he would be interested in coming now at this point."

cool so we wrapping up and I text Matt. so I told James that I would be leaving soon because my ride was coming.. *I told him this because we were mainly talking to each other because we were the only ones without guest. I didn't know if he was getting picked up or taking transportation, so I told him so that I wouldn't just be leaving him there by himself to be the extra wheel and he could make provisions so we could leave at the same time*

matt texts me says he's outside... so at this point I tell James "okay... im out, ill see you Monday."
im walking to the truck and I thought James was behind me because we were leaving at the same time.... no I went to get in the truck and all I hear is.... "Hi im James nice to meet you!!!" so I turn around and im startled because I thought he was gone from behind me at this point. so im like...'Boy, what the hell"
Matt reaches over and shakes his hand and is like.. "Nice to meet you man! how you liking the new gig?!?"
James: "I love it!! me and my bestie be in there cracking up all day..."

so im lost.... like ohhhh he alluding to me.. idk what's up with that shit, how im just your best friend all of sudden?? we aint had no convo about that :plzstop: Matt laughing cuz he see im lost as fuck..but I let him have it because James is new to town. so im like constantly saying okay ill see you Monday because low-key Matt looked good asf and I was tryna get him home while was still in the mood. lmfao so James like..."oop, where y'all rushing off too?" so I say.. "im tryna spend some time with my nigga." and then I shoot Matt the eyes so he know im with the bullshit tonight.'
James annoying ass gon say..."well you couldve told him to come here for dinner but you said naw.. everybody else had they people here."

so im looking him like...(https://media.giphy.com/media/qKQYjh70EK8zm/giphy.gif)

matt: "ohhh, so this wasn't a business meeting?"

James:"Chile hell nah, we aint talk about shit dealing with that damn company. but I took care of him we was good" *I cringed* cuz im like wtf you mean you took care of me? I paid for my own shit, we only talked but im more than capable of talking to the others

I can tell Matt is annoyed now because its like James was doing too much and trying to allude to us getting close.

on the car ride home we talk about it. and Matt is like.."you dont think its weird that you dont be having time to go out with me but you went out with your colleagues and sorta lied about it."
once I explain to him the situation and acknowledge that I could do better as far as me and him going on dates... he was cool but was just like ..."hold up, then why ol boy explain it like that, why he try to make it seem like you knew the set up before you got there? and what he mean he took care of you, you didn't have enough money for your bill or something" im like... "I have no fucking clue why he said it like that... and I paid for my own stuff so I guess he meant like he made sure I wasn't by myself.. I really dont know."

Matt: yeah, ion like his ass. dont really know what it is but... I aint really feeling dude at all be careful around him. He a lil slippery.

slippery means sketchy.. its some shit Matt and his friends use, dont ask me why... I dont fucking know... but that it for now
I had to pause and praise  :enchantress:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Vonc2002 on July 14, 2019, 06:48:37 PM
Quote from: AJ on July 14, 2019, 06:37:32 PM
Quote from: THE' LEE-HILL on July 14, 2019, 09:27:24 AM
Ok ok, can we get Matt's take on recent events,  I'm wanting both sides of the story/opinions

:ohwow:
Lol I'll have him log on. He keeps saying he's gonna make an account.
:plzstop:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: MelMel on July 14, 2019, 06:55:07 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 14, 2019, 01:39:38 AM
Damn..... I'm really a fckn bitch huh  :unsure:
*SCREENSHOTS*
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: MelMel on July 14, 2019, 06:55:36 PM
Quote from: Ton on July 14, 2019, 08:42:03 AM
Quote from: Tonkaman on July 14, 2019, 01:45:35 AM
Yeah I don't like James.  :uhh: gotta watch him, seems he tryna get close to one of yall...
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: GLOCK on July 14, 2019, 07:03:12 PM
Quote from: AJ on July 14, 2019, 02:36:10 AM
Quote from: EXPENSIVE DICK on July 14, 2019, 02:27:22 AM
Bittttt

:gorlonfire:

this is mess
James is messy a bit..

did we find out why they seemed so familiar
well I knew that they didnt know each other because James had moved into town for the job... the most James knew was just that I had a boyfriend and that his name was Matt. lol bu you know how the girls do... they try to act like they know more than they actually do.
Matt was just being nice I guess, which is surprising because he can be a loner and kinda stand offish.. but I guess from that lil interaction Matt knew he didnt like him... and honestly, he was so spot tf on.
:ohwowtellmemore:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: GLOCK on July 14, 2019, 07:04:35 PM
Quote from: AJ on July 14, 2019, 06:37:32 PM
Quote from: THE' LEE-HILL on July 14, 2019, 09:27:24 AM
Ok ok, can we get Matt's take on recent events,  I'm wanting both sides of the story/opinions

:ohwow:
Lol I'll have him log on. He keeps saying he's gonna make an account.
Bruv slide through :thatssowendy:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: GLOCK on July 14, 2019, 07:05:06 PM
Mel is a hoe
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: RatherBe on July 14, 2019, 08:55:48 PM
Part 2

So honestly I brushed Matt off because I wrote it off as him being overprotective.

The next Monday, James asks if it would be okay if Matt cuts his hair. So im feeling awkward because I know Matt dont really like him. So I text Matt and ask him about it. And matts like... "well how do you feel about it?" I tell him im good... Matt says... "money is money, so im cool but he got have to tone down all the extra shit."

As soon as I tell James, that Matt will cut his hair he asks for his number... and im like... he has an app that you can book through... he tries to laugh it off... and so I say, "You have a personal relationship with me... not Matt. We are very different. Dont lose your barber trying to make a friend." James try to assure me that he meant nothing by asking for his number.. whatever.

maybe like a month later, Matt comes home from the shop, im in the bed already, he's playing the playstation on the edge and just blurts out ... "im not gon be able to cut your boy hair no more?" so I say "okay.. what happened?" He says "nothing but I just can't get with him, like his vibe is off." So the next day.. Matt texts me from the shop saying... "Uhh yeah we gotta talk."
So im like...."Ummm, what's going on?!" and then I step out and call him because I thought it was something with his family and he's like... we need to have this convo in person. so I had 30 mins left of work. Matt couldnt get me from work but he had dropped me off.. So I was telling James that I was gonna uber home and he's like ill take you.. so im like cool.

get in the car with James and then Matt calls and is like "where are you?! im on my way home now, I finished early. You need me to come get you?"
I tell him im pulling up to the house, James was dropping me off. (James is looking straight ahead with this nervous face, but I didnt put two and two together until after the mess popped off)

Matt says "WHAT?! Im pulling up right now, mfs think im a joke I see"

honestly the statement was so random and I was so caught off guard.. I thought he was talking to somebody else in the background on his end... I know that makes no sense but it was soooo random on my end that I just KNEW he wasn't talking to me.

so im like "HELLO? who you talking to? who is that?" and just he hangs up
I call back and Matt sends me to VM.. so now im panicking because im lost. so I tell James to hurry up and he like "why you tell him I was dropping you off?"

Me: "MF, i didnt know it was a secret. what do you mean?!
(https://media2.giphy.com/media/AAsj7jdrHjtp6/giphy.gif)

James: Yeah let me just hurry up and get you home.

So now im starting to get pissed.

we pull up and I hop out fast, mind you I had been calling Matt this whole time and getting sent to vm. So I get out the car and im like he aint home yet so im calling while im standing outside. James pull off but couldnt get to the corner and I hear a big ass tire screech and horns... so im leaving a vm at the time and im not even paying attention until I look down the street and I see its Matt's truck an he's basically blocked James car from going anywhere and got out his car

me running down the street:
(https://media1.tenor.com/images/8b11eb58218fc1f7e502e7b32c779c3e/tenor.gif?itemid=12866549)

I get to them James is in his car with the windows up. Matt is banging on his windows telling him to get out.

So im trying to calm Matt down and he snatch away from me and say.. "MOVE!"
and I ask him who tf he talking to.

James talking shit... but still in the car so I tell James to shut up and drive off because he obviously pussy.
I swear to God like a dumb ass white broad in a scary movie... he must've accidentally hit the unlock button or never locked because Matt yanked at his door and the shit opened.

(https://i.makeagif.com/media/3-10-2015/LDwZI2.gif)


me:
(https://media1.tenor.com/images/32f3cdd4b2818e64f8c0384b75cc4774/tenor.gif?itemid=6157377)

Matt and James:
(https://metrouk2.files.wordpress.com/2018/12/fighgtr-81cc.gif?w=480&h=270&crop=1&resize=650%2C366&quality=90&strip=all&zoom=1)

Matt is screaming... "Didnt I tell yo hoe ass, to stay away from him??? You thought I was playin about mine, I should break yo fuckin jaw."

good thing he didnt actually hit him.. he back up and now im pissed cuz I dont know what is happening.

im suprised the police aint been called at this point.. I scream... "WHAT THE FUCK IS GOWIN ON?!"

Matt: "This nigga sitting in my chair yesterday, asking me about a threesome... when I told his ass we dont be on that,... he gon say, YOU told him you would be open to try it with someone you felt comfortable (alluding to himself) and maybe I dont know you all that well. and then he asked me how I felt about doing threesomes with somebody else. Telling me, that  cheating dont make me a bad boyfriend, you may already be cheating on me. (it was a lot honestly)

so now im looking at James like...(https://media1.tenor.com/images/2274cf94ed43425b1468309508f56c17/tenor.gif?itemid=8545829)

James slow ass getting off the ground.. talking about "I didnt say that. he misinterpreted what I said!"

Matt: "bitch, aint no mf misinterpretation! you said it word for word! and I told your ass when you DM'd me on instagram this morning to stay away from him! didnt I? I aint got no reason to lie!! you better get in this raggedy ass shit and gon before I fuck you up"

-side note- when Matt gets hood sometimes I just..
(https://media1.tenor.com/images/9e93d55ce2759e74e8ac58a7dc7317a9/tenor.gif?itemid=6169569)


James finally gets in his car and zoom off.

so now me and Matt walking back to our place arguing because I felt like he shouldve told me last night... he talking about, "I knew you was tired and you had a headache and its not like it went anywhere."

personally, I dont give a fuck! Tell me! I would've aired the shit out when I saw him at work the next day, in my eyes it made Matt look like he was hiding something because I felt like it was the obvious right choice to just tell me and he technically lied because he told me nothing happened.

so he pull out the DM's and show me... the messages were something like "Thanks for the cut. Really hoping that I didnt offend you and that we can keep the convo last night between us. I apologize"

Matt says... "Yo you really got some nerve. This aint some shit you can just smooth over with an apology. Ion keep shit from AJ, so I haven't found the right way to tell him but best believe its gon be discussed. The best thing you can do is leave both of us alone. Y'all work together and thats it... you aint his mf friend no more. im making that decision. Leave him alone"

So me and Matt had an understanding but we were still pissed at each other because.. I felt like he shouldve told me night of & he shouldn't have lied. I also dont like the fact that I was calling him and he was ignoring me. He felt like I pushed James on him and he had told me he didnt like him... I dont agree but im sure he'll explain this whenever he logs on. but one thing we were in agreement on was that I was gon let James have it the next day. I called him that night but he didnt answer

The next day... James called in, said he had a family emergency.. I knew it was bullshit because he had no family in town. he missed the next day after too.. so im like he really missing money because he dont wanna face me.. so I text him like.. "you dont gotta miss work to dodge me. aint nobody gon do nothing to you." which wasn't completely true because.. I was debating that within myself  :kii:

he came back to work the day after I texted him and I didnt say shit to him and he didnt say nothing to me... we basically never talked again... by September he had gotten terminated from the company due a complaint that he was harassing another straight guy and making him feel uncomfortable.. I texted Matt and told him he was getting fired and why and Matt's response was...

"Can I beat his ass now?"

the end.
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it! (Part 2 Update added)
Post by: GLOCK on July 14, 2019, 09:20:58 PM
:guys:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Vonc2002 on July 14, 2019, 09:25:26 PM
Quote from: AJ on July 14, 2019, 08:55:48 PM
Part 2

So honestly I brushed Matt off because I wrote it off as him being overprotective.

The next Monday, James asks if it would be okay if Matt cuts his hair. So im feeling awkward because I know Matt dont really like him. So I text Matt and ask him about it. And matts like... "well how do you feel about it?" I tell him im good... Matt says... "money is money, so im cool but he got have to tone down all the extra shit."

As soon as I tell James, that Matt will cut his hair he asks for his number... and im like... he has an app that you can book through... he tries to laugh it off... and so I say, "You have a personal relationship with me... not Matt. We are very different. Dont lose your barber trying to make a friend." James try to assure me that he meant nothing by asking for his number.. whatever.

maybe like a month later, Matt comes home from the shop, im in the bed already, he's playing the playstation on the edge and just blurts out ... "im not gon be able to cut your boy hair no more?" so I say "okay.. what happened?" He says "nothing but I just can't get with him, like his vibe is off." So the next day.. Matt texts me from the shop saying... "Uhh yeah we gotta talk."
So im like...."Ummm, what's going on?!" and then I step out and call him because I thought it was something with his family and he's like... we need to have this convo in person. so I had 30 mins left of work. Matt couldnt get me from work but he had dropped me off.. So I was telling James that I was gonna uber home and he's like ill take you.. so im like cool.

get in the car with James and then Matt calls and is like "where are you?! im on my way home now, I finished early. You need me to come get you?"
I tell him im pulling up to the house, James was dropping me off. (James is looking straight ahead with this nervous face, but I didnt put two and two together until after the mess popped off)

Matt says "WHAT?! Im pulling up right now, mfs think im a joke I see"

honestly the statement was so random and I was so caught off guard.. I thought he was talking to somebody else in the background on his end... I know that makes no sense but it was soooo random on my end that I just KNEW he wasn't talking to me.

so im like "HELLO? who you talking to? who is that?" and just he hangs up
I call back and Matt sends me to VM.. so now im panicking because im lost. so I tell James to hurry up and he like "why you tell him I was dropping you off?"

Me: "MF, i didnt know it was a secret. what do you mean?!
(https://media2.giphy.com/media/AAsj7jdrHjtp6/giphy.gif)

James: Yeah let me just hurry up and get you home.

So now im starting to get pissed.

we pull up and I hop out fast, mind you I had been calling Matt this whole time and getting sent to vm. So I get out the car and im like he aint home yet so im calling while im standing outside. James pull off but couldnt get to the corner and I hear a big ass tire screech and horns... so im leaving a vm at the time and im not even paying attention until I look down the street and I see its Matt's truck an he's basically blocked James car from going anywhere and got out his car

me running down the street:
(https://media1.tenor.com/images/8b11eb58218fc1f7e502e7b32c779c3e/tenor.gif?itemid=12866549)

BIT!!!!!!! This fckn MOVIE  :gorlonfire:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it! (Part 2 Update added)
Post by: Vonc2002 on July 14, 2019, 09:35:43 PM
Matt sounds like a stand up dude. Before he signs up, is he a Mariah fan? 
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: ton on July 14, 2019, 09:44:19 PM
Quote from: AJ on July 14, 2019, 08:55:48 PM
Part 2


-side note- when Matt gets hood sometimes I just..
(https://media1.tenor.com/images/9e93d55ce2759e74e8ac58a7dc7317a9/tenor.gif?itemid=6169569)




I'm crying
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it! (Part 2 Update added)
Post by: RatherBe on July 14, 2019, 09:45:18 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 14, 2019, 09:35:43 PM
Matt sounds like a stand up dude. Before he signs up, is he a Mariah fan?
I think she's cool. Cant say im a huge fan. I like Fly Like a bird.
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it! (Part 2 Update added)
Post by: Vonc2002 on July 14, 2019, 09:47:05 PM
Quote from: AJ on July 14, 2019, 09:45:18 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 14, 2019, 09:35:43 PM
Matt sounds like a stand up dude. Before he signs up, is he a Mariah fan?
Cant say im a huge fan.
Perfect! we don't like that long faced bitch here. WELCOME :letsmessfag:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it! (Part 2 Update added)
Post by: ton on July 14, 2019, 09:47:46 PM
I'm crying

Glad it all worked out

Give me that faggots address tho

Can't stand a sneaky girl
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it! (Part 2 Update added)
Post by: RatherBe on July 14, 2019, 09:49:14 PM
he likes when im hood but gets mad when I fight. no sense. lol
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it! (Part 2 Update added)
Post by: ton on July 14, 2019, 09:52:23 PM
ZZXXXXZZZ

Nah I get it

There's just LINES you come close to but don't cross

I kinda like to be CURSED OUT a bit sometimes but everything better be cool in 20 mins :uhh:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it! (Part 2 Update added)
Post by: Vonc2002 on July 14, 2019, 09:53:01 PM
Quote from: AJ on July 14, 2019, 09:49:14 PM
he likes when im hood but gets mad when I fight. no sense. lol
Depends on where ur fighting and what ur fighting for. Fighting can get kinda.....well.......ghetto.  :kii:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it! (Part 2 Update added)
Post by: RatherBe on July 14, 2019, 09:58:37 PM
also he conveniently left out that 2 wks before this ordeal, James came over for dinner. Aj claimed that he couldnt not invite him because he was on hard times and had no money for food. in my opinion we couldve threw him a couple of dollars and he couldve ate off the dollar menu. 

James would also always walk down to say hi when I was picking Aj up from work. these where the reasons I felt like he was kinda being forced in my face.
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it! (Part 2 Update added)
Post by: Vonc2002 on July 14, 2019, 10:00:15 PM
Y'all killing me :kii:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it! (Part 2 Update added)
Post by: RatherBe on July 14, 2019, 10:00:52 PM
@ vonc I usually only get mad enough to fight about my mom, sis, dad, aj or money.
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it! (Part 2 Update added)
Post by: Bentley. HARRIS! on July 14, 2019, 10:01:32 PM
 :thatssowendy:

That's AJ boyfriend typing?

Hey!
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it! (Part 2 Update added)
Post by: RatherBe on July 14, 2019, 10:03:39 PM
hey hey hey!
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Bentley. HARRIS! on July 14, 2019, 10:08:05 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 14, 2019, 09:25:26 PM
Quote from: AJ on July 14, 2019, 08:55:48 PM
Part 2

So honestly I brushed Matt off because I wrote it off as him being overprotective.

The next Monday, James asks if it would be okay if Matt cuts his hair. So im feeling awkward because I know Matt dont really like him. So I text Matt and ask him about it. And matts like... "well how do you feel about it?" I tell him im good... Matt says... "money is money, so im cool but he got have to tone down all the extra shit."

As soon as I tell James, that Matt will cut his hair he asks for his number... and im like... he has an app that you can book through... he tries to laugh it off... and so I say, "You have a personal relationship with me... not Matt. We are very different. Dont lose your barber trying to make a friend." James try to assure me that he meant nothing by asking for his number.. whatever.

maybe like a month later, Matt comes home from the shop, im in the bed already, he's playing the playstation on the edge and just blurts out ... "im not gon be able to cut your boy hair no more?" so I say "okay.. what happened?" He says "nothing but I just can't get with him, like his vibe is off." So the next day.. Matt texts me from the shop saying... "Uhh yeah we gotta talk."
So im like...."Ummm, what's going on?!" and then I step out and call him because I thought it was something with his family and he's like... we need to have this convo in person. so I had 30 mins left of work. Matt couldnt get me from work but he had dropped me off.. So I was telling James that I was gonna uber home and he's like ill take you.. so im like cool.

get in the car with James and then Matt calls and is like "where are you?! im on my way home now, I finished early. You need me to come get you?"
I tell him im pulling up to the house, James was dropping me off. (James is looking straight ahead with this nervous face, but I didnt put two and two together until after the mess popped off)

Matt says "WHAT?! Im pulling up right now, mfs think im a joke I see"

honestly the statement was so random and I was so caught off guard.. I thought he was talking to somebody else in the background on his end... I know that makes no sense but it was soooo random on my end that I just KNEW he wasn't talking to me.

so im like "HELLO? who you talking to? who is that?" and just he hangs up
I call back and Matt sends me to VM.. so now im panicking because im lost. so I tell James to hurry up and he like "why you tell him I was dropping you off?"

Me: "MF, i didnt know it was a secret. what do you mean?!
(https://media2.giphy.com/media/AAsj7jdrHjtp6/giphy.gif)

James: Yeah let me just hurry up and get you home.

So now im starting to get pissed.

we pull up and I hop out fast, mind you I had been calling Matt this whole time and getting sent to vm. So I get out the car and im like he aint home yet so im calling while im standing outside. James pull off but couldnt get to the corner and I hear a big ass tire screech and horns... so im leaving a vm at the time and im not even paying attention until I look down the street and I see its Matt's truck an he's basically blocked James car from going anywhere and got out his car

me running down the street:
(https://media1.tenor.com/images/8b11eb58218fc1f7e502e7b32c779c3e/tenor.gif?itemid=12866549)

BIT!!!!!!! This fckn MOVIE  :gorlonfire:
!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


OMG I forgot to catch up with AJ on this, I'm so happy they been together for a minute!
(http://i52.tinypic.com/jq11zs.jpg)
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it! (Part 2 Update added)
Post by: Bentley. HARRIS! on July 14, 2019, 10:10:51 PM
Quote from: AJ on July 14, 2019, 10:03:39 PM
hey hey hey!
I'm Bentley
AJ's big bruv and fave member

so why you don't like James bruv-in-law? is it just a vibe he gives?
:unbothered:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: b7 on July 14, 2019, 10:11:35 PM
Gfghghgifofoiffkkfkfjjjhhh
:uhh:

james is fucking WEIRD!  These faggots love niggas with boyfriends. I can't 

was James even cute to be bold like that? 
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it! (Part 2 Update added)
Post by: GLOCK on July 14, 2019, 10:13:56 PM
I'm crying 

Matt is 100% with the SHITS
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it! (Part 2 Update added)
Post by: b7 on July 14, 2019, 10:13:56 PM
That Kandi gif in part 2 has me SHAKING 

cccggggggg he fuckin TRIED it :uhh: 
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it! (Part 2 Update added)
Post by: GLOCK on July 14, 2019, 10:15:23 PM
Quote from: AJ on July 14, 2019, 09:45:18 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 14, 2019, 09:35:43 PM
Matt sounds like a stand up dude. Before he signs up, is he a Mariah fan?
I think she's cool. Cant say im a huge fan. I like Fly Like a bird.
stan owt Matt :gorlonfire:

Yeah.. she's the queen and thangs
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it! (Part 2 Update added)
Post by: b7 on July 14, 2019, 10:15:54 PM
Quote from: AJ on July 14, 2019, 09:58:37 PM
also he conveniently left out that 2 wks before this ordeal, James came over for dinner. Aj claimed that he couldnt not invite him because he was on hard times and had no money for food. in my opinion we couldve threw him a couple of dollars and he couldve ate off the dollar menu.

.
ggggggkfkgkkggmv
V
V
Cv
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it! (Part 2 Update added)
Post by: ton on July 14, 2019, 10:16:29 PM
Quote from: 1RIG on July 14, 2019, 10:13:56 PM
That Kandi gif in part 2 has me SHAKING

cccggggggg he fuckin TRIED it :uhh:
XXXCXXXXCC

THE LIES :gorlonfire:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Navyman on July 14, 2019, 10:16:55 PM
Quote from: AJ on July 14, 2019, 08:55:48 PM
Part 2

So honestly I brushed Matt off because I wrote it off as him being overprotective.

The next Monday, James asks if it would be okay if Matt cuts his hair. So im feeling awkward because I know Matt dont really like him. So I text Matt and ask him about it. And matts like... "well how do you feel about it?" I tell him im good... Matt says... "money is money, so im cool but he got have to tone down all the extra shit."

As soon as I tell James, that Matt will cut his hair he asks for his number... and im like... he has an app that you can book through... he tries to laugh it off... and so I say, "You have a personal relationship with me... not Matt. We are very different. Dont lose your barber trying to make a friend." James try to assure me that he meant nothing by asking for his number.. whatever.

maybe like a month later, Matt comes home from the shop, im in the bed already, he's playing the playstation on the edge and just blurts out ... "im not gon be able to cut your boy hair no more?" so I say "okay.. what happened?" He says "nothing but I just can't get with him, like his vibe is off." So the next day.. Matt texts me from the shop saying... "Uhh yeah we gotta talk."
So im like...."Ummm, what's going on?!" and then I step out and call him because I thought it was something with his family and he's like... we need to have this convo in person. so I had 30 mins left of work. Matt couldnt get me from work but he had dropped me off.. So I was telling James that I was gonna uber home and he's like ill take you.. so im like cool.

get in the car with James and then Matt calls and is like "where are you?! im on my way home now, I finished early. You need me to come get you?"
I tell him im pulling up to the house, James was dropping me off. (James is looking straight ahead with this nervous face, but I didnt put two and two together until after the mess popped off)

Matt says "WHAT?! Im pulling up right now, mfs think im a joke I see"

honestly the statement was so random and I was so caught off guard.. I thought he was talking to somebody else in the background on his end... I know that makes no sense but it was soooo random on my end that I just KNEW he wasn't talking to me.

so im like "HELLO? who you talking to? who is that?" and just he hangs up
I call back and Matt sends me to VM.. so now im panicking because im lost. so I tell James to hurry up and he like "why you tell him I was dropping you off?"

Me: "MF, i didnt know it was a secret. what do you mean?!
(https://media2.giphy.com/media/AAsj7jdrHjtp6/giphy.gif)

James: Yeah let me just hurry up and get you home.

So now im starting to get pissed.

we pull up and I hop out fast, mind you I had been calling Matt this whole time and getting sent to vm. So I get out the car and im like he aint home yet so im calling while im standing outside. James pull off but couldnt get to the corner and I hear a big ass tire screech and horns... so im leaving a vm at the time and im not even paying attention until I look down the street and I see its Matt's truck an he's basically blocked James car from going anywhere and got out his car

me running down the street:
(https://media1.tenor.com/images/8b11eb58218fc1f7e502e7b32c779c3e/tenor.gif?itemid=12866549)

I get to them James is in his car with the windows up. Matt is banging on his windows telling him to get out.

So im trying to calm Matt down and he snatch away from me and say.. "MOVE!"
and I ask him who tf he talking to.

James talking shit... but still in the car so I tell James to shut up and drive off because he obviously pussy.
I swear to God like a dumb ass white broad in a scary movie... he must've accidentally hit the unlock button or never locked because Matt yanked at his door and the shit opened.

(https://i.makeagif.com/media/3-10-2015/LDwZI2.gif)


me:
(https://media1.tenor.com/images/32f3cdd4b2818e64f8c0384b75cc4774/tenor.gif?itemid=6157377)

Matt and James:
(https://metrouk2.files.wordpress.com/2018/12/fighgtr-81cc.gif?w=480&h=270&crop=1&resize=650%2C366&quality=90&strip=all&zoom=1)

Matt is screaming... "Didnt I tell yo hoe ass, to stay away from him??? You thought I was playin about mine, I should break yo fuckin jaw."

good thing he didnt actually hit him.. he back up and now im pissed cuz I dont know what is happening.

im suprised the police aint been called at this point.. I scream... "WHAT THE FUCK IS GOWIN ON?!"

Matt: "This nigga sitting in my chair yesterday, asking me about a threesome... when I told his ass we dont be on that,... he gon say, YOU told him you would be open to try it with someone you felt comfortable (alluding to himself) and maybe I dont know you all that well. and then he asked me how I felt about doing threesomes with somebody else. Telling me, that  cheating dont make me a bad boyfriend, you may already be cheating on me. (it was a lot honestly)

so now im looking at James like...(https://media1.tenor.com/images/2274cf94ed43425b1468309508f56c17/tenor.gif?itemid=8545829)

James slow ass getting off the ground.. talking about "I didnt say that. he misinterpreted what I said!"

Matt: "bitch, aint no mf misinterpretation! you said it word for word! and I told your ass when you DM'd me on instagram this morning to stay away from him! didnt I? I aint got no reason to lie!! you better get in this raggedy ass shit and gon before I fuck you up"

-side note- when Matt gets hood sometimes I just..
(https://media1.tenor.com/images/9e93d55ce2759e74e8ac58a7dc7317a9/tenor.gif?itemid=6169569)


James finally gets in his car and zoom off.

so now me and Matt walking back to our place arguing because I felt like he shouldve told me last night... he talking about, "I knew you was tired and you had a headache and its not like it went anywhere."

personally, I dont give a fuck! Tell me! I would've aired the shit out when I saw him at work the next day, in my eyes it made Matt look like he was hiding something because I felt like it was the obvious right choice to just tell me and he technically lied because he told me nothing happened.

so he pull out the DM's and show me... the messages were something like "Thanks for the cut. Really hoping that I didnt offend you and that we can keep the convo last night between us. I apologize"

Matt says... "Yo you really got some nerve. This aint some shit you can just smooth over with an apology. Ion keep shit from AJ, so I haven't found the right way to tell him but best believe its gon be discussed. The best thing you can do is leave both of us alone. Y'all work together and thats it... you aint his mf friend no more. im making that decision. Leave him alone"

So me and Matt had an understanding but we were still pissed at each other because.. I felt like he shouldve told me night of & he shouldn't have lied. I also dont like the fact that I was calling him and he was ignoring me. He felt like I pushed James on him and he had told me he didnt like him... I dont agree but im sure he'll explain this whenever he logs on. but one thing we were in agreement on was that I was gon let James have it the next day. I called him that night but he didnt answer

The next day... James called in, said he had a family emergency.. I knew it was bullshit because he had no family in town. he missed the next day after too.. so im like he really missing money because he dont wanna face me.. so I text him like.. "you dont gotta miss work to dodge me. aint nobody gon do nothing to you." which wasn't completely true because.. I was debating that within myself  :kii:

he came back to work the day after I texted him and I didnt say shit to him and he didnt say nothing to me... we basically never talked again... by September he had gotten terminated from the company due a complaint that he was harassing another straight guy and making him feel uncomfortable.. I texted Matt and told him he was getting fired and why and Matt's response was...

"Can I beat his ass now?"

the end.
Chillleee...
I fucking knew it.
I was just waiting for this shit to end like a bad Tyler Perry movie.


And AJ I got a question were you completely oblivious to what James was up to in the moment or you just trusted Matt enough?
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it! (Part 2 Update added)
Post by: GLOCK on July 14, 2019, 10:17:03 PM
Quote from: AJ on July 14, 2019, 09:58:37 PM
also he conveniently left out that 2 wks before this ordeal, James came over for dinner. Aj claimed that he couldnt not invite him because he was on hard times and had no money for food. in my opinion we couldve threw him a couple of dollars and he couldve ate off the dollar menu.

James would also always walk down to say hi when I was picking Aj up from work. these where the reasons I felt like he was kinda being forced in my face.
damn Aj he's right
U were too nice

Did u have a work crush on this girl?
U can be honest with me a bit..
It's Glock.. ur Bruv
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: Navyman on July 14, 2019, 10:17:19 PM
Quote from: Vonc2002 on July 14, 2019, 09:25:26 PM
Quote from: AJ on July 14, 2019, 08:55:48 PM
Part 2

So honestly I brushed Matt off because I wrote it off as him being overprotective.

The next Monday, James asks if it would be okay if Matt cuts his hair. So im feeling awkward because I know Matt dont really like him. So I text Matt and ask him about it. And matts like... "well how do you feel about it?" I tell him im good... Matt says... "money is money, so im cool but he got have to tone down all the extra shit."

As soon as I tell James, that Matt will cut his hair he asks for his number... and im like... he has an app that you can book through... he tries to laugh it off... and so I say, "You have a personal relationship with me... not Matt. We are very different. Dont lose your barber trying to make a friend." James try to assure me that he meant nothing by asking for his number.. whatever.

maybe like a month later, Matt comes home from the shop, im in the bed already, he's playing the playstation on the edge and just blurts out ... "im not gon be able to cut your boy hair no more?" so I say "okay.. what happened?" He says "nothing but I just can't get with him, like his vibe is off." So the next day.. Matt texts me from the shop saying... "Uhh yeah we gotta talk."
So im like...."Ummm, what's going on?!" and then I step out and call him because I thought it was something with his family and he's like... we need to have this convo in person. so I had 30 mins left of work. Matt couldnt get me from work but he had dropped me off.. So I was telling James that I was gonna uber home and he's like ill take you.. so im like cool.

get in the car with James and then Matt calls and is like "where are you?! im on my way home now, I finished early. You need me to come get you?"
I tell him im pulling up to the house, James was dropping me off. (James is looking straight ahead with this nervous face, but I didnt put two and two together until after the mess popped off)

Matt says "WHAT?! Im pulling up right now, mfs think im a joke I see"

honestly the statement was so random and I was so caught off guard.. I thought he was talking to somebody else in the background on his end... I know that makes no sense but it was soooo random on my end that I just KNEW he wasn't talking to me.

so im like "HELLO? who you talking to? who is that?" and just he hangs up
I call back and Matt sends me to VM.. so now im panicking because im lost. so I tell James to hurry up and he like "why you tell him I was dropping you off?"

Me: "MF, i didnt know it was a secret. what do you mean?!
(https://media2.giphy.com/media/AAsj7jdrHjtp6/giphy.gif)

James: Yeah let me just hurry up and get you home.

So now im starting to get pissed.

we pull up and I hop out fast, mind you I had been calling Matt this whole time and getting sent to vm. So I get out the car and im like he aint home yet so im calling while im standing outside. James pull off but couldnt get to the corner and I hear a big ass tire screech and horns... so im leaving a vm at the time and im not even paying attention until I look down the street and I see its Matt's truck an he's basically blocked James car from going anywhere and got out his car

me running down the street:
(https://media1.tenor.com/images/8b11eb58218fc1f7e502e7b32c779c3e/tenor.gif?itemid=12866549)

BIT!!!!!!! This fckn MOVIE  :gorlonfire:
!!!
:plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it! (Part 2 Update added)
Post by: Navyman on July 14, 2019, 10:18:25 PM
Quote from: AJ on July 14, 2019, 09:49:14 PM
he likes when im hood but gets mad when I fight. no sense. lol
Lol makes perfect sense. Got the right amount of edge. Not too much.
:oof:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it! (Part 2 Update added)
Post by: Navyman on July 14, 2019, 10:20:37 PM
James sounds like a white fag. Please say he was a white fag.
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it! (Part 2 Update added)
Post by: Bentley. HARRIS! on July 14, 2019, 10:24:03 PM
Oh nvm Matt.... James is a damn MESS

Keep that nigga at arms length
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it! (Part 2 Update added)
Post by: b7 on July 14, 2019, 10:24:06 PM
Quote from: EXPENSIVE DICK on July 14, 2019, 10:17:03 PM
Quote from: AJ on July 14, 2019, 09:58:37 PM
also he conveniently left out that 2 wks before this ordeal, James came over for dinner. Aj claimed that he couldnt not invite him because he was on hard times and had no money for food. in my opinion we couldve threw him a couple of dollars and he couldve ate off the dollar menu.

James would also always walk down to say hi when I was picking Aj up from work. these where the reasons I felt like he was kinda being forced in my face.
damn Aj he's right
U were too nice

Did u have a work crush on this girl?
U can be honest with me a bit..
It's Glock.. ur Bruv
I'm gonna beat ur ass
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it! (Part 2 Update added)
Post by: GLOCK on July 14, 2019, 10:28:45 PM
Vbbbbhbbb :guys:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it!
Post by: MelMel on July 14, 2019, 10:30:24 PM
Quote from: EXPENSIVE DICK on July 14, 2019, 07:05:06 PM
Mel is a hoe
what the hell did I do :guys:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it! (Part 2 Update added)
Post by: GLOCK on July 14, 2019, 10:31:40 PM
Fuck u
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it! (Part 2 Update added)
Post by: MelMel on July 14, 2019, 10:32:44 PM
:shook:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it! (Part 2 Update added)
Post by: RatherBe on July 14, 2019, 10:36:19 PM
Quote from: EXPENSIVE DICK on July 14, 2019, 10:17:03 PM
Quote from: AJ on July 14, 2019, 09:58:37 PM
also he conveniently left out that 2 wks before this ordeal, James came over for dinner. Aj claimed that he couldnt not invite him because he was on hard times and had no money for food. in my opinion we couldve threw him a couple of dollars and he couldve ate off the dollar menu.

James would also always walk down to say hi when I was picking Aj up from work. these where the reasons I felt like he was kinda being forced in my face.
damn Aj he's right
U were too nice

Did u have a work crush on this girl?
U can be honest with me a bit..
It's Glock.. ur Bruv

Bruv....honestly

"FUCK NO!"
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James is a lil TOO fem (no shade) so I thought it was kinda obvious to Matt and James that he wasn't my type and wasn't nothing gon ever pop off. so I thought I was in the clear to be nice.. like to me it was BEYOND obvious that it was out of the question. aint no way I would go from The Game to one of them Chasing Atlanta girls
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it! (Part 2 Update added)
Post by: GLOCK on July 14, 2019, 10:37:48 PM
Quote from: AJ on July 14, 2019, 10:36:19 PM
Quote from: EXPENSIVE DICK on July 14, 2019, 10:17:03 PM
Quote from: AJ on July 14, 2019, 09:58:37 PM
also he conveniently left out that 2 wks before this ordeal, James came over for dinner. Aj claimed that he couldnt not invite him because he was on hard times and had no money for food. in my opinion we couldve threw him a couple of dollars and he couldve ate off the dollar menu.

James would also always walk down to say hi when I was picking Aj up from work. these where the reasons I felt like he was kinda being forced in my face.
damn Aj he's right
U were too nice

Did u have a work crush on this girl?
U can be honest with me a bit..
It's Glock.. ur Bruv

Bruv....honestly

"FUCK NO!"
[/size][/color]

James is a lil TOO fem (no shade) so I thought it was kinda obvious to Matt and James that he wasn't my type and wasn't nothing gon ever pop off. so I thought I was in the clear to be nice.. like to me it was BEYOND obvious that it was out of the question. aint no way I would go from The Game to one of them Chasing Atlanta girls
. Nxnndnddnndjdkd

Oop!
Say that shit.
Wow.. James probably wanted to bump boochies a bit

But yeah I'm glad u cut her ass off
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it! (Part 2 Update added)
Post by: RatherBe on July 14, 2019, 10:39:26 PM
Quote from: Tonkaman on July 14, 2019, 10:20:37 PM
James sounds like a white fag. Please say he was a white fag.
I wish I could babe
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it! (Part 2 Update added)
Post by: RatherBe on July 14, 2019, 10:49:52 PM
I was just trying to be nice to him. I see now, I was too nice. I thought it would be nice for him to have a sit down dinner with folks since he didnt have family in town. I also asked Matt if he wanted to invite some of his friends so it wasn't just us and James and he told me... he'd rather get into another car accident than introduce him to his friends.  :plzstop:
just... (https://media2.giphy.com/media/VSe8ckA0A1lPq/giphy.gif)
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it! (Part 2 Update added)
Post by: GLOCK on July 14, 2019, 10:59:49 PM
Dhhdjdjdjdjejejjjej
king wanted nothing to do with that faggg
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it! (Part 2 Update added)
Post by: FRANCE on July 14, 2019, 11:02:44 PM
Quote from: AJ on July 14, 2019, 10:49:52 PM
I was just trying to be nice to him. I see now, I was too nice. I thought it would be nice for him to have a sit down dinner with folks since he didnt have family in town. I also asked Matt if he wanted to invite some of his friends so it wasn't just us and James and he told me... he'd rather get into another car accident than introduce him to his friends.  :plzstop:
just... (https://media2.giphy.com/media/VSe8ckA0A1lPq/giphy.gif)

:plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop:

Oh Matt's dat nigga.

I think I alluded to it before in my last post, but I'm pretty sure James was also terminated from his last job too and I wouldnt be surprised if it was for a similar story. I'm sure he'll be leaving town again pretty soon.
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it! (Part 2 Update added)
Post by: RatherBe on January 28, 2020, 03:12:28 PM
hey y'all... quick update because some of you have asked

Matt an I are together still.. somehow. lmfaooo

 we were just starting to set into a routine of things as far as balancing jobs, school and the relationship..... and then just like clockwork.... shit got blown up.


a lil back story. around the time when me and matt were first talking in 2016 he was cutting a 1 year old's hair that naturally gravitated to him. he would joke at the shop and call the little boy his play son. Around May 2017 the boy's mother asked for Matt to be his godfather and matt first told her about his lifestyle and about me to make sure she didnt want to change her mind. she said she did not care and she felt that matt was a great role model. matt accepted the role as his godfather. 

matt would see him every Thursday to pick him up and cut his hair at our house. sometimes id pick him up from school on and take him home if I had talked to his mother and she or matt wouldn't couldn't get to the school in time... also depended on if I drove to work that day. this went on for about  4 months. we had a cute lil system. however when matt got into an accident... he obviously wasn't cutting hair so its like we wouldn't see him much and I remember matt going off on his mother because matt would want to see him and she would either make up an excuse or just never respond. so we kind kind of fell out of touch

once we got over that hump of Matt being able to cut again, things seem to be fine. we would see him maybe once a month. then in November 2019 the mother lost her job. I told matt then, I dont think we should be so quick to jump in because I personally felt like she used us last time, and then when we couldn't do for the baby like we use to she kept him or was slow on bringing him around. The mom was alluding to living with us because she wanted to get rid of her apartment... to which I immediately shot down. because fuck that.

December 2019, she called us crying saying she couldn't get him anything for Christmas.. and we literally bought him EVERYTHING and took it over to her house so he could have a great Christmas. For New Years, she wanted to go out of town and asked us to watch him. Matt asked how was she going out of town with no money.. she said that somebody else paid for it and that she was staying with them. we knew she was lying but we agreed to keep him..

on Dec. 30th Matt went to go pick him up from their house. I knew the baby would be there with us for about 3 days so I got the house ready while he was going to get him. they live about 45 mins away from us so I knew it would be at least 2hrs before they got back. he left at 6pm I dosed off and looked up and it was 10pm they hadn't come back yet. so I call and matt answers says he's pulling up and open the door.

I open up the door and lil man has a cute lil suitcase, and im like "okay that's cute, matt must've packed him a lil suitcase for the weekend." I give the baby a hug and ask if he's hungry... im waiting for Matt to come in so I can ask him wtf took so long and he calls me outside to his truck.... I get to the truck and he says.... "Can you help me get the rest of his stuff?" 

bitch.....
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Post by: HUGO on January 28, 2020, 03:39:44 PM
 :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop:
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Post by: reekz on January 28, 2020, 03:41:08 PM
Oh hell nah. Matt is a pay master. 
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Post by: Gilgamesh. on January 28, 2020, 03:45:26 PM
AJ, i'm about to get in.

I don't remmeber the all the details but did Matt mess with dudes on the low before you?
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Post by: MENTdetector on January 28, 2020, 03:47:43 PM
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Post by: Navyman on January 28, 2020, 03:49:12 PM
So wait did she abandon the baby?
:damselindistress:
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Post by: Vonc2002 on January 28, 2020, 03:53:40 PM
The way AJ leaves us hanging is always hilarious.  I can't believe it's been 4 yrs. Wow
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Post by: Bentley. HARRIS! on January 28, 2020, 03:56:30 PM
Quote from: AJ on January 28, 2020, 03:12:28 PM
hey y'all... quick update because some of you have asked

Matt an I are together still.. somehow. lmfaooo

we were just starting to set into a routine of things as far as balancing jobs, school and the relationship..... and then just like clockwork.... shit got blown up.


a lil back story. around the time when me and matt were first talking in 2016 he was cutting a 1 year old's hair that naturally gravitated to him. he would joke at the shop and call the little boy his play son. Around May 2017 the boy's mother asked for Matt to be his godfather and matt first told her about his lifestyle and about me to make sure she didnt want to change her mind. she said she did not care and she felt that matt was a great role model. matt accepted the role as his godfather.

matt would see him every Thursday to pick him up and cut his hair at our house. sometimes id pick him up from school on and take him home if I had talked to his mother and she or matt wouldn't couldn't get to the school in time... also depended on if I drove to work that day. this went on for about  4 months. we had a cute lil system. however when matt got into an accident... he obviously wasn't cutting hair so its like we wouldn't see him much and I remember matt going off on his mother because matt would want to see him and she would either make up an excuse or just never respond. so we kind kind of fell out of touch

once we got over that hump of Matt being able to cut again, things seem to be fine. we would see him maybe once a month. then in November 2019 the mother lost her job. I told matt then, I dont think we should be so quick to jump in because I personally felt like she used us last time, and then when we couldn't do for the baby like we use to she kept him or was slow on bringing him around. The mom was alluding to living with us because she wanted to get rid of her apartment... to which I immediately shot down. because fuck that.

December 2019, she called us crying saying she couldn't get him anything for Christmas.. and we literally bought him EVERYTHING and took it over to her house so he could have a great Christmas. For New Years, she wanted to go out of town and asked us to watch him. Matt asked how was she going out of town with no money.. she said that somebody else paid for it and that she was staying with them. we knew she was lying but we agreed to keep him..

on Dec. 30th Matt went to go pick him up from their house. I knew the baby would be there with us for about 3 days so I got the house ready while he was going to get him. they live about 45 mins away from us so I knew it would be at least 2hrs before they got back. he left at 6pm I dosed off and looked up and it was 10pm they hadn't come back yet. so I call and matt answers says he's pulling up and open the door.

I open up the door and lil man has a cute lil suitcase, and im like "okay that's cute, matt must've packed him a lil suitcase for the weekend." I give the baby a hug and ask if he's hungry... im waiting for Matt to come in so I can ask him wtf took so long and he calls me outside to his truck.... I get to the truck and he says.... "Can you help me get the rest of his stuff?"

bitch.....
:plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop: :plzstop:
not all of the things

surprise!
(https://i.gifer.com/U5aV.gif)
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Post by: RatherBe on January 28, 2020, 04:59:02 PM
so im more so pissed about what took him so long, im not even paying attention to  the AMOUNT of shit in the truck. i get quiet because now i dont wanna talk... but after the 2nd trip, Im like "WHY THE FUCK YOU BRING ALL THIS SHIT FOR ONE WEEKEND??!!!" and he says "I couldnt let him stay there. im sorry!"

me: so what does this mean?
(https://media0.giphy.com/media/tRzd704xXId2w/giphy.gif)

matt: it means we got our lil family now

im fuckin livid but im trying not to be loud because im not sure if the baby can hear me and we're outside.. but i am cussing him tf owt.

me: so you didnt think at all to fucking call me and talk this over with me?

he says he just reacted... and just packed his shit.

by this time i know for sure that the baby was watching us and i decide to just drop it but i told him he needed to clear his morning schedule the next morning because we needed to talk.

the baby ended up sleeping in the bed with us... (which is a whole other story, i havent gotten dick since he's been here and im ready to riot.)
but we wake up, matt puts him in the guest room, which i guess was really just his at that point and comes back and we talk..

matt is a jokester so he plays a lot. its honestly fucking annoying.


matt: "sooooo... how did you sleep? lol"

me: not fuckin good. what the fuck happened last night?
(https://media.tenor.com/images/fba86133277a27bcc3a935556d9f1dfc/tenor.gif)

matt: yo will you chill??

me: im calm but im not finna sit up here and go in circles with you. because if the baby wake up, the convo gon have to be put on hold AGAIN. so lets get straight to the point.

matt says he went to pick him up. he went to the door and the mom was acting like she didnt want Matt to come in and that she had his stuff already together... after waiting like 5 mins at the door, matt said lil man came to the door and asked him to come in to see his toys... matt went in.... and i guess the mom made a joke like...."uhhh, lil boy how you gon invite somebody in MY house." and matt said back.... "at least one of yall got manners.. and if you had his stuff together i really couldve stayed in the truck."

matt said the house was disgusting, cold, and smelled like weed. he said there was barely food in the house and that when he use the bathroom he saw roaches.
he then asked the mom about everything.. she said she had everything under control and she was going to handle it when she came back from her tip. they apparently were going back and forth about her priorities and shit. she said something to the point of... "i dont need nobody questioning me about how I raise my baby and the sacrifices i make, especially when you dont have none." Matt told her he was just giving her advice on what he thinks she should do (not go on the trip) and she told him..."people who aint parents always think they know better.. you cant handle the responsibility, so dont tell me how to parent."

he said after that he said "fine." and went in lil man's room and threw all his shit in bags.... and told his mama on the way out "when you get your shit together, you can come get him." and left

now Im fine with all this because i know how Matt is... but even if we were just roommates, if youre bringing another mf into our space to live indefinitely, you owe me a heads up....dont surprise me! and ive told him this shit before about "surprising" me. especially if im going to have to be ttaking care of him as well...
my second problem: if they had roaches, WHY THE FUCK WOULD YOU BRING HIS SHIT IN MY HOUSE?! we may as well just buy him all new shit. (we took all the shit out to the dumpster and spent the next day spending matts money for new clothes and toys..:feelinmyself: :plea: i got some stuff too  :welllol:)

so yeah i guess im a parent now. its almost the end of january and the only thing this bitch has done is pick him up from school a couple of time and get him on the weekend... but he calls and asks us to come get him when hes with her too long. :plzstop:
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Post by: Vonc2002 on January 28, 2020, 05:17:08 PM
My mind instantly went to why would he bring the roach mess to the house.  Glad u called it out
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Post by: reekz on January 28, 2020, 05:18:51 PM
Matt must be super fine and the sex must be out of this world cause 

:shook:
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Post by: HUGO on January 28, 2020, 06:20:09 PM
I'd yew don't want Matt I'll gladly take him And the baby

:wellheythere:
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Post by: ton on January 28, 2020, 07:52:02 PM
lil suitcase has me in PAIN
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Post by: Cowgirl on January 28, 2020, 08:03:41 PM
How can he just take somebody's bby like that tho? :unsure:
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Post by: BigDawg on January 28, 2020, 08:10:11 PM
Aww that's so cute, lil family. 🥰
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Post by: Cowgirl on January 28, 2020, 08:11:45 PM
Quote from: BigDawg on January 28, 2020, 08:10:11 PM
Aww that's so cute, lil family. 🥰
!!!

I love this but will it be permanent?
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Post by: BigDawg on January 28, 2020, 08:15:34 PM
Quote from: TinaSnow on January 28, 2020, 08:11:45 PM
Quote from: BigDawg on January 28, 2020, 08:10:11 PM
Aww that's so cute, lil family. 🥰
!!!

I love this but will it be permanent?
:plzstop:  :dead:

I think Matt getting all the bvy's stuff was a good indication that is may be a lil permanent
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Post by: Cowgirl on January 28, 2020, 08:17:29 PM
Quote from: BigDawg on January 28, 2020, 08:15:34 PM
Quote from: TinaSnow on January 28, 2020, 08:11:45 PM
Quote from: BigDawg on January 28, 2020, 08:10:11 PM
Aww that's so cute, lil family. 🥰
!!!

I love this but will it be permanent?
:plzstop:  :dead:

I think Matt getting all the bvy's stuff was a good indication that is may be a lil permanent
Right, I know his intent but the mother is my concern..
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Post by: BigDawg on January 28, 2020, 08:30:47 PM
Quote from: TinaSnow on January 28, 2020, 08:17:29 PM
Quote from: BigDawg on January 28, 2020, 08:15:34 PM
Quote from: TinaSnow on January 28, 2020, 08:11:45 PM
Quote from: BigDawg on January 28, 2020, 08:10:11 PM
Aww that's so cute, lil family. 🥰
!!!

I love this but will it be permanent?
:plzstop:  :dead:

I think Matt getting all the bvy's stuff was a good indication that is may be a lil permanent
Right, I know his intent but the mother is my concern..
!

Yea tha mom seems real flaky
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Post by: reekz on January 28, 2020, 08:38:50 PM
She coming back to get that child when she come home boy lol
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Post by: Gilgamesh. on January 28, 2020, 08:42:49 PM
AJ, no... :uhh:

First of all, what Matt did isn't even legal. Second of all, you can't just adopt a whole child just because they're in what appears to be a toxic situation. Scratch that, do you even want kids?

Who's going to be watching him while y'all are work?

Is Matt okay!?  :uhh:
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Post by: Cowgirl on January 28, 2020, 08:49:40 PM
Right. I know his intentions are good but she seems desperate and dangerous..
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Post by: ton on January 28, 2020, 08:53:55 PM
Quote from: Gilgamesh. on January 28, 2020, 08:42:49 PM
AJ, no... :uhh:

First of all, what Matt did isn't even legal. Second of all, you can't just adopt a whole child just because they're in what appears to be a toxic situation. Scratch that, do you even want kids?

Who's going to be watching him while y'all are work?

Is Matt okay!?  :uhh:
yeah this is going to be an issue soon... And of course there an entire family that has claim over the bvy
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Post by: RatherBe on January 28, 2020, 08:54:38 PM
Quote from: CoochieKing on January 28, 2020, 05:18:51 PM
Matt must be super fine and the sex must be out of this world cause

:shook:
i think I do pretty well for myself. Anything else you want to know? Good lord.
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Post by: RatherBe on January 28, 2020, 08:57:20 PM
Matt here.

i know it's not permanent but I'm sorry I couldn't leave him there. Even if it's only a month of stability, it's something. I hope to instill some morals and a fight to want better.
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Post by: GLOCK on January 28, 2020, 08:58:07 PM
Maybe.. my heart is too wide :stressed:
because this would've made me adore him even more .. what a stand up guy?

yes he should've talked it over with you but he probably used his instincts and compared how much u care for lil man and said "if aj saw this.. he wouldn't want him here either" 

the environment sounds 100% unsafe.. 
and as a god parent.. i know how I would've reacted if I saw any of my god kids in that atmosphere 

you love Matt and y'all have weathered some huge storms.. y'all will be fine. 
even if it's just for a little while.. what y'all are doing for him won't go without it's rewards..

I think in the next month you and Matt need to discuss and decide if this is permanent 

make sure the father isn't in the picture.. because that might be the next best option 

if he isn't.. I'd have the mother legally give Matt full custody of the kid.. so that she doesn't up and snatch him away .. and so that he can have medical coverage and such.

its the right thing to do

i adore this love story of you guys. 
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Post by: GLOCK on January 28, 2020, 08:59:48 PM
Quote from: AJ on January 28, 2020, 08:57:20 PM
Matt here.

i know it's not permanent but I'm sorry I couldn't leave him there. Even if it's only a month of stability, it's something. I hope to instill some morals and a fight to want better.
hey bro.
I admire u so much man!

Would you be down for having him permanently?
Have you and his mother talked at all about that being an option?
Is his father around?
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Post by: Gilgamesh. on January 28, 2020, 08:59:50 PM
I mean, your heart is in the right place...doesn't this wench have a sister or Mother or something :disgusted:
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Post by: FRANCE on January 28, 2020, 09:01:07 PM
These updates >>>>>>>>>>>>

:kii: The story telling alone.

Now yeah, Matt is crazy as hell. I dunno. I wouldn't have even volunteered to be a godfather in the 1st place so someone I dont really know LIKE THAT (which would have avoided all of this). Yall are in too deep now so the more time u spend with the child, the more yall will get attached. 

So he goes home to the roach infested house and then snuggles up in bed with y'all? Nah son. Hey, if u dont intend on raising this kid through college and everything, and officially adopting him, cut the shit right now before it gets too messy. 
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Post by: FRANCE on January 28, 2020, 09:03:54 PM
Quote from: GLOCK on January 28, 2020, 08:58:07 PM
Maybe.. my heart is too wide :stressed:
because this would've made me adore him even more .. what a stand up guy?

yes he should've talked it over with you but he probably used his instincts and compared how much u care for lil man and said "if aj saw this.. he wouldn't want him here either"

the environment sounds 100% unsafe..
and as a god parent.. i know how I would've reacted if I saw any of my god kids in that atmosphere

you love Matt and y'all have weathered some huge storms.. y'all will be fine.
even if it's just for a little while.. what y'all are doing for him won't go without it's rewards..

I think in the next month you and Matt need to discuss and decide if this is permanent

make sure the father isn't in the picture.. because that might be the next best option

if he isn't.. I'd have the mother legally give Matt full custody of the kid.. so that she doesn't up and snatch him away .. and so that he can have medical coverage and such.

its the right thing to do

i adore this love story of you guys.

Yeah, he's definitely a dope guy for this. Really big of him to step in. I just hope they dont get toooo attached and the mom gets her shit 2gether.
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Post by: GLOCK on January 28, 2020, 09:03:57 PM
Clearly Matt wants to be a dad..
this might be Gods way of allowing him to do so 
:unsure:

the black community isn't as cut and dry as y'all are making it 

I legit know dozens of people who were raised by people that weren't their blood.. no legalities ... and had the best life possible 

:omf:

no telling where this kid would be without this ounce of peace 
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Post by: GLOCK on January 28, 2020, 09:05:11 PM
Quote from: LF on January 28, 2020, 09:03:54 PM
Quote from: GLOCK on January 28, 2020, 08:58:07 PM
Maybe.. my heart is too wide :stressed:
because this would've made me adore him even more .. what a stand up guy?

yes he should've talked it over with you but he probably used his instincts and compared how much u care for lil man and said "if aj saw this.. he wouldn't want him here either"

the environment sounds 100% unsafe..
and as a god parent.. i know how I would've reacted if I saw any of my god kids in that atmosphere

you love Matt and y'all have weathered some huge storms.. y'all will be fine.
even if it's just for a little while.. what y'all are doing for him won't go without it's rewards..

I think in the next month you and Matt need to discuss and decide if this is permanent

make sure the father isn't in the picture.. because that might be the next best option

if he isn't.. I'd have the mother legally give Matt full custody of the kid.. so that she doesn't up and snatch him away .. and so that he can have medical coverage and such.

its the right thing to do

i adore this love story of you guys.

Yeah, he's definitely a dope guy for this. Really big of him to step in. I just hope they dont get toooo attached and the mom gets her shit 2gether.
the attachment mess already happened tbh

I just hope they define the lines

The mother doesn't seem to care tbh
And looks like she might be struggling with her own demons and drugs

She gave him up to Matt with no fight  :unsure:
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Post by: Cowgirl on January 28, 2020, 09:06:45 PM
Quote from: GLOCK on January 28, 2020, 09:03:57 PM
Clearly Matt wants to be a dad..
this might be Gods way of allowing him to do so
:unsure:

the black community isn't as cut and dry as y'all are making it

I legit know dozens of people who were raised by people that weren't their blood.. no legalities ... and had the best life possible

:omf:

no telling where this kid would be without this ounce of peace
The idea is adorable but it just sounds like the mother was once again trying to take advantage: this time, time away from the baby.
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Post by: Gilgamesh. on January 28, 2020, 09:08:02 PM
She gave him to Matt, not AJ.

That's not fair to expect AJ to play Daddy just cause Matt feels sentimental. 
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Post by: LiiVE on January 28, 2020, 09:09:57 PM
Hhxjjd not Matt basically kidnapping the lil boy :omgwatshappening:

was sis  not moved by him taking him?
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Post by: Cowgirl on January 28, 2020, 09:11:35 PM
Yea, it would be the perfect way to start a family for them but does AJ even want that?
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Post by: RatherBe on January 28, 2020, 09:12:26 PM
Quote from: GLOCK on January 28, 2020, 08:59:48 PM
Quote from: AJ on January 28, 2020, 08:57:20 PM
Matt here.

i know it's not permanent but I'm sorry I couldn't leave him there. Even if it's only a month of stability, it's something. I hope to instill some morals and a fight to want better.
hey bro.
I admire u so much man!

Would you be down for having him permanently?
Have you and his mother talked at all about that being an option?
Is his father around?
bro, I honestly think about this everyday. Somedays are an absolute yes. Others I'm like fuck nah. I rushed into it without a plan and sometimes aj be having to check me, I get caught up in the video games and ball playing. He brings the structure and let's me know how to give him stability as far as discipline, homework and manners. He's even looking to get him into some counseling.

I talk to his mother and she knows that soon we will be sitting down soon all 3 of us. The dad has never been in the picture to my understanding.
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Post by: GLOCK on January 28, 2020, 09:12:56 PM
Quote from: Gilgamesh. on January 28, 2020, 09:08:02 PM
She gave him to Matt, not AJ.

That's not fair to expect AJ to play Daddy just cause Matt feels sentimental.
matt can raise him alone but like any baggage.. u kinda agree to that with a relationship  :dead:

Stay or go.
Sorry.. this is his god child.
And this boy needs help.
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Post by: GLOCK on January 28, 2020, 09:15:00 PM
Quote from: AJ on January 28, 2020, 09:12:26 PM
Quote from: GLOCK on January 28, 2020, 08:59:48 PM
Quote from: AJ on January 28, 2020, 08:57:20 PM
Matt here.

i know it's not permanent but I'm sorry I couldn't leave him there. Even if it's only a month of stability, it's something. I hope to instill some morals and a fight to want better.
hey bro.
I admire u so much man!

Would you be down for having him permanently?
Have you and his mother talked at all about that being an option?
Is his father around?
bro, I honestly think about this everyday. Somedays are an absolute yes. Others I'm like fuck nah. I rushed into it without a plan and sometimes aj be having to check me, I get caught up in the video games and ball playing. He brings the structure and let's me know how to give him stability as far as discipline, homework and manners. He's even looking to get him into some counseling.

I talk to his mother and she knows that soon we will be sitting down soon all 3 of us. The dad has never been in the picture to my understanding.
this story is both beautiful and complex bro.

I think you and aj have to really decide that this is best for y'all because clearly it sounds like u get fed off of being a father.. and that's natural for men at this age.

You sound like ur meant for this.. but is ur relationship meant for it?

I pray u guys work it out and make the best decision for everyone.
Nonetheless I admire u and you are an incredible guy
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Post by: Cowgirl on January 28, 2020, 09:15:02 PM
Quote from: GLOCK on January 28, 2020, 09:12:56 PM
Quote from: Gilgamesh. on January 28, 2020, 09:08:02 PM
She gave him to Matt, not AJ.

That's not fair to expect AJ to play Daddy just cause Matt feels sentimental.
matt can raise him alone but like any baggage.. u kinda agree to that with a relationship  :dead:

Stay or go.
Sorry.. this is his god child.
And this boy needs help.
If they both want the baby then that's one thing but in no way should either one of them feel obligated to talks custody of him.
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Post by: GLOCK on January 28, 2020, 09:16:44 PM
Aj.. it's ur big bruv.
how do you feel? :unsure:

can you really dedicate a large part of your life to a child? 

this is heavy .. but maybe u and Matt might want to look into marriage first :unsure:

cant believe I'm typing this but .. adoption is huge
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Post by: FRANCE on January 28, 2020, 09:18:23 PM
Quote from: AJ on January 28, 2020, 09:12:26 PM
Quote from: GLOCK on January 28, 2020, 08:59:48 PM
Quote from: AJ on January 28, 2020, 08:57:20 PM
Matt here.

i know it's not permanent but I'm sorry I couldn't leave him there. Even if it's only a month of stability, it's something. I hope to instill some morals and a fight to want better.
hey bro.
I admire u so much man!

Would you be down for having him permanently?
Have you and his mother talked at all about that being an option?
Is his father around?
bro, I honestly think about this everyday. Somedays are an absolute yes. Others I'm like fuck nah. I rushed into it without a plan and sometimes aj be having to check me, I get caught up in the video games and ball playing. He brings the structure and let's me know how to give him stability as far as discipline, homework and manners. He's even looking to get him into some counseling.

I talk to his mother and she knows that soon we will be sitting down soon all 3 of us. The dad has never been in the picture to my understanding.

Protect your hearts man. Cause u can never tell what may happen months or years down the line after you guys really fall in love with this kid. What if she moves away? What if the Dad or his family do come around and may not want lil man around y'all like that? Whats gonna happen when she starts to request more money from u to do this or do that? There's gotta be some serious boundaries. Theres a difference between godparents and actual parents.

Now if y'all are keeping lil man and say mom is going to school or doing some productive to get back on her feet or move into a more stable environment, that I can fuck with, but if she is using her free time to go "party" or smoke weed and chill at a niggas place and waste her own money, then thats when u gotta stop and think twice about certain things. Its gonna be even worse for the kid if he gets used to you guys and then gets suddenly cut off if something happens in the future to break y'all apart.



Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it! (Part 2 Update added)
Post by: GLOCK on January 28, 2020, 09:20:11 PM
So leave the bby at the house while she's out doing drugs and carrying on? :unsure:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it! (Part 2 Update added)
Post by: Cowgirl on January 28, 2020, 09:24:11 PM
Quote from: GLOCK on January 28, 2020, 09:20:11 PM
So leave the bby at the house while she's out doing drugs and carrying on? :unsure:
He said the house smelled like weed, did we confirm that she was an abuser? What else was there to indicate that she's truly unfit?
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it! (Part 2 Update added)
Post by: GLOCK on January 28, 2020, 09:26:54 PM
Quote from: TinaSnow on January 28, 2020, 09:24:11 PM
Quote from: GLOCK on January 28, 2020, 09:20:11 PM
So leave the bby at the house while she's out doing drugs and carrying on? :unsure:
He said the house smelled like weed, did we confirm that she was an abuser? What else was there to indicate that she's truly unfit?
I know a crackhead when I hear about her. She's lacing the mess with mess tbh.
The filth in the house and the lack of food. Sis ain't living right tbh

She's clearly unfit

Food is essential and it's winter

Why the fuck would it be cold in anyone's crib? Especially with a 4 year old in it?
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Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it! (Part 2 Update added)
Post by: Cowgirl on January 28, 2020, 09:29:11 PM
Quote from: GLOCK on January 28, 2020, 09:26:54 PM
Quote from: TinaSnow on January 28, 2020, 09:24:11 PM
Quote from: GLOCK on January 28, 2020, 09:20:11 PM
So leave the bby at the house while she's out doing drugs and carrying on? :unsure:
He said the house smelled like weed, did we confirm that she was an abuser? What else was there to indicate that she's truly unfit?
I know a crackhead when I hear about her. She's lacing the mess with mess tbh.
The filth in the house and the lack of food. Sis ain't living right tbh

She's clearly unfit

Food is essential and it's winter

Why the fuck would it be cold in anyone's crib? Especially with a 4 year old in it?
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Playing devil's advocate. Matt might be exaggerating all conditions because he's hellbent on keeping that baby..
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it! (Part 2 Update added)
Post by: RatherBe on January 28, 2020, 09:29:24 PM
Quote from: GLOCK on January 28, 2020, 09:15:00 PM
Quote from: AJ on January 28, 2020, 09:12:26 PM
Quote from: GLOCK on January 28, 2020, 08:59:48 PM
Quote from: AJ on January 28, 2020, 08:57:20 PM
Matt here.

i know it's not permanent but I'm sorry I couldn't leave him there. Even if it's only a month of stability, it's something. I hope to instill some morals and a fight to want better.
hey bro.
I admire u so much man!

Would you be down for having him permanently?
Have you and his mother talked at all about that being an option?
Is his father around?
bro, I honestly think about this everyday. Somedays are an absolute yes. Others I'm like fuck nah. I rushed into it without a plan and sometimes aj be having to check me, I get caught up in the video games and ball playing. He brings the structure and let's me know how to give him stability as far as discipline, homework and manners. He's even looking to get him into some counseling.

I talk to his mother and she knows that soon we will be sitting down soon all 3 of us. The dad has never been in the picture to my understanding.
this story is both beautiful and complex bro.

I think you and aj have to really decide that this is best for y'all because clearly it sounds like u get fed off of being a father.. and that's natural for men at this age.

You sound like ur meant for this.. but is ur relationship meant for it?

I pray u guys work it out and make the best decision for everyone.
Nonetheless I admire u and you are an incredible guy
aj is really the one who's like either we're all in or we're out. He's been researching and figuring out the exact process. I have the overall big picture but he's really the brains behind the details and process to make sure I don't get hurt too bad or to just keep thinking with my heart.
I am not willing to lose my relationship for this though. I've tried life without being with aj and yeah, I'm good on that. I will never choose that. We talk every night and as far as us and our relationship we are on the same page. I hate being in limbo with the other crap tho. As the man of this house, it's my goal to work on eliminating that in the next month.
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it! (Part 2 Update added)
Post by: ton on January 28, 2020, 09:30:06 PM
Quote from: AJ on January 28, 2020, 08:57:20 PM
Matt here.

i know it's not permanent but I'm sorry I couldn't leave him there. Even if it's only a month of stability, it's something. I hope to instill some morals and a fight to want better.
ack!
:gorlonfire:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it! (Part 2 Update added)
Post by: GLOCK on January 28, 2020, 09:32:11 PM
Quote from: AJ on January 28, 2020, 09:29:24 PM
Quote from: GLOCK on January 28, 2020, 09:15:00 PM
Quote from: AJ on January 28, 2020, 09:12:26 PM
Quote from: GLOCK on January 28, 2020, 08:59:48 PM
Quote from: AJ on January 28, 2020, 08:57:20 PM
Matt here.

i know it's not permanent but I'm sorry I couldn't leave him there. Even if it's only a month of stability, it's something. I hope to instill some morals and a fight to want better.
hey bro.
I admire u so much man!

Would you be down for having him permanently?
Have you and his mother talked at all about that being an option?
Is his father around?
bro, I honestly think about this everyday. Somedays are an absolute yes. Others I'm like fuck nah. I rushed into it without a plan and sometimes aj be having to check me, I get caught up in the video games and ball playing. He brings the structure and let's me know how to give him stability as far as discipline, homework and manners. He's even looking to get him into some counseling.

I talk to his mother and she knows that soon we will be sitting down soon all 3 of us. The dad has never been in the picture to my understanding.
this story is both beautiful and complex bro.

I think you and aj have to really decide that this is best for y'all because clearly it sounds like u get fed off of being a father.. and that's natural for men at this age.

You sound like ur meant for this.. but is ur relationship meant for it?

I pray u guys work it out and make the best decision for everyone.
Nonetheless I admire u and you are an incredible guy
aj is really the one who's like either we're all in or we're out. He's been researching and figuring out the exact process. I have the overall big picture but he's really the brains behind the details and process to make sure I don't get hurt too bad or to just keep thinking with my heart.
I am not willing to lose my relationship for this though. I've tried life without being with aj and yeah, I'm good on that. I will never choose that. We talk every night and as far as us and our relationship we are on the same page. I hate being in limbo with the other crap tho. As the man of this house, it's my goal to work on eliminating that in the next month.
Yes bro. U better know u got a good man. Ack!

Praise my bruv a bit :loose2when:

This is love.
That's why i have no doubt that y'all will work this out and continue to build this love y'all have!


Proud of all the growth bro. Keep going. Keep loving and keep aj first
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it! (Part 2 Update added)
Post by: RatherBe on January 28, 2020, 09:32:41 PM
Imma head out though. I'll start logging on and talking to you fools way more.  Thank y'all for all the nice shit you said and the advice. I appreciate that.  


Night.
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it! (Part 2 Update added)
Post by: GLOCK on January 28, 2020, 09:33:31 PM
And typical Bow..
being stupid and haven't a damn MENT episode in a thread that doesn't really call for that.

gosh.. you've seen one episode you've seen them all with her 
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Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it! (Part 2 Update added)
Post by: ton on January 28, 2020, 09:33:31 PM
Quote from: TinaSnow on January 28, 2020, 09:15:02 PM
Quote from: GLOCK on January 28, 2020, 09:12:56 PM
Quote from: Gilgamesh. on January 28, 2020, 09:08:02 PM
She gave him to Matt, not AJ.

That's not fair to expect AJ to play Daddy just cause Matt feels sentimental.
matt can raise him alone but like any baggage.. u kinda agree to that with a relationship  :dead:

Stay or go.
Sorry.. this is his god child.
And this boy needs help.
If they both want the baby then that's one thing but in no way should either one of them feel obligated to talks custody of him.
ugh the white in you is just.... SKRONG
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it! (Part 2 Update added)
Post by: reekz on January 28, 2020, 09:34:40 PM
Quote from: AJ on January 28, 2020, 08:57:20 PM
Matt here.

:plzstop:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it! (Part 2 Update added)
Post by: Cowgirl on January 28, 2020, 09:43:57 PM
You guys think the mother is just gonna okay this so easily and not expect something in return? :unsure:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it! (Part 2 Update added)
Post by: reekz on January 28, 2020, 09:44:27 PM
Bow lol
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it! (Part 2 Update added)
Post by: Gilgamesh. on January 28, 2020, 09:46:03 PM
If the next update is "we adopted lil Jamal" I'm gonna lose it :disgusted:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it! (Part 2 Update added)
Post by: reekz on January 28, 2020, 09:48:12 PM
Quote from: AJ on September 01, 2016, 11:34:04 PM
Original story is on PG 1
1st time story is on PG 4
quick update is on PG 30
Family Reunion Story is on PG 32
2019 Update Story Part1 is on PG 36
2019 Update Story Part 2 is on PG 38
Original Story

This table of content

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Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it! (Part 2 Update added)
Post by: RatherBe on January 28, 2020, 09:51:55 PM
Quote from: GLOCK on January 28, 2020, 09:16:44 PM
Aj.. it's ur big bruv.
how do you feel? :unsure:

can you really dedicate a large part of your life to a child?

this is heavy .. but maybe u and Matt might want to look into marriage first :unsure:

cant believe I'm typing this but .. adoption is huge
this me now... this nigga done got on here and charmed y'all asses huh?  :dead:


I kinda feel like..... either we go full force or we dont do anything at all... this poor bby, I want to showe him with all the love and affection but like I tell Matt, "you gotta protect yourself".... so I'm kinda on reserve until this sit down happens. I'm a little more by facts and by the books... Matt is more by the heart and what feels right. Ultimately, whatever happen... I would need it in writing and signed. I don't believe in half stepping, especially when it comes to African American boy who already will have to work twice as hard. If I'm gon do this... then I'm gonna DO it. Lawyers, papers, signatures AND ALL.
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it! (Part 2 Update added)
Post by: Gilgamesh. on January 28, 2020, 09:53:20 PM
AJ, do you WANT to do it? 
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it! (Part 2 Update added)
Post by: GLOCK on January 28, 2020, 09:55:10 PM
Quote from: AJ on January 28, 2020, 09:51:55 PM
Quote from: GLOCK on January 28, 2020, 09:16:44 PM
Aj.. it's ur big bruv.
how do you feel? :unsure:

can you really dedicate a large part of your life to a child?

this is heavy .. but maybe u and Matt might want to look into marriage first :unsure:

cant believe I'm typing this but .. adoption is huge
this me now... this nigga done got on here and charmed y'all asses huh?  :dead:


I kinda feel like..... either we go full force or we dont do anything at all... this poor bby, I want to showe him with all the love and affection but like I tell Matt, "you gotta protect yourself".... so I'm kinda on reserve until this sit down happens. I'm a little more by facts and by the books... Matt is more by the heart and what feels right. Ultimately, whatever happen... I would need it in writing and signed. I don't believe in half stepping, especially when it comes to African American boy who already will have to work twice as hard. If I'm gon do this... then I'm gonna DO it. Lawyers, papers, signatures AND ALL.
I def feel u on that. Make sure the business is all right so that everything else is right.

Keep us updated king
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it! (Part 2 Update added)
Post by: RatherBe on January 28, 2020, 09:57:24 PM
Quote from: Gilgamesh. on January 28, 2020, 09:53:20 PM
AJ, do you WANT to do it?
its a little more complex than yes or no.

My initial answer is... YES!

However, I need to make sure the business side is right first. So until we sit down together... and draw up what's what and who's who... I unfortunately can't give a cut and dry answer. I hate that. But that's the truth.
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it! (Part 2 Update added)
Post by: Cowgirl on January 28, 2020, 09:58:26 PM
Quote from: AJ on January 28, 2020, 09:57:24 PM
Quote from: Gilgamesh. on January 28, 2020, 09:53:20 PM
AJ, do you WANT to do it?
YES!
:stressed:
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it! (Part 2 Update added)
Post by: Gilgamesh. on January 28, 2020, 09:59:14 PM
Quote from: AJ on January 28, 2020, 09:57:24 PM
Quote from: Gilgamesh. on January 28, 2020, 09:53:20 PM
AJ, do you WANT to do it?
its a little more complex than yes or no.

My initial answer is... YES!

However, I need to make sure the business side is right first. So until we sit down together... and draw up what's what and who's who... I unfortunately can't give a cut and dry answer. I hate that. But that's the truth.

Aww, I feel you...good luck. You have a lot of sense, more than you're dude anyway, so I think whatever happens it'll be the best decision.
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it! (Part 2 Update added)
Post by: ton on January 28, 2020, 09:59:24 PM
Quote from: AJ on January 28, 2020, 09:51:55 PM
Quote from: GLOCK on January 28, 2020, 09:16:44 PM
Aj.. it's ur big bruv.
how do you feel? :unsure:

can you really dedicate a large part of your life to a child?

this is heavy .. but maybe u and Matt might want to look into marriage first :unsure:

cant believe I'm typing this but .. adoption is huge
this me now... this nigga done got on here and charmed y'all asses huh?  :dead:


I kinda feel like..... either we go full force or we dont do anything at all... this poor bby, I want to showe him with all the love and affection but like I tell Matt, "you gotta protect yourself".... so I'm kinda on reserve until this sit down happens. I'm a little more by facts and by the books... Matt is more by the heart and what feels right. Ultimately, whatever happen... I would need it in writing and signed. I don't believe in half stepping, especially when it comes to African American boy who already will have to work twice as hard. If I'm gon do this... then I'm gonna DO it. Lawyers, papers, signatures AND ALL.
damns

Cause I agree with you too

Cause I'd cut a bitch trying to come back 6 years later

"oh, im clean nows"! And I've been raising and loving the bvy for years but can't do shit cause of the law
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it! (Part 2 Update added)
Post by: Navyman on January 28, 2020, 10:19:34 PM
Quote from: AJ on January 28, 2020, 09:29:24 PM
Quote from: GLOCK on January 28, 2020, 09:15:00 PM
Quote from: AJ on January 28, 2020, 09:12:26 PM
Quote from: GLOCK on January 28, 2020, 08:59:48 PM
Quote from: AJ on January 28, 2020, 08:57:20 PM
Matt here.

i know it's not permanent but I'm sorry I couldn't leave him there. Even if it's only a month of stability, it's something. I hope to instill some morals and a fight to want better.
hey bro.
I admire u so much man!

Would you be down for having him permanently?
Have you and his mother talked at all about that being an option?
Is his father around?
bro, I honestly think about this everyday. Somedays are an absolute yes. Others I'm like fuck nah. I rushed into it without a plan and sometimes aj be having to check me, I get caught up in the video games and ball playing. He brings the structure and let's me know how to give him stability as far as discipline, homework and manners. He's even looking to get him into some counseling.

I talk to his mother and she knows that soon we will be sitting down soon all 3 of us. The dad has never been in the picture to my understanding.
this story is both beautiful and complex bro.

I think you and aj have to really decide that this is best for y'all because clearly it sounds like u get fed off of being a father.. and that's natural for men at this age.

You sound like ur meant for this.. but is ur relationship meant for it?

I pray u guys work it out and make the best decision for everyone.
Nonetheless I admire u and you are an incredible guy
aj is really the one who's like either we're all in or we're out. He's been researching and figuring out the exact process. I have the overall big picture but he's really the brains behind the details and process to make sure I don't get hurt too bad or to just keep thinking with my heart.
I am not willing to lose my relationship for this though. I've tried life without being with aj and yeah, I'm good on that. I will never choose that. We talk every night and as far as us and our relationship we are on the same page. I hate being in limbo with the other crap tho. As the man of this house, it's my goal to work on eliminating that in the next month.


:stressed: :stressed: :stressed:

Put your foot down king. Ya'll got this best of luck. And more importantly do what's best for that lil boy, give him a chance at life.
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it! (Part 2 Update added)
Post by: BigDawg on January 28, 2020, 10:23:05 PM
You guys sound like a beautiful couple and I hope that the best outcome happens for you and lil man. 
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it! (Part 2 Update added)
Post by: Navyman on January 28, 2020, 10:23:11 PM
Quote from: AJ on January 28, 2020, 09:51:55 PM
Quote from: GLOCK on January 28, 2020, 09:16:44 PM
Aj.. it's ur big bruv.
how do you feel? :unsure:

can you really dedicate a large part of your life to a child?

this is heavy .. but maybe u and Matt might want to look into marriage first :unsure:

cant believe I'm typing this but .. adoption is huge
this me now... this nigga done got on here and charmed y'all asses huh?  :dead:


I kinda feel like..... either we go full force or we dont do anything at all... this poor bby, I want to showe him with all the love and affection but like I tell Matt, "you gotta protect yourself".... so I'm kinda on reserve until this sit down happens. I'm a little more by facts and by the books... Matt is more by the heart and what feels right. Ultimately, whatever happen... I would need it in writing and signed. I don't believe in half stepping, especially when it comes to African American boy who already will have to work twice as hard. If I'm gon do this... then I'm gonna DO it. Lawyers, papers, signatures AND ALL.
!! This is smart, because all type of curve balls can arise and it's best everybody is on the same page for clarity purposes moving forward and not just today in the moment, but even years down the line in case someone mind changes etc...
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it! (Part 2 Update added)
Post by: RatherBe on January 28, 2020, 11:07:46 PM
yeah all this is great and shit.... but we need to be discussing the REAL problem...if this mean we gotta be fckn celibate, lil man gonna have to be put in after school care or something. I haven't had ANY this year. 2 days ago matt gave me a hug before leaving out for work and I damn near melted in his arms..

imma turn some shit over if we cross over into February and im still sitting here like damn nun. EVERYBODY GETTING PUT OWT THE HOUSE!
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it! (Part 2 Update added)
Post by: Bentley. HARRIS! on January 28, 2020, 11:23:45 PM
Quote from: TinaSnow on January 28, 2020, 09:43:57 PM
You guys think the mother is just gonna okay this so easily and not expect something in return? :unsure:
that girl don't want no damn bby  :dead:

i mean ... alot of things tipped me off to that

first off not every woman just lets father figures in
second, the increased baby sitting and asking for help, using the bvy
third, somebody just ran out of your house with your bby and you didn't at least cancel your plans or text him asking if he was just playing?
:plea:

I'm actually assuming she set the whole thing up. This was easier for her than to drop him at the police station. Plus Matt will eventually have to report everything he saw to the state anyways.

i think the only decision Mataj needs to make is whether to start looking for good foster homes or trusted family members that want to raise a child.

if they aren't both on the same page quick it could do more harm than good. I wouldn't even try it for a month if it's a 75% yes. Cause he'll get attached to them quick! a month of stable behavior to a kid who's grown up in dysfunction is more than enough time to put an imprint on them. the bvy would be crushed if he had to leave.
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it! (Part 2 Update added)
Post by: b7 on January 28, 2020, 11:25:25 PM
AJ babe ...  there really ain't no damn way. I'm sure Matt is sweet and means well though, so I'll stay out of it 

i just don't like that at all 
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it! (Part 2 Update added)
Post by: FRANCE on January 28, 2020, 11:36:39 PM
Quote from: Bentley. A Moderator. on January 28, 2020, 11:23:45 PM
Quote from: TinaSnow on January 28, 2020, 09:43:57 PM
You guys think the mother is just gonna okay this so easily and not expect something in return? :unsure:
Cause he'll get attached to them quick! a month of stable behavior to a kid who's grown up in dysfunction is more than enough time to put an imprint on them. the bvy would be crushed if he had to leave.
ALL of this!
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it! (Part 2 Update added)
Post by: b7 on January 28, 2020, 11:46:35 PM
Quote from: Gilgamesh. on January 28, 2020, 09:08:02 PM
She gave him to Matt, not AJ.

That's not fair to expect AJ to play Daddy just cause Matt feels sentimental.
!!!!! No ma'am

And to not know whether or not any of this is possible, it's not fair to get the child's feelings and hopes up like this. What if the mother decides to take him away and has a change of heart?

I don't doubt that Matt means well and hope it all works out, but it's tricky. Just please don't promise the child anything if you aren't for sure
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it! (Part 2 Update added)
Post by: Vonc2002 on January 29, 2020, 02:00:08 AM
Quote from: GLOCK on January 28, 2020, 09:03:57 PM
Clearly Matt wants to be a dad..
this might be Gods way of allowing him to do so
:unsure:

the black community isn't as cut and dry as y'all are making it

I legit know dozens of people who were raised by people that weren't their blood.. no legalities ... and had the best life possible

:omf:

no telling where this kid would be without this ounce of peace
True but  it's still not COMMON.  If ur not being raised by your mother or father, it's still usually blood.  Grandma, auntie, or sumn. But yea,  I agree.  A family friend raising ur kid isn't completely unheard of.  Clearly the mother wants to give the obligation up even if only momentarily,  cause if she wanted her child then she would have him.  The law is on her side.  She basking in this man swooping in and carrying her load tho
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it! (Part 2 Update added)
Post by: Vonc2002 on January 29, 2020, 02:00:36 AM
Quote from: GLOCK on January 28, 2020, 09:05:11 PM
Quote from: LF on January 28, 2020, 09:03:54 PM
Quote from: GLOCK on January 28, 2020, 08:58:07 PM
Maybe.. my heart is too wide :stressed:
because this would've made me adore him even more .. what a stand up guy?

yes he should've talked it over with you but he probably used his instincts and compared how much u care for lil man and said "if aj saw this.. he wouldn't want him here either"

the environment sounds 100% unsafe..
and as a god parent.. i know how I would've reacted if I saw any of my god kids in that atmosphere

you love Matt and y'all have weathered some huge storms.. y'all will be fine.
even if it's just for a little while.. what y'all are doing for him won't go without it's rewards..

I think in the next month you and Matt need to discuss and decide if this is permanent

make sure the father isn't in the picture.. because that might be the next best option

if he isn't.. I'd have the mother legally give Matt full custody of the kid.. so that she doesn't up and snatch him away .. and so that he can have medical coverage and such.

its the right thing to do

i adore this love story of you guys.

Yeah, he's definitely a dope guy for this. Really big of him to step in. I just hope they dont get toooo attached and the mom gets her shit 2gether.
the attachment mess already happened tbh

I just hope they define the lines

The mother doesn't seem to care tbh
And looks like she might be struggling with her own demons and drugs

She gave him up to Matt with no fight  :unsure:
EXACTLY!
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it! (Part 2 Update added)
Post by: RatherBe on February 13, 2020, 02:09:47 PM
matt here. 

Me, Aj and the mom will be sitting down today. I'm nervous but I'm ready to have a definite answer as to what we will be doing moving forward. AJ has been preparing me and we've been talking through possible circumstances. this nigga may as well be a lawyer
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it! (Part 2 Update added)
Post by: Gilgamesh. on February 13, 2020, 02:32:43 PM
Hope it works out for the best, whichever decision she makes.
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it! (Part 2 Update added)
Post by: GLOCK on February 13, 2020, 02:50:30 PM
Aww praying for you guys! 

and ack.. yeah my bruv AJ is smart. 

taught him a lot of what he knows actually 🤭
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it! (Part 2 Update added)
Post by: RatherBe on February 13, 2020, 09:38:29 PM
whew bitch....

okay... this is Aj by the way.
 this bitch thought she was finna get over on us.

everything was going fine. we were going to keep lil man with us until the end of the school year because he's doing substantially better. BUT towards the end of the conversation I brought up the financial aspect of this, which Matt and I already discussed before. We agreed $100 a week is more than feasible to ask of her. So Matt says.. "Im glad we will have more time with him until we can get a legal plan in action. We do need discuss the financial aspect of it though. Aj and I discussed this and we think that $100 is a more than fair number to ask. What are your thoughts?"

this bitch says "Hold up, im confused!!'

Strike 1- Matt is squeezing my leg under the table, so I stay cool.

Matt says... "Okay what can I clear up?"

She says.." I dont understand why y'all all of a sudden asking for money, from my understanding it wasn't about money. this was supposed to be about the well being of the baby. See nah, ill just figure something else out because Im not gon pay yall and if this was about money the whole time... you coulda just left him."


Strike 2 AND 3- because bitch.. dont question me or my nigga intentions!

so I say... "You gotta be a retarded bitch to think you gon give your baby to somebody and not contribute beyond some phone calls and some night stays!"

so now we arguing... and matt is tryna calm me down but now im fucking pissed because... I spend more than $100 on his ass in less than a day.

she say some shit like..."This wasn't ever about helping me out, this was about money!"

so I say... "Youre right about one thing, bitch. We initially weren't trying to help YOU. we were trying to help the baby! fuck you. and this lil money you was talking about...literally does not put a dent in our expenses, lead alone HIS expenses and the shit he needs! We weren't even gonna use that money, we were gonna collect and save it up for you to help you get on your feet just incase you decided you wanted him back after summer."

so now she sitting there looking STUPID. I tell them im done with the conversation and that im going to sit in the truck. grab my shit and leave. about 20 mins go by, matt comes out to the truck and he looks like he's tearing up so im already knowing. he gets in the car and he's like... "he's gonna stay the night with us and then tomorrow, we're gonna drop him off at his grandma's. Im not gonna play these games. It dont even feel right no more."

We came home, had a talk with lil man... told him he was going to stay with his granny for a little bit and at first he asked "why?" to which Matt had to walk out of the room and I just told him that his mommy thinks that its best. he said okay and seemed fine with going to his grandma's house, thank god. so we packed up all his stuff. Me and matt decided to send him with all the shit we bought him.. after all we aint gon have a use for it right now and it makes no sense in punishing him for how dumb his egg donor is.

now both of them are sleep in my bed.. snoring loud as shit. im just trying to take it all in because its really hitting me that tomorrow, we'll be dropping him off for good. 
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it! (Part 2 Update added)
Post by: GLOCK on February 13, 2020, 09:43:48 PM
Aww bby bro.
you guys did what u could..
it's best for her to decide where he goes and such..
she's clearly looking for an escape but doesn't want to deal with comes with all of that. 
Its sad because you guys could've gave him the life he needs.

you guys will eventually be able to have a child to love and raise.  
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it! (Part 2 Update added)
Post by: FRANCE on February 13, 2020, 10:16:23 PM
Quote from: GLOCK on February 13, 2020, 09:43:48 PM
Aww bby bro.
you guys did what u could..
it's best for her to decide where he goes and such..
she's clearly looking for an escape but doesn't want to deal with comes with all of that.
Its sad because you guys could've gave him the life he needs.

you guys will eventually be able to have a child to love and raise. 

!!! U guys did all you could. Take this as a learning experience until u get ur own child. Wonder if this will be the last u hear from her though.
Title: Re: Barber Update... its lengthy but WORTH it! (Part 2 Update added)
Post by: RatherBe on February 13, 2020, 11:09:30 PM
Quote from: LF on February 13, 2020, 10:16:23 PM
Quote from: GLOCK on February 13, 2020, 09:43:48 PM
Aww bby bro.
you guys did what u could..
it's best for her to decide where he goes and such..
she's clearly looking for an escape but doesn't want to deal with comes with all of that.
Its sad because you guys could've gave him the life he needs.

you guys will eventually be able to have a child to love and raise. 

!!! U guys did all you could. Take this as a learning experience until u get ur own child. Wonder if this will be the last u hear from her though.
thank you both. I tried to explain this to Matt. it was better it happened now than down the road.